I deeply appreciate Aba's kindness toward the one kid who seemed insecure. He only built him up and offered solid advice to help him going forward. Being funny without being mean-spirited is an underrated skill.
If that boy is reading this comment section, we would love to help him out. I was an awkward senior highschool student and I would like to give any advice he wants to know. I see potential.
Yes. I may not always have the same values, but they are good people at heart. Aba and Preach have that way ot speaking honestly without the purpose of hurting anyone (unless waranted. ahemfreshandfitahem 😆). I personally think that they're the kind of role model I'd prefer the teenagers around me to learn from, I know they would've been of great inspiration in my early years, I sincerly wish for that guy to read the comments and listen to Aba's words. He makes me think of me when I was 18-22 years old, took me a looooong time to learn social cues and other stuff. 😂
It's so funny that we're so used to how The Button works, someone allowing another person to finish a story became a foreign concept. Also shout out to Jayden. Hope he works on himself and in turn finds someone who's as into him as he is into her.
That was genuinely nice of him, I hope he doesn't lose his heart that quickly. Also yeah, poor Jayden. I definitely feel for him, having been in his shoes before.
I work at a high school, and this morning as I walked into the gym across the wooden floor it started creaking and my immediate thought was “Ah, I gotta watch the new Aba & Preach video later!”
Man, I really felt for the sport journalist. I really hope his glow up is coming and he learns a couple of things such as finding his voice, becoming confident and learning how to flow a conversation.
@AbanPreach or Editor. Don't know if anyone has commented on it but i like that you overlay the video on top of A&P so we can catch them goofing around in real-time. Don't know if anyone else mentioned it, but at least 1 person likes it.
Wouldn't it be better to set a separate minuscule screen at the corner of this video, which would show a much clearer look of their reaction to the source material?
what aba said is true about asking more questions about the same topic instead of going over multiple topics, all you need to remember is to not get to the creepy point, it depends on the person and how you know these comes with experience.
Yo fuck that girl at 10:40. She gave NOTHING back in energy. She clearly didnt like him but every question he asked, she couldnt even give the basic manners of going "how about you". 1. What grade are you in? Im a senior 😐 2. What do you want to major in? Computer science.... Bro literally had to carry that convo on his back from the jump. He was awkward. But she was DEAD.
Ikr she pissed me off! like we get it you're not feeling the guy but at least he was trying despite being awkward. you added NOTHING to the conversation
He'll grow out of it with some experience. He's got it if he just keeps putting himself out there and learning. We all know plenty of kids who wildly changed out of that phase after high school. It's usually just the autists who stay there, but even they get out of it too
I have faith the first Asian dude can find his match. He seems so comfortable with himself & straightforward, but still respectful. I totally agree with them when they said you could tell him saying he wasn't attracted to her has absolutely no malice behind it. He just wanted to say his piece before the interaction ends. Not like we have a ton to go off of, but he seems like a rock solid dude.
That was awkward as FCK! But yes, those tips were spot on, and if the guy can't pick up a girl on his first try, he will at least seem nice and attentive.
They're open minded because they have no experience. They don't recognize subtle and or nuanced patterns in other people (or the implications of those patterns and how they fall into the context of your own situation). I mean look at Dan and Grace. They basically declared they're toxic and didn't run.
the advice and influence young men need these days, love seeing this. you guys helped me ,as an insecure young man to grow up so much with your advice and unique views to life. Cannot thank you enough, lots of love and respect for you guys.
Omg, the memories when Aba mentioned Toni Braxton's "He wasn't Man Enough" music video and all the cliches from the early 2000s. LOL That was hilarious. I loved that song as well. It was cool.
At 14:40 : Leaving League of Legends three years ago was the best thing I could do for my sanity. That game generates visceral emotions once you fall in the deep-end, the toxicity fades away but never leaves, waiting to strike at the right moment to snap at someone's mistake to laugh. 😂 I'm feeling Aba on this one hahaha
I watched a video about the insecure kid, don't let the hoodie fool you, the man is built like a truck, he strong strong, i'm talking muscular guy, a Bolo yeung type of guy. Things will get better eventually and they will come back
ABA n preach do more to save incels by giving genuine advice in every area of adult hood. They really don't try to shame and make fun of incels in the way that they constantly make fun of them and try to ensure that these people never feel like they can improve as people or be better people. So many people look at incels, especially the ones who commit horrific crimes and we just make fun of them and treat them like absolute garbage, dare I say it, we bully them, but the advice ABA n preach give really CAN help people when they listen to it and apply it. Much respect for these guys. No one wants to be kind to incels when they should be.
Darkchild was the original remixer of already good songs, to the point that the remix became the underground preference played more often. Jesse Powell's You darkchild remix is the most top tier of his remixes that outclassed the original rendition.
I want to take a moment to also mention the maturity of Jaiden with everything from his expectations and how he said things. It is interesting to see an young person being this mature about it, which makes me think how much has he gone through already.
Being from Eritrea, that "Miskin"😭hits just as much😂🤣 Great to be in the comments btw, love your videos, biggest supporter! Felt spoiled with 3 videos today✊🏿👱🏻
I liked the overlay of you guys live during the recording. Maybe for Button videos you could just shrink your recording to the bottom corner of the screen or instead covering the button during the full shots.
11:17 little dude broke my man heart hear 😢 I kinda wanna take the kid out and teach him how to be more self confident… Bet he transforms like no other in the next ten years 🤞 man he’s gonna suffer getting to where he needs to go… but that’s what makes greatness, pressure and time!!
How to win friends and influence people by Dale Carnegie. A therapist suggested it after my 4 year relationship that exploded. I have problems reading, but the content of the book is incredible. One of the biggest take aways for me was, you can be thee best communicator in the room simply by listening to people. Generally speaking, others really don't care what you have to say, they want to talk, vent, hear themselves speak. The ego is a incredible psychological construct that we can use in social interactions to make friends and maintain them. How you use it is up to you. I prefer to be an ethical and morally just friend. Not everyone is like that, as we see with my man on here.
Shout out to the nervous dude, because I think most people have felt like him at some point in their lives. For some people it was earlier in life and they grew out of it, for others, they didn’t grow out of it until much later, but I think the vast majority of people can relate to wanting some thing as bad as this kid seems to want love, but doesn’t know how to go about getting it and can’t identify what he’s doing wrong. If dude read this, just know that you will eventually stumble across something that seems to work for you, and that will blossom from then on into the person you currently want to be. Just keep trying and don’t feel like just because you’re not getting somewhere now, that means you shouldn’t be trying in the first place.
I love love love, the advice you are giving these young people. These are skills that a lot of us picked up along the way and rather than just tell them to hate on the other sex and try to claim the higher ground (like many "dating gurus" out there) you are showing them tips for better communication. These young ones are brave enough to come and do their speed dating in front of a camera and it shows real care when you give constructive criticism rather than brain wash them with useless stuff that will only guarantee to keep them single forever or in jail...
@@kanaricgirls aren't gonna go out of their way to buy a console. They play the most basic and free pc games that take the lowest end hardware to play, like valorant and league of legends. It's the most basic of the basic.
BRO, they really picked the nerd looking asian dude, paired him up with "princess" asian lady and when that didn't work out they send in an alt-lite asian chick. They be trying to film a dorama up in here
I think they should put the clown on payroll, get those super arrogant people that show up, up on out of there. Those ones that just buzz everyone out.
I deeply appreciate Aba's kindness toward the one kid who seemed insecure. He only built him up and offered solid advice to help him going forward. Being funny without being mean-spirited is an underrated skill.
If that boy is reading this comment section, we would love to help him out. I was an awkward senior highschool student and I would like to give any advice he wants to know. I see potential.
Yes. I may not always have the same values, but they are good people at heart. Aba and Preach have that way ot speaking honestly without the purpose of hurting anyone (unless waranted. ahemfreshandfitahem 😆). I personally think that they're the kind of role model I'd prefer the teenagers around me to learn from, I know they would've been of great inspiration in my early years, I sincerly wish for that guy to read the comments and listen to Aba's words.
He makes me think of me when I was 18-22 years old, took me a looooong time to learn social cues and other stuff. 😂
Facts I was always so awkward when I was younger. Everyone goes through that fr.
yeah that was pure love right there, i feel for the guy
Whoever dates Aba is one lucky girl.
Preach said, "The adults are dead inside." LMAO!!!! I love it
We are. But it's nice cause we have lots of company lol
He’s talking about me 😂
For real tho. It's like are we doing this or not?.?. 😂🤣😂
It's so funny that we're so used to how The Button works, someone allowing another person to finish a story became a foreign concept. Also shout out to Jayden. Hope he works on himself and in turn finds someone who's as into him as he is into her.
That was genuinely nice of him, I hope he doesn't lose his heart that quickly.
Also yeah, poor Jayden. I definitely feel for him, having been in his shoes before.
“Fauren”
… Do you mean FOREIGN? Cuz only one of those is an actual word smh
@@BasedHyperborean that's what I was wondering lmao
That's a unique way to misspell foreign. Is English your second language?
it's a foreign way to say "foreign"
I work at a high school, and this morning as I walked into the gym across the wooden floor it started creaking and my immediate thought was “Ah, I gotta watch the new Aba & Preach video later!”
😂😂
That clown part got me dead 🤣🤣
He literally went 📣📣 🤣
Even the clown didn’t want the black girl 😂
the utter relief i felt when his ass got buzzed quick and didnt come back
He oogled her and then made a weird noise lol...
love how they went mentor mode when the "highschool dweeb" kid was on
Butotn must be French for button
😂
Bouton ??
@@Mbaye77 Bourbon? Yes please.
Only 3 of those letters get pronounced.
@@Mbaye77yes
Man, I really felt for the sport journalist. I really hope his glow up is coming and he learns a couple of things such as finding his voice, becoming confident and learning how to flow a conversation.
@AbanPreach or Editor. Don't know if anyone has commented on it but i like that you overlay the video on top of A&P so we can catch them goofing around in real-time. Don't know if anyone else mentioned it, but at least 1 person likes it.
I was looking for this comment
I just noticed that
Yess I noticed that too, it's nice
I thought my phone was glitching 😅
Wouldn't it be better to set a separate minuscule screen at the corner of this video, which would show a much clearer look of their reaction to the source material?
…”high blood pressure” 😂😂
😂😂😂
What did it mean?
Finally, the floor is getting proper recognition
what aba said is true about asking more questions about the same topic instead of going over multiple topics, all you need to remember is to not get to the creepy point, it depends on the person and how you know these comes with experience.
Man said “the toxic ones” as I thought it 😂
I love how she immediately took it as gamer recognition rather than an insult.
Great banter lol
@@zamoraborahe knew immediately she could take it either way. Ain't nobody exist in those communities if they can't hack it lmao
the floor is gonna collapse some day
Lies. The floor is immortal
😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂
Aba had tears in his eyes for that poor kid and it totally moved me. I love that empathy for someone so insecure he can barely talk with a girl.
OMG WHEN PREACH MADE THE CLOWN SOUNDS 😂😂 THEN ABA SAID GET THE CLOWN OUT IF HERE 😂😂😂😂😂 I CANT BREATHE
"Puff Daddy like that cheese too 😏"
Preach is hilarious 😂
Actually lol'ed at the cheese grater meme 😅
He prolly has a lot of cheese pizza at home
@@Mirak-el bro 💀
Loved the discrète blink😂
Yo fuck that girl at 10:40. She gave NOTHING back in energy. She clearly didnt like him but every question he asked, she couldnt even give the basic manners of going "how about you".
1. What grade are you in? Im a senior 😐
2. What do you want to major in? Computer science....
Bro literally had to carry that convo on his back from the jump. He was awkward. But she was DEAD.
Ikr she pissed me off! like we get it you're not feeling the guy but at least he was trying despite being awkward. you added NOTHING to the conversation
You make a great point. You don't have to be attracted to make good conversation. At the bare minimum, maybe you walk away with a new friend.
Relax bruh
She is just nervous bro relax
@@benja303 so was he. But he made an effort. Im criminally awkward in social situations. I still make the most baseline effort.
Love seeing aba and preach giving that big bro guidance and advice for Jayden, props on that father figure role. A lot of us needed that growing up 🫡
I saw that wink preach 😭
Pour one for the high school dweeb, as a former high school dweeb themselves this brought back painful flashbacks.
He'll grow out of it with some experience. He's got it if he just keeps putting himself out there and learning. We all know plenty of kids who wildly changed out of that phase after high school. It's usually just the autists who stay there, but even they get out of it too
These dudes seem so pure of heart, pity, life will beat that out of them and they will become dead inside like Preach and I.
Wow you too???
I have faith the first Asian dude can find his match. He seems so comfortable with himself & straightforward, but still respectful. I totally agree with them when they said you could tell him saying he wasn't attracted to her has absolutely no malice behind it. He just wanted to say his piece before the interaction ends. Not like we have a ton to go off of, but he seems like a rock solid dude.
The involuntary humming... Yes, the struggle is real! But nah, going out as a whole ass clown was a bit much.
Why so serious? 🤡
@@t1aonation673 7:00 👩🏾🤏💀”dude I actUally reAlly liKe yOur haiR”.
That was awkward as FCK! But yes, those tips were spot on, and if the guy can't pick up a girl on his first try, he will at least seem nice and attentive.
7:00 👩🏾🤏💀”dude I actUally reAlly liKe yOur haiR”.
@@icu3869So?
The floor!!! 😂❤
We all love a guy with a big heart. Don't matter the story. We all feel that. And we respect the effort to try
They're open minded because they have no experience. They don't recognize subtle and or nuanced patterns in other people (or the implications of those patterns and how they fall into the context of your own situation).
I mean look at Dan and Grace. They basically declared they're toxic and didn't run.
You would think comedians are more understanding of clowns 😂😂😂
7:00 👩🏾🤏💀”dude I actUally reAlly liKe yOur haiR”.
the advice and influence young men need these days, love seeing this. you guys helped me ,as an insecure young man to grow up so much with your advice and unique views to life. Cannot thank you enough, lots of love and respect for you guys.
Here before the “Butotn” was corrected to “Button” in the title
7:00 👩🏾🤏💀”dude I actUally reAlly liKe yOur haiR”.
@@icu3869So? It’s a compliment.
Haha, that 90s music video description accurate AF.
Omg, the memories when Aba mentioned Toni Braxton's "He wasn't Man Enough" music video and all the cliches from the early 2000s. LOL That was hilarious. I loved that song as well. It was cool.
Triple post came in clutch. Thanks
lol the over 30 “are we doing this sh*t” 😂 real talk
The way Preach said that made me laugh out loud!
Love the sound of the floor creaking❤❤❤
is this the first time i can see abba's ''aura'' behind the clipped video😭
At 14:40 : Leaving League of Legends three years ago was the best thing I could do for my sanity. That game generates visceral emotions once you fall in the deep-end, the toxicity fades away but never leaves, waiting to strike at the right moment to snap at someone's mistake to laugh. 😂 I'm feeling Aba on this one hahaha
Yeah the relapse is horrible too. It’s gets you hooked with the competitive play. It does make you have the best comebacks. The only perk.
I watched a video about the insecure kid, don't let the hoodie fool you, the man is built like a truck, he strong strong, i'm talking muscular guy, a Bolo yeung type of guy. Things will get better eventually and they will come back
UA-cam Channel?
@@TheRealZeke2003 it was an edit on insta so i don't know
@@sgcastle8389 an edit?... bro are you sure they didn't just deepfake his face onto some other dude or some shit
@@reddillon8425 100% sure.
First 2 guys are super confident and respectful
6:35 what a pure hearted dude!, dang!
Shout out to My man Jaden.... All Love bro❤. Stay strong it really gets Better 💯
Preach been showing off his singing chops since he performed on live tv lmao
I love that you guys are faded in the background watching over the button xD
11:06 Thank you Editor, seeing Preach react helped me in that moment.
ABA n preach do more to save incels by giving genuine advice in every area of adult hood. They really don't try to shame and make fun of incels in the way that they constantly make fun of them and try to ensure that these people never feel like they can improve as people or be better people.
So many people look at incels, especially the ones who commit horrific crimes and we just make fun of them and treat them like absolute garbage, dare I say it, we bully them, but the advice ABA n preach give really CAN help people when they listen to it and apply it. Much respect for these guys. No one wants to be kind to incels when they should be.
@2:18 damn preach got me reminiscing growing up. Now im about to be doing this till i remember what song it could be
"Theres a reason i dont touch that game anymore" Felt Aba....same story bro.
Darkchild was the original remixer of already good songs, to the point that the remix became the underground preference played more often.
Jesse Powell's You darkchild remix is the most top tier of his remixes that outclassed the original rendition.
I want to take a moment to also mention the maturity of Jaiden with everything from his expectations and how he said things. It is interesting to see an young person being this mature about it, which makes me think how much has he gone through already.
3 for 1 special - Happy Friday indeed 🔥
Screw the Button for picking on the chubby guy. They're wrong for making him perform like that. Even for someone confident that would be a dick move.
Being from Eritrea, that "Miskin"😭hits just as much😂🤣
Great to be in the comments btw, love your videos, biggest supporter! Felt spoiled with 3 videos today✊🏿👱🏻
Whoever keeps hitting that snare drum needs to knock it off.
I liked the overlay of you guys live during the recording. Maybe for Button videos you could just shrink your recording to the bottom corner of the screen or instead covering the button during the full shots.
Aba: we aint friends yall gotta accept that we are just coworker acquaintances.
Also Aba: I love you dawg you my homie 5:44
Puff daddy like that cheese. Looks at the camera and winks, hahahaha.
11:17 little dude broke my man heart hear 😢
I kinda wanna take the kid out and teach him how to be more self confident…
Bet he transforms like no other in the next ten years 🤞 man he’s gonna suffer getting to where he needs to go… but that’s what makes greatness, pressure and time!!
How to win friends and influence people by Dale Carnegie. A therapist suggested it after my 4 year relationship that exploded. I have problems reading, but the content of the book is incredible. One of the biggest take aways for me was, you can be thee best communicator in the room simply by listening to people. Generally speaking, others really don't care what you have to say, they want to talk, vent, hear themselves speak. The ego is a incredible psychological construct that we can use in social interactions to make friends and maintain them. How you use it is up to you. I prefer to be an ethical and morally just friend. Not everyone is like that, as we see with my man on here.
i never saw aba this empathetic. It was sweet how he rooted for jayden and gave him tipps. He would be a nice dad
baiting me with a old vod , aba .. i have no words, u were leader of the chapter, never faulting...
Shout out to the nervous dude, because I think most people have felt like him at some point in their lives. For some people it was earlier in life and they grew out of it, for others, they didn’t grow out of it until much later, but I think the vast majority of people can relate to wanting some thing as bad as this kid seems to want love, but doesn’t know how to go about getting it and can’t identify what he’s doing wrong.
If dude read this, just know that you will eventually stumble across something that seems to work for you, and that will blossom from then on into the person you currently want to be. Just keep trying and don’t feel like just because you’re not getting somewhere now, that means you shouldn’t be trying in the first place.
lmao Aba admits to being homies with preach did y'all catch that?!
Looks like you missed that one video that they posted a while ago
What are you talking about
@@wa_________ge3254the one they said they ain’t friends?
@c.s2193 aba and preach adamantly claim that they are not "friends" with each other and are "just colleagues." However, it is untrue.
Wdym @@wa_________ge3254
"oh so the toxic ones" took me out 💀
You guys are so sweet for giving the guy advice on how to make good conversation.
17:03 i was soo freaking interested that i had my mouth open and started drooling like wtf!! 😭
She’s salty he did. Yes lady he pressed the button on you first.
Preach's wink at the camera lol 😂😂
I love love love, the advice you are giving these young people. These are skills that a lot of us picked up along the way and rather than just tell them to hate on the other sex and try to claim the higher ground (like many "dating gurus" out there) you are showing them tips for better communication. These young ones are brave enough to come and do their speed dating in front of a camera and it shows real care when you give constructive criticism rather than brain wash them with useless stuff that will only guarantee to keep them single forever or in jail...
That insecure kid really brought old baggage to a new romantic interaction
really cool video fr, appreciated that you would put the genuine advice to younger guys part out too
Damn Juwon is a gamer gamer shes kinda cool and then buddy came back with the sauce i respect it
"gamer gamer"? She plays popular multiplayer games. That's about as normal as it gets.
@@bbbbbbb51 she plays competitive games on PC. No xbox or any of that shit and no like Helldivers or shit like that.
@@kanaricgirls aren't gonna go out of their way to buy a console. They play the most basic and free pc games that take the lowest end hardware to play, like valorant and league of legends. It's the most basic of the basic.
give the new editing staff a raise
That last girl either is too good to be true or she's a menace
BRO, they really picked the nerd looking asian dude, paired him up with "princess" asian lady and when that didn't work out they send in an alt-lite asian chick.
They be trying to film a dorama up in here
7:20 Preach's clown noise sounds a little Aaron Neville. 😅
01:50 crusty white dudes also like the cheese grater aesthetic, they were in all of our Nu-Metal videos of the same era. Brothers, unite!
“I gotcha….. high blood pressure”
😂😂😂😂😂
13:57 Preach pogging has made my entire week LMFAO
Your right . Lmao
I can't get over the volume of that guys hair. It's impressive lol
I thought the Butotn was his clown name or something 🤣
The last girl showed those weird vibes right from the start.
13:50 he reminds me of the kid from surf ninjas or Ninja turtles 2 I think
I think they should put the clown on payroll, get those super arrogant people that show up, up on out of there. Those ones that just buzz everyone out.
Aba @ 11:25 this piece of advice is pure gold! Putting that into practice has changed my life and my relationships.
Everything the said about the R&B songs was accurate. And I loved that Toni Braxton song as a kid 😂.
This is the first time I’ve noticed you can actually still see Aba & Preach in the background during a video play over
dggL j'adore le plancher bois franc, ça doit être au plateau!
I been that kid before and man let me tell you it blows. Happilly married now but your right that kid need a hug
Googling Toni Braxton video to jog my memory. 😂😂
I love ABa when he says "مسكين"😂😂😂
Really felt for the مسكين here, can't lie. He deserves the best.
YALL SKIPPED THE CLOWN! I love how unhinged he is. He’s just here to troll
This was....surprisingly therapeutic
7:50 I can see them in the background and it's trippy
7:16-7:37 HAD ME FOLDED 😂😂😂😂
It's fucked up to do this with high schoolers. I was socially inept and it would've killed me to be embarrassed online.
Homie will benefit a lot from a mentor who cares about him. He has to get his confidence sparked.
That Toni impression
the pier and beam squeak is ICONIC
Jenny could've just walked away she wasn't into it from the moment she say down and dead looked at the button when she fake laughed