TOXIC MASCULINITY: Rules of Modern Dating & Understanding Women "It's Complicated"
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- It's Complicated "Rules of Modern Dating & Understanding Women" (TOXIC MASCULINITY)
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Women nowadays seem to love to use this term "TOXIC MASCULINITY" as a means to describe and/or shame anything that men do that they don't like; setting boundaries, calling out bad behavior, not tolerating disrespect from women, etc. This seems to be women's trump card that they use to shame anything done by men they don't, when really it's just the recently trending buzzword. That's why women struggle when being asked to define it.
Besides why is this a term that needs to be engendered specifically just to men? There IS such a thing as TOXIC FEMININITY, so why not just call it TOXIC BEHAVIOR? Toxic behavior knows no gender IMO
Its ironic to also point out those same people usually say they hate labels or specifically gender/sex labels but love using or making negative labels against men like toxic masculinity, misogyny, mansplaining, manspreading etc...........
Amazing breakdown fam. Its definitely a word used against US to keep THEM unaccountable for their bad behavior.
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Facts my guy
Yes, toxic feminity is true
Props to the blonde girl. Not afraid to speak the truth, unlike many other females that would just come up with a bs story
I agree, even though she often didn't have the words to describe it.
She surprised me. Her demographic usually says the opposite.
@@mikeredhead2894 Absolutely! In my opinion that's what makes women more beautiful, if they can admit their flaws an the bs that they do. Most of them are soo hard headed, Just like this blonde said, every ex bf is a narcissist for some reason... yea..
And I loved her laughter. She was a breath of fresh air and brightness
Calocagathia
The hardest working and still most grossly underrated channel on YT continues to pull back the delusional curtain today's modern women maintain. Let's get him to 500K.
Agreed
Well, the godfather approved, and rightly so. R.I.P.
Like, feel, like, feel, like, feel, like, feel, like, feel, OMG!
So annoying
It shows your level of intelligence when you have to say like 45 times in a sentence. That intelligence level is extremely low
"Have you seen a single man's apartment? I have, many times." Classic
I thought she said 'bedroom'
@@bluebehir 10:10 mark
Gave herself away lol
@@steveg2277 Exactly
@@dredey1971 touche.
I can't believe all this womansplaining I'm witnessing. How toxic!
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Its called ' women bitching '
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Shawty told on herself “I’ve seen many single Guy apartments “ 💀
That was a powerful self-own.
Literally snitched on herself 😂
Self report Sally
@Roaring Sun yes it was. & she ain't even know it
And I bet she tries to take over while he's comfortable with the basics and holding his money in his pocket.
Its not toxic untill you're providing and protecting them, the moment you ask something from them, it suddenly becomes toxic
It's toxic if you are not Chad or Tyrone.
@@dorstefan indeed.
They'll still call that toxic if you respect any kind of reciprocity for providing and protecting them.
Hey man I'm with you... Hate cats, friggin rodents
It's not toxic until it can't be controlled
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Blondie was the most down to earth
Rare Blonde W
Meanwhile the very first example of what feminine energy is she said "a guy opening the door for me"
If you were smart, you’d still run. Far and fast.
@@maxxbarzz I can't speak for everyone, but I believe that most guys wouldn't mind those things with a seemingly down to earth, energetic and charismatic woman like her. I had an ex like her, both look wise and attitude wise. We broke it off unfortunately, but in a very adult and respectful manner. At the end of the day, if its for people you trust and cherish, those little things do matter. She doesn't seem like she would rub it in your face if you didn't do it either.
You know she has at least 1 brother.
There is no such thing as “toxic masculinity”, it’s about morality, integrity, honor, and healthy pride. “Modern women” attack men with integrity and standards because it challenges their immaturity and selfishness.
A feminine dude is worthless to society, you don’t need to be a cold emotionless robot, but if you have blue hair and wearing skinny jeans screaming you’re a feminist….. yeah, you’re worthless.
I could accept an argument that repeat offender criminals exude toxic masculinity. Beyond that, I concur.
bro just ignore women like that... Its just like the saying "The Elephant Keeps Walking as the Dogs Keep Barking"
I disagree. 2 claims:
1) the embodiment of masculinity is determination,
2) the embodiment of femininity is tolerance.
Too much of determination results with tunnel vision. Once that happens, you awareness of the world drops, along with your own actions within it. While too much of tolerance results with nihilism.
In that sense, the women of today are the ones who are displaying traits of toxic masculinity for they cannot survive on their own by relying solely on their femininity.
Facts
"I feel"
That's all these women have is feelings...
Sadly, men started to talk that way, too.
@@TheRedSign those aren't men
@Ryan Jones Men can have emotions tf you mean. Good example of toxic masculinity.
@@serenasato4621 😂
"i feel like" - modern women, 2023
"I feel" - women, ♾
You have to be masculine, but not too masculine.
You have to take charge, but not be controlling.
You have to be in touch with your feminine side, but not too feminine.
You have to show emotion, but not too much emotion.
You have to be a bad boy, but also be nice.
Walk that tightrope, or just ignore female advice. Be strong, be stoic, take care of yourself, set boundaries, and take care of yourself first.
Ignoring girls is wise
Well said and to me the only gender that's toxic is women towards men and because women critical of all men and men are critical with hoes not real women
it's all fucked these days. Ever since women started competing with men on the job market our role as providers had been made much much harder
life is all about balance brother
10:12 “Have you seen a single man’s apartment… I have MANY times”
Tell me what you do for fun, without telling me what you do 😂😂😂
As the saying goes.
Let em talk long enough they'll always tell on themselves 🤣
Oh shit 😂🤣
Blonde one is great. Not afraid to speak truth, espeicaly against narrative is realy brave.
"You girls know, you know what you do" Great quote
Manipulation is usually obvious if you're paying attention, but the usual plausible deniability is there
I feel, I feel, I feel, I feel, I feel. Does anyone actually think anymore? Great video as always.
they're so open minded that their brain fell out
“I guess it’s the type of men that I go for” Ahh, is that some accountability I hear? Quite the rare occurrence these days.
And then it goes out the window when she says “bitchiness is about being assertive”.
She was proud of her decisions. She wasn't thinking about her decisions.
"The loudest and proudest girl out there definitely is usually the one with mental issues and insecurities." #DonDemarco
#ShitLikeThat
Mental issues? How can you assume that just from a few minutes of them talking?
@@Orgena_Deconstructed #bangbang
"If you ever think a girl is innocent you're probably wrong. They know what they're doing." Thank you for this content🙏🔥
Men ARE in tune with their feelings. We've just learned that if we show women our feelings, she'll be turned off. That's a great way to end a relationship.
Good generalization of women. Don’t assume all women hate it when men show any sort of emotion. By showing vulnerability you can just create a stronger bond. If they’re turned off by that I guess they just aren’t the right person for you.
@@serenasato4621 it happened to me twice, and i probably wouldnt have learned my lesson if it werent for videos on the internet like this one because throughout my life there hasnt been anyone in my life to teach me about this kind of stuff
It's true, it's a common complaint by women about men 'show more feelings', yet they mean: I want more compliments. Showing emotions not considered 'masculine' is indeed usually a huge turn off and considered weak...
The comment about a single man's apartment made me laugh. Straight up the meme where there's a room with just a cushy chair, a console, and a TV; and some woman was upset saying "guys really live in apartments like this and don't see any issue".
Lol yep. A lot of women can't comprehend how little a single man requires to be content.
@@bronxishomenomatterwhereig3149 They get scared when you have little because it means they could be left in the wind without a second thought.
Women: " We're just more capable and resourceful than men! We're just better at surviving! "
Interviewer: " What's your source of Income? "
Women: " Only Fans "
Interviewer: " Isn't that dependant on men giving you money though? "
Women: " Uhhh Men are just useless and Ummm You're a Misogynist! "
Every job entails a customer paying for some kind of service or product. No one says Amazon is "dependent"--they're clearly the ones winning because we're willing to collectively pay them a lot of money. If all these women have to do is post pictures of themselves online and men are willing to give them their hard-earned money for it, the women are the ones winning in that situation. The ones giving the money to the other are the ones losing.
Not to say OF doesn't have consequences for these women, just commenting on you calling them "dependent," when really it's opportunistic and these men are dependent, seeing that they're the ones giving their money away. Again, we're all dependent on people buying a product/service, and the customers are dependent as well, as evidenced by their paying for it.
@@nickw8160 you just compared business run companies to an individual specificially selling themselves to MEN. No nick.. no
@@nickw8160 Bad take Nick.
@@ScottieDPOYYdon't be too hard on him. He's one of the men paying for their OF 🤡
Lol then they say 2 not srxual objective them when their selling themselves on the internet. Stop being an idiot anyone who buys OF your part of the problem these women are easily influenced to do dumb shit and wonder why men dont want them. They just wanna pump and dump.
One of the reasons 'society' constantly slams men and relentlessly uplifts women is because women SPEND $. In fact, in aggregate in the US women spend more than they make. If men spent all the $ then all the commercials, etc would be promoting men. Follow the $ always.
And to add they make men spend money on top of it all marketers know what they’re doing
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interesting take. i never heard anything like this before but it makes a lot of sense.
Yeap. It's all about corporate control.
Which is why Valentine day is Complete SCAM . Alimony & Child support is SCAM is as well .
Do a little bit of research it would blow ur mind .
"Not every guy walking the street is a narcissist" True, but most of the women walking the street are lol
The difference between ordinary channels and extraordinary channels on UA-cam is that non of those channels can hold a candle to "It's Complicated" and i do mean that.
This blonde girl is literally seeing reality that women are denying. 😳👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
“Wouldn’t that prove masculinity is more essential for survival than femininity?” Your work here is done.
Glad I found this channel it’s fucking great. Also props to the black guy and blond women. They’re very smart.
This channel is SERIOUSLY underrated and should have M’s of subs! BTW...The most dangerous people on earth are the emotional/fem ones💯True Masculinity is what heroes are made of! Appreciate you a Lot, It’s Complicated....you are one of my favorites! Hope you and yours have a blessed one💯🙏
You should ask them to stop using society as a scapegoat. It is an umbrella term that doesn't force them to admit whether a certain aspect or trend of behaviour is influenced by a particular group, male or female! Beside that...
Good show🥇
Majority of households are single mothers. Direct influence is parent, Teachers, daycare, community if any, friends, co workers to an extent as people grow up.
Much love from South Africa 🇿🇦🇿🇦
You Know🇿🇦✊🏾
This felt like a much better balance of people interviewed. Keep up the great work, love your questions
10:28
This blonde girl is revealing the truth about modern women.
We know its always the blond girls. The Lucy
I think that I'm going to watch "Fight Club" after this.
Marla...
"Have you seen a single man's apartment, I have **many** times."
How many times, exactly?
The last question was good. Guys if you are frustrated with your dating results then consider going overseas.
Please upload more often!! I love these videos and can’t go without them
The blonde woman is based if she means what she said. Good luck to her
I am sick with the word i Feel when asked to give what they think
That blonde girl is so based. !! I need girls to be more like her ❤
I need men to be more like Elon musk
@@annaolokede4582 lol 😂 well luckily for you there is a lot more men like Elon, than women like this girl here… may the odds be ever so slightly in your favor 🤓
@@OGWiLLyB3 list them. Youll be amazed of the amount of broke men🤣
@@annaolokede4582 lol ohhhhh we are talking about monetary … lol 😂 silly me I shoulda known. I thought you meant awkward, nerdy, quirky, intellectual types that probably got looked over in high school. Lol there are alot of those. I forgot y’all reduced a man down to his wallet 🤷🏽♂️🤷🏽♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️
@@OGWiLLyB3 and you reduced a woman down to how able she is to please a man. Tale as old as time
This was such a much needed discussion and i can’t think of a more qualified channel to tackle it than this!
Blonde is not going to struggle to get wifed up
The blonde girl in the black jacket was by far the most sensible woman in this video. The rest (aside from the dude with dreads) were primarily spouting a lot of cap and feminist propaganda for the most part.
when a man tells a girl she is sensible, that girl should run because what he means is that girl is easily brainwashed so I can take advantage of her and groom her.
“Masculinity is vital for society to continue existing.” The truth we must accept!
The elites fear independent thinking men
10:19 the comment about a single man’s apartment is wild. Just because he understands he only needs the basics and not a million useless decorations that cost money. Most guys are trying to save money anyway they can. Just remember fellas cheap is expensive in the long run.
you a real one for this comment
Right. That caught me off guard. I had to pause to think about what she said, then I came across your comment. Lol
Props as always to the Channel!! 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾
Outside of the subject discussed, I'm quite fascinated by how all these people have a hard time expressing themselves in an efficient and precise way.
I thought about this too and feel that many times is not the language that fails them but the internal conflict they have when trying to answer some stuff they've never thought of. A lot of that is caused by the way the questions are formulated.
@@MrPatspp I guess you have a point
It's hard to answer questions on the spot without any preparation
@@salj.5459 sure but there's an undeniable level of non-reflection as well
Women trying to explain femininity is like watching Nemo trying to explain where he lives.
You ask the most thought provoking questions out there.
The fact that you're not mainstream yet is wild to me.
Great line of questioning for sure, very thought provoking 💯
Great work yet again, I wish there were two of you so we could get more content. Keep it up man, quality stuff!
I haven't even watched the video yet and i know it's fire!!!!
Bro. You are killing it. Congrats on the channel and the videos. Keep it up.
This is too short.
I can literaly watch for hours how strangers trying to answer such simple but well made questions.
Keep it up.
This channel is like a fresh cold air in the morning! ^_^
Blonde hair leather jacket babe is based 🖤
Its always a good day when I get a notification from this channel✊🏿✊🏿💪🏿
Knocked it put of the park again. Seriously thank you.
Looks like you are making progress with your videos in regard to women’s responses on this topic. Respect to you! Please keep it up. I really think you are making a difference for the better. WE NEED HEALTHIER RELATIONSHIPS!
This first young lady became more and more attractive the more she spoke. She shouldn't have any problems getting a good man.
This channel is a blessing
Great episode bro. Keep up the good work man. Men Need This.
im glad and relieved to see this video! they are all level headed... makes me hope for the future again. good on all of them.
Women are responsible for a majority of consumer spending. there is a financial incentive for companies to push society for women to be more independent. A man general spends money logically, a woman tends to spend more money emotionally.
Blondie is a W
This has to be your best upload yet. Quality content as always fam
This might b the best video you made so far. You did a Fantastic job!
Surprisingly the woman with the blonde hair was the most logical and called out the endless number of toxic women. The rest of the women just reverted to blaming men and praising themselves.
"I feel like...." every woman starting a sentence.
"my opinion is fact"....... every man starting a sentence
@@annaolokede4582you mean you "feel like" men do that, don't you?
Because men, on average, care far less about if others agree with their views or not and need far less attention and validation. In other words, they don't care if you hold a different view or not, while women on average tend to need others to match their views AKA accept their opinions as facts.
But hey, feel free to "feel like" stuff. As far as you can stay logical when it comes to important decisions It is all good. Feel free to let your feelings flood shitty discussions on YT comments.
@@dyr_glpsn4209 True men care less, which is why they are crying all over podcast and the internet and calling any women that agree with their sick view good women.
Lie to yourself, but men are not who they claim to be.
@@annaolokede4582 They don't do that though. I mean, just listen to the host using logic and simple word definitions to prove points. Stop thinking with your feelings and use logic like men tend to do.
@@linger4605 only if men use logic, yet again you've shown it that men are emotional
Itscomplicated back AGAIN with the questions to save our society!
Another banger 🔥 sir! Per usual, great job @Itscomplicated
You had it. Women discard nice guys for bad boys, so why care about what women want? Get yours and leave when it's no longer fun.
I didn't figure that out until after my divorce, when I buried my obsolete views on relationships (love, loyalty, etc). Been single and satisfied since then.
Ah, so something is only toxic when a man does it. Gotcha. I learned so much from this video once again!
Off the bat, the first chick couldn't answer a basic question without confusing herself.
Your questions ALWAYS hit. 🤣 You're too good at this, bro. It's interesting to aee its like you're reminding people that ideas don't exist in a vacuum or echo chamber, they inter-mingle with the rest of the world.
@ 7:01 says it all. That answered almost a whole videos worth of questions in just that one.
The blonde woman must be saved at all cost!! She is an absolute gem
One of my favorite channels on UA-cam💯🔥
Like, like, like, like, like.... learn a new word ladies.
That damn bullring stood out this whole Clip smh my Black women!! Great Clip Much Respect
Yo this channel funny as shit. These reactions be having me laughing out loud in public that lady @9.42 has me dying lol
Blondie spittin 🔥 🔥 🔥
Gotta love how men who "go their own way" are shamed/incels for not wanting to deal with these "i feel like" creatures.
I'd like to request that you interview more down to earth people - you know - people who agree with us. Like the blonde feminine girl and those women from the Country Girls special. Personally, it's healing for me after so many hateful women.
You do a great job over all. Especially the way you set the questions sequences.
Also another request. I'm unaware of your budget but consider interview people from others cities to give us a contrast.
P. S: English is not my first language, so fell free to correct any mistakes.
Some of your best work right there 🏆🏆🏆👏👏👏
Please get this man to 1M subs.
It's Complicated is trying to break the internet, I see.
12:40 "we need to have more conversations", meanwhile more then half a century we have those and it goes constantly south.
Time to Like, Comment, and be already-Subscribed!
Its only toxic if a man doesn’t tolerate her BS 😂 because they‘re told that they deserve things and when you put deserve in front of something it makes you entitled.
Out of all the women that were a part of this video in my eyes the blonde is the only one who’s dateable. She has a good understanding of gender roles and lives in he femininity, highly attractive
Aye its your boy Jay love your content!
Very eloquent conversations
If you picture a male actor in the role of Galadriel in "The Rings Of Power", you would see all the classic examples of toxic masculinity. Modern female protagonists use the same traits to prove strength and independence but the men in those roles do the opposite. They are likeable, helpful, and believe in "leave no one behind".
First question is very interesting, but I have a different take! 🤔
I’m an avid taoist reader and I like the take they have on masculine and feminine energies. In taoism there exists the concept of opposite but interconnected forces aka the Yin-Yang
Yang is solar, masculine energy and yin is lunar, feminine energy.
Yin is receptive, fluid, flexible, malleable, and accepting. It allows us to be relaxed and go with the flow. To open ourselves to the constant change of life. BUT too much yin energy and you become lethargic, unmotivated, and both physically and mentally lazy. You will be overly emotional, sensitive and will find it hard to control your reactions.
The yang energy is quick, dynamic, hot, dry, and restless. It’s all about direction, determination, setting and achieving goals, and the logical mind. BUT too much yang energy and you will intensely focus in one direction but miss the wider perspective. There may be a great trust in the mind but a lack of trust in the Heart. You will become insensitive, loss contact with your emotional self, and you will lose the ability to express yourself freely.
In order to achieve balance, you have to cultivate BOTH energies. From my description you can see that women have too much yin and men have too much yang. It’s time for both genders to work on this issue and balance their energies. How to do it is a topic for another day 😂
Ignoring the last paragraph, I present to you a case that a person doesn't need equal amounts of ying and yang to strike balance, if the *relationship* between two people have that balance.
But that relationship must truly be symbiotic, for ying to benefit from yang and yang to benefit from ying. It cannot be a one-sided relationship.
Jewish feminizm isn't about balance sadly, its about POWER. Ying yang is an old concept and doesn't applies to modern relationship dynamics where girls are so combative and men are so emasculated. You need to bring the order first to bring in yin and yang among both
Modern women have neither yin nor yang, as you described it.
What does that make them? The void? Hmmm.
Wish these vids were as long as they used to be, Great work bro
Kudos to the women standing in their truth.
Kudos to you for creating an instantaneous space in which people feel free to express themselves honestly.
Blondie is wife material. Good for her.
"I feel like feminine energy is like when men like, in my opinion like, and like women like masculine energy just like, and like the relationship like"
I'm not even 40 seconds in, and I'm already tired of these idiots.
ikr jesus fucking Christ
honestly, this episode had a high feel good vibe. glad to see some common sense.
6:27 This is gold. I have said this a few times, but she did it better.