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  • @Roatanlova68fmp71lliiiak
    @Roatanlova68fmp71lliiiak Рік тому +26

    Awww that was lovely, I got all emosh when you were talking about your Dad. Your dresses were amazing and you looked like a movie star, very many congratulations to you both and thanks for sharing your day with us. Loved it!

  • @annakristina3644
    @annakristina3644 Рік тому +11

    Ah Meredith 🥰 so cute the moment you gifted your dad

  • @tmougo
    @tmougo Рік тому +10

    Congratulations! What a lovely day! I’d like to say what a kind and thoughtful person you are. I appreciate that as a parent, you protect your children’s’ privacy. Making sure that everyone had drinks that they would enjoy. Having your father walk you down the aisle because you knew how much it meant to him was also a sweet gesture. You looked simply radiant!

  • @carlyh6913
    @carlyh6913 3 місяці тому

    Loving the creamy gum tree trunk next to your ceremony point, constrast is beautiful with those jewel toned red/pink 🌹 roses

  • @kathydobson2720
    @kathydobson2720 3 місяці тому

    Wow, what a gorgeous wedding in every way! You looked beautiful, your dresses were knockouts, the tables were lovely, and I loved all the details you shared, thank you!!!

  • @Susan.K-v2u
    @Susan.K-v2u Рік тому +6

    Thank you so much for sharing your wonderful wedding day. You looked absolutely beautiful . Congratulations Meredith and Hubby ❤

  • @elsatburgess
    @elsatburgess Рік тому +4

    What a wedding Meredith!.Everything was beautiful and the skies shined on you. May you enjoy the memories forever!

  • @DaylesAddiction
    @DaylesAddiction Рік тому +6

    Oh this was soooo great Meredith - I love the story telling and I loved meeting all of your favourite people - it was the most fabulous evening for us but the rest of your day just sounds so perfect!

    • @livingluxwithmeredith
      @livingluxwithmeredith  Рік тому +1

      Thank you my pod mate! It was wonderful to have you guys there, I’m so grateful!

  • @StyledByGwenny
    @StyledByGwenny Рік тому +1

    WOW, you were up against it, but it goes to show if you're surrounded by awesome humans, they can get you through anything! YES to doing things how YOU want! We stuck to 40 for the entirety of our wedding, and it was important to us that our guests had options when it came to food, so we had our reception on a barge at our favourite restaurant and they had the full menu (and bar!) to choose from. LOVED the ice cream parlour shot! You looked absolutely stunning, and with the height difference, you could've easily shared joint pics of you & hubby, just with his head chopped off! 🤣 Congrats once more! 🥂

    • @livingluxwithmeredith
      @livingluxwithmeredith  Рік тому +1

      Thanks so much Gwenny! Sounds like your wedding was to you what mine was to me; perfect! Thank you so much 😊

  • @littleblackbabycat
    @littleblackbabycat Рік тому +1

    Beautiful and personal photos...gorgeous 💖💖💖 especially the black and white ones.

  • @JasonLuxLover
    @JasonLuxLover Рік тому +1

    Wow, you look absolutely stunning on your wedding day so gorgeous so happy for you girl❤❤❤❤❤ and you definitely achieved Marilyn Monroe that day. That was my first stop before it came out of your mouth.❤❤❤❤😊

  • @BabyPinkBubbleBath
    @BabyPinkBubbleBath 2 місяці тому

    I came across your channel very recently, I’m catching up slowly watching all your amazing videos! Thank you for sharing your beautiful wedding story with us, you looked absolutely amazing!! Everything was stunning, your dresses, your hair, makeup, bags, jewelry, etc. 🎉❤

  • @NoraHelmer023
    @NoraHelmer023 Рік тому +6

    What a wonderful story time. Congratulations! The lead-up that you described would have given me a nervous breakdown, but there’s a valuable lesson in there about how you have to take that stuff in stride and things can still turn around and turn out wonderfully! You looked absolutely gorgeous in your wedding photos, and the little touches you included at your ceremony were so thoughtful. Thanks so much for sharing!

  • @velmasmith4604
    @velmasmith4604 Рік тому

    Absolutely beautiful. Hats off to Susan.

  • @Natalieloves_LV
    @Natalieloves_LV Рік тому

    You looked like an absolute princess!!! Beautiful Meredith. Just beautiful!!

  • @chantel198769
    @chantel198769 Рік тому +1

    Don’t cry, ur gonna make me cry 😭 I lost my dad almost 10 years ago now. Sad he never got the chance to walk either of his daughters down the aisle.glad u did that for ur dad. I bet he loved every second of it. Congratulations again on the wedding and getting married

  • @WinnieBeeLV
    @WinnieBeeLV Рік тому +4

    You looked AMAZING! Very beautiful! ❤

  • @h0neypi3
    @h0neypi3 Рік тому +2

    Congratulations on your wedding 🎉
    I really enjoyed your wedding story.
    You’re a great, sweet &witty storyteller ❤

  • @lesleyrigby5648
    @lesleyrigby5648 Рік тому +4

    Congratulations 🎉 Thank you for talking us through the wedding, I really enjoyed listening to you reliving the day . So happy that you had a wonderful day despite illness and weather disaster beforehand . You looked amazing, the photos are fabulous. I’m sure all your guests had the most amazing time what a thoughtful and generous host you are ! Memories to cherish ❤

  • @maureendesmond5642
    @maureendesmond5642 2 місяці тому

    You looked stunning! What a lovely wedding and party! Congrats!

  • @diannelevy9179
    @diannelevy9179 Рік тому +3

    Thank you for sharing your day with us. You looked stunning. Congratulations to you and your husband, he's a lucky guy.

  • @velmasmith4604
    @velmasmith4604 Рік тому

    This sounds great, the perfect and you looked beautiful. You made me cry. Congratulations wedding 👰.

  • @lernermorrison7552
    @lernermorrison7552 Рік тому

    Your wedding was a beautiful day. Thanks for sharing.

  • @minwade5436
    @minwade5436 Рік тому

    A very unusual😮 lead up to yr wedding day‼️ Congratulations everything worked out so well for both of you. I teared up when you said yr Dad walked you across the lawn (it is emotional, no matter how strong & independent). Most girls like their Dad to assist for such a special occasion. Beautiful all round, loved the ice-cream pic it’s just so “fun-loving” like yourself. The pearly white Chanel woc was perfect. I thought you looked Marilyn Monroesque & was delighted watching the video that’s who you were aiming to channel. I did giggle at the LV “record bag” never seen one before. Of course the crystal Fendi was gorgeous the piece “de resistance”, what a magic day of memories & night of celebration with loved ones & friends. Lovely vlog Meredith, TVM for sharing. 🕊️💐😘

  • @rubytimbers397
    @rubytimbers397 Рік тому +2

    Congratulations!! Both dresses were beautiful! Loved the Marilyn look👍🏽❤️

  • @LauraF1981
    @LauraF1981 Рік тому +3

    Congratulations!! You really looked stunning and I got emotional with you when you were talking about your dad. So glad that you will have amazing memories of the day.

  • @marlenepopov8469
    @marlenepopov8469 10 місяців тому

    Lovely pictures. Your makeup was amazing. You looked great. I love your dogs.

  • @nnm3935
    @nnm3935 Рік тому

    Absolutely beautiful Meredith ❤️ Thanks for sharing your special day with us!❣️ Much love and happiness to you and your family always!🥰

  • @violaj6905
    @violaj6905 Рік тому

    Thank you for sharing photos of the gorgeous bride and flowers. Kind of you to share your wedding day story. A special hurray for the gardener for saving the day against the severe weather.

  • @clairesutherland2591
    @clairesutherland2591 Рік тому

    Loved hearing about your fabulous day ❤️❤️❤️

  • @sedshipp8304
    @sedshipp8304 Рік тому

    Your wedding and dresses were fabulous! Thank you for sharing.

  • @KatsayzMeow
    @KatsayzMeow Рік тому

    Congratulations Meredith! Thank you for sharing your lovely day with us, you look gorgeous!! 💕

  • @conniewesson4640
    @conniewesson4640 Рік тому

    You look absolutely lovely. Wishing you a loving happy marriage filled with laughter, adventure & good fortune. ❤❤

  • @denisedaley7249
    @denisedaley7249 Рік тому

    Loved hearing about your lovely wedding. You were beautiful and very successful in channelling Marilyn! Your joy and excitement were so evident--- I had a smile on my face the whole time watching you! So happy that you were finally about to achieve your big day! Love how genuine you are!!

  • @michellecrawford5692
    @michellecrawford5692 Рік тому +1

    Thank you Meredith! I so much enjoyed hearing all about your wedding. What a Fabulous wedding! And you are a Stunner!

  • @TheDarylVlogs
    @TheDarylVlogs Рік тому +4

    CONGRATS Meredith! Beautiful ceremony and you look so amazing. Congrats again

  • @gjvhk2011
    @gjvhk2011 Рік тому

    What a magical day Meredith - really loved seeing your day. Your dresses were just stunning. Thanks for sharing.

  • @JenniGower
    @JenniGower Рік тому +1

    I truly don't think anyone would be bored watching this video lovely Meredith. It was fantastic hearing about everything . After a few very rough days your wedding day sounds absolutely fabulous. You looked stunningly beautiful in both your looks but then you always do. I had tears in my eyes when you talked about your wonderful father walking you down the 'aisle'. Just beautiful . I am not an only child but the only daughter ( I have 3 brothers) and I am a true daddy's girl even to this day. We have always been so incredibly close and even more so since my mum passed if that's possible. I am so much like my mum and he would love to have me by his side every minute of every day. Listening to you talk about your kids and their height made me think of my 2 gorgeous grand kids Mia and Niko.They are nearly as tall as me now and they are 6 and 8 years old. I am 5 ft 1 and half inches, the shortest in all my family by far. They say they can't wait until they can pat nanny on the head.🤣 Not long for that to happen I don't think. Thank you for sharing your magical day with us Meredith. It was a joy to hear all about it and see some wonderful photos A very special day to start off your married life together. Much love Jenni. XX 💞

    • @livingluxwithmeredith
      @livingluxwithmeredith  Рік тому +1

      Thank you so much Jenni, and thank you for sharing your family with me. I know you have surgery tomorrow and I wish you an easy procedure and and a speedy recovery. I’ll be thinking of you and waiting for you to pop back up in my comments so I know you’re ok! Xx

    • @JenniGower
      @JenniGower Рік тому

      @@livingluxwithmeredith Thank you Meredith for your kind words and best wishes for my surgery. They are so very much appreciated. I must admit I am feeling very nervous at the moment and just hope I can get some sleep. I am sure everything will go well though. I'm a tough old bird. I'll be looking forward to your up coming videos to make my day and bring a smile to my face while recovering. XX

  • @jerikedzierski9281
    @jerikedzierski9281 Рік тому +1

    Congratulations Meredith to you and your hubby! You did a fantastic job telling us the play by play which I really enjoyed. You really thought out the details! I loved the mix of the romantic garden wedding with the family and the sophisticated cosmopolitan evening reception. You truly looked beautiful in both venues! May you grow old sharing the same pillow!XO

  • @Jp22573
    @Jp22573 Рік тому

    Bored!!! Are you kidding! Enjoyed it so much, I have to watch it again ❤ Congratulations 🥂🍾

  • @lluvbagel9875
    @lluvbagel9875 Рік тому

    Congratulations on your wedding. Your wedding dress looks whimsical and your hair & make up were gorgeous. The wedding itself looked perfect and glamorous.

  • @elizas5320
    @elizas5320 Рік тому

    Wow. A beautiful story, a meaningful day and lovely people--thank you for sharing a small part of a magnificent day. May you have a long and happy marriage and life.

  • @josettechrystall9290
    @josettechrystall9290 Рік тому

    Just stunning. Was not bored at all. Congrats.

  • @michellecrawford5692
    @michellecrawford5692 Рік тому

    Everything was Beautiful! Dresses are gorgeous! You have great taste and you are such a thoughtful person. You are very special Meredith!

  • @karentolliver-jones4894
    @karentolliver-jones4894 11 місяців тому

    Absolutely lovely…congratulations ❤

  • @ninamodi15
    @ninamodi15 Рік тому +1

    Congratulations, Meredith, to you and your husband on your wedding. Wishing you both a long and happy married life.
    Both your dresses looked gorgeous, as did you.
    It was very touching when you spoke about your Dad walking you down the garden. What a lovely gesture. Your garden looked lovely as did the arrangements for the dinner function.
    Glad you had a fabulous and memorable day with your friends and family 💕🍾

  • @debhunter2078
    @debhunter2078 Рік тому

    Everything looked beautiful, and you just glowed! Congrats

  • @juliel4096
    @juliel4096 Рік тому

    Mazel tov on your wedding, You looked gorgeous and you would never know what issues you had the days preceding your wedding. Thank you for sharing your special day. Here’s to many happy and healthy years together! 💕

  • @MissW.
    @MissW. Рік тому

    What a beautiful, special, personal day. Thank you for sharing it with us!!!

  • @emmalourat
    @emmalourat Рік тому

    Loved this video, you glow so much talking about your day, so glad it was everything you wanted it to be x

  • @shareezaali8739
    @shareezaali8739 Рік тому

    You looked absolutely gorgeous . You are a beautiful lady ❤ . Congratulations 🎉

  • @adasollystyling
    @adasollystyling Рік тому +1

    The Fendi First bag was a great choice. 👏👏👏

  • @hannelievanniekerk2926
    @hannelievanniekerk2926 Рік тому +1

    Hi Meredith. I'm also not a traditionalist, I have been in a partnership for 15 years. I must say if I do get married I would want my day to go like yours did. Just a wonderful party celebrating. Congrats you looked absolutely amazing. Also the venues and decor looked luxurious, like you!!!!

    • @livingluxwithmeredith
      @livingluxwithmeredith  Рік тому

      Thank you so much. I how if you ever choose to get married, you get exactly what you want!

  • @nickieckford4520
    @nickieckford4520 Рік тому

    Beautiful beautiful Meredith!! I also got married in Customs House - Cafe Sydney 18 year ago ❤❤ thank you so so much for sharing xx

  • @DeeDee_Bean
    @DeeDee_Bean Рік тому

    Thank you so much for sharing. It was wonderful and congratulations 🍾

  • @missjanet111
    @missjanet111 Рік тому

    Everything sounds lovely and just perfect. I love that your Dad walked you across the garden. Thank you for taking the time to share! 💕

  • @hutoxidubash6758
    @hutoxidubash6758 Рік тому

    Aww, Meredith- what a wonderful wedding day! Thank you so much for sharing your special day with us. So many little things that made it very special- using your grandma's cake platter & the wonderful gesture for your dad- beautiful. Love Cafe Sydney- they make the best cocktails, so great choice:) You looked stunning & great choice of bags. CONGRATS to you & Mr Lux.

  • @vvn888
    @vvn888 Рік тому

    Congratulations!! Thank you for sharing ❤

  • @therawarren2422
    @therawarren2422 Рік тому

    Everything looked magical! The dresses were divine! Makeup, hair, flowers, shoes . Just everything!!! Congratulations

  • @jeanmoore3804
    @jeanmoore3804 Рік тому

    Awwww what a stunningly beautiful bride you were Meredith , your dresses were gorgeous, I had a feeling the Chanel WOC might have made an appearance as it’s classy and timeless , like your dress . What a shame the wee one wasn’t well and the heavens opened up but it’s all these things that make great memories . I was married at 4pm and didn’t eat all day and during the ceremony I came over all faint , the Reverent whispered to the organist to get the bride a glass of water and he responded by saying I can’t I’m playing the organ 😂 also our best man kept the tradition of wearing nothing under his kilt to the delight of all the senior citizens when a gust of wind exposed him outside the church 😂 , Your flowers were beautiful and what a fab idea with the flip flops , Congratulations again Meredith and I hope you both have many happy years filled with more love , laughter and hilarious chaos xx

    • @livingluxwithmeredith
      @livingluxwithmeredith  Рік тому +1

      Thank you Jean, that means a lot to me! Your wedding sounds like a riot! Such fun memories to look back on xx

    • @jeanmoore3804
      @jeanmoore3804 Рік тому

      @@livingluxwithmeredith yeah it’s all the cock ups along the way that make the best laughs xx

  • @jordanfox2962
    @jordanfox2962 Рік тому +2

    Absolutely loved watching this video, felt like I was there with all the stories! Congratulations, you both deserve this and more for how long you waited! 🎉

  • @emjayluxe
    @emjayluxe Рік тому

    Aww I love this story! Thank you for sharing it with us. I loved hearing about the details and how much fun you had. (The 90s records!! The thongs - brilliant!!) It also brought up good memories as my own wedding was similar in many ways. We just wanted to throw a great party with good food and drink. We skipped most of the traditional stuff. I did have my dad escort me and we did a father-daughter dance. I cherish those memories and photos now, as we lost him unexpectedly last year. It's just as you said - you will keep those moments increasingly close to your heart in the years to come! ❤I'm glad you were finally able to have such a lovely, meaningful celebration with your soulmate. It looked beautiful and like a total blast! 🎉

  • @meldebie625
    @meldebie625 Рік тому

    Congratulation love.u look very beautiful. Stunning dress. ❤❤❤❤ . I still got my Alanis morissete cassete! 😂🎵🎵🎼

  • @mafaldamontecalvo5678
    @mafaldamontecalvo5678 Рік тому

    Hi Meredith!! Love hearing about your wedding day! You looked absolutely stunning!!!!🤩😍
    Congratulations again!!!!!🎉

  • @dorothyandrews8196
    @dorothyandrews8196 Рік тому

    Congratulations Meredith to you and your husband what a wonderful day you looked absolutely stunning in both outfits
    Thank you for sharing l

  • @LivM04
    @LivM04 Рік тому

    How fabulous, such a lovely video, thank you for sharing those moments. You dresses, wedding and party looked absolutely stunning. The crystal fendi first was the best party bag!!!

  • @JasonLuxLover
    @JasonLuxLover Рік тому +1

    Girl, of course we want to hear you talk about this. We love you! You are blowing up! Everyone loves you babe! Congratulations on the wedding. It was so gorgeous. I would love a part two with more pictures story time video.❤❤❤❤

  • @laiyee2715
    @laiyee2715 Рік тому

    Congratulations again on your wedding! Sounds really lovely and beautiful. Both your wedding dresses are amazingly gorgeous!! I would really love to see that stunning crystal Fendi First one day .... Great choice 🩷

  • @andreabrown3116
    @andreabrown3116 Рік тому

    You looked beautiful on your wedding day ! Thanks for sharing.

  • @ekclpn5676
    @ekclpn5676 Рік тому

    Beautiful, perfect wedding day! Congratulations!

  • @antigoniwoodland
    @antigoniwoodland Рік тому +1

    Congratulations, Meredith! Everything was stunning, including yourself!

  • @llnut4775
    @llnut4775 11 місяців тому

    I commend you, this just goes to show that a wedding is all about what you want. Not what society dictates. I feel it’s more about the relationship & not the party. We had a small wedding which we paid cash for & have never regretted it, married 25 years. You looked stunning!

  • @sandistroud7305
    @sandistroud7305 Рік тому

    You looked beautiful in your dresses. Glad you had a fabulous wedding day.

  • @ReginaM.0220
    @ReginaM.0220 Рік тому

    Congratulations! You were an adorable bride! Love your entire looks, and yes, you did invoke Marilyn!

  • @Slightlyneurotic
    @Slightlyneurotic Рік тому

    Lovely pics, your hair and makeup was beautiful. And the dresses, spectacular. Wonderful memories to treasure. Congratulations!! 🍾 💍🥂🎂

  • @adamshausofstyle
    @adamshausofstyle Рік тому +1

    You’re such a beautiful person Meredith! Love that you shared this all with us ❤❤

  • @ninamathe1423
    @ninamathe1423 Рік тому +1

    You looked really stunning! 🌷

  • @somuchdesignwithhanne
    @somuchdesignwithhanne Рік тому

    Thank you for sharing your special day. It sounds absolutely wonderful. What a beautiful bride 💕and great decision on the bag too. Congratulations again 💕💕💕

  • @sarahhughes9275
    @sarahhughes9275 Рік тому

    Omg i love your cavaliers, I have two Blenheim boys. You looked beautiful and congratulations!

  • @cmua9798
    @cmua9798 11 місяців тому

    aww I just loved this - it was so interesting to see your day and you looked so pretty 💞

  • @Glendra5
    @Glendra5 Рік тому

    Just beautiful… all of it! Thank you for sharing such an important day

  • @erican.c.2176
    @erican.c.2176 Рік тому

    Congratulations on your wedding. Hope your daughter feels much better now.

  • @altacostura3512
    @altacostura3512 Рік тому +2

    I could have kept listening for 2 hours, seriously. I was looking forward to this upload! : a) Many congratulations to you and your husband, once again!!! b) Thank you for making us part of that magical day c) You looked just breathtaking, heart-stopping! The dress, the makeup, the Marilyn-inspired look! d) Your photographer did SUCH a good job, gorgeous pictures. I'm very happy that your day was absolutely magical, even if the preceding week/day wasn't. And, for another good party....that's what anniversaries are for! ;)

    • @livingluxwithmeredith
      @livingluxwithmeredith  Рік тому +1

      Thank you so much, and that’s very true! Roll on the first anniversary!

  • @kaipantin5265
    @kaipantin5265 Рік тому

    Congratulations, Meredith! I am thrilled you picked the Fendi First. ❤️

  • @sherikinney9929
    @sherikinney9929 Рік тому

    Congratulations! What a great day! Thank you so much for sharing.

  • @hollygrace6814
    @hollygrace6814 Рік тому

    The whole thing looked perfect, i love all of your dresses and styling. Congrats Meredith!!

  • @pamelamikel7967
    @pamelamikel7967 Рік тому

    Thank you so much for sharing Meredith. I loved every minute. You are stunning.

  • @myown2eyes
    @myown2eyes Рік тому

    Thank you so much for sharing Meredith! What a stressful lead up you had. I’m SO glad the day itself brought you nothing but joy. So many thoughtful details and generous elements in your ceremony and reception. Your gift to your father of walking down the “aisle” is a touching memory I’m sure neither he nor you will ever forget. Many more beautiful memories and happy years to you and your husband and family! 💖

  • @BeachieDogMom
    @BeachieDogMom Рік тому

    Loved all the pics! Such a beautiful bride and wedding. Congratulations 🎊🍾🎉

  • @suziebegg3416
    @suziebegg3416 Рік тому

    Loved this video Meredith, I cried when you cried about your Dad as I lost mine 3 years ago. I wish I could get married again as I love, love the thong idea. X

  • @romdozer
    @romdozer Рік тому

    You're reception dress is to die for!

  • @deborahcurtis1385
    @deborahcurtis1385 Рік тому

    I've felt incredibly positive vibes from this video and I'm usually not a fan of weddings. Congratulations on such a creative beautiful day, where you're being yourselves. Even not forcing the children is so kind and thoughtful. Love it. Subscribed.

    • @livingluxwithmeredith
      @livingluxwithmeredith  Рік тому +1

      Thank you so much!! That’s very kind of you to say!

    • @deborahcurtis1385
      @deborahcurtis1385 Рік тому

      @@livingluxwithmeredith Not at all. I actually really felt it very strongly and I wouldn't make that up. I've been commenting on Dayle's vids for a long time and I never BS. Ask her! I'm just a bit intuitive it's from the French side.

  • @danvillebelle6977
    @danvillebelle6977 Рік тому

    What a beautiful, special day! Your lovely personality shines through all of it. Thank you for sharing it with us.

  • @armindaferreira-bellitti8023

    Absolutely beautiful!!

  • @trishh1734
    @trishh1734 Рік тому

    I got married 14 years ago and had the same champagne flutes as you. Love them! Glad you had a wonderful day. Congratulations!

  • @Luxuryfinds617
    @Luxuryfinds617 Рік тому

    Congratulations beautiful dress awesome pictures

  • @marajw87
    @marajw87 Рік тому

    Thank you for telling us all about your day. It sounds like a dream! Congrats again.

  • @naturalstatemassage
    @naturalstatemassage Рік тому +1

    Thank you for sharing. Lovely ❤️

  • @Luxuryismylove
    @Luxuryismylove Рік тому

    Heartiest congratulations to you 🍾🥂🎉 on your wedding! I am your subscriber & love all your contents & videos here on UA-cam! Have a blissful married life! 🎈🎈🎈

  • @deborahcurtis1385
    @deborahcurtis1385 Рік тому

    I admire your candour: "I really did hate them'! LOL. Good choice!

    • @livingluxwithmeredith
      @livingluxwithmeredith  Рік тому +1

      Thank you. I really did hate them!

    • @deborahcurtis1385
      @deborahcurtis1385 Рік тому

      @@livingluxwithmeredith I find it refreshing that you don't bother with passive-aggressive rubbish. Just out with it and taking action. This idea that being a woman means you have to always be cloyingly sweet is just ridiculous and leads to the passive-aggressive mean girls rubbish. Openly calling it out is the way to go! Give people chances by all means but then call it out!
      (BTW that's the reason I don't usually like weddings...there are all the fights and intrigue and subtle messaging and exclusion etc. I hate it! Plus the idea of having my family together in the same place makes a trip to North Korea seem attractive. In fact that's a great idea...the honeymoon destination after the actual wedding with my family. lol!. Not a fan of appearances for the sake of it).