THIS Will Stop Your Relationships From Ending | How Infatuation Can Destroy Love

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    Did you know that intense infatuation can eventually destroy love? In this video, Thais Gibson explores the destructive nature of infatuation and how it can be harnessed to build a strong foundation for lasting love. Watch now to learn how to apply a 3-part exercise that will transform intense infatuation into meaningful relationships, as Thais provides useful tips and guidance.
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    00:00:00 - Intro
    00:01:04 - Infatuation
    00:01:48 - 6 Stages of a Relationship
    00:02:33 - The Power Struggle Stage
    00:03:32 - Trait Variety
    00:07:51 - 14-Day Free Trial: Show Up In The 6 Stages of a Relationship
    00:08:13 - Exercise: Write Out the Top 3 Traits of Your Last Relationship
    00:08:31 - Exercise: How Much Did You Express That Particular Trait
    00:10:07 - Exercise: Notice How It Caused You To Be Frustrated Later
    00:11:13 - Exercise: Write Out 3 Ways You Can Express This In Your Life Now
    00:13:13 - Conclusion
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 23

  • @ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool
    @ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool  5 місяців тому +6

    Did you know intense infatuation can eventually destroy love? Comment if you found this video helpful!

  • @GeoffreyAngapa
    @GeoffreyAngapa 5 місяців тому +15

    Maybe in the end, it depicts a divine mystery, where two sides are designed to come together, complement deficiencies, and bring each other to balance. Throughout the laws of physics, as in the forces (except for gravity somehow), we see polarities drawing opposing charges together and repelling those that are like. A balance of difference that holds a system together.

  • @D_B6
    @D_B6 5 місяців тому +4

    Excellent review of how the very things we admire in someone else are those we wish we had ourselves, though not ones we may want to live with!

  • @rickymartin859
    @rickymartin859 5 місяців тому +8

    This one was true gold.

  • @msg3tr1ght
    @msg3tr1ght 5 місяців тому +3

    Most people don’t have the emotional maturity to do trait integration. Social media and instant gratification have made people want relationships to be easy and effortless. This definitely explains why a lot of people I dated loved my assertiveness until I asserted myself with THEM. I definitely try to integrate traits I admire, even in friendships. But I also try to make sure I’m not bending too much to a point where I’m not being true to myself.

    • @cornwallismorgan874
      @cornwallismorgan874 5 місяців тому

      Thank you so much for bringing this up. I've yet for someone to actually respect and honor a stated boundary. It's like once it requires even a sneeze of effort, they bail.

  • @markcafebrown2883
    @markcafebrown2883 5 місяців тому +3

    I will do these exercises tonight. I think they are great to do. You 100% correct, some of the things I really liked about some ppl in past relationships where the down fall of the relationship.

  • @MrJweb19
    @MrJweb19 21 день тому

    Very Informative!

  • @zacpdx
    @zacpdx 5 місяців тому +1

    This is exhausting.

  • @hissweetgrace
    @hissweetgrace 5 місяців тому

    I love this. Well done. I've never considered it this way before. I think it comes down to allowing ourselves to be influenced and shaped by our intimate partner. For sure this has to happen if a relationship is going to progress in a healthy way

  • @dinner-at-the-diner
    @dinner-at-the-diner 5 місяців тому +1

    12:54 "If I'm irritated by every rub, how will I ever get polished?"-Rumi

  • @natalieharrison5202
    @natalieharrison5202 5 місяців тому

    This is actually really great. My past relationship, my partner would say i was the rigid one and i would say he was reckless. Now im the easy going one and partner is routined and he inspires me and i think hes tryna be a bit more easy going.
    Ill speak to him about it but i can see it happening already.

  • @user-lolo14
    @user-lolo14 5 місяців тому

    Makes so much sense. Can I do this exercise with a partner in a relationship rather than just reflecting on a past one?

  • @gregvanpaassen
    @gregvanpaassen 5 місяців тому +2

    Here for the comments by APs and FAs trashing DAs.

    • @Kivlor
      @Kivlor 5 місяців тому

      They are pretty funny. As FA, I have no clue why other FAs do it lol

  • @lakwak
    @lakwak 4 місяці тому

    But if i'm introverted but i want to be extroverted- that is not possible, no?

  • @randomlyfree7964
    @randomlyfree7964 4 місяці тому

    Can we still do that if we are in a relationship right now?

  • @annaynely
    @annaynely 5 місяців тому

    This is all good for those ppl that follow neurotypical ways but not for ppk who are neurodiverse. There are some things that can be useful but ND ppl shouldn't take this to a tee.

  • @markcafebrown2883
    @markcafebrown2883 5 місяців тому +1

    Smash the thumbs 👍 up ⬆️