How to Not Get Overwhelmed by Social Media
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- Опубліковано 12 вер 2024
- Let me know if you have personally been overwhelmed with social media and which one of the strategies shared you will start implementing today?
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1. Turn off notifications
2. Schedule screentime
3. Create content instead of consuming it
4. Detox: follow people who add value and positivity to your life
5. Be mindful: prioritise spending time with family and friends
The only UA-camr/influencer I have been constantly watching since the very beginning , its been 6 years now and I haven't gotten enough of your content , still looking forward for more . I love you, keep shining ❤️
Exactly! We don’t need to make social media the villain! The impact they have on our lives is our decision! 💕
This is so amazing. I do too so many times and this helps. Being a small time mommy instagrammer sometimes it just gets too overwhelming. What helps me is to think what really matters. My family - my husband and my 3 year old daughter, my parents, my friends and thinking about these people grounds me again.
I think that's part of the problem, that many people don't know it's not real. And the fact that you continue to present this made up perfection on social media makes you a part of the problem. Some "influencers" are so insecure, they don't know how to be real anymore. Do you think people won't like you or will unsubscribe if you show them the real, imperfect you? So many people are not comfortable in their own skin anymore and instead choose to be a part of the fakery. Hope you heal your insecurities and have the confidence to be real instead of pretending to be perfect.
Blue Sky and what exactly is the real me? Could you please clarify that - I will be happy to show it. I do my best to be real and transparent in my communication with my audience - I always remind my audience that my life isn’t perfect, I have shared personal struggles and failures so many times before. How much more real does it get?
@@MimiIkonn Your account is aspirational, not real life. You and Alex said it yourselves many times before so not sure why you are so harsh in your comment and want me to clarify. I didn't make it up - you said it yourself in this video - "your account is a vision board" and a highlight reel. Not everyone's is. I just think this contributes to a lot of issues attributed to social media these days. Lots of young girls and people in general feeling a lot of pressure and inadequacy over something that's not reality. You've talked about this in the past. Somehow it's ok when you say it, but when someone else says it (essentially agreeing with you), you get defensive. You are a part of social media.
I find it really easy to get overwhelmed with social media, especially where I’m trying so hard to make it my full time job! Balancing youtube, Instagram, Pinterest, etc can be pretty difficult. I try my best batch my content so that I don’t have to spend as much time online 😊
totally loved this. i was feeling very low and i thought.... i need to go watch Mimi videos on youtube and take in her wisdom 💗
Great tips Mimi! Thank you for sharing your views and tips on such an important topic. You have inspired me a lot to go for my dreams, be better in personal relationships, and, be a good parent and I can go on...Thank you for all you do❤️
Oh and absolutely love your podcasts. Sooo good!
I know this is not related to the subject of the video.. even though I really enjoyed watching it and it was really useful. My question is who is editing your videos? I have been following you for a long time now and I feel like the style of the edit, especially the animations don’t represent your style of content.. at least this is my opinion.. I used to love the clean, minimalistic look of the edits😊
Such an important topic, love it Mimi. And love the combination of your white blouse and jewelry. So pretty xxx
Love your tip about detoxing your social media - I did that last year and felt better instantly. I didn't realize how much stress i felt watching certain account's posts and stories on my feed everyday. Just because they're popular doesn't mean they're right for you!!
I can believe you only if you show your activity time on instagram. It is recorded. Post it on you account and i will believe you Mimi. There is no way you spend little time on instagram and posting 20 stories a day at the same time.
By the way I follow your whole family and when they are filming you you are always with your phone in your hands and doing sth. There is no way Alexa sees you with a phone at minimum. It's not credible. Just let us see your activity record. I challenge you.
Why do you care if you think she spends more time? She is only giving tips for others to follow, and obviously she is human and doesn’t follow rules 100% all the time
@@beckylynch792if i were an obese telling everybody I eat healthy and preaching everybody to eat healthy would you trust me, would it sound candid? That's why. Stop making fake people famous.
@@kronick6508 Yes we would believe you because we're not shitty people. Also how ignorant to assume that people are only obese because of unhealthy eating.
@@kronick6508 Also there is so much more on a phone than just social media.
Totally agree Mimi, my phone is always on silent, because I just don't want it needlessly bleeping all day. If I've missed a call and it's someone I want to speak to, I can call them back. And it's my pet peeve when someone your having a meal with puts their phone on the table, because that's like saying you can have my attention until my phone rings And that's exactly what they do, you end up listening to their call. I just think it's really disrespectful to the people who you are meeting up with.x 😄
Beverly, totally true. I have my phone on silent all week long, sometimes I turn it on during the weekend, if I remember. I've been doing it since college. I decided to do this when I started checking my phone even if I DIDN'T hear a notifications come in. It made me realize it's not necessary to have on. Creates bad habits.
It’s a big coincidence for me that you have uploaded this video today! Last week I tried to spend an whole week without my phone and as an 18-year-old girl it seems very unusual but I felt so good and was so so happy. After that I realized that I did not miss any Instagram posts. I followed more than 500 people and now it’s 60. Of course you are one of them! Thank you for inspiring me every day❤️
I can relate so much to your videos! I've been following you for 3 years now, and in every stage in my life I feel like I can learn a valuable lesson from you and your content! Social media is extremely overwhelming and I love that I can learn the best strategies to continue working on myself and impacting my life positively ❤️ Thanks Mimi!
I agree with "putting your phones away" especially when spending time with family and a loved one. My ex of 5 years was like that. Whether we were at home, at a restaurant or out-of-town, he was always on the phone calling/chatting with his colleagues even after he just left the office. Lol. So, I agree that social media should be used in a positive and healthy way.
Thanks for this video, Mimi. Take care and Love you :-)
Mimi I really want to think for sharing amazing and positive things in the world.I have known you months ago and ever since I’ve looked at you as a role model when I’m mentally lost, Negative, depressed.You did help me to change,And be healthy and learn to be positive in my day.apart from that you and your husband have learned me the meaning of love by one of your videos .I love you
This is one of the highest quality videos I’ve seen on UA-cam. Fantastic tips, no wasting of words or my time. I will share this widely. My friends don’t understand how hurtful it is when they visit but leave their phones on. Those alert sounds really stress me out too, and you can never really get deep into a conversation or topic because you have to always be ready to have it interrupted and suddenly your audience is on a completely different topic known only to her. It makes me give up on trying to really discuss anything deep, and that leaves me feeling more lonely than if I’m actually alone. Social media and the iPhone have really had an impact on my relationships. But it is both negative and positive. I just wish they’d show me the love you show your daughter, be really being here with me when they’re with me. An iPhone left on says to your friend that they are second in line for your attention. And that hurts.
I agree, everybody needs to take a break once in a while from their social media… Just step away and maybe pay more attention to your friends and family.✨❣️✨❣️😉 in person!
My biggest challenge is because of life circumstances I have not had a chance to make a life for myself until now at 33 years old and feeling like I have no idea who I am and where to start to even figure that out. It seems that I am behind and so have tried overcompensate by over-researching or whatever for about five years now while just feeling more and more desperate. Have turned off all my notifications to help alleviate this feeling and set a goal to only do 45 minutes maximum on the phone a day through organic tapering.
Always sending positive vibes our way, thank you! 😘😘
Hi Mimi, I always appreciate how thoughtful and authentic you are. I like what you have to say here and it is clear that you are always improving. That is something I can appreciate and respond to. I find your content to be uplifting and am glad I found your channel.
This video couldn’t have come at a better time. I’ve literally been feeling drained by instagram and the amount of time I’ve been spending on it. While I’m using it and after I’m done I feel like shit but can’t stop at the same time it’s so addicting. Now I’m going to make a conscious effort to go on it less by monitoring my activity on the app.
It was a great topic to be discussed. I've been feeling a lil overwhelmed with social media lately and this came out just in the right time. There were so many things that I personally feel same at my end.
Great gng. Keep creating such videos
Oh Mimi! I missed so much your talking videos!!! Huge thanks 🙏
I love this topic. We’ve really had to “learn” how to handle social media. I actually find myself feeling bad for the girls I used to envy. I can’t imagine the amount of stress and anxiety they must feel finding the perfect picture to post and waiting for affirmation from strangers.
Turning off notifications has genuinely helped me too. I've practiced this for over 2 years now and it really makes a difference.
One piece of advise: dont overexpose so much your daugther on social media. She is a minor, you need to protect her, so she isnt bullied as a teenager.
When she's a teenager she will probably have her own social media account and will be overexposing herself, like all teenagers do.
Kimberley Smith yes... but then she will choose what people sees and dont see. Now she needs to be protected by her own parents, and she is not.
Sierra Jameson thats totslly what I mean.... i understand as a mother she is proud and wants everybody to see her daugther... but she also needs to think about when she will be older... would she like that? What would other kids at school say to make fun of her..?
@@TheInspireImagine not even what other kids will say. that is so minor compared to the type of freaks who are following family type influencers looking for these images of children in various states of undress. That is what could really harm Alexa. mimi has been told this before and continues to do it so she must not gaf
Sunny she must not gaf.....?
I love what you shared here!
I really liked what you shared at the end, it’s true that we all share highlights of our lives, how we share is an art but not reality to hold us down. It wouldn’t be any different than if we were to meet with one another in person to share the highlights and inspiration in our lives at that time. I agree there’s a time and place for everything!
Thank you for taking your time to talk about this very important topic❤️ I enjoyed it very much
Very good topic, I totally agree with you ❤️ thank you for sharing with us your opinions about social media 💖💖💖
Thank you for this well made video. The five strategies are somewhat relevant, but, however, there is one that feels a little bit absurd. Number three: to create content instead of consuming it ... The creator cannot just create content and throw it into some kind of void where no-one consumes ... the creator and consumer are both just two sides of one and the same medal. So it looks to me a bit absurd to dissuade everyone from consumption and then on the other hand incite everyone to go on and create ... Basically, minimizing use of social media as a whole, both creation and consumption, seems to me the key advice. We're turning into a species that stares into a virtual world while the real world is getting prepared to go up in flames. By constantly following others' stories, you might loose track of your own mission, or get even more confused than you already are. The web becomes a gluey trap where guru's and content creators of all kinds are competing to tap into other people's time and energy, to have each their own herd of followers. It may become at a certain point a serious obstacle for the authentic deployment of one's true original self.
Mimi you have such a beautiful soul! We all need to do this! I already started to detox my social media and what I allow myself to consume!
All your videos does bring a great impact to my life❤️ Thankyou Mimi
Miss you so much!
Very important topic. Thanks for addressing it Mimi. Your tips are very helpful 💖
Thank you Mimi! Like always, you are such an inspiration! It’s incredible how different it is healthy consuming habits over abusing social media. Love your thoughts and will totally use all of your strategies 🌸♥️
Love this tricks! Just unfollowing people who make you feel negative about youreself can make such a differance! Also one trick I love when have a meal out with friends is to stack our phones in the middle of the table and the first person to grab their phone has to pay for everyone. Sounds harsh, but it's really fun and gives you a good reason not to pick up youre phone during the meal! xoxo
Mimi, I know you from many years ago (the time you didn't have baby yet, and also I..) and I just love your all videos because you are so friendly and always you make me feel better. Thank you! Greetings from Bulgaria .
Everything is so true but metaphor with food is just brilliant! ✨ it all depends how we use and consume things! ❤️
I love how you always see and point out the positive thing! It embodies everything you preach
Mimi, love your sit down videos
Always something that inspires personal growth
For the longest time you were the only one I followed on social media (besides the people i knew personally), and I'm very grateful for that, as you have played a big part in shaping my mindset!
Hope you do more of such videos, whenever you get the time! :)
Mimi, you are an angel from heaven. This came out at perfect timing. Thank you so so much ♡
Watching ur videos after a very long time...
Still love watching u
Love that video! Can you do similar one about your approach to consumption in general? :) I'm very curious about your point of view :)
Oh, I’m thinking about it for a last few days, so you’re just in time 🙏🏻 Really useful information, thanks, Mimi ❤️
I also think you have to try and ignore negative comments, because whether you are on social media or not there will always be people who want to be mean and try and pull you down. Especially when you are a beautiful woman like you Mimi, it just sparks jealousy in some women. Rise above it, because you have so many followers that love you and love seeing your videos.x 😄
Beverley Roberts thank you dear Bev❤️
This is exactly what I felt but didn’t know how to put together thank you
You forgot the last point, that you delete many comments on Instagram that are not praise as a way of dealing with social media. It is too bad you are not able to hear ANY type of feedback unless it's a compliment. You're creating an artificial bubble.
23Zeko I always say publicly that any negative or hateful comments will be deleted. I wouldn’t let anyone bully me in my house - why would I on my YT channel?
@@MimiIkonn I agree that bullying shouldn't be tolerated. But there is a difference between bullying and a question that points out an inconsistency in your behavior and asks for clarification. Why not just answer instead of deleting?
I LOVED your food analogy to social media!! very very true, it’s all about the habits of use! Great point Mimi! Thank you for sharing your strategies :)
I absolutely love your videos, this is such an important reminder I have to say this is the wiser account on youtube I have ever seen :*
Never been so early omg. Thank you for this video, you’re amazing 🙏🏻✨🤗
This was very helpful❤️Thank you Mimi😘
Haven't watched mimi in months, if not over a year, and i'm so surprised that after all these years, she STILL hasn't gotten to 1m subscribers. That is so strange hmmm.
You always have the cutest outfits 💕:)
I compare myself all the time, its awful. Makes you feel worthless. Im on social media WAY to much. If I spent as much time enhancing my own life id be much happier. New changes coming ....
Blue xxx yes, yes and yes! Good luck my darling ❤️
You are such a wonderful human being Mimi ❤
This was very informative and helpful!!!
So true! That's how I think about social Media too. I love watching your videos Mimi :)
Really healthy approach!
I followed all of those steps. Thank you so much!❤
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I love your video 🙋🏻♂️❤️
I’m your big fan 😂👍🏻👍🏻
I’ve always had my notifications off and was surprised as well at how many people have them on! Great video ❤️
I love this video ❤
Interesting video,thank you)))
HI Mimi! A loooong time ago I also made the decision to turn off the notifications and put my phone on vibration mode or even in total silence. I just used to feel so anxious, and now I'm much more calm. However I need to work on that "rabbit hole" you are talking about. Sometimes I spend hours in social media without even realize that, and I waste so many time I need to do other things 😫🤦🏽♀ Very inspiring video, as always. Thank you ❤
PS: I miss vlogs! Haha xoxo 😘
Omg, I allways apologize to my daugther as well. It just natural, but you explained it so well!!! I sometimes see mothers who ignores their kids, their kids talk to them and they are on facebook. It makes me sooo angry and sad.
What a wonderful video!😍 That's what I needed to hear 🙏🏼
Love this video. The content is 👌🏾 and I like the aestethic too. You look good and your message is very important and good to remember.
SRBYable thank you ❤️
I’m so glad you guys have decided to not let Alexa be on screens yet. There are so many people that think screens don’t affect people (especially kids!!) but there’s so much neurological science that proves it’s very bad for brain development etc. so THANK YOU for doing this and for protecting you precious child like that! I can see how she’s thriving in your family, that you’re talking with her a lot (because she talks so well!!) and showing her so much. That’s what our kids need, not screen-time.
Theresa __ yes, absolutely true dear Theresa 💕
This topic so important to everyone. You gave me great advice. Love seeing videos I understand how much I on the internet and not being in the present life❤️🌸. Thanks for making this video
I have no interest in social media. Actually I wish it didn't exist. So that said, I don't spend time on twitter, IG, Snapchat, FB, etc. My problem is UA-cam. I looooove youtube. I spend hours on it every single day. I fall asleep watching videos, oftentimes I do have it playing in the background while I'm doing other things but still.
Hi, Mimi can you please create a video about a typical day with Alexa ( activities, talk...)
Thank you Mimi for talking about this
More videos like this are needed for the younger generation too ❤️
petitesideofstyle please share if you have enjoyed it ❤️
It’s very easy to talk about social media consumption when you have over 1mln followers, but for most of us - content creators, it’s impossible to to grow your following if you don’t spend time there. Unless you buy all your followers... so I get your message, however it’s definitely not applicable to those who want to EARN or make a living from social media. 🤷🏼♀️
Lina Zent I would obsess more on the content you create - rather than consuming other people’s social media. You don’t need to know what others are doing to be successful- you will end up creating what already exists.
Mimi Ikonn This is an interesting reply considering you only create what already exists. Every single thing - hair extensions already existed, 5-minute journals and productivity journals already exist, coconut oil and dry shampoo existed before yours. All the quotes you post are complete ripoffs you never give credit to. In fact, I can’t think of a single, original idea that you have come up with. What exactly have you created?
Mins is not even on vibrate, the only notification is the iPhone ringtone when someone calls.
There's screentime option on the iPhone to turn off all apps for a period of time, for example 7pm-8AM. except for weekend it's 9PM-10AM
You are amazing MIMI all my notifications are off! always ❤️
Great tips. Thank you❤❤❤
This was a great informational video! Please do more ☺️
This is a great video! Thank you for spreading an important message.
I disagree a little bit - I think many people may feel like unfollowing you on social media beacuse the way you present yourself is so perfect, so in a way you might be part of a problem and evoking negative feelings. People feel connected to real life and it's nice to see sometimes, that your inspiring, successful creators are just like us. It makes you more emphatic as well.
@@cf3129 Not necessarily fake, but yes - curated. To the point that you can feel a little bit sad about your own life and then decide to unfollow. Life is life and has many shades, it makes us dimentional beings. Do not be embarrassed of who you are, Mimi, and that will be truly inspiring ♥️
Thank you sooo much for all the informations you shared 🙏🏼❤️
Loved this video! thank you
Thank you Mimi!!!
Thank you so much Mimi ❤️✨
You look gorgeous as always Mimi and I really enjoyed this video and agree with all your wise words! Have a beautiful day 💖🤗
Most needed one right now 👌👌👌
Love your content Mimi, love ♥️
Hey ! Mimi, after watching this video, i felt you are like marie kondo of social network..
I enjoyed this vidoe Mimi! Thanks love you!
I really needed this! thank you so much! xx
Great tips mimi thankyou! Xo
Your content means the world to me, thank you for helping people grow 💕
Marianna zone thank you dear Marianna. I create my content for people like you ❤️
Such good advice!
I just walked out of a room with my girlfriend and are whole conversation was about how I am grateful that my child called me and told me about my twin grand-daughters starting their first babysitter today and that one of them split her chin open falling this past weekend . THEN I saw post about these occurrences . I would be upset and feel totally different if I saw those post first before I spoke to my child .I didn't give birth to Facebook . I'm not going to communicate that way with them either .It's fun but you can't let it replace human contact and your relationship s.
Princess Patriot this is so true - nothing can ever replace human contact and personal touch that comes from intimate communication.
Seriously Thank You for sharing these mindful tips and self loving habits of yours with wisdom!
This most definitely has touched my spirit mindfully and I pray you and your family stay lifted in spirit together yall are Amazing
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Love your content Mimi
Thank you 🙏🏻
Miss your talking videos