Is She Being Flirty or Just Friendly? (How to tell the difference)
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- Опубліковано 7 лют 2025
- So she just touched your elbow... WHAT DO YOU DO?
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I have to remind myself that Jordan and Sarah are married IRL, so it's completely OK if they touch each other's elbows.
"How Homeschooled Are You Quiz"
30 points
Phew, that was a close one
They had us in the first half not gonna lie
Yeah, I got nervous when they made eye contact
For reeeeal.
"She wants connection, she just doesn't want you"
Best line I've ever heard
I'm just looking for a brother in Christ right now
Ask God to give you one. He did for me.
😂
"My elbow-ginity is gone" i'm dying! Save your elbows for marriage, guys.
And your pre marriage eye contact too.
Everyone lost it last year because of covid. Lol.
@@emilyahlbaum3417 yup, every one lost eye contact shame after the mask mandates 😂
@@frodowatt4272 Yup, lol.
How can a young man keep his way pure? By keeping it according to Your word.
Psalm 119:9
When BHK pinched himself and actually woke up I lost it
Same😂
Same😂😂
Yeah that was great
Lol same
What did u lose? Ur elbow ginity LMAO 🤣😂
Hint, if she's your wife, elbow touching might be potentially flirty.
By the way, Sarah looked genuinely amused while playing her parts 😃
Maybe she just wants to be friends. These are confusing times
She’s had lots of practice time for this role 😸
As a girl, please please ask me if I’m being flirty. If you’re confused, ASK.
im hoping your telling the truth but is this really what you do?
@@hxydxnz Depends on the girl.
Me: no, I don't think I will
Agreed. If I'm _not_ flirting, I'll be honest and we can both laugh about it. Nothing will ever happen, though, if the guy just stands there being confused.
as a homeschooler it's too scary bringing up stuff like that.
Interviewer: where do you see yourself in 15 years?
Me: so you wanna go grab some coffee?
😂
"You're hired"
🤣🤣🤣
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I am going to share this with my engineering buddies, we have never seen women, so studying your videos is the best chance we got.
Honestly true, as a female engineer, I see this daily
😭🤣
We laugh to hide the pain, lol!
This made me bust out laughing! Because it's true! 🤣 I took mechanical engineering at my community college for three years and I'm pretty sure only 2 girls came in the engineering building the whole time
Hahaha!😂
Big Head Kid may flirt better with women than I do, just saying.
@Willow Tree I agree. Respect is important!
If you're struggling to figure out whether something someone does is flirting or just their personality, just watch how they interact with other people. That is guaranteed to clear up at least 50% of your mixed signals.
Yes! This is so important. I was once convinced a guy was flirting with me, but looking back, that's how he acted with everybody.
It didn't help in my case.
"You can't question us, because we used the word science."
"my 'elbowginity' is gone" 🤣🤣🤣
"The most sacred body part, the shoulder.". I'm dying
“Touch my knees too, since you’re addicted to hinges” 😂😂😂
This just might be one of the most crucial videos you guys have ever done. 😂
Edit: 4:37 “you can’t question us because we used the word science.” is absolute GOLD.
this video has literally EVERYTHING and I love it:
--memes
--the Game
--Jordan learning about the Game
--guide to pre-relationships
--milliseconds of disappearing text
--COMMUNICATION
--musical cue for the shoulder-touch song
literally everything.
-All the jokes.
Ex: The old man posting to fb with the sortof accent and stopping his meds
No, it's not sexist at all. Communication is a vital part of any relationship. In my experience, it's also one of the main areas people struggle with. The more intimate the relationship, the greater the need for communication.
I hope you're doing the reverse of this next week because a guy was interested in me and I had no idea until I apparently turned him down and he stopped talking to me. I like to be aware when I'm turning somebody down
Mady we'll be prayer for you in this difficult time🙏😂
I hope so too!!!!!
@@ChurchStonks Haha, thanks. The only real bummer about it is that I liked talking to him
Haha! Been there too. I didn't know until I showed him my engagement ring to another man that I found out everyone I worked with knew he was "in love" with me. He was technically my boss and I thought we we just friendly. I'm not a flirt but was accused of it after that. 😳 I was mortified! Everyone liked him but he transfered locations and I was blamed for it. It's been 14 years, we both have kids now and people are still bringing it up.
In all honesty, it doesn’t sound like it was your fault. That sounds frustrating.
Me when I'm flirting: *Laughs and touches elbow*
Me when I'm being friendly: *Laughs and touches elbow*
I'm sorry y'all, I cannot flirt for the life of me.
At least you're consistent 😂
You're part of the problem!😂😂
I have no freaking idea on how to flirt without being awkward
@@alexperson4503 welcome to the brotherhood🤝
Sameeee
So glad to have messy monday's back, along with the bonus scenes.
“She wants connection, she just doesn’t want you”
I feel that 😭😭
As a woman, I find it frustrating when a guy asks me to do something with him and I don't know if it's a date or not.
If it's just the two of you, the guy is *probably* viewing it as a date. If there's a group, then probably not, but can depend on the circumstances like if it's one other couple and kinda like a double date.
Agree with James, you could always ask, but also I wish guys (and i say this as one myself) would be more willing to come right out and say that they'd like to start dating if that's their desire.
Personally I don’t start thinking it’s a date until he starts paying for stuff or pulling classic chivalry moves that I’ve never seen him do before-if it feels like a date, it probably is one. Other option is to either ask him if it’s a date or go ahead and declare it a friendly hangout and let him get frustrated over his own poor communication until he labels your time together properly (kidding!...sort of).
Ideally, the guy should be as upfront as possible that he wants to date you.
It's basically like lying and makes me hate you.
1. I didn't want to date you
2. disrespectful and awkward
3. if you couldn't even say it normally without trying to trick me, go away, I ignore you for a reason
@@Window4503 It's only a date if both people agree it's a date. Not if they tricked you. When a guy did this and suddenly paid for my food, I was just cursing in my head. lol did not end well.
Me, when I flirt: "So...have you heard the tragedy of Darth Plagueis the Wise?"
To be fair, it's not a tale the jedi would have told her
Greet a girl you like by saying "Hello there." If she responds with "General Kenobi," she's the one.
Who's Darth Plagueis? I forgot which guy that was???
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@@withniejules2244 sidious's old master that he killed in his sleep
Thank God Jordan and Sara are married cuz you just can't go touching someone's knees like that without permission
I Watch Blimey cow every time Im on UA-cam and Im never disappointed
AMEN!
"It only has to work one time! Then your life is changed and you are a satisfied customer!" Had me dying laughing. 🤣😂🤣 Nice one guys!
"Great, now thanks to you I've lost my elbowginity." 😂😂
I can't stop laughing.
"A first elbow wedding"
So this is really just the Christian version of Casually Explained: is she into you? 😂
*I LOVE THAT VIDEO* "Again, you really can't tell"
Totally right. XD
She’s been smiling at you and laughing at all your jokes after youth group. She has moved past the elbow touching to the shoulder, Jordan is telling you to cut her out of your life.
Is she possibly flirting?
“Again, you really can’t tell.”
I thought of that video, too!
For real, though, CE's main goal is to entertain (which is awesome!), but BC's goal in this video is both to entertain and to educate...at least as far as I can tell.
Please do the guy's side!
I get way too many mixed signals
Same! I need that LOL
Yes!!! Some times we talk for hours and then other times he just glances at me and then stares at the ground… I’m confused
@@marialuimes7854 So that doesn't just happen to me...Men am I right?
@@marialuimes7854 I'm a guy, and if it helps I know that often when I do this, it is because I am typically the one who starts the conversations, so I am never certain if she actually wants to talk to me or if she's just being polite. Also, as something off an introvert, if I do "like" her, I might sometimes work up the courage to talk and other times just be too nervous.
Honestly, I think the answer is pretty much the same. Just ask. A lot of guys will flirt with every cute girl they meet (those ones are best to be avoided if you're looking for a long-term relationship), and some guys won't necessarily flirt with anyone no matter how much they want to be with them. Quite frankly there's too many ways guys deal with attraction to have a universal rule other than just get to know if the guy is worth your time and then ask him about it. Or, if you feel you must, you can wait for him to ask, but he may never ask, sooo...
This is one of the best videos you guys have ever done. Funny, very funny actually, insightful, and just plain old good content. I'm so glad Messy Mondays are back!!
“Here I’ll jump squat” almost laughing as hard as Sara.
Soo… I can attest to the opposite being true. I’ve often asked myself in the moment if she was flirting, and always come to the conclusion that no, she wasn’t. So I wouldn’t flirt back or anything.
LATER in life I talked about it out loud, went through my old emails, etc etc and realized that IN REALITY what I was doing was essentially ignoring them after a brief period where they definitely were interested (found that out later specifically in more than one case).
In short, NO there is no SAFE answer. Either ignoring them or being too aggressive carries its own risks. Don’t be afraid to mess up, because if you’re too afraid to mess up in the short term you’re going to mess up for the long term.
"Don't be afraid to mess up." PREACH.
These elbows are saved for marriage 😂😂
I'm a naturally flirty person so I've set up boundaries for myself and my guy friends. Even if I feel like touching their arm or shoulder, I remind myself that that could be confusing and stepping over a boundary and so I hold back. I try to call them "dude" and "bro/bruh" often. I also don't talk about anything too personal as I don't see myself marrying any of them and I don't want things to get too serious. I'm not opposed to opening up if they ask, but want to keep things light and fun otherwise.
For me... I simply don't flirt. I'm trying to be social at least.
I was told to watch people im the eyes, ask a lot of questions and give a lot of answers. That's how coversation happens.
I might look flirty if we're talking about something I'm interested in because then I'll be genuinely interested 🤣😂😂
That’s how I am, I ask every one I meet questions even I’m not flirting and honestly, my “flirting” tends to be just that, striking up conversation with them.
I actually don’t know how to really flirt, I am just friendly to everyone, so if someone flirts with me I really don’t know what to do, if I even figure out they flirt with me
The Messy Mondays theme song! The nostalgia! :')
This was basically an episode of Jordan’s Messyges disguised as Messy Mondays. #played
This is easy for me: *she's never being flirty*
Well, your name is Quantum, so maybe she's being flirty all of the time and none of the time.
The whole elbow thing is hilarious
I used to look at these videos and think they are simple to edit ever since I got into editing I see how wrong I was lol
Haha I really appreciate this buddy. Thank you!!
This one was WELL done
True story, I had a guy friend who always seemed like he was flirting with me and it made me uncomfortable. I told him that it made me uncomfortable, it was a little tense for a few days, but we became MUCH better friends after I shared that than we were before.
Man, I don't even know when I'm flirting with people, let alone when they're flirting with me.
Love the reference to- it was the first tiiime our shoulders touched! Hahaha
You guys have really outdone yourselves, there wasn't a moment of this I didn't enjoy. Messy Mondays is back and better than ever, baby!!
I loved how Sara was just trying to hold on her laughter when Jordan did the whole elbow thing 😂😂
Eeek! I feel exposed. Why are you giving away my secrets Jordan?! You have compromised my life! *runs away screaming*
The sustained elbow joke made the video much better. Great job guys
An old school messy Mondays... everything is right in the world!
Ok. This was QUALITY content. So many moments. (Like the duct tape showing under Grandpa's eyebrow. Etc etc) Great job guys 😄
As a guy she basically has to hold a giant neon lit sign that says "flirting" with flashing lights or I'm just going to assume that she's being friendly.
Oh no!
Wow I was not ready for that Relient K easter egg at 2:06
Glad I'm not the only one who noticed
A first elbow wedding 🤣
The editing! lolllll XD You all have ascended to God-Tier levels.
BRUH the jump squat KILLED me
I’m a woman and sometimes I can’t tell whether I’m flirting or just being friendly
The great struggle of our time 😂 sometimes I can't tell when I am either
Thank you Jorden! Some of us homeschooler guys are also really bad at communicating with others (especially females). Maybe you could help us out with that as well?
Hey Jordan, hey Josh.
I just want to say it's good to see Messy Mondays again.
I've been watching your hilarious videos on relationships for years now and they've really helped me in that regard.
Thanks to your advice, I found a girl I really like and I've been able to establish a good connection and things are really good.
Keep em coming, you guys rock!!
Also I noticed the improvements in the quality (speaking in terms of the jokes and general feel) of this Messy Mondays video, its like you are on a whole other level :)
I genuinely need a reverse of this because my default impression is that no guys are flirting, which forces me to then call into question whether ALL guys are flirting.
With a guy, it's pretty simple. If he says, "You heard about Pluto? It's messed up, right?" he is flirting with you.
Sounds like Gus from Psych. Lol.
@@joycoral525 I was hoping that someone would get it :)
@@rachelthebroken1031 Yes! I'm a Psych-O!
I can't believe I just found your channel considering how long you've been on youtube. I also found Jordan's channel and I love it!
My elbowginity is gone now...
I pushed pause because I'm laughing too hard at hillbilly grandpa Jordan :D
This video and it’s follow-up on the guy’s side are great. So glad to see more videos from you all! One of the few channels I’ve gotten a total kick out of for years and it’s still so fun🥳
I'm so aggravated I didn't make time to watch this the day it came out, this video is one of the best I've seen in a whiiiiiile. Made me actually laugh out loud, not just increased nasal exhaling!
Ahhhh the reason I fell in love with Blimey Cow in the first place 💜
4:27 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 elbow-genity! 🤣🤣🤣 What happened to him and his elbows? Ha ha ha hilarious joke had me dying!🤣🤣🤣 I rewatched that part at least 5 times.
Just to get it out of my chest, I've also had a guy touch my elbow several times mid conversation, EVERY time we talked, and I could not for the life of me figure out if he was flirting of if he was just a touchy dude. This was more than five years ago. To this day I am not sure and now I'm too scared to find out lol
I am a homeschooler and a Christian and found Blimey Cow soon after I began homeschooling, and it has helped me to stay happy even though I can’t see my friends as often anymore. So thank you guys so much for the amazing videos 😁.
"Might as well touch this elbow too, you elbow-toucher" 🤣 I'm dyinggg omg
Omggggg the elbow conversation keeps going lmfaooooo lord help me this is too funny
Man I didn't realize how much I missed messy Mondays. This was great
As a woman, I approve this video. I used to worry about this, but then I decided that if a guy thinks I'm in love with him because I'm friendly, that's on him, and open honest conversations are always better than unspoken confusing social cues.
Last time i was this early, my cat was eating my homework
Ive missed messy Mondays! Love it, guys!
"Satisfied Customer" bahahahahahahaha!
Become a patron if you don't get the reference ;)
"Because *YOU* didn't save *YOUR* elbow, for marraige"
DED
love the old theme back in the beginning. MESSY MONDAY IS BACK! YEET!
I really missed those kind of videos, hilarious as usual 😂😂😂
Yess!! I think communication is key for both sides. If any guy was ever confused about me being flirty or not, I’d much rather them ask me and not get the wrong intention.
My Mondays just got better!
"The Complex Infrastructure Known as the Male Mind" I see your Relient K reference!!!!! 😂
May be your best video ever. The editing was AMAZING. Communication really is key to any relationship. Stop trying to read someone's mind and start asking yourself how YOU feel about a relationship with the person. If you're interested and they could be flirting with you, just ask them on a date. You'll get your answer. If it's no, you can move on and find someone who does have mutual interest. If you're not interested, just ignore the potential flirting and don't flirt back. No need to confront them about it unless they are being inappropriate.
Yesssss Messy Mondays!!! 💙💙 And y'all steppéd UP that editing, even more hilarious than usual 😂
I laughed so hard I couldn’t breathe!! 🤣🤣🤣
I am uncomfortable with how many of these situations depicted for the sake of satire I find myself in unironically
This is what I've been waiting for! Love that you guys are getting back to your roots!!!
Little droplets of golden blessings do still fall from UA-cam.
A girl once told me that she felt a "friendly vibe" instead of a romantic vibe after a date.
It completely ruined all the confidence I had. I have never approached a woman since.
I haven’t laughed this hard at a Messy Mondays in a while.
This Messy Monday was so hilarious... I legit laughed out loud multiple times. 🔥
“my Elbowgenity is gone” omg I’m dyingggg😂😂
Why is this somehow the funniest messy Mondays yet😂I can't with all the elbow talk
Seeing this Messy Mondays notification just sort of made my entire life.... I’m so happy they’re back 😭
I needed this like five years ago! I love this.
This was video was hilarious, well written and taught me a few things to keep in mind when talking to ladies! Great job guys, it's so awesome to see Messy Mondays make it's triumphant return!
The "Pinch Myself" skit was by far my favorite! It's right up there with the "Stupid Drivers" Skits.
Love this! Request: could you do one of these for girls trying to read a guy’s interest too? I don’t know about other girls, but I know I have a very hard time gauging guys’ levels of interest too.
And oh my gosh... I haven’t lost “the game” since I was 15!!
@Willow Treeyou’re so sweet and just made my day! Thank you! 😊
Interviewer : Where do you see yourself in the future?
Me who has watched this video : Are you flirting with me?
“Just another elbow toucher!” 😂😂🤣😂😂
I missed Messy Mondays so much!! I love you guys
Ahhh, some good ol’ Messy Mondays! 😁 This was a great one, too!
And then ON to the comments, for even more inside humor that just lights my day. 😂
Although these are supposed to appear as simple humorous skits, these are the most accurate and helpful videos I’ve ever watched