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  • Jane muthoni met a man in church and fell in love with him. But what she didn't know was that this was the beginning of her downfall. Tune in to hear how this story unfolded
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  • @Tuko
    @Tuko  Місяць тому +32

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    • @eunisonc7494
      @eunisonc7494 Місяць тому +3

      Pole sana. Hope you have learnt your lesson. Next time remember to invest in yourself

    • @sallyeringo33
      @sallyeringo33 Місяць тому +1

      Ongea kiswahili

    • @Mwasi1239
      @Mwasi1239 Місяць тому

      Hi good evening…this woman she is lying about everything….she is a very Abusing woman to her husband, that men his very humble and helpful,she is the one whom pushed him away,enough is enough don’t trust every news you hear please,she doesn’t even get along with her on family,and friends….check with her Neighbors…they will tell a full story about Jane.that man went To hell and back of nine years,he really loved his wife and his kids…and he’s the one paying for his kids school fees pay her rent and he’s not leaving there,if you call the school where the kids go they will tell you the truth,that men does a lot for her and she never appreciated him. And he still doing it taken care of the kids plus her but he just don’t wanna deal with her,he’s there for he’s kids 💯. And he’s a man of God,

    • @Mwasi1239
      @Mwasi1239 Місяць тому

      Do hear her saying she is alone?because her only family doesn’t like the way she treats her husband Either listen to her story she burn her bridges every were even her siblings.

    • @catengina3922
      @catengina3922 Місяць тому

      +11a please

  • @elizabethwairimu2383
    @elizabethwairimu2383 Місяць тому +168

    Please wacheni kucomment vibaya,remember huyu msichana is very traumatized,she may fall into depression just because of ur bullying comment,just care her.

    • @ruthmitchelle
      @ruthmitchelle Місяць тому +8

      Very true

    • @leahwanjiku3566
      @leahwanjiku3566 Місяць тому +2

      Sure

    • @susanmuthoni5482
      @susanmuthoni5482 Місяць тому +4

      Ukweli woiye😢😢 hope she gets Proffesional help.

    • @weronikaasomsson2404
      @weronikaasomsson2404 Місяць тому

      ❤When it comes to narcissists- they are one of the big reasons He is stepping in right now!🔥💪♥ He is coming to avenge!
      👉Innocent go first- all the children of the world will disappear first then the adult believers.🥰 Jesus is coming back to pick up all those who accepted free gift of His death for their sins. Yes, after 2 000 years He is coming back with promised salvation!🙌♥🥳
      As He speaks through the prophets He is sickened by the world: lies, abuse amd manipulations.
      Before He comes we will see Alaska's back to back earthquakes 7.6 and 7.3, we will also see Germany and Russia exchanging missiles. Jesus spoke of it all through his prophets! 🙌❤😊
      Jesus removes His believers and then Apocalypse starts, do not be left for that! 🥹❤You can still call out to Him when kids are gone! Make sure you make Jesus your Lord and Saviour🙌❤He loves you like crazy! He sees you, ♥
      😍
      Trust in what He did on the cross for you! He died for our sins and defeated the death by rising 3 days later!
      🙌❤🥹
      👉We are about to see Russia attacking Germany, Alaska experiencing two devastating earthquakes (magnitude 7.6 and 7.3) and the fall of Freemason Temple in Philadelphia.🙌
      👉Only God knows the future. Jesus has now revealed all those details to his prophets right now!
      👉CHILDREN will disappear around the world, then His true believers!
      Jesus promised 2 000y ago that He will come back for everybody who accepted His payment ( His death) for all sins.
      He will literally pull us out of this world so that we don't have to stay for the Judgment ( the Apocalypse).
      You can still call out to Him to save you after kids are gone, He will rescue you too❤
      Make sure to make Jesus your Lord and Saviour🙌❤He loves you like crazy! He sees you❤🥹
      What saves us is trust in what He did on the cross: He died for our sins and then defeated the death by rising 3 days later! He made it very simple, He has done it all for us so don't add anything to it!
      🙌❤🥹

    • @annnyambura5506
      @annnyambura5506 Місяць тому +7

      😂😂😂hapana .
      Character development reloaded...
      Pesa yangu, siwezi jengea hata nyanyake choo.

  • @flexxflexys1212
    @flexxflexys1212 Місяць тому +114

    This is a lady who can assit a man achieve his goals and become someone respected, you are an amazing woman❤❤❤

    • @annwandia1632
      @annwandia1632 Місяць тому +2

      Totally, she's a king maker

    • @WILMA_
      @WILMA_ Місяць тому +1

      @@annwandia1632 - In this case tho? A devil maker.

    • @annnyambura5506
      @annnyambura5506 Місяць тому +3

      Silly woman not Amazing. There's a difference

    • @VeronicaDunbar
      @VeronicaDunbar Місяць тому +5

      Acha kuambia watu wakue doormat ya kujifutia matope. Ati, King maker.

    • @flexxflexys1212
      @flexxflexys1212 Місяць тому

      @@annnyambura5506 enemy of woman is woman

  • @emmadavid6065
    @emmadavid6065 Місяць тому +42

    If you understand her no matter what language she speaks listen and be sympathetic and pray for her. The lady has been abused in every kind of way and suffering trauma. She did not grow up with a father and was willing to change the narrative for her and her kids. Be kind stop nit picking.

    • @user-ib3ok9wj5d
      @user-ib3ok9wj5d Місяць тому

      Exactly 💯

    • @memorykasanga8780
      @memorykasanga8780 Місяць тому +2

      Imagine..am not even from Swahili speaking country but I have tried to listen to her story and well understood.. english is not our language so we shouldn't be laughing at people

  • @nxjjfj4923
    @nxjjfj4923 Місяць тому +42

    This lady is totally confused 🤔,n depressed,GOD of mercy remember this family 🙏

  • @sawara1071
    @sawara1071 Місяць тому +51

    Self love and confidence is so important. She was clearly looking for love in the wrong place. May God heal you.

    • @Mwasi1239
      @Mwasi1239 Місяць тому

      The man is the one who got the wrong woman He is a loving, kind especially when it comes to his family meaning kids and wife

    • @patriciamuregimbogo
      @patriciamuregimbogo Місяць тому

      Eish Malaya wake 😅😅you're really trying ​@@Mwasi1239

    • @nyabsmary6449
      @nyabsmary6449 16 днів тому

      ​@@Mwasi1239u sound like the sidechick.why are you all over the comment section

  • @mkenyammoja1
    @mkenyammoja1 Місяць тому +40

    Sometimes its even better to live a single life than to go through all this in the name of marriage😢

  • @AriseBeHealed
    @AriseBeHealed Місяць тому +103

    When someone is traumatised, dear watchers language can breakdown, stammering and speech can be affected no matter how well spoken someone is, was or could be. Take it easy viewers please.

    • @GeeksGumbot
      @GeeksGumbot Місяць тому +5

      You're kind

    • @mumbisandtmann8931
      @mumbisandtmann8931 Місяць тому +5

      Yes if it's not the language one speak fluently @AriseBeHealed

    • @lucygikonyo2437
      @lucygikonyo2437 Місяць тому +3

      True

    • @weronikaasomsson2404
      @weronikaasomsson2404 Місяць тому

      ❤When it comes to narcissists- they are one of the big reasons He is stepping in right now!🔥💪♥ He is coming to avenge!
      👉Innocent go first- all the children of the world will disappear first then the adult believers.🥰 Jesus is coming back to pick up all those who accepted free gift of His death for their sins. Yes, after 2 000 years He is coming back with promised salvation!🙌♥🥳
      As He speaks through the prophets He is sickened by the world: lies, abuse amd manipulations.
      Before He comes we will see Alaska's back to back earthquakes 7.6 and 7.3, we will also see Germany and Russia exchanging missiles. Jesus spoke of it all through his prophets! 🙌❤😊
      Jesus removes His believers and then Apocalypse starts, do not be left for that! 🥹❤You can still call out to Him when kids are gone! Make sure you make Jesus your Lord and Saviour🙌❤He loves you like crazy! He sees you, ♥
      😍
      Trust in what He did on the cross for you! He died for our sins and defeated the death by rising 3 days later!
      🙌❤🥹
      👉We are about to see Russia attacking Germany, Alaska experiencing two devastating earthquakes (magnitude 7.6 and 7.3) and the fall of Freemason Temple in Philadelphia.🙌
      👉Only God knows the future. Jesus has now revealed all those details to his prophets right now!
      👉CHILDREN will disappear around the world, then His true believers!
      Jesus promised 2 000y ago that He will come back for everybody who accepted His payment ( His death) for all sins.
      He will literally pull us out of this world so that we don't have to stay for the Judgment ( the Apocalypse).
      You can still call out to Him to save you after kids are gone, He will rescue you too❤
      Make sure to make Jesus your Lord and Saviour🙌❤He loves you like crazy! He sees you❤🥹
      What saves us is trust in what He did on the cross: He died for our sins and then defeated the death by rising 3 days later! He made it very simple, He has done it all for us so don't add anything to it!
      🙌❤🥹

    • @user-ib3ok9wj5d
      @user-ib3ok9wj5d Місяць тому +3

      True hugs mummy ❤️❤️🤗

  • @lucywairimu9236
    @lucywairimu9236 Місяць тому +14

    Hugs Muthoni, she's still traumatized,she needs love and appreciation. A hard working woman who was very focused but loved the wrong person

  • @Chiwoful
    @Chiwoful Місяць тому +80

    Kawira handled this interview very well... With lots of empathy. We shoukd learn to tolerate others.

    • @DIon..Godismyshield
      @DIon..Godismyshield Місяць тому +6

      Very true aki people are judging her English but I think its the accent

    • @damariszuckschwert9489
      @damariszuckschwert9489 Місяць тому +1

      I use to say that..,but today wacha tu nicheke kidogo😂😂😂😂😂

    • @mercymeme2641
      @mercymeme2641 Місяць тому

      😅😅😅

    • @Mwasi1239
      @Mwasi1239 Місяць тому

      She is the one who is physically and mentally abuserher she abuse her husband not the husband abusing her is the other way

    • @Mwasi1239
      @Mwasi1239 Місяць тому

      She is lying

  • @annaitumbi5572
    @annaitumbi5572 Місяць тому +30

    Enoug Enough, people please be kind in your commending whether English is wrong or not does it means you don't understand kindly and please if you have nothing to say to Jen Pray for her and i know God will fight for her and that battle belongs to God alone Amen

    • @njokindungu1370
      @njokindungu1370 Місяць тому +1

      Aongee kenye anajua,kawira is trying to switch to Kiswahili but anang'anga'na na kizungu😮.

    • @magdalenewambua7246
      @magdalenewambua7246 Місяць тому +1

      Ni uchungu ako nayo inafanya words zipotee..... she's traumatized and she needs urgent counseling

    • @muthonikiige937
      @muthonikiige937 Місяць тому +1

      Exactly.

  • @mumbisandtmann8931
    @mumbisandtmann8931 Місяць тому +92

    Any woman who Fund for her wedding should know she is marrying herself

    • @WILMA_
      @WILMA_ Місяць тому

      @@mumbisandtmann8931 - 1000%

    • @serahruguru8031
      @serahruguru8031 Місяць тому +2

      Rest in peace ENGLISH 😢😢

    • @janemuthoni723
      @janemuthoni723 Місяць тому

      @@serahruguru8031gani juu hii iko sawa write to how supposed to be written

    • @faithe4063
      @faithe4063 Місяць тому +1

      Yes ohh

    • @wilsonmuriuki3292
      @wilsonmuriuki3292 Місяць тому +1

      True

  • @monicamaina3854
    @monicamaina3854 Місяць тому +12

    Jane you are very beautiful and hardworking pick up your broken pieces and start again

  • @happytimes9747
    @happytimes9747 Місяць тому +9

    Mimekasirika sana sijawai kasirika hivi 😢😢hiyo family iko cursed and it will pay for every tears of this lady

  • @user-jp8nt6st7p
    @user-jp8nt6st7p Місяць тому +9

    Dear beautiful woman God will restore everything you have lost

  • @Joe254KE
    @Joe254KE Місяць тому +55

    In 10years time, this wonderful lady will be very FAR, while the video-calling playerboy will still be roaming around, asking for handouts to go watch ball. May our good LORD give her strength, peace of mind and the spirit to move on, rebuild her life and start anew. A great destiny awaits her. I am Joe from Limuru.

  • @charitieshikoh1532
    @charitieshikoh1532 Місяць тому +7

    Oh dear God equip us with your wisdom and discernment..... Because if she had spirit of discernment she would have left that marriage long time ago..... I pray that God will strengthen her 🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @MwongelaWaita
    @MwongelaWaita Місяць тому +7

    Very Paiful story,God is Faithful,Live moves on and things will get better.
    Na ndoa ikitushinda Tuachane nayo.There is no need 9f hurting someone this far,Kama haumpendi let her go.
    And Ladies Read the signs early na Mjipende na Mjitoe

  • @user-wy7ir6ev8w
    @user-wy7ir6ev8w Місяць тому +8

    Aki she's not okay she needs counseling......pole sana but now you know better next time be wise

  • @supu1237
    @supu1237 Місяць тому +9

    Yvonne pls Saidia huyo mrembo apelekwe counseling plz

  • @cruzmartinofficial6928
    @cruzmartinofficial6928 Місяць тому +21

    She is a good woman. Ready to support spouse in all ways. Rare to find. May God grant her the peace she deserves.

  • @WILMA_
    @WILMA_ Місяць тому +82

    To be fair, Ms. Kawira tried her level best (POLITELY)to try and steer her to speak Swahili, but alas, Msichana anataka kuzungumza kizungu. Nothing wrong with that.

    • @Chiwoful
      @Chiwoful Місяць тому +6

      I agree, Kawira was speaking in Swahili...asking her guest to speak in Swahili would have been condescending...

    • @WILMA_
      @WILMA_ Місяць тому

      @@Chiwoful - That’s what people fail to understand.

    • @heatherbooth4217
      @heatherbooth4217 Місяць тому +5

      She tried to steer her away from English but she insisted but it's painful to watch.

    • @rosekabiti4697
      @rosekabiti4697 Місяць тому +2

      Kamwari... sorry but Wacha tu nicheke..kawira you tried

    • @aliceringoma157
      @aliceringoma157 Місяць тому +1

      You're talking my mind

  • @victorianthenya6359
    @victorianthenya6359 Місяць тому +240

    Normalize kuambia MTU aongee Kiswahili coz I feel ashamed while watching 😢😂

  • @roselynekwamboka6869
    @roselynekwamboka6869 Місяць тому +5

    This lady was very beautiful,what happened hii ni stress may God intervene for her battles 😢

  • @Bellanna100
    @Bellanna100 Місяць тому +8

    😮😮😮😮 am sure she saw red flags but mapezi ni jinga sana 😅😅😅😅😅😅unapeda mtu hakupedi 😂😂 hii story ata haieleweki .. though tunaelewa kidogo uli marry mtu hakupedi sis doo anakuchukia ivo ameku treat vibaya 🫢🫢 except heal moveon wacha bitterness doo u heal 😩😩😩 leave that man and his family kabisa go away disappear kabisa with your kids

  • @annkiminja8524
    @annkiminja8524 Місяць тому +6

    There is a God in Heaven who avenges for His own.Take heart our Sister and be Strong.

  • @paulinewanjiru3967
    @paulinewanjiru3967 Місяць тому +16

    Bishop warned you hukusikia aki, pole mum.may God see you through

    • @Quilant749
      @Quilant749 Місяць тому

      Unamjua?

    • @b.eylliebeenhere
      @b.eylliebeenhere Місяць тому +1

      Love is deaf

    • @Mwasi1239
      @Mwasi1239 Місяць тому

      @@Quilant749 Yes, very well

    • @Mwasi1239
      @Mwasi1239 Місяць тому

      @@Quilant749 She’s a animal even the kids don’t like her. That’s why you heard her say her kids was giving a problem cause they don’t like the way she treated father the man cries every day the way she treats him. The kids events, all ha, husband, Boss, their mother she’s a trouble maker when she went to his job

  • @jlmchannel5579
    @jlmchannel5579 Місяць тому +7

    Let’s learn to accommodate all , that’s how we move as one ! Kawira you did well❤ so sorry to the lady

  • @loycecarolkhayeli
    @loycecarolkhayeli Місяць тому +6

    You're a Very beautiful person,and you're blessed is just you met a wrong person and his entire family is toxic,leave them all behind forget about them and open new pages of life,God is faithful you will rise again.

  • @Eva-fm8vx
    @Eva-fm8vx Місяць тому +3

    She is so traumatised, but her confidence is on another level. Sema kujiamini. Without these issues she can go far. Collect yourself my dear girl n you will get far.

  • @gladyskibaara4101
    @gladyskibaara4101 Місяць тому +4

    Encourage that lady. May God heal her so that she can move on. Am also a culprit. Mine left me in mathare. But God is faithful am healed n trying to move on.

  • @classicsarah9960
    @classicsarah9960 Місяць тому +5

    You are a good woman, just get yourself together and build yourself again, try to go to a parr time school if you can since you're still young so no man can insult you on your lack of education and I pray your father gets total justice. Amen

  • @rechomunini2730
    @rechomunini2730 Місяць тому +8

    Sasa uko na pesa na unafinance mwanaume??🤔🤔 Why do you need the man in the first place??

  • @SarahKanja
    @SarahKanja Місяць тому +12

    Depression is real,may God bless and remember this woman, and may she find a job to be able to raise her children, it's well my sister,hugs dear

  • @aliceringoma157
    @aliceringoma157 Місяць тому +8

    Can see Yvonne you're really trying to change the conversation in swahili but the lady is going back in using English which is not going well with her

  • @RWK-ro4yk
    @RWK-ro4yk Місяць тому +12

    Aki ni ngumu kuekewa hii story afadhali aonge kiswahili😢

  • @soblessed8593
    @soblessed8593 Місяць тому +5

    Very beautiful lady, hardworking , you will rise again IJN

  • @sarahjuniormwangiofficial5961
    @sarahjuniormwangiofficial5961 Місяць тому +6

    Those commenting negatively about her just don't have a clue of what she's going through until you walk through the same path. Dating a narcissist isn't easy coz someone stays with the believe that the person will change. When a lady love too much she's said to desperate, when she stays away you say it's pride 🤔🤔🤔 about language she's from mbeere and that's her and depression can even affect the language. Let show her love coz I know she has learnt through hard way and now she know what the best thing to do

    • @gww-px8vc
      @gww-px8vc Місяць тому

      True if someone has passed through narssists hands ndio anaeza elewa hehe those characters are the real devils and they never change. Nimepitia mikono ya narssist man baby dadi and a narssist mother my mother weeeh sema hell but God is good I got out of that yoke sahi hawawezi jaribu kunikanyaga kanyaga I dealt with them squarely with facts n truths and showing them that they can no longer control me . Dawa ya narcissists ni kuwa face na truth fearlessly thy melt down like a snail which has been poured salt on 😅 they fear being told who they really are point blank

    • @eunicesammy4629
      @eunicesammy4629 Місяць тому +1

      Very true.
      Those who have passed through that path, can understand her.
      I do understand her. She is really trying, it's not easy. Very painful.

    • @gww-px8vc
      @gww-px8vc Місяць тому

      @eunicesammy4629 kweli kabisa

  • @brendamumbi1601
    @brendamumbi1601 Місяць тому +24

    Our sister is traumatised,kindly assist her get a psychologist who deals with trauma

    • @Cathymahappykenya
      @Cathymahappykenya Місяць тому

      Look for dorcas marangu.she does trama healing..

    • @Mwasi1239
      @Mwasi1239 Місяць тому

      @@brendamumbi1601 The husband is the one who needs psychologists because that woman Traumatize him everything he does is wrong. Nothing to her is good still pay the rent and he don’t leave there. and he don’t live with another woman he stays by himself. She goes there as she wants she never find a woman in his house so she’s lying. The whole story it’s a lie she is the problem.

    • @patriciamuregimbogo
      @patriciamuregimbogo Місяць тому

      ​@@Mwasi1239you can't be even ashamed of yourself ashawo sugar mummy wa bwanake

    • @jescakanario
      @jescakanario 29 днів тому

      ​@@Mwasi1239ng'ombe ni ng'ombe tu

  • @user-dn6yt2ud8v
    @user-dn6yt2ud8v Місяць тому +5

    Wewe from the word go wewe ndiye ulikuwa mwanaume wa hio marriage.kwa ufupi ulioa

  • @rosemarykariithi5701
    @rosemarykariithi5701 Місяць тому +1

    True the host has handled the interview with so much love and understanding the lady is so beautiful ,smart , intelligent wait and watch a handsome man is coming but before we get there kawira or anyone who cares please please please assist her with counselor she's so traumatized aki I don't think I can do hour conversation in engo so kudos gal afunguliwe you tube channel with her talents and English she is good to go kawira get her open her channel

  • @gracenyaga3419
    @gracenyaga3419 Місяць тому +50

    Hii ndio inaitwa forcing issues 😂 kiswahili ni lugha ya taifa

  • @mumbipekanltd
    @mumbipekanltd Місяць тому +7

    She will overcome. She will overcome. It doesn't matter how difficult this situation is, she is an overcomer through Christ Jesus.
    God will send her necessary help.

  • @zablonmatara
    @zablonmatara Місяць тому +6

    So sorry for her.Again her make up artist should be arrested.

  • @veronicahkoigi5188
    @veronicahkoigi5188 Місяць тому +2

    WOIYE may God see you through baby girl you were destined for greatness. You are still young and have time and energy to still be what you wanted to be. Wake up dust yourself and walk shoulders high we worship a God of restoration and will restore all you lost.

  • @annwandia1632
    @annwandia1632 Місяць тому +4

    Let's forget the English. I pray that Almighty God will not only heal your broken heart but he will keep your enemies so that they'll witness as he prepare a table for you and restore all the years the locusts have eaten into 7 fold. Hugs and more hugs

  • @paulinekawira4524
    @paulinekawira4524 Місяць тому +1

    Woyei,she is innocent, hardworking,the problem is language barrier,but mtu asimpee kazi ya teaching

  • @user-xt4we5sq9s
    @user-xt4we5sq9s Місяць тому +12

    Upee mwanaume doh ya food ujenge kwao ,usimamie wedding, umulishe?? Jeso ? I think huyu dam ako na deppreion and her self esteem is very low....hajipendi ....

    • @rosemarykariithi5701
      @rosemarykariithi5701 Місяць тому +1

      There's a problem she just needs assistance in counseling she is good to go

    • @judithmbithe4857
      @judithmbithe4857 Місяць тому

      Kutaka kupendeza kanisa na some people ndio ilizaa haya, she needs to love herself first and forget abt people , her life is everything. May God heal her heart

    • @elizabethkimani5904
      @elizabethkimani5904 Місяць тому

      True

    • @sharonanisha8949
      @sharonanisha8949 Місяць тому

      This women was a blessing in that family but they chose to mistreat her when there son got a job bt before walikuwa sawaa...when she steps out that family completely she will be more successful and happy..but that family is going to suffer more than before ..karma is coming

    • @Mwasi1239
      @Mwasi1239 Місяць тому

      @@rosemarykariithi5701 I don’t think even God will The woman has mental issues

  • @baretalkwithmercy
    @baretalkwithmercy Місяць тому +1

    Why are people concentrating on her English,the lady expressed herself in the best way she knows,and it's allowed,inaeleweka,hugs Jane,you did what you did when you felt it was the best,pick up yourself Mama,God has much in store for you,itakua sawa❤

  • @carolinetalam5832
    @carolinetalam5832 Місяць тому +34

    That man and his family used you, you were his stepping stone, so sad

    • @annwandia1632
      @annwandia1632 Місяць тому +3

      Sad but true

    • @phyliswangui6919
      @phyliswangui6919 Місяць тому +2

      God cannot be mocked whatever they sow they will reap God is just

    • @carolinetalam5832
      @carolinetalam5832 Місяць тому +1

      @@phyliswangui6919 Exactly

    • @carolinetalam5832
      @carolinetalam5832 Місяць тому +1

      @susannjambi3036 Kweli? anyway it's until we hear the husband too

    • @sharonanisha8949
      @sharonanisha8949 Місяць тому

      ​@susannjambi3036so you are the woman who sent the nudes😂na your nyashh😂😂😂you will cry ..karma will catch you all..enjoy for now umeachiwq huyo bwana..dat house she build you won't live in peace😊

  • @mildredalalia14
    @mildredalalia14 21 годину тому

    Huyo shetani mwanaume mwachie Mungu. Atachapwa kiboko na Mungu mpaka akae chokoraa. Devil in disguise, man.
    My dear sister, may God heal your heart and restore you. Aki pole sana. Your story is so painful. If you stay with a man for 8 yrs without him changing, please, run away with your life ..

  • @ipetert5372
    @ipetert5372 Місяць тому +4

    Im sixty threw my eyes and ears off balance. Sixth born she meant. Embu county to the world 🎉❤. Make agreements signed on language to use so guest don't do whatever they wanna do

  • @user-bz5wj3oz1t
    @user-bz5wj3oz1t Місяць тому +2

    it is very hard to live with a Narcissi cist i have lived with one for 24 years its not easy at all you have to try and get your own peace if you don't wont to leave. Otherwise you will be on and off hospital and the narcissists cares less about you. Most men have a narcissist behaviour other you can be able to handle others not so observe and read more about narcissistic behaviour it helps alot.

  • @simonndiritu4778
    @simonndiritu4778 Місяць тому +4

    She is talking very well an i love her eloquence

  • @Sophi25444
    @Sophi25444 Місяць тому +20

    English is for everyone. Jane ngangana na hiyo kingereza, Sema tu venye inakuja. Kwani iko nini 😅

  • @charleschristian9241
    @charleschristian9241 Місяць тому +15

    Jane is a family friend infact i was a camera man kwa harusi yake . When people Go through tough times in their lives we ought to pray for them usiwe mwepesi kuangalia udhaifu wa mtu anahitaji msaada wako . Saidia pahali unaweza Sometimes all we need is a word of encouragement.

  • @susanosiro
    @susanosiro Місяць тому +1

    May the lord help this beautiful lady, i just felt like i can hug her, anazungumza na huruma sana...but its well

  • @priscillamaraka4009
    @priscillamaraka4009 Місяць тому +3

    Yvonne is trying to speak swahili but the lady doesn't switch, she's changanyiwad kabisa,i give up!

  • @queenexellent9854
    @queenexellent9854 Місяць тому +2

    Tuko, aibu tell the lady to speak a language she's fluent with and well understood 😢😢😢

  • @zainabumwaniki6648
    @zainabumwaniki6648 Місяць тому +4

    Am from embu and i don't know why am laughing , sorry though mamaa

  • @sarahphoebe543
    @sarahphoebe543 Місяць тому +1

    God will reward you for all you have gone through.Just heal and start life again.

  • @stephieyruwanj2981
    @stephieyruwanj2981 Місяць тому +10

    Ata sielewi jameni😂😂

  • @ruthongeri5115
    @ruthongeri5115 Місяць тому +1

    The family at large will pay for the tears and efforts of this lady!

  • @celinejudy1496
    @celinejudy1496 Місяць тому +5

    Si uonge tu kiswahili madam

  • @christinec740
    @christinec740 Місяць тому +1

    Nimekoma kukimbilia comments before watching..

  • @itaalmovierecaps5170
    @itaalmovierecaps5170 Місяць тому +5

    Kawira is trying to switch to swahili but i guess yhe lady anapenda kuongea english too bad its not englishing

  • @danielkuria8336
    @danielkuria8336 Місяць тому +2

    You had a good life before marriage,and our God restores.May It happen to you soon,and forget the frustrations you have gone through.

  • @judivioable
    @judivioable Місяць тому +18

    Huu mwaka ni mwaka wa kuforce hata kiingereza English,go go go l mbelif you can.

  • @lydiamakena2494
    @lydiamakena2494 Місяць тому +1

    Mama have Peace. God will lift you till they wonder. Leave them . GOD IS A TRUE JUDGE. Take your case to Him😢 soo sad.

  • @user-cd3zp6rm7f
    @user-cd3zp6rm7f Місяць тому +4

    Am not discouraging her bt the reason she was being called stupid is ,alijioa ,dowry ni yy ,anajenga kwa kina mzee ,nguo hadi za mzee ni yy, shopping ni yy ,fare ni yy, airtime ya mzee ni yy ,simu ya mzee ni yy, aaaaaah babygirl uliskia wapi ?? Kwani how bad was the situation ? Unavumilia hayo yote ata huyo boy alishangaa kwani huyu ni nani ninakaa na yy ,mnaweza sema wanawake tunatusi wanawake wenzetu bt ukweli usemwe wasichana tukakuwanga wajinga sana tunadhani aty boy atakupenda juu unaprovide kila kitu 😂😂 ata ndo anakudharau zaidi anakutumia tu juu ya kujifanya the man in the house 😢😢 anyways iwe funzo kwa wasichana mfungue macho ,cz I wish ni mm nilikuwa na hiyo pesa ata singehitaji huyo mwanaume ata ,,poleee kwako cz ata facebook bado unatumia jina yake ebu uchange hiyo jina na uisahau .having a man in your life is not a bed of roses especially ukijifanya unajiweza👌 anyways am an automotive engineer hapa isuzu kuna vacant 🤚🤚anybarry

  • @eunicemonyenye7515
    @eunicemonyenye7515 Місяць тому +1

    Her story has already happened and i hope she heals. I hope it teaches a lady out there that there are limits to which you can support a man. Beyond which you need to start alerting yourself of red flags. A man that wants to lead you cannot let you pay for the wedding and even build a house in his home. Thats a sign of an irresponsible man and you either leave or wait until he breaks you to the leaving point. For those having a problem with her accent, remember that even white people speak our Swahili with their accents. Africans need to decolonize their minds to understand everyone has an accent from their first language. Not everyone manages to avoid the effects of their native languages when speaking another language. As someone that has interacted with people from many races, all i felt for her and everyone with an accent is pride. Its only Africans that feel embarrassed of their accents. Russians, Brazilians etc never feel embarrassed of their accents when speaking English or any other language. Wow, I love her yellow coat. Someone please tell me where to buy it❤

  • @VictorKiplagat-wn4mw
    @VictorKiplagat-wn4mw Місяць тому +3

    Very sad story ingekua poa kwa inohoro TV or kameme

  • @ruthmitchelle
    @ruthmitchelle Місяць тому +2

    Screen or camer shock
    She already had it full, please let's be kind.
    May our good Lord heal, comfort,give you sufficient grace n peace. Most of all forgive them n you yourself.please please please don't hate bcz not to hinder your blessings n the kids. You have the power within to excel i see that

    • @Mwasi1239
      @Mwasi1239 Місяць тому

      @@ruthmitchelle She is lying about everything. Don’t let those tears of Evil deceive you. She is not what you guys think she is. I wish you could talk to her neighbors and the maids , She used to beat them and that’s what the Husband dislike treat them like slaves

  • @jdezeeuw6540
    @jdezeeuw6540 Місяць тому +27

    Bottom line he used her and she found out too late.

    • @Mwasi1239
      @Mwasi1239 Місяць тому

      He never did that… Look at her face when she talks everything is a lie try to calm the social media to help the man he’s still taking care of her and the kids

    • @gww-px8vc
      @gww-px8vc Місяць тому

      True aki😢

  • @winniemagoma4950
    @winniemagoma4950 Місяць тому +8

    He lost a gem

    • @missk8647
      @missk8647 Місяць тому

      ​@susannjambi3036Sammy is a good man?

    • @Mwasi1239
      @Mwasi1239 Місяць тому

      @susannjambi3036 Very good man the one all of us wish we could have he don’t drink I don’t smoke he don’t go to clubs only thing he does is work and provide for his family and pay rent where he don’t even leave for another man’s provide everything for her, and she still complain😫

    • @winfrednduku2359
      @winfrednduku2359 Місяць тому

      ​@missk8647 huyu nikaa one of the sisters ako every comment kutetea hio nungu

    • @missk8647
      @missk8647 Місяць тому

      @@winfrednduku2359 i have noted that too ama the current lady 😂😂

  • @lizzymwangy2421
    @lizzymwangy2421 Місяць тому +1

    Weuh, pole Sana, but, in every decision especially life partner involves God, and ask him for a sigh, he will answer you he's faithful, all in all, God will heal and restore you...

  • @terrymo415
    @terrymo415 Місяць тому +5

    Mwenye amewatch atupee Summary coz wee😂😂😂 kwani Kiswahili ni ya kazi gani 🙄🙄🙄🙄

  • @MoniqueFamilyLifestylevlogs
    @MoniqueFamilyLifestylevlogs Місяць тому +1

    Ladies you can never Change a Man and it's futile to say you are waiting for a man to change the earlier we know this the better, secondly Ladies never contrubute money in the Name of Marriage( doing a wedding) if a man wants to marry you they will make the effort to marry you,use your money to build yourself or the children you have not a man .

  • @Chiwoful
    @Chiwoful Місяць тому +6

    She also needs to know its nof about a tribe... Some individuals are just demonic irrespective of race, religion etc

    • @bettynyokabi5932
      @bettynyokabi5932 Місяць тому

      Exactly 💯

    • @Mwasi1239
      @Mwasi1239 Місяць тому

      @@Chiwoful She is the one who’s demonic the guy don’t even go to clubs he’s a big-time Christian he don’t drink

  • @mercyk2672
    @mercyk2672 Місяць тому +2

    I can relate to what she's going through and its really painful. When you show a man that you can handle all financial responsibilities, he becomes spoilt and lazy. My marriage was like that from the start. He always complained about being broke and I would always step in to take care of bills. It got to the point where he stopped trying, even though he had the capability of being very productive. I was financially secure when I met him, but by the time we parted, my finances were a mess

    • @sallyeringo33
      @sallyeringo33 Місяць тому

      Stop please sheis depressed

    • @Ruthnellycrafts
      @Ruthnellycrafts Місяць тому +1

      ​@@sallyeringo33 she's just giving her testimony

    • @Mwasi1239
      @Mwasi1239 Місяць тому +1

      @@sallyeringo33 Because she can’t believe the doormat left

    • @saba001
      @saba001 Місяць тому

      ​@@Mwasi1239you're very evil trying to cover your fellow nude sender

  • @NancyKarori
    @NancyKarori Місяць тому +4

    Thanks Grace you are a great woman "kiswahili is the best ❤

  • @marianjayden4805
    @marianjayden4805 Місяць тому +1

    Karma will deal with him properly what goes around comes around,sorry mummy stand again and love your self first 🥇

  • @nginakatono7546
    @nginakatono7546 Місяць тому +7

    Don’t worry
    It will be well with you
    Life is a journey
    If someone replaces you with someone else haina shida
    But when they replace you with peace
    It’s done
    Ope she finds peace 🙏🙏

  • @Sharonpapichulo
    @Sharonpapichulo Місяць тому +1

    Honestly Tuko you should not let one ajiaibishe hivyo....brief the person before you start shooting or tell us she decided to do her thing.....anyways hugs to her😢

  • @PerisAchieng-g5m
    @PerisAchieng-g5m Місяць тому +2

    Still she's understandable,healing to you mama...hugs

  • @mnk15087
    @mnk15087 Місяць тому +6

    Uyu dame ata sura si yake. She is beautiful but imefichwa na stress. Ni dame msupuu sana life can really mess one up. Nimejua abuse really alters physical appearance.

    • @bettiejohns9246
      @bettiejohns9246 28 днів тому

      Her beauty imefichwa na her Make-up artist leo😂. Sorry what what she went through 😢

  • @judykamau6121
    @judykamau6121 Місяць тому +1

    Ladies pliz mjipende.
    And pray

  • @wycliffekeari3154
    @wycliffekeari3154 Місяць тому +7

    Mbona huyu anajijaza na kizungu na hata yeye mwenyewe haelewi ?wah sasa hata unashindwa kushikanisha

  • @inpursuitofholiness416
    @inpursuitofholiness416 Місяць тому

    You're a very strong and good hearted lady. No matter what people do to you, God loves you.❤
    I have no problem with the way she talks, that's how she's comfortable expressing herself and that's okay.
    Her story is touching and she needs encouragement and support.
    May this verses encourage you
    Psalm 40:1-4, 11-17 ESV
    [1] I waited patiently for the Lord; he inclined to me and heard my cry. [2] He drew me up from the pit of destruction, out of the miry bog, and set my feet upon a rock, making my steps secure. [3] He put a new song in my mouth, a song of praise to our God. Many will see and fear, and put their trust in the Lord. [4] Blessed is the man who makes the Lord his trust, who does not turn to the proud, to those who go astray after a lie!
    [11] As for you, O Lord, you will not restrain your mercy from me; your steadfast love and your faithfulness will ever preserve me! [12] For evils have encompassed me beyond number; my iniquities have overtaken me, and I cannot see; they are more than the hairs of my head; my heart fails me. [13] Be pleased, O Lord, to deliver me! O Lord, make haste to help me! [14] Let those be put to shame and disappointed altogether who seek to snatch away my life; let those be turned back and brought to dishonor who delight in my hurt! [15] Let those be appalled because of their shame who say to me, “Aha, Aha!” [16] But may all who seek you rejoice and be glad in you; may those who love your salvation say continually, “Great is the Lord!” [17] As for me, I am poor and needy, but the Lord takes thought for me. You are my help and my deliverer; do not delay, O my God!
    bible.com/bible/59/psa.40.1-17.ESV

  • @agnesnyambura8928
    @agnesnyambura8928 Місяць тому +10

    Where do ladies get that energy ya kuvumilia hizo ujinga zote???

    • @susanmuthoni5482
      @susanmuthoni5482 Місяць тому +2

      😂😂 nikamakurogwa😢 i have been there too.Vile nilimurife wacha tuu😅

    • @Zaina403
      @Zaina403 Місяць тому

      Can't be me

    • @Mwasi1239
      @Mwasi1239 Місяць тому

      @@agnesnyambura8928 Because she was the one with ujinga mwanaume akafumilia Until he got tired of have Yousif, but he still pays for everything even where she stay at. If he was a bad man, he would never do that. He’s a very calm, humble husband, anyone would love to have she took him for granted because she want to control him too. We wish her the best in the new journey she gonna be right back here on Tuko.

    • @nelimajudy280
      @nelimajudy280 Місяць тому

      ​​@@Mwasi1239which work was she doing that he had served millions for financing the weeding and building a house? Then her father was in jail why could she use the money to bail him? I thought weeding it's a must prideprice to be paid before it's done? I watched her at "dela documentary"/"mercy ndaru"the story isn't rhyming anyway it's her story sorry

    • @christinemuga9956
      @christinemuga9956 Місяць тому

      I wonder

  • @naomikaruri6006
    @naomikaruri6006 6 днів тому

    You are too young and beautiful.oga na urudi soko.cry no more 🎉🎉🎉

  • @bensonngichabe946
    @bensonngichabe946 Місяць тому +7

    Kingereza mingi kama Ruto na hakuna point.Hii kingereza ni watu kutoka Uganda na Tanzania sisi Wakenya huwa tunajaribu.😢😢😢

    • @EmilyTocho
      @EmilyTocho Місяць тому +2

      Embu county

    • @roselynekwamboka6869
      @roselynekwamboka6869 Місяць тому +4

      Hehehe hii yako ni ni hasira za economy I know pole😂😂,tutakuwa sawa jaribu kuvumilia😅

    • @theresaelizabethelijah117
      @theresaelizabethelijah117 Місяць тому +4

      Sasa mbona unaleta hasira za Ruto kwa mtoto wa watu 😢

    • @bensonngichabe946
      @bensonngichabe946 Місяць тому +2

      @@theresaelizabethelijah117 Huyo Ruto angekua mtoto wangu ningelaani yeye .wewe unaona any project since he took power?

    • @bensonngichabe946
      @bensonngichabe946 Місяць тому

      @@roselynekwamboka6869 tukutane kesho CBD Nairobi.

  • @sarahruth1718
    @sarahruth1718 Місяць тому +1

    I dont hv a daughter but many nieces, i hv alway told them, it is Ok to be alone

  • @dionskarimi4516
    @dionskarimi4516 Місяць тому +11

    Kawira seriously.....aongee kiswahili tu tushikanishe

    • @queenexellent9854
      @queenexellent9854 Місяць тому

      😂😂

    • @bensonngichabe946
      @bensonngichabe946 Місяць тому +2

      @@dionskarimi4516 Hii ndio unasikia 'mende ameangusha kabati'

    • @lizkiki2593
      @lizkiki2593 Місяць тому

      😅😂😅😂😅

    • @annatieno9523
      @annatieno9523 Місяць тому

      huyu nikama aki insist huwezi mwambia kitu its obvious she is struggling.

    • @Mwasi1239
      @Mwasi1239 Місяць тому

      @@annatieno9523 She has a good husband she’s the one who chased him away for no reason accusation

  • @nyabsmary6449
    @nyabsmary6449 16 днів тому

    I understand her very well.narcissitic people will pretend to be very good and nice to people outside their home but kwa nyumba zao ni ma Monster.The way they treat their women no one will believe you if u say anything bad about them.

  • @supermom3728
    @supermom3728 Місяць тому +6

    Take heart, he will pay dearly ,nothing under the sun goes unpunished. He is so evil.

  • @annkamiri599
    @annkamiri599 Місяць тому +1

    Pole mama, huyu ata kiswahili inampeleka vibaya

  • @dorcusmutemi9902
    @dorcusmutemi9902 Місяць тому +4

    Why are you people complaining, so long as you can understand what she's saying, why complain😂😂😂

  • @M-tu3kq
    @M-tu3kq Місяць тому +2

    Go gal , much ❤❤❤ to you , you re beautiful and worthy before God

  • @carolynemurungi4815
    @carolynemurungi4815 Місяць тому +5

    Sad story but now language breakdown