Lesson to be learned by our OGs. Why on earth would you signed your everythings to your son!? I don't really feel sorry for your parents for being selective love on his kids. In the US no matter what, love your kids equally whether boys or girls. Sad.
I agree with you! I wish and hope that our Hmong parents will change there ways when come to this. Son or not you as a parent should love and treat both your sons and daughter the same. I don’t feel for the parents in this story but I do feel for the daughters. I know how the daughters feel first hand I have experience this myself in the end it’s too late for them to love us and give us what they have when they have nothing left.
WOW…darn selfish parents…😩! I would go and pay extra to help out my kids’ business…not to take advantage of them…! Sister, your parents didn’t help you, therefore you owed them nothing in return…😩! A very good lesson learned for parents who loved their kids unequally…the table has turned to our daughters nowadays…! I would never give all my belongings to my sons…not a chance…😩!
When you are book smart but not life smart. The son needs to check thier wife when she is out of line before it gets out of hand. He is called to lead, yet gave it up to lose it all.
Tsis hais tub los ntxhaig txhob huab ob tug laus tug los ua yus li ua ces yeej npam xwb li os txawm yuav khiav mus nyob qhov twg los yog yus tsis lees tsis thimxav tsis los thovtxim ob tug laus ces yeej tsis muaj hnub tau lub neej zoo ua li os
Lub neej tiam no txhob cia siab heev2 rau cov tub doctor, tiam no tib tsis noj niam mis tib noj nyab mis xwb ces tub doctor tub lawyer los yg tsis mloog nyab hais ces kawg mag nyab muab pov thoob khib nyiab ces nyab tsub nqi loj li loj li koj tus nus ko tiag. Txawm cov neeg tawv dawb los yeej muaj doctor, lawyer nyob qab choj thiab
Why would people always depend on their parents to give them money to go start a business? I started my own business with my own money no one help me and I don’t own anyone anything
I'd like to hear the brother's side of the story to why or how he'd lose everything? This would be a good lesson for the youngers to hear. As for the DIL, there's karma. She might get away today, but none of what she's gotten was hers so these come back to harm her. As for the daughters, they've done good, they'll be prosperous.
The wife of the so called man child Dr., is the weak link. She's cruel and selfish and doesn't realize that in the future, she will have her own do the same. Karma is ready to play!
Ua lub ntuj tsaug rau qhov nws tsis pub cov zoo li koj niam koj txiv nrog rau koj tus nus ntawd sawv los ua neeg nplua nuj. Hom neeg zoo li lawv ntawd, nyob los tsis tsav leej twg, tuag lawm los tsis xiam dab tsi.
Should have told your mother to follow your brother wherever he goes. I am pretty sure you guys weren’t nice to your Nyab either. She’s not evil, she’s just smarter than your brother 😂. What a dramatic family! This is all your parents’ fault.
The nyab is not evil? Did u not listen to the story? Not every nyab is good. You said the nyab is smarter than them. No, smart people don't act like this. She's just evil and selfish. Plain and simple. And don't even assumed the sisters-in-law weren't nice to their nyab either. You are assuming things to fit your narrative only.
@ 🙄 you really believe the story owners? There are always more sides to a story. Of course they will make themselves look good and the nyab look bad. I’m sure you are a Nyab too 🙄.
Lawm aw..cas hnov zaj twg los hnov cov nyab hmoob mekas ko cia li saib tsis muaj ib tug zoo li lawm cas txaus ntshai ua luaj li cov nyab tiam no os lawv tshuav ib qho ntawm cov laus hmoob mekas thiab thov tseg txoj kev foom tej me tub me nyuam niam thiab txi hais me nyuam twb ris tsis tau lawm tseem yuav ntiav muam phauj foom phem rau yus tej me nyuam thiab cas txawj xav qhov phem xwb tsis txawj xa yam zoo cov neeg laus no tsis phim mus nyob lub teb chaw txawj ntse li hlub npaum no cas tsis ntiav muam phauj foom ib qhov zoo kom yus tus me nyuam ho zoo tuaj tseem muaj lub siab xav phem rau me nyuam thiab tos ntuj no hmoob tsis tau qhov zoo los tim cov laus no xwb..tu siab nrog kwb niam txiv tais laus no yuav ua caub mus pes tsawg tiam os lawv a😭😭😭😭😭😭💔💔💔😭
Cov nyab hmong meska no yeej muaj cov siab phem tiag2 li os. Ib tus nyab es nws qhua tias nws zoo no thias tsis nws tus niam pog tuag es nws pom nws tus niam pog nas cov nyab zoo li no puas yog cov nyab zoo na los?. Rau txawm kuv mas kuv hais tias ua phem2 rau niam pog es nws tias li pom no.
Tim Nej niam&txiv lub siab phem tsis ncaj thiaj npam nkawd, tub nyab tsis kam nyiaj los faus nkawd. Nej niam tsimnyog tsawm kom tus nyab npam sai2 noj nyiaj tsis tau tas twb liam, siav tsis tu. Tim Cov niamtais yawmtxiv dev liam tsis qhuab qhia ntxhais mus ua neej. Tub los tsis muaj qhov muag thiaj yuav pojdab los nqus ntshav.
Wow cas tus siab ua luaj li os lawv aw cas kuv nim xav tias lub neej tu2 siab zoo li no ntshe yog kuv xwb no cas tseem yog nej thiab, cas peb cov ntxhais es nim yug los hnav txhaum daim tiab es los ua lub neej tu2 siab. Lawv aw thov peb txhob ua li peb niam peb txiv ua nawb mog.
Peb ua neej nyob yus ua neeg nyob lub nyob qis es yus nco ntsoov tias yus hla dhau yus niam yus txiv lub tob hau tab sis yus hla tsis dhau lub ntuj thiab daim av os mog
Koj txiv twb muaj nyiaj ..tab sis koj txiv tseem kom..nej ua pluas mov.. thiab koj txiv tseem hais tias koj tus tshuav nej nqi no ces.. ntshe koj tus thiaj tu siab...tab sis koj tus nus twb ho tau txhua yam ntawm koj txiv lawm cas nws ho ua li ntawd thiab ne yom..
Ib txhia niag Niam txiv mas hlub tej tub ntxhais tsis sib luag tabsis thaum tuag mas ho xav kom tej tub ntxhais npaj nyiaj pam lawv sib luag….niam no kuv kiag, kuv cov tub cov ntxhais los kuv yeej hlub, pab thiab txhawb ib yam nkaus….tsis hais yog lub tswv yim, lo lus zoo thiab pab nyiaj pab txiaj.
The struggles our generations go through with our parents. There’s a lot of misunderstanding due to the cultural differences. Sometimes it’s not that we don’t love them, we’re just trying to live our lives. Parents are obligated to care for their children and shouldn’t expect so much in return. I’m sad that his parents didn’t understand their role and ruined their only son’s life with curses.
koj niam koj txiv nkawd txojkev khaum kev npam ntsig los txog lawm xwb tsis ua li cas ? hmoob txojkev npau suav uas xav2 tau tub ces cia kom niam txiv tsis txhob tau txais txojkev hlub ces nyuam qhuav ntxim xwb.
nej niag nu ko ma npam loj tiag2 tseem tshuav nej niag nyab thib thiab nawj nw txhoab xav tia nw yuav dim no os nw yeej tsi dim li tsi tau txog caij xwb nyob li ntawm koj niam thiab koj txiv nkawd lo nkawm yeej muaj kev npam ib yam nkau thiab nkawm thiaj thaum kawg nkawm thiaj ua yoov ntxuav te plam tag ib pua tav yam rau nkawm niag tub Dr qab choj ntawm lawm 😢😢😢😢😢
Nej cov niag ntsej muag OG ntawm nej mas yeej hlub me nyuam tsis ncaj ncees kiag li txog thaum kawg nej thiaj li tsis tau chaw tuag ntag lau. Nej ua cuag li nej tus tub mas thiaj yog nyiaj yog kub, nyuam qhuav ntxim xwb mas. Thov kom nej tseg nej txoj kev uas hlub cov tub es tseg cov ntxhais nawb. Cov OG no mas xyov yuav txog thaum twg lawv thiaj li yuav pauv tau lawv tus cwj pwm qias2 neeg li lau.
2 niag niam txiv laus ruam li ntawd ces tuag los tsim nyog lawm. Txawm tub txawm ntxhais los puav leej yog yus me nyuam, yuav tsum hlub kom sib npaug. 2 tug niam txiv laus no yeej muaj kev npam lawm thiaj tau ib niag tub npam.
Ohyo! Koj txiv koj niam tshuav koj tus nus nqi. Koj tus nus tshuav nws pojniam nqi. Txhob tu siab vim nej twb ua neej tsis txom nyem. Dam some of our old fools support only their sons but not their daughters. The old fools deserved it.
New cov ua niam ua txiv txhob ntshaw2 tub txawj tub ntse Tus twg ntse ces Tus ntawd yog Tus khuj noj khuj haus ntag nej sim mloog seb cov neej neeg hais txog tib co tub txawj ntse xwb ntag naw,
Curse is real my Hmong peoples !! Don’t doing something to hurt your parent till their cry , if they are saying a bad word to you you always get it , because your parent who is create you or birth on you like the God create peoples to live on his world .
This is what happens when you put all your eggs in one basket. They spoiled their son from day one and didn’t love you sisters. Koj tus nus npam lawm tab sis tseem tshuav koj tus nyab tseem yuav npam loj heev rau lub neej pem suab. Thaum koj niam twb tsis tshuav ib yam li lawm mam los hlub nej cov ntxhais es zoo ab tsi.
Zoo li no lau, hlub me nyuam tsis sib paug,,thaum kaug tus koj hlub hlub ho tsis hlub koj..zoo li es nej puas khusxim cov ua nej tsis hlub naw...yog li no ,yog kv ces kv tsis kes kes tuaj nyiaj rau lub ntees li os...it's not my problem anymore, the 2 old folks belong to the son,and they only love their son..let this be a lesson for those parents that only favorite the son..
I want to know what happens to the daughter in law too. The 5 sisters please feel free to update on your sister in law if she gets karma too for taking everything away from your parents.
We are in America, not in Laos we (the gos) have to learn the rules in this country. This young generation, they rather on the side of their wives against the parents. If a couple don!t have children do not feel bad just enjoy your life and when you are old unable to take care of yourself just go to the nursing home.
Ua cas ho tsi foom niag nyab xyob txhiaj kom npam tuag tsi siab niaj hnub ruab quav noj kam tas nws ib sim neej es nws thiaj paub txoj kev npam hais tias yog npam lis cas no pob.
Nej xav hais tias ib tus neeg kawm tau Dovtawj es yog neeg ntse no los, nws tsis yog li nej xav os, nws kawm tau los tsuas yog nws txoj hauj lwm kev nrhiav noj xwb tsis tau txhais tias nws yog neeg ntse
Koj tus nus ces twb ruam puag thaum es nej hu nplig rau nws es nws cov phooj ywg hais rau nws xwb los nws tseem chim rau nej thiab, koj tus nws lam kawm tag txoj cais doctor xwb twb tsis yog neeg ntse li os. Teb chaws mekas no ces txhob tshaws tub doctor thiab lawyer os ruam thiab phem tshaj li. Thiab cov nyab doctor thiab lawyer phem tshaj yog 70%-80% yog cov phem ntau xwb os.
cov laus lub siab phem siab me siab nqaim nqaim yog cov 90% yog cov uas zoo li koj niam koj txiv nkawv ov mog, tiam 21 no peb yuav tau hlub tub thiab ntxhais los yuav tau hlub ib yam sib npaug sib luag rau sawv daws ncaj ncees rau sawv daws, yog yawm txiv khuj noj khuj haus dag ub dag no kom pab ub pab no ces kuv yeej tsis kkkkk txog li thiab ov mog,
Sucks that the parents play favoritism. But why borrow money from people to start a business, that doesn't make sense to me. Either borrow from the bank or save for your own business. If you can't come up with your own money for your business then don't start a business 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️ I'm gonna get attacked for my comment but it's the truth.
I own a business and borrowed money from my loved ones! That is why I’m retired, people do it because they need help getting the loan and you need money to make money. For those that are clueless about starting a business, you have to qualify for a certain amount and if you don’t, you have to make up for it out of pocket.
I’m listening, I’m only 7 minutes in. And I knew already his son is gonna screw him over. Please now days everyone is even. We need to put these OG people on the side. Let our newer generation run the program.
Ntxhais twb xav tias txiv tuaj txawb ntxhais lub lag luam ntxhua khaub ncaws, tab sis txiv tseem tuaj kaus ntxhais nkaus xwb yog muaj tseeb. Tub txawm kawm tiav ib daim Dr. degree los tub tseem tshuav nuj nqe $200k mus rau $300k yuav them rov. Yog li ntawv rau tub yuav tsum muab niam thiab txiv tej cuab tam muag kom tag coj mus them es cia tub thiab nyab sib nrauj rau tub mag mus nyob qab choj thiab them child support.
Yuav nyab yuav Tau ua zoo saib nawb. Tsis hais tus tub no xwb. Kuv tus nus Tau Ib tug poj niam coj zoo nkaus li tus poj niam no thiab. Tau tus nyab phem ces yus tus nus lub neej puas tag. Pab tus nus no tu siab kawg.
Hmong people only value sons. Daughters are over looked all the time no matter what we do. Maybe there are some family who values their daughters, but don't have your hopes too high. Sad, but the truth, wait until you are imperfect in their eyes, wait until your marriage fails or fail in something in general, and see if their love is still true and pure. Hmong daughters don't matter no matter how much I see parents preach that daughters are successful and loves them more now etc....yet at the end it still their sons that matters only. Until we newer generations change it, it will still remain the same. I see couples now a days trying for a son if they have girls first just because sons are just that important and valuable in a Hmong family.
Cov niam txiv hmoob txoj me kev ruam tseeg2 tej me nyuam tshaj nws tus kheej ces zoo li no tiag hmoob, luag neeg Meskas mas luag tsis ua zoo li no tsis coj zoo li no os hmoob.
Pos tseeb li koj hais mas? Raws li kuv paub mas W. Buffett twb tsis kam txais $40K rau nws tus ntxhais kho nws lub kitchen. B. Gates tsuas kam yuav tsheb rau nws cov menyuam ib leeg ib lub ib zaug xwb.
The parents raised the son to be selfish, showered him with material possessions, and didn’t teach him empathy, love others, and be considerate of others. The parents it’s too late to be regretting the actions you did.
Hmoob txoj cai dev rau tej tubcag ces zoo li no.
Lesson to be learned by our OGs. Why on earth would you signed your everythings to your son!? I don't really feel sorry for your parents for being selective love on his kids. In the US no matter what, love your kids equally whether boys or girls. Sad.
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I agree with you! I wish and hope that our Hmong parents will change there ways when come to this. Son or not you as a parent should love and treat both your sons and daughter the same. I don’t feel for the parents in this story but I do feel for the daughters. I know how the daughters feel first hand I have experience this myself in the end it’s too late for them to love us and give us what they have when they have nothing left.
WOW…darn selfish parents…😩! I would go and pay extra to help out my kids’ business…not to take advantage of them…!
Sister, your parents didn’t help you, therefore you owed them nothing in return…😩!
A very good lesson learned for parents who loved their kids unequally…the table has turned to our daughters nowadays…!
I would never give all my belongings to my sons…not a chance…😩!
When you are book smart but not life smart. The son needs to check thier wife when she is out of line before it gets out of hand. He is called to lead, yet gave it up to lose it all.
Perfect for parents who think their son is their everything 😅😅😅😅
Kuv saib mas zoo li npam ob tog. Npam tub npam niam npam txiv. Nws lam kawm tom tsev kawm tau Dr. Xwb tsis ntse.
Yeah yog kawg.
tu siab tshaj li os peb cov yug los yog ntxhais hmoob chim siab tag tiam 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Doctor ua tsis tau txiv. Niam&Txiv paj hlwb 1975. Thiab nyab phem!
Koj hais tau zoo kawg li
Tus me tub siab poem li ntawd cia tuag mus zoo dua
Tsis hais tub los ntxhaig txhob huab ob tug laus tug los ua yus li ua ces yeej npam xwb li os txawm yuav khiav mus nyob qhov twg los yog yus tsis lees tsis thimxav tsis los thovtxim ob tug laus ces yeej tsis muaj hnub tau lub neej zoo ua li os
Ur parents fault for raising a spoil rotten brat..whom bow down to his son ..no sympathy for this selfish fool
Siab phem dhau cai lawm lub ntuj yuav rau txim rau os mog hmoob
1leej txiv coj li no xwb cas maj tuag ua luaj tsis nyob ntev me ntsis es thiaj paub txog kev txom nyem yom
Lub neej tiam no txhob cia siab heev2 rau cov tub doctor, tiam no tib tsis noj niam mis tib noj nyab mis xwb ces tub doctor tub lawyer los yg tsis mloog nyab hais ces kawg mag nyab muab pov thoob khib nyiab ces nyab tsub nqi loj li loj li koj tus nus ko tiag. Txawm cov neeg tawv dawb los yeej muaj doctor, lawyer nyob qab choj thiab
Hope all OG learned from this story. Great lesson for all
So sad! But don’t feel sorry for your parents because they doing for themselves.
Cov nyab Xov txhiaj ces zoo li no, pab tus siab. To your brother and parent, that's what they get too.
Lawv yus nyab xyob txhiaj ntawv nws yeej tsi txog twg nws. Yeej yuav ua lub niag neej lwj siab thiab ib txheej dlau ib txheej li os
Cov niam cov txiv no muab xav2 hlub lawv kawg, ho xav2 mas nyuam qhuav haum xwb, kuv los kuv yeej nrog nej nyob ib lub nkoj thiab os cov mi sister.
Tus siab kawg lis os lub neej muaj ib leeg nus xwb
Why would people always depend on their parents to give them money to go start a business? I started my own business with my own money no one help me and I don’t own anyone anything
Agreed!! Most people are money hungry and entitlement! Always want what others have or own . 🤦🏻♀️
I'd like to hear the brother's side of the story to why or how he'd lose everything? This would be a good lesson for the youngers to hear. As for the DIL, there's karma. She might get away today, but none of what she's gotten was hers so these come back to harm her. As for the daughters, they've done good, they'll be prosperous.
The wife of the so called man child Dr., is the weak link. She's cruel and selfish and doesn't realize that in the future, she will have her own do the same. Karma is ready to play!
Vim niam thiab Txiv hlub dhau num nrim lub ntuj thiaj rau txim xwb.
Lub noob poob tsis deb ntawm tsob ntoo - txiv ruam tau tub ruam ib yam 😂😂
Ua lub ntuj tsaug rau qhov nws tsis pub cov zoo li koj niam koj txiv nrog rau koj tus nus ntawd sawv los ua neeg nplua nuj. Hom neeg zoo li lawv ntawd, nyob los tsis tsav leej twg, tuag lawm los tsis xiam dab tsi.
Yog ib tug Doctor muaj daim degree xwb tsis muaj hlwb uas neej, ces kawg tuag.
Should have told your mother to follow your brother wherever he goes. I am pretty sure you guys weren’t nice to your Nyab either. She’s not evil, she’s just smarter than your brother 😂. What a dramatic family! This is all your parents’ fault.
The nyab is not evil? Did u not listen to the story? Not every nyab is good. You said the nyab is smarter than them. No, smart people don't act like this. She's just evil and selfish. Plain and simple. And don't even assumed the sisters-in-law weren't nice to their nyab either. You are assuming things to fit your narrative only.
@ 🙄 you really believe the story owners? There are always more sides to a story. Of course they will make themselves look good and the nyab look bad. I’m sure you are a Nyab too 🙄.
Lawm aw..cas hnov zaj twg los hnov cov nyab hmoob mekas ko cia li saib tsis muaj ib tug zoo li lawm cas txaus ntshai ua luaj li cov nyab tiam no os lawv tshuav ib qho ntawm cov laus hmoob mekas thiab thov tseg txoj kev foom tej me tub me nyuam niam thiab txi hais me nyuam twb ris tsis tau lawm tseem yuav ntiav muam phauj foom phem rau yus tej me nyuam thiab cas txawj xav qhov phem xwb tsis txawj xa yam zoo cov neeg laus no tsis phim mus nyob lub teb chaw txawj ntse li hlub npaum no cas tsis ntiav muam phauj foom ib qhov zoo kom yus tus me nyuam ho zoo tuaj tseem muaj lub siab xav phem rau me nyuam thiab tos ntuj no hmoob tsis tau qhov zoo los tim cov laus no xwb..tu siab nrog kwb niam txiv tais laus no yuav ua caub mus pes tsawg tiam os lawv a😭😭😭😭😭😭💔💔💔😭
Cov nyab hmong meska no yeej muaj cov siab phem tiag2 li os. Ib tus nyab es nws qhua tias nws zoo no thias tsis nws tus niam pog tuag es nws pom nws tus niam pog nas cov nyab zoo li no puas yog cov nyab zoo na los?. Rau txawm kuv mas kuv hais tias ua phem2 rau niam pog es nws tias li pom no.
Peb cov niam thiab txiv coj li no nyuam qhuav haum xwb!! Kuv yeej tsis qhuas li os!! Nov yog kev kawm nawb yeej meem kawm kom tiav ov!!
Cov niam txiv coj zoo li ntawm ces cia nws deal nws nrog tub thiab nyab huab tais mas
Kuv niam thiab kuv lawv coj ntawv thiab tabsis kuv tsis tus siav luaj twg, vim lawv yog noob neej xwb, Vajtswv ntuj thiaj yog ib leej txiv ncaj ncees tej koob hmoov uas tswv ntuj pub rau yus tseem ntau tsaj. Yeej uas thiab hlub yus niam yus txiv lis yus uas tau tawm lawv hluas tsis sib luag.
This story done add up. If they have a marriage certificate, it should be half and half.
Ne txoj me kes ywj poj niam os 😢😢
Zaj dab neeg no hai tau tu siab tshaj plwg mi viv n 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Tim Nej niam&txiv lub siab phem tsis ncaj thiaj npam nkawd, tub nyab tsis kam nyiaj los faus nkawd. Nej niam tsimnyog tsawm kom tus nyab npam sai2 noj nyiaj tsis tau tas twb liam, siav tsis tu. Tim Cov niamtais yawmtxiv dev liam tsis qhuab qhia ntxhais mus ua neej. Tub los tsis muaj qhov muag thiaj yuav pojdab los nqus ntshav.
Wow cas tus siab ua luaj li os lawv aw cas kuv nim xav tias lub neej tu2 siab zoo li no ntshe yog kuv xwb no cas tseem yog nej thiab, cas peb cov ntxhais es nim yug los hnav txhaum daim tiab es los ua lub neej tu2 siab. Lawv aw thov peb txhob ua li peb niam peb txiv ua nawb mog.
U need set boundaries and not play the victim
Peb ua neej nyob yus ua neeg nyob lub nyob qis es yus nco ntsoov tias yus hla dhau yus niam yus txiv lub tob hau tab sis yus hla tsis dhau lub ntuj thiab daim av os mog
This is a sad story but all too common. I blame all 3 sides. No one knows how to love unconditionally. And it starts with the parents.
Kev npam los sai tiag tiag!!
Koj txiv twb muaj nyiaj ..tab sis koj txiv tseem kom..nej ua pluas mov.. thiab koj txiv tseem hais tias koj tus tshuav nej nqi no ces.. ntshe koj tus thiaj tu siab...tab sis koj tus nus twb ho tau txhua yam ntawm koj txiv lawm cas nws ho ua li ntawd thiab ne yom..
Ib txhia niag Niam txiv mas hlub tej tub ntxhais tsis sib luag tabsis thaum tuag mas ho xav kom tej tub ntxhais npaj nyiaj pam lawv sib luag….niam no kuv kiag, kuv cov tub cov ntxhais los kuv yeej hlub, pab thiab txhawb ib yam nkaus….tsis hais yog lub tswv yim, lo lus zoo thiab pab nyiaj pab txiaj.
Cov niam coj txiv thov tsi txhob muab nej lub neej nej tej me nyuam os thaum kawg yus tuag tag lawm es txhua yam poob rau nom tswv los kav liam xwb os
Nyuam qhuav ntxim xwb mas cov niam cov txiv es hlub menyuam tsis sib luag”Equal “
Dr tsuas yog kawm los khwv nyiaj xwb, neeg ntse yeej ntse nruab thiab hos. Leej twg qhia tias tau Dr ces ntse.
Tus viv ncaus aw koj tus nus yug los yuam kev rau hmoob lawm os .txhob tu siab mog .
Kuv ntshaw muaj ib cov muam li nej cov vivncaus heev os. Tusiab nej txiv thiab nej tus nus tsis nco nej tshavntuj. Txawm licas los ciali zoosiab vim nej twb ua zoo txaus lawm. Vajtswv yuav foom koobhmoov rau nej. Tiamno cov ntxhais yog cov hlub niam thiab txiv tshaj lawm.
The struggles our generations go through with our parents. There’s a lot of misunderstanding due to the cultural differences. Sometimes it’s not that we don’t love them, we’re just trying to live our lives. Parents are obligated to care for their children and shouldn’t expect so much in return.
I’m sad that his parents didn’t understand their role and ruined their only son’s life with curses.
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Wow it’s gone forever
Niag nyab poj dab yeej yuav npam sai2 xwb.
Koj niam thiab koj txiv nkawv ces nyuam qhuav phim xwb os. Leejtwg kom nkawv pheej mus ntseeg nkawv niag tub xyob txhiaj thiab noag nyab laib na. 😊
The truth is that your parents love him too much....
koj niam koj txiv nkawd txojkev khaum kev npam ntsig los txog lawm xwb tsis ua li cas ? hmoob txojkev npau suav uas xav2 tau tub ces cia kom niam txiv tsis txhob tau txais txojkev hlub ces nyuam qhuav ntxim xwb.
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nej niag nu ko ma npam loj tiag2 tseem tshuav nej niag nyab thib thiab nawj nw txhoab xav tia nw yuav dim no os nw yeej tsi dim li tsi tau txog caij xwb nyob li ntawm koj niam thiab koj txiv nkawd lo nkawm yeej muaj kev npam ib yam nkau thiab nkawm thiaj thaum kawg nkawm thiaj ua yoov ntxuav te plam tag ib pua tav yam rau nkawm niag tub Dr qab choj ntawm lawm 😢😢😢😢😢
yus yog tus yug yus twb yog tus txw ua ntej lawm ces ha tsi lawv yus qab xwb la a ua niam ua txiv g txawj coj ntag paub lawm los po
Lmfaaaooooooo tab Tom.
Nej cov niag ntsej muag OG ntawm nej mas yeej hlub me nyuam tsis ncaj ncees kiag li txog thaum kawg nej thiaj li tsis tau chaw tuag ntag lau. Nej ua cuag li nej tus tub mas thiaj yog nyiaj yog kub, nyuam qhuav ntxim xwb mas. Thov kom nej tseg nej txoj kev uas hlub cov tub es tseg cov ntxhais nawb. Cov OG no mas xyov yuav txog thaum twg lawv thiaj li yuav pauv tau lawv tus cwj pwm qias2 neeg li lau.
The only winner in this story was the Nyab! She got everything without working for it all! 🤦🏻♀️
2 niag niam txiv laus ruam li ntawd ces tuag los tsim nyog lawm. Txawm tub txawm ntxhais los puav leej yog yus me nyuam, yuav tsum hlub kom sib npaug. 2 tug niam txiv laus no yeej muaj kev npam lawm thiaj tau ib niag tub npam.
I love your stories may! I wait for them daily
Your picture is so beautiful..are you married? Asking for a friend 😂
Ohyo! Koj txiv koj niam tshuav koj tus nus nqi. Koj tus nus tshuav nws pojniam nqi. Txhob tu siab vim nej twb ua neej tsis txom nyem.
Dam some of our old fools support only their sons but not their daughters. The old fools deserved it.
New cov ua niam ua txiv txhob ntshaw2 tub txawj tub ntse Tus twg ntse ces Tus ntawd yog Tus khuj noj khuj haus ntag nej sim mloog seb cov neej neeg hais txog tib co tub txawj ntse xwb ntag naw,
Kv o😢😢😢😢😢
Curse is real my Hmong peoples !! Don’t doing something to hurt your parent till their cry , if they are saying a bad word to you you always get it , because your parent who is create you or birth on you like the God create peoples to live on his world .
This is what happens when you put all your eggs in one basket. They spoiled their son from day one and didn’t love you sisters.
Koj tus nus npam lawm tab sis tseem tshuav koj tus nyab tseem yuav npam loj heev rau lub neej pem suab.
Thaum koj niam twb tsis tshuav ib yam li lawm mam los hlub nej cov ntxhais es zoo ab tsi.
Nplooj yoog kav noob yoog tsav... niam txiv siab phem tub kis siab thiaj phem...tsuag sawm nyuam qhuav ntxim rau ob niag thaub laus xwb!!!
Niam txiv ruam ces menyuam thiab ruam,cia qhia rau hmoob kom ntse xwb
Cov niam cov txiv es hlub tub xwb, tes cia kom zoo li koj txiv nkawv xwb.
Good for your brother doctor isn't mean know everything every hmong guys you should know
Zoo li no lau, hlub me nyuam tsis sib paug,,thaum kaug tus koj hlub hlub ho tsis hlub koj..zoo li es nej puas khusxim cov ua nej tsis hlub naw...yog li no ,yog kv ces kv tsis kes kes tuaj nyiaj rau lub ntees li os...it's not my problem anymore, the 2 old folks belong to the son,and they only love their son..let this be a lesson for those parents that only favorite the son..
Sometimes people forget having degrees doesn’t always equate to having intelligence.
I want to know what happens to the daughter in law too. The 5 sisters please feel free to update on your sister in law if she gets karma too for taking everything away from your parents.
We are in America, not in Laos we (the gos) have to learn the rules in this country. This young generation, they rather on the side of their wives against the parents. If a couple don!t have children do not feel bad just enjoy your life and when you are old unable to take care of yourself just go to the nursing home.
Ua cas ho tsi foom niag nyab xyob txhiaj kom npam tuag tsi siab niaj hnub ruab quav noj kam tas nws ib sim neej es nws thiaj paub txoj kev npam hais tias yog npam lis cas no pob.
Hmong people even now days we still focus more of theory rather than reality.
Nej xav hais tias ib tus neeg kawm tau Dovtawj es yog neeg ntse no los, nws tsis yog li nej xav os, nws kawm tau los tsuas yog nws txoj hauj lwm kev nrhiav noj xwb tsis tau txhais tias nws yog neeg ntse
Koj tus nus ces twb ruam puag thaum es nej hu nplig rau nws es nws cov phooj ywg hais rau nws xwb los nws tseem chim rau nej thiab, koj tus nws lam kawm tag txoj cais doctor xwb twb tsis yog neeg ntse li os. Teb chaws mekas no ces txhob tshaws tub doctor thiab lawyer os ruam thiab phem tshaj li. Thiab cov nyab doctor thiab lawyer phem tshaj yog 70%-80% yog cov phem ntau xwb os.
Cov OGs feem coob ces lawv yeej hlub cov tub dua xwb os txawm cov ntxhai ua neej zoo2 txim txiaj dua los lawv yeej qhua cov tub dua xwb
Tsis yog npam Koj tus nus os…. Yog npam Koj niam thiab Koj txiv os…
Tus nyab no won the lotto and run
Leej niam leej txiv lub siab nqaim2 tsis hlub tej ntxhais thaum kawg ces thiab li quaj tsuag.
As twb tim niag nyab thiab cas ho tsis npa tus nyab thiab li pob
cov laus lub siab phem siab me siab nqaim nqaim yog cov 90% yog cov uas zoo li koj niam koj txiv nkawv ov mog,
tiam 21 no peb yuav tau hlub tub thiab ntxhais los yuav tau hlub ib yam sib npaug sib luag rau sawv daws ncaj ncees rau sawv daws,
yog yawm txiv khuj noj khuj haus dag ub dag no kom pab ub pab no ces kuv yeej tsis kkkkk txog li thiab ov mog,
Hmoob nplog g mj ib tug ua yuav siab phem npaum tu hmoob mekas no tiagzzz li os
They did it to themselves. Hmong needs to change this mindset.
Aub yau tub nyab phem npaum no es Tsis foom thiab Tsis yuav muam Phauj tshawm los Yeej yuav npam li os.
Tus nyab no yeej yog neeg siab phem xwb os
Sucks that the parents play favoritism. But why borrow money from people to start a business, that doesn't make sense to me. Either borrow from the bank or save for your own business. If you can't come up with your own money for your business then don't start a business 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️ I'm gonna get attacked for my comment but it's the truth.
Agreed!
I wholeheartedly agreed with you. All the children look at their parent like an ATM.
I own a business and borrowed money from my loved ones! That is why I’m retired, people do it because they need help getting the loan and you need money to make money. For those that are clueless about starting a business, you have to qualify for a certain amount and if you don’t, you have to make up for it out of pocket.
I’m listening, I’m only 7 minutes in. And I knew already his son is gonna screw him over. Please now days everyone is even. We need to put these OG people on the side. Let our newer generation run the program.
Ahahaha, yep, the younger generations will steal from the OGs and run their life down to dirts
Your parents riped what they sew.
Nyuam qhuav haum xwb mas
Ntxhais twb xav tias txiv tuaj txawb ntxhais lub lag luam ntxhua khaub ncaws, tab sis txiv tseem tuaj kaus ntxhais nkaus xwb yog muaj tseeb. Tub txawm kawm tiav ib daim Dr. degree los tub tseem tshuav nuj nqe $200k mus rau $300k yuav them rov. Yog li ntawv rau tub yuav tsum muab niam thiab txiv tej cuab tam muag kom tag coj mus them es cia tub thiab nyab sib nrauj rau tub mag mus nyob qab choj thiab them child support.
Tau cov nyab phem li no ces niag tub ua tsis tau txiv nkawv Kim nyiaj thiab os
Yuav nyab yuav Tau ua zoo saib nawb. Tsis hais tus tub no xwb. Kuv tus nus Tau Ib tug poj niam coj zoo nkaus li tus poj niam no thiab. Tau tus nyab phem ces yus tus nus lub neej puas tag. Pab tus nus no tu siab kawg.
Hmong people only value sons. Daughters are over looked all the time no matter what we do. Maybe there are some family who values their daughters, but don't have your hopes too high. Sad, but the truth, wait until you are imperfect in their eyes, wait until your marriage fails or fail in something in general, and see if their love is still true and pure. Hmong daughters don't matter no matter how much I see parents preach that daughters are successful and loves them more now etc....yet at the end it still their sons that matters only. Until we newer generations change it, it will still remain the same. I see couples now a days trying for a son if they have girls first just because sons are just that important and valuable in a Hmong family.
Cov Niag Niam thiab uas saib Cov ntxhais tsis muaj nqi es hnub tub xwb THIAJ yog nyiaj yog kub CES thaum kawg ces Tau Dr. Khib nyhiab xwb os
Cov niam txiv hmoob txoj me kev ruam tseeg2 tej me nyuam tshaj nws tus kheej ces zoo li no tiag hmoob, luag neeg Meskas mas luag tsis ua zoo li no tsis coj zoo li no os hmoob.
Pos tseeb li koj hais mas? Raws li kuv paub mas W. Buffett twb tsis kam txais $40K rau nws tus ntxhais kho nws lub kitchen. B. Gates tsuas kam yuav tsheb rau nws cov menyuam ib leeg ib lub ib zaug xwb.
The parents raised the son to be selfish, showered him with material possessions, and didn’t teach him empathy, love others, and be considerate of others. The parents it’s too late to be regretting the actions you did.