At this point, he's just releasing videos. And I don't even think it's the original creator anymore. 2017 was peak of this channel. I suggest watch the videos around that era.
I think that in the past ( like when my parents got married in the 1950's ) society was more set up to get young men and women together and have children, it was put into people's minds as they grew up that this is what everyone does, so you follow this direction. Both men and women would be thinking about this, which would 'steer' and encourage them to get together before 'time ran out' etc, so there was some 'incentives' to get together. In recent decades this idea has gone, so there is no longer any 'compulsion' to get together. I think that in the past, i would have got a wife, someone similar to me who wanted a husband, because there was some sort of 'push' from society to do so. Now, i think we have to learn all this knowledge just to form a relationship with the same type of woman that we would have just 'naturally' got together with.
I do see your point/rationale here entirely (the impetus to get settled 'early on') that was always so emphasized. But also too was the emphasis on being 'secured' primarily for females just starting out in life.
You know they actually showed FILMS IN SCHOOL in the 50s about HOW to date and what to do and how to go about finding the right partner for you? These were made right up to the late 50s and there's quite a lot of them uploaded to UA-cam. THAT'S EXACTLY WHY most boomers had no trouble marrying. Them gave their kids NO GUIDANCE in most cases.
@@OffGridInvestor I'm in England and i think things were more advanced in the USA than here ! ( i was reading a book published here from about 1957 about women's interests, and it had an article on the American 'custom' of dating. ) One difference with the modern world is there is no 'compulsion' to marry, have children or even form a relationship. No one is bothered about your personal life. There's nothing 'pushing' people together. People are brought up with a different way of thinking.
@@carlsocci379 I'm in England, and my mother left school at 14 ( that's when school ended when she was younger ) and went to work in a factory with other young women. When one of the girls there got married they would leave, giving an inddication of progress in life. By the time my mother married, she had been in full time employment for six years ! I think there are good and bad things about how society was in the past, the same as it is now. In the past it would be easier for a man to find a wife because there would be a woman looking for a husband.
Not every women are same and not every men are same. So we can cannot tell as 'women like this.., women like that..' etc in this video. So still we cannot get the correct answers for such questions even if watch these type videos. Sad but truth
I see your point there. As we know, we can't please everyone, and nor should we. You can either have a type of girl in mind and steer your behaviour in the hope of attracting that type, or establish the type of behaviour that you like to do ( or are good at ) and see what sort of girl that attracts. ( if it doesn't work or isn't of interest to the type of girl you want, you will have to change how you do something.)
The only thing I pick up from this is to also let the ladies know I have a darker side as I’m ultra kind in normal expression. But my darker emeries are strong too .
I think. "Chaotic" is not the correct expression. Maybe more 'energetically confident' or so. Becausw women.are actually already chaotic, and they are looking for sonebody who can help them relax
"Embrace your inner villain", I love it. It's not about being evil, but challenging live a bit more than most people do.
At this point, he's just releasing videos. And I don't even think it's the original creator anymore. 2017 was peak of this channel. I suggest watch the videos around that era.
I think that in the past ( like when my parents got married in the 1950's ) society was more set up to get young men and women together and have children, it was put into people's minds as they grew up that this is what everyone does, so you follow this direction. Both men and women would be thinking about this, which would 'steer' and encourage them to get together before 'time ran out' etc, so there was some 'incentives' to get together. In recent decades this idea has gone, so there is no longer any 'compulsion' to get together. I think that in the past, i would have got a wife, someone similar to me who wanted a husband, because there was some sort of 'push' from society to do so. Now, i think we have to learn all this knowledge just to form a relationship with the same type of woman that we would have just 'naturally' got together with.
It was necessity then..now its just a want. Wants vs needs
I do see your point/rationale here entirely (the impetus to get settled 'early on') that was always so emphasized. But also too was the emphasis on being 'secured' primarily for females just starting out in life.
You know they actually showed FILMS IN SCHOOL in the 50s about HOW to date and what to do and how to go about finding the right partner for you? These were made right up to the late 50s and there's quite a lot of them uploaded to UA-cam. THAT'S EXACTLY WHY most boomers had no trouble marrying. Them gave their kids NO GUIDANCE in most cases.
@@OffGridInvestor I'm in England and i think things were more advanced in the USA than here ! ( i was reading a book published here from about 1957 about women's interests, and it had an article on the American 'custom' of dating. ) One difference with the modern world is there is no 'compulsion' to marry, have children or even form a relationship. No one is bothered about your personal life. There's nothing 'pushing' people together. People are brought up with a different way of thinking.
@@carlsocci379 I'm in England, and my mother left school at 14 ( that's when school ended when she was younger ) and went to work in a factory with other young women. When one of the girls there got married they would leave, giving an inddication of progress in life. By the time my mother married, she had been in full time employment for six years ! I think there are good and bad things about how society was in the past, the same as it is now. In the past it would be easier for a man to find a wife because there would be a woman looking for a husband.
seems to vary, when I'm sporadic at times some women aren't fans of it
Very informative video.❤🎉😊
Not every women are same and not every men are same. So we can cannot tell as 'women like this.., women like that..' etc in this video. So still we cannot get the correct answers for such questions even if watch these type videos. Sad but truth
I see your point there. As we know, we can't please everyone, and nor should we. You can either have a type of girl in mind and steer your behaviour in the hope of attracting that type, or establish the type of behaviour that you like to do ( or are good at ) and see what sort of girl that attracts. ( if it doesn't work or isn't of interest to the type of girl you want, you will have to change how you do something.)
sounds good but that goes against the whole being stoic theory...
Hey
can you make you a video how to be as a man in a marriage. And with kids. how should i raise my kids best way.
I am a woman. Just be authentic guys. These are wrong advices.🙏
The only thing I pick up from this is to also let the ladies know I have a darker side as I’m ultra kind in normal expression. But my darker emeries are strong too .
That doesn't work though. Women keep saying "I'm not ready for a relationship" and other nonsense to me.
I think. "Chaotic" is not the correct expression. Maybe more 'energetically confident' or so. Becausw women.are actually already chaotic, and they are looking for sonebody who can help them relax
I think they want you to be both: A save haven and an adventurer. ;-)