Armchair youtube commentators forgetting that most people aren't immune to sunk cost fallacy, are aren't enlightened sigma chads that will drop all affection for a person and leave at the first red flag
@@TalenkauenTVTrue, but all the same. That’s a whole ass decade there brother, and he’s in a better position than most who are stuck in a situation like his.
@RanchoSantaAnadelChino true, but I notice people in the comments keep lambasting people in these stories for acting like normal humans, and not instantly choosing the absolute optimal gigachad speedrun option when faced with a problem. Normal people aren't superbeings that can instantly shut off all emotions and instantly destroy all the evil thots their life to focus on the sigma grindset or whatever. Serious relationships are complicated, and so are the emotions around them. You can't act like you would've done it better than them when you've never known the thought process behind their choices, never walked a mile in their shoes.
What makes even less sense is that he later goes on to say he gave her keys to the apartment he got to be away from her. These AI spam a lot of stories without the merest understanding of reality, consistency and credibility.
@@bofostudioHe was the provider in the relationship so it’s safe to assume that both apartments were in his name and that he moved back into his old one once the divorce was finalized. He didn’t take all his items when he moved out which showed that the second one was supposed to be temporary. He was likely tracked down via finances, if they shared any bank accounts or if she had access to his (which she likely did) all she had to do was find the rent payment and find where it was addressed to. She doesn’t lack intelligence, the way she acted was more high level manipulation.
He would have still had a chance if he had confronted her in the cafe that they were not a thing anymore. Though he was probably just hypnotised 😵💫 by his Unconscious. He is too weak willed to snap out of the hypnosis.
Most likely not. Sane women know when a woman is a sociopath banshee. What made Amy uncomfortable was it was causing a scene in her family's place of business, most likely.
@@Maninawig She is only acting that way because OP is a doormat. If he resists, she will give up. Or spiral and get arrested. Either way, he is free to ask out who he wants.
She gave him more attention after he left than during their whole marriage. At the core, desperate people may act in overly self-interested ways, putting their own needs and survival above all else, even if it means harming others. The drive for self-preservation can override normal social norms and ethical considerations. This sounds like a desperate woman , not one in love.
I had a boyfriend who had gotten a divorce the year prior. He had a psycho ex wife who left him twice for other men, physically abused him and lied or bullied everyone around her. When we decided to date then live together she went crazy. She ran background checks on me and harassed him 24/7. He even ended up in jail because her gay best friend named Stan was going crazy on my boyfriend. It was a huge shocking drama from the pit of hell. My boyfriend turned out to be a hardcore alcoholic and his ex was too. They fed off of each other and I left him for so many many reasons. She's still into group sex and just broke up a marriage so she could keep another womans husband. She is psycho and I dodged a bullet by deciding not to marry the alcoholic. Never again.
Dude! Why didn’t he just file a restraining order sooner or call the police to get her arrested for harassment? Also how is he free when she’s still watching him and giving him shit? Gah I hate these! 😫 And Yes I’m well aware that it’s a fanmade story but god these stories 😬
A perfect marriage or relationship is an illusion; there's no universal playbook for making them work. What's effective for one couple may not apply to another. Nevertheless, I've come to understand that there's always a solution to be found. Half a decade ago, my wife and I faced such trials in our marriage that divorce seemed inevitable. Yet, through perseverance and determination, we navigated through the rough waters and emerged stronger, reunited, and more resilient
There is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things
It's better to get a professional to do it because buying something from let's say Walmart is mass produced and she could have just gone and bought the same set to get a key that would work on his lock
It’s ai, i know this because i recently asked chatgpt to “generate a reddit style story of a wife who cheated on her husband and referring to the husband as me/am/myself/i” and it made a typical story of a wife cheating, the husband couldn’t see it at first, he is devastated and lost after discovering the affair, it’s just typical ai stories man
A prenup is an agreement made by a couple before they marry concerning the ownership of their respective assets should the marriage fail . Make every single spouse sign a prenup , even if u sense she is pure , if she loves you for you , she wont care for money.
Ugh, been there dude. My restraining order didn’t pass but the lawyer got me more help. I hope he’s okay, she sounds like the type to go after his friends or lovers
The concerning part to me is that the first 2 minutes of this video is my life exactly 💀 even the house with the IKEA furniture and the gut feeling my dad had before marriage 💀
Is it bad I get annoyed when people point out that these stories are AI? like yeah probably but it’s still fun to listen to. If you don’t like it you can just move on.
It just ruins that sense of revenge and the urge to see what happens next. Like if this happened in real life, then it'd genuinely be interesting, but if it's a made up story, it's just not interesting anymore, just a fantasy.
I hear Ray Shoesmith has a cousin living in America. OP should look him up. But seriously, there are lots of towns begging for Doctors in Alaska and on remote Indian Reservations. Change your name and heal in Alaska for a few years. Then change names again and move across the Country from her.
Seems A.I. forgot this was the apartment he moved into after he left his wife so she never had a key in the first place. Plus it bears very little resemblance to the original Reddit story. It was right up until the ex turned up at the cafe. That never happened and he started dating the barista. The end.
I can’t stand these food videos playing while the story is being told. If it’s black gloves, the food is going to be gross. This “cook” seems to think breaking a raw egg yolk over the grossness is somehow special.
Dude, just because you’re not used to seeing anything other then cheeseburgers and soda doesn’t mean it’s gross. Where that chef lives, raw eggs are perfectly safe to eat. You have no right calling one persons cooking ‘gross’ when it really isn’t. You ain’t Gordon Ramsey fam 😂
@cobalt2020 cuz life sucks when I finally thought I fit in and stuff it went down again all my insecurities and issues r back and worse then ever and I hate myself for this because I’m sure I’m the one who started this for me again
Seriously Op is stupid you gave her a KEY to your NEW apartment REALLY.... You are divorcé now and she's stalking you if it's bothering you then make changes to better your life. Geezzz..... If you have time to complaint, then take that time and sort out your life and do better. You stated you don't have much in the apartment then move. Nothing is holding you there, plus Amy isn't going to give you the time of day after what happened with wifey. Good Poor me attitude is really your go to huh. I get you've been through shit but if you're not making moves to better your life then you should have stayed in the marriage. Get a therapist and clear your mind of her hold which she seems to still have on you. Hopefully you see a way to move forward where you can be happy, and if your gut tells you something trust that against anyone, and don't let another walk all over you, you deserve better so try to be better for yourself. If you continue as you are, you may end up being miserable for the rest of your life and she wins.
"I Don feel safe around him!"
THEN WHY ARE YOU CONSTANTLY FOLLOWING HIM AROUND?!
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The dude put himself through 10 YEARS of that bullshit?! BRO.
Better late than never I guess, damn
Armchair youtube commentators forgetting that most people aren't immune to sunk cost fallacy, are aren't enlightened sigma chads that will drop all affection for a person and leave at the first red flag
@@TalenkauenTVTrue, but all the same. That’s a whole ass decade there brother, and he’s in a better position than most who are stuck in a situation like his.
@@TalenkauenTV Explaining a character flaw doesn't make it stop 🛑being a character flaw.
@RanchoSantaAnadelChino true, but I notice people in the comments keep lambasting people in these stories for acting like normal humans, and not instantly choosing the absolute optimal gigachad speedrun option when faced with a problem. Normal people aren't superbeings that can instantly shut off all emotions and instantly destroy all the evil thots their life to focus on the sigma grindset or whatever. Serious relationships are complicated, and so are the emotions around them. You can't act like you would've done it better than them when you've never known the thought process behind their choices, never walked a mile in their shoes.
She was a Red flag all by herself... What wasn't a red flag about her? I'm also astounded it took him 10 years of misery.
How the hell did the marriage even last past the words, “you’re just a provider”?
ChatGTP doesn't want to answer that lol
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I guess getting a restraining order the second the police suggested it was too hard apparently
Nah, he was just stupid enough to think that some women care about the law.
What makes even less sense is that he later goes on to say he gave her keys to the apartment he got to be away from her. These AI spam a lot of stories without the merest understanding of reality, consistency and credibility.
@@bofostudio Humans be crazy.
Especially clinging onto the hope of good in people who are clearly pure evil. Moral fanaticism.
@@bofostudioHe was the provider in the relationship so it’s safe to assume that both apartments were in his name and that he moved back into his old one once the divorce was finalized. He didn’t take all his items when he moved out which showed that the second one was supposed to be temporary. He was likely tracked down via finances, if they shared any bank accounts or if she had access to his (which she likely did) all she had to do was find the rent payment and find where it was addressed to. She doesn’t lack intelligence, the way she acted was more high level manipulation.
Too bad the wife ruined his chances with Amy
He would have still had a chance if he had confronted her in the cafe that they were not a thing anymore.
Though he was probably just hypnotised 😵💫 by his Unconscious. He is too weak willed to snap out of the hypnosis.
@@RanchoSantaAnadelChino Nah, the wife was crazy, she would have made things a thousand times worse
Most likely not. Sane women know when a woman is a sociopath banshee. What made Amy uncomfortable was it was causing a scene in her family's place of business, most likely.
@@Maninawig She is only acting that way because OP is a doormat.
If he resists, she will give up. Or spiral and get arrested.
Either way, he is free to ask out who he wants.
@@RanchoSantaAnadelChino nah, she is psychotic. Next thing she'll do is break into his home to take a dump on his bed and blame the chiwawa
She gave him more attention after he left than during their whole marriage.
At the core, desperate people may act in overly self-interested ways, putting their own needs and survival above all else, even if it means harming others. The drive for self-preservation can override normal social norms and ethical considerations.
This sounds like a desperate woman , not one in love.
3:13 just like 4th wife -nikolai
I had a boyfriend who had gotten a divorce the year prior. He had a psycho ex wife who left him twice for other men, physically abused him and lied or bullied everyone around her. When we decided to date then live together she went crazy. She ran background checks on me and harassed him 24/7. He even ended up in jail because her gay best friend named Stan was going crazy on my boyfriend. It was a huge shocking drama from the pit of hell. My boyfriend turned out to be a hardcore alcoholic and his ex was too. They fed off of each other and I left him for so many many reasons. She's still into group sex and just broke up a marriage so she could keep another womans husband. She is psycho and I dodged a bullet by deciding not to marry the alcoholic. Never again.
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So you didnt do the extreme. A restraining order isnt extreme. Having her committed, which she needs, would've been the way to go.
Dude! Why didn’t he just file a restraining order sooner or call the police to get her arrested for harassment? Also how is he free when she’s still watching him and giving him shit? Gah I hate these! 😫
And Yes I’m well aware that it’s a fanmade story but god these stories 😬
I REALLY thought he was just gonna say "i feel like a thousand pounds"
Glad you finally took a stand and did what was best for yourself 💯
A perfect marriage or relationship is an illusion; there's no universal playbook for making them work. What's effective for one couple may not apply to another. Nevertheless, I've come to understand that there's always a solution to be found. Half a decade ago, my wife and I faced such trials in our marriage that divorce seemed inevitable. Yet, through perseverance and determination, we navigated through the rough waters and emerged stronger, reunited, and more resilient
There is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things
You wont regret it
The problems should be things like awkwardness and external problems.
Not being a toxic ☣ psycho.
This is when you. Pull a Jesse Pinkman and disappear to Alaska without a Trace
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i find it strange... i hear they call a locksmith to change the locks... dont they not know how to change a lock on a door... its not that hard...
It's better to get a professional to do it because buying something from let's say Walmart is mass produced and she could have just gone and bought the same set to get a key that would work on his lock
I mean he also moved to a different apartment and she now somehow has the key to it because he forgot to change the locks on his new apartment
Hol up how’d she get a key💀
Chatgpt has dementia
I think he moved back to the house he used to live in before the divorce
@@doesthisworkatleastno it’s ai I’ve seen this story and they used ai after he went to the cafe she never went there
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It’s ai, i know this because i recently asked chatgpt to “generate a reddit style story of a wife who cheated on her husband and referring to the husband as me/am/myself/i” and it made a typical story of a wife cheating, the husband couldn’t see it at first, he is devastated and lost after discovering the affair, it’s just typical ai stories man
I didn't make any terrible mistakes, just regretted wasting so much time on nothing.
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7:30 that chicken it's still raw 😂
Nobody has died from raw chicken. Salmonella is in salmon
@@Alexander24871where did you hear that? Raw chicken is extremely dangerous and salmonella is in multiple raw meats
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Should've gone with the restraining order at the first signs of trouble.
OP is spineless and let this gold digger ruin his life. No seggs and no kids even 🤦♂️
Tip: maybe find another apartment around there or change apartment in your building if there is an available one
This is what happen when you become too comfortable you let your guard down.
This man is the single most passive person in the word 😂😂😂😂
I trust my gut feeling. When a women tries to manupilate me mentally or gives me insomnia i know when to break up
He should move countries or states or provinces
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fr, he moved into a new place and somehow he had given her a key? ah huh
@@pretzelicious4200 "oh no i dropped the key and it magically teleported to her!"
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why is this not the top comment 😭
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A prenup is an agreement made by a couple before they marry concerning the ownership of their respective assets should the marriage fail . Make every single spouse sign a prenup , even if u sense she is pure , if she loves you for you , she wont care for money.
Ugh, been there dude. My restraining order didn’t pass but the lawyer got me more help. I hope he’s okay, she sounds like the type to go after his friends or lovers
4:00 bro he is acting like we live in the same building we don’t know you gng
IMagine marrying a Psycho.. Poor OP 😭Hope everyone sees through her bs real soon
"i didn't want to get a restraining order" bro how dense are you
if i had a husband or a wife like that (if i was a man) id legit just get a lawyer and sue her
Poor man was living through domestic abuse.
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3:14 so your saying she’s a thousand pounds? Your saying she’s…. BIG!!?!?!
I don t like how the guy said she's aged appropriate then didn t say her age
I've heard of crazier people, but it doesn't make me understand people like her any more.
Dang, that woman is a huge psychopath.
I think the first time I would have driven straight to the police
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How did she get a key if he got a new apartment?!?!?!
It really took you years to realize that she was not the one you realized I don’t day one, but it took you years to get rid of it wow
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That chicken looks so good
The concerning part to me is that the first 2 minutes of this video is my life exactly 💀 even the house with the IKEA furniture and the gut feeling my dad had before marriage 💀
amanda:"And your going to give a explanation to me"
Me:"im not your husband if we were were now divorced by by"
OP needs to move as far away from there as possible, that damn gold digger won't leave him alone so long as she knows he got money.
Mmmm that first pasta looked so good
TEN YEARS OF THIS BS???????!!!!!! NAH, THATS CRAZYYYYYYYY
This is not real but there are people who go through this madness in real life....choose your partners wisely...
Or don't, nowadays the idea of being single became less of a fear and more of a hope
How the hell did this last with things like “my hangbag doesn’t match my phone case” and “your just a provider”
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@@DaniloBrandão-j8x really?
Is it bad I get annoyed when people point out that these stories are AI? like yeah probably but it’s still fun to listen to. If you don’t like it you can just move on.
It just ruins that sense of revenge and the urge to see what happens next. Like if this happened in real life, then it'd genuinely be interesting, but if it's a made up story, it's just not interesting anymore, just a fantasy.
First of all how did you let her drain you for 10 years? That was stupid on your behalf!
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Am i the only one who watches these for the food?
The fact he did for 10 years
Some people are doormats.
Ngl if I was him I would've been in prison the moment after the Cafe
I hear Ray Shoesmith has a cousin living in America. OP should look him up.
But seriously, there are lots of towns begging for Doctors in Alaska and on remote Indian Reservations. Change your name and heal in Alaska for a few years. Then change names again and move across the Country from her.
I felt/feel so happy,sad,and scared for you
Why did he not want a restraining order? This is stupid…
Please include creddit to the original reditor its not much but its good
bros acting like we have been to that cafe before 3:56
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You should've called the police as soon she showed up in your house, that's illegal, even if you have a key, could've had her locked up
she might be the creator of yandre ai girlfriend simulator (LOL)
He could handle it better.
This drama turned into a nightmare! .😮😨😰
That food on the video looks disgusting
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No it looks good
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The egg hotdogs look good
If that were happening to me I would of moved states or even counrtys
Poor guy.
Seems A.I. forgot this was the apartment he moved into after he left his wife so she never had a key in the first place. Plus it bears very little resemblance to the original Reddit story. It was right up until the ex turned up at the cafe. That never happened and he started dating the barista. The end.
Dude, flee the country.
He rly spent 5 years in med school and is he giving up that job ?
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This video is making me hungry 😋 ❤
Op should go to therapy
10 years after she changed right after the marriage and made it clear she was only here for money🤡
AI story going crazy
Leave the country she won't have the money to travel
I can’t stand these food videos playing while the story is being told. If it’s black gloves, the food is going to be gross. This “cook” seems to think breaking a raw egg yolk over the grossness is somehow special.
Dude, just because you’re not used to seeing anything other then cheeseburgers and soda doesn’t mean it’s gross. Where that chef lives, raw eggs are perfectly safe to eat. You have no right calling one persons cooking ‘gross’ when it really isn’t. You ain’t Gordon Ramsey fam 😂
Dude. They're from Korea. It's Zach choi. You're literally shit talking someone who has millions of subscribers.
This story is not real it is generated by chatgpt
Other people have said this but sounds like there’s some mental issues there to the best of your ability try to get her evaluated if this is real
I would advise you to educate yourself about malignant narcissists ... 😅 a really curious breed of humanoids ...
Amanda or amber herd is there a difference
This dudes hands seem to shake a lot
These authors really need to story board and proof read their own stories. Too many mistakes in the details. Thumbs down from me.
Just move to another state at that point
That’s crazy
Yo what’s up brother
@cobalt2020 nothing much just crying in my bathroom at 4am what bout u??
@@Imnoteven_human wait why
@cobalt2020 cuz life sucks when I finally thought I fit in and stuff it went down again all my insecurities and issues r back and worse then ever and I hate myself for this because I’m sure I’m the one who started this for me again
@@Imnoteven_human dude…..chill ax….thats crazy man….
Did they just post the entire story on UA-cam shorts
Did I miss something? He moved, so how did she have a key to get in?
Seriously Op is stupid you gave her a KEY to your NEW apartment REALLY.... You are divorcé now and she's stalking you if it's bothering you then make changes to better your life. Geezzz..... If you have time to complaint, then take that time and sort out your life and do better. You stated you don't have much in the apartment then move. Nothing is holding you there, plus Amy isn't going to give you the time of day after what happened with wifey. Good Poor me attitude is really your go to huh. I get you've been through shit but if you're not making moves to better your life then you should have stayed in the marriage. Get a therapist and clear your mind of her hold which she seems to still have on you. Hopefully you see a way to move forward where you can be happy, and if your gut tells you something trust that against anyone, and don't let another walk all over you, you deserve better so try to be better for yourself. If you continue as you are, you may end up being miserable for the rest of your life and she wins.
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