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  • Опубліковано 28 вер 2024
  • #widow #sayinggoodbye #grief

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  • @elliegoldie6140
    @elliegoldie6140 4 місяці тому +2

    lt takes a long time to be able to accept he’s gone.You had a good life with Dave and were madly in love and have the most beautiful children. Clothes you bought are beautiful your such a great mum you always thinking of children.xxxxx❤

  • @emilyrussell896
    @emilyrussell896 5 місяців тому +5

    Bless you !! My heart bleeds for you all !! I hope you get the answers you need so you can try and move forward and grieve properly lots of love to you all ❤️

  • @presleylives3320
    @presleylives3320 5 місяців тому +3

    My heart breaks for you Sarah😢i can’t imagine the pain your going through😢 but you are doing such a fantastic job I’m so proud of you ❤you are a wonderful mummy❤sending love to you all ❤I’m rewatching vlogs to watch adverts since it happened to try and help,I think everyone is doing the same as you deserve as much support as possible as your amazing as many people wouldn’t be mentally sane the things you’ve coped with in your life and I admire your strength you have a beautiful soul❤

  • @InvisibleVicky
    @InvisibleVicky 5 місяців тому +18

    You need closure. You can begin to heal when it’s all sorted and Dave is laid to rest. You are in limbo and I can’t imagine how awful that is. Hugs xxxx

  • @deborahharrison9401
    @deborahharrison9401 5 місяців тому +2

    Ah sending love and hugs your way your so brave to carry on Dave would be so proud of you and your family ❤❤❤

  • @Brickham24
    @Brickham24 5 місяців тому +2

    Thinking of you and your family Sarah big hugs xx💖💖

  • @jeanmarietaylor6355
    @jeanmarietaylor6355 5 місяців тому +4

    Take each minute by minute you are incredible xxx

    • @RFamily
      @RFamily  5 місяців тому +2

      ❤❤

  • @christinaohagan4997
    @christinaohagan4997 5 місяців тому +2

    I pray tat u can get through this an each day get stronger so sad wat ur going through ❤❤

  • @sharronbunney355
    @sharronbunney355 5 місяців тому +2

    my heart to out to you and your family hugs to you all

  • @Anniemac390
    @Anniemac390 5 місяців тому +8

    thinking of you all x

  • @patwright8331
    @patwright8331 5 місяців тому +3

    Beautiful mummy, no matter what helps you through this journey is your right everyone deals with grief in different ways, I think your amazing, I hope you get the outcome for Dave you all deserve answers 🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍

    • @RFamily
      @RFamily  5 місяців тому +4

      Thank you, hopefully we get to understand why this happened, really finding it hard to let go 😢 x

    • @patwright8331
      @patwright8331 5 місяців тому +1

      @@RFamily you’ll never let go but as time goes by you’ll learn to live with it & keep the memories stored, you can’t just shut off a love you have for someone just because you can’t see them, I’m sure that Dave has you wrapped up tight in his arms looking out for you 🤍🫶🏼🤍

  • @karenpendered7324
    @karenpendered7324 5 місяців тому +7

    Sending love to you all I know it must be so hard xx

  • @clairelouisegibson5060
    @clairelouisegibson5060 5 місяців тому +7

  • @janetelaine6178
    @janetelaine6178 5 місяців тому +2

    Godbless u all . Thinking off u all xx

  • @Charlik1968
    @Charlik1968 5 місяців тому +4

    Sending lots of love 🕊️🕊️🤍🤍🤍

    • @RFamily
      @RFamily  5 місяців тому +2

      😢❤. X

  • @bluebell9140
    @bluebell9140 5 місяців тому +19

    I’m just a stranger to you, but not a stranger to your pain. April 12th was the year anniversary of losing my soulmate. Grief is a journey and I’m still on mine as you’re at the beginning of yours. Take each day as it comes and know he walks with you every step of the way ❤❤

    • @juliehunter9559
      @juliehunter9559 5 місяців тому +2

      So sorry for your loss I too am on that journey 20th February was a year of losing my soulmate 😢

    • @elliegoldie6140
      @elliegoldie6140 4 місяці тому

      So sorry for your loss.l dread the day my hubby goes before me.xx❤

    • @juliehunter9559
      @juliehunter9559 4 місяці тому

      Thank you 🙏 enjoy every moment you have together
      It’s something I never thought would happen he was only 51 went to work and never came home xx

  • @InvisibleVicky
    @InvisibleVicky 5 місяців тому +11

    I admire your strength so much

  • @grablifebythehauls3902
    @grablifebythehauls3902 5 місяців тому +11

    Beautiful clothes Sarah and so kind of your health visitor... We are all here to listen Sarah ... You are courageous, strong and a beautiful mother to your kids... Dave will be so proud of how you are steering the ship so to speak when you are heartbroken ... Just wanted to send you some love ❤️ you are an incredible woman xx

  • @Kimberleyjeanrose
    @Kimberleyjeanrose 5 місяців тому +7

    Sending love Sarah to you and the kids ❤❤

  • @rachelp1292
    @rachelp1292 5 місяців тому +7

    Your doing amazing its one day at a time hopefully you get to lay him to rest soon and then you can take him back home where he belongs, Dont get upset of breastfeeding babys thrive either breastfed or not at least the other kids can help with feeds to give you a break ❤

  • @HEATHERNIMMO
    @HEATHERNIMMO 5 місяців тому +7

    Sarah your doing your best for all the family and you have to take one day at a time, everything is on hold just now as you wait to have Dave’s funeral, ( I think it’s already happened) I just hope someone is helping to look after you, I have been watching a lot of your old vlogs from 6 yrs, ago and what lovely memories you’ll all have , take care Sarah from HEATHER/SCOTLAND 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿

  • @TanyaMx
    @TanyaMx 5 місяців тому +8

    Your doing amazing Sarah please remember to look after yourself your one strong lady ❤❤ xxx

  • @chaliseplummer7239
    @chaliseplummer7239 5 місяців тому +4

    Sending you and your family lots of love ❤

  • @cassiesadz352
    @cassiesadz352 5 місяців тому +7

    ❤❤

  • @pearl2910
    @pearl2910 5 місяців тому +9

    You’re an Incredible Lady Sarah !💕

  • @traceyharrison973
    @traceyharrison973 5 місяців тому +4

    Sending my love Sarah ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @Lorriemc114
    @Lorriemc114 5 місяців тому +4

    Sending love to you Sarah xxx

  • @rosemarymoore9825
    @rosemarymoore9825 5 місяців тому +6

    Sarah l only found your channel a couple of months ago and subscribed,l just want to say my heart goes out to you and your family,lm so sorry for your loss.Sending Many Blessings to you all.🙏xxxx

  • @sasharix8685
    @sasharix8685 5 місяців тому +5

    You're doing great Sarah, so so hard for you all , words are never enough or help in this situation I cannot ease your pain grief takes time I lost my nan 8yrs ago and miss her so much still xxx i think you just roll with a new normal you never get over it 😢😢 xxx keep shining sarah for your lil family xxx

  • @theheartofzany1
    @theheartofzany1 5 місяців тому +5

    The clothes are lovely Sarah. Remember, you will always have parts of Dave with you, as your children together are of him too. xx

  • @jackiebersey5604
    @jackiebersey5604 5 місяців тому +7

    Thinking of you all , sending ❤️ xx

  • @lindanewton1142
    @lindanewton1142 5 місяців тому +5

    Thinking of you sweetheart life can be so cruel take each day as it comes you have a beautiful family to support you the clothes are beautiful your children alwayes look lovely in there pretty outfits take care lovely xxxx❤

  • @63Littlemouse
    @63Littlemouse 5 місяців тому +5

    ❤Thinking of you xx

  • @Squish516
    @Squish516 5 місяців тому +5

    I hope you can get a bit of closure from the postmortem ❤

  • @louisianna5524
    @louisianna5524 4 місяці тому +1

    Thank you for vlogging as hard as it is darling..Dave is so proud of you for carrying on.....❤
    Love you to bits 💟🌺

  • @susanlitherland698
    @susanlitherland698 5 місяців тому +4

    hi Sarah You are bound to feel the way you feel. It's going to take a long time to get over your beautiful husband Dave. He was the love of your life. Always there for you and your beautiful children. Please take care. Just remember Dave will always be right by your side sending all my love Susan

  • @claireparrywales
    @claireparrywales 5 місяців тому +3

    Sending all my love to you all ❤❤xxx

  • @debadamsuksouthwales6766
    @debadamsuksouthwales6766 5 місяців тому +3

    Hi Sarah you can only do your best life can be so cruel but remember Dave is still with you all and he knows you are doing your best my heart goes out to you and your beautiful family🫶🙏🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿

  • @susanbroderick4197
    @susanbroderick4197 5 місяців тому +3

    Hi Sarah the clothes are lovely, hopefully you will start to feel better soon when you get answers and things are more settled,take care big hugs to you and your family xxx 🤗❤️💐

  • @HEATHERNIMMO
    @HEATHERNIMMO 5 місяців тому +3

    Meant to say Sarah we’re all here to listen to you anytime you feel like talking remember ANYTIME 💐🌼🌹🌸🌻

  • @melloneymaddock
    @melloneymaddock 5 місяців тому +4

    Sarah my family are sending all are love to your family we are thinking of you allways her is a hug for you .❤❤xxxx

  • @janinetilyard9280
    @janinetilyard9280 5 місяців тому +4

    🤍🤍🤍🌻🌻

  • @bugsbunny6015
    @bugsbunny6015 5 місяців тому +3

    Sending love to you all xx❤ xx ❤

  • @avontasticuk3484
    @avontasticuk3484 5 місяців тому +2

    Just from what you have mentioned on here ,I think your absolutely right to get a post mortem.Until you have the answers you want to know, you'll never get the closure you need.
    I still can't believe this is happening to you. I just want to reach through the screen and give you the biggest hug.Being strong when you have no other option is true strength ❤️ Thinking of you,Sarah xxx

  • @marycandy200
    @marycandy200 5 місяців тому +3

    ❤❤❤

  • @hilaryhampton263
    @hilaryhampton263 4 місяці тому +1

    Thinking of you Sarah and sending ❤️ xxx

    • @RFamily
      @RFamily  4 місяці тому +1

      Thank you x ❤

  • @Makinafamily
    @Makinafamily 5 місяців тому +2

    Sending our love, I was 9 when my dad passed away, he was 43, it was sudden. I remember my mum still setting the dinner table for him, she always felt like he was going to walk back into the house. It was tough on us all but now I’m older I can’t imagine the pain she felt losing her soul mate. Time heals as they say, but I don’t think a day as ever gone by I haven’t thought of my dad. Hope you all get closure xx

  • @Hols_eats_nemos
    @Hols_eats_nemos 4 місяці тому +1

    Sarah sending so much love as always xx

    • @RFamily
      @RFamily  4 місяці тому +1

      Thank you x

  • @avontasticuk3484
    @avontasticuk3484 5 місяців тому +5

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @JulieAmanda-yp9ci
    @JulieAmanda-yp9ci 5 місяців тому +3

    The clothes were beautiful ❤❤ to you and your family from Julie and family

  • @lornadiana5950
    @lornadiana5950 5 місяців тому +2

    Thinking of you and sending you my prayers xxx hugs to you all .🥰🫂🫂🫂...🌍..

  • @theparkinsontribe9105
    @theparkinsontribe9105 5 місяців тому +11

    Sarah being in denial is not a bad thing and don't think it is, it's just your mind and everything else that's having to deal with Dave's passing... It's normally not a short process and can last however long but please know he's watching you all and so proud of you carrying on the things your doing... Love to you all ❤❤❤

  • @tracyjacob7091
    @tracyjacob7091 5 місяців тому +2

    Sending virtual love and hugs ❤

  • @deborahrabbett9081
    @deborahrabbett9081 5 місяців тому +2

    You are one strong lady, sending you all huge hugs xx

  • @louisebourne5779
    @louisebourne5779 5 місяців тому +2

    Sending you all my love xxx 🤗🥰

  • @juliepearson1685
    @juliepearson1685 5 місяців тому +2

    Thinking of you Sarah you are a strong person.❤

    • @RFamily
      @RFamily  5 місяців тому +2

      Thank you x

  • @glendathegoodbiatch
    @glendathegoodbiatch 5 місяців тому +5

    There are stages to grief Sarah. The first one is denial. Next is anger. Then bargaining. Then depression and last of all acceptance. You will move through these slowly but you will get there. The final one is healing. Just keep breathing. Keep eating. Sleep when you can. Put one foot in front of the other and keep going forward. You have got this mum 🥰😘💙💪🏻