An Impossible Decision | When is the right time to put down your pet?
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- Опубліковано 1 чер 2024
- My 8 year old boston terrier, Riley, got diagnosed with a cancerous mass cell tumor, then brain cancer and epilepsy. We've tried radiation and she's on 5 different medications to keep her stable. She's tired, and I'm tired... and soon it might be time to let her go. It's one of the worst feelings in the world
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Timestamps:
00:00-00:14 Intro
00:14-01:43 Coming to terms with Mortality
01:43-02:30 The Impossible Decision
02:30-03:41 Rant bc life's unfair
03:41-05:31 To leave you with a smile on your face :)
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Hey Jibby, I watched your video earlier today and cried with you. Not only I feel extremelly sorry for what is going on, but because I went through the same about four months ago.
In may, our little 17 year old daschund Bisou passed away, after months and months of struggle, intense care from me and my family, infinite medication, weekly visits to the vet (where yes, for 8 months, we though each visit was going to be the last one - and she then surprised us by recovering and giving us hope she would be eternal). There was a lot of money spent, and a LOT of emotional energy. We had been on this mourning state, just as you described, for months and months, and it was really exhaustive. At some point we agreed with the vet that it was pointless to keep running tests (every month we would find out a different part of her was slowly stopping to work) and giving her intense treatment. On may 6th we found out her liver stopped functioning completely, and it would be a matter of days until she passed (in which we, heartbroken, agreed to put her down if she showed signs of suffering). That same night, she died in her sleep, with me, my parents and my sister around her.
These pets, they take a space in our lives that is hard to describe with words. I completely understand the emotional rollercoaster you're going through right now, and I believe you're doing right by spending time with Riley. It is so clear in her face how much she loves you, and that is a gift. It won't be easy, but the beautiful memories will always be with you
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I’m so so SO sorry ❤. I have had to let go of 2 of my dogs, 6 years ago and again 3 years ago. The first time, my dog had cancer and it eventually returned. The 2nd time, was very sudden and she was just gone. I was shattered. She was the closest one to me in this world, knew me better than anyone in the world. I had to move in with my mother for a while when this happened. I let myself grieve, let my body feel her loss. I prayed and prayed and prayed. Gave it to God and knew He was the only one that could ever heal my heart. It took time. I still cry when I talk about her. I brought her ashes home, had portraits made, had a sweatshirt made, got a tattoo. She’s with me all the time. She’s in my heart, the Lord is keeping her for me. Perfectly healthy and happy until we get to be together again. You’ll know when it’s time, it is the last loving decision you can make for her. You are blessed to have each other. They are gifts from God, He gave us dominion over them and has us take care of them. Remember she is a gift ❤❤❤
Here are some things that might help you in your journey and afterwards. Take pictures and video of Riley as you spend time with her. Make a playlist of songs from over your years together. Plan to do something special in memory and appreciation for her life. It sounds like you are already making her time as warm and full of love as possible. My heart goes out to you.
Thank you so much for your suggestions. I love the idea of a playlist from over the years. I definitely hope to do a celebration of life ❤️
I had to put down my cat; she was 19 years old. We got her on my 10th birthday and we had to say goodbye to her last year. It was so hard, she was an integral part of our lives for 12 years and we had to let her go. I value and cherish every memory of her
I’m so sorry you lost your baby! Wow 19 years!! She really held strong. I’m sure you gave her the best 12 years and was lucky to have you ❤️
Sending you all the hugs in the world. Such a difficult situation. I hope you’re able to make the right decision for you both ❤
Thank you ❤️ we really appreciate it
I feel your pain. Im in the same boat! My Yorkie has been with me for 11 years and she is going blind, has tumors growing and she has a major yeast infection where she scratches all day and I’ve had her on so many phases of antibiotics and creams and eye meds. And at this point I feel selfish because she does have her goods days but the look in her eyes isn’t the same. I’ve been pondering over the last year since her last surgery and she just seems like she’s suffering. 🥺😢😭
I am so sorry to hear about Riley and this situation. I recently had to take my sweet cat Chloe to the vet to be put to sleep as a emergency. Every time I remember her it’s seeing her in pain and in a terrible way. The real kicker is she was just fine the night before. In my experience.. it’s so much worse to be forced into that decision and not be able to say goodbye the way you want. It’s been 2 weeks and not a day goes by that I don’t miss her
Gosh I’m so so sorry. We had a scare where I took her to the vet in that way and thought I’d never bring her back home. It was awful and I can only imagine what you went through. I’m so sorry you lost your baby. You were the best mama to her I’m sure and gave her such an amazing life ❤️
My mother-in-law told me a long time ago, better a day too early than a day too late. It's the hardest thing to know when the day is, but I've been in the position of being a day too late and as I looked back, it's still hard to know when that right day was. Sometimes our pups tell us when they're ready but we're not ready to hear it. Only you can make that decision. You'll do the right thing as the time comes. Love every moment you spend with her and cherish her memories.
Oh wow that’s a really good way to look at it. Gosh thank you so much. I definitely have been cherishing these moments more than anything ❤️
Awww Riley! Cutie Pawtootie!
Ohhhhh jibby😢please don’t cry, it hurts my heart so much to see you suffering😥I send you all the Hugs in the World. I feel you pain. Please stay strong keep your heads up, pray to God, he gonna help you to find the right decision. I have two cats and I can’t imagine my life without my baby girls. They are like my children💯 I will pray for you and your lovely Dog❤️
Thank you so much dear ❤️🩹 trying to hold strong
No worries my love, you are blessed; God loves you and he will not leave you alone with your pain. We all have to leave this life one day, but remember we will see all our loved ones in paradise again.
Sending love and light your way during this hard time. 🙏🏾 I lost my fur baby this past weekend.
Oh gosh I’m so so sorry. Sending all the love ❤️
I was crying i had to put my cat to sleep that was the hardiest thing that i had to do.. was in the room they put u in , and they gave him that shot ... was crying and they let me hold him for the last time I was balling and then i told them i was ready to let go of him , when they took him i didnt want to let go but i had to i know that he is in a better place, i was crying for weeks ..i still cry about him being gone i think of him all the time .. so i know what your going through its not easy.❤
Ugh my gosh. I’m so sorry you went through that but I’m sure he was so grateful you were there with him in the end. They truly are such amazing companions ❤️
Hi,
Have you tried to do a full course of parasite cleansing. It works for people with things like the C word etc. I’m so sorry for both of you.
hey, nice channel. best regards 😊
Sending you so much hugs + love too, Jibby!
Thank you so so much
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Honestly with so much going against Riley I’d maybe have your road trip and let her go with dignity & whilst she’s relatively still pain free. A day too early is better than a day too late. I’m so so sorry Jibby, my heart still aches for my best boy & he’s been gone now longer than he was alive. Sending love to both you & Riley, please look after yourself & know you gave your gorgeous girl the best life ❤
Thank you so much for your suggestion. It definitely gives me more to think about. Ugh gosh it’s so hard to actually go through with it. It feels wrong somehow but I know it’s the best thing for her