He sent a text saying he would be late than boarded our three sons on a plane. When I beg asking why, to please tell me. He yells at me angrily than hangs up. Not being there to hug them, wipe their tears, help with homework, encourage them, feed them healthy, laugh at their jokes sing happy birthday, set up the Christmas tree, take photos, play, go swimming. It fucking hurts soooo fucking much. I was suicidal but heard parents who commit suicide increase their child’s risk by 10%. Now I just wait, waiting to die or God to take me away.
Hello Senvia, It has been a year, and is the story still the same? When dealing with a personality disordered person, things tend to be ugly or worse. If better it is only for a goal they have in mind. I am sorry you also have had this happen. Kids are belongings held hostage to hurt you. What supports do you have in place to keep moving forward for the day one of the boys picks up the phone? God Bless You!
@@startwithurfeet230 I am sorry you live this too. I see you posted only a few months ago. How long has it been? God Bless and you are someone's answer. Stay strong bc someone else needs you. Hugs!
@@coachnoreen9063 it started in 2008. I was told never to contact her 2014 Out of desperation I sent her loza's "unborn" and we haven't stopped talking all day every day for the last two weeks. She is doing so well and I've never in my life seen such a stunning beauty. Her father hurt hurt hurt her. The truth is coming out. People look at me different, I feel like I could be good. This shame in a single hour had gone. Praise God
I've gone through this since my child was 2 he is 19 now so i never got a chance to be in his life at all thanks to the child support services calling me angry and taking any proof i brought in to be whatever in their eyes i am just a angry person that is all they see. They know these people are playing a game with the other person and they choose to let it continue these people aren't for the best interest in children it's the best interest of the state....Money and kickbacks to destroy your life.
Tommy, I am so sorry to read your story. I am curious if your son has contacted you since this post. I am hearing of kids reaching out to their parents as this world keeps falling apart. I hope you have been contacted! God Bless!
Keep praying and sharing. Someone they respect will open their eyes and hearts to the truth. More importantly, they will reclaim their voices. Hugs from across the miles!
If there were no such thing as courts and jail and police controling everyone, and if we lived in the old days parents would be breaking down doors and getting their children back. But no, You can go to jail for wanting to see your child. That is the fucked up system we live in.
Absolutely. This is why the alienated parent lives a life of paralyzed inaction. If you don’t get arrested, you end up being financially ruined, going through the court system.
This system shouldn't even exist you have so many shady parents that do this and they wonder why the world is screwed up. What's really bad is when you confront them they just assume you don't want to pay and it's more or less a shakedown on your wallet and dignity.
Exactly. The judges switch b/t case types yet never seem to shake the mindset of someone needs to win and someone needs to lose. Newsflash: Kids lose 100% of the time. Personality disordered people exploit this. Yes, a little street justice would have fixed their bad behavior real quick. Hell seems to be filling up more and more these days. Stay strong for your kids!!!
She’s been holding my 8month old son hostage for three months. Might be a long haul for me to see him now with the pandemic. Thanks , great channel 🙏🏾🌀🌈
I'm alienated from my daughter, I tried the courts (5 years and 2 lawyers), social workers (private and public), assessments done in my ability to parent, parental training, counseling, and after it all here I am having lost a fortune trying to get back my daughter. I lost my myself as well. Every validation is required, trust me Narcissists here in South Africa abuse a very weak court system. It's sad and so many men end their lives here in South Africa because of parental alienation. I'm going to add to that statistic very soon.
Maverick, You are worth so much more than being a statistic. You turned to the system for justice and, like many others, were robbed. Your daughter was robbed. The story is pretty much the same, regardless of the country. Please look up New England "Parental Alienation" Support Group on MeetUp. You may find support from the great people who attend. Many are still here, stronger than ever, b/c all children impacted, including your daughter, will need your strength. Don't give up no matter how horrible it feels! You matter! Hugs!
I disagree, my ex is a veteran and he has been trained to be cold and emotionless and has made my life Hell. He is the controller, no empathy, etc all at my cost! After all I did through 30 years. 3 wars, 3 kids! Soldiers are damaged and damage us in return! They went in the military because they ate the type that can kill be it physically or through parental alienation!!
I know a military man who's cold hearted, motionless wife who was never in the military tried to get him on DV allegations has taken his kids for 2+ years all because he refused to stay with her.
I believe PA runs high in military families who divorce. In regards to who are the alienators and who are alienated, I am not aware of the data. I have heard several suicides of military personnel also have alienation as a factor. You are someone's answer and keep talking and educating those you know. God blessed you with a testimony. How long has it been?
Conversely, how many are the ex-spouses of those veterans and military members. Due to social media and availability of information, alienators often twist narratives to solidify their case. It is not easy.
It’s endless grieving. Endless. Whether I’m awake or asleep.
Exactly. As bad as it is for us 'erased' moms and dads, our kids suffer so much more. This is domestic violence.
He sent a text saying he would be late than boarded our three sons on a plane.
When I beg asking why, to please tell me.
He yells at me angrily than hangs up.
Not being there to hug them, wipe their tears, help with homework, encourage them, feed them healthy, laugh at their jokes sing happy birthday, set up the Christmas tree, take photos, play, go swimming.
It fucking hurts soooo fucking much.
I was suicidal but heard parents who commit suicide increase their child’s risk by 10%.
Now I just wait, waiting to die or God to take me away.
Same here. I just wake up every day wishi g I was dead
Hello Senvia, It has been a year, and is the story still the same? When dealing with a personality disordered person, things tend to be ugly or worse. If better it is only for a goal they have in mind. I am sorry you also have had this happen. Kids are belongings held hostage to hurt you. What supports do you have in place to keep moving forward for the day one of the boys picks up the phone? God Bless You!
@@startwithurfeet230 I am sorry you live this too. I see you posted only a few months ago. How long has it been? God Bless and you are someone's answer. Stay strong bc someone else needs you. Hugs!
@@coachnoreen9063 it started in 2008. I was told never to contact her 2014 Out of desperation I sent her loza's "unborn" and we haven't stopped talking all day every day for the last two weeks.
She is doing so well and I've never in my life seen such a stunning beauty. Her father hurt hurt hurt her. The truth is coming out. People look at me different, I feel like I could be good. This shame in a single hour had gone. Praise God
I've gone through this since my child was 2 he is 19 now so i never got a chance to be in his life at all thanks to the child support services calling me angry and taking any proof i brought in to be whatever in their eyes i am just a angry person that is all they see.
They know these people are playing a game with the other person and they choose to let it continue these people aren't for the best interest in children it's the best interest of the state....Money and kickbacks to destroy your life.
Tommy, I am so sorry to read your story. I am curious if your son has contacted you since this post. I am hearing of kids reaching out to their parents as this world keeps falling apart. I hope you have been contacted! God Bless!
4.9 yrs of this hell with zero end in sight ... love you Addison and Dee. God help us all
Keep praying and sharing. Someone they respect will open their eyes and hearts to the truth. More importantly, they will reclaim their voices. Hugs from across the miles!
Has the situation changed any?
Any change? Same here, I’m weeping and my fight is disabled
Hi! Any update on your situation?
We were never parenting together. We were props.
Seriously! All a show...
Becoming a mother traumatized me.
Same
If there were no such thing as courts and jail and police controling everyone, and if we lived in the old days parents would be breaking down doors and getting their children back. But no, You can go to jail for wanting to see your child. That is the fucked up system we live in.
Absolutely.
This is why the alienated parent lives a life of paralyzed inaction.
If you don’t get arrested, you end up being financially ruined, going through the court system.
This system shouldn't even exist you have so many shady parents that do this and they wonder why the world is screwed up.
What's really bad is when you confront them they just assume you don't want to pay and it's more or less a shakedown on your wallet and dignity.
Exactly. The judges switch b/t case types yet never seem to shake the mindset of someone needs to win and someone needs to lose. Newsflash: Kids lose 100% of the time. Personality disordered people exploit this. Yes, a little street justice would have fixed their bad behavior real quick. Hell seems to be filling up more and more these days. Stay strong for your kids!!!
Finally. This is the most accurate description of my life God bless you
Hello Trent, Yes, it is awful for parents and even worse for the children. I am hopeful your children have had the courage to contact you. God Bless.
She’s been holding my 8month old son hostage for three months. Might be a long haul for me to see him now with the pandemic. Thanks , great channel 🙏🏾🌀🌈
Hello Azimuth, It has been a long time. Have you seen your son lately? God Bless.
That's exactly what it is. Kidnapping and holding a child hostage.
Hi! Have you had any contact with your son?
I'm alienated from my daughter, I tried the courts (5 years and 2 lawyers), social workers (private and public), assessments done in my ability to parent, parental training, counseling, and after it all here I am having lost a fortune trying to get back my daughter. I lost my myself as well. Every validation is required, trust me Narcissists here in South Africa abuse a very weak court system. It's sad and so many men end their lives here in South Africa because of parental alienation. I'm going to add to that statistic very soon.
Maverick, You are worth so much more than being a statistic. You turned to the system for justice and, like many others, were robbed. Your daughter was robbed. The story is pretty much the same, regardless of the country. Please look up New England "Parental Alienation" Support Group on MeetUp. You may find support from the great people who attend. Many are still here, stronger than ever, b/c all children impacted, including your daughter, will need your strength. Don't give up no matter how horrible it feels! You matter! Hugs!
Hi! Checking in. It has been a year since you posted. What are you up to these days?
I see you. I'm a mom. Same situation here in America
I disagree, my ex is a veteran and he has been trained to be cold and emotionless and has made my life Hell. He is the controller, no empathy, etc all at my cost! After all I did through 30 years. 3 wars, 3 kids! Soldiers are damaged and damage us in return! They went in the military because they ate the type that can kill be it physically or through parental alienation!!
I know a military man who's cold hearted, motionless wife who was never in the military tried to get him on DV allegations has taken his kids for 2+ years all because he refused to stay with her.
We should research how many veterans/ military people are the alienators!
I believe PA runs high in military families who divorce. In regards to who are the alienators and who are alienated, I am not aware of the data. I have heard several suicides of military personnel also have alienation as a factor. You are someone's answer and keep talking and educating those you know. God blessed you with a testimony. How long has it been?
@@coachnoreen9063 8 years now
Conversely, how many are the ex-spouses of those veterans and military members. Due to social media and availability of information, alienators often twist narratives to solidify their case.
It is not easy.
My boyfriend is a vet and he has been alienated 2yrs + now.
What do you mean by “veterans”? Veterans of what?
Do you have a time stamp? Veterans will most often refer to the men and women who served in our military.
As a veteran of war and parental alienation. Both are veteran status hardships to endure.