How Do I Change Myself at the Being-Level?

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  • Опубліковано 8 гру 2024

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  • @jenmdawg
    @jenmdawg 9 місяців тому +14

    I was 47 before I realized my whole personality was structured on fear. Beneath the fear was trauma. Beneath the trauma was fear… I felt so trapped. Meditation became the only way out.
    It also showed me that my faith in material reality was - in sum - absurd.
    I also knew my life was changed when I didn’t need anyone else to change. Their beliefs or words or actions. The moment I experience tension with someone I now have a direct path to dissipate it.
    Everything I feared is still with me. As I write this I can trace it in my body, feel how much it “wants” my full attention and accepting it is the trickiest part.

    • @Azyahni
      @Azyahni Місяць тому +1

      I hope you will be able to disperse it to a point where peace is the default, and your fears no longer dig for your attention.

  • @forexdissector9565
    @forexdissector9565 Рік тому +28

    Your video of "Fear of Inadequacy" and this one is really enlightening. I have pretty bad social anxiety caused by my own criticisms towards myself and how i look compared to others. These videos are very helfull, Thank you.

  • @erko8148
    @erko8148 10 місяців тому +2

    We are limited by our belief, I agree a thousand times, but at the same time Tom teaching has the strongest belief in reincarnation over and over again in order to grow we cannot grow without it.

    • @jenmdawg
      @jenmdawg 9 місяців тому

      I believe him that he has direct knowledge of rebirth. I don’t so it’s a belief.

    • @gregsullivan1738
      @gregsullivan1738 17 днів тому

      Belief is our most powerful attribute! The power of belief can impact our consciousness in either direction. Why does the LCS want to lower trophy? Because increasingly entropy is decaying and dying. If our intentions for lower entropy are because if dont, we die is rooted in fear.

  • @Ruben-zu2wc
    @Ruben-zu2wc Рік тому +5

    Such valuable knowledge.
    I wish this information was taught in schools all around the world. Thank you Tom!

  • @samidekash
    @samidekash Рік тому +4

    That's everything you have to know about life in a nutshell. Thanks for your love sharing your work and your wonderful clarity and logic each and every tine, it's truely eye opening and enlightening. Everyone should know. 💛🙏

  • @cosmicsoul7773
    @cosmicsoul7773 Місяць тому

    Thanks!

  • @Mike-oj1tm
    @Mike-oj1tm Місяць тому

    I heard it !!! Tom said we do not have go out and or & it try to be LOVE, he said it's already in us!!!! But fear, is blocking it out, so we don't need to work on being love, - just work on dropping & ridding fear.❤

  • @artconsciousness
    @artconsciousness Рік тому +1

    Fear works like blinkers on a horse and the blinkers are the ego that stop us from facing our uncertain reality. Once fear is eradicated new thoughts and solutions appear out the ether because one sees that it is the uncertainty of reality that makes life interesting.

  • @wmluna381
    @wmluna381 5 місяців тому +3

    Sage advice here. Will be listening to this more than once. I am on the brink of choking a slacker coworker out at work.😄

    • @jenmdawg
      @jenmdawg 3 місяці тому

      I just spit out my coffee laughing so hard at this! I have a neighbor-sex-pest that I am ready to drop kick out of my neighborhood.
      Came back to watch this again - reading my comment from 5 months ago is… amusing.

  • @TeeJay84x
    @TeeJay84x Рік тому +2

    This video is a jewel, it brings great value through clear and concise explanations. Tom's statements are always worth listening, but this one might be the best I've heard of him so far!

  • @jerryb751
    @jerryb751 Рік тому +1

    Thanks for the reminder Tom..... right on target.

  • @shokmail3875
    @shokmail3875 Рік тому +4

    Brilliant... mic drop!

  • @Love2Love444
    @Love2Love444 Рік тому +1

    Thanks sooo much Tom! 🌹🌹🌹👍I needed to hear this - back aligned now! 🙏

  • @bloke1348
    @bloke1348 17 годин тому

    Fantastic talk

  • @jakenoblet9933
    @jakenoblet9933 8 місяців тому +1

    Superb talk and explanation ❤

  • @ohhpeaches
    @ohhpeaches Рік тому +3

    A question of most import, and a beautiful answer ❤️

  • @wendythayer4925
    @wendythayer4925 Рік тому +2

    So helpful, thank you. 🙏🌟

  • @JonathanPlasse
    @JonathanPlasse 7 місяців тому +1

    Very practical insights thanks

  • @jdskpyt
    @jdskpyt Рік тому +6

    Thank you for keep talking about how to face fears.

  • @Newt211
    @Newt211 Рік тому +1

    Thanks again Tom!

  • @Mike-oj1tm
    @Mike-oj1tm Місяць тому

    Great info Tom😊😊😊😊😊😊

  • @ikhan8976
    @ikhan8976 7 місяців тому +1

    Thank you ❤

  • @jillwhatley994
    @jillwhatley994 Рік тому +2

    Thank you for these videos ❤

  • @RobertJohnson-gj3cl
    @RobertJohnson-gj3cl 6 місяців тому +1

    So much wisdom here. Change happens at the being level. The ego wants to feel success a relief from self doubt , my identity self affirmed and the enemy defeated. Attachment to belief systems are very strong so the fear which the beliefs deny must be strong. Unconscious fear would be strongest as we would not be directly aware of our fear ego state. We are caught up in our life as affirming our ego identity self ,becoming successful. There is recognized a conscious state in which the greatest fear is experienced, ie the state between sleep and awake. The greatest fear at the deeper level is the fear of death. It is within this hypnagogic and hypnopompic state that the fear can be faced and overcome ,this is the hero’s journey to overcome and return with the knowledge that will put us on the path of conscious evolution to greater love. This is the Magnus opus the great inner alchemy work and the catalyst is Absolute truth . The mind is now capable of coming under the influence of Absolute truth the truth which inspires. You can see we are talking about a shift of consciousness a new awareness not the ego fear awareness but the awareness in service of love which changes us at the being level . Hopefully this makes some sense. Of course there is much more to say . Glad to answer any questions as best I can.😅

    • @aetherness
      @aetherness 6 місяців тому

      Beautifully written, and I think you're absolutely right about the nature of this teaching - this is the Great Secret of the universe that very few acknowledge. You can even say that Tom and others like him are modern day prophets that try to guide us towards Light and Love. But how does one achieve that conscious state between sleep and awake and consciously face their greatest fear?

  • @xDevoneyx
    @xDevoneyx Рік тому +1

    Hi Tom. Thank you so much for all the effort you put in in spreading this knowledge. As a software developer I interpret this low entropy consciousness as something that simply workst best, as in the biggest picture conceivable. A family with members that are respectful towards each other, help each other, listen to each other, care for each, simply works best. Comparing it to a family that is disrespectful, members that do not care about others, as long as the individual has the biggest piece,cut, most attention etc.
    I often tell my children: I am on the outlook for how it works best. I want to make things work, or work better, for the joy of not only me, but also you, for us all. That which works best for us all, the synergy. And we can move more towards that state every single day when we apply principals. It is an ever increasing resolution of nuances and balances in my conceptualization of it. Like a fractal. Amazing. Your book, which I bought in 2008, changed my perspective on life so much. It was that which guided me back home. Back to myself, the self which I converse with and listen too, the honest following principals self. Thank you so much Tom.

    • @OneAwareness1
      @OneAwareness1 Рік тому

      This only works if your spouse doesn’t turn out to be a b*tch

  • @sep1ol
    @sep1ol 6 місяців тому

    i respect you and your work so much
    you're an amazing human being
    thanks for sharing this!!

  • @Interdimensional_being
    @Interdimensional_being 3 місяці тому

    Thank you 🎉

  • @Love2Love444
    @Love2Love444 Рік тому +1

    Wonderful wonderful wonderful!!! ❤❤❤❤

  • @danipal2
    @danipal2 Рік тому +1

    Can't help but think that so much of these fundamental truths, found out through rigorous experimentation of the fundamental thing in consciousness, so clearly resonates with the words of that man 2000 years ago. Worded a bit differently, but it's still the same. There are some footnotes in that but the more research you do about it's original Universalist nature, consistency of love, the mistranslated Greek words, etc the more they go away - arguably completely. Truth is truth. It's been twisted into something else entirely for the most part now, but he absolutely knew.

  • @77infrared
    @77infrared 6 місяців тому +1

    Yes, many ppl have core wounds of shame, worthlessnes etc. These are deeply ingrained. We don't choose to fear, we get triggered due to core wounds. And it's an evolutionary thing, children need to feel safe and loved to develop in a healthy way. If they don't feel loved and accepted that threatens their sense of survival and creates attachment wounds and unhealthy coping mechanisms etc. It's not so simple, as Tom puts it. These are complex mechanisms.

  • @karalough4402
    @karalough4402 5 місяців тому

    Thank you 🙏🏻

  • @weareonebutmany4181
    @weareonebutmany4181 Рік тому +6

    My fear is born of doubt and lack of knowing or having Been the evolution. I don't mean I'm not prepared to evolve because like many I agree with evolution towards a better being version. But!!! Our ignorance and fear (fear of death, fear of not having what we need) life is challenging non stop.. its like being in the roaring ocean drowning and coming up for grasps of breath..sometimes we need a rock to hold on not to drown.. but I guess Tom would say "don't be scared of drowning " your get another go at swimming in the ocean..
    And I understand why Tom doesn't entice his students (us) with the sensational stories of his adventures because he feels it's not helpful... I get and respect this. However, bees come to honey.. I mean maybe (we are not scientists) we the people would benefit from a less technical approach.. with some more of the "stories " which would fascinate us and therefore grow the Audience? I've read and am currently reading (Audiable) M.B.T trilogy.. and it's abbreviations and technical details is much more a scientific text book then speaking to the soul.. my humble opinion is Tom your so full of knowledge which would attract millions more to the mbt if you would entice with your experiences.. and may I add it would comfort millions... specifically because it's coming from YOU.. Tom it's easy to see your a genuine straight up guy.. I say trying to convince the scientific community is not efficient... they are NOT WILLING.. but the lay people are and it is we the masses that out weigh the scientific community.. it is we that are the critical mass.. speak to the people the scientists know your right but refuse to acknowledge the Truth. And yes your scientific aproach allows us to see truth of the theory.. albeit it's a theory.. of the truth..❤

    • @weareonebutmany4181
      @weareonebutmany4181 Рік тому

      @@ReconditeDeity I can see why someone can feel that way.. we haven't truly evolved much have we.. just watching the current state of affairs is enough to see that..
      1. War
      2. Ridiculous issues being pushed by media
      3. Human motivation Sex Power Greed Ego
      4. Focus of Entertainment
      5. Complete breakdown of society and culture
      Yea sometimes is like swimming in a pool filled with sewerage.. but then I say Wow look at that turd it too has a fraction of the LCS in it.. its consciousness.. amazing just how real.of a turd it's acting out. Amazing.
      I'd suggest keep focusing on your evolution.. youl attract beings on your level soon enough.. maybe the turds are trying to teach us something?
      Frankly I feel a higher level.of pure energy from insects/animals then from most humans.. but I remember it's the LCS as a IUC perfectly acting those roles

    • @kittywampusdrums4963
      @kittywampusdrums4963 Рік тому

      Stories are fine after you've got the serious students but if you start off with stories people just get entertained and nothing accomplished, know what I mean? There's very little practical discussions online regarding what to actually do, most is just storytelling and ideas so I'm not arguing at all with you but wanted to just add we kind of NEED the scientific approach so we can get data through experiences and also interpret what that data means clearly. That's what important, the whole "getting" part of it so we experience.

    • @weareonebutmany4181
      @weareonebutmany4181 Рік тому

      @@kittywampusdrums4963 yea sure bit of both.. thats my point.. but too much technical chit chat and science is for scientific minds... as Tom often states he is very very limited with the Story side by his own definition.. and as stated I understand and respect his choice! But thank you for your input.

  • @larrymondello8475
    @larrymondello8475 3 місяці тому

    Thank you

  • @pgreens
    @pgreens Рік тому

    I understand, at least on an intellectual level, a lot of Toms Big TOE. Here is something I don't understand in this talk: Choosing not to fear. If I feel fear (observing the ego), I can understand that the fear is a reaction to a deep hidden belief. However, if I say, "I choose not to feel the fear", that doesn't work. The fear keeps automatically repeating and intruding with threatening emotions and "what-ifs" no matter what I'm thinking on the surface, like there is a deeper conversation happening inside that goes on without my input; like my conscious thoughts are just audience members to inner workings with no actual influence on what's happening.
    It's as if the deep, hidden beliefs are out of range of surface level thoughts, and the thoughts can't influence or modify the deep beliefs. I'd like to know: how does one modify those deep beliefs? That's where trauma lives, that's where assumptions live, that's where deep wounds live that seem to only make life harder, yet they seem to be untouchable, unchangeable, and continuously influencing our reactions to reality. If we can't modify those deep beliefs, are we destined to counteract and reframe and fight with them for our entire lives?
    I don't know why we would even incarnate here to just fight our emotions our entire lives; it seems like a cruel, twisted joke. I'd rather be pure entropy and experience nothing than be consciously aware and perpetually fighting in an internal struggle I can't seem to win or even tie with no end in sight. It's exhausting!
    So how does one choose not to experience the emotional reaction to something deep inside that cannot be changed, that we automatically react to with our (comparatively) slow conscious minds? How can we choose not to be affected by something that is affecting us pre-thought, over and over again? It's like drinking three Red Bulls and choosing not to feel the effects; it doesn't work because the effects are happening at a deeper, automatic level than thought. I can say "I choose not to feel the effects of the caffeine" all I want, it does nothing and influences nothing, and at worse, feels like a lie, a denial of reality.
    It's like we have to learn how to control all of our autonomic nervous system functions before we can find happiness, because our bodies seem predisposed to favoring attention to fear and threats and uncertainty as a default. It's an exhausting internal war to try to manage on an hourly basis for one's entire lifetime.

    • @dariofromthefuture3075
      @dariofromthefuture3075 Рік тому

      What you describing are called Samskars in the yogic tradition. Or subsconscious fears and attachments. 1- with a solid meditation practice you'd be shocked at how much of that 'deep' programming you can in fact shed. Within 2 months you can feel 80% lighter. It's amazing how meditation works. It's like opening up a Z-axis within your being you didn't even know you have. But you have to recognize that the sense of 'I', is not you PGGreens - or me Dario. It is God. Existance Consciousness Bliss. Satchit-Ananda. There is only one 'I' in the whole universe. One God - shining thru the stained glass window of the universe. DMT proved this to me. My ego was vaporized and yet the deepest felt 'I' of my Being didn't go anywhere. That 'me" feeling just became the entire universe. Let that soak in my friend. 2. The remaining attachments, and traumas that do stick around can be retextualized as simply your individual ego, and its survival strategy. And there's nothing wrong with those per se. Just let them be. Honor them. But view them through God's eyes. Realize the God-self looking out of your eyes. The god thats in the frogs, in the trees, in the dolphins. Tap into THAT freedom, AND THEN let the ego play it's little games. With that expanded view- you'll find that you are much lighter in your nature, and you may even lose interest in the dramas that you find you so asphixiating right now.
      I love this guy. So old - and yet so much joy! He has a whole series of this - I highly recommend.
      ua-cam.com/video/EuIwjcb0vhA/v-deo.html

  • @goldenphoenixpublish
    @goldenphoenixpublish Рік тому

    To be clear, the concept that most of us have with regards to "ego" is "an over-weaning sense of self-importance". However, Tom is using a more technical definition that relates to what we might call an inner "sense of self-awareness". Our younger brothers and sisters (animals) rarely experience the kind of ego Tom refers to above. At best, they can practice 'sentience' which is the ability to occasionally offset purely instinctual responses to environmental stimuli. Esoterically, the kind of 'ego' that is an "over-weaning sense of self-importance" has to do with what is referred to as "the dweller on the threshold". That dweller has ultimately to be overcome by 1) Recognition, 2) Abnegation, 3) Re-polarization and finally 4) Utter and complete surrender to what is often termed "the Higher Self". That final step can not be undertaken alone. It requires a kind of spiritual objectivity no mere human being is capable of. Such an objectivity just kind of "sneaks up on you". Any such "self-recognition" simply feeds "the dweller"...

  • @Mike-oj1tm
    @Mike-oj1tm Рік тому +2

    Very good info on - " the BEING LEVEL".
    Our left brain, still has its job ,though; ie-
    we will process this data with our left brain, > we need the great " Merger" >
    Left & Right brain - free flowing together.
    We have the link to the LCS at our Being Level, - & the LCS has the experience of ALL the most highly evolved Beings - ever, - so we must figure how to let our Being Level ( IUOC) > BLEED into our human avatars' personality- THIS IS the whole game> use the logged on link to the LCS', ' data and let it encompass our human intellectual mind & body.

    • @aetherness
      @aetherness 6 місяців тому

      I'm guessing this process is unique to every person so it cannot be taught easily.

    • @Mike-oj1tm
      @Mike-oj1tm Місяць тому

      Very well stated

    • @Mike-oj1tm
      @Mike-oj1tm Місяць тому

      Very well stated!!!!!

  • @andrzejlososowski8143
    @andrzejlososowski8143 Рік тому

    Take the responsibility - Carlos Castaneda.

  • @The4thWayExperience
    @The4thWayExperience Рік тому

    You need to protect yourself so sometimes you have to be active in the moment not passive or just focus on my reaction as you have to live life in a society

  • @нурмухамедкойайдаров-ь4б

    Көзді жаттықтыру үшін түсін өзгертетін очки, Тырнақты жаттықтыру мақсатында цветотерапия жасау үшін арнайы түсін өзгерте алатын лактарды шығарса да болады. Бұл түстерге байланысты. Магниттік киім, қолғап, носки сияқтылар да өз мақсатына сай пайдаланылады. Лазер сəулесі қолданылатын свето терапиялық костюм дегендей. Универсалды болып көп мақсатта пайдалануға болатыны жақсы.

  • @Corteum
    @Corteum Рік тому +2

    Tom, would it be fair to say that the ego is a kind of separation mechanism to give consciousness the experience of individuality? I mean, what is the purpose of ego? Is it just an aberration, or does it exist for our evolution?

  • @zenpiper
    @zenpiper 5 місяців тому

    For me, it was initially through prayer, which led to progressively higher states of consciousness. I surrendered to the Holy Spirit, and my ego departed. Interesting that Tom Never mentions God. My favorite philosopher is David Hawkins, who chuckes frequently, and is devoutly committed. Tom is, by comparison, a piece of dry toast.

  • @mariafitts
    @mariafitts 11 місяців тому

    You can say I wanna help but it might just be for recognition, who knows when something is genuine and authentic and not to earn a reward

  • @denisejohnson7686
    @denisejohnson7686 Рік тому

    From decades of experience, reading and observation, it seems true that unconditional love is usually found in mothers for their children.
    I do not see this in other human relationships as a general rule.

    • @Corteum
      @Corteum Рік тому

      It can be practiced consciously. For instance, certain yogic and buddhist practices involve cultivating positive emotions or feelings. (e.g. Metta). and science shows that doing this has profound positive benefits to health and well being.

    • @denisejohnson7686
      @denisejohnson7686 Рік тому

      @Corteum I agree with you about ways to develop feelings and positivity. But unconditional love for a child is different. It does not have to be felt to confirm its existence. It is like a cord that cannot be cut.

    • @Corteum
      @Corteum Рік тому +1

      @@denisejohnson7686 True. It is because it is felt inside oneself that it is known. It is not known by any objective means or by seeing it through the five senses. It doesnt not need an external validation to be known.

    • @zulubeatsprince
      @zulubeatsprince Рік тому

      I have unconditional love for my son and his mother.. she curses me and is always angry at me.. but i still care and provide for them and do all in my power to make sure they are ok.. she only loves me if i do what she wants.. i love and protect them regardless. 😅

  • @MetaversePortfolio-jy2gn
    @MetaversePortfolio-jy2gn Рік тому

    You rock

  • @нурмухамедкойайдаров-ь4б

    Өзіңіз де топшылаған шығарсыз, еске жаттау қабылеті аз, альцгеймер, кəрі адамдарға жаттығу жеңіл болсын деп арнайы жаттықтыру жасайтын киімдерді жасауға болады. Қолдағы меридиандарды жаттықтыру үшін қолғаптар. Адам бойында орналасқан меридиандарды қосуға арналған суға түсетін сүңгуірлердің киіміндей арнайы костюмдар. Бастағы бас сүйек қосылған жеріндегі тігістерге, бас терісіндегі орай, тері энергиясын қосатын бас киімдерін жасауға болады. Үлкен кішісіне қарай размерлерін дайындап шығарсаңыздар, адамзаттың келесі бесінші кезеңге өтуі жеңілдер...

  • @Lonewolf__666
    @Lonewolf__666 Рік тому

    Can you turn the volume up on your videos Tom?

  • @DeniedClimax
    @DeniedClimax 3 місяці тому

    Took a few vids to realize he wasn't saying 'Bean' level

    • @angelinasanchez3649
      @angelinasanchez3649 22 дні тому

      😂😂😂 wth 😂 wel I guess a bean would be a reasonable analogy but I’m pretty sure he said being

  • @kittywampusdrums4963
    @kittywampusdrums4963 Рік тому

    Now talk about where the fears come from, most are simply emotional intelligences that keep us alive and need to be there. As example, you are instinctively afraid of predators, snakes, dark caves, etc... some personal ones like being inadequate are from the environment you live in and we all instinctively understand that if you do not adapt to your environments you wont make it. That's all.

  • @нурмухамедкойайдаров-ь4б

    Өсімдік дəнегі түріне қасиетіне қарай бөлінеді. Ян- Жарық энергия, бір гүлден көп кішкене дəн топ болып шығатын. Ыстық энергия домалақ, горох сияқтылар. Жылу энергиясы овалды, күріш, бидай, т.с. Жел энергиясы жеңіл , ұзын діндерінде, тмин сияқтылар, қышқыл дəмі бар. Инь - Ылғалды энергия овалды, əжіміді дəндерде. Құрғақты энергия жарты сфералы, алма, алмұрт сияқтыларда. Суық энергия гречка сияқты кристалға ұқсаста. Қара Түнек энергия бір гүлде сфераға ұқсас бір кішкене дəнек. Осыларды пайдалану арқылы жаттыға беріңіздер.

  • @Music-el7if
    @Music-el7if Рік тому

    Self? What self? You say it's all just data. So what fvcking difference does it make?

  • @richardgunderson9413
    @richardgunderson9413 2 місяці тому

    Bodhisattva