Oga, you have the right to claim your 4 children. You have to get a good lawyer to defend you. If they don't want to give you the 4 children, take your 2 boys, and they must refund you anything you spent on those other 2 boys.
Nenye! How are you doing? ❤. Is being a very long while. I don't know the tribe this young man comes from, as well as the tribe of the alleged wife and the contending first husband. If the first husband that abandoned the wife paid the bride price of the woman and it was not returned by the time this second husband took her in, obviously, she's still the first man's wife and the children all belonged to him both traditionally and legally. From this man's story, it appears he did not do the needful by compelling the woman to return her bride price if paid and perhaps marrying her formally. It appears they have cohabited all these while without him visiting the woman's family to formalise their relationship. The woman's family should be involved if they accepted him as their daughter's husband; otherwise, he's in for a long battle. If there is anything he should be contending for, it should be the custody of the two sons he biologically fathered. However, I doubt he will succeed if the woman's bride price was not returned and he didn't pay the woman's bride price.
Very correct as this is also what my culture as the Bayangi / manyu culture demands. My father met my mother as a widow. They had me without him returning the dowry to the lste husbands family. I automatically answered the late mans name with my fsthers name not accepted to future on my birth certificate. On the dsy of my traditional marriage, the late husband's family collected full bride price ftom my Ex family as instructed by my mothers family. After which they proceeded to ask for theirs and my fathers family was slsted gor another date. So in all, the living or late husband of a widow collects bride price for the woman incase he she renarries or any child gotten after their seperstion of bride price he paid was not returned by the new man
Bro you got your karma for leaving your 11 years fiancé, but if anything you have the right to at least get the 2 boys that are biologically yours. WOMEN! Money be their true lover. Not all but most.
Very correct as this is also what my culture as the Bayangi / manyu culture demands. My father met my mother as a widow. They had me without him returning the dowry to the lste husbands family. I automatically answered the late mans name with my fsthers name not accepted to future on my birth certificate. On the dsy of my traditional marriage, the late husband's family collected full bride price ftom my Ex family as instructed by my mothers family. After which they proceeded to ask for theirs and my fathers family was slsted gor another date. So in all, the living or late husband of a widow collects bride price for the woman incase he she renarries or any child gotten after their seperstion of bride price he paid was not returned by the new man
You are in problem you still go meet wrong pastor to bring more problem to your life, you have make a big mistake in life and still hot someone. So y cant that pastor pray for your girl to be able to pregnant for you. Go and start your life all over again better for you.
Oga concentrate on your two boys, and leave the other two for their father, don't worry about the money you spend on them.
Don't mumu yourself there's no any cout in the world that can give you another man's children. Just respect yourself and go for your 2 kids ok
Oga, you have the right to claim your 4 children. You have to get a good lawyer to defend you. If they don't want to give you the 4 children, take your 2 boys, and they must refund you anything you spent on those other 2 boys.
Prophecy have destroyed lots of home in Nigeria 😢
You don't have four children na two..... Mugu the man no give am anything.... That's Nigeria women 4u
Don't spend funds on another man's child, the billionaire man is the head of the family
Nenye! How are you doing? ❤. Is being a very long while.
I don't know the tribe this young man comes from, as well as the tribe of the alleged wife and the contending first husband.
If the first husband that abandoned the wife paid the bride price of the woman and it was not returned by the time this second husband took her in, obviously, she's still the first man's wife and the children all belonged to him both traditionally and legally. From this man's story, it appears he did not do the needful by compelling the woman to return her bride price if paid and perhaps marrying her formally. It appears they have cohabited all these while without him visiting the woman's family to formalise their relationship. The woman's family should be involved if they accepted him as their daughter's husband; otherwise, he's in for a long battle. If there is anything he should be contending for, it should be the custody of the two sons he biologically fathered. However, I doubt he will succeed if the woman's bride price was not returned and he didn't pay the woman's bride price.
Very correct as this is also what my culture as the Bayangi / manyu culture demands. My father met my mother as a widow. They had me without him returning the dowry to the lste husbands family. I automatically answered the late mans name with my fsthers name not accepted to future on my birth certificate. On the dsy of my traditional marriage, the late husband's family collected full bride price ftom my Ex family as instructed by my mothers family. After which they proceeded to ask for theirs and my fathers family was slsted gor another date. So in all, the living or late husband of a widow collects bride price for the woman incase he she renarries or any child gotten after their seperstion of bride price he paid was not returned by the new man
Bro you got your karma for leaving your 11 years fiancé, but if anything you have the right to at least get the 2 boys that are biologically yours. WOMEN! Money be their true lover. Not all but most.
Is two children not four. You can demand for your experiences in training the two children. But, you can't claim them.
Very correct as this is also what my culture as the Bayangi / manyu culture demands. My father met my mother as a widow. They had me without him returning the dowry to the lste husbands family. I automatically answered the late mans name with my fsthers name not accepted to future on my birth certificate. On the dsy of my traditional marriage, the late husband's family collected full bride price ftom my Ex family as instructed by my mothers family. After which they proceeded to ask for theirs and my fathers family was slsted gor another date. So in all, the living or late husband of a widow collects bride price for the woman incase he she renarries or any child gotten after their seperstion of bride price he paid was not returned by the new man
Go to court
Is not four children you have only two children with her so get it right
Go and collect your two children they belong to you
You are in problem you still go meet wrong pastor to bring more problem to your life, you have make a big mistake in life and still hot someone. So y cant that pastor pray for your girl to be able to pregnant for you. Go and start your life all over again better for you.