might be bcs he's a youtuber most youtuber speaks like that (so far i think most youtuber either speaks fast or bilingual idk) but yes, that's too fast for me too. bcs even in my language if someone talks like that i'd be "what" or "repeat pls :v"
@@oumaymita9647 So you're saying that the earth, which is currently worried about overpopulation, is being threatened by a small percentage of gays and lesbians? Smh
Shane Brahms I think your comment is very assumptive and completely ignorant. You're deciding one's sexuality for them strictly based on the fact that they want to perform and become and idol? Can a straight man not want that? Moreover, statistically, that is unlikely. There is more than two sexualities than just gay and straight. Saying that everyone is BTS is a homosexual is just an unlikely possibility. I don't know if you're trying to be positive or demeaning with your comment, but I can tell you have no respect for the people (that's right, people) you are talking about. Would you like me to assume that you are a white male that is 6 foot tall based on your first name? Probably not. Regardless of whether you consider my assumption to be a compliment or not, it is prejudicial.
@@KimTaeHyung-eo1fvI think you will go to hell cause you know love is not wrong but disgust with someone is trouble:) And if you do not know, BTS is also lgbt supporter(you can find in their lyrics and interviews).
"Not all bottoms are sissies and not all tops are manly and muscular." FUCKING PREACH PRAISE THIS GUY KPOP FANS NEED TO KNOW THIS !!! I SWEAR EVERYONE AUTOMATICALLY ASSUMES THE TALLER AND MORE MUSCULAR IS TOP AND THE BOTTOM IS ALL CUTE AND NICE LIKE NO !!
there's a youtuber whose name i dont recall now but everyone was sure he was a bottom because of his way of speaking and mannerisms but turns out he's as top as he can be
I feel like same-sex couples are cuter than the usual couples tbh. I feel so happy when they say that they are happy in their life after coming out. I love their positivity. Keep it up! And Love Yourself!
now that's what i talking about you became a heterophobe what a dumbass This comment about "same gender couples are cuter" Wtf is wrong with you guys Stop fethisism gay men If I would say "I think straight couples are cuter" people would be angry and call me homophobic evil with me but if anybody says "same gender couples are cuter"blablabla... Than no one is angry?!wtf why TF is all gay people are so heterophobic??That's unfair
@@johnnybrown9120 okay the thing is: you are in the same fandom is me but the thing is too that BTS respect everyone, yet here you are hating on people for being another sexuality 💀
Hi! I'm from Brazil and I love your videos! I'll try to translate this one in portuguese if you don't mind, I'm sure there are brazilians and portuguese people who watch your channel!
i'm personally straight but I have a lot of gay and lesbian/bisexual family and friends, and it's so nice to see allies reaching out and affirming people's right to be happy -- we as allies always should seek to understand and show our support especially since Korean standards are so strict too could you do a video interviewing Trans people? I feel like they're also a very underrepresented minority in Korea (also the whole world lol)
The last guy is so so so sweet haha he seems so awkward and super nice :) Now to something more serious, I hate how homosexual people always /have/ to come out.. Like, I don't tell all my friends 'oh btw I'm straight' so why do they have to tell friends and family that they like the same gender.. If your daughter appears with a girlfriend and son with a boyfriend, just be like you'd be if they were straight.. It's nothing to be treated differently ): But Korea (and many other countries) first has to accept homosexuality before the world can move on to the next step! I hope I'll still live to see better days ;;
LGB people have to come out because otherwise people will simply assume we're straight, as straight people do make up the majority. The goal shouldn't be that no one "has" to come out, but that it shouldn't be a big deal when we do :)
It's just more practical for homosexuals to come out, if you (not "you" you, but an hipothetical "you") don't come out as an homosexual everyone assumes you're straight and that might put you in uncomfortable situations, and it's just easier for girls who might eventually feel atracted to you...
Coming out is a social ritual to inform the world that, "I am sexually oriented differently, but I am happy the way I am." Homosexuals feel the desire and uncomfortableness to tell people they are homosexuals because this world has not accepted that it is ok to be homosexual. In other words, the world has not accepted homosexuality as a norm and it has not accepted the idea that sexuality falls on a spectrum. Since the label of "straight" makes up for the majority of the population, more people coming out will help to increase the number of those belonging in the minority group (LGBT). Increasing the numbers will push to normalize homosexuality so that people can begin to see its prevalence in the world. When society finally sees that sexuality falls on a spectrum and that homosexuality is inherent and not a choice, then people will stop caring whether someone is gay, lesbian, bisexual or not because those terms will be obsolete to a certain extent. When your daughter is walking with her girlfriend, or when your son is walking with his boyfriend, these things will become something so normal it wouldn't even be pondered and these discussions would not exist anymore. The language will also change; Instead of saying, "I'm gay," people will start to say, "I'm not interested in women." Coming out is not only a thing in Korea, it's a thing all around the world. Sadly, homosexuals are disadvantaged, and discriminated wherever they are, more so in some countries than others, and even more so in some parts of their own country than others.
Societies are structured for straights. From the moment you realised you are gay you will find difficult to interact honestly with poeple around you because they will assume you are straight. So gay people must feel oppressed constricted, until they are able to say, listen this or this won't apply for me because I am gay. Like that guy said in the video. It apply also for straight people that live life untrue to themself. This is what coming out is about. Here I am. And I am curious, which country do you live at? Is homosexsuality not an issue there at all ???
Thanks for making this video! I actually learned a lot. Where I come from it's like you're supposed to know all of this already so I never really dared to ask... for example I had heard that gay men have a higher risk of getting AIDS if they not are using protection than the risk is for straight people to get it, but I never understood why. You guys really explained it well so anyone could understand.
If bottoming hurts you're doing it wrong. Use lube, use fingers, and don't just jam it in. The rate of AIDS transmission between heterosexual and homosexual people is about equal. It was only initially higher in the 70s and 80s because gay men were more likely to have more partners and since there was no risk of pregnancy were less inclined to use protection. That has however changed.
Lukos0036 HIV transmission rates differ not so much by sexuality of the couples involved, but rather by the type of sex. Anal sex is significantly more risky than vaginal sex due to micro tears, and that of course applies to straight couples too.
ahh i love how open-minded you are! it's honestly lovely seeing more and more open-minded people in korea, and i hope it becomes the norm to accept gay people there soon :)
Keep it up Heechul, this UA-cam channel is a fantastic idea and brings much light to a wide variety of topics :) And like everyone else, I can only compliment how you're not afraid to ask any question, but at the same time are always polite. I'm already looking forward to the next topic :)
Even though this is a funny comment, it would probably make him uncomfortable being hit on by a man. He wouldn't show it but you'd lowkey be able to tell even if he laughed it off.
레즈비언을 주제로 한 웹툰 때문에 레즈에 대해서는 편견이 많이 없어진 상태였는데, 게이나 트렌스젠더에 대해서는 불편한 감정이나 편견이 있었습니다. 그러면서도 한편으로는 그 사람들에게 이런 불편한 감정을 느끼는 게 싫었고, 만약 사회에서 우연히 마주하게 될 경우에 그 불편한 감정이 나도 모르게 드러날까 걱정이 있었는데요. 유튜버님의 영상을 보고 긍정적인 생각을 가질 수 있었습니다. 앞으로 사회에서 우연히 마주치더라도 편하게 존중할 수 있을 것 같습니다. 영상 만들어주셔서 정말 감사합니다:)
for me there's no such thing as gaydar. it is the same as saying that gays look only a certain way, which is not true. That is stereotyping, which is bad. because some gay men actually look like any other straight man or sometimes even look more masculine than straight men and sometimes you'll only know when you ask them. not all gay men are effeminate. and even if some gays are masculine looking, it does not make them any less gay. they still like other men and not women. the same goes for lesbians. some lesbians look stunning that men would go gaga for but when you get to know them, they actually are really lesbians who like other women ann not men. better to get to know people rather than judge by their looks if they are gay or straight.
TwentyOneCrybabies attheDisco it's a big part of gaydar as a "concept." and in reality, yeah it's not just about looks. it's just one facet of knowing a person.
I don't really have stereotypes for gay men but I do have an intuition that can tell me someone may be gay - so you can call it gaydar or whatever. I admit sometimes it's about their appearance or postures/gestures, the way they talk, think, or the way they look at other men, but sometimes it's just the vibe/feeling, it's very hard to explain :)
It's something people who are gay tend to 'receive' It's not so much looks or actions it's an aura and being gay yourself you are familiar with it and almost becomes a 'gaydar' obviously there are times when they're wrong but a lot from my own personal experience and others is a majority of it is right. I believe that heterosexual people can have a 'hetero-dar' as they know the aura as they are one themselves so they could easily know who is gay or not. It's complicated - I am a transwoman who was originally a 'gay man' and it's a sense a feeling something that takes control.
No but I am bisexual and I generally know when someone isn't straight. Call it whatever you want, maybe it's just a lot of coincidence but I don't guess it from the looks, it's just... I know. It's weird
same... the more you go out into the world the more you realize that only by getting to know a person can you really know their sexuality. you can speculate bc the markers from past generations are still there sometimes, but ive had tons of friends who are "straight passing" but when i get to know them i realize that a lot of them are bi or lesbian/gay. you just can't tell as much these days, esp with how the idea and the concept of sexuality is evolving within societies. these days when people understand sexuality it's not about how one presents oneself on the outside but rather it's an internal process. maybe back then the only way to get other lgbt peoples' attention was through your physical appearance and the way you present yourself, but tbh these days the youth are kinda understanding that sexuality is a lot more fluid than they thought. that's why a lot of my friends identify as bi or gay but none of them have any markers as such that they're non straight apart from their behaviour with close friends. i have a lesbian friend who no one can really physically tell is a lesbian apart from the fact that she's quite loud about loving girls lol ^_^ it's the same w me, everyone just assumes im straight but im super bi and only my close friends know once i tell them. it's an interesting discussion to have abt how society shapes lgbt ppl.
I feel like the video didn't really cover what it was like being a gay in Korea, but just being a gay person in general...nonetheless it was still an awesome video! Thank you
Mσиαєgι X. 신호석 kpop boy is kind of exception, cause all performers are wearing make up to look good in camera. When he said "guys with eyeliner" it refers to normal people, not idols or actors
Wow, the amount of stereotypes about gay people - wear eyeliner and have a pouch... Also, girl and boy roles in bed? I knew Korea was stuck in the past, but I thought they were living it out in 1930s not fucking 1459...
I don't really like the interview but I think it's really important to talk more about homosexuality mostly in Korean where people are...not very (or not at all) open minded about this. The best thing about homophobia is knowing. Bc when you know what it's really like you have no more reason to hate it. Bc homosexuality is just two people who love each other, and it isn't weird or disgusting like some people think
One step after another, that's how minority can get the freedom they deserve. No matter which minority we're talking about, all their rights can come with this kind of initiative. One video and then thousands of people are talking, maybe they're shocked by the vid but who cares, if they talk about it, people will watch it too to see what it is about and then, people could understand more why they don't have to understand but just accept. Why do you love her ? → I don't know I just love her. (This is how straight could speak right ?) Why do you love him ? (To a gay men could come with :) It's digsuting or abnormal. For me : why do you love him ? (To a gay men) → I don't know I just love him. → WISH YOU HAPPINESS ! Wishing happiness for everyone no matter his color, religion or sexual tastes, that's what should rule the world. Thank you HeeChul for your videos that make people think a little more about issues in society.
Great video...people that just follow others, that’s a scary societal problem. But it’s just about everywhere. Also, the guy in the adidas T-shirt (with Nike cap) is super cute😍
좋은 영상 잘 보았습니다! 그런데 개인적으로 친구 중에 게이가 없다는 말이 조금 불편(?)했다고 해야 하나요.. 그건 아무도 모르는 일인 것 같아요.. 한국이 워낙 닫혀 있고 소수자들에게 열린 사회가 아니기 때문에 커밍하웃울 하지 못하는 친구도 있을 수 있거든요.. 너무 진지했다면 죄송하지만 그 만큼 보이는 것이 다가 아니라는 말을 하고 싶었어요ㅠㅠ
Just for their information: the way you walk, if you wear makeup or not, if your voice is more like a girl or like a boy, if you wear more accesories than others, IT DOESN'T MEAN THAT YOU ARE HOMOSEXUAL OR HETEROSEXUAL you can be a boy wearing makeup and be heterosexual.
This is such an important video, and I truly hope the Korean public becomes much more accepting soon. Just because you pretend something you don’t like isn’t there, doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist.
Im gay so what??!!! I love that statement. No one personal life is affecting your life, kids, family, or money. Everyone deserves to be happy!! Use my slogan, MIND YOUR BUSINESS!!! People tend to walk away mad as hell when i tell them to mind their business!!
Abigail Moer exactly!! And for this person to assume my reasoning for shipping just proves to me this person is a child or has childlike behaviors. But I’m sure my comment above should rectify their response.
As i come to know more of gays coming out in Korea,i feel more lightened by now,as in the previous years it was so much kind of being suppressed by public and medias.Thank you so much host for bringing up such idea and airing here.Looking forward to see more of such issues being discussed openly out here through you.With sincere love and appreciation from Bhutan...
+Tweii kimare She said that she enjoyed this interview and that she wanted to see an interview with lesbians but then he heechul said there was already one that he made and she thanked him. :)
I know it's hard, even in 2019, for korean gay men and I really hope this is going to change. To all of you reading this, straight or not you deserve to be respected and loved 🤗🤗
In fact, I was already following you but I started to watch more from the world tour videos. Documentary-style videos are also great. I think I started to follow you first because of the language related videos. Very nice content congratulations and thank you Heechul! 😊
+Henna Shaikh omg i cant believe it some idols are gay ! 😱 bcs well you know alot of cute/beautiful girls group but its unbelievable they are gay. I keep searching in youtube if some videos show they are gay but its hard to find. Well do you know whos the idols that are gay??
+조재희 게이나 레즈가 변종이라고요? 동성애자는 비정상적이고 이성애자가 정상적이라는 게 딱 정해져 있는건가요? 그리고 동성애자끼리의 성관계가 생물학적으로는 이성애자의 성관계와 차이가 있다고는 하나 그쪽께서 그걸 뭐라고 할 입장은 아니신 것 같은데요 또 혐오를 하는 걸 뭐라할 건 아니지만 꼭 그렇게 심한 말을 써야하나요? 역지사지로 그쪽이 그런말을 들으면 기분 좋게 새겨 들을 수 있을 것 같나요? 왜 자신이 싫다고 해서 그걸 아무잘못없는 사람들에게 욕을 하고 비정상적인 취급을 하는 건지 이해가 안되네요 그리고 초면에 반말을 하는 건 '정상적인' 사람의 예의가 아니라고 생각합니다만?
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I love how you're so open minded and not afraid to ask questions in a genuine way without trying to sound rude.
yes +1 for that
just +100000 for him .
open to aids mind lolf
정우 "lolf"
^*applause*
"I'm gay and i'm happy'' BRO YOU'RE A HERO FOR KOREAN PEOPLE
yup, they really are heroes. courageous in their stand
@Yong Geun Song It's fucking wrong for you to interfere in other peoples life like that!
@@lululi9816 well, he can tell his opinion even if it's wrong for you i'm not homophobic too so
@@johnnybrown9120 yeah, but I responded my opinion in similar way he did his
@@johnnybrown9120 but ur right. I just get really salty at homophobes, I'm sorry^^'
The straight guy is respectful and eager to learn and uderstand more. He doesn't assume, instead he askw. I wish more people were like him.
actually I thought it was kinda rude, but that's my westerner perspective
he was too kind with them
i was caught completely off guard when i heard that one guy speaking full English sentences
A lot if people in Korea speak English
The host is so FINEEEEEEE,
Archea What? I mean to say that. He looks really good for me.
Maybe the host is a gay too
thats what i always think😂
he reminds me of jungwoo from nct
@@andyamaruf1481 not
I love how blunt and direct heechul is 😭😂 best interviewer
But he is polite at the same time !
true!
yes
+Sasuke Uchiha lmao same
Sasuke Uchiha same lol
Im gay, from south Korea:')
님 프로필 성범죄자 아님?
Im from north Korea :)
정말?
You got my support buddy hope you have a great life
whoooaaaaaaa😘
Woah guy in the green tshirt speaks well fast
coz the interviewer has a plan for the video,maybe he wanted it not to be more than 11 minutes
It's the normal speed
White Cream are you serious? perhaps my friends all just speak slowly..seemed fast to me lol
might be bcs he's a youtuber
most youtuber speaks like that (so far i think most youtuber either speaks fast or bilingual idk)
but yes, that's too fast for me too. bcs even in my language if someone talks like that i'd be "what" or "repeat pls :v"
forreal? I'd consider that average speed (based on living in korea)
This video makes me question the sexual education in South Korea.
Actually sexual education is not even exist in South Korea. All education about sex or sexuallity is focused on love between woman and man.
@@user-tk6lx6tt7j same in China.. very backward
I still wonder
@@oumaymita9647 So you're saying that the earth, which is currently worried about overpopulation, is being threatened by a small percentage of gays and lesbians? Smh
@@anny-zz7vk of course now they are small percentage but after they will more than us
LOVE IS LOVE
I ruined the 200 likes sksksk
@@johnnybrown9120 your talking bout yourself hun😘🤭
wow they got 700 likes for spouting some overused quote
Green shirt is amazing way more knowledge and thinks in a not stereotypical way but a reality way!
Christian Carmona-Carlo He's so smart
Christian Carmona-Carlo The one in the plain green shirt with the pocket? Yeah, he is awesome. And personally, I think he is gorgeous!!!
Shane Brahms if you use “xD” as an expression you’re automatically invalid
Shane Brahms
I think your comment is very assumptive and completely ignorant. You're deciding one's sexuality for them strictly based on the fact that they want to perform and become and idol? Can a straight man not want that? Moreover, statistically, that is unlikely. There is more than two sexualities than just gay and straight. Saying that everyone is BTS is a homosexual is just an unlikely possibility. I don't know if you're trying to be positive or demeaning with your comment, but I can tell you have no respect for the people (that's right, people) you are talking about.
Would you like me to assume that you are a white male that is 6 foot tall based on your first name? Probably not. Regardless of whether you consider my assumption to be a compliment or not, it is prejudicial.
His name is TwoTen on youtube!
Im not homosexual person but i agree with them cuz when you stay with your partner and feel happy than it doesnt matter and its their lives.
김효원 exactly👏👏💕
Preach
But why you mentioned that you are not homosexual it is not necessary
김효원 shup ut son of bitch they will go to the hell
@@KimTaeHyung-eo1fvI think you will go to hell cause you know love is not wrong but disgust with someone is trouble:) And if you do not know, BTS is also lgbt supporter(you can find in their lyrics and interviews).
"Not all bottoms are sissies and not all tops are manly and muscular."
FUCKING PREACH PRAISE THIS GUY KPOP FANS NEED TO KNOW THIS !!! I SWEAR EVERYONE AUTOMATICALLY ASSUMES THE TALLER AND MORE MUSCULAR IS TOP AND THE BOTTOM IS ALL CUTE AND NICE LIKE NO !!
one word
jinhwan
I would've been surprised if you told me the guy speaking english wasn't a bottom.
there's a youtuber whose name i dont recall now but everyone was sure he was a bottom because of his way of speaking and mannerisms but turns out he's as top as he can be
christinaa he did say he was bottom tho.
gader'el yeah but i was talking about a completely different person
I feel like same-sex couples are cuter than the usual couples tbh. I feel so happy when they say that they are happy in their life after coming out. I love their positivity. Keep it up! And Love Yourself!
now that's what i talking about you became a heterophobe what a dumbass This comment about "same gender couples are cuter"
Wtf is wrong with you guys
Stop fethisism gay men
If I would say "I think straight couples are cuter" people would be angry and call me homophobic evil with me but if anybody says "same gender couples are cuter"blablabla...
Than no one is angry?!wtf
why TF is all gay people are so heterophobic??That's unfair
장서미Yoongi'sWife What type of dumb ass response lmaoooo
@@johnnybrown9120 okay the thing is: you are in the same fandom is me but the thing is too that BTS respect everyone, yet here you are hating on people for being another sexuality 💀
@@elijahjohnson5146 nobody asked you honey
장서미Yoongi'sWife And nobody asked you but here we are
That dude with the button down that wants to be protected and held in someone's arms while getting railed, call me. Lol. He's cuuuute.
i ship heechul and cap guy
do you have IG account a cap guy.?
Muhammad Zaini Miftah no i dont :/
T.T thank you..
cap guy lol XD
Heechul the interviewer right? Is he gay?
The guy in the hat and Adidas shirt is cute!
Raph Reyes ooooo nooo doe he to "lanky" for me
He really is
I agree :3
Who's the guy in the green shirt? Does he have a youtube channel?
He's very well spoken and nailed the issue on the head. Really well done mate.
yes he does his name on youtube is 이열 two ten!
+sy p what is that in English ????
lee yeol
yes, he does.. I just forgot its name but i have seen him explaining his sexuality on his own channel..
little boy in the background is distracting me
i like how you always seem to treat the people you interview to some food afterwards lol
와 초록티 입으신분 말 엄청 조리있게 하신다..
ㅇㅇ
33333
The very last 'behind-the-scenes' part was so sweet
인터뷰 참 잘하시네요ㅋㅋ 희철님의 이런 시도들이 세상을 더 풍족하게 만드는 양분이 되는거같아요
+김승한 그렇게 말해주셔서 감사합니다 :)
응 아니야
Heechulism
ᄒ 고생 많으십니다. BGM이 ᄁ켜요. ᄒ ᄒ 뭐가 아니라는 건데요?
Eu preciso aprender coreano urgentemente para saber o que você falam também preciso aprender inglês
One of the greatest interviews I've ever seen. So unbiased, so genuine answers. Thank you
They were all so cute!
희철님 소중한 영상 감사합니다!!!
i am so happy... we havent met for a long time but everytime i see you i feel proud and happy!!!
저 사람들이 게이가 되고 싶어서 된게 아니지 안나요?저 사람들을 욕하는게 단지 게이 대문이다면 당신은 어리석은 사람입니다
+Karakuni Nara 나댄다ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ넷상이라고 막말하는거 봐라
+Karakuni Nara 널보고 진짜 사람은 배워야한다는 생각이든다... 게이가 한국에 있는게 문제일까.. 너같이 다른사람 이해도못하고 함부로 매도하는사람이있는게 문제일까? 가서 디바 찌찌만지는 망상이나해라ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ프사의 상태가?
님들아 그냥 신고 한번씩만 박아주시면 됨
He should have asked them which K-Pop idols do they think are homosexual using their gaydar.
Agreed! 👍
DBSSJr. lmaoooo
DBSSJr. luke williams made a video abou that. He's the one in blue
not everything is abt k-pop smh
jeremy no one said that. chill.
Hi! I'm from Brazil and I love your videos! I'll try to translate this one in portuguese if you don't mind, I'm sure there are brazilians and portuguese people who watch your channel!
+G Lima oh sure, if you do that, that would be super helpful for my channel ! Would you please send me a message by instagram?
Heechulism sure! As soon as I finish i will contact you
+G Lima yeah , Thank you
Im from Portugal, Im proud of myself bc I understand english so well :v And I'm proud to watch this beeing a bisexual person. :'c ❤
CRAZY K-POP que legal! Eu tentei traduzir, enviei para análise, mas por algum motivo ainda não está disponível : (
i'm personally straight but I have a lot of gay and lesbian/bisexual family and friends, and it's so nice to see allies reaching out and affirming people's right to be happy -- we as allies always should seek to understand and show our support
especially since Korean standards are so strict too
could you do a video interviewing Trans people? I feel like they're also a very underrepresented minority in Korea (also the whole world lol)
oh, I see you did! good for you for being open minded :)
Everytime that black screen is appearing, I always thought that an ad is going to play. Btw, great video!
The last guy is so so so sweet haha he seems so awkward and super nice :)
Now to something more serious, I hate how homosexual people always /have/ to come out.. Like, I don't tell all my friends 'oh btw I'm straight' so why do they have to tell friends and family that they like the same gender.. If your daughter appears with a girlfriend and son with a boyfriend, just be like you'd be if they were straight.. It's nothing to be treated differently ): But Korea (and many other countries) first has to accept homosexuality before the world can move on to the next step! I hope I'll still live to see better days ;;
LGB people have to come out because otherwise people will simply assume we're straight, as straight people do make up the majority. The goal shouldn't be that no one "has" to come out, but that it shouldn't be a big deal when we do :)
It's just more practical for homosexuals to come out, if you (not "you" you, but an hipothetical "you") don't come out as an homosexual everyone assumes you're straight and that might put you in uncomfortable situations, and it's just easier for girls who might eventually feel atracted to you...
Coming out is a social ritual to inform the world that, "I am sexually oriented differently, but I am happy the way I am." Homosexuals feel the desire and uncomfortableness to tell people they are homosexuals because this world has not accepted that it is ok to be homosexual. In other words, the world has not accepted homosexuality as a norm and it has not accepted the idea that sexuality falls on a spectrum. Since the label of "straight" makes up for the majority of the population, more people coming out will help to increase the number of those belonging in the minority group (LGBT). Increasing the numbers will push to normalize homosexuality so that people can begin to see its prevalence in the world.
When society finally sees that sexuality falls on a spectrum and that homosexuality is inherent and not a choice, then people will stop caring whether someone is gay, lesbian, bisexual or not because those terms will be obsolete to a certain extent. When your daughter is walking with her girlfriend, or when your son is walking with his boyfriend, these things will become something so normal it wouldn't even be pondered and these discussions would not exist anymore. The language will also change; Instead of saying, "I'm gay," people will start to say, "I'm not interested in women."
Coming out is not only a thing in Korea, it's a thing all around the world. Sadly, homosexuals are disadvantaged, and discriminated wherever they are, more so in some countries than others, and even more so in some parts of their own country than others.
Societies are structured for straights. From the moment you realised you are gay you will find difficult to interact honestly with poeple around you because they will assume you are straight. So gay people must feel oppressed constricted, until they are able to say, listen this or this won't apply for me because I am gay. Like that guy said in the video. It apply also for straight people that live life untrue to themself. This is what coming out is about. Here I am. And I am curious, which country do you live at? Is homosexsuality not an issue there at all ???
ur username tho
Guy with the cap
Is my type 😍
i know right he's daddy
+Tacko must know his name........... Just for my thesis hehehe ♥️
ikr 😍
+Donghyuk Lim 우와!! 대박!!
Ikr hes so hot
항상 응원하고있어요!
Thanks for making this video! I actually learned a lot. Where I come from it's like you're supposed to know all of this already so I never really dared to ask... for example I had heard that gay men have a higher risk of getting AIDS if they not are using protection than the risk is for straight people to get it, but I never understood why. You guys really explained it well so anyone could understand.
THAT was a superb video. I am very impressed. As Benz K said 8 months ago, the host is very talented as an interviewer
초록색티 입으신분?이 제일 멋지시네요.. 구독해야지ㅎㅎ
ㅇㅇ 나도
If bottoming hurts you're doing it wrong. Use lube, use fingers, and don't just jam it in. The rate of AIDS transmission between heterosexual and homosexual people is about equal. It was only initially higher in the 70s and 80s because gay men were more likely to have more partners and since there was no risk of pregnancy were less inclined to use protection. That has however changed.
Lukos0036 "dont just jam it in" I CHOKED ON MY WATER
Lukos0036 HIV transmission rates differ not so much by sexuality of the couples involved, but rather by the type of sex. Anal sex is significantly more risky than vaginal sex due to micro tears, and that of course applies to straight couples too.
0:35 I think I followed his channel and he is really open about being guy, he's cool!
+은지 Luke Williams he is so vocal about gay life and being gay in Korea
+raheka gusti but heechul is not gay right ?
no idea :D
Very well produced this video! I liked it a lot :)
I hope gay people in Korea have more and more space and freedom!
이 비디오를 만들어 주셔서 감사합니다.😍❤❤
in the end someone gotta lay down
OmG ion know why im laughing
Ella Francisco LOL
LOL Well said !!!
안 넣어도 되는 방법 많아요
Ejoo Kim i dont know what the fuck u said 몰라당신이 말했다 씨발
Great video! This guy with the cap is so sweet and cute^^ Thank you for your interview~
ahh i love how open-minded you are! it's honestly lovely seeing more and more open-minded people in korea, and i hope it becomes the norm to accept gay people there soon :)
That's right! Be happy and do not worry about people's opinions!
You are wonderful and I wish you all the best♡
I love that this channel is doing these kinds of videos and I hope Korean and the world become more open
And I'm also a fujoshi and proud!
nice to see that they are just being themselves even if that was the harder option
Keep it up Heechul, this UA-cam channel is a fantastic idea and brings much light to a wide variety of topics :)
And like everyone else, I can only compliment how you're not afraid to ask any question, but at the same time are always polite.
I'm already looking forward to the next topic :)
If you interview me , I ask you to date me instead answering your question 😂😂❤️❤️❤️
He's handsome XD
Imhereforyoubby I hope you a black people to say N word like that
Imhereforyoubby yup we're gay. So what's the deal
Even though this is a funny comment, it would probably make him uncomfortable being hit on by a man. He wouldn't show it but you'd lowkey be able to tell even if he laughed it off.
레즈비언을 주제로 한 웹툰 때문에 레즈에 대해서는 편견이 많이 없어진 상태였는데, 게이나 트렌스젠더에 대해서는 불편한 감정이나 편견이 있었습니다. 그러면서도 한편으로는 그 사람들에게 이런 불편한 감정을 느끼는 게 싫었고, 만약 사회에서 우연히 마주하게 될 경우에 그 불편한 감정이 나도 모르게 드러날까 걱정이 있었는데요. 유튜버님의 영상을 보고 긍정적인 생각을 가질 수 있었습니다. 앞으로 사회에서 우연히 마주치더라도 편하게 존중할 수 있을 것 같습니다.
영상 만들어주셔서 정말 감사합니다:)
진짜로 응원합니다!
for me there's no such thing as gaydar. it is the same as saying that gays look only a certain way, which is not true. That is stereotyping, which is bad. because some gay men actually look like any other straight man or sometimes even look more masculine than straight men and sometimes you'll only know when you ask them. not all gay men are effeminate. and even if some gays are masculine looking, it does not make them any less gay. they still like other men and not women. the same goes for lesbians. some lesbians look stunning that men would go gaga for but when you get to know them, they actually are really lesbians who like other women ann not men. better to get to know people rather than judge by their looks if they are gay or straight.
TwentyOneCrybabies attheDisco it's a big part of gaydar as a "concept." and in reality, yeah it's not just about looks. it's just one facet of knowing a person.
I don't really have stereotypes for gay men but I do have an intuition that can tell me someone may be gay - so you can call it gaydar or whatever. I admit sometimes it's about their appearance or postures/gestures, the way they talk, think, or the way they look at other men, but sometimes it's just the vibe/feeling, it's very hard to explain :)
It's something people who are gay tend to 'receive' It's not so much looks or actions it's an aura and being gay yourself you are familiar with it and almost becomes a 'gaydar' obviously there are times when they're wrong but a lot from my own personal experience and others is a majority of it is right. I believe that heterosexual people can have a 'hetero-dar' as they know the aura as they are one themselves so they could easily know who is gay or not. It's complicated - I am a transwoman who was originally a 'gay man' and it's a sense a feeling something that takes control.
No but I am bisexual and I generally know when someone isn't straight. Call it whatever you want, maybe it's just a lot of coincidence but I don't guess it from the looks, it's just... I know. It's weird
same... the more you go out into the world the more you realize that only by getting to know a person can you really know their sexuality. you can speculate bc the markers from past generations are still there sometimes, but ive had tons of friends who are "straight passing" but when i get to know them i realize that a lot of them are bi or lesbian/gay. you just can't tell as much these days, esp with how the idea and the concept of sexuality is evolving within societies. these days when people understand sexuality it's not about how one presents oneself on the outside but rather it's an internal process. maybe back then the only way to get other lgbt peoples' attention was through your physical appearance and the way you present yourself, but tbh these days the youth are kinda understanding that sexuality is a lot more fluid than they thought. that's why a lot of my friends identify as bi or gay but none of them have any markers as such that they're non straight apart from their behaviour with close friends. i have a lesbian friend who no one can really physically tell is a lesbian apart from the fact that she's quite loud about loving girls lol ^_^ it's the same w me, everyone just assumes im straight but im super bi and only my close friends know once i tell them. it's an interesting discussion to have abt how society shapes lgbt ppl.
I feel like the video didn't really cover what it was like being a gay in Korea, but just being a gay person in general...nonetheless it was still an awesome video! Thank you
2:54 EYELINER? BOI YOU LITERALLY SAID EVERY KPOP IDOL IS GAY
WERE IS MY WATTPAD LEMME WRITE SOME GAY SHIPS FICS
Lol
Mσиαєgι X. 신호석 kpop boy is kind of exception, cause all performers are wearing make up to look good in camera. When he said "guys with eyeliner" it refers to normal people, not idols or actors
Chloedia Lye I know, I was being ironic. I'm a kpop fan.
Mσиαєgι X. 신호석 im a kpop fan too
Chloedia Lye Cool! What's your UG?
so glad to know there are Hero in Korea 😊😊 We love you and will always support you
Taekook in your profile pic though....so cute 😍
I loved this so much. I think videos like this are very important and encourage an important conversation. ❤️
잘 봤습니다 희철님
무성애자에 대해서도 영상 만들어주시면 안될까여??
있지 당연히 ㅎㅎㅎ
한국에서 민감했던 문제를 대수롭지 않게 취재하시며 영상을 제작하시는 것에 정말 감사드립니다.
비록 기독교인이지만, 저도 동성애를 이해하며 지지합니다. 이를 너무나도 극단적으로, 부정적으로 보고 있는 한국이 아쉬울 뿐입니다.
Wow, the amount of stereotypes about gay people - wear eyeliner and have a pouch... Also, girl and boy roles in bed? I knew Korea was stuck in the past, but I thought they were living it out in 1930s not fucking 1459...
Thanks for doing this set of interviews and sharing it all! Very interesting to see how things work in different countries and cultures.
awesome !!
i love how the guy in the solid green t-shirt is really open and chill about everything
idk but i think Luke is kinda cute :3
i'm a straight-girl tho xD
i support you^^ it's okay to be yourself^^
Henlo
Can you add a link to their UA-cams in the bio.
Yes i would love to follow too
Never mind found them already you just need to type in Korean gay then look at the channels you'll find them by looking at the picture
one of them is Luke Williams so just search his name
+jwslee did you find the guy in the green Vneck???
+SpenceKpop He commented down below! His UA-cam channel is Yeol Lee (TWOTEN) !
This might be the first Asian channel I subscribe.
what a great, frank and genuine video. thanks for your work
I don't really like the interview but I think it's really important to talk more about homosexuality mostly in Korean where people are...not very (or not at all) open minded about this.
The best thing about homophobia is knowing. Bc when you know what it's really like you have no more reason to hate it.
Bc homosexuality is just two people who love each other, and it isn't weird or disgusting like some people think
One step after another, that's how minority can get the freedom they deserve. No matter which minority we're talking about, all their rights can come with this kind of initiative.
One video and then thousands of people are talking, maybe they're shocked by the vid but who cares, if they talk about it, people will watch it too to see what it is about and then, people could understand more why they don't have to understand but just accept.
Why do you love her ? → I don't know I just love her. (This is how straight could speak right ?)
Why do you love him ? (To a gay men could come with :) It's digsuting or abnormal.
For me : why do you love him ? (To a gay men) → I don't know I just love him. → WISH YOU HAPPINESS !
Wishing happiness for everyone no matter his color, religion or sexual tastes, that's what should rule the world.
Thank you HeeChul for your videos that make people think a little more about issues in society.
Lolll I can't believe he is asking all the question that I have in mind 😂😂😂😂😂😂😅😅😅☺☺☺☺😊😊😊😄😄 lord have mercy I feel shy for them 😍
Great video...people that just follow others, that’s a scary societal problem. But it’s just about everywhere.
Also, the guy in the adidas T-shirt (with Nike cap) is super cute😍
I really love watching this video. And the way the interviewer discussed with them is so frankly, he can tell every main point.
좋은 영상 잘 보았습니다! 그런데 개인적으로 친구 중에 게이가 없다는 말이 조금 불편(?)했다고 해야 하나요.. 그건 아무도 모르는 일인 것 같아요.. 한국이 워낙 닫혀 있고 소수자들에게 열린 사회가 아니기 때문에 커밍하웃울 하지 못하는 친구도 있을 수 있거든요.. 너무 진지했다면 죄송하지만 그 만큼 보이는 것이 다가 아니라는 말을 하고 싶었어요ㅠㅠ
그렇지만 한국유투버중에는 아직 성소수자들네 관한 비디오가 많이는 없는 것 같은데, 많이 만들어주셔서 좋아요!
Just for their information: the way you walk, if you wear makeup or not, if your voice is more like a girl or like a boy, if you wear more accesories than others, IT DOESN'T MEAN THAT YOU ARE HOMOSEXUAL OR HETEROSEXUAL you can be a boy wearing makeup and be heterosexual.
해찬's wife Thank you !
This is such an important video, and I truly hope the Korean public becomes much more accepting soon. Just because you pretend something you don’t like isn’t there, doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist.
THE HOST IS SOOOOOOOOO GOOD I AM BLUSHING
I LOVE IT WHEN THE LOVELY GUY SPEAKS ENGLISH OH MY GOD SO ADORABLE! KEEP GOING MY MAN
That's great :) In a country that even heterosexual couples can be scolded by older people if they kiss in the street...
Im gay so what??!!! I love that statement. No one personal life is affecting your life, kids, family, or money. Everyone deserves to be happy!! Use my slogan, MIND YOUR BUSINESS!!! People tend to walk away mad as hell when i tell them to mind their business!!
okay but one thing
Jikook is not real they are straight
and ships are dumb bye
Abigail Moer exactly!! And for this person to assume my reasoning for shipping just proves to me this person is a child or has childlike behaviors. But I’m sure my comment above should rectify their response.
0:56 어떻게 그렇게 귀여울 수 있겠습니까! he's so adorable i want to protect him!
As i come to know more of gays coming out in Korea,i feel more lightened by now,as in the previous years it was so much kind of being suppressed by public and medias.Thank you so much host for bringing up such idea and airing here.Looking forward to see more of such issues being discussed openly out here through you.With sincere love and appreciation from Bhutan...
Thank you for making this video. This is giving me hope to be who I am when I finally visit Korea.
I think the guy in green has a crush on you lol
Luke Williams Oh Hi Luke u seem like a nice person
Alaa Mansour yups, luke looks like hocheol from boys24. its maybe because their lips are similar, at least imo
Chloedia Lye Maybe~
일부러 아니고 이불러 ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ 귀여워
Hope those gay boys don't give a shit about all those stupid comments.
이번 영상 너무 좋네요.
그냥 사람이 사람 만나는거라고 생각해요.
LGBT 지지해요 화2팅!!
Thank you so much for this video 💖
잘봤습니다 레즈비언도 보고싶어요
레즈비언편도 있습니다~
+Heechulism 오 그런가요 감사합니다 ㅎㅎ
+Tweii kimare She said that she enjoyed this interview and that she wanted to see an interview with lesbians but then he heechul said there was already one that he made and she thanked him. :)
이쁘다...
장동휘 저기요 제가 왜 안면도 없는 그쪽한테 게이라고 나가 뒤지라고 욕을 먹어야 하나요? 길 가다가 게이 보이면 나가 뒤지라고 하세요? 줘 패시나요? 사이버 상이라고 막 이러시는 건가요?
저는요 동성애자든 이성애자든 권리는 동등하게 존중받아야 생각해야 하는데요. 그렇다고 길거리에서 옷벗고 시위하고 성기과자 나눠주고 하는건 처맞아야 한다고 생각해요. 결식아동 돕자고 하는 시위도 옷벗고 하면 처맞아요
잭리처 맞는말
솔직히 인정이요...
저도 동성애자들을 차별하는 게 이해되진 않지만 그건 좀 별로죠...
잭리처 취존해줘야겠죠?
성기과자는 제주도에서 팝니다... 게이퍼레이드에서 성기모양 빵,과자를 파는 이유는 성은 감추고 부끄러워한 것이 아닌 당당한 것 이라는 취지에서 하는 겁니다.
그 페스티벌 사람들끼리 펜스 쳐 놓고 하는 걸로 아는데 성기로 하는 건 당장 제주도나 어디 가도 희화화한 것들도 있는데 굳이 잣대 들이밀어도 될지 모르겠네요
Soy la única que hablando español?
No xdd yo igual y intento descifrar lo que ponen en los comentarios xdd mi ingles es una caca
Y al último creo que el chavo de la gorra le estaba coqueteando al conductor? Jajaja
@@baekatykrystobal5015 a lo último le invitó a comer XD
Creo que pusieron sub en español ah jejejeje
I know it's hard, even in 2019, for korean gay men and I really hope this is going to change. To all of you reading this, straight or not you deserve to be respected and loved 🤗🤗
In fact, I was already following you but I started to watch more from the world tour videos. Documentary-style videos are also great. I think I started to follow you first because of the language related videos. Very nice content congratulations and thank you Heechul! 😊
도무지 도대체가 이해가 안된다 . 그들도 이해못하는 날 이해안하겠지만 ,
뭐 서로 이해가 굳이 필요없지
다르다고 생각해버림 되니까
I support them from Japan
I really hope more and more LGBT group can come out in Korea. Fighting!
Wow! I'm Brazilian, thanks for the video.
FOLLOWED THIS CHANNEL RN
so now I 2 Heechul's that I like! 😍 and a lot of idols are gay in Korea. it's sad to see them hide in the closet 😟
Idols also gay??? May i know whos that idols?
+Suffiah Mokhtar They're just making assumptions. Also based on statistics a few idols have to be gay.
+TheTitaniaOfAnime have to be a gay????? It is a must ? 😱😱😱 maybe you know who is the idols that are gay??
+Suffiah Mokhtar idk how to prove it to you but many idols are gay and can't come out
+Henna Shaikh omg i cant believe it some idols are gay ! 😱 bcs well you know alot of cute/beautiful girls group but its unbelievable they are gay. I keep searching in youtube if some videos show they are gay but its hard to find. Well do you know whos the idols that are gay??
당당해서 빛나는 분들.
레즈편과 게이편의 반응이 너무달라서 어이가없다...
+조재희 게이나 레즈가 변종이라고요? 동성애자는 비정상적이고 이성애자가 정상적이라는 게 딱 정해져 있는건가요? 그리고 동성애자끼리의 성관계가 생물학적으로는 이성애자의 성관계와 차이가 있다고는 하나 그쪽께서 그걸 뭐라고 할 입장은 아니신 것 같은데요 또 혐오를 하는 걸 뭐라할 건 아니지만 꼭 그렇게 심한 말을 써야하나요? 역지사지로 그쪽이 그런말을 들으면 기분 좋게 새겨 들을 수 있을 것 같나요? 왜 자신이 싫다고 해서 그걸 아무잘못없는 사람들에게 욕을 하고 비정상적인 취급을 하는 건지 이해가 안되네요 그리고 초면에 반말을 하는 건 '정상적인' 사람의 예의가 아니라고 생각합니다만?
ᄂᄉ 인간이 짐승도 아니고 사랑을 번식만을 위해 합니까?사랑은 다양한 형태와 취향 있는겁니다.동성을 좋아하는것도 하나의 취향이고요. 똑같은 사랑을 하는데 그게 왜 변종인지?
ᄂᄉ 뭔 동성애가 변종이야 ㅋㅋㅋ짐승들도 동성애 있다 걍 하나의 인격체가 사랑하는 방식이 조금 다를뿐이다ㅋ그런식으로 따지면 동성애가 변종이라는 막말하는 너의 뇌도 변종이니?
This is one of the most amazing videos I saw!
When you saw them smiling while saying "yes,im a gay" like wooow theyre sooo brave😲💕