So helpful 🙏 Wow! Oh to be able to find understanding souls like you - My ultimate hope. I spend so much of my time masking that at the end of the day I am so exhausted. I know my whole life would be improved significantly if I felt understood. Thank you lovely souls ❤️
About the advice of someone else having a look at an email - definitely agree! I learned recently that it's very helpful to have my definitely NT husband have a look at important messages. Without any effort, he can easily imagine how this text message might be perceived and tells me potential pitfalls like being to blunt, hurting someone, giving too much details (or not enough), and so on. More important, he can also help me to decode the answers that are sometimes gaslighting to me. Not in the work context, there it's work-related, topic-related, logical. But the informal once, family, friends.
I self diagnosed after 10 years of BPD diagnosis.
This channel is really helpful and illuminating ❤
Thank you.
So helpful 🙏 Wow! Oh to be able to find understanding souls like you - My ultimate hope. I spend so much of my time masking that at the end of the day I am so exhausted. I know my whole life would be improved significantly if I felt understood. Thank you lovely souls ❤️
About the advice of someone else having a look at an email - definitely agree! I learned recently that it's very helpful to have my definitely NT husband have a look at important messages. Without any effort, he can easily imagine how this text message might be perceived and tells me potential pitfalls like being to blunt, hurting someone, giving too much details (or not enough), and so on. More important, he can also help me to decode the answers that are sometimes gaslighting to me. Not in the work context, there it's work-related, topic-related, logical. But the informal once, family, friends.
As someone who just got diagnosed like two weeks ago at 23 years old, this was soooooo helpful. Thank you!