Thank you guys for watching!!!♥️ so thankful to have a community of people that we can share our life with & learn from. If you guys have any advice for me I would really appreciate it🙏🏼
Talia it’s okay to feel the way you do. I would say follow your gut and your heart it prompts you for a reason 🙏🏼❤️give yourself time and you’ll figure it out.
It is okay tals ❤️ it's all new for youu give yourself little moree time you are stronger than you know you will sort thing's out and we all are your family 😇 so don't feel sad aur lonely everyone is with youu both, our love and blessings are always with youu tals and Rog ❤️ More power to youu 😘
Give it some time . It’s New place , new environment, new adventure but yet so far from family . I feel that if your family were to live closer you would be happier or rather look as happy as you were in vegas . You don’t this stay positive, big things are yet to come in new port .
Answer is : Family!! That’s what you’re missing and it’s normal to feel like that. I moved from NY to SC but all my family did too, my sisters and parents so I felt at home from day 1. I hope you feel better soon, love your videos ❤️
I moved away from home a few years ago and I agree with Roger, you need to find your spots! Find the coffee shop, hair spot, nail spot, etc. and you will feel like it slowly is becoming home…. But it will take a while! At least a year or two
Keep in mind everything you have is new furniture wise and all of your accents personalize it with pictures so that you feel like you're home put your family up on the walls make it personal even if you don't want us to see your personal life you have to put personal stuff up for you put stuff out that has sentimental value to you stuff that regello has given you. I agree with your husband find the spots here in town where you can do your nails and do your hair and find your favorite coffee shop and stay home on the weekends you can't make this home if you're always running away from it. Give yourself a regular every weekly thing that you two do together doesn't have to be on a weekend but do something just the two of you one day a week that you do the same thing every time and with that consistency it will make it feel more like home because you've made an appointment with yourself.
Everything is still new, you need to give yourselves time to get into a routine. Of course you will miss things but things will change before you know. Speaking from a military spouse who was# forced to move every 4 years…it takes time.
I just moved out of Orange County to the IE not even a state away but I feel like I did 🤣and live in a beautiful home I don’t regret it it’s been awesome but I feel the way you do. We are homesick because we left our comfort zone, the only thing we knew and grew up in. I’ve been honestly getting better but I still get anxiety about it sometimes . It’s like Roger said giving it time finding our new favorite spots getting into new routines. Makings friends 🤍😊. Good luck to us 🥂
Talia, I am a verbal processor and always need to voice every thought and feeling I’m having whether it’s to vent or get my husband’s thoughts and insight. I did want to remind you of the video that you all did when you revealed your move and how you felt that this was a gift from God and you felt all the things line up according to his plan. I think you even mentioned spending time in your devotional and got just so many confirmations those weeks prior. Don’t forget that, Talia. I can empathize with your feelings 100%. I would continue to encourage you to pray about God revealing the source of your feelings and also for you heart to be lined up with his will and his plan to bring y’all to Newport. Lastly, God does amazing work in the discomfort. I feel like you are on a journey to deeper discovery. ❤️❤️
I think it’s always hard moving to a new place! I felt the same after moving to a new city in May 2021. It’s been a year now and I absolutely love it! Give it time and Roger is right- find your hair place, nail place, favorite coffee shop, boutique, etc. 😊
I feel this! My wife and I moved to Florida from NJ since both our careers let us relocate and man what a roller coaster it all was. She ended up missing her friends, parents and family. I didn’t understand since we were close to the beach and that was her dream home. When we got pregnant she wanted to come back to NJ. Now back in NJ, she’s happier and regrets moving to Florida. Regrets are terrible and I’m happier now in dirty Jersey as well.
You are homesick! It's okay, after a few years you won't be able to remember why u missed Vegas. Invite your family over to visit! It will make u feel better. 💕
It is still new. Give it time. Take time to enjoy your local area. Walk and bike as much as you can. Find your local hot spots You will be so happy one you set down roots.
You’re just homesick talia. Moving is always hard, and finding new friends and connections takes time. What your feeling about Vegas is probably just homesick
I say do a stay-cation at your new place. Explore what is going on that weekend or for the next couple of weekends. Go to different events for the month and explore. It will take some time. Finding a new nail place or hair salon like your hubby said is a good idea. Finding your routine will eventually come and you will enjoy your new place even more. I've moved every 3-4 yrs because my hubby is in the military and each place I make it a new adventure and it works out. :)
I was born & raised in Reno, NV (mini Vegas). I moved to the Dallas-Fort Worth area, during the pandemic. That was a huge curve ball! Leaving the mountains for FLAT land, leaving the snow for tornado alley, was a huge change all around. But there was so much positive things about the move like it is for you, I didn’t feel homesick but more so “did we make the right decision?” It was when I looked at my husband & kids, home is literally where they are. Yes, there are our extended immediate family, but your own is a different feeling. Y’all are a humble couple. Not many can make it back to their home town once a year, yet alone every weekend. So, know that there is always that option for y’all. But I say keep pushing for that new vibe, new scenery, just look next to you for that “home” feeling.
Vegas was your comfort zone and now you’re in a new environment so don’t feel bad about it, it’s just change babe, trust your process don’t think too much on it and just let everything flow and you’ll see everything will fall into place. ☮️
Raised in San Diego my whole childhood and now I live in Vegas since 95. Vegas is my home and I love Vegas. Raised my 4 kids here and we are doing just fine. I’m happy here. I love how everything here in Vegas is close and I don’t have to drive in traffic for hrs trying to get 1 mile. Both states have their advantages. It’s what we prefer. Love both states but won’t be leaving Vegas anytime soon. Thanks for your vids ✌🏽
I think it is normal to miss Vegas because you lived there so many years since you were a lil baby. You just moved in so give time to warm up to the home and make new friends there ! It will help a lot too
This is regular feeling when i first moved from my home state i felt the exact same way. Now years later I’m so glad I didn’t let my cravings drive me back. The best thing to do is find your PLACES.
Talia, i know moving to a new place can be hard. Just give it time. Think of it as a new adventure and you can just go out to new places, meet new people. Make new memories. Your family is only a phone call away!!!😀💜
You’re just home sick. When I moved to a new state, the whole year was emotional to me. When I went back to visit a year later, I realized I made the right move. I had to realize the the growth opportunities that were in front of me and not be afraid to evolve in a new place. You’ll get there, don’t worry. Just learn and take in this whole experience
Home is home and you can’t beat that feeling and of course family and childhood friends. Just wait until you have kids. Being close to family is so important. I’ve lost so many mom friends who were here from out of state and they all eventually moved back home with their kids to be near family.
I've been going to Orange County since I was 13, I'm 26 now.. I was lucky enough to live there for almost 2 years but it was just too expensive and my family is in PA, so thats where I am now & I literally think about CA everyday, you guys are soooo lucky to live where you do, & be able to afford it. Its beautiful there, the weather is beyond perfect, oh & don't get me started on In-n-Out... the things I would do for a double double.😩 Be happy Talia!! You're so lucky!!
She has all her family and friends in Vegas that’s probably what it is. I hope you find your happy medium. This is normal. I moved from New York to Las Vegas at 17 years old by myself so I completely understand what you are feeling! LOVE you two & this channel♥️ KEEP THE BEARD! 😎
Def family. I was happier when I study abroad in London looking at photos but I was actually depressed bc my family gave me the support I never knew I needed when I need it most
I think I understand where you’re coming from Tals. It’s definitely hard adjusting to a new place, and making it feel like home. But I do agree with Rog, I do think you need to make it YOUR home and find places that you enjoy going to. Start building your daily routine, and I’m sure you’ll get out of those thoughts 💕 definitely don’t regret moving to a new place, it’s always a nice experience. Love you guys!
Totally feel you Tals! it's always bittersweet to leave behind a place or chapter of your life. A lot of photos and videos are probably of your best memories in Vegas so of course you'll look back fondly and really miss the old, happy days. You just gotta make some new happy memories in Newport and in your beautiful new house. Do a weekend exploring a nearby city or going back to Vegas and then a weekend in Newport so there's a good balance :)
I felt the same way moving from Dallas to Irvine. I think it’s hard at first because you want to do everything that California has to offer. Over time, when that excitement settles down you begin to enjoy the area that you’re in and don’t feel the need to do everything all at once and your life begins to slow down and you can begin to enjoy the little things around you.
Your feelings are so valid girl. Give yourself time and grace through navigating all these emotions that come with change 💞 it's so hard to figure feelings out in the moment, I find that I personally need time after a big change :) hope that helps
When she said; 'her time here', that was a big clue that she doesn't feel a sense of permanence, yet. I think your right, she needs to find her favorite spots and spots with you included. Take care both of you.
You seemed much happier before Talia in Vegas. Change is hard, just process the change and the void that you're feeling xo So glad you guys have each other XOXO I look up to you both
I am currently in the same position as you Talia. I just moved from New Jersey to Florida almost 2 months ago and until now I still don’t feel like Florida is my new residence as I don’t have any friends here yet, no favorite nail salon yet or hair salon or a job yet…i also left behind my entire family behind in NJ and when u go back to visit I feel so happy but i also do say why did i even come back to visit. I do love Florida but as of now, Florida feels like a long vacation to me but it’s actually my new reality. This has been the biggest transition for me and I think it can take between 6 months to 1 year to be fully adjusted here in Florida.
My mom passed unexpectedly April 2020 we had it in works to move to Ga we moved Nov 2020 from ks born n raised been other places tho over years .. the whole year I had family nonstop n friends come in n visit 2021 I went into a low place like roger my husband was like I’m so happy here we arnt going back !!! I’m 50/50 but the reason is only not the place but the family (and my mom!) which she’s no longer their “home” so I have mixed emotions hard to get adjusted to new place I feel u on top of a passing !! But best thing I’ve done to help is what roger is suggesting get in with community!! Get a local church get diff friends there etc and have family n friends come to u more n visit be independent n create ur own space n thrive!!you guys got this!!💕
It could be just the fact that it’s different. It’s always exciting to open up a brew chapter of your life, but that doesn’t mean you won’t miss the old one, even if the new chapter is just as good if not better. When we moved, we only moved to a new city nearby, so we still drive by our old house sometimes, but there are days when I feel like I was just as happy there as I am where we are currently. Which is true, I had everything I needed and was content!! It sounds like a similar thing is happening with you! You’ll figure it out, but every change takes time to just get used to. 💖
I recently moved from Arizona to France with my husband because he’s French. Every one tells me how lucky I am to move to France & I agree because it’s a beautiful country, but I’m super far from home. I have to learn a new language & culture. Maybe in the next few years we’ll move back, but for the meantime I have to make it my home and to not put to much pressure on myself adjusting to my new home. Take care! & you got this! 💕
This is still brand new. First get to know your community, make some friends, and then like Roger said, find your local spots that you love for hair, nails, etc. it will start feeling more like home.
I think it’s honestly because in Vegas, you had your family closer to you there. Newport, you’re away from your family. I’m so much happier in Hawaii with my family and as soon as I come back to the east coast and face my reality.. I fall into a little bit of depression. I feel like it’s the same for you. You just miss your family ❤️ everything is still so brand new to you and I feel like Vegas is all you knew. So it’ll take time!
I’ve moved quite a lot through out my life. Never far but I have always found that the first year after moving is tough. That first year just feels off. It takes time for the new house to actually feel like home and to find your new daily routine. If you think about it your home is your foundation and your safe space. So when you change that it can feel off balance because it feels like you don’t have your safe place to go to. See how you feel in a year! Get through that initial adjustment period!
From someone who spent 15 years moving all over the country. It’s your family you miss, and the comforts of home! I think Roger is right, when you find your places and your people there that feeling will be a little more bearable.
I FEEL YOU!! So much I moved from Texas to Virginia. Because I got engaged! I’m still trying to get used to VA. Atm I’m super homesick. But I definitely felt happier in Texas I was there my WHOLE life 26 years! But I’m sure I’ll get used to my new life.
You know every new beginnig is exciting... after this you just experience the daily life. Your old life was comfortable because you were rooted there. You need time to make your home to your new home... what do you miss in Vegas that you can find in Newport, as well? The other thing is: there is a difference between Vegas and Newport and maybe you are will discover something new that you couldn't imagine that it exists and will fall in love in it and your regrets stop. Sorry if my English isn't the best. Much love for u 😘❤
Your feelings of memories are attached to Vegas but you have not given yourself time to be there. Home is home but remember home is where you make it. Have memories is ok but dont let it blind you for the future.
I’m a creature of habit so I understand, but what helps me is exploring and making new memories where you are at. Like Roger said once you find your places and routines in Newport, it will start to feel like home sweet home #Newbeginnings
It sounds like you miss Vegas and you had happy memories there and were happy there. However you are also making new memories and are also happy in new port. Long story short you could be missing your old life which is normal doesn’t necessarily mean you need to go back which can make you feel confused. Ultimately follow your heart. Have a great day Scott fam. ❤️
Hey Talia, I understand how your feel and I think it just comes down to a comfort thing. When I moved two hours away from my home to go to college, it took me time to adjust and feel normal. It just takes time and exploring your new city helps with feeling more comfortable! Best of luck, sending love!
I moved about 1,000 miles from home. It’s taken over two years for me to find my place in my new home. My sister told me when I moved it takes about two years to find your place, find your people and feel like you are home. Give yourself time. It will feel like home :)
We cooked that meal this past week it was so good!!! Family is key! We live 1.5 hours away from family and it’s great. But also remember to make yourself happy as well! Give Newport a chance! 💕💕
Please listen to each other,please hear each other,please be honest with each other. Figure it out with open minds together. You two are awesome and strong together
It’s a change ! Change is hard, be nicer to yourself. Maybe put more pictures of family up, do things that make your home your sanctuary. Love you guys!
We moved to North County San Diego, away from family. For higher quality of life and beaches and weather. I was like Roger 1000% all in no regrets no looking back. It took my wife and kids a year; everything Talia said they said but now we regret nothing and love every minute here.
It's sounds like you probably miss family. maybe once your family moves to New Port, you might feel a little more at home. But I get it, whenever my husband and I drive to my old neighborhood, I get all in the feels and the memories start to flood in. And for Roger, my husband also had patchy spots when he was first was growing his beard out. My brother in-law told him to try Rogaine (men's hair loss treatment) because he had the same problem. And it actually worked!
You were surrounded by family and friends in Vegas. Maybe your mom and sisters can come for a visit. Rogers dad needs to come for a visit as well. You going out on weekends is a great way to meet new people. Maybe you and Roger need some time together away from big crowds. Rent a boat and take a picnic. Praying for you guys. I think it is completely normal to feel this way. Don’t dwell or read into it. Sending lots of love from Texas !
I moved from Vegas to Orange County, CA in April 2021. I’m also away from my family and friends! But honestly, even though it can be REALLY hard sometimes, I don’t regret it one bit. Give it a year. Make friends, get yourselves out and about and doing new things. The opportunity you have is SO worth it. Always here if you need a friend who understands! ✨💕
Separation. Anxiety. Celebrating your new environment does not mean that you can’t hold onto or “let go” of all the fond memories of Vegas! Allow yourself time to acclimate to Newport. Maybe it’s just for a season, maybe it forever… Either way both sides offer you so much beauty and adventure! ❤️🥰😍❤️
Uuuugh sis I share the same struggle with you. Home is home. And there’s that sense of feeling you just can’t get from anywhere else. I’ve lived away from home over 7yrs now and everytime I go back home to visit, leaving never gets easier. It’s not like we regret it, there’s just never going to be another place that’ll fulfill that sense of feeling of being home. And the THOUGHTS ugh! It’s like so we move back or do we stay… that’s the constant debate for me right now. Stay or leave. And I’ve come to the conclusion where I just need to follow my heart. I hope you do the same as well ❤️
My husband and I moved to NYC 9 months ago and I thought I hated it but it’s because we didn’t take time to explore the city. Once we did that, everything changed and we are both so happy.
I’ve had two major moves in my life. I was never really home sick, but it does take time to adjust to a new place and for it to become home. Leaving every weekend doesn’t help lol!
Change is hard and the adjustment can take time. My husband is the Air Force and we move a lot but that doesn’t change the fact that it takes time. We we’re stationed at Nellis afb in Vegas for almost 8 years so living there makes it hard to adjust everywhere else because their is something going on all the time. Time is what you need, good luck.
I totally get it!!! When I was 8 I was forced to move to a whole new bigger town. I left all my friends my home and started my life in a new place. Hardest part and to this day (a.k.a 11 yrs later) is that I miss what I thought was the best time of my life and all those that were so close to me. Especially starting from the very beginning, meeting new people, making new friends, and getting to know new places. Let me tell you guys, you will always miss your old home since that will always be a part of your life and your memories. But on the right side, you will soon love many things of your new home.
The past will always seem better when you look back. Live in the moment and visit your family often. Your future happiness can't happen unless you move forward. You will find your way.
Talia you should go out and explore Newport and give it a chance. You will get to like it more after a couple of months. You also missing your family in Vegas.🙂
I know exactly how you feel. I felt lost and depressed when I moved to ATL. It took me two years to feel like I was home. My family is still back home and bonus...I see my hairdresser at the same time!! I love my hairdresser ❤
Just give it a chance, this happens to everyone, me and my girlfriend bought a home away from our hometown and we missed it for months until we started finding good spots and getting used to the new town and now we love it and now we I go visit family I miss my home.
We moved to LA four years ago and while I’ve gotten used to it, it still doesn’t “feel like home”… it’s going to take some time to figure out if you want to be here or not. My wife & I have already decided we’re going to move back home (TX) next year but we won’t regret the five years we spent here.
I feel you! We just moved over 1000 miles away from home and everything we've ever known about 2 months ago. There's some growing pains for sure but trying to give it time and grace and trust the universe! Homesickness sucks and I feel you ❤️
Agree with all the comments that it takes time. I’d also say you haven’t established your friendships and community that make it feel like “home” but you soon will. You may also be “idealizing” the memories of Vegas and forgetting the hard parts.
Honestly it’s the routine and family. Have a make a new routine and make an effort to explore your city. You’ll get there with time. I moved out two years ago and I’m finally feeling my stride.
I love the honesty in this video. I’m confused. I thought this is a house y’all bought. I guess I missed it. Good job on being honest even when it seems confusing. I love watching y’all!!!
If you want to get to know the area try tram hopping for one day. We have a house in Dana Point and spent a day on the trams going from one city to the next. Check the internet for all the beach city trams.
It's just nostalgia. You haven't fully acclimated yet. You'll get there. Just keep focusing on creating new memories there and being grateful in the present. ❤
As U said Url are getting family that gonna be. Moving close by soon That will make a difference Give it some time Nd Ull be loving it God Bless Url Always 🇿🇦💖🇿🇦
Such a beautiful couple!! Roger keep the beard....Talia it's going to take time to completely feel comfortable in your new home...just give it time and stay open minded to your new life, don't compare NP to LV because it's not ever going to be the same find things to do at NP and start making your new memories and when you least expect it you will be just as happy or happier...enjoy!
I loved this style video. Nice and casual, real (not that you guys aren’t otherwise). It felt like a look inside your relationship dynamic and it was fun to watch :) Glad you’re feeling better Roger x
Lived in California several different times (San Diego, Carlsbad and Oceanside) and the weather is unbeatable but California is the worst. I vote Vegas. Plus home is a real thing.
I can relate I moved here from Colorado and I’m the beginning I wanted to go back. Your homesick your used to being close to your family friends and used to getting up and your family being close. I promise just get out get to know California your not used to being by the water. You’ll get there especially when they move closer.
You need to give it some time to make memories maybe figure out what you want...Seems like Roger is more laid back and chill...He is obviously ready to start a family.
It always takes time to adjust! Every time I’ve moved I felt the same. You might just be craving a community and friends. If you find a dance community you might feel different 💃🏻 :)
I vote to keep the beard! Also I think once Talia finds a place for all of her favorite places like when she was in vegas itll feel more homey. I'm in the same boat and i only moved away 40 minutes from where I grew up and was raised most of my life. I want to go back too lol but im glad youre making the most of it and it sounds like youre enjoying yourselves!
Thank you guys for watching!!!♥️ so thankful to have a community of people that we can share our life with & learn from. If you guys have any advice for me I would really appreciate it🙏🏼
Talia it’s okay to feel the way you do. I would say follow your gut and your heart it prompts you for a reason 🙏🏼❤️give yourself time and you’ll figure it out.
Kepp it!
It is okay tals ❤️ it's all new for youu give yourself little moree time you are stronger than you know you will sort thing's out and we all are your family 😇 so don't feel sad aur lonely everyone is with youu both, our love and blessings are always with youu tals and Rog ❤️
More power to youu 😘
She misses her family….I’m Latina and I’m the same❤️
Give it some time . It’s New place , new environment, new adventure but yet so far from family . I feel that if your family were to live closer you would be happier or rather look as happy as you were in vegas . You don’t this stay positive, big things are yet to come in new port .
Answer is : Family!! That’s what you’re missing and it’s normal to feel like that. I moved from NY to SC but all my family did too, my sisters and parents so I felt at home from day 1. I hope you feel better soon, love your videos ❤️
Do you like living in SC? My family loves it and wants to move there but I never been there....
Your family is there. That’s why! Family always makes you happier. Maybe.
I moved away from home a few years ago and I agree with Roger, you need to find your spots! Find the coffee shop, hair spot, nail spot, etc. and you will feel like it slowly is becoming home…. But it will take a while! At least a year or two
Keep in mind everything you have is new furniture wise and all of your accents personalize it with pictures so that you feel like you're home put your family up on the walls make it personal even if you don't want us to see your personal life you have to put personal stuff up for you put stuff out that has sentimental value to you stuff that regello has given you.
I agree with your husband find the spots here in town where you can do your nails and do your hair and find your favorite coffee shop and stay home on the weekends you can't make this home if you're always running away from it.
Give yourself a regular every weekly thing that you two do together doesn't have to be on a weekend but do something just the two of you one day a week that you do the same thing every time and with that consistency it will make it feel more like home because you've made an appointment with yourself.
Everything is still new, you need to give yourselves time to get into a routine. Of course you will miss things but things will change before you know. Speaking from a military spouse who was# forced to move every 4 years…it takes time.
I think this is a very good answer! Things take time to get used to :)
yes mam I agree :)
This comment!! Yes!!
I love Talias honesty in this video. Thank you both for sharing and exploring your feelings of your new life with us!
I love you both!!! but I love that Roger is totally standing strong and being comforting and loving but still standing his ground
I just moved out of Orange County to the IE not even a state away but I feel like I did 🤣and live in a beautiful home I don’t regret it it’s been awesome but I feel the way you do. We are homesick because we left our comfort zone, the only thing we knew and grew up in. I’ve been honestly getting better but I still get anxiety about it sometimes . It’s like Roger said giving it time finding our new favorite spots getting into new routines. Makings friends 🤍😊. Good luck to us 🥂
Talia, I am a verbal processor and always need to voice every thought and feeling I’m having whether it’s to vent or get my husband’s thoughts and insight. I did want to remind you of the video that you all did when you revealed your move and how you felt that this was a gift from God and you felt all the things line up according to his plan. I think you even mentioned spending time in your devotional and got just so many confirmations those weeks prior. Don’t forget that, Talia. I can empathize with your feelings 100%. I would continue to encourage you to pray about God revealing the source of your feelings and also for you heart to be lined up with his will and his plan to bring y’all to Newport. Lastly, God does amazing work in the discomfort. I feel like you are on a journey to deeper discovery. ❤️❤️
I think it’s always hard moving to a new place! I felt the same after moving to a new city in May 2021. It’s been a year now and I absolutely love it! Give it time and Roger is right- find your hair place, nail place, favorite coffee shop, boutique, etc. 😊
I feel this! My wife and I moved to Florida from NJ since both our careers let us relocate and man what a roller coaster it all was. She ended up missing her friends, parents and family. I didn’t understand since we were close to the beach and that was her dream home. When we got pregnant she wanted to come back to NJ. Now back in NJ, she’s happier and regrets moving to Florida. Regrets are terrible and I’m happier now in dirty Jersey as well.
You are homesick! It's okay, after a few years you won't be able to remember why u missed Vegas. Invite your family over to visit! It will make u feel better. 💕
It is still new. Give it time. Take time to enjoy your local area. Walk and bike as much as you can. Find your local hot spots You will be so happy one you set down roots.
Talia love your free spirit always full of laughter and love .🥰 Making the best. Out of life always dancing just full of life😇 God bless you both....
You’re just homesick talia. Moving is always hard, and finding new friends and connections takes time. What your feeling about Vegas is probably just homesick
I’m from Hawaii & moved to Vegas, honestly I’m so much happier in Vegas & I don’t know what it is about Vegas but it just makes me happy to be here!
I say do a stay-cation at your new place. Explore what is going on that weekend or for the next couple of weekends. Go to different events for the month and explore. It will take some time. Finding a new nail place or hair salon like your hubby said is a good idea. Finding your routine will eventually come and you will enjoy your new place even more. I've moved every 3-4 yrs because my hubby is in the military and each place I make it a new adventure and it works out. :)
I was born & raised in Reno, NV (mini Vegas). I moved to the Dallas-Fort Worth area, during the pandemic. That was a huge curve ball! Leaving the mountains for FLAT land, leaving the snow for tornado alley, was a huge change all around. But there was so much positive things about the move like it is for you, I didn’t feel homesick but more so “did we make the right decision?” It was when I looked at my husband & kids, home is literally where they are. Yes, there are our extended immediate family, but your own is a different feeling.
Y’all are a humble couple. Not many can make it back to their home town once a year, yet alone every weekend. So, know that there is always that option for y’all. But I say keep pushing for that new vibe, new scenery, just look next to you for that “home” feeling.
Vegas was your comfort zone and now you’re in a new environment so don’t feel bad about it, it’s just change babe, trust your process don’t think too much on it and just let everything flow and you’ll see everything will fall into place. ☮️
Raised in San Diego my whole childhood and now I live in Vegas since 95. Vegas is my home and I love Vegas. Raised my 4 kids here and we are doing just fine. I’m happy here. I love how everything here in Vegas is close and I don’t have to drive in traffic for hrs trying to get 1 mile. Both states have their advantages. It’s what we prefer. Love both states but won’t be leaving Vegas anytime soon. Thanks for your vids ✌🏽
I think it is normal to miss Vegas because you lived there so many years since you were a lil baby. You just moved in so give time to warm up to the home and make new friends there ! It will help a lot too
This is regular feeling when i first moved from my home state i felt the exact same way. Now years later I’m so glad I didn’t let my cravings drive me back. The best thing to do is find your PLACES.
Talia, i know moving to a new place can be hard. Just give it time. Think of it as a new adventure and you can just go out to new places, meet new people. Make new memories. Your family is only a phone call away!!!😀💜
You’re just home sick. When I moved to a new state, the whole year was emotional to me. When I went back to visit a year later, I realized I made the right move. I had to realize the the growth opportunities that were in front of me and not be afraid to evolve in a new place. You’ll get there, don’t worry. Just learn and take in this whole experience
You have lots of happy memories elsewhere, over time you'll create great memories where you are.thsn it will fell more homey xx
Home is home and you can’t beat that feeling and of course family and childhood friends. Just wait until you have kids. Being close to family is so important. I’ve lost so many mom friends who were here from out of state and they all eventually moved back home with their kids to be near family.
I've been going to Orange County since I was 13, I'm 26 now.. I was lucky enough to live there for almost 2 years but it was just too expensive and my family is in PA, so thats where I am now & I literally think about CA everyday, you guys are soooo lucky to live where you do, & be able to afford it. Its beautiful there, the weather is beyond perfect, oh & don't get me started on In-n-Out... the things I would do for a double double.😩 Be happy Talia!! You're so lucky!!
She has all her family and friends in Vegas that’s probably what it is. I hope you find your happy medium. This is normal. I moved from New York to Las Vegas at 17 years old by myself so I completely understand what you are feeling! LOVE you two & this channel♥️
KEEP THE BEARD! 😎
Def family. I was happier when I study abroad in London looking at photos but I was actually depressed bc my family gave me the support I never knew I needed when I need it most
I think I understand where you’re coming from Tals. It’s definitely hard adjusting to a new place, and making it feel like home. But I do agree with Rog, I do think you need to make it YOUR home and find places that you enjoy going to. Start building your daily routine, and I’m sure you’ll get out of those thoughts 💕 definitely don’t regret moving to a new place, it’s always a nice experience. Love you guys!
Totally feel you Tals! it's always bittersweet to leave behind a place or chapter of your life. A lot of photos and videos are probably of your best memories in Vegas so of course you'll look back fondly and really miss the old, happy days. You just gotta make some new happy memories in Newport and in your beautiful new house. Do a weekend exploring a nearby city or going back to Vegas and then a weekend in Newport so there's a good balance :)
I felt the same way moving from Dallas to Irvine. I think it’s hard at first because you want to do everything that California has to offer. Over time, when that excitement settles down you begin to enjoy the area that you’re in and don’t feel the need to do everything all at once and your life begins to slow down and you can begin to enjoy the little things around you.
Your feelings are so valid girl. Give yourself time and grace through navigating all these emotions that come with change 💞 it's so hard to figure feelings out in the moment, I find that I personally need time after a big change :) hope that helps
When she said; 'her time here', that was a big clue that she doesn't feel a sense of permanence, yet. I think your right, she needs to find her favorite spots and spots with you included. Take care both of you.
It’s early days. You’re homesick and miss your family ❤️ give it time x
You seemed much happier before Talia in Vegas. Change is hard, just process the change and the void that you're feeling xo So glad you guys have each other XOXO I look up to you both
I am currently in the same position as you Talia. I just moved from New Jersey to Florida almost 2 months ago and until now I still don’t feel like Florida is my new residence as I don’t have any friends here yet, no favorite nail salon yet or hair salon or a job yet…i also left behind my entire family behind in NJ and when u go back to visit I feel so happy but i also do say why did i even come back to visit. I do love Florida but as of now, Florida feels like a long vacation to me but it’s actually my new reality. This has been the biggest transition for me and I think it can take between 6 months to 1 year to be fully adjusted here in Florida.
I honestly don’t know why you left Vegas. I never lived in Vegas but when I visited I loved it there in Vegas 💕😍
My mom passed unexpectedly April 2020 we had it in works to move to Ga we moved Nov 2020 from ks born n raised been other places tho over years .. the whole year I had family nonstop n friends come in n visit 2021 I went into a low place like roger my husband was like I’m so happy here we arnt going back !!! I’m 50/50 but the reason is only not the place but the family (and my mom!) which she’s no longer their “home” so I have mixed emotions hard to get adjusted to new place I feel u on top of a passing !! But best thing I’ve done to help is what roger is suggesting get in with community!! Get a local church get diff friends there etc and have family n friends come to u more n visit be independent n create ur own space n thrive!!you guys got this!!💕
It could be just the fact that it’s different. It’s always exciting to open up a brew chapter of your life, but that doesn’t mean you won’t miss the old one, even if the new chapter is just as good if not better. When we moved, we only moved to a new city nearby, so we still drive by our old house sometimes, but there are days when I feel like I was just as happy there as I am where we are currently. Which is true, I had everything I needed and was content!! It sounds like a similar thing is happening with you! You’ll figure it out, but every change takes time to just get used to. 💖
I recently moved from Arizona to France with my husband because he’s French. Every one tells me how lucky I am to move to France & I agree because it’s a beautiful country, but I’m super far from home. I have to learn a new language & culture. Maybe in the next few years we’ll move back, but for the meantime I have to make it my home and to not put to much pressure on myself adjusting to my new home.
Take care! & you got this! 💕
This is still brand new. First get to know your community, make some friends, and then like Roger said, find your local spots that you love for hair, nails, etc. it will start feeling more like home.
I love your new place give it some time and plus your family is arriving to your area. You will make new friends enjoy!
I think it’s honestly because in Vegas, you had your family closer to you there.
Newport, you’re away from your family.
I’m so much happier in Hawaii with my family and as soon as I come back to the east coast and face my reality.. I fall into a little bit of depression. I feel like it’s the same for you. You just miss your family ❤️ everything is still so brand new to you and I feel like Vegas is all you knew. So it’ll take time!
I’ve moved quite a lot through out my life. Never far but I have always found that the first year after moving is tough. That first year just feels off. It takes time for the new house to actually feel like home and to find your new daily routine. If you think about it your home is your foundation and your safe space. So when you change that it can feel off balance because it feels like you don’t have your safe place to go to. See how you feel in a year! Get through that initial adjustment period!
From someone who spent 15 years moving all over the country. It’s your family you miss, and the comforts of home! I think Roger is right, when you find your places and your people there that feeling will be a little more bearable.
I FEEL YOU!! So much I moved from Texas to Virginia. Because I got engaged! I’m still trying to get used to VA. Atm I’m super homesick. But I definitely felt happier in Texas I was there my WHOLE life 26 years! But I’m sure I’ll get used to my new life.
You know every new beginnig is exciting... after this you just experience the daily life. Your old life was comfortable because you were rooted there. You need time to make your home to your new home... what do you miss in Vegas that you can find in Newport, as well?
The other thing is: there is a difference between Vegas and Newport and maybe you are will discover something new that you couldn't imagine that it exists and will fall in love in it and your regrets stop.
Sorry if my English isn't the best. Much love for u 😘❤
I live in Huntington beach! The weather is always gorgeous! Yes get out more it will help!
Your feelings of memories are attached to Vegas but you have not given yourself time to be there. Home is home but remember home is where you make it. Have memories is ok but dont let it blind you for the future.
I’m a creature of habit so I understand, but what helps me is exploring and making new memories where you are at. Like Roger said once you find your places and routines in Newport, it will start to feel like home sweet home #Newbeginnings
It sounds like you miss Vegas and you had happy memories there and were happy there. However you are also making new memories and are also happy in new port. Long story short you could be missing your old life which is normal doesn’t necessarily mean you need to go back which can make you feel confused. Ultimately follow your heart. Have a great day Scott fam. ❤️
Hey Talia, I understand how your feel and I think it just comes down to a comfort thing. When I moved two hours away from my home to go to college, it took me time to adjust and feel normal. It just takes time and exploring your new city helps with feeling more comfortable! Best of luck, sending love!
I moved about 1,000 miles from home. It’s taken over two years for me to find my place in my new home. My sister told me when I moved it takes about two years to find your place, find your people and feel like you are home. Give yourself time. It will feel like home :)
We cooked that meal this past week it was so good!!! Family is key! We live 1.5 hours away from family and it’s great. But also remember to make yourself happy as well! Give Newport a chance! 💕💕
Please listen to each other,please hear each other,please be honest with each other. Figure it out with open minds together. You two are awesome and strong together
Roger-keep the Beard! It looks amazing.
I am glad you are feeling better!
If Talia likes it! Keep it! Very handsome!!! Glad you are feeling better!!! You guys are awesome! 🤗
It’s a change ! Change is hard, be nicer to yourself. Maybe put more pictures of family up, do things that make your home your sanctuary. Love you guys!
We moved to North County San Diego, away from family. For higher quality of life and beaches and weather. I was like Roger 1000% all in no regrets no looking back. It took my wife and kids a year; everything Talia said they said but now we regret nothing and love every minute here.
It's sounds like you probably miss family. maybe once your family moves to New Port, you might feel a little more at home. But I get it, whenever my husband and I drive to my old neighborhood, I get all in the feels and the memories start to flood in. And for Roger, my husband also had patchy spots when he was first was growing his beard out. My brother in-law told him to try Rogaine (men's hair loss treatment) because he had the same problem. And it actually worked!
Mommy and Daddy are fighting in this one. But I appreciate the honesty.
Love the beard. I'm so glad he's back and feeling better.
You guys definitely need to do more videos of you guys in the kitchen cooking and talking, I love it!💙
You were surrounded by family and friends in Vegas. Maybe your mom and sisters can come for a visit. Rogers dad needs to come for a visit as well. You going out on weekends is a great way to meet new people. Maybe you and Roger need some time together away from big crowds. Rent a boat and take a picnic. Praying for you guys. I think it is completely normal to feel this way. Don’t dwell or read into it. Sending lots of love from Texas !
I moved from Vegas to Orange County, CA in April 2021. I’m also away from my family and friends! But honestly, even though it can be REALLY hard sometimes, I don’t regret it one bit. Give it a year. Make friends, get yourselves out and about and doing new things. The opportunity you have is SO worth it. Always here if you need a friend who understands! ✨💕
Separation. Anxiety. Celebrating your new environment does not mean that you can’t hold onto or “let go” of all the fond memories of Vegas! Allow yourself time to acclimate to Newport. Maybe it’s just for a season, maybe it forever…
Either way both sides offer you so much beauty and adventure!
❤️🥰😍❤️
Also readjusting to a new place of living is hard , but once it's adjusted you'll be fine
Uuuugh sis I share the same struggle with you. Home is home. And there’s that sense of feeling you just can’t get from anywhere else. I’ve lived away from home over 7yrs now and everytime I go back home to visit, leaving never gets easier. It’s not like we regret it, there’s just never going to be another place that’ll fulfill that sense of feeling of being home. And the THOUGHTS ugh! It’s like so we move back or do we stay… that’s the constant debate for me right now. Stay or leave. And I’ve come to the conclusion where I just need to follow my heart. I hope you do the same as well ❤️
We are so glad that Roger is back. He does look good with the beard!😉
It could be that you're missing your family and the life in Vegas that gave you all those memories. You need to start making memories where you are. 💜
My husband and I moved to NYC 9 months ago and I thought I hated it but it’s because we didn’t take time to explore the city. Once we did that, everything changed and we are both so happy.
I’ve had two major moves in my life. I was never really home sick, but it does take time to adjust to a new place and for it to become home. Leaving every weekend doesn’t help lol!
Change is hard and the adjustment can take time. My husband is the Air Force and we move a lot but that doesn’t change the fact that it takes time. We we’re stationed at Nellis afb in Vegas for almost 8 years so living there makes it hard to adjust everywhere else because their is something going on all the time. Time is what you need, good luck.
Energy of places do not always align. Stay where you are happiest.
I totally get it!!! When I was 8 I was forced to move to a whole new bigger town. I left all my friends my home and started my life in a new place. Hardest part and to this day (a.k.a 11 yrs later) is that I miss what I thought was the best time of my life and all those that were so close to me. Especially starting from the very beginning, meeting new people, making new friends, and getting to know new places. Let me tell you guys, you will always miss your old home since that will always be a part of your life and your memories. But on the right side, you will soon love many things of your new home.
The past will always seem better when you look back. Live in the moment and visit your family often. Your future happiness can't happen unless you move forward. You will find your way.
Talia you should go out and explore Newport and give it a chance. You will get to like it more after a couple of months. You also missing your family in Vegas.🙂
I know exactly how you feel. I felt lost and depressed when I moved to ATL. It took me two years to feel like I was home. My family is still back home and bonus...I see my hairdresser at the same time!! I love my hairdresser ❤
Love the 5 o clock shadow…keep it for sure!
Just give it a chance, this happens to everyone, me and my girlfriend bought a home away from our hometown and we missed it for months until we started finding good spots and getting used to the new town and now we love it and now we I go visit family I miss my home.
We moved to LA four years ago and while I’ve gotten used to it, it still doesn’t “feel like home”… it’s going to take some time to figure out if you want to be here or not. My wife & I have already decided we’re going to move back home (TX) next year but we won’t regret the five years we spent here.
I feel you! We just moved over 1000 miles away from home and everything we've ever known about 2 months ago. There's some growing pains for sure but trying to give it time and grace and trust the universe! Homesickness sucks and I feel you ❤️
Agree with all the comments that it takes time. I’d also say you haven’t established your friendships and community that make it feel like “home” but you soon will. You may also be “idealizing” the memories of Vegas and forgetting the hard parts.
Honestly it’s the routine and family. Have a make a new routine and make an effort to explore your city. You’ll get there with time. I moved out two years ago and I’m finally feeling my stride.
I love the honesty in this video. I’m confused. I thought this is a house y’all bought. I guess I missed it. Good job on being honest even when it seems confusing. I love watching y’all!!!
Oh yeah sorry y'all one more thing, if your family starts moving there you'll feel better. 💜💜💜💜
If you want to get to know the area try tram hopping for one day. We have a house in Dana Point and spent a day on the trams going from one city to the next. Check the internet for all the beach city trams.
Wherever my husband is, that’s where i would want to be. Just saying
Love you guys❣️
It's just nostalgia. You haven't fully acclimated yet. You'll get there. Just keep focusing on creating new memories there and being grateful in the present. ❤
As U said Url are getting family that gonna be. Moving close by soon
That will make a difference
Give it some time Nd Ull be loving it
God Bless Url Always
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Such a beautiful couple!! Roger keep the beard....Talia it's going to take time to completely feel comfortable in your new home...just give it time and stay open minded to your new life, don't compare NP to LV because it's not ever going to be the same find things to do at NP and start making your new memories and when you least expect it you will be just as happy or happier...enjoy!
The bear? Lol
@@linal3489 ooppss...lol
I loved this style video. Nice and casual, real (not that you guys aren’t otherwise). It felt like a look inside your relationship dynamic and it was fun to watch :) Glad you’re feeling better Roger x
Lived in California several different times (San Diego, Carlsbad and Oceanside) and the weather is unbeatable but California is the worst. I vote Vegas. Plus home is a real thing.
Love love love the beard! It’s a really good look on him. Makes him look more mature.
You guys are so cut together.
I can relate I moved here from Colorado and I’m the beginning I wanted to go back. Your homesick your used to being close to your family friends and used to getting up and your family being close. I promise just get out get to know California your not used to being by the water. You’ll get there especially when they move closer.
It’s going to take more time to get used to living somewhere new! You might be missing family and things you were used to! You got this Talia! ❤️❤️❤️
You need to give it some time to make memories maybe figure out what you want...Seems like Roger is more laid back and chill...He is obviously ready to start a family.
It always takes time to adjust! Every time I’ve moved I felt the same. You might just be craving a community and friends. If you find a dance community you might feel different 💃🏻 :)
I vote to keep the beard! Also I think once Talia finds a place for all of her favorite places like when she was in vegas itll feel more homey. I'm in the same boat and i only moved away 40 minutes from where I grew up and was raised most of my life. I want to go back too lol but im glad youre making the most of it and it sounds like youre enjoying yourselves!