Hey guys! We forgot to mention, if anyone is going through depression and/or suicidal thoughts please do NOT use drugs or alcohol as a way to escape reality! Often times the substance can become the new reality as this is commonly seen in addictions. Please feel free to comment down advice if anyone would like to share their insight 🥰
i always tell people with depression to remember that they are the most amazing light in this world because they know what it’s truly like to feel the darkest moments, but they keep going and that is an amazing thing ❤️
The mukbang I thought I never knew I needed. I heard every word you said in this video. I have not been diagnosed with depression, but I think I’ve been battling it for a long time. I have not had suicidal thoughts. I’ve lost touch/connections or have been failing to connect in multiple levels. I have lost the motivation to do anything, I feel like just living for the sake of living but not fully living. I feel so disconnected and purposeless. I wish one day to be able to cast away negative thoughts and look through a different perspective
Someone who overcame depression told me that they wished they got kindness, love and support from the people around them, they said that now they want to be for people around them what they wished they had in there low time.
Your body changes when your pregnant. During my first pregnancy, I had complications, and I gained over 100lbs. It took sometime but lost the weight. Then I found out I was pregnant with my son. After he was born the doctor didn't think he was going to make it, so needless to say the weight came off very quickly due to worrying and stress. Here I am with a healthy 13&9 year old. Your body will snap back but with work. Pregnancy weight is one of the hardest to come off but it does happen. You've got this!
I had this playing in my background while working, everything you said on this video is true. I personally have not been really depressed but the advices you gave helps alot even for a person that just feels sad or lonely. What caught my attention is what you said at 15:20, lol. This is exactly me. I used to party a lot and look for people to hang out with but now that I am getting older, I love spending my days and enjoy it more at home. Cooking meals for my boyfriend or just watching movies. I feel like I always relate to you guys since were on same generation. Really glad you started 'Unnie Talks'. I hope you continue sharing stories and advices like these through this platform.
thank you for saying people are NOT selfish! too many times i see people saying that you’re a bad person or selfish because you’re harming others since you want to commit as if mental illness is something that we can control, it’s not. trying to get help we can control but an attack on our mind/disorders is something out of our hands so i appreciate that. a lot of people insensitive when it comes to mental health
Great discussion… check on your strong friends and be kind because you just never know what someone is going through. So true about the attack on the mind..so true about childhood treatments and the traumas as child not dealt with, can have a negative impact on your adulthood. You touched on so much in this video💙. stay prayerful🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
I had to stop viewing myself as the victim in this life. Accepting that everything good and bad happened for a reason. And that I can either overcome it or be a victim for rest of my life. Start telling yourself the things you wish others told you. Become content with your life right now even if it’s a situation you don’t like. Understand you have the power to change your reality just take it one step at a time and be mindful of your little accomplishments along the way. life isn’t easy but as someone whose struggled in my life.. I’m so glad I’m here! Love you chimi sistaaas
I have bipolar disorder, and i had a very dark deep depression period of my life, the biggest thing that helped me getting better was praying every day and multiple times a day, and talking to someone who really wanted me truly feel better and listened to me ❤️ I love you both
I love your guy's relationship, I know how there are some siblings who don't have a good relationship together but yours is so pure and sweet. God bless you both❤
I wish i could like this video a million times 😩 Your words are so soothing and comforting. Can’t believe i had to pick a note and pen to jot stuff. Thank you for this. ❤️
I really want to thank you two! I wasn't having any bad thoughts I was just stressed regarding exams and your talk just released all my tension. You guys are really good at this. We want more of #UNNIETALKS
Came back here after your new video in which you are eating the same thank you for addressing such issues I am feeling good after watching this , I had been really Low from the past few days
Great discussion, mental health is very important. I'm dealing with overthinking and anxiety issues myself, and i sometimes feel depressed, i overthink my relationship highly, my mind is always thinking something is wrong when in reality nothing is wrong. Pretty annoying to deal with, hopefully it goes away. As a way to escape these thoughts, i often watch y'all's channel, or mukbangs, some twitch gaming streams or i just play video games.
It’s that feeling of thinking your the only person going through something and everyone around you seem so happy and content, yet you know your not in that place! kind of drives you crazy thinking “maybe it’s just me”. The funny thing is when everyone tells you that your so strong because your always there for everyone else, but deep down inside you know your breaking and your internal screams are silent to the world around you. You girls are amazing! 💕
Im so happy to hear you girls made that subscriber change her mind. That is incredibly amazing to hear💕 To the subscriber always know there is someone out there that cares, they may not know you personally but they do care and you matter; every person is someone and is important in this world one way or another♥️
I just want to tell you both that I absolutely love watching you’re channel. You both are so down to earth and push me to be a better person everyday. All you’re videos are so positive and powerful. Thank you for always giving such great advice. Love you both!! ❤
I've been going through alot being 35 weeks pregnant and the baby dad walked away I have had baby blues really bad at times and been struggling listening to you guys really help
I dislike watching mukbang videos, but for some reason I found your video tonight and watched two. I'm now a subscriber. I love how I feel inspired with all of your words. Happy to be here!
i’ve had chronic depression my whole life, mainly genetics as majority of my family has it so even if i force myself to constantly be productive/ healthy it only helps to an extent but i never give up.. i may never be as happy as other/ feel as fully but the little bits i do make me that much more grateful because i hold on to those happy moments/ write them down/ take photos and remember that good days are always to come ❤️
And i have a problem being happy...bcz i just enjoy the little things of life .let's not care about silly things and instead we can try to smile for our family..enjoy watching tv with them having evening walk with them...remember the sun rises after its too dark💜🤍
I love how you ladies hold onto the freedom, truth, and joy of Christ no matter what you’ve experienced in life or one day may; His sovereignty is truly amazing. You both make incredible content and never compromise your walk with God in the process which isn’t seen often in the world of media! Praise God for/to the both of you and may He continue to keep you and yours. May His Hand never stop resting upon/over you both and the generations that will flow from you 🙏🏾💙 (And you are beautiful, Eunice!! Don’t stress yourself out as your body grows to make room for new life 🥰 P.S. you are a beauty as well, Shay 😝!)
You ladies are absolutely amazing! I literally stumbled upon your channel tonight. You guys seem so genuine. I feed off energy and I love the genuine/positive energy you guys have. ❤️💜
Wow even though I found you girls today this topic would've helped be a few months ago as I go on & off depression. I needed someone to talk to outside my circle but other youtubers helped me out so i can relate to this topic
You guys are sooo motivating.....I don't know why am crying but keep making more videos for a motivation cause everyone is going through some hard times and we need someone to tell us what is wrong and what we need to do...LOVE YOU GUYS ❤ YOUR SUCCESS WILL COME IN MANY WAYS❤😇
Just simply have someone to listen to everything that you're thinking and worries. Listening without judgement is very important. Also, not giving up on the person just because he/she is experiencing that depression.
We are going to try this place!! Looks amazing! It’s important to talk to your friends and you can ask them straight up “do you feel like killing yourself?” I learned this in suicide training. People think talking about suicide leads to suicide. This is not true. You can truly help someone asking that question. Checking in on your friends every once in a while, just texting and saying “thinking about you” thank you for this video!
Thank you for what you do. You're definitely right about the coincidences. There are none. Everything happens for a reason. And I do believe I found your show for a reason. I was baptized about a year ago and have been struggling with depression. Although I know God can help me through it's always good to vent and get it out of your system. Especially over some good food. So thank you and I'll keep watching.
little advice for the people strugling. when u are drowning and get up for air, then ur at the bottom so u need to start smal and build on it. u fight the symptoms and eventually u get a stronger position in your mind and then you go further. its always the little things,
I absolutely agree with what you said for me the one thing I held onto was because we’re children of God we have a purpose here and someone that will always love us. If someone out there is reading this going through a tough time please remember that 💞
You guys are just amazinggg , like i have never enjoyed mukbang soo muchhh , appreciate the vid food subjects u guys talk about , pleas keep up the good work , u guys deserve so much more views fo real , hope one day u guys hit 1M , she has that chubby cute mother glow i loveee itttttttt !!! Like when i see her eat and gets full i get soo happy , like it makes me calm knowing she is pregnant and is not hungry anymore hahah i know its weird i cant explain it , loveeee youuuu guyssssss ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ have a lot of respect fo yalllll
3:42 “I hope you guys have something to eat” Hahahaha Me: *gets out of bed, goes to the kitchen, cooks pancit canton and egg at midnight* Hahaha hello from Philippines
OH MY GOSH!! I didnt know you guys were Christian ❤😭😭😭💗💗, i am SO SO SO HAPPY NOW TIMES 10. i knew there was something special that shines through you guys
That scene from the king Richard movie actually happened to Venus. The original video should be on UA-cam plus Essence posted it on their IG page.The interviewer kept on asking her how she knew she was going to win and her father stepped in . It’s a great movie!
At that time I needed someone to listen, someone to talk to and sometimes the so called "friends" who claim to know you are the ones who sometimes add to it but not always.As for me even when I told them after a day it was like I never said anything but luckily I am coming out of depression through Christ he is the one who will help you get through your dark times and even without you asking he knows. YOU ARE NOT ALONE! God is here for you. Have an amazing day😘❤
this hits home tbh.....can I ask, what would be your advice when the main trigger of your trauma / negative thoughts are from your own family or home? I try to be better for myself but its so hard to think positive thoughts and to love myself when one hateful word from my parents bring me down and brings me back to square one. Its not easy to ignore or disregard what they say because it happens too often and im at the point wherein im already convinced by the hurtful things they say to me.... as someone who have suicidal thoughts, when youre at the moment wherein you think you're going to do it, all you want to do is get the overwhelming feeling off your chest. Thats why I think some people dont think of the people they're going to leave behind, because in THAT moment, they just want to be okay (if that makes sense) If you know someone who is in the similar situation, I advice you all to listen to whatever rant or vent they do. It may seem redundant especially if the person has anxiety but trust me, knowing someone out there is willing to listen, no matter how shallow the problem is helps.
i was in the same same situation i grew up with an emotionally abusive father and depressed mother so there was constant negativity and degradation.. the best thing was to focus on myself until i could find a way to move out. i joined clubs/ read/ exercised/ forced myself to make friends/ coworkers/ distract myself and surround myself with positivity even if just through books/ movies.. there will be a day where you will work/ make enough to be on your own but it’s something you have to work towards every day, stay strong and know that you are more than they will ever make you out to be ❤️
Remind yourself that you are the Image of The Most High, and anything they say bad about you, is a reflection of how they truly feel about themselves. It's a negative projection on you, because they don't know how to love themselves, whatever LIGHT you have in you, pisses them off. Being the black sheep is the ultimate cheat code, as much as it hurts, their insecurities about themselves, is not your problem, so try your best not to take it on.
Limit your time with them, spend most of your time with earpods in your room and listen to things that build you up. You only have two choices, live with them or move out and live on your own. If the 2nd one is unrealistic atm then I suggest you try and talk to them about how you feel. Sometimes people forget that they hurt people unwillingly
I stumbled upon this video and skipped it, but coming back to this lifted me up a little. I went through a ugly relationship with someone who didn't like me last year. He ended up cheating on me for a whole year. Throughout the relationship he made me feel bad about myself my self esteem lowered. Fast forward this year back in April I reached out to an old friend who I had a falling out with. She introduced me to a friend of hers. He and I ended up working at the same job, and we grew closer. But, I ended up catching feelings. He gave me the impression that he liked me too because he said "I like you too and I've been meaning to tell you but." So he ended up giving me mixed signals. Said one thing and did something different. All I wanted was to go back to normal, just being friends again. He didn't want to hang out with me anymore because I caught feelings. He ended up cutting me off, and started talking to his ex and other women. Our mutual friend ended up ghosting the two of us and I was there for him as a friend. So I felt like my friendship meant nothing to him. He said he was sorry but his apology was so shady. In the end, I feel like I am an easy target for people to hurt me that way.
thank you so much for this video!! it was very thoughtful and well discussed🥺 your videos alone make me feel so much better!! also, would you guys be open to trying moroccan food?❤️
Not you both please 😱 😭😭😭… no matter what stay strong . This pandemic is depressing enough especially for adventurous people . Please and please again , don’t give in to depression . Glad to watch your show again 😘❤️❤️❤️ Love you and don’t give in to the opinions and pressures of others ( even if they’re family ) . Do you #Chimisquad
2:40 - HINT: Try adding Ajinomoto on veggies (and other chinese dishes) to make them flavorful. Add a few pinches like the way you put salt on your food and check the difference. But you can't always use these as they say it's not good for the body. I'm not saying all of them but most Chinese cuisines have that. 😊
Yeah, watching your videos helped me forget that I am depressed and tired from work. I am a night shift worker and my sleeping pattern is not helping my health at all. Just wanted to say.
i love u girls wise words u have helped me today no Coincidence at all Gratulation is to you both sisters going to have so much good times bringing cousins up together 💙
Today's conversation have lots of influence and you tolds us many things today from which those who are going through depression or sucidial they will definitely change there mide and you talk today about so many positive thinks we all will also try to think as much as positive and special that movie scene talk that she gone win that was so good and so true we all should think like that and live happy Thanks you so for this thought full conversation today Love you #chimichongasisters 😍😍
And.. I'm one of those funny people in my circle whom they do not know goes through things as well. I cry out for help through my writings in wattpad or anywhere, but I don't want to tell my problems to anyone so writing fiction has been my tool
I was blessed hearing what you both said, especially about prayer and trusting Jesus. I preached a message last Sunday from Psalm 77: 1-15 about overcoming negative thoughts by focusing on the Lord and remembering the things He has done for us. What church do you attend?
Good morning I like your channel do you have seasonal winter sometimes I find grey skies dark cold weather can cause depression or that's what I think have you ever find that. Great job with your channel thanks for putting out great video content.
Im from trinidad and tobago in caribbean. Good discussion. Its not about religion...its about Relationship with Jesus Christ. Immerse urself in the Word of God
I was in this stage 3 to 2 years I was really depressed and was having suicidal thoughts. If it's your first time saying it I suggest go to therapy or if that doesn't work talk to your parents never keep your emotions inside always be open never keep anything to yourself. I kept things to myself and didn't tell how I felt to nobody when I really knew I was really depressed was in the beginning of highschool . I had this one teacher who possibly hated me and blamed things on me and try to keep me away from my best friend I felt hurt and didn't tell my parents until one day this teacher said I don't put up with drama after I fainted and my mom rushed home and then the next day I went to school said something that offended me and my mom asked me how was school and I said good but in reality I felt hurt and said my day wasn't good so my parents had enough and my mom called the principal and the principal only talked to the teacher and didn't call me down so I can tell my side . When I told my parents I wanted to comit suicide my parents didn't eat or sleep and I couldn't even stay home because my mom was so scared for me to stay home by myself because she didn't want to come home to a dead body. Also I went to therapy and it really helped and made me be open and talk about how I felt . I'm doing better now and I'm happy now .I was in 8th grade when she said those hurtful things to me and 9th was when I got help . And in 7th grade I didn't think of it until 8th grade and things got worst .
Can ya'll maybe try Afghan food if you can find an Afghan place Some foods I recommend are : Bolani (type of flat bread filled with cilantro and/or potato) , Mantu (dumplings) , Samosa, Pakora (fried cauliflower and potato), Kabuli Palao (rice with raisins and carrots) 🍛 🥟
In my experience me battling depression and anxiety I just want people in my life to say they love me and give me hugs I’m very affectionate and I would like that . I came from my abusive relationship with my ex cheating and I’m trying to find myself love and find myself and I just can’t and I have a 16 month old daughter and I want to make sure I can give her love but I’m just going through so much
Hey guys! We forgot to mention, if anyone is going through depression and/or suicidal thoughts please do NOT use drugs or alcohol as a way to escape reality! Often times the substance can become the new reality as this is commonly seen in addictions. Please feel free to comment down advice if anyone would like to share their insight 🥰
really loved this video ...needed it a lot today ..thankyou
m not religious but the words u said really helped me
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I’m a CBT therapist and honestly, everything you said was absolutely spot on. I felt like I was in a therapy session. Amazing words x
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i always tell people with depression to remember that they are the most amazing light in this world because they know what it’s truly like to feel the darkest moments, but they keep going and that is an amazing thing ❤️
You really are comforting people I love watching your videos they really distract me from reality
The mukbang I thought I never knew I needed. I heard every word you said in this video. I have not been diagnosed with depression, but I think I’ve been battling it for a long time. I have not had suicidal thoughts. I’ve lost touch/connections or have been failing to connect in multiple levels. I have lost the motivation to do anything, I feel like just living for the sake of living but not fully living. I feel so disconnected and purposeless. I wish one day to be able to cast away negative thoughts and look through a different perspective
Someone who overcame depression told me that they wished they got kindness, love and support from the people around them, they said that now they want to be for people around them what they wished they had in there low time.
Your body changes when your pregnant. During my first pregnancy, I had complications, and I gained over 100lbs. It took sometime but lost the weight. Then I found out I was pregnant with my son. After he was born the doctor didn't think he was going to make it, so needless to say the weight came off very quickly due to worrying and stress. Here I am with a healthy 13&9 year old. Your body will snap back but with work. Pregnancy weight is one of the hardest to come off but it does happen. You've got this!
I had this playing in my background while working, everything you said on this video is true. I personally have not been really depressed but the advices you gave helps alot even for a person that just feels sad or lonely. What caught my attention is what you said at 15:20, lol. This is exactly me. I used to party a lot and look for people to hang out with but now that I am getting older, I love spending my days and enjoy it more at home. Cooking meals for my boyfriend or just watching movies. I feel like I always relate to you guys since were on same generation. Really glad you started 'Unnie Talks'. I hope you continue sharing stories and advices like these through this platform.
thank you for saying people are NOT selfish! too many times i see people saying that you’re a bad person or selfish because you’re harming others since you want to commit as if mental illness is something that we can control, it’s not. trying to get help we can control but an attack on our mind/disorders is something out of our hands so i appreciate that. a lot of people insensitive when it comes to mental health
Great discussion… check on your strong friends and be kind because you just never know what someone is going through. So true about the attack on the mind..so true about childhood treatments and the traumas as child not dealt with, can have a negative impact on your adulthood. You touched on so much in this video💙. stay prayerful🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
I had to stop viewing myself as the victim in this life. Accepting that everything good and bad happened for a reason. And that I can either overcome it or be a victim for rest of my life. Start telling yourself the things you wish others told you. Become content with your life right now even if it’s a situation you don’t like. Understand you have the power to change your reality just take it one step at a time and be mindful of your little accomplishments along the way. life isn’t easy but as someone whose struggled in my life.. I’m so glad I’m here! Love you chimi sistaaas
Thank you for this
I have bipolar disorder, and i had a very dark deep depression period of my life, the biggest thing that helped me getting better was praying every day and multiple times a day, and talking to someone who really wanted me truly feel better and listened to me ❤️ I love you both
I love your guy's relationship, I know how there are some siblings who don't have a good relationship together but yours is so pure and sweet. God bless you both❤
Wow, you girls are amazing! 🙌🏻🙏🏻 so lovely to have postive energy and genuine girls as influencers! Bless!!
Shay should be a motivational speaker 🖤🖤
Loved this video
I wish i could like this video a million times 😩
Your words are so soothing and comforting.
Can’t believe i had to pick a note and pen to jot stuff.
Thank you for this. ❤️
🤍🤍 sending love your way
I really want to thank you two!
I wasn't having any bad thoughts
I was just stressed regarding exams and your talk just released all my tension.
You guys are really good at this.
We want more of #UNNIETALKS
Came back here after your new video in which you are eating the same
thank you for addressing such issues
I am feeling good after watching this , I had been really Low from the past few days
Great discussion, mental health is very important. I'm dealing with overthinking and anxiety issues myself, and i sometimes feel depressed, i overthink my relationship highly, my mind is always thinking something is wrong when in reality nothing is wrong. Pretty annoying to deal with, hopefully it goes away. As a way to escape these thoughts, i often watch y'all's channel, or mukbangs, some twitch gaming streams or i just play video games.
It’s that feeling of thinking your the only person going through something and everyone around you seem so happy and content, yet you know your not in that place! kind of drives you crazy thinking “maybe it’s just me”. The funny thing is when everyone tells you that your so strong because your always there for everyone else, but deep down inside you know your breaking and your internal screams are silent to the world around you. You girls are amazing! 💕
Im so happy to hear you girls made that subscriber change her mind. That is incredibly amazing to hear💕
To the subscriber always know there is someone out there that cares, they may not know you personally but they do care and you matter; every person is someone and is important in this world one way or another♥️
I just want to tell you both that I absolutely love watching you’re channel. You both are so down to earth and push me to be a better person everyday. All you’re videos are so positive and powerful. Thank you for always giving such great advice. Love you both!! ❤
I love Eunice. She is so natural 😊
I've been going through alot being 35 weeks pregnant and the baby dad walked away I have had baby blues really bad at times and been struggling listening to you guys really help
I dislike watching mukbang videos, but for some reason I found your video tonight and watched two. I'm now a subscriber. I love how I feel inspired with all of your words. Happy to be here!
i’ve had chronic depression my whole life, mainly genetics as majority of my family has it so even if i force myself to constantly be productive/ healthy it only helps to an extent but i never give up.. i may never be as happy as other/ feel as fully but the little bits i do make me that much more grateful because i hold on to those happy moments/ write them down/ take photos and remember that good days are always to come ❤️
And i have a problem being happy...bcz i just enjoy the little things of life .let's not care about silly things and instead we can try to smile for our family..enjoy watching tv with them having evening walk with them...remember the sun rises after its too dark💜🤍
You guys should do more if these videos, i absolutely love them!!!❤❤
Because you guys are so relatable. Watching you eat is just a bonus ❤️
You girls did great ..I love watching you guys , i had lost my parents myself and kids had went thru so much just to hear this is Godsent ...Amazing
I love how you ladies hold onto the freedom, truth, and joy of Christ no matter what you’ve experienced in life or one day may; His sovereignty is truly amazing. You both make incredible content and never compromise your walk with God in the process which isn’t seen often in the world of media! Praise God for/to the both of you and may He continue to keep you and yours. May His Hand never stop resting upon/over you both and the generations that will flow from you 🙏🏾💙
(And you are beautiful, Eunice!! Don’t stress yourself out as your body grows to make room for new life 🥰 P.S. you are a beauty as well, Shay 😝!)
You ladies are absolutely amazing! I literally stumbled upon your channel tonight. You guys seem so genuine. I feed off energy and I love the genuine/positive energy you guys have. ❤️💜
The timing of this discussion. I needed to hear this today. Thank you girls. I love you both 💕
Wow even though I found you girls today this topic would've helped be a few months ago as I go on & off depression. I needed someone to talk to outside my circle but other youtubers helped me out so i can relate to this topic
You guys are sooo motivating.....I don't know why am crying but keep making more videos for a motivation cause everyone is going through some hard times and we need someone to tell us what is wrong and what we need to do...LOVE YOU GUYS ❤
YOUR SUCCESS WILL COME IN MANY WAYS❤😇
I love your guys video,I just Started watching you guys but I definitely enjoy watching yall especially being sisters
Thank you for adressing this subject. I wish all of you peace, health and love if not from someone else, from yourself ❤
This video made me pull out my Bible. I just relapsed on alcohol after quitting my job. Your sister live use to push and encourage me
Just simply have someone to listen to everything that you're thinking and worries. Listening without judgement is very important.
Also, not giving up on the person just because he/she is experiencing that depression.
We are going to try this place!! Looks amazing! It’s important to talk to your friends and you can ask them straight up “do you feel like killing yourself?” I learned this in suicide training. People think talking about suicide leads to suicide. This is not true. You can truly help someone asking that question. Checking in on your friends every once in a while, just texting and saying “thinking about you” thank you for this video!
this was amazing to watch. thank you. also, im hungry
I love these Unnie talks segments.
Thank you for what you do. You're definitely right about the coincidences. There are none. Everything happens for a reason. And I do believe I found your show for a reason. I was baptized about a year ago and have been struggling with depression. Although I know God can help me through it's always good to vent and get it out of your system. Especially over some good food. So thank you and I'll keep watching.
little advice for the people strugling. when u are drowning and get up for air, then ur at the bottom so u need to start smal and build on it. u fight the symptoms and eventually u get a stronger position in your mind and then you go further. its always the little things,
Thanks girls! ❤️ Found a lot of comfort in this!
Watching this while on my lunch break!
Yeah your videos look so natural.you guys are very nice.😊
You two are wise beyond your years🙏🏼
Thank you for helping me ❤❤ u guys have a great influence on me thanks for so much love and wise words
I absolutely agree with what you said for me the one thing I held onto was because we’re children of God we have a purpose here and someone that will always love us. If someone out there is reading this going through a tough time please remember that 💞
You guys are just amazinggg , like i have never enjoyed mukbang soo muchhh , appreciate the vid food subjects u guys talk about , pleas keep up the good work , u guys deserve so much more views fo real , hope one day u guys hit 1M , she has that chubby cute mother glow i loveee itttttttt !!! Like when i see her eat and gets full i get soo happy , like it makes me calm knowing she is pregnant and is not hungry anymore hahah i know its weird i cant explain it , loveeee youuuu guyssssss ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ have a lot of respect fo yalllll
3:42 “I hope you guys have something to eat” Hahahaha
Me: *gets out of bed, goes to the kitchen, cooks pancit canton and egg at midnight*
Hahaha hello from Philippines
thank you for this. Its helping me understand what I am going through now. Thank you
I was meant to see this video today. Thank you!!! ❤️❤️🥹
This is so inspirational! Love you sisters!
OH MY GOSH!! I didnt know you guys were Christian ❤😭😭😭💗💗, i am SO SO SO HAPPY NOW TIMES 10. i knew there was something special that shines through you guys
That scene from the king Richard movie actually happened to Venus. The original video should be on UA-cam plus Essence posted it on their IG page.The interviewer kept on asking her how she knew she was going to win and her father stepped in . It’s a great movie!
At that time I needed someone to listen, someone to talk to and sometimes the so called "friends" who claim to know you are the ones who sometimes add to it but not always.As for me even when I told them after a day it was like I never said anything but luckily I am coming out of depression through Christ he is the one who will help you get through your dark times and even without you asking he knows. YOU ARE NOT ALONE! God is here for you. Have an amazing day😘❤
Love the videos keep up the great work and thank you for making my day so so much better!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
this hits home tbh.....can I ask, what would be your advice when the main trigger of your trauma / negative thoughts are from your own family or home? I try to be better for myself but its so hard to think positive thoughts and to love myself when one hateful word from my parents bring me down and brings me back to square one. Its not easy to ignore or disregard what they say because it happens too often and im at the point wherein im already convinced by the hurtful things they say to me....
as someone who have suicidal thoughts, when youre at the moment wherein you think you're going to do it, all you want to do is get the overwhelming feeling off your chest. Thats why I think some people dont think of the people they're going to leave behind, because in THAT moment, they just want to be okay (if that makes sense)
If you know someone who is in the similar situation, I advice you all to listen to whatever rant or vent they do. It may seem redundant especially if the person has anxiety but trust me, knowing someone out there is willing to listen, no matter how shallow the problem is helps.
i was in the same same situation i grew up with an emotionally abusive father and depressed mother so there was constant negativity and degradation.. the best thing was to focus on myself until i could find a way to move out. i joined clubs/ read/ exercised/ forced myself to make friends/ coworkers/ distract myself and surround myself with positivity even if just through books/ movies.. there will be a day where you will work/ make enough to be on your own but it’s something you have to work towards every day, stay strong and know that you are more than they will ever make you out to be ❤️
Same here.
Remind yourself that you are the Image of The Most High, and anything they say bad about you, is a reflection of how they truly feel about themselves. It's a negative projection on you, because they don't know how to love themselves, whatever LIGHT you have in you, pisses them off. Being the black sheep is the ultimate cheat code, as much as it hurts, their insecurities about themselves, is not your problem, so try your best not to take it on.
Limit your time with them, spend most of your time with earpods in your room and listen to things that build you up.
You only have two choices, live with them or move out and live on your own. If the 2nd one is unrealistic atm then I suggest you try and talk to them about how you feel. Sometimes people forget that they hurt people unwillingly
I love you guys!!! your videos are so inspirational 💖💖💖
I stumbled upon this video and skipped it, but coming back to this lifted me up a little. I went through a ugly relationship with someone who didn't like me last year. He ended up cheating on me for a whole year. Throughout the relationship he made me feel bad about myself my self esteem lowered. Fast forward this year back in April I reached out to an old friend who I had a falling out with. She introduced me to a friend of hers. He and I ended up working at the same job, and we grew closer. But, I ended up catching feelings. He gave me the impression that he liked me too because he said "I like you too and I've been meaning to tell you but." So he ended up giving me mixed signals. Said one thing and did something different. All I wanted was to go back to normal, just being friends again. He didn't want to hang out with me anymore because I caught feelings. He ended up cutting me off, and started talking to his ex and other women. Our mutual friend ended up ghosting the two of us and I was there for him as a friend. So I felt like my friendship meant nothing to him. He said he was sorry but his apology was so shady. In the end, I feel like I am an easy target for people to hurt me that way.
thank you so much for this video!! it was very thoughtful and well discussed🥺 your videos alone make me feel so much better!! also, would you guys be open to trying moroccan food?❤️
I'm sorry for your loss. My dad passed away 2016. God Bless
Really enjoyed your videos it comfort me a lot
Not you both please 😱 😭😭😭… no matter what stay strong . This pandemic is depressing enough especially for adventurous people .
Please and please again , don’t give in to depression .
Glad to watch your show again 😘❤️❤️❤️
Love you and don’t give in to the opinions and pressures of others ( even if they’re family ) . Do you
#Chimisquad
2:40 - HINT: Try adding Ajinomoto on veggies (and other chinese dishes) to make them flavorful. Add a few pinches like the way you put salt on your food and check the difference. But you can't always use these as they say it's not good for the body. I'm not saying all of them but most Chinese cuisines have that. 😊
All misery stems from desire. Control your desires and misery will not control you.
Yeah, watching your videos helped me forget that I am depressed and tired from work. I am a night shift worker and my sleeping pattern is not helping my health at all. Just wanted to say.
i love u girls wise words u have helped me today no Coincidence at all Gratulation is to you both sisters going to have so much good times bringing cousins up together 💙
You guys made my day 💞✨💗 Thank you 💞💞
Thank you mga Ate (here in the Philippines we call our elder sister Ate). Nothing more to say I just want to thank you, i love you both mga Ate. ❤️
Today's conversation have lots of influence and you tolds us many things today from which those who are going through depression or sucidial they will definitely change there mide and you talk today about so many positive thinks we all will also try to think as much as positive and special that movie scene talk that she gone win that was so good and so true we all should think like that and live happy
Thanks you so for this thought full conversation today
Love you #chimichongasisters 😍😍
I like the video and keep up the great work love from the UK 🇬🇧
I LOVE YOU SISTERS
Great discussion and great advice.
You guys give good advice and love your positive vibes # CHIMISQUAD ❤
And.. I'm one of those funny people in my circle whom they do not know goes through things as well. I cry out for help through my writings in wattpad or anywhere, but I don't want to tell my problems to anyone so writing fiction has been my tool
Obsessed with your channel ❤️❤️
Thank you for this speech.
I am recovering
I was blessed hearing what you both said, especially about prayer and trusting Jesus. I preached a message last Sunday from Psalm 77: 1-15 about overcoming negative thoughts by focusing on the Lord and remembering the things He has done for us.
What church do you attend?
Good morning I like your channel do you have seasonal winter sometimes I find grey skies dark cold weather can cause depression or that's what I think have you ever find that. Great job with your channel thanks for putting out great video content.
Great video! Can u guys do a king taco muckbang, love your guys videos
Inspires me a lot!!!! Thank you so much❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Omg the pregnancy glow there so beautiful
Love you both! New subscriber!. you are bothy beautiful and I just love to watch you both eat
Im from trinidad and tobago in caribbean. Good discussion. Its not about religion...its about Relationship with Jesus Christ. Immerse urself in the Word of God
The "happiest " people are suicidal!!! Including me!!
Love u girls
You guys are so beautiful ❤.i love your videos❤.lots of love ❣❣
You both are my favorite ❤️
Awesome I really enjoy watching till the end
Depression does'nt exist until you think alot...
Good thing I watching while I’m eating 😄
I was in this stage 3 to 2 years I was really depressed and was having suicidal thoughts. If it's your first time saying it I suggest go to therapy or if that doesn't work talk to your parents never keep your emotions inside always be open never keep anything to yourself. I kept things to myself and didn't tell how I felt to nobody when I really knew I was really depressed was in the beginning of highschool . I had this one teacher who possibly hated me and blamed things on me and try to keep me away from my best friend I felt hurt and didn't tell my parents until one day this teacher said I don't put up with drama after I fainted and my mom rushed home and then the next day I went to school said something that offended me and my mom asked me how was school and I said good but in reality I felt hurt and said my day wasn't good so my parents had enough and my mom called the principal and the principal only talked to the teacher and didn't call me down so I can tell my side . When I told my parents I wanted to comit suicide my parents didn't eat or sleep and I couldn't even stay home because my mom was so scared for me to stay home by myself because she didn't want to come home to a dead body. Also I went to therapy and it really helped and made me be open and talk about how I felt . I'm doing better now and I'm happy now .I was in 8th grade when she said those hurtful things to me and 9th was when I got help . And in 7th grade I didn't think of it until 8th grade and things got worst .
Can ya'll maybe try Afghan food if you can find an Afghan place Some foods I recommend are : Bolani (type of flat bread filled with cilantro and/or potato) , Mantu (dumplings) , Samosa, Pakora (fried cauliflower and potato), Kabuli Palao (rice with raisins and carrots) 🍛 🥟
In my experience me battling depression and anxiety I just want people in my life to say they love me and give me hugs I’m very affectionate and I would like that . I came from my abusive relationship with my ex cheating and I’m trying to find myself love and find myself and I just can’t and I have a 16 month old daughter and I want to make sure I can give her love but I’m just going through so much
Thnx it was needed 💜
Thankyou meant a lot 😭😭
Loved this ❤️❤️
I’d like to see you guys eat some Vietnamese food or Laotian food!