Jaisay Aapki Marzi | Episode 10 (Eng Sub) | 26 September 2023 | ARY Digital
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Jaisay Aapki Marzi | Episode 10 | Dur-e-fishan Saleem | Mikaal Zulfiqar | 26th Sep 2023 | ARY Digital
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Jaisay Aapki Marzi | When Narcissism Takes Over Love
Jaisay Aapki Marzi is an incredible story that portrays how a person can change their behavior when they come under the pressure of a judgmental society.
Directed By: Saba Hamid
Written By: Naila Ansari
Cast:
Dur-e-fishan Saleem
Mikaal Zulfiqar
Ali Safina
Kiran Malik
Javed Sheikh
Ali Tahir.
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What a dominating husband . Aleezy's sister Ramza is so right when she said to her mother, AP KI GENERATION NEY BETI KO AAG MEIN PHENKNA SEEKHA HAY UNKO BACHANA NEIN !! So true !
I had been in the same situation for 3 and half years. Despite being a doctor, I was told I was good for nothing. Came out of that hell, living independently and alhamdolillah flourishing everyday.
Well done
So happy for u and well done for helping yourself
❤
I was also dealing with a narcissist for almost 15 Years and I got to know his true nature now. Still I am living with him because of kids. But now I know how to deal with him. And keep him on his place.
I wish I could negate the social pressure and get out if this relationship. But one day Allah will show him how bitter n self centred he is. And how he ruined lives of his kids n wife and even himself.
Listen to me because I went through the same situation. I had 2 young children and was a "stay-at-home" mum. No close family around for emotional support so I did feel trapped. I eventually got out when my children were in high school and I wish that I had done so earlier. It has affected my children, negatively, who are grown up and independent now. GET OUT for your and the children's sake. You will lose your self-esteem if you haven't done so already. The ex, I spoke about is still a NARCICCIST! You think you may be able to handle him but you are destroying and wasting your life with an insecure asshole! Your happiness and peace is worth more than any man! Good luck!@@bakerssecret2164
Identity crisis.. Narcissism.. Gaslighting.. Emotional triggers.. Toxic partner.. Red flags in a relationship..ghosting.. Vengeance..All these are present day issues which current relationships face.. Superb theme of the drama
I am living with Narcissit husband for 16 years.
And can you see how they very easily make "alizay " the one with issues
Manipulation another thing
@@rifatparveen1362 they are excellent manipulators.. they will guilt trip you for ur right thoughts and feelings too and wrap the whole thing around you as if ur the culprit
They break you brick by brick till the time u loose ur self confidence and identity and believe in their perception of you
The thing I like about this drama is that they’re showing narcissist behaviour step by step. That’s how they trap their prey. People who have experienced or seen others going through narc abuse can tell.
😢smj ni ata how to deal
@@momonizami5547 you can’t deal with them. The only way is getting out completely cutting off. Longer a person stays, longer the damage & trauma would be. This is not just regular abuse. They play mind games to completely cripple you in every way.
Yes same like my partner
i personally experienced this with my past relationship and even i feel the same pain in my heart when i remember something about that ,and the writer and makers performed everything very well....
@@seeya7610agreed
Alizeh's father is the kind of father all daughters need❤
Like Mehar Ali
Shere phle to mara jarha tha,ab Pagal hogaya he
Absolutely ❤❤
I totally agree as the daughters need such father to understand them
Ramza is such a sensible girl, why have girls like alizey always to bend in front of the husband and in laws just because he is a man
Ramza is very sensible and intelligent 😊
Ramza's acting is so outstanding ❤ The way she takes stand for Aliza is mind-blowing
Sad to see how so many people think that abuse is just the physical one. Mental torture is so ruthless. Allah sab ke naseeb achy karien. Ameen
Aaaameeeen
OMGGGG HE'S TRYING TO BREAK HER PIECE BY PIECE . This isn't dying . It's like slow suicide. He suffocates her & gives her just a bit of breathing space so she doesn't die and he can continue his abuse.
Exactly. Jo wife abuse bardasht kerti hai, usay toh khud pata bhe nahin chalta kay woh abuse horehi hai. Yahan per society ko, khas tor per maa baap ko, behn bhaiyoun ko, dostoun ko, doctors ko, sub ko mil ker aurat ki madad kerni hoti hai takay woh abuse se bahir nikal sakay aur apni zindagi dubara shuru ker sakay. Iss tarha torture hogi toh mentally unstable ho jaye gi.
Yes typical narcisstic behaviour
Alizey was such a confident girl but Sherry is making sure that she loses all her self respect and confidence and continue to save her marriage as her mother dictates …. the worst character in this play .. mom who cud not see fear and sadness in her daughter,s eyes
He is a psycho person which girl can be happy with a person like sherry
Finally someone is showing it
I really loved mindset of Raza such a neutral man who tells what is right or wrong
Every time I see this drama, I am just appalled that how the writer has perfectly portrayed this intricate abuse! I have lived this life!! Lies, deception, manipulation, sadism….. and much more 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻to the writer to bring this side of abuse! And this is not only about the narcissist. It’s the whole family dynamic and the the community expectations. And I love the young sister of Alizeh💕 and not to miss the sophisticated gaslighting leading Alizeh to question herself :((
and did you noticed, how first time she said I love him was during the abuse only. The manipulation works on the victim making him/her feel that they are in love and want the person.
Every aspect of narcissist is bang on but what I have experienced in last 8 years that narcissists don't say sorry 5hat easily to convince even if it's fake
Some of the dialogues show that the drama is meant to promote FEMINISM CRAP.
1. Yh lrki itni smart hy lekin shadi sy pehly socha nhi. Shadi ko mazaq samjh lia.
2. Boss's dialogue: YH PHLY HMARI YHN PHIR APKI was absolute shit. And the heroine smiling at that was just CHEAP AND THIRD CLASS
3. "Freedom is more important . Tum shadi na karo".
What really?? Kiya bakwas hy? Freedom or shadi ka kia comparison hyn? Not all the husbands are abusive.
Sherry is wrong but alizay isn't also a white character.
@@fatemaali6379 yes my husband has never in 5 yrs of marriage accepted his mistake or said sorry
This drama is a super accurate description of abusive marriages.
Ramza's words to her mother was so true. Each words of her was based on reality
Yeah right
Yes she is the only voice of reason
True ramza sahi kehti hai ghar ko bnana sirf larki ka kaam nahi marad ka bhi itna hi kaam hai ghar sirf ourat hi nahi ujarti mard bhi ujartay hain sherry ak zehni mareez hai
yes
عورت کسی کام میں ماہر ہو نہ ہو مگر اندھا اعتماد کرنے میں بے حد ماہر ہوتی ہے
Yes 💯 true
So good to see how Sherry knows who is the softest in the family.. her mother... with her fears and traditional values...
And he can get what he wants by manipulating her
I love how subtle and slow behavours are tearing her apart... 😢
Highlight - Taming the cage Birds conversation.
Ramsa is the most sensible person in the whole house. She always spoke facts 😍
Hats off to ramza when she say apki generation ne betiyo ko aag mai phenkna hota hai....
Allah Kary iss nature ka husband kisi ki beti ko b na mily ameen
Aameen
Lekin kuchh aurate Aaj bhi aise husband ke saath rahti hai
Mje mila hai😮
Ameeeeeen
اور اس نیچر کی بیوقوف ماں بھی اللہ کسی کو نہ دے
I like Ramza's character. She is the strongest part of this drama .
اللہ کے ہر فیصلے پر مطمئن رہیں، کیوں کہ اللہ وہ نہیں دیتا، جو آپکو اچھا لگتا ہے، بلکہ اللہ وہ دیتا ہے، جو آپ کیلئے اچھا ہوتا ہے۔
I love Quran ❤❤❤❤😊
Each and every scene of this drama is based on reality
Right 100%
Epic! Such a perfect demonstration of narcissists. Both brother and sister are the same 😂
Is drame ka name hona chahye tha
"Sirf Meri Marzi" 😁🤣🤣
Oh god itni Educated ladki aur Working hone par bhi iska kaya haal bana diya....😢
aisy hi mut maar detay ha sari khoobiyooo ko nooch kar nikal detay ha
Aliza was doubting herself... But she forgot the car scene where he clearly threatened her ,made her to call them just to say sorry and also expressed that he was taking vengeance for making him wait that day!
Exactly , I was thinking the same
I too thought so. But this happens in reality too. We will know something is wrong. But will be confused. And on top of that parents always advise to tolerate and we don't have patience etc. etc...
My husband was also the same. I did everything for him to please him. He decided everything about me. Even my dressing. Still he was rude. Later I started ignoring him and I firmly stood for my rights. Then he would not talk to me for several days. That was his way to break me. I used to be broken initially. Later I learned to remain normal. I neither argued nor cried. I stopped begging for his love and attention. Then things started to get better. Now, Alhamdulillah I have no complaints about him.
Our Asian society doesn’t realize mental manipulation and mental torture is a form of abuse. Abuse isn’t solely in physical form, it can be mental, emotional, financial, as well as sexual. This drama depicts a narcissist husband who is mentally and emotionally abusing his wife for the satisfaction of his ego.
Bht sy Mard asy he Hoty hen..same my situation..
.yes right!!!
Very true
Wife should compromise
Narcissistic sherry
Natasha has portrayed her role so well. I have started hating her literally , she has aced her role
its really hurt when your own family don't understand that depression and social anxiety are real illness, and say you're just being lazy
Well said
@fahadfdstatus ik hi baat khty rhty ho.
❤❤❤❤❤❤😊😊😊😊😊🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Ye hi ho rha mere sath
This drama depicts true colour of our society where men are so self obsessed, self centered to the extent that belittling their spouse gives them pleasure and women are supposed to let them humiliate her. Perfect story script with perfect drama cast, mikaal zulfiqar did justice to his role👏
It's in every society, sadly!
@@deborahsookram7695 no, not in every society. This emotional abuse is not acceptable in every society. In countries like Pakistan, women tolerating abuse are called AZEEM AURAT. That is not the case in West, no one glorifies abuse in West
Oh finally someone brought something very needful to the screen those who don't know narc abuse and consider it love are unaware that this actually is trauma bond with the narcissist which will eventually damage the brain cause stress PTSD and the symptoms lasts quite long the blame shifting gaslighting and many more in this abuse I appreciate the writer and both the actors for writing such a needful script and amazing acting durefishan.
یا اللہ ہم سب کے حل پر رحم فرما ہم سب کی جو بھی پریشانیاں وہ دور فرما یا اللہ یہ تیرے محبوب اس مہینے میں دنیا پے ائے تھے یا اللہ ہم سب کے صغیرہ کبیرہ چھوٹے بڑے سب گناہوں کو معاف فرماتا کہ ہماری دین اور دنیا اچھے ہو جائیں امین
Omg this is so scary, how alizay is giving in to sherry’s manipulative behavior. Now she’s started seeing faults in herself, she thinks she has failed him and the relationship is suffering because of her. God this does happen in real life, a narcissist can have you wrapped around their fingers like that. 😢
Yes , this is fact in real life alsi
Yup. Gaslighting by the narc makes the victim start doubting themselves.
So true.
Gaslighting does exist and it kills
Exactly. Jo wife abuse bardasht kerti hai, usay toh khud pata bhe nahin chalta kay woh abuse horehi hai. Yahan per society ko, khas tor per maa baap ko, behn bhaiyoun ko, dostoun ko, doctors ko, sub ko mil ker aurat ki madad kerni hoti hai takay woh abuse se bahir nikal sakay aur apni zindagi dubara shuru ker sakay. Iss tarha torture hogi toh mentally unstable ho jaye gi.
Its reality.....
As per this drama A man always only wants to see her wife like being so poor and being sorry all the time. his real happiness and satisfaction level while she was saying sorry to him describes the whole story and mindset of a man.
Lol, when Natasha said they share the same soul...so true!! Both are insane and feed off each other's negativity and ego. I can't believe people like this really exist.
Even educated and independent woman have to suffer ,i had been through the same but nothing changes , its a continuous torture and you can't even get out from this trauma , never . So so much relatable
💯 I believe that's why they have shown alizeh as a strong independent educated girl... This can happen to ANYONE .
Even though we come out of it the trauma never goes away.
tu iska solution kya hai Independent larkion ko shadi nahi karne chaye
@@YuvrajNijjer they should keep their eyes open or ak bhi red flag nazar ay tu usy miss na kren due to societal pressure don't get married. At the start , sherry threw tantrums and kind of red flags actions but girl ignored at all. If u r Muslim must do istikhara divine help u will get
@@YuvrajNijjer iska solution hai ki ladko ko sahi tarike se palna chahiye. Unko kind, open aur compassionate banana chahiye.
Raza character is very sensible and acting 👏👏
Amazingly written story, screenplay. That is how life is, people gradually crush you and you start doubting yourself
I was in this situation for a long time where no self respect, dignity, not from my husband but from mother in law...later I took the toughest decision..now Alhamdullillah
ایسے ذہنی مریض کبھی ٹھیک نہیں ہوتے.😣😣😣
Mein is situation ki Ak misal hon..zanhni mareez khabhi theak nae hotay..wo theak hay or mughay cancer ho gea hay..big lesson for everyone...
Bilkul
@@umb7088Jb shadia mgrur aur dulat kay sath ho ge lalchi log
@@umb7088ALLAH PAAK aap ko sehat lambi zindagi dain ameeeen😢😢😢
دونوں بہن بھائی نفسیاتی کیس ہیں
💯 agree 😂😂
I comment here every week on how accurate this portrayal of an abusive narcissist is. Some of the textbook tactics / behaviours of my ex - feeling relief when I am sad or crying, “accusing” me of being a “feminist” or losing his temper if I said anything he perceived as “feminist”. Triangulation and giving importance to other people to feed my insecurities - Sherry does it with Natasha and my ex used some of his “female friends” and side ladies. Not relenting when I am begging for forgiveness.
So sorry you had to go through this
As well as being a Narc, the character is sadistic. Dark triad vibes. Our sick south Asian communities create such monsters, it's a cancer we have to eradicate. Wishing you the best for the future.
@@fungshui4850 thanks! I got out 6 years ago and am okay now but so agree with you. Some of it is so entrenched in our culture.
@@user-zq9bj3nk3y good for you, stay strong.
My sister said this drama matches my past relationship (engagement) and yes it does, thank god I got myself out of that
Same
Suaral susral hai ....chahay ameer hon yan garib .... similarities are there 😢😢😂😂
True
What does the fiancé find in Natasha🤦🏻♀️
Dump her!
😂😂
Her money.
Story of my life and this is exactly what I had faced. Everyone around me could sense it, except me. Currently, I am a patient of Clinical depression, have survived 5 panic attacks in a day, and have been admitted to CCU for a good 3 days. All because of severe narcissism I faced.
Sorry to hear about what you went through. Focus on your life and health.
😢😢😢ALLAH PAAK aap ko theek kr dain ameeen😭😭😭
may Allah give you good health and make us stronge ameen❤️
ALLAH PAK aapko achchi health de aap Durood Ibrahim padhe mujhe bhi bohot sukoon mila h
Are you still living in your toxic relationship
Aik toxic partner kese apko apni identity question karne par majboor kr deta hai alizey is the correct example of it. A wrong partner can literally destroy you in way even you won’t realize.
ایسے بددماغ اور بد اخلاق لوگوں سے اللہ بچائے
Living with naracciest person like Sharry and Natasha is hell , thoughts freezes and end up in suicide 😢
Hmmm
Really no one can live with people like sherry and natasha both are psycho
pata to shadi ke baad hi chalega pehle to acha he lag raha hota hai Shaadi is like lottery😅
Perfect example of Stockholm syndrome where victim falls in a neverending cycle of love and hate towards abuser.
You don't need a villain in this drama. The hero is the villain.
Exceptional master piece..after a long time ...iam hooked to this drama..at times it gives goosebumps and at times give tears..
سب تو نہیں مگر کچھ حضرات کو بیوی کو دبا کر رکھنے کا شوق ہوتا ہے ان سے بااعتماد بیوی برداشت نہیں ہوتی
Who agree " Namaz is permanent solution of all the problems " ❤❤❤
Then go n pray Namaz y u here..
What has this got to do with the drama
Namaz padho youtube q dekhre
You are not even Muslim just here for likes shame on you
@@almasgazali8824good reply
Raza andha hy kia 😂 why is he tolerating Natasha churail 😂
😂😂😂
یہ ہمارے معاشرے کاالمیہ ہے کہ ہمارے ماں باپ بیٹیوں کی شادی کے بعد خوف زدہ ہو جاتے ہیں اور ہر حال میں بیٹیوں کو ہی دباتے ہیں اکثر لڑکیوں کی پوری شخصیت برباد ہو جاتی ہے اپنا گھر بچاتے بچاتے 😢
That's true❤❤
Allah PAK sb betiyun ka Naseeb acha Farmyan Ameen SM Ameen Ya Rabul Ameen
Right
Bilkul sahi kaha
You r right
کفار اور مشرکین کو کتنا ہی ناگوار کیوں نہ ہو
محمدﷺ وہ ہیں جن کی تعریف کر دے گئی ہے
mra hazoor ki koi masal nahi ati shan iam proud of you mazrat muhammad i love yoou hazrat muhammad aww
Every girl should have a sister like ramza
Yes i have
Damn the gaslighting is on point. A narcissist can never ever be pleased, it's never enough.
There is so much to learn from this drama . So many theories , social issue, mental health, entrepreneurship, sensitivity and insentivity, personal and professional dealings, commitments, social and professional life, practicality and idealism and so many things to explore ...
So good and damn natural acting by dur e fishan 💕 as wife she became attached with sherry now and she is getting emotional for him acted so well 👌 this is how ladies tolerate such kind of mentally retard men's due to certain attachment sometimes their emotional sometimes for kids
Sometimes for lifetime ...
True❤
yaa I felt so relatable when she said I love him when it was the peak of abuse. Thats how manipulation works on victim.
@@tomatotutor369 that's the way actually narc leads partner
A woman gives her all to the man she marries, while the man is never emotionally connected to her.
No only narrssist not connected
😢
So true
Yrr... Who the hell told this to you.... Not every man is like this.. And woman of today's time is impatient
Every episode of this drama amazes me it’s so true to life showing the real tortured lives of women married to narcissists.
And what amazes me is that this means it’s all very very common
The scene when alizay says sorry to sherry and he also reply sorry Ohh my eyes filled with tears but that's true sherry is narcissistic person because husband this behaviour is not acceptable for a girl and drama story is just 💗💗💗 can't miss 1 second scene ❤
❤❤❤Yas
Ramza is so matured n Understanding
Mikaal doing his role perfectly 😊
The transition from super strong amd super confident, having clear and intact opinions and understanding on everything to self doubting and getting weak, confuused personality..... exactly what happens to the victims of the narcissistic toxic abuse...very precisely shown
If a educated independent girl like Alizey can behave like this than what to say
Education aur dil alag cheezay hai insaan muhabat mai majboor ho jaata hai khas tor say jab muhabat shohar say ho
Our society ruined the educated girl ..
But she has to save her home too
Every eastern married girl do the same
Education b humri zindhi k yae issue kbi solve ni kr pati hum educated girls ko limit set kerwai jati hum tabha ho jati hum
Ramsa kitni mature hain🤍
My sis went through the same thing ..she got partner like him who tortured her mentally for Three years.. finally my sister took divorce..now she is in peace and Happy
Is divorce best solution
mujy tu ziyada tar mard aisy hi nazar aaatay hai mashary me
I can't believe Alizeh is mishandling her situation. She herself is a confident motivational speaker.
Really don’t understand why do girls parents feel so weak n low
Becoz of society yakk
Too scarrd to get the label of divorce
Alizey is not in love with sherry. Sherry has trapped her so bad that she thinks she is in love with her. Typical manipulative, toxic behaviour from a narcissist. What he does to alizey after he commits a mistake is called gaslighting (becomes a victim and puts the blame on wife instead of accepting mistake). Alizey's mother is feeding sherry making him even more powerful
Exactly!
So true
Very true, a typical narcissistic behaviour !
exactly, this is what I noticed the most, she said i love him only after the abuse, that shows how manipulation works.
Writter deserves an award❤
writter ny kesy aik aik word mery husband ka likh diya
@@muhammadasjad7401 ku k ye hr ghar ki kahani hy
That's how manipulative people make you think that it's all your fault and make you feel guilty.
اس سے فرق نہیں پڑتا کہ آپ کتنے قیمتئ ،کتنے قابل اور کتنے اہم ھیں
اگر آپ نا قدروں کے ہا تھ لگے ہوئے ہیں تو آپ بیکار ہیں
Thats why arrange marriages are scary🙄
This guy sherry is sick and irritating guy i don't think any woman can be happy with him
U have not seen horrible love marriages
sabhi lovers husband hai bante hai Raat gayi baat gayi😊
And I find marriage scary.
You never know. A narcissist person never show his true color until he gets married. Once you fall into a trap of marriage you get to see the real character of that person. No matter whether its a love or arrange marriage.
This drama become interesting day by day❤
My daughter was a chemical engineer nd her husband did the same. He was a narcesist she divorced but still cant find herself he took away all her self respect nd confidence she now works as a teacher. She was a topper in engineering
Such a true story...my sister is alizy and I was always talking like ramza lafz ba lafz.but my mom did what her mom is doing and she is still suffering from 22 years ..if someone is in such situations please get divorced as soon as possible 🙏
Oh seriously
And in other people's eyes, she is happily married!
Yes this is real.I saw this situation.
It’s sad. Why don’t you help her get out?
@@seeya7610 she is in same situation like alizay...phir wo akdam acha ban jata he and our parents think that everything will be fine
It always seems to me that the people who haven't seen or lived through such abuse think all these are cute little tantrums that Sherry is throwing. It's so toxic and so harmful, and only gets worse with time
Very true
And they try to sound fair by blaming both partners. Husbnd did this but wife also did that. But they don't realize that wife only reacts to what husbnd did.
QQ QQ q
💯
Exactly...my sister is going through this from las 22 years and my family always say sab theek ho jay ga but ya kabi theek ni hota
I feel bad for Natasha’s boyfriend why he’s trying to destroy his life
This guy with whom natasha is going to get married is such a sensible guy also very understanding person he is trying to make natasha understand things but she is so stubborn she does not want to listen to anyone as it hurts ger ego
What a story ! Acting, direction ,lighting and casting pair up the two leading Mikaal and Durefishan both are outstanding . Specially Mikaal he has actually justified his role with pure dignity , honesty and dedication. Every second he just play extraordinary . Best wishes the whole team to create this exceptional drama..
❤نہ حریف جاں نہ شریک غم شب انتظار کوئی تو ہو
کسے بزم شوق میں لائیں ہم دل بے قرار کوئی تو ہو 😔
Crying after watching this episode... seriously felt scare for her...Parents should have to understand
Natash looks jealous for every one . She needs to eat something sweet 😅
Such an intense drama ❤ cant skip a single second
It is very irritating and boring drama so what if it has a good cast
Yass ❤❤ ❤
I love this drama ❤.
Only Aleezay's sister understands Sherry
I go through this and every time I watch this drama it reminds me that time
Mikaal sir outstanding performance ❤❤
How Sherry became victim typical of Narcs they do wrong n become victim , they like actual victims to say sorry they get Supply out of it., Amazing drama
Ase relationship ko nibhana n is se nikalna dono aik azab hai I can feel it
We love Allah We love Hazrat Muhammad SAWW
مُحمّد صلّی اللّٰہ علیہ واٰلہ وسلّم♥
Yes but why are you putting this here? Inappropriate.
This drama is so good and so mentally taxing at the same time
Shadi k bad aurat APNA Ghar bachane k Liye compromise Karti hai bas 😢😢😢
Yaha bi orat he ha jo gr kharab karti ha
Right
Only Jaisay Apki Marzi Drama Lovers Can Feel The Happiness Of Tuesday And Wednesday Night❤
Natasha is so elite that she delivers her dialogue
I love alizais confidence