Coffee Talks | Personal Q&A life update, Recovery, and a new Family member...?
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- Опубліковано 26 чер 2024
- Coffee Talks Personal Q&A life update, recovery, and pets...?
Hey there,
How was your week? I know my coffee talks are usually at the beginning of each month, but things have been a little chaotic here! So here's a special personal Q&A for you today.
Before I answer all the questions I wanna ask you how are you REALLY doing? I feel we get this question a lot and how many times have we answered with " good, all fine or great" when there were always more feelings going on! I would love to get a little more personal so please share this with me if you feel comfortable. I can't say often enough how thankful I am for this positive community where we can lift each other up and support one and another. It makes me always smile and truly happy to read your stories, comments and questions!
Quick last question for you, what type of videos would you like to see next?
Big hugs xx
Sanne
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Hey Sanne, I hope you get to read this! Your videos have helped me through a really hard time in my life, I was really struggling mentally with my medical school exams and was also having a lot of family problems. I would sit in my room to eat all my meals to get away from the bad home environment and watching your videos gave me 15 mins of relief from everything going on around me. I passed my finals and I am now a doctor and I still watch your videos when I'm alone, it never fails to put a smile on my face. Wishing you all the best from the United Kingdom :D
You are such a sweet, chill, down to earth person, you're the type of person everyone wants in their life🙌❤☀️
Thank you for sharing that it means so much to me ♥️
Please adopt a dog! There are so many in the shelters that need a home- puppies too!
Please consider getting a rescue dog! So many of them that need a loving home 💖
No matter how hectic my day is, i sit down and Sanne's voice just relaxes me!!I love her calmness!!
awe thank you for sharing that❤️ makes me happy to know my voice can help relax you
When you get a puppy, please make sure you adopt one and NOT shop or support a breeder. There are SO MANY wonderful dogs and also puppies in the shelters who need a home. Please keep in mind that you‘re a rolemodel and when influencers get their dogs from shelters or rescue one, even more people save dogs :))
here's the key...reputable breeders.
@@kaseyballou2742 it doesn’t matter how reputable the breeder is - real dog lovers save one instead of buying one 🐶
Not all dog breeds are unhealthy. And some people don’t want to be forced to spay or neuter their dog (it’s been shown to be unhealthy for them). I’m sick of everyone saying that you need to adopt a dog from a shelter. A lot of shelters are horrible. And they all seem to propagate the same ideas in a large and broken system. Sorry if I don’t want my dog mixed with just anything... like a pit or a chihuahua. I think those breeds are too prevalent, and I would generally consider a border collie to be healthier and of higher quality than a cross from breeds like that.
AGREE
you have to understand that dogs have their own personalities and sometimes even grow with your personality if you get one as a puppy. its easier to adopt if you grew up with dogs or had one in the past. otherwise it might not be a good match and can end up bringing the dog back to the shelter. i support adopting 100%, everyone deserves love even animals
Honestly, life is hard no matter what you do and I’m just struggling to find a good balance between school, work, doing the things I love, and spending time with family. Thank you Sanne for making such an honest video ❤️👏👍!!!
This is true! I find it helpful to journal and plan out my time on Sundays even though things can change maybe it can help you too! ♥️
Hey Sanne🌷💕 Thank you for the calm and relaxed chatty video🌼.
Good to see you are well and in a good space💕. I am well, tomorrow I'm turning 23 and I'm looking forward to the next chapter of my life. I've grown so much in this past chapter, moved, been through dissapointments, struggles but even more joy🌷 thanks for the advice about nutrition consistency - I'm exited to really take care of myself after the pandemic struggles!
Hope you enjoy the weekend! Take care! 💕
thanks for the space for an honest and open conversation sanne, really calming to be able to share how we are handleing our own situation. been really stressed tryng to keep up wit my obligations and things for my own pleasure while the situation in my country politically and sanitary is really hard, so we keep it one day at a time
Your videos always make me feel so calm and they literally always boost my mental health❤️ thank you for being you and inspiring myself and many others to live a healthier lifestyle. You’re amazing!
I'm healing and I'm trying to trust the process, being alone and knowing myself better. I had an amazing week, taking day by day and not forcing things.
sending you a big hug and glad you are taking the time to know yourself better, more self love will give you the confidence to know you are on the right track❤️
Omg your getting a puppy!???!! That’s so exciting!!!! I’m a dog lover and I’m telling you, this will be one of the the best decisions you’ve ever made!!!
I can’t wait!!
Hey Sanne,
You are such an inspiration and I love to watch your videos. They are so relaxed and down to earth. I love your fods content, it helped me recover my eating disorder. Thank you so much for being you.
Such thoughtful responses and complete honesty...just love her more by the day xx
Hey Sanne, thank you so much for asking🥰 doing well, trying to figure out some work and school stuff which have been completed but over all doing good 🙏🏽☺️ love watching your vlogs, either it's Q&A, what I eat in a day, day in life, etc, they always make my day and make my heart smile☺️ thank you for sharing 🤍
Yay! You literally made my day!! Thank you 😋🥰🥰
I had been really bad but I think I’m getting out it, I’m genuinely enjoying each day and everyday I find something different to be graceful about. I also found that I’m becoming more mature and I have to enjoy the present. Thank you for asking 😘
Thank you so much for the coffee talks! They are very helpful in times of uncertainty : )
I am fine.. Sanne 🥰❤️❤️❤️Thanks for asking dear..❤️❤️❤️Hope you are doing well too 🥰🥰🥰
Hi Sanne! I missed you! Thanks for asking. ❤️Lately, I feel grateful for what I have and people I have got in my life especially people at work. Just feel like I am on the right path in life. I wish you a great day ❤️❤️❤️
You are so sweet, I am doing well but it’s a big time of change in my life so there is always anxiety with the uncertainty. I am trying to find the little things that bring me joy, set boundaries, and practice patience and gratitude. I love your videos, God bless you babe💘✨
Watching this was like talking to a friend, thanks for sharing! ❤️
So excited to see the puppy! 😊❤️
You helped me make my life better and even right now with this video you help me making my day more positive. Thank you with all my heart for that Sanne.
I have spent the whole day revising for my end of year exams, i have literally forgotten how to do everything. Your videos inspire me so much, love you Sanne xx
Someone to talk to is exactly what I needed today and I never usually comment on any videos, but since you asked and your advice always helps me in some way, I've decided to open up about how I've been feeling. I don't really need you to reply to this and I'm not even sure you'll read me, but I guess speaking about it publicly might make me feel better, freer and just relieved. The truth is I stuggle a lot with loneliness and I feel like I am not important to anyone as people are to me. I have family and a couple friends but somehow they all are, or at least feel, so detached from me, close yet so far away. I also feel like a burden whenever I try to speak my feelings to people but at the same time I have a voice on the back of my mind that tries to undermine how I feel, telling me that I'm stupid for feeling this way and that I shouldn't speak about it to anyone because no one even cares. I've tried to ignore it, I've tried to open up about how I feel but immediately after I feel guilty for doing so. I feel like everyone is busy with their lives, their relationships, their work or their own stuff and they don't have time for me. I just feel very alone and I struggle quite often. If anyone reading has any advice, I really would appreciate. Thanks a lot Sanne for giving me an opportunity to speak about my struggles. I loved the honesty inside the video and I adore the energy you radiate. You are such a beautiful human ! x
You give such good talks and advice and you help many people
You are a great soul sanne much love ❤️
Big hugs and thank you for the support ♥️
Hi Sanne. Thanks for sharing. I feel very similar about the things you are saying and I do hope renovations will be done as fast as they can be. I know it's always longer than you expect! (: In last year I created new healthy habits and it's so true. One you love them you feel sluggish and so not ok after you get back to bad ones. But yes, balance and moderation. I love my morning green protein smoothie and my whisky at the end of some days and it's totally ok! It's really important to enjoy food and not being afraid of it but also be mindful while eating and why are you eating. I also declutter the wardrobe and it feels so much better. You have to make space for new things! In room in mind, everywhere! I am trying to be kind to myself and also set some boundaries to protect my inner self. Have a lovely day and can't wait for more posts!
Had a hard day, but you are motivating me soooo much with your food, workout and the vibe you give off. I love all your videos and hope that you stay safe!❤️❤️
Ik kan me heel erg vinden in hoe jij dingen ziet en je leven leidt. Ik merk dat ik de laatste weken eigenlijk iets te weinig rust neem omdat ik in de eindfase van mijn afstuderen zit. Ik probeer hier een goede balans in te houden door elke dag iets actiefs te doen, gezond te eten en een paar uur voor het slapen niet meer te werken. Toch blijft het lastig om ook een gezellige huisgenoot/vriendin te zijn, maar het is fijn als de mensen in je omgeving daar begrip voor hebben. Ik vind het knap hoe jij daar je leven leidt zo ver van je familie!
I have wanted a puppy all my life. I hope it’s my time soon! Can’t wait to see your little puppy!!! ♥️🐶
Sanne is so helpful and nice to listen too. Has so many good tips .
I was sad because I injured my achilles tendon and couldn't run anymore, but now I've started walking everywhere- long walks- 2 or 3 hours. It is easier on my tendon (which has mostly healed) and it is such a wonderful form of exercise. I know my neighbourhood more, I see the flowers and trees, I have a coffee on the way to work while I walk. If my foot starts to hurt, I take a break. Listening to your body's communications is a good practice, I find. I didn't before, but now I do. : )
Yay! Good morning ☺️
Idk but something about your personality and your whole vibe is so calming and comforting to me, truly love your videos
Thank you for sharing tips on how you keep yourself organized. It's something I've been working on and keeping accountable. Anyway! cheers to staying healthy~ maybe ill finally get myself to pick up a surf board this summer.
Hi! :) I just wanted to say thank you so much. In one of your last videos, you shared the cream you've been recommended to use for your eyes and it has made my life so much better. I had the same thing on my two eyes for about 2 months and I tried different creams and I didn't had much improvement. I was starting to be sad about this and in pain too. When I saw your video, I ran to the drugstore and started using the cream and now it is pretty much gone. Thank you, I am so grateful for your recommandation. 💗
Thank you for answering my question about passion in the relationship ❤️ When it comes to comparing on instagram - they have an option to 'remove' like count on other people's posts and even for your own posts. That way you can focus on content and not likes. I think it's a really cool option ☺️
Love u and your channel..There is so much positivity...❤️
I am having a pretty good day.🌊Just started my Self Confidence Journey and I have started eating more and to not be so hard on myself❤️ You Sanne have inspired me so much in my journey, always looking forward to your amazing recipes! I have had many ups and downs, and that is ok but I can feel myself slowly becoming who I was ment to be✨🌊
Hope your renovations wrap up soon! I’ve been waiting for my engagement ring to get adjusted and it’s taking forever! I think every industry is having delays rn due to Covid. Love your videos and can’t wait to see the finished kitchen and puppy soon!! 🥳💚
I am starting to feel really happy about it being summer, the air is smelling so good in the morning now that all the plants are green again. I just bought my tickets for seeing family later on, and have some concerts I am looking forward to. It feels really good to have things to look forward to again!
i agree! so many things to look forward to!❤️
Dear Sanne, I really appreciate your personal connection. So special you are also asking to us; your true 'followers'. For me; I'm doing so well last time. Such a good and exciting flow by building up my own and new plans. Out of comfortzone; but feeling so blessed to have the opportunity to build up my own dreams and plans from now on! It's always so nice to see and hear your matcha routine. For me it's exactly the same mindfullness-moment of the day. And I can't wait to make very soon your matcha in the wonderful matcha Nekohama bowl. So thankful for you to arrange an item for me. Thank you so MATCHA. Lots of love! Stay safe! X Cathelijne.
Lately life has been challenging for me because is not easy to try to be the best version of me, but I am really motivated to not commit the same mistakes and to heal and forgive myself for all the negative emotions and moments that I put myself through. Also I'm trying to do many positive and wholesome things like, excercises like pilates (your videos of pilates the best!), dancing, singing, drinking matcha (I always think the first drink of matcha is the best of the day), make daily affirmations and also writing them with my feelings and stuff I just felt to write.
Seeing you videos It's very inspiring and I thank you for that.
I give my best wishes for you and your other viewers that mabe feel the same.
You are literally my motivation🤍i loooove watching your videos, it comforts me🌷love you from japan💞だいすき!
Much love from Romania💗💗💗
Love you Sanne! It has been a busy time for me but looking forward to the weekend. 💞I would love more wellness & mental health videos. The mind is such a powerful tool. Maybe a skincare video as well for sensitive skin / body care for sensitive skin. ☺️
This is so relaxing and your voice is like a nice therapy to me :)
Here in France we are doing well, that means people are fighting in streets and complaining any times about anything :D
I'm kidding.
Thanks for asking, i feel good, there is always a worst situation than ours in the world. Here we have a home, a work, good friends and health, that's the matter to me.
Have a lovely day
Sanne, your channel is beautifully done! Very impressive! People should truly understand how hard and energy draining modeling is and on top of that your channel and other endeavor! Smart girl, never put all your eggs in one basket!!🥰👧🦋
I'm so excited to see your puppy💖✨
Hi Sanne, greetings from Russia ❤️ thank you very much for the video and positive energy vibes ☺️✨ I think this is a great idea to make a spring cleaning in the closet and especially throw away or donate the stuff that doesn’t make you feel happy (such as the things we were wearing in 2020 and that remind of hard times) 💛 thank you for the idea, I’m going to try it in my Moscow apartment. I also switched from coffee to matcha because of you and feel much better, I do drink coffee sometimes when I am really tired and need to do a lot of things, but it only happens once in 1-2 months. Love your healthy lifestyle, and these Coffee talks videos are amazing, I feel like you are speaking directly to me and in front of me 🤍
I just graduated high school & I am so happy but so tired at the same time !!!
finally now I have some time to focus on & nourish my soul and body with everyday meditation and yummy healthy food inspired by your recipes ;)🥰
Hey Sanne ❤️ gratings from Germany... I just want you know that I feel really good with your personality
Hi Sanne, I'm doing fine. My healthy lifestyle makes me so happy, it takes time to cook healthy and doing workout every day but in the end it is definetely worth it. I love your cardigan ❤
Hi Ingrid! I'm glad to hear your healthy lifestyle and habits make you happy! keep it up❤️
I just graduaded high school and thats make me both nervous and happy. Online school wasn't so good for my health. Now I'm looking for a job. I heard so many "no" already But I keep going. I know that I will be better soon and this time is not pernament. Thanks for asking! ❤️ I truly love your videos and I Get inspired from them 🤗
Awww finally you gonna get a puppy 🐶💕it’s so sweet 🥲
Omg your coffee talk is exactly what I needed right now! :) Just made a healthy stir fry and I am so excited for this.
I think an other thing about comparison would also be the acceptance of yourself. I know it is hard to do but I kinda am accepting myself now. I try to always tell myself I have a right to my own opinion, I deserve my life (and I do not have to earn it in any way) if I feel that I'm comparing myself to others. If you accept yourself, then comparison does matter less. But yes, it's a long process, take baby steps, you got it!!!!!
I am feeling a bit stressed about next year, because i`m moving to a new city to study & living alone for the first time.. and.. i`m also working on getting a healthier mindset around food, myself & stuff. Love the healthy lifestyle tho
Everything's gonna be alright,I'm sure about that. The new city is holding new adventures for you. I'm sure you're gonna rock it!!!
Xoxo
Honestly I just have a really hard time knowing how I feel and what I need. I don’t know how to b healthy, how to lose weight , how to be happy and make friends and just be a better version of myself.... it’s a little too honest but anyway. Today I feel tired and uncomfortable cause I ate too much, didn’t have enough sleep, have a lot of work to do and no time/energy to do it.
Pretty sure you won’t be reading this, but it’s still good to “share”
I can totally relate to this! It feels like I can't get "in tune" with what I truly need physically and emotionally. Hope you feel better and things improve for you soon!
you just described exactly how I feel so you are not alone
Dear, what about getting professional help? Seeing a psychologist and woeking with a dietitian would be a good step
Hi! I've felt like this too (and still from time to time, and that's normal to have a few "down" moments I think!), and I found out some things: 1: knowing what you need: write out everything that comes into your head, from eating a piece of cake to moving to another city. then classify it into themes, and then into bigger themes, and it should give you an overview of some aspects you need to change/evolve in. 2: how to be healthy: food-wise, I struggle with this too. So I plan my meals for the week: I plan healthy recipes (I have a cookbook for delicious salads with not only leaves haha, and I also use a lot of Sanne's recipes actually!) that I feel excited to prepare and eat (I'm not a good cook and also not really patient so it has to be quick and easy. and also cheap because I'm a student). It helps if it has a lot of colours, I find it more joyful! That's usually done with veggies like peppers, carrots, beets, coral lentils, sweet potato... The key is to prepare a plate just a little smaller than the one you usually eat because I found out I tend to overfill my plate a little and with a slightly smaller plate I feel a little better because I'm not stuffed. And if you're still hungry, either wait 10 minutes to see if you're still hungry or eat a yoghurt straight away, or a piece of fruit you like, whatever works for you! :) Also, I don't buy sodas or chips, crackers... because I KNOW I will just eat everything really fast then feel sick, so it doesn't make me feel good and I only buy it to go to a party (or bring hummus and carrot sticks, ppl actually enjoy refreshing snacks too!). 3: make friends: it's not easy, especially if you're feeling insecure. What helped me a lot was to be in a path that fitted me! I switched from economics to literature and it was like a miracle, I was much more open to people, felt more at ease, and most importantly: I met people that "matched" me! I thing that's so important to be surrounded by people you don't feel ill at ease around, or envious of! Just be with people that make you feel comfortable, that make you laugh, smile... It feels amazing to know you can be a fit for people too. (think about this: if you feel good around them and you both laugh, then you are a person THEY enjoy spending time with and admire for certain qualities. just ask them wich, they will always be happy to tell you positive things about you ;) ) Have a nice day and look at what you like about yourself in the mirror ;) What about your eyes?
I’m doing well, since it’s finally summertime in Minnesota. Kids can be outside, and we love growing a veggie garden. Nervous about return to “normalcy”. I feel like I’ve established a good work-from-home routine and self-care, and I’m nervous about losing that.
so excited for an apartment tour after renovation AAHHHHH 🤍🤍
lovely update!
Love your Coffee Talks ♡︎♡︎♡︎
thank you !❤️
I’m going through a lot of difficult things lately. doctor says i’m having an eating disorder and i need to take care of myself rather than focusing only on other people in my life. so i’m beginning a journey for healing, try to relax and take everything slow. however i’ve finish finals exam so it’s a good thing, but the ending of restrictions in France gaves my anxiety cause there is too many people at the same time outside now. I hope you’re happy and safe, whoever read this comment. love from France to everyone!
things have a been a little hectic and i’m proud of myself for getting through it gracefully. thank you so much for asking how i am doing and thank you for these calm coffee talk videos :) i hope you’re doing well. how are you feeling?
You're absolutely right about doubling up the home renovation time, I recently had my home renovated I understand the pain Sanne
Awe Are you happy with the renovations??
@@SanneVloet yes Sanne it is worth the wait ❤️
Yayyy! First one to view!!! 😌🥳 Love you 💕
Okay that's hilarious that's how I put my hair up to and I was actually putting it up at the same time you were. Except I was across the room at the time and realized you were narrating my actions. 🤣
hahah too funny
Hi Sanne! I've been doing fine. Thanks for asking! I've been worried about gaining more weight and can feel the stress coming on.
Hi Sanne! You inspired me and my fiancé to try Matcha in the first place and now we have a Matcha kit! On weekends we drink it with Vanilla Almond milk and put a hint of cinnamon on the top! Absolutely delicious! Have a great weekend! Andrea
I understand the renovations can be very stressful. I had it end of last year, and it was only 4 weeks, but it was hard especially we can’t cook that much. I can’t imagine you haven’t have “home” for 2months. I hope it ends soon for you 🤞
The semester is ending and I don't have any free time so I cannot wait for the summer so I can finally relax, cook, and try new things, love your vlogs so much💗
yay so glad summer is coming soon so you can relax! ❤️
sanne your videos are really my favourite ones to watch...i really enjoy it and it also helps me to keep going for my hard studies and maintaining a healthy lifestyle...thankuuh❤️
Lots of love from India 🤗
I love how Sanne doesn’t use music in background while talking, it’s so peaceful
I love coffe talk ☕
You're such a lovely person❤ love from Venice😘
Hi Sanne! Een klein berichtje uit Nederland :) je bent een voorbeeld voor superveel meiden en ik hoop dat je je dat beseft! Je bent een topper! Groetjes uit Friesland
Can’t wait to see your pup! 🥰 if you choose to buy and not adopt (which is perfectly understandable) please pick a responsible breeder who gives you puppy with an AKC pedigree. That secures you that the breeder is ethical and and parents are healthy.
Also hope you are getting a golden 😁 that would suit u soooo weeelll
Glad you will get a puppy, I have a shitzu, and he is the most wonderful thing in the world!
You are such a good role model.
Pun intended ?😆
Hi Sanne! Thank you so much for this video and all the effort you put into it. I have a question- how to stop caring what other people think about you?
A rough week medical issues, in the UK we’re just opening up again and feeling a sense of normalcy but it looks like another wave is just over the horizon with the Indian variant. I know we should be used to or by now but it’s so tough, particularly when the weather is soooo bad here! Hope you’re settled soon 🙃
So excited for you to get a puppy! I'm making a guess here and say it'll be a Shiba Inu one 😁🥰
I've been stressed out this week, had so much work to do and I currently feel like I'm not really getting forward in life and can't really find my passion, so I've been kinda randomly crying, which upset me even more, because it doesn't get the work done or changes anything 😅🙈 I'm thinking about getting one of these "success planners" to better plan out my day, and be more productive finally 🙂
I really dont know how a person can be sooo down to earth and chill like you ... Love the way you talk and blahh blahh❤️ Tell ma regards to max broii❤️❤️... Love from Kerala ( India)
Thanks for The tips. Happy Friday
Happy Friday!
please consider adopting :) you can influence so many people to do the right thing!
Hi Sanne!!
I'm healing... I broke 4 ribs and punctured my lung... But, it only hurts when I breathe. I've been enjoying your videos to stay cheered up. Thanks for asking.🙃
Good morning ! ☕☕
I realized today that I had inadvertently been hurting my best friend with some things I had said, and I felt so bad and depressed to the point of tears during the daytime... but your smile and positive vibes have made me feel much better, so thanks Sanne ^^ from Jp.
thank you for sharing - i hope that your best friend and you will be able to have an open conversation about what happened so you can heal together.❤️
Time heals everything, give it time, be patient and be kind to your friend and yourself.
Thank you both so much!
“a word spoken at the right time-how good it is!”
Nekohama is so good that I've just been drinking it without any milk or sweetener!
My boyfriend & I are thinking about getting a cat soon, but I think we're going to foster first! I need a hypoallergenic breed so it's taking us a bit to find a match. Excited to see what you get!!
Love this video💕💕You are so beautiful💛
There's nothing better than a friday morning with Sanne
My days are good. I keep a positive attitude!! I could use help getting motivated back to a healthy lifestyle. I had it all once. Got older and got lazy. What to do to combat laziness?
Hmmm- I’m doing alright. A little stressed about going back to work full time starting on Sunday. I loved my time off- I spent it with family, making jewelry for my etsy shop and doing other things I enjoy like roller skating, etc.
You got this! I'm so glad you were able to do so many things you enjoy though. Make sure to get plenty of rest this weekend and sending lots of love❤️
Hey sanne! So you ask about how we are doing.. I am experiencing the mix kind of feeling there is a time in the day i feel relax and kind of motivated, BUT right after that i started feeling really really down and sometimes (usually😶) i just started crying 😢. LoveX ❤
glad you are getting a dog. if you choose a breeder, your choice don't mind negative comments. My dog is a rescued one but everyone is a different world
Love coffee talks with sanne 🌻😊❤️ having my matcha too 🍵😄
Matcha talks!
@@SanneVloet yes 😄🍵
yeah 😍