LEO | Having A Healthy Dose Of Selfishness Is What's Needed To Change Everything For You

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  • Опубліковано 14 гру 2024

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  • @COPESWITHIT
    @COPESWITHIT 11 днів тому +7

    This resonates sooo much! I’m finally choosing me because pouring from an empty cup got me taken advantage of. It’s time I pour into me now for me and my children’s sake.

  • @PhilosophEE07
    @PhilosophEE07 10 днів тому +3

    Omggggg yesssss....everything you said especially about always alienating self when overwhelemed and being comfortable in that space and always being present for everyone else. Too many ppl flocking my way and i just said to God, I dont have the capacity anymore

  • @anitamitchell6
    @anitamitchell6 11 днів тому +7

    Yes to wearing many hats!!! Since I was like..... maybe 11 or 12. Still struggle with it to this day. Whew chile. That fight or flight is draining when you're ALWAYS fighting

  • @cindymorgan6729
    @cindymorgan6729 10 днів тому +2

    You are so right everyone always holds their hands out in need I have my own problem but no one is willing to accept my need and I'm tired of everything here I know I need to learn to say no and put myself first and yes when is it my turn

  • @Infinity-k3i
    @Infinity-k3i 11 днів тому +16

    When I am around humans I feel drained. So when I am alone enjoying my own company. I feel happy and at peace because I don't have anyone else's energy to affect me.

    • @MissStephanieMata
      @MissStephanieMata 11 днів тому +1

      I can resonate with this statement

    • @Infinity-k3i
      @Infinity-k3i 11 днів тому +1

      @@MissStephanieMata great minds think alike.

  • @Therealone88
    @Therealone88 11 днів тому +3

    I said I was done with reads😩but I’m going to have to get one from you again to end the year.by the way everything you told me at the beginning of the year has been accurate for the whole year.Gifted!

  • @sierrac4157
    @sierrac4157 6 днів тому

    Yes yes yes! I’ve always felt like I’ve always had to work hard for everything and I do mean everything ❤❤

  • @thejfamily3999
    @thejfamily3999 11 днів тому +4

    Wow, I was not expecting this to be so on point for me. It made me cry because it was literally everything that’s been making me feel so internally and mentally suffocated by these past two days that I couldn’t really wrap my head around enough to put into words. 🥺 Thank you.

  • @Jackie.Miller65
    @Jackie.Miller65 9 днів тому

    Oh my goodness. I feel like you are an old friend. Tears all the way thru. You are truly a wonderful plus to my life. I'm getting ready to watch today's reading. I am the daydreamer you speak of. My vehicle is down, rent is due, and I just gave my daughter and my future son in law money to get into a home they so desperately needed to go to. I love you, Miss M. You are an exquisite creature and I love and appreciate you immensely. Your sis in Tennessee.

  • @Hawknelsonfan07
    @Hawknelsonfan07 10 днів тому +2

    ⭐️⭐️Thank you Miss Mariah for another LOVELY reading!!!💖💖💖⭐️⭐️

  • @kristalb6148
    @kristalb6148 9 днів тому +1

    Hey this is for me

  • @darkhorse9277
    @darkhorse9277 10 днів тому +3

    Yes. I'm tired of being there for people. My greatest regret is giving to people at the expense of my own needs for more than 20 years. I have been taken for granted by the very same people who have entitlement and never any gratitude. 😊It's against my nature but I have finally decided to be selfish.
    Also true is the fact that despite my best efforts, I have remained stagnant. 2024 especially, was excruciating. It's painful but still I rise.

  • @MissStephanieMata
    @MissStephanieMata 11 днів тому +5

    Thank you for taking the time to focus and do a reading for us Leo's. I appreciate you, you are surely gifted. Much Love ❤

  • @janinewilliams8633
    @janinewilliams8633 11 днів тому +1

    The interruptions for this Leo is real! You’re so spot on! Thank you 🙏🏾

    • @marykimberlyhayes
      @marykimberlyhayes 11 днів тому

      Before I scrolled down to leave a comment, I said out loud.......this was spot on! then bingo saw your comment!💥

  • @cosmicliss
    @cosmicliss 10 днів тому

    I can't with you 🫣🤭 it felt like I was sitting right next you, all of it resonated 🎯 thank you thank you!!! Appreciate you and your gift ❤

  • @tayerealdeal4471
    @tayerealdeal4471 11 днів тому +2

    thats the thing im just tired of always being in the position of "needing help". Getting annoying. You're so right 19:03 hit hard. As always, Thank you ❤

  • @elev8tedconvers8tions71
    @elev8tedconvers8tions71 11 днів тому +1

    Yessss my ability to spend quality time with myself is unmatched 😅. I've been practicing being more selfish and I don't know why I didn't start sooner!!! ❤

  • @lupearteaga2394
    @lupearteaga2394 11 днів тому +1

    Thank you Mariah for Leo reading. Yes you are right on I can enjoy myself and yes strong friends with myself. So true I always done for my family and not for myself , that’s why I’m can go out alone and can enjoying myself. Appreciate your time. ❤

  • @keishamitchell9381
    @keishamitchell9381 11 днів тому +2

    Hey👋🏽Mariah.. Incase you didn’t know, the universe definitely connected me to you🙂😇✨❤. I’ve been listening to you for a while now. When I say, you’re dead on 🎯 majority of the time, to the point you mentioned my deceased mom’s name, in a previous video. I look forward to your readings, your gift is a spiritual guide for me. Thank you and keep up the good work 🙏🏽.

  • @SSMindSeeKING
    @SSMindSeeKING 11 днів тому +4

    Honestly... I didn't know that I was alienating myself... that's actually an automatic behavior that was learned by observation by my mother that raised me... Being an only child, grandchild etc, meant that it was a little easier to protect me from "the trouble" brewing at all corners because I paid attention to the details of my environment... so as I grew more mature and noticed those very same things happening around me, I was just doing what my mother did for my self... and that was always removing myself from the outside energy and "going in the house" if that make sense... || also, the issue isn't with doing for the loved ones that reciprocate the pouring into... it's doing things for those fam and friends that view my energy as a socket they can keep plugging in to...I'm not sticking around for that... I'm a source.. as are they... but I am not about to convince anyone of there greatness, magnificence, and brilliance... My light is MY Source... and I'm not allowing other people to keep plugging into my energy.. no thank you... I know how to ask for help and assistance... however, just when I'm about to commit to that action of asking, don't you know ALL tools, directions/instructions, and other resources are presented to me and I've already shown for the work...lol... so should I ask anyway? absolutely not, because those very same people have seen and heard me struggling, suffering, and being stifled.. I will move around and carry on.. Thanks for sharing this.. 💙💙

  • @BraidsByPuffQueenKayla
    @BraidsByPuffQueenKayla 9 днів тому

    Your readings keep me going 😊 I look forward to them 🎉

  • @chardeberry3045
    @chardeberry3045 10 днів тому

    So accurate. Thank you as always for your readings

  • @valencialusk6400
    @valencialusk6400 10 днів тому

    Always love your glow and messages, so good seeing you Mariah!
    Thank you for the affirmations.💖

  • @juliemallette-moore2807
    @juliemallette-moore2807 10 днів тому

    Mariah, inner world is safe. Trying to figure it out. Thank you! ❤

  • @shadaecarlisa8012
    @shadaecarlisa8012 11 днів тому +1

    @2:29 BECAUSE YOU'RE TALKING TO ME🙂

  • @deanlindquist3138
    @deanlindquist3138 12 днів тому +20

    Hey, there you are, woman. Definitely on that selfishness page right now. I have to help myself first so I can help others. We have to look are best, do are best, be are best and God will do the rest. AMEN ! You look so innocent today 😂 luv ya gorgeous, see ya then.🎉

  • @eganmay11
    @eganmay11 11 днів тому

    OMG! Yassss! As always you are on point Ms. Mariah. Very grateful you share your gift with us! I found your channel about a year ago and I send your readings to my bff who is also a Leo because we both resonate with your messages on our own individual level!
    Thank you! ♌️🦁☀️✌🏼♥️

  • @monetdezurnwewoo5163
    @monetdezurnwewoo5163 10 днів тому

    🙌🏾🙌🏾 soooooo meeeeee. Definitely been staying to myself

  • @yknot5570
    @yknot5570 11 днів тому

    Now I understand myself a little bit better...thank you ❤

  • @larryspicer
    @larryspicer 11 днів тому +1

    All facts, I’m a hooper and didn’t expect any of this shit to go how it’s goin. Just said on a podcast at this rate. Idk what God or others want me to do. I don’t want ppl around me nor the family fr… shit crazy but imma go back to my bubble. You spillin facts once again

  • @MsBlessed26
    @MsBlessed26 11 днів тому

    Yes I have I’ve always done than putting others first in all

  • @EdwardJames._o_O
    @EdwardJames._o_O 11 днів тому

    You are precise with your analysis!!❤❤❤❤

  • @leratomusi4595
    @leratomusi4595 11 днів тому

    Talking about me exactly 💯 ❤

  • @Ladyleo869
    @Ladyleo869 11 днів тому

    Hello my fav your reading has resonated completely with me.

  • @Geeli-u2n
    @Geeli-u2n 11 днів тому

    Grandrising Beautiful Ma'at.You are the truth.Yes Yes you are ."Let he who have eyes see clearly 🙏❤

  • @Nigussie-t1m
    @Nigussie-t1m 11 днів тому +1

    I’m blessed simply with my own self not by money or assets.

  • @Queenie30729
    @Queenie30729 11 днів тому

    Whew!..I had to take a minute to get myself together & come back to this video cause it made me cry. Lost my job back in July a day after my birthday. I got my start date for my new job almost 2 weeks ago. It was exactly a hour ago from getting into an accident and totaling my car. I start my new job next Monday even though I’m very thankful, I’m just not even really excited because I have a new issue to worry about. Got people calling me & telling me their problems & it’s draining. It makes me wanna crawl under a rock & just go ghost for a while. Focus on myself, cut ties with certain people, cut out social media for a while & just recenter myself. I don’t really know too much about angel number, but I find it funny how ever since I lost my job I been seen 11:11 or 1:11. Even the dreams I had ever since then been related to a rebirth or new beginning. I can’t wait until that breakthrough come because it’s been tough these past couple years. 😢

  • @isoundsdigital
    @isoundsdigital 11 днів тому

    Appreciate this and you as always!

  • @ChristineHawkins179
    @ChristineHawkins179 8 днів тому

    This was spot on thank you so much for this Mariah and thank you so much for the personal reading last month you nailed it and don't even know me lol!

  • @dawnmartin6936
    @dawnmartin6936 11 днів тому

    You are spot on again.. say no more.. x

  • @brettturpin8692
    @brettturpin8692 11 днів тому

    Yes indeed relaxing

  • @melissac.6430
    @melissac.6430 10 днів тому

    Your exactly 100% !!! Yes when is it my turn, im tired . Working on myself so much and doin everything. Yes i still feel still 😒

  • @sharonjones6527
    @sharonjones6527 11 днів тому

    Amen 🙏 on point Leo nation 🙌

  • @dominiquecabiness8975
    @dominiquecabiness8975 11 днів тому

    Thank you❤

  • @thomasiii5784
    @thomasiii5784 11 днів тому

    Yes, we are well aware. We will never get our way
    It is okay. It is all for you, beloved
    Main thing…….. you are happy 😊

  • @donaldhenderson9918
    @donaldhenderson9918 11 днів тому

    Thank you Miss Mariah! 🙏🕊❤️☀️👑💫

  • @Nigussie-t1m
    @Nigussie-t1m 11 днів тому +2

    I don’t have privacy to be selfish.

  • @kellykemonaco
    @kellykemonaco 11 днів тому

    Exactly ❤ thank u

  • @matthewlawrence9034
    @matthewlawrence9034 12 днів тому +1

    YESSS

  • @MsBlessed26
    @MsBlessed26 11 днів тому

    Yess

  • @Y2Kr4SHM4N
    @Y2Kr4SHM4N 11 днів тому

    Mariah on the money- definitely hanging out in daydream land. I have a book to publish, and daydreaming the hours away, whilst avoiding family and friends just ain’t gonna cut it anymore.

  • @AdrielStewart-i1c
    @AdrielStewart-i1c 8 днів тому

    Read them cards boo you remind me of my daughter..happy holidays 🎄✨😘

  • @jcb728
    @jcb728 11 днів тому

    You look so beautiful!

  • @lealmelisa
    @lealmelisa 11 днів тому

    You are s stylish it's inspiring ❤

  • @thaddeuswhite4506
    @thaddeuswhite4506 9 днів тому

    I have had my preschoolers in my class show me more love than people. I am my own friends even with my handful my friends.

  • @sherriclark1290
    @sherriclark1290 11 днів тому +1

    You are spot on stage 3 breast cancer 4 mo of chemo 40 days of radiation. About to get my breast reconstruction. As a only child I was thinking I will not be lonely bcuz I always just had me ❤😢

  • @Heru2088
    @Heru2088 11 днів тому +1

    Love you, 🥰 Enjoy your New Month

  • @TajmaHibbler
    @TajmaHibbler 11 днів тому

    Leo rising Pisces sun

  • @sherriclark1290
    @sherriclark1290 11 днів тому

    Im full of emotions. Excited anxiety n more . I have to trust God. Bcuz he was the only 1 . Yes been doing this 3 yrs . I had my masecetomy in Jan 18th . Now lattimusdorsibreastreconstruction. It's gonna be hard 😪. You are on fire 🔥 today . Love you . I wish I could donate . But soon hopefully . Funds are tight for me only part time work if that doing hair on the side

  • @LowkeyHeru
    @LowkeyHeru 10 днів тому

    I know i couldn't get to the Laundromat and so i used what I had which was sherbert laundry detergent i thought that was ours too but I'll fix it in the morning.

  • @allybrothers
    @allybrothers 11 днів тому +1

    Ok but how is that so spot on?

  • @michelleharrison9611
    @michelleharrison9611 11 днів тому

    Amen!!
    You get it. You hit it 100% on target. Unfortunately I have always been forced to step up and in when other people don't show up, walk away and leave responsibilities because tge could , did, and don't care what happens. In the end the work must be done and Leo's roar and get the job done. When we walk away it's for good and then they realize they f"%$@& up royally and are screwed.

  • @Nigussie-t1m
    @Nigussie-t1m 11 днів тому

    I’m vulnerable so what…..? This is not who I am someone who built fake self image. I’m confident to express my own vulnerability. 💪🙏

  • @MsBlessed26
    @MsBlessed26 11 днів тому

    Hey gurl heyyy❤ how are you

  • @thaddeuswhite4506
    @thaddeuswhite4506 9 днів тому

    I have removed myself from church folks. It’s tiring giving and stretching for others and not taking care of myself. I was in the hospital 4 times in the last 3 months and not a soul came to see me.

  • @cherissedeaton7463
    @cherissedeaton7463 10 днів тому

    You look amazing as usual. Girl did you move again. ❤lol.

  • @FredericRoshan
    @FredericRoshan 11 днів тому

    All facts done people pleasing!! I got boundaries now and know how to say no!! F all’dat…I’m putting myself first now!!! We’re loyal to a fault!!! F them it’s WRAP CITY. No. Tolerating no mess in 2025

  • @Infinity-k3i
    @Infinity-k3i 11 днів тому +1

    My romantic partner got lost in space somewhere. lol

  • @Infinity-k3i
    @Infinity-k3i 11 днів тому

    I'm very selective with having people around me.

  • @melissac.6430
    @melissac.6430 10 днів тому

    I ask for help and people don't help or want to help me sometimes it feels. Like they just tell me what i already know and not give assistanance . Idk i always feel i give and dont receive on the sane level

  • @shannonlea8263
    @shannonlea8263 11 днів тому +3

    Maladaptive dreaming yesssss 😅

  • @JSU-ub6kg
    @JSU-ub6kg 11 днів тому

  • @rooseveltday6687
    @rooseveltday6687 10 днів тому

    ❤️💯💯💯💯
    🎯🎯🎯🎯❤️

  • @patrickdaigle5239
    @patrickdaigle5239 11 днів тому

    🔥😍🔥

  • @mundeb14
    @mundeb14 10 днів тому

    My energy is drained need to recharge my wheel is over spinning for ever one self that why I escape to slient to be stress free.

  • @SkarGig
    @SkarGig 11 днів тому

    Fam, what is your skincare routine?!?!

    • @spirituallyhonesttarot
      @spirituallyhonesttarot  11 днів тому

      A skin cleanser wash and water. Then I use a little Fenty body butter to moisturize. I’ve never been acne prone and I mostly drink water, so I do the little things and that’s it.

  • @shannonlea8263
    @shannonlea8263 11 днів тому +4

    I escape my reality so much cause my reality is too much 😞 so maladaptive daydreaming is my savior I don’t wanna leave

  • @pennilutchman4681
    @pennilutchman4681 7 днів тому

    Do you only read for Leo's?

  • @Nigussie-t1m
    @Nigussie-t1m 11 днів тому

    I’m my own best friend no matter what! Sorry for English 😋😹

  • @woneezy
    @woneezy 11 днів тому

    😭😭

  • @thomasiii5784
    @thomasiii5784 11 днів тому

    💃 may I ?

  • @mybizniz007
    @mybizniz007 8 днів тому

    🙏♌️✨💃💐🌈💰🦋🤩👍🌺🫶🏼

  • @kevinnivek5022
    @kevinnivek5022 10 днів тому

    My problem is everyone I know around me needs help themselves. SMH I'm even helping some of them. Amd I can barely afford to do that. So do you really think I can turn around and go and ask those same people to help me?? When they all need help themselves???? Yeah no. everyone I know that would help me. Can't even help me right now. B/c Their life is tight. with way more stuff going on than I do 💀 so sadly I'm on my own with this one.

  • @WilliamMunz
    @WilliamMunz 11 днів тому +7

    I have a hard time when people keep trying to pull me back into the past. I have to live in the present and look to the future. I will continue to offer love and help but I will no longer let myself be used. I have moved on and I have to take care of myself. Mariah, I appreciate you so much, hugs for you.❤

  • @Nigussie-t1m
    @Nigussie-t1m 11 днів тому

    I don’t expect that I was famous.😋

  • @angelita2229
    @angelita2229 11 днів тому

    Can you do a reading to explain why God hates some of us? I really need to know why God hates me so much.

  • @thomasiii5784
    @thomasiii5784 11 днів тому

    Pull your headband down over your eyes
    And have our way

  • @WORLDFAMOUSTAROT
    @WORLDFAMOUSTAROT 11 днів тому

    You’re such a Goddess such a wifey. Nice read. But ur so breathtaking ❤

  • @TyleicaSturgis
    @TyleicaSturgis 10 днів тому

    Appreciate this message love it Hit it on the spot for me 🤍💫

  • @chillin616
    @chillin616 11 днів тому

    Thank you ❤🙏