As man, who is ALWAYS strongly against women cheating ,, haki for the 1st time , i feel for the lady... that situation is VERY tricky and i can't blame that woman,, let the two(husband and wife)seat and solve it amicably. Let God intervene too 🙏🏽
But it should have been discussed before the cheating. She should have put forward her concerns before deciding to sleep with a lowly helper. There is no solution to this issue other than separation/divorce.
This is a very sensitive case. We can't judge the actions of this woman because she has a point. 2yrs sleeping with a man and no sxx. Let them go and talk privately as a couple.
Let me tell you its really hard i can testify this from my experience the worst thing it always happens to humble ones i lived with my ex for 3 yrs without conjugal rights i had vowed never to have an affair with anyone but the worst parts he felt insecure it really block my heart coz he was disrespectful ,i divorced but still i feel its better to be alone@FesterMacmbelefe
Honestly this lady is suffering and at the same time both of them Love each other.Very tricky situation which requires God's intervention.Naomba tusi judge huyu mwanamke.
Am a victim of same situation i vowed still to be faithfull but the worst thing my ex felt insecure and was very disrespectful even after divorce i opted to be alone coz its hard to find someone who deserves a good woman
Woiiye mungu wetu walai mungu kamu kwa kweli uko hai, ponya na zaidia hii familia iwe sawa. Comrade hii ndio truthful family umekutana nayo iko na challenge ya kueleweka.
The situation here is COMPLETELY COMPLEX SEX IN MARRIAGE HAS NO RELIGION SEX IS COMPULSORY IN MARRIAGE USE OF DILDOS ARE BETTER OPTIONS THAN PLUNGE INTO TEMPTATION MWANAMKE HANA HATIA
Kama dem ndo shimo ingekuwa imeziba,huyu jamaa angevumilia,..mm instead of kuhanya,ningesonga mbele..cz men nature yao nikama wadhani ma dem hawana feelings,.while wao hata 1 week hawawezi vumilia..
For give her please😢 she's a human being she has blood in her body 😢, mm nko gulf 4yrs sasa lakini n vile tu nko prison otherwise 2 months n mob nikiwa free country 😂 ,allow her to cheat peaceful broh, and may the Lord remember you and heal you by the blood of Jesus christ.
This is the most critical situation i have seen,, this lady has persevered sana such situations needs The Lord Jesus to intervene cos it will be difficult for the lady to deal with sexual temptations at this young age..i wish i could have a small conversation with the guy .
For the 1st time I agree with the lady. She was even feeling bad exposing the problem with her man. The man needs to accept his situation and forgive the lady. Life happens and she's genuinely interested in her marriage. Naomba huyo mwanaume awache kuwa selfish. She's too young to suffer for the rest of her life.😢
So you consider lack of sex as suffering??🤔🤔while people outside here live for more than 20years without it ,, i understand its difficult for some people but kuna situations unafaa kujicontrol haki am not judging anyone
Sikia bwana hawez mkula na lady next service so angefany 😮.....angekuwa mke nfio ako na shida mwansume Angela kitaamboo so don't blame lady saaana.yet she's not grandma she's still naive😂😂
The fact that she is a wife material ❤i mean she has really tried to shape this Man for development mpaka wakanunua plot she is so respectful but unfortunately mzee akapatwa na hio tatizo ya uanaume sio kupenda kwake pia so both of them needs to be together 💟 never judge
The fact is bb hawezi vumilia for all that time bila kugongwa. The man naye huwezi vumilia kuishi ukijia unagongewa bb na tena ni your cousin ...so jameni ....
This matter is highly sensitive and personal. My advice would be to avoid involving any pastors in this matter. From our experiences, many tend to exploit such situations. Women often place significant trust in pastors, sometimes to an extent that may not always serve their best interests. watamfanya kitoweo
My dear sister you Can't stay 4 years waiting for someone apone na huwesi jua kama atapona ama story tu ya madaktali angekua ni yeye angeoa the following week After accident
I think for this one we should not blame the lady ,however it would have been ok if they had a mechanism in btwn since the guy knows he can't hit the underground pitch....the lady looks so loyal in her mindset....let them solve....
This lady should not be sorry at all. A woman abandons everything at her father's to come for a dick-if she cannot access it and is still active, there is no need to be sorry.
Ningumu kukaa na MTU under one roof na uko na feeling. But shida ni ATI mwanamke alijua Mahali shida ilitokea na hakuweza kuvumilia hata akasamehewa Leo na bado wako pamoja atarudia tuu. Miaka mi nne imagine ilikuwa inaisha , but it's up to them to solve.
hapa nayo hakuna vyenye dem atakaa na huyu jama juu marital right lazima so km hawezi akubali tu matokeo kwani haja ya bibi ni nini km huna hisia jamani?
Thus is asensitive isue where by most pple here will blame the wife but in the real sence even some ethinic groups in our country still accept what the lady did...(Alifanya na one of the family members)hakuenda nje.soo they will sort out and stay tgther as usual
It's painful to suffer in an accident and your stuff are gone,, but i would advice the guy to seek another therapist and ensure he's back on his chuma, stronger. Usi-give up manze.
The guy is inconsiderate....but believe me he's suffering more from his impotence more than the wife can imagine. If the wife couldn't persevere she should've informed the husband that she couldn't be patient and divorced him. Women in will not understand a man more than impotence or seeing his wife akigongwa nje because of no fault of his own. Even the ability for the guy to go see a see a doctor with his wife about this portrays him as a very brave man. Do people REALLY take their marriage vows seriously? For richer for poor, ...for sickness and in health, ....till death.... MARRIAGE is something but REALIZE isn't an EVENT (the wedding) but commitment which has happiness but serous SUFFERING too. This couple needs help....but when the man gets healed and they're back together, he'll never view his wife the same. It's unfortunate that many men after marriage view their wives as SPECIAL and DIFFERENT from kawaida women while wives while wives still view themselves as Just women while viewing their husbands as foolish or naive for putting to them as a pedestal and viewing them as EXTRAORDINARY.
This can be resolved. At least the couple is very open and both are talking. They only need to relax their rigid mind frames. Erectile dysfunction has been be addressed for centuries. There's even the option of a kinsman redeemer. Meeting BMS has atleast arranged a candid couple discussion. The gentleman will prioritize the matter.
It's fine it's a medical condition but one thing i wonder 🤔 what if you are the one with such condition and your partner does what you have done as solution,will it be fair to you? On such cases solutions made must never be crime neither sin . Sometimes before decision consider life after death coz sex can't take you to heaven and sacrifice of abstinence can. Let people advice you but own decisions should be based on your soul not flesh
Using the Man's disability to cheat can not be an excuse. It just makes the disability more pronounced and more painful. Does it mean that the blind never desires to see but just have nothing to do about it?
Wueeeh!I don't condone cheating lakini kumbe mzae hujakuwa ukilala nje cos huwezi😂sio kwa ubaya lakini hata wewe bibi angekuwa same situation,tusidanganyane hungekaa tu hivyo bila sex. Hata mimi hapo fr siezi kaa ,ni sawa cheating ni mbaya lakini hapa hakuna choice aki. The problem ni anacheat na cousin,that one is bad but allow her to get some d!ck huko nje sasa ama muachane tu atafute mtu anaeza cater for her needs
For real even one month i can't, unless iam single or a widow,but sharing the bed with my husband every night without a touch, it's needs spiritual intervention. Let no one stone that woman. Congratulations to that understanding husband,may God strengthen your marriage despite that hard challenge.
This now is sensitive when it involves health challenges samea huyu msichana kutu ilikuwa mob and she is still young damu bado inakimbia mbio at a rate of 100mph
Kama haufunction a woman has her right kufinywa inje...hauwezi condemn meat 🥩 in your home just bkoz umekatazwa na wengine wanaikula hawana shida nayo!!
But msichana najua kuvumilia hata mimi siwezi,lakini si ungetafuta mtu wa nje,,wa family member ni Madharau haki,ungechukua hata mwalimu mwenzako Muibane huko nje
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This lady is very humble..Na kusema ukweli,Kuna shida hapa..GOD Have Mercy 😢
yea,,,,i undersrand her too
Followup ya yule dame alitendwa na rafiki yake who is HIV+ve..whoelse wishes to hear the folloup..like like like
Unataka part 3???
the likes talk
The greatest lesson i've learnt in 2024......i'll not judge people harshly before listening to reason why!!
As man, who is ALWAYS strongly against women cheating ,, haki for the 1st time , i feel for the lady... that situation is VERY tricky and i can't blame that woman,, let the two(husband and wife)seat and solve it amicably. Let God intervene too 🙏🏽
But it should have been discussed before the cheating. She should have put forward her concerns before deciding to sleep with a lowly helper. There is no solution to this issue other than separation/divorce.
This woman is the hero of the year 2024,how many people can be that patient since 2022?????
I stayed for 10 yrs for nyang’au ilinisakiti. Imagine kuwa church na everything else praying for him ….wueeeeh. Wacha ninyamaze tu. Sina nguvu
Myself too have been for now 5years na sioni shida yeyote fr😂😂😂😂@@larcoviaridgesrealtors2677
I love the respect between them❤❤❤may they find solution
Lakini kusema tu ukweli angekua ni bibi si huyu mwanaume angekua alioa kitambo ..just forgive and continue with life
Wewe ingekuwa Ni wewe umeambukizwa
Would u HV came for followup
Angekua alimuacha kitambo😊😊😊
very true
No situation is permanent that the lord cannot change.
I think you are not the same
@@jetitahkarimihow now?
This is a very sensitive case. We can't judge the actions of this woman because she has a point. 2yrs sleeping with a man and no sxx. Let them go and talk privately as a couple.
The situation is not easy at all
True ✔️
I sympathise with both of them, God will definitely guide you in making the right choice to handle the situation.....
Waah ni uzuni for real..kidogo i cant blame the lady..but stl she did wrong ... communication is key in marriage despite the situation at hand
Let me tell you its really hard i can testify this from my experience the worst thing it always happens to humble ones i lived with my ex for 3 yrs without conjugal rights i had vowed never to have an affair with anyone but the worst parts he felt insecure it really block my heart coz he was disrespectful ,i divorced but still i feel its better to be alone@FesterMacmbelefe
Honestly this lady is suffering and at the same time both of them Love each other.Very tricky situation which requires God's intervention.Naomba tusi judge huyu mwanamke.
Mimi sitamjudge coz sio rahisi aki😊😊 but angetafuta mtu wa nje ya familia😢
Am a victim of same situation i vowed still to be faithfull but the worst thing my ex felt insecure and was very disrespectful even after divorce i opted to be alone coz its hard to find someone who deserves a good woman
It is well mamna
In SICKNESS and in HEALTH, people, don't justify ADULTERY, one can survive without sex.
Exactly 💯
these people are very good people, both husband and wife, very calm and matured
Steve be posting part one so that wee can recall easily
He did post
He does that always be keen
Hujaelewa, atuwekee link ya part one kwa comment section ndio iwe rahisi kukumbuka ilikuwa gani@@GivenVelemuseni
Very tricky and sad at the same time,,jamaa akubali kugongewa tu, this lady is very young hawezi vumilia ata team strong nikujikaza😢😢
It's hard decision to make but mzee kubali cuzoo to save marriage lady hawezi vumilia more that that unless umkatee kinembe 😅😂😂
😂😂😂wee hakuna kukata kinembee buana , wacha cuzo aendelee kugonga iyo kitu
Nwezi tuu 3 ni ngori kwa nguna😢😢
Waa ata wewe mwanaume ingekuwa ni bbi yako ako na hio shida ungevumilia kweli ama ungekuwa umeoa tayari 😢😢
😂😂someone watu ni kujifaya tu akuna mtu anaeza kaa hio miaka yote
Pole sana to this couple, I pray they get back together stronger, that is a very sensitive issue, I can't blame either party, may the Lord heal them
Bro hapa hakuna case vumilia & pay up bills ,stay with family yako.
Angeeenda mbali si inner circle hivo!! That’s stooping low !
Woiiye mungu wetu walai mungu kamu kwa kweli uko hai, ponya na zaidia hii familia iwe sawa.
Comrade hii ndio truthful family umekutana nayo iko na challenge ya kueleweka.
Lakini mimi nimekaa 3yrs hiyo ni mindset tu
everybody is unique
You're not her and she's not you.... Stop comparison
Mindset
Inategemea uko na miaka ngapi
The situation here is COMPLETELY COMPLEX
SEX IN MARRIAGE HAS NO RELIGION
SEX IS COMPULSORY IN MARRIAGE
USE OF DILDOS ARE BETTER OPTIONS THAN PLUNGE INTO TEMPTATION
MWANAMKE HANA HATIA
Sorry for both,,cant blame either of them
Kama dem ndo shimo ingekuwa imeziba,huyu jamaa angevumilia,..mm instead of kuhanya,ningesonga mbele..cz men nature yao nikama wadhani ma dem hawana feelings,.while wao hata 1 week hawawezi vumilia..
For give her please😢 she's a human being she has blood in her body 😢, mm nko gulf 4yrs sasa lakini n vile tu nko prison otherwise 2 months n mob nikiwa free country 😂 ,allow her to cheat peaceful broh, and may the Lord remember you and heal you by the blood of Jesus christ.
Facto 💯
😂😂😂aki niukweri kabisa
This family is good may God heal this man 😢
I can't blame the woman,though some just cheat for ignorance but her case and age hata Mimi ningefanya hivo
Fellow malaya
@myk6519 it's not umalaya the man lost his gun,what did you expect,or you didn't get the contest
@@dorothyrock4679 so the context is to cheat.
Enyewe malaya ni malaya
@@myk6519niue 😂😂 sis ndio tupo
But even if the man could not perform mbona aendee small brother wa bwana yake ..that's abomination to share kasusu with your blood brother.
Zero grazing...she is a village girl.
Hiyo mjulus haiamki hata kidogo aki?😢 that's so so bad to survive in this world
Susan uko mrembo sana 😊
😂😂😂😂umevaya nicheke ati hata kidogo
This is the most critical situation i have seen,, this lady has persevered sana such situations needs The Lord Jesus to intervene cos it will be difficult for the lady to deal with sexual temptations at this young age..i wish i could have a small conversation with the guy .
The lady is right sijui huyu zuzu ya mwanaume inasema nini 😢nkt
acha ujinga kichwa kubwa mzee wewe
Woii a utility tu akue kama team 💪 strong mzee arudi ssawa na mzee amsamehee tu
For the 1st time I agree with the lady. She was even feeling bad exposing the problem with her man. The man needs to accept his situation and forgive the lady. Life happens and she's genuinely interested in her marriage. Naomba huyo mwanaume awache kuwa selfish. She's too young to suffer for the rest of her life.😢
So you consider lack of sex as suffering??🤔🤔while people outside here live for more than 20years without it ,, i understand its difficult for some people but kuna situations unafaa kujicontrol haki am not judging anyone
I feel for this girl now
Malaya ni Malaya tu! Hata umpee Kila kitu Kwa nyumba,lazima kinembe kigongwe na mtu mwingine , very sad indeed 💔💔😡
This is a sensitive issue and medical for that matter, such kind of vitriol is uncalled for....
Sikia bwana hawez mkula na lady next service so angefany 😮.....angekuwa mke nfio ako na shida mwansume Angela kitaamboo so don't blame lady saaana.yet she's not grandma she's still naive😂😂
Listen first....
Don't be fast to judge
Listen before u answer this
Umeskiza kweli😢😢
Sorry to both hubby n wife. That situation is really realy discomforting.
It's very hard.
Hili limeniguza sanaa, this is very sensitive if not well handled can affect self-esteem from both sides.
The fact that she is a wife material ❤i mean she has really tried to shape this Man for development mpaka wakanunua plot she is so respectful but unfortunately mzee akapatwa na hio tatizo ya uanaume sio kupenda kwake pia so both of them needs to be together 💟 never judge
Hapa I cite with the lady amefumilia tu sana and she stand no blame.nimemufeel joo 😭
Wololo...tricky sana,hapa scores ni 1-0 in favour of the wife🙆
I'm talking with same problem now 1 year bro samehea wife tu ,God ako nd he ll heal us .
🫂🫂🫂🫂🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
@evakioko7492 Thank you for the 🫂🫂🥰
@@jairuskipchumba8019 praying for devine healing 🙏🏼🙏🏼
Try prayers Bro. It wil be well with you.
The fact is bb hawezi vumilia for all that time bila kugongwa.
The man naye huwezi vumilia kuishi ukijia unagongewa bb na tena ni your cousin ...so jameni ....
Uyu anazunguka sana hàongee kitu yamaaana imefanya bibi amcheat
This matter is highly sensitive and personal. My advice would be to avoid involving any pastors in this matter. From our experiences, many tend to exploit such situations. Women often place significant trust in pastors, sometimes to an extent that may not always serve their best interests. watamfanya kitoweo
Wadau jwa'nga muhimu sana
honestly we cannot judge her,watu huku wanahanya bila sababu yooooh,we samehea bibi life iendeleee ❤❤
Mzee atakusamehea yes but wazazi wake watakua sawa wakisikia vile ulifanyia kijana Yao.
My dear sister you Can't stay 4 years waiting for someone apone na huwesi jua kama atapona ama story tu ya madaktali angekua ni yeye angeoa the following week After accident
Mm nilikuwa sina ka Wifi ndio kurudi na Waiguru sai ndo naziwach...❤❤❤
I think for this one we should not blame the lady ,however it would have been ok if they had a mechanism in btwn since the guy knows he can't hit the underground pitch....the lady looks so loyal in her mindset....let them solve....
If she can’t wait they need to separate.. hii ni separation roho safi with shaking hands
This lady should not be sorry at all. A woman abandons everything at her father's to come for a dick-if she cannot access it and is still active, there is no need to be sorry.
Situations like this pple agree on what to do where everyone is satisfied.jamaa hasilaumu mke.
Nimengongewa na si mayai😮😮😮
Ningumu kukaa na MTU under one roof na uko na feeling. But shida ni ATI mwanamke alijua Mahali shida ilitokea na hakuweza kuvumilia hata akasamehewa Leo na bado wako pamoja atarudia tuu. Miaka mi nne imagine ilikuwa inaisha , but it's up to them to solve.
Wee ungekaa for 5 yrs as young as this lady is? Honestly it's hard
Nimeurumia huyu mwanadada jamaa tu akubali tu asaidiwe
This lady's case is justifiable. She's very explicit in her explanation.. l pray that the husband heals .
hapa nayo hakuna vyenye dem atakaa na huyu jama juu marital right lazima so km hawezi akubali tu matokeo kwani haja ya bibi ni nini km huna hisia jamani?
Pole , hauyuko peke yako ..tuko wengi
This is understandable,
This man is not serious with life coz how can you forgive a cheating woman
😂😂😂😂pole kuma ni lazima bana 2yrs bila kukagwa kuma
Thus is asensitive isue where by most pple here will blame the wife but in the real sence even some ethinic groups in our country still accept what the lady did...(Alifanya na one of the family members)hakuenda nje.soo they will sort out and stay tgther as usual
It's painful to suffer in an accident and your stuff are gone,, but i would advice the guy to seek another therapist and ensure he's back on his chuma, stronger. Usi-give up manze.
Bro uko na good wife,,,wewe ndo umeshindwa na kazi yako,,,forgive her and let the family be happy
Broo kumbe haifanyi kaz mruhus mwanamke aende kwao kuliko kuongea ubwakin kam huu et tunaishi tuy vizut kweli
Ata mimi siezi kaa miaka 5 nikikungoja upone nakuhanya proper so kuvumilia is ano
Then dem ako right banaa kuma inawacha na bwana machine haifanye unatarajia nini .boychild forgive yourwife and live happily
Stevo finya 812 hiyo stima iache kulia😊
The guy is inconsiderate....but believe me he's suffering more from his impotence more than the wife can imagine. If the wife couldn't persevere she should've informed the husband that she couldn't be patient and divorced him. Women in will not understand a man more than impotence or seeing his wife akigongwa nje because of no fault of his own. Even the ability for the guy to go see a see a doctor with his wife about this portrays him as a very brave man.
Do people REALLY take their marriage vows seriously? For richer for poor, ...for sickness and in health, ....till death.... MARRIAGE is something but REALIZE isn't an EVENT (the wedding) but commitment which has happiness but serous SUFFERING too. This couple needs help....but when the man gets healed and they're back together, he'll never view his wife the same. It's unfortunate that many men after marriage view their wives as SPECIAL and DIFFERENT from kawaida women while wives while wives still view themselves as Just women while viewing their husbands as foolish or naive for putting to them as a pedestal and viewing them as EXTRAORDINARY.
pole baba msamehe mama arudi mlee familia
I really feel pain for this lady maan.
This can be resolved. At least the couple is very open and both are talking. They only need to relax their rigid mind frames. Erectile dysfunction has been be addressed for centuries. There's even the option of a kinsman redeemer. Meeting BMS has atleast arranged a candid couple discussion. The gentleman will prioritize the matter.
Mimi nishai kaa 5 years bila kungogwa
Naingoja hiyo follow up I watched it felt pitty we men I don't know,tutaoa akina nani
It's fine it's a medical condition but one thing i wonder 🤔 what if you are the one with such condition and your partner does what you have done as solution,will it be fair to you?
On such cases solutions made must never be crime neither sin .
Sometimes before decision consider life after death coz sex can't take you to heaven and sacrifice of abstinence can.
Let people advice you but own decisions should be based on your soul not flesh
Kundinywa ndio Kila kitu dada weeeeh
It's sad😢
Oiye nimehurumia wote, both the man and the wife
The lady is genuine please forgive her
Kwani hauwezi vumiliya sazile bwana yako mgonjwa really
It's a hard decision.
Using the Man's disability to cheat can not be an excuse. It just makes the disability more pronounced and more painful. Does it mean that the blind never desires to see but just have nothing to do about it?
Mambo yamekua mazito 😢😢
This is a serious issue,,,imenifanya hadi nilie😭😭😭
Wueeeh!I don't condone cheating lakini kumbe mzae hujakuwa ukilala nje cos huwezi😂sio kwa ubaya lakini hata wewe bibi angekuwa same situation,tusidanganyane hungekaa tu hivyo bila sex. Hata mimi hapo fr siezi kaa ,ni sawa cheating ni mbaya lakini hapa hakuna choice aki. The problem ni anacheat na cousin,that one is bad but allow her to get some d!ck huko nje sasa ama muachane tu atafute mtu anaeza cater for her needs
Hapo nayo tunaeza elewa 😢😢iza joh madam
For real even one month i can't, unless iam single or a widow,but sharing the bed with my husband every night without a touch, it's needs spiritual intervention.
Let no one stone that woman.
Congratulations to that understanding husband,may God strengthen your marriage despite that hard challenge.
Mambo ni mengi masandio machache
This now is sensitive when it involves health challenges samea huyu msichana kutu ilikuwa mob and she is still young damu bado inakimbia mbio at a rate of 100mph
Woiye hope the man will feel better soon
Mboro ni muhimu kwa ndoa.....
Sema mboro ndio Ndoa
Period
Balaa 😢
Kama haufunction a woman has her right kufinywa inje...hauwezi condemn meat 🥩 in your home just bkoz umekatazwa na wengine wanaikula hawana shida nayo!!
Aii mi nayo siwezi ishi bila kuguzwa ,io ndoa ikae kabisa
But msichana najua kuvumilia hata mimi siwezi,lakini si ungetafuta mtu wa nje,,wa family member ni Madharau haki,ungechukua hata mwalimu mwenzako Muibane huko nje