I was a terrible teen too growing up. Bad, fast and always in trouble. Neither of my parents were very active in my life. I was raised by my grandparents for the most part. I never felt loved or supported by my parents either. I don’t think I can ever think of a time where they told me they loved me unless I initiated it. So once I had my oldest baby at 22, I just knew I had to be for my kids what my parents never were and like you said, I never wanted my kids to felt what I felt growing up. And my girls who are now 16 and 14 are the COMPLETE opposite of the teen I was. They are so smart, so sophisticated, so well rounded Im often in shock to say that I raised them. So yes, you can absolutely 100% break any generational curse.
man it really hit me when chy said “you know how you go to therapy for people that should be going to therapy” cause i am going to therapy right now because of my mom and how she didnt raise me im glad yall spoke on this it help
Yes!!!! This!!!! I feel like I been doing AA over the ppl who causes my drinking in the first place! They sober and sick af! They ain’t change but I’m supposed to? I do it for me, for ME to heal, but it took til now to realize these ppl might never change and might choose misery and to be always mad about something. I try to distance myself
I can definitely relate to Winter being in her hometown and feeling annoyed folks bringing up her being a bad kid. cause why is the first thing you say when you see me is something negative. They’re always trying to bring you down for no reason without realizing
I’ve always loved Winter, even during BGC.. idk what it was I’ve always got her. Especially after this episode, we grew up so similar 😭.. right down to being “bad” af as kids to being raised by a single mom, to the father problems. Especially the biracial stuff from the other episodes. Love y’all!!
Me too! I always grew up w parents and I still always got Winter and understood her. Ppl twist what she says but she has always been consistent and even if there’s a one-off or so, who cares? Are ppl not allowed to grow and change?!
You know what’s ugly? I have other UA-camrs I really fw and they not as poppin, have kids to feed, and when the ad commercials come on I SKIP. But when it comes to y’all who are already in your bag I’m like HOLD up lemme just watch this lil ad for winnifer and chy chy 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I absolutely love this pod. Thank you guys for talking about these hard conversations of evolving into your new self while everyone around you still holds you to the old version of yourself. That shit is so hard and can be so discouraging to continue to work on yourself. Thank you for touching on this topic this has definitely gave me a new perspective! ❤️❤️❤️
I loved the last 20 mins, these convos need to come out more bc that’s the main thing many people struggle w everyday feeling all the pressure to change the family generation curses
I really wanted winter to elaborate more on her childhood and the healing process of growing up with shitty parents. I feel like so many people can relate to her on this topic but I think it’s hard for her to really dive deep about about it on this podcast because chy can’t really relate.. (no offense chy lol I know you be reading the comments 🤣❤️) but yeah deff wanna hear more about both of y’all’s upbringings. Xoxoxo
Winter and Chy are real and keep it authentic on their podcast. Chy is soo funny with her stories. Winter funny too but a bit more serious with het stories. Overall great podcast both beautiful women wishing you both good health continued success and God bless Winter&Chy 🙌 🙏
I too had an 18 year friendship and everyone on the outside of our friendship would tell me that I do too much for her. She doesn’t do shit back for me on the one carrying the relationship blah blah blah, and I didn’t see it until the last year of our friendship, and I ended up ending the friendship because it was a give-and-take and I was giving and she was taking. It was really hard, but if someone is not pouring into your glass as much as you were pouring into theirs, then it is not worth it but don’t give up a friendship if you’re just jealous that they get to do more things than you because you’re lives, went in a different direction. Now when it’s your birthday, she’s not showing up and showing out for you.(my bestie didn’t) rethink your friendship but on the daily she’s just living her life and you’re living yours but you guys can still communicate that you’re good.
the transitions are hilariously good winter I love them....also keep going ladies I love coming home from work and behind the likes is uploaded also I am similar to Chy too I always thought it was weird to refer to a partner as "daddy" because I don't associate daddy and a partner together like that's weird for me lol but to each his own!
Chy don’t be a mean bartender… I don’t drink often so I don’t always know what I want when I go to a bar. Once you start getting mean to customers at your job, that’s how you know you about to be done working there lol 😅
I really enjoyed this podcast. Winter, you and I have similarities in growing up with a single mother. I love to hear that you have this mindset of wanting better for your future kids, I’ve always thought the same thing and always questioned why didn’t my mom have the mindset to do better for her kids instead of falling in that trap of well I was raised this way so I’m going to raise my kids the same way too. It’s all the healing process 🤍 love you girls
I know Winter has said she doesn’t want to do any more guest’s because they don’t do interviews but I just wanted to say that I watch quite a few podcasts & whenever they have guests they don’t always do interviews sometimes they just invite the guest to talk about whatever topics the hosts have for the episode. If y’all do decide to have guest’s again y’all need people who have personalities that match yalls. Like Jaidyn Alexis, Tim Chantarangsu, Viet Trap, Kazumi, Ashley Siren etc. More pods with Heather as well would be dope.
I agree with the will and Jada thing, it’s literally not shocking at all. With the ddg thing I think the way he handled that rubi rose situation is what ppl aren’t over.
I think when you film ahead of time you should have a guest so that way you don’t have to worry about current events and u can play a game with the guest or more interview style 😊
I’m a bartender too Chey and that’s my biggest pet peeve when people don’t know what thy want and stare at the menu just say you need a minute! I got other tables babyyyy
Definitely relate to that going back home complex 🙄 lol us being from Sacramento it’s like that same vibe where people just look at you like some big Hollywood superstar because you’re in La and work with celebrities (and I know it’s supposed to be a compliment but it’s uncomfortable when we wanted to just be treated “normal” without people look at it with all these expectations
I love when Chy says some country shit that leaves Winter confused 😂
😂😂i swearrr
I was a terrible teen too growing up. Bad, fast and always in trouble. Neither of my parents were very active in my life. I was raised by my grandparents for the most part. I never felt loved or supported by my parents either. I don’t think I can ever think of a time where they told me they loved me unless I initiated it. So once I had my oldest baby at 22, I just knew I had to be for my kids what my parents never were and like you said, I never wanted my kids to felt what I felt growing up. And my girls who are now 16 and 14 are the COMPLETE opposite of the teen I was. They are so smart, so sophisticated, so well rounded Im often in shock to say that I raised them. So yes, you can absolutely 100% break any generational curse.
Thanks for sharing that story.
chy killed me with that dream about her mom😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
yes she did😂crazy tail self
😂😂😂😂 nah frrrr
@@Shame0nYou944 lmaoo so so
man it really hit me when chy said “you know how you go to therapy for people that should be going to therapy” cause i am going to therapy right now because of my mom and how she didnt raise me im glad yall spoke on this it help
Yes!!!! This!!!! I feel like I been doing AA over the ppl who causes my drinking in the first place! They sober and sick af! They ain’t change but I’m supposed to? I do it for me, for ME to heal, but it took til now to realize these ppl might never change and might choose misery and to be always mad about something. I try to distance myself
I can definitely relate to Winter being in her hometown and feeling annoyed folks bringing up her being a bad kid. cause why is the first thing you say when you see me is something negative. They’re always trying to bring you down for no reason without realizing
This is the one !!
Winter, how does your mom feel about you speaking your truth surrounding her parenting?
I love how their personalities opened up overtime 😂❤
Yass winter with the smooth transitions. I see the growth each episode 🩷🫶🏽 keep it up ladies
winter, your transitions are amazing sweetie 😂😂 i loved this episode
I love Chy. She really took all the words out of my mouth during the advice segment
Winter is getting good with these transitions 😭😭
I always look forward to getting in my car and listening to these two!! Can’t get enough of the podcast 🩷
winter’s natural hair goes so fast!
Chy is adorable omg her intro dance 😭😂😂😂😂
I’m not on social media so your topics are always fresh to me 😂
I literally love shy so much she’s so real & transparent. I feel like she would be that friend with the best most responsible advice 😂😂😂😂
The DDG hate is cause she deserves way better. His diss track about her is too much just because she's more famous than him? He's a clown.
Please get Jaidyn Alexis on the pod
naaaa they too fire to have her corny ass on here
Thisssss
Ew
Um no
No 😂
Period y’all always post on my lunch time😩😩
im addicted to this podcast love yall 🫶🏽😂
I’ve always loved Winter, even during BGC.. idk what it was I’ve always got her. Especially after this episode, we grew up so similar 😭.. right down to being “bad” af as kids to being raised by a single mom, to the father problems. Especially the biracial stuff from the other episodes. Love y’all!!
i always liked her too lol actually grateful that she shares so much of herself with us
Me too! I always grew up w parents and I still always got Winter and understood her. Ppl twist what she says but she has always been consistent and even if there’s a one-off or so, who cares? Are ppl not allowed to grow and change?!
You know what’s ugly? I have other UA-camrs I really fw and they not as poppin, have kids to feed, and when the ad commercials come on I SKIP. But when it comes to y’all who are already in your bag I’m like HOLD up lemme just watch this lil ad for winnifer and chy chy 🤣🤣🤣🤣
And we love you for that lmao
This has easily became my favorite podcast. Y’all are so natural with it 💗🥹
I absolutely love this pod. Thank you guys for talking about these hard conversations of evolving into your new self while everyone around you still holds you to the old version of yourself. That shit is so hard and can be so discouraging to continue to work on yourself. Thank you for touching on this topic this has definitely gave me a new perspective! ❤️❤️❤️
People need stop hating on Halle’s pregnancy let her live she can still work
Well, people hate ddg because his ex was posting screenshots a little while ago of him being a dog all over twitter.. so it’s not hate for nothing
It is hate for nothing folks gotta stop investing so much is strangers relationships. Everybody throwing stones from glass houses
@@Toematetoe95nah they were on a break
Chy a real one for that intro 😂
I tune in every single week, like genuinely look forward to this shit💖
Me too I be checking yt all day on Wednesdays 🤣
I loved the last 20 mins, these convos need to come out more bc that’s the main thing many people struggle w everyday feeling all the pressure to change the family generation curses
Everytime Winter go off Chy face be cracking me up 😆😆
I really wanted winter to elaborate more on her childhood and the healing process of growing up with shitty parents. I feel like so many people can relate to her on this topic but I think it’s hard for her to really dive deep about about it on this podcast because chy can’t really relate.. (no offense chy lol I know you be reading the comments 🤣❤️) but yeah deff wanna hear more about both of y’all’s upbringings. Xoxoxo
i need to stop watching this in the office cause y'all got me wheezing 😭😭
Tbh I don’t mind at all if the topic is old, I like to hear what y’all have to say I love y’all’s podcast 💓
Winter with the transitions 🥁 lol we appreciate your effort girlllll ☺️
Not the diary of a mad black woman reference LOL
CHY omg lmaoooooo the dream she is sooooooo funny no boundaries whatsoever lmaoo
Chy got me dying off the intro and I ain’t even a minute in yet 😂😂😂
Chy is literally me playing Trina in the beginning I relate to her a little too much lmfaooo 😂
Maybe when you prefim that’s when you have a guest or y’all do story times, instead of current topics.
Yea that’s what we thought too.
Yes that’ll be better
I literally laugh so hard when you laugh at Cho’s country sayings😭😂😂😂
Wintrr I miss you saying “in other news” every time you change the subject 😂
Winter and Chy are real and keep it authentic on their podcast. Chy is soo funny with her stories. Winter funny too but a bit more serious with het stories. Overall great podcast both beautiful women wishing you both good health continued success and God bless Winter&Chy 🙌 🙏
The only podcast I look forward tooooo
Please bring milly yall are hilarious & so is she
I too had an 18 year friendship and everyone on the outside of our friendship would tell me that I do too much for her. She doesn’t do shit back for me on the one carrying the relationship blah blah blah, and I didn’t see it until the last year of our friendship, and I ended up ending the friendship because it was a give-and-take and I was giving and she was taking. It was really hard, but if someone is not pouring into your glass as much as you were pouring into theirs, then it is not worth it but don’t give up a friendship if you’re just jealous that they get to do more things than you because you’re lives, went in a different direction. Now when it’s your birthday, she’s not showing up and showing out for you.(my bestie didn’t) rethink your friendship but on the daily she’s just living her life and you’re living yours but you guys can still communicate that you’re good.
Chyyyy is such an Aqua love it! 1/21 ♒️ love to see the growth in the pod 🥰
“We can’t play that😐”
“15 seconds!! Who’s bad😏🕺”
lmfaooo i need to see a intro next week from winter🤣
I couldn't even tell that y'all had filmed ahead of time. The topics seemed relevant to that week.
the transitions are hilariously good winter I love them....also keep going ladies I love coming home from work and behind the likes is uploaded also I am similar to Chy too I always thought it was weird to refer to a partner as "daddy" because I don't associate daddy and a partner together like that's weird for me lol but to each his own!
Gat damn chy with the flippers 😂
put the vid back up I had my snack ready😕
Fr fr!
Winter you ate up all those transitions 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
The two episodes were really good. Definitely keep it up! I rather double films then working when you’re both available.
I’m in bed watching you girls and I’ve been watching y’all videos all day, I love this show so much! So mad I’m late to it but I’m glad I’m here!
I loved the last episode. It made me want two episodes a week!
You girls are HILARIOUS! Love your friendship! ❤
Chy don’t be a mean bartender… I don’t drink often so I don’t always know what I want when I go to a bar. Once you start getting mean to customers at your job, that’s how you know you about to be done working there lol 😅
I know boo.. I’m not ever mean. Just my patience get a lil thin when it seems like it’s been a long night of stupidity lol
@@ChyFontenetteAquarius energy lol
@@anedasivothey don’t understand 😩 lmaooo
Chy just letting her intrusive thoughts win 😭
omg yessss i was like i wonder if they uploaded yet and BAMMM 💥
“ We’ve all see Precious” 😭😭🤣🤣
I think it’s cool to film ahead of time as long as it’s not 2-3 weeks off. Love y’all 🫶🏽
YESSSSSSS RIGHT WHEN I NEEDED YA ILYYYYY BOTH
I can’t stand Chy in the beginning 🤣🤣 she too funny I love her so much 🤍🤍
I really enjoyed this podcast. Winter, you and I have similarities in growing up with a single mother. I love to hear that you have this mindset of wanting better for your future kids, I’ve always thought the same thing and always questioned why didn’t my mom have the mindset to do better for her kids instead of falling in that trap of well I was raised this way so I’m going to raise my kids the same way too. It’s all the healing process 🤍 love you girls
I know Winter has said she doesn’t want to do any more guest’s because they don’t do interviews but I just wanted to say that I watch quite a few podcasts & whenever they have guests they don’t always do interviews sometimes they just invite the guest to talk about whatever topics the hosts have for the episode. If y’all do decide to have guest’s again y’all need people who have personalities that match yalls. Like Jaidyn Alexis, Tim Chantarangsu, Viet Trap, Kazumi, Ashley Siren etc. More pods with Heather as well would be dope.
The mom part made me burst out laughing 😂😂
😭 like the girl is a true clown
I LOVE WEDNESDAYS. KEEP IT UP YALLLLL🎉🎉🎉🎉
I love your guy’s friendship!! I hope y’all stay friends forever ❤
Lmfao chyyy I’m dead at the dream you had about your mom 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I Love How Real Chy Is , In My Head That’s My Bestie Pls 🤚🏽😭. I Think It’s Nice To See More Of Winters Personality Too 😌😁🎉
Yay girly time!!! Love the hair chy so pretty!!! And winter sitting all pretty. LOVEEE!!!
Chys face when she knew winter was about to go OFF on the baby daddy topic 😂😂😂
I would love to see Chy and Millie together all three of yall would be tooo funny !
Chy gives true Aquarius! We're so sweet but so mean 😂
I literally love this podcast
I agree with the will and Jada thing, it’s literally not shocking at all. With the ddg thing I think the way he handled that rubi rose situation is what ppl aren’t over.
I think when you film ahead of time you should have a guest so that way you don’t have to worry about current events and u can play a game with the guest or more interview style 😊
Love YOU ❄️ Winterrrr❤ And Of Course Chy❤
yesss yall look good
Chy be killing me “bitch really bouta say this rn “ 😂😂😂😂😂
Chy you look so cute with the braids!
Girl it’s “sweep around your own front door before u try to sweep around mine” lmao
I knew I messed it up lol
Perfect timing🥰🥰 as i close up for work😂
YES MILLI ON THE POD!!!!
“I would’ve took that dream to the damn grave.” 😂
I’m a bartender too Chey and that’s my biggest pet peeve when people don’t know what thy want and stare at the menu just say you need a minute! I got other tables babyyyy
The way I watched this entire pod up to this episode in one week bc the viral clips Yall so damn funny I can’t 😂😂
I liked before even watching 🤭LMFAOOO I’m ready
This episode was so good ❤️❤️❤️
i genuinely enjoy this podcast yall are funny af
EPISODE 19 | ICE SPICE DRAGGED ME
Girl, you need some Ice Spice for that burn?!😂🤦🏾♂️
the only podcast i really watch lol !💯
The dream took me out 💀💀💀😂😂😂😂
I wish yall all the deserved success on your podcast... yall are straight COMEDY 😂 i stg I wish i knew yall irl
My thirsty ass didn’t even read the title before clicking on the video. 😭😭
winterrrrr headphone usersssss 🤣🤣🤣🤣 love y’all lmao
My fav podcast everrr
Definitely relate to that going back home complex 🙄 lol us being from Sacramento it’s like that same vibe where people just look at you like some big Hollywood superstar because you’re in La and work with celebrities (and I know it’s supposed to be a compliment but it’s uncomfortable when we wanted to just be treated “normal” without people look at it with all these expectations
LOVE THE INTRO CHYY 😂😂