@@blackout07blue we got something similar here in DC. The problem is it's lumped in with actual news and important issues that we should be paying attention to. Like the newer sets of refugees they're preparing to bring into this already financially stressed nation.
@@belleame4671 no they havent. Black women did this to themselves by being mean and thinking fighting your partner is a flex. Other women dont treat us bad like black women do and they dont ask for as much. Black women care about putting up a front for their friends more than other women do
@@thesilversurfer1071 How you all lie. You don't see that they require more of you because you are too fixated on the fact thst they're the " right " color. I noticed so many men of color being disrespected by non- black women and they just take it. Stop using women of color as an excuse for liking what Europeans consider better. Just carry on ×ith your lives and stop perpetuating nonsense about eomen of color all around the world.
@@belleame4671I could care less but let’s be honest interracial pornography has something to do with this most gen z black boys are raised on interracial porn.
God cares! The scriptures says “be ye separate”. This goes against God’s laws because or status and class. A white women can love a black man’s money but she can’t fully love a black man. She can fetishize a black man but she will never understand or care to understand the struggles of the black man in American society.
To assume that all men are cheaters that’s sexist cause I feel like anybody cheats men women like assuming that only men cheat is a negative stereotype
@@karleomckenzie1106it is the truth. Stats and facts back up that more men commit infidelity than women. Just like women are more emotional than men. Truth is truth, whether you like it or not.
I really don't like these discussions because these discussions are always centered around a certain type of blk woman who is the stereotype of "loud, money hungry, and hood" and not ALL blk women are like this. I am definitely a believer of you love who you love no matter who it is!
Wow, you spoke exactly how I feel about the situation too! I've never been bothered about black men dating white women or other races and yes it's always a stereotype surrounding a particular type of "black woman" the sad part that as a black woman ever though we are all different individuals some people mostly black men will still try to lump us all in the same category. I've always been a person like you love who you love no matter what the race is.
Me too. They do act like BW are ALL like that. I say, they can go wherever they want. Plus, we all know that BM like them upholding the stereotype about us is just a cover to why they really prefer WW.
This comment seems pick me ish sorry but just because u are not like that doesn’t mean they not speaking about not wanting I either.. because lot them women they choose r the same ways many times but they don’t care because they just are not black or darker complexion..colorism has nothing to do with character its all about the way we look.
@@Simpaholics_Anonymous by the title of your name- I know I'm supposed to be submissive. but u know how bw are- we want you to hear our heart & do what we ask of U, too. What's wrong with that? now----did he leave? did he cheat, beat, neglect, etc---that marriage? Do he splurge money on the streets? Can she climax? Can he take out the trash or get her a cold drink sometimes? How long should one stay- when the man is showing her, by his actions he wants her gone? Sounds like self love to me, too.
Sadly, they are still waiting for the Black athletes. I have been telling sistas for years that those white men get *married*. The math ain’t mathing for BW only dating BM. The ones who are eligible have not only opened up their options, they have made it very clear they are dating other women *because of* BW, and have no preference or even empathy for them. I agree…more and more sistas are opening their options, though…and they actually get married…and STAY married (statistically). I say…love the people who love you. It’s a big world.
Because they don't go to schools that are predominantly Black!! Maybe you should ask that of the minority of white kids at HBCU school's, most of them date Black students because that is who their surrounded by. But there are no cameras putting a spotlight on who their dating or their job classification and income!!
White athletes do marry black women. They just not making their rounds in the media, they're not making youtube videos about how they hate their women. They just loving on them and living.
Black men, no matter if their athletes, wealthy or live in the suburbs are allowed to have preferences or date outside their race. Let black men be happy
@@CathleenBanks-vn4pc Wvehr time a black man stars outside his race. If he doesn’t say anything about a black woman at all he will be 🍆 policed by people in the black community. There are black men and black women who disagree with black men dating interracially. There’s a portion of them in the community
Same as when they have these panels to talk about black men but they almost never have a black man on the panel and when they do he’s a simp who’s just gonna add to the echo chamber and parrot everything they say and help push their narrative. He’s usually always vetted beforehand to make sure he’ll stick to the script and not deviate from whatever the women are saying
Truly hate how people assume on Black woman is the same or white women etc. Dating outside of your race isn't a problem, when you put down the people in your own race and generalize that's the problem.
Well I put down BDub all the time. Hell, they put down their selves with their attitudes, twerking, being half naked, being loud, and having kids out of wedlock.
@@brandnew9834 The sistas I've dated never gave me headaches at all. The sista I'm with now is from the Virgin Islands and she's the best. I've done pretty well with the women that I choose
Last time I checked.. I never seen a "Becky" hanging out at Cooley High! Becky's appear suddenly around the athlete's 3rd or 4th year contract decision making time for the NBA AND NFL in College!
Would you say it louder for the slow people. Yes...a good person can come in any color. But outside of Walmart and a few other places, how come you see Becky damn near at every pro decision time ? It's not 100 percent by coincidence. If anyone says it is they are a straight liar. And I'll tell them that they are.
I see a lot of big white birthas with mix babies . Don't see a lot of hot chick's with poor men. My big niece has 2 mix babies and her baby daddies has several other baby mommas and no jobs . It's sad really that her kids barely know their sperm donors.
Here we go again...black women this really isn't our issue. If these guys think that other women are not counting their checks, lmao, just let them wait and see😂
True, but do you know how smart white men are. There was a coach that introduced his white daughter to a black athlete that he signed to his team. So, through the white coach's daughter, the white man will get all the black man's money once they marry and have kids. See, white men are smart.
@@berkspeaceI love that for y’all can we stop the documentaries and just do it lmao as soon as BLK women do anything similar we’re bed wrenches and we love the oppressor lmao
People date who they're in proximity to. A lot of D1 athletes play at predominantly white colleges and universities, so their dating pool and dating options are predominantly white as well.
WW are more likely to build with them... while BW refuse to build with a BM. They want to wait at the finish line, except those men usually have their women by then, so it's too late for them.
@@kelechiaguocha6125 Becky plays the long game... Keisha thinks that she can just show up at the strip club with her box and expect to get the athletes then. They don't approach as potential wives... they only approach as 304s with their hands out.
This is irrelevant. Blk men will still have a clear 'preference' for women lighter than themselves no matter how many black women are in their vicinity.
The difference is other races of women are expected to be taken care of and black women are expected to tough it out. But I wish people would not give this any energy. Stop worrying about this.
As a BW- who cares, what bothers me is when they circle back to a BW after Shyte hits the fan. Nah bro, stay over there and make it work with your WW. 🤷🏽♀️😌
Ain't nobody circling back to BW lol. I been had bread and been left Black Women alone. Love me a bad White girl or Latina! They look good, stay fit, and keep a brother fed. I ain't never circling no block. I don't neverrrrr wanna date a Black Woman again. I'm enjoying life way too much for that drama.
@@hitek9too255least desired while black men still marry black women more and a lot of them prefer they own or go for something closer to black women such as latina african and filipina and thai women yeah ok . and a lot of these athlete's marry they own race . if black men date out they stay in they borders of they race never going to far.
I watched the draft and Id say 80% of the dudes were either single or had blk girlfriends and only a few had a whte girlfriends. This guy is just bored looking for content which is all 99% of social media is these days.
I think the main take away that most athletes forget is that yt ppl have wealth already! Their men and families pour into them. Blk ppl as a majority are STILL trying to create a foundation from the intentional displacement they have fought generation after generation! It’s crazy for blk men or women to expect each other to be financially better off than yt ppl when stats show yts are more financially inclined! Without sports and entertainment there would be far less wealthy blk ppl in the USA! Sounds familiar right? Are we in Rome? 🧐
you missed the point completely as a man (forget about race) we DO NOT WANT TO BE USED. a man will give the world to a woman who sees value in him NOT HIS POCKETS. That's why when a man is dating a woman who actual caters to him its noticed and appreciated more then the ones who immediately have their hand out. To the point of race its just unfortunate that what is being displayed to American BW is that their hand is out immediately when all you have to do is be by my side and I got you (regardless of my pockets)
@@matthew81p I think that YOU missed the point. The topic is do blk athletes prefer yt women over blk. You are a liar if your claim is that blk women use blk men and see no value in blk men! No matter what direction you look it is blk women supporting or carrying blk men even when at their lowest! It is blk women breathing life into blk men when they plummet to the bottom and see no way up. When these men get up, they forget who was there the whole time! How does a whole race of women get the judgement based off of one if they are blk, but u run back again and again hopeful for different results if they are yt ?
I'm black, and neither I nor any of the women that I know have their hands out. Not one of us is on this "we don't need a man" independent woman nonsense, either. You know what's funny? First, Black women are too hard/masculine and think they can do it all by themselves. Next, Black women are greedy, gold diggers whose only intention is to suck some poor unsuspecting Black man out of his "money." Please pick a side. I'm getting whiplash. We as Black women are taught that our Black brothers are not monolithic, not to judge them by the behavior of a few, and to not give up on them. However, when these negative stereotypes are spewed about Black women, you not only buy into it, you join (others) in bashing us, and make a mass exodus for the door. I have a warning for you. If you marry interracially (which is perfectly fine) and have a son, he'll probably take after dad, and because he loves mom, also marry someone who looks like mom. Now on to your grandchildren who are 1/4 Black. If the behavior continues, you'll have bred yourself out of existence. It only takes 2 generations. ✌🏽
I'M A BLACK WOMAN AND YES THEY DO, AND WHAT OF IT? THIS IS THE UNITED STATES 🇺🇸 🇺🇲 LET BLACK FOOTBALL PLAYERS DATE WHO THEY CHOOSE. THIS IS A FREE NATION.
Aka investment. Like one person said. One sees the other as an investment while the other sees them as banks. They still end up getting used for their money.
I really do not understand why this constantly needs to be discussed. They can date who ever they want. They definately will not be mourned. Men that have that mindset are not the caliber of man that a true woman would desire. A real woman wouldnt give them the time a day. Most of them dont know the difference. They are looking for flesh, instead of spirit. Flesh is for a little while, spirit is for a life time.
@@GodHimself-bp3xw Do you live in a Asian country? i don't think i have ever saw a Asian women in real life in my entire life. if i lived in Japan or South korea Sure i would like Asian girls too but they likely don't speak english. i see a lot more white girls.
For sure making them desirable for them.. Go back a few decades and you'll see the difference. They did not do that in advertising. Keep the black race pure as the Jewish and Muslim culture.
Why is that black man with the chain apologizing to his MAMA LMFAO and saying disclaimers like I LOVE MY BLACK WOMAN SMH. You wasn't apologizing when you took that trip to LSU!!!! Cognitive dissonance.
Yep I know the women with the most children out of wedlock with bm and non bm aren’t talking. You need to ask why have so many wyt men made bw single mothers and not married them.
We have illegal immigrants taking over our neighborhoods and resources. The nation and people in this country is struggling financially. But this is something thats newsworthy.
@@Cuteypie26 Indeed! We're usually stepping stones to a luxury life or life with ease for non-Black women. Black men often have to work/buy their way into Whiteness. Our self-hate blinds us to realities.
We got plenty of black love images. Love Jones, Love & Basketball, Friday!!! You like WHAT you like. Attraction ain't a CHOICE. These guys were hooking up with all dem white women NO MATTER WHAT. Those who chose to marry them well that was their choice, that don't mean they will be successful. Also, why in the hell did those brothers use qualifiers like "I love my sisters" etc. You know damn well what time they on they just being politically correct.
@@Julie-sz3zimoved on where ????😂 your single mothers to every race of men by the majority you date. What have you moved onto. Y’all constantly bash bm on TikTok every week. Share videos of biracial woman denouncing bm😂stop coping and face reality. Y’all will remain the least desired for a while
These players have made a pledge / taken an oath on who to spend their money with .Tiger woods could not even get a nanny to sign a pre - nup .So if these women go against every rule she was taught as a child to marry & bred outside her race.She will be compensated period .The court system will see to that .
@@Simpaholics_Anonymous You know nothing about her. Your insult was impotent and puerile. Black women don't want over grown 3 year olds. They want men! 🙄
I'm from nigeria, and i can tell you this is becoming a problem. Our sisters are trying everything possible to be like black america women, and it's a shame
I've always liked who treated me good. Being treated well has no race. I think people can have a preference as long as they don't degrade their own race in order to justify their preference. I've been treated bad by men of all races. I married a man that is German Black and Mexican. I didn't marry him for his race but because he loves me and treats me amazing.
This conversation is so played out. How many times and ways do most BM have to say they don’t like BW? Just go sir, GO! Didn’t they get their passports ✈️ or something? 🧐
Speak for yourself. Plenty of blk men love blk women. Plenty of blk women who marry other races of men too. Making better choices has to do with God and characteristics not race. Don’t be an idiot all your life.
I am originally from the Middle East and similar thing happens. First the black experience in Arab countries are historically similar if not worse than the US. However the way out form the historical/generational injustice is academia (engineering and above) or a high position in the military (officer and above). The main reason of them marrying white/Arab women is social status among their piers and reducing their offspring blackness to reduce racism and bullying.
So sad. God created black people so God thinks blk skin is beautiful and equal to all other skin tones. I’m so happy to be black and I hope to have kids that look just like me.
@@tophat8190 since you want to go there. The "others" are shooting missiles off at each other & stay at war. & are Putting hazards in the food, water, air & mind and hearts of the naive/needy. Promotes, Incest to keep wealth in the family. A white Penn State College sociology professor- recently said "migrants that identify as lgbtq- deserve to come to America (because they are oppressed) ---but not those that need to work, for a living to get "better living conditions". The "others" withhold funding for our communities, but make sure theirs are in excess. Will throw away groceries/supplies/books/etc- before they sell it to you for a fair price. Or- Say they, will handle your wrongful eviction case for free; yet in the end charge you. & not get you all the law- says you deserve, cause he wants you in your Black place..- etc . Cold part; I've seen "ideal non blacks" just as low class as you think we are. So one could say- it's them contributing to xyz, too-----Right? But yea the "image" of doing/being- better is what matters? TYPICAL...
Stop enforcing Jim Crow if BW wanted to be married they wouldn’t have a 78% single mother rate while less than 20% of black men are unwed fathers 🤷🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️
I am multiracial. My father is black and my mother is white. They were married in 1970 and stayed together until he died in 2022. They faced backlash for being an interracial couple. They were married only two years after the Supreme Court made it legal in all the United State to have interracial marriages. I do not understand why some black people try to impose social "Jim Crow" laws on others for their choice of who they date or marry. We all should worry about if we the best person we can be in a relationship rather than worrying about the quality of the partner of someone else. Especially when your first critique is the person's race.
As an Afro American woman I think this was a great leveled headed conversation. Even the ww was leveled seemingly unbiased & no bw was torn up, ripped, belittled, hurt, or denigrated having to come into defense mode😅 I would love to see us heal and be made whole but it takes all hands and not just the women who wants. But if a man of another race finds me and marries me i am unbiased. 🙂↔️🖤😌
Just get a woman that values herself doesn’t matter the race. The down to earth baby loving women are the best and they come in all ways shapes and forms
@@DrUmarJohnson1 Maybe getting away from your race will solve your problems then can’t make simple decisions as pack then might be time to branch out. Mixed kids have a lot better life for them than the poor kids
I think it's more about proximity. Most of these colleges or Universities are predominantly white. Most of the girls who are thrust in front of them on these college visits are white. For most of the Black athletes it's probably the first time their in an environment where their in the minority. So they have to assimilate to their environment. For most of them the "white girls" are something new and vice versa for the white girls. I think the issue is when some of them assimilate too much, and forget who they are and where they come from. Love who you want to love, just don't forget who you are and where you come from!! I'm sure this happens with Black women on college campuses, accept they aren't in the spotlight for people to critique who their dating or marrying. Simply put never sell your soul to fit into any group, love who you want to, but Just don't forget where you come from. And if your a Black Athlete who dates outside your race especially in America just remember your kids will be half Black and have to endure hardships because of the color of their skin in the country you help shape for them. Love is colorblind, but unfortunately the world and this country is not.
@RallyRally-sv6dz Your statement is ignorant. Being Pro Black comes with a Minda State and commitment to the community no matter who you date. The same way Clarence Thomas white wife has a commitment to White Supremacy despite being married to a Black man!! "All kinfolk ain't Skinfolk"!! Candace Owens, Tim Scott, Clarence Thomas, Stacey Dash etc.. Love is hard to find, just make sure that the person truly has your best interest at heart no matter the Color!! Just because someone dates outside of their race doesn't mean they can't be true to the community that has their and their children's best interest at heart!! Judge a person by the Content of their character, not by the color of their skin!!
@@jamberry8026 There is no excuse, it's called real life!! It's the same reasoning why there are so many work relationships, you often find what's in close proximity. Between work, games and practice they have very little time to venture far beyond their campuses. Most go to schools out of state which is unfamiliar territory. We only see these dynamics because their Athletes in popular sports under a spotlight. These dynamics play out with other students who aren't playing sports under a microscope!!
@@jjscrilla3558 You ain't getting nothing but a throw away in the first place. Lie and tell us that white men are competing with you for that throw away "gettin' the bag" becky you got! Y'all got the nerve to be flexing about a throw away!!! 😂
Respectfully; Using that logic, we can see why society is- the way it is, too. We "help" the others "think" they are better. If we- don't bring our own into the room/up with us--we are the problem. Notice how, the non blacks bring "who looks like them up & in the room/etc". Ours that "make it" don't. If, they did their own college course work/etc; something would click/awaken mentally within Self....
I’m going to say this, it really makes me mad when women see a man with money and want him to all of a sudden start paying for your nails and hair to get done. Wants him to take you to all these fancy restaurants. Someone such as myself would be GLAD to go to chipotle, or even chillis! Because it’s not about the place, for me it’s about me just spending time with you because I know you could have been out with any other girl. So let me just be greatful! I would never ask a man to pay for my hair and nails, I pay my stylist to do my hair, and I actually do my own nails and toes. He don’t need to come out of pocket for nothing! I got this!
Why do you care what other women want a man to pay for, though? Between the nail shop, the hair shop and the med spa I drop close to $1000/month....I don't give a damn how other women are living, tho.
@@RepentImmediately did you not just hear yourself what you spend on all of that a month? You sound triggered because I’m right. Why would you ask a man to start funding your life? We need to be humble and be thankful that we were even chosen to be by his side because these men have many options when it comes to women. There are more of us than there are of them anyways. And to me 1,000 a month is very extreme but hey to each their own. But I’m not asking a man to pay for that. Even when I’m married, I’m not asking. Now if he just offered maybe once or twice then ok, but I wouldn’t get used to that.
@@djlivvy46 does it matter? Even if I were married I wouldn’t be asking my husband to pay for any of it. Technically his money would be mine anyways and my money his. I’m just saying, too many women have all these unrealistic expectations for men. Do those things yourself and be humble about it. If he absolutely wants to pay for hair and nails to get done then ok, but don’t get comfortable. You work and make your own money, do for yourself.
Let’s not generalize. There are nice Black woman and nice White Woman . It’s a total myth that White Woman are nicer than Black Woman . Again stop generalizing .
Someone said it's mainly baby boomers and gen x who take issue with interracial dating and I agree. Older people oppose interracial dating much more than millennials and gen z. For exemple Dr Umar Johnson is gen x and he staunchly opposes interracial dating.
1:45 First guy talking is true!! If you want to go somewhere, you better date a woman who knows how to behave, because that's who will ensure you have peace on your way to making it.
Lets observe something here: Not one of these black men felt safe enough to be completely honest. They were more concerned about being politically correct out of fear. That says sooo much about our culture and how us as men feel. This is not even just an athlete thing, this is just a culture. And i think the interracial marriage stats reflect this. More black men are married than black women, due to this. You can take certain other women out for a hike or something and it not be an issue while for many black women they feel its half ass and not good enough for them, while at the same time giving you little care or concern. Want the world for little effort.
Oh gosh. That's like me saying I can't take Tyrone, Jamal, or Damir to the annual company picnic because they'll embarrass me with their broken English. Or the way they reek of marijuana smoke. Or the stints they did in prison. Or their multiple baby mothers. Or outstanding warrants. Or their incessant chatter of how the white man is keeping them from um....getting their degrees, purchasing a home, obtaining AND maintaining a career with a semi decent salary, taking care of said kids (see above) and a plethora of additional reasons why they cant/won't/doesn't measure up. Hiking? That's what you have to contend with? 🤡
My game is so weak I cant be choosy. The first woman that give me the time of day we’re moving in together, even if she’s in a wheelchair. Shout out to y’all brothers that has the pick of the litter.
You selling yourself short. You have every right to be choosey. Right now you are willing to settle and that is a big mistake. One reasons many marriage fail is because that significant other wasn't they real choice..they settled and regret it
they don't need no man so what's the problem. we are doing what they want leaving them alone. I'm confused someone help me understand this twilight zone crap.
😂😂 Plz continue to marry WW, Ive never seen bw accomplishing the dreams finding their purpose and healing as must as i do now. 🎉 I have 15 female cousins between the ages of 15-42 none are Baby momma all have homes are in nice apt. 4 of the bought a house together and living their best life with a dog thats livng better than me. Not a one of them are married and only 3 of them have a boyfriend. ❤
Its amazing how much white sumprecist has accomplished in the last 20 years. With all this wealth BW are acquiring, as you point out, tell m e who gets their wealth when they pass away??? Sure cant leave it to the dog. No legacy to pass so state or county transfers that asset you built to the next deserving white person. I dont know when our people has becane this selfish
@@TINKERB121 It's odd the examples of "men" you chose to praise; are colorists. It's in their lyrics/actions. Even the Mexican rappers -say they looking for a "light skin" chick. & none of the women in his videos, are darker than a paper bag. Yet, he stays in Black business/culture, with black men around him.
we speaking on everybody- rather rich or Po. It's an Agenda to make the Black Woman, feel as if she is nothing compared to the others. Meanwhile- when Black men "make it" they tell the non black woman- to act/look like a Black woman & be a Coretta Scott like wife. Cold part- the wake up call is brutal to the Black Man, that burdens the black woman with lies/trouble, for the others acceptance. They see they can't break the Black Woman- so they go through the men- that think with his worm & want of material things... I'm praying for our community. We've been programmed/trained/self taught to hate each other. It's getting better one day at a time!
People are people, you seem to think that somehow the color of someones skin changes the human condition!! Even more you seem to think a women somehow is different based off of race. All people have problems, that's why divorce rates are so high across the board.
@@jjscrilla3558 you have a very interesting take. anyhow..most people don't care either way. no wants to deal with a : ' You know me you owe me' personality
@@wellthatgotweird who doesn't want money?? Wh*res are universal and so are problems!! That's the part Passport Bro's don't understand. Cultures may be different, but the human condition remains the same!!
Why do you feel you have to justify your choices! Choose who you choose but you feel you have to justify your choice by putting down women who look like you.
ya'll know they have "handlers". required to . like a pet and owner. aren't they traded, bought and sold if they don't work? how is this any different than slav3ry
@@jamberry8026😂😂😂fool. Those white women prey on them because they KNOW money is coming. Any lie to make a black man feel desirable in the eyes of white people. Shameful. Carry on.
@@RepentImmediately Humans are so weird... that must make one feel so special for being the " right " color huh? If light skin and white women were so ethereal and top tier... why are they changing through so many of you? Why can't one white woman and the first light skin be the solution to all the suffering and desires in their lives? Why do athletes claim dark women are this and that simply for being darker... yet some of these lighter women they date are extremely immodest, IG " models " sharing bodies with the world, using them for money, trips, fake body parts... lack self respect, etc.. you're not special because you're lighter than anyone. Skin color does not determine character and compatibility. Some black men are just puzzling and shameless...You disparage the women god made to look just as brown as you are and convince yourselves that they deserve to be dehumanized for looking as they do just like your oppressors in the past and present. Carry on with your nonsense.
And they offered absolutely nothing to the conversation. I love my black women, it’s a preference, every race of women do it, it’s not really like that…but to each is on. The rest is fluff. All surface level, towing the line, politically correct stuff said. 🤷🏾♂️😂
Kudos to the brotha in the blue jacket, me personally I don't know what its like to talk to a white women, because I don't talk to them at all, but like the brotha in the blue jacket, I love my black women.
Black women are so demure,so likable,raise excellent children, grow long flowing hair and have wonderful attitudes. I just can not wonder why black men would not want to be with them.
@@okene First white people are NOT the majority of people on this planet. Second I have AND will continue to date ALL KINDS of women not just white or black.
The ones y'all get are throw aways that white men don't want. When have you ever seen a white man competing for the white woman you got? N E V E R!!!!!
😂 Wow so a skin color thinks long term. Wow! So what about black, Asian, Latino, and Indian women? I guess we all dont think long term? Your comment is as ignorant as you are. Seek God
They are just making excuses, no good Black woman would just use a Black man to get her hair and nails done. Any woman could be a user. Thats a huge excuse. There are sooo many good black women who are rejected just because they are Black. People can love who they love but Dont bring down Black Women. YOUR OWN RACE!!!
Would you be triggered if they had a panel with all blk women and asked them why they only date white male athletes? Then they went on to tell the world how blk men are in prison and create broken homes etc… would you like that? Seek God and cut out all the stereotypes. If you have a problem with someone of a specific race then get out more and find someone who doesn’t fit that narrative.
In my experience, black men are extremely reckless with their dicks. I stopped dating black men more than a decade ago. I'm mixed with long hair so, I still get hit on by black men all the time, of course.
Seek God. A lot of negative things can be said about blk men but I won’t go there. Just look at the stats in America. Your comment proves what you are.
Gold diggers come in ALL NATIONALITIES!!!!!!!!!
Black women most definitely included!!!
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@@scjrtsgBlack men most definitely included !!!!
@milanC4659 how swayyy? 😂 yall so bitter you just make blanket statements. Goofy
@@milanC4659 in ur dreams, black women all they know is that dolla sign
Why is this on the news is crazy to me??
It’s a show! It’s called The Factor. What don’t you understand?
@@user-ln7of9gs4smaybe the commenter isn’t from Houston. I certainly am not and am surprised to see this on the news myself. 🤷🏾♀️
This channel does does this pop culture segment.
@@blackout07blue we got something similar here in DC. The problem is it's lumped in with actual news and important issues that we should be paying attention to.
Like the newer sets of refugees they're preparing to bring into this already financially stressed nation.
I was about to type the same damn comment.
These Black Man Vs Black Woman conversations are traumatizing at this point, redundant and divisive, definitely the media controlling the masses.
They've used ww to divide black men and black women..
@@belleame4671 no they havent. Black women did this to themselves by being mean and thinking fighting your partner is a flex. Other women dont treat us bad like black women do and they dont ask for as much. Black women care about putting up a front for their friends more than other women do
@@thesilversurfer1071 How you all lie. You don't see that they require more of you because you are too fixated on the fact thst they're the " right " color. I noticed so many men of color being disrespected by non- black women and they just take it. Stop using women of color as an excuse for liking what Europeans consider better. Just carry on ×ith your lives and stop perpetuating nonsense about eomen of color all around the world.
@@belleame4671I could care less but let’s be honest interracial pornography has something to do with this most gen z black boys are raised on interracial porn.
@thesilversurfer1071 you sound stupid
WHO CARES 😂😂 have a nice life black women will be OKAY
God cares! The scriptures says “be ye separate”. This goes against God’s laws because or status and class. A white women can love a black man’s money but she can’t fully love a black man. She can fetishize a black man but she will never understand or care to understand the struggles of the black man in American society.
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Right! Nothing but overgrown 3 year old tricks.
lol. Y’all will still be lurking in the shadows, thirsty and triggered AF.
@@brandnew9834 hit dog 🙄
Who cares they all get cheated on no matter what color lol
Stop babbling!
He not gonna cheat on the white girl he only does that to BW 🤦🏾♂️ these people slow AF
To assume that all men are cheaters that’s sexist cause I feel like anybody cheats men women like assuming that only men cheat is a negative stereotype
@@karleomckenzie1106it is the truth. Stats and facts back up that more men commit infidelity than women. Just like women are more emotional than men. Truth is truth, whether you like it or not.
I don’t think they care, They getting half the 💰 after the divorce.
I really don't like these discussions because these discussions are always centered around a certain type of blk woman who is the stereotype of "loud, money hungry, and hood" and not ALL blk women are like this. I am definitely a believer of you love who you love no matter who it is!
Wow, you spoke exactly how I feel about the situation too! I've never been bothered about black men dating white women or other races and yes it's always a stereotype surrounding a particular type of "black woman" the sad part that as a black woman ever though we are all different individuals some people mostly black men will still try to lump us all in the same category. I've always been a person like you love who you love no matter what the race is.
When it's over 80% of the American black women , *it's a huge issue
Me too. They do act like BW are ALL like that. I say, they can go wherever they want. Plus, we all know that BM like them upholding the stereotype about us is just a cover to why they really prefer WW.
This comment seems pick me ish sorry but just because u are not like that doesn’t mean they not speaking about not wanting I either.. because lot them women they choose r the same ways many times but they don’t care because they just are not black or darker complexion..colorism has nothing to do with character its all about the way we look.
Only Psychologically Abused Beta Males Want to Publicly Slander Our Queens!
Dr Umar and Cynthia G where you at 😂😂
bruhhhh lol
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😂😂😂
I can’t believe they took her channel she didn’t do or say anything wrong, or different in a uno reverse way than male podcast say.
Dr. Umar is still building that school for his Queens!😉🤣😂
Shout out to the Black People, that show Love & Respect towards Black Love!
17% BW marriage rate and 31% divorce rate yea that sounds like love to me 😂
@@Simpaholics_Anonymous by the title of your name- I know I'm supposed to be submissive. but u know how bw are- we want you to hear our heart & do what we ask of U, too. What's wrong with that?
now----did he leave? did he cheat, beat, neglect, etc---that marriage? Do he splurge money on the streets? Can she climax? Can he take out the trash or get her a cold drink sometimes? How long should one stay- when the man is showing her, by his actions he wants her gone? Sounds like self love to me, too.
Black women are a drag.
@@Simpaholics_AnonymousDon't forget 77% out of wedlock birth rate and 59% out of wedlock kids with multiple baby daddies 😂😂😂😂
@@lavettesmith156child that’s a whole troll lol
Why is the white lady always speaking on black topics?
And cos playing at the same time 😂😂
because you want to be her....
Rachel Dolezal 2.0
because she's more for the culture than bw are
They talking about INTERRACIAL DATING..so it makes sense to have at least 1 white person there…
Why arent white D1 athletes dating BW? Where is the BW on the couch with Chad and family?
Sadly, they are still waiting for the Black athletes. I have been telling sistas for years that those white men get *married*. The math ain’t mathing for BW only dating BM. The ones who are eligible have not only opened up their options, they have made it very clear they are dating other women *because of* BW, and have no preference or even empathy for them. I agree…more and more sistas are opening their options, though…and they actually get married…and STAY married (statistically). I say…love the people who love you. It’s a big world.
Because they don't go to schools that are predominantly Black!! Maybe you should ask that of the minority of white kids at HBCU school's, most of them date Black students because that is who their surrounded by. But there are no cameras putting a spotlight on who their dating or their job classification and income!!
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I see plenty of swirlers at all college campuses. They the main ones.
White athletes do marry black women. They just not making their rounds in the media, they're not making youtube videos about how they hate their women. They just loving on them and living.
Black men, no matter if their athletes, wealthy or live in the suburbs are allowed to have preferences or date outside their race. Let black men be happy
No one is stopping them.
@@CathleenBanks-vn4pc Wvehr time a black man stars outside his race. If he doesn’t say anything about a black woman at all he will be 🍆 policed by people in the black community. There are black men and black women who disagree with black men dating interracially. There’s a portion of them in the community
Same for Black women! Date who you want, when you want. Race truly doesn’t matter and so many non-Black men LOVE Black women.
I agree. And I am a black woman saying this.
Can they just go be happy without harassing BW all the time?
Wonder why this is always brought up as a weapon of division. So they invited 3 black men and a white woman but no black woman on the show?
because she would end up screaming at the host or twerking on camera. or both.
Same as when they have these panels to talk about black men but they almost never have a black man on the panel and when they do he’s a simp who’s just gonna add to the echo chamber and parrot everything they say and help push their narrative. He’s usually always vetted beforehand to make sure he’ll stick to the script and not deviate from whatever the women are saying
Im a blk woman and I don’t dance or scream. Too busy focused on God.
He spoke a message: If you treat the Black Woman, as good as you treat the others---of course you'll get a "nicer" woman.
I'm a Black woman and I would like to be left out of this nonsense completely.
@@newtrollaccount384 Thank you! The 🦝 is real!
That’s B.S
@@commonsense3921 I guess your name is only wishful thinking---cuz u have no common sense. Not surprised tho. Stay conquered then!
@newtrollaccount384 But the Demorats can't, they need you on board.
Truly hate how people assume on Black woman is the same or white women etc. Dating outside of your race isn't a problem, when you put down the people in your own race and generalize that's the problem.
Well I put down BDub all the time. Hell, they put down their selves with their attitudes, twerking, being half naked, being loud, and having kids out of wedlock.
Nope, i refuse to date out of my race. Black women only for this brotha
Yeah it's weird how people take social media and a small percentage of people as the majority.
Your socioeconomic status doesn’t give you the option
Cool, less headache for me lol. Have it all bruh lol.
@@Simpaholics_Anonymous LOL I've had plenty of other women from different races approach me, I just rather stick to my own.
@@brandnew9834 The sistas I've dated never gave me headaches at all. The sista I'm with now is from the Virgin Islands and she's the best. I've done pretty well with the women that I choose
Last time I checked.. I never seen a "Becky" hanging out at Cooley High! Becky's appear suddenly around the athlete's 3rd or 4th year contract decision making time for the NBA AND NFL in College!
Would you say it louder for the slow people. Yes...a good person can come in any color. But outside of Walmart and a few other places, how come you see Becky damn near at every pro decision time ? It's not 100 percent by coincidence. If anyone says it is they are a straight liar. And I'll tell them that they are.
I see a lot of big white birthas with mix babies . Don't see a lot of hot chick's with poor men.
I see a lot of big white birthas with mix babies . Don't see a lot of hot chick's with poor men.
I see a lot of big white birthas with mix babies . Don't see a lot of hot chick's with poor men. My big niece has 2 mix babies and her baby daddies has several other baby mommas and no jobs . It's sad really that her kids barely know their sperm donors.
Scouting Reports start in COLLEGE. It's all apart of the D1 athlete starter kit!!!!
Here we go again...black women this really isn't our issue. If these guys think that other women are not counting their checks, lmao, just let them wait and see😂
😂😂😂😂 bingo! 🎯
typical. The answer has been spoken repetitively from the horses mouth and you all are still in denial. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
True, but do you know how smart white men are. There was a coach that introduced his white daughter to a black athlete that he signed to his team. So, through the white coach's daughter, the white man will get all the black man's money once they marry and have kids. See, white men are smart.
Y’all count them too lol, we might as well choose the lady with less aggression
@@berkspeaceI love that for y’all can we stop the documentaries and just do it lmao as soon as BLK women do anything similar we’re bed wrenches and we love the oppressor lmao
People date who they're in proximity to. A lot of D1 athletes play at predominantly white colleges and universities, so their dating pool and dating options are predominantly white as well.
🎯🎯🎯and not one person mentioned this!! Lastly, this comes up after the draft…some of these relationships stem from high school or freshman year.
the only ppl angry are women, and black ones to be precise. wyt women dont really care lol
WW are more likely to build with them... while BW refuse to build with a BM. They want to wait at the finish line, except those men usually have their women by then, so it's too late for them.
@@kelechiaguocha6125 Becky plays the long game... Keisha thinks that she can just show up at the strip club with her box and expect to get the athletes then. They don't approach as potential wives... they only approach as 304s with their hands out.
This is irrelevant. Blk men will still have a clear 'preference' for women lighter than themselves no matter how many black women are in their vicinity.
The difference is other races of women are expected to be taken care of and black women are expected to tough it out. But I wish people would not give this any energy. Stop worrying about this.
Stop the lying and gaslighting black woman.
This why no man of any race wants you. Shut your dam mouth like the other races of women do.
@@jesjax5884Your mammy is not in this comment section-- go upstairs from your basement room and say this to her face. 🤡
Lol. All the white women I know work . Stop having kids with half a dozen baby daddies and get a damn job.
As a BW- who cares, what bothers me is when they circle back to a BW after Shyte hits the fan. Nah bro, stay over there and make it work with your WW. 🤷🏽♀️😌
Ain't nobody circling back to BW lol. I been had bread and been left Black Women alone. Love me a bad White girl or Latina! They look good, stay fit, and keep a brother fed. I ain't never circling no block. I don't neverrrrr wanna date a Black Woman again. I'm enjoying life way too much for that drama.
Because y'all at the bottom and least desired 😂😂😂😂
@@hitek9too255least desired while black men still marry black women more and a lot of them prefer they own or go for something closer to black women such as latina african and filipina and thai women yeah ok . and a lot of these athlete's marry they own race . if black men date out they stay in they borders of they race never going to far.
no one really circled back to aggressive rude BW. tbh
Exactly girl.
I watched the draft and Id say 80% of the dudes were either single or had blk girlfriends and only a few had a whte girlfriends. This guy is just bored looking for content which is all 99% of social media is these days.
Facts
EXACTLY
If people actually was around these circles youll see that many of the players are married/dating thier own.
FACTS!
Show me the corporate white woman with the average black man at the Christmas party in her life and marry, never gone see it
I think the main take away that most athletes forget is that yt ppl have wealth already! Their men and families pour into them. Blk ppl as a majority are STILL trying to create a foundation from the intentional displacement they have fought generation after generation! It’s crazy for blk men or women to expect each other to be financially better off than yt ppl when stats show yts are more financially inclined! Without sports and entertainment there would be far less wealthy blk ppl in the USA! Sounds familiar right? Are we in Rome? 🧐
you missed the point completely as a man (forget about race) we DO NOT WANT TO BE USED. a man will give the world to a woman who sees value in him NOT HIS POCKETS. That's why when a man is dating a woman who actual caters to him its noticed and appreciated more then the ones who immediately have their hand out. To the point of race its just unfortunate that what is being displayed to American BW is that their hand is out immediately when all you have to do is be by my side and I got you (regardless of my pockets)
I'm white, that NEVER happened, try again
@@matthew81p I think that YOU missed the point. The topic is do blk athletes prefer yt women over blk. You are a liar if your claim is that blk women use blk men and see no value in blk men! No matter what direction you look it is blk women supporting or carrying blk men even when at their lowest! It is blk women breathing life into blk men when they plummet to the bottom and see no way up. When these men get up, they forget who was there the whole time! How does a whole race of women get the judgement based off of one if they are blk, but u run back again and again hopeful for different results if they are yt ?
I'm black, and neither I nor any of the women that I know have their hands out.
Not one of us is on this "we don't need a man" independent woman nonsense, either.
You know what's funny? First, Black women are too hard/masculine and think they can do it all by themselves. Next, Black women are greedy, gold diggers whose only intention is to suck some poor unsuspecting Black man out of his "money."
Please pick a side. I'm getting whiplash.
We as Black women are taught that our Black brothers are not monolithic, not to judge them by the behavior of a few, and to not give up on them.
However, when these negative stereotypes are spewed about Black women, you not only buy into it, you join (others) in bashing us, and make a mass exodus for the door.
I have a warning for you.
If you marry interracially (which is perfectly fine) and have a son, he'll probably take after dad, and because he loves mom, also marry someone who looks like mom. Now on to your grandchildren who are 1/4 Black. If the behavior continues, you'll have bred yourself out of existence. It only takes 2 generations. ✌🏽
Yea that's why Bdubs spend half a trillion dollars on Asian, Brazilian, and Russian hair!
I'M A BLACK WOMAN AND YES THEY DO, AND WHAT OF IT? THIS IS THE UNITED STATES 🇺🇸 🇺🇲 LET BLACK FOOTBALL PLAYERS DATE WHO THEY CHOOSE. THIS IS A FREE NATION.
I doubt that you're a black woman, Karen.😛
Aka investment. Like one person said. One sees the other as an investment while the other sees them as banks. They still end up getting used for their money.
I really do not understand why this constantly needs to be discussed. They can date who ever they want. They definately will not be mourned. Men that have that mindset are not the caliber of man that a true woman would desire. A real woman wouldnt give them the time a day. Most of them dont know the difference. They are looking for flesh, instead of spirit. Flesh is for a little while, spirit is for a life time.
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Are you a ganja farmer or what?
The “real woman” you speak of is a myth
And when they money run out they going to leave their ass
60-80% Divorce Rate
And you know it. They're only after the bag that they can't get from white men.
Both do that.
So they are going to do what bw do? Thanks for the heads up! 🤣
just like a BW would.
I love white girls.
I like Asian women
@@GodHimself-bp3xw Do you live in a Asian country? i don't think i have ever saw a Asian women in real life in my entire life. if i lived in Japan or South korea Sure i would like Asian girls too but they likely don't speak english. i see a lot more white girls.
I love God
It state that you are a user, so if you are black and love white girls(not even women), you are picking the ones that are just like you(user).
football players at my school told me they can cheat as much as they want 🤣🤣🤷🏽♂️
And they usually cheat with black women.
That means they understand men. Men will f#^$^
stop the cap, you just a bw simp 😂
Yep my uncle even admitted he can away with a lot more with snow bunnies cool let them have it😂
@@sagba947 lmfao you femcels are a joke 🤣
Well, every other TV commercial now shows a black man with a white woman.
For sure making them desirable for them.. Go back a few decades and you'll see the difference. They did not do that in advertising. Keep the black race pure as the
Jewish and Muslim culture.
That may be true, however, I see a lot more commercials of black women with every other race besides a black man more now then ever.
It's the other way around these days.
Why is that black man with the chain apologizing to his MAMA LMFAO and saying disclaimers like I LOVE MY BLACK WOMAN SMH. You wasn't apologizing when you took that trip to LSU!!!! Cognitive dissonance.
Exactly
That made me mad like dude sound like a sucka raised without a dad..like dude if you date outside your race so what…
Because BW psychologically terrorize BM with their abuse. He's trying to save himself.
Who cares! They are still going to end up single baby mamas anyways. Lol 😂
Yeah and when a non BM gets with a BW it’s the same outcome
Yep I know the women with the most children out of wedlock with bm and non bm aren’t talking. You need to ask why have so many wyt men made bw single mothers and not married them.
We have illegal immigrants taking over our neighborhoods and resources. The nation and people in this country is struggling financially. But this is something thats newsworthy.
exactly
WW are playing the chess. They will secure the bag too.
And you know it. I ain't mad at 'em for seeing a fool and bumping his head. It's all game in the first place. 🤗
Yea just like Keesha did with Robert L. Johnson, Tony Atlas, Micheal Jordan, and Latrell Sprewell.
...As long as self hate a factor
lol just like Courtney Taylor did with that one brotha then she killed em. They could care less about black men y’all are pons to them 😂
@@Cuteypie26 Indeed! We're usually stepping stones to a luxury life or life with ease for non-Black women. Black men often have to work/buy their way into Whiteness. Our self-hate blinds us to realities.
It’s not “what you prefer”. It’s what you grew up seeing as an image of success in our society.
We got plenty of black love images. Love Jones, Love & Basketball, Friday!!! You like WHAT you like. Attraction ain't a CHOICE. These guys were hooking up with all dem white women NO MATTER WHAT. Those who chose to marry them well that was their choice, that don't mean they will be successful. Also, why in the hell did those brothers use qualifiers like "I love my sisters" etc. You know damn well what time they on they just being politically correct.
Yea bunch of white folks..
@@jman1562001 He's mentally conquered. A white spouse suggests weakness
They always have to say they love black women
Anyone can say that doesn't mean they're being truthful.
Blk women have moved on, so who cares what they say. Focus on God and be with who you want.
They love black woman thats why with white woman ...😂
@@Julie-sz3zimoved on where ????😂 your single mothers to every race of men by the majority you date. What have you moved onto. Y’all constantly bash bm on TikTok every week. Share videos of biracial woman denouncing bm😂stop coping and face reality. Y’all will remain the least desired for a while
This Panel was very dishonest in this interview 💯
Completely bias!
please explain why?
Black men fantasizing as usual.
Abso- Freakin- Lutely!!!!!!!!!!!
Only Psychologically Abused Beta Males Want to Publicly Slander Our Queens!
These players have made a pledge / taken an oath on who to spend their money with .Tiger woods could not even get a nanny to sign a pre - nup .So if these women go against every rule she was taught as a child to marry & bred outside her race.She will be compensated period .The court system will see to that .
weak black men in the comments lmao
And you just helped to prove their point
The only weak ones I see are the ones who agree with you; his daddy wasn’t home- kind of like your kids 😂
@@pdidyp How?
@@Simpaholics_Anonymous You know nothing about her. Your insult was impotent and puerile. Black women don't want over grown 3 year olds. They want men! 🙄
@@Simpaholics_Anonymous i don’t have kids sir
Date your own, marry your own
I’m coo… I h8bw frfr
Tell that to white men.
Does this news network take it’s topics from UA-cam and social media?
He's struggling to keep his show.
I'm from nigeria, and i can tell you this is becoming a problem. Our sisters are trying everything possible to be like black america women, and it's a shame
Nigerean men need to focus on their own prblems because China is owning them. Nigerea cannot talk. Focus in your continent gaining self respect.
I've always liked who treated me good. Being treated well has no race. I think people can have a preference as long as they don't degrade their own race in order to justify their preference. I've been treated bad by men of all races. I married a man that is German Black and Mexican. I didn't marry him for his race but because he loves me and treats me amazing.
This conversation is so played out. How many times and ways do most BM have to say they don’t like BW? Just go sir, GO! Didn’t they get their passports ✈️ or something? 🧐
Wow what classy reporting! 🤨
Why tf is fox talking about this
You know why…
Fox has always had an agenda
because theyre sick of ratchet bw too
Black men making better choices!
Speak for yourself. Plenty of blk men love blk women. Plenty of blk women who marry other races of men too. Making better choices has to do with God and characteristics not race. Don’t be an idiot all your life.
Nah.
I love my black women....
When did start caring about blk guys all of sudden 😂😂😂
Right! I thought they didn’t need black men
This segment, on this network, with these panelists should've never happened. Pointless.
I am originally from the Middle East and similar thing happens. First the black experience in Arab countries are historically similar if not worse than the US. However the way out form the historical/generational injustice is academia (engineering and above) or a high position in the military (officer and above). The main reason of them marrying white/Arab women is social status among their piers and reducing their offspring blackness to reduce racism and bullying.
This is the truth!
So sad. God created black people so God thinks blk skin is beautiful and equal to all other skin tones. I’m so happy to be black and I hope to have kids that look just like me.
katt keeps batting 1000
Let's keep it ALL THE WAY REAL OK? The 2 guys are capping they just saying that because they'll get shame for it
Love your own people and stick with your own people. Nobody is better than your black self we are the best on this planet.
Yes so true, every black majority city or country is such a beautiful place to visit, low crime, no trash and huge houses with intact families.
@@tophat8190 since you want to go there. The "others" are shooting missiles off at each other & stay at war. & are Putting hazards in the food, water, air & mind and hearts of the naive/needy. Promotes, Incest to keep wealth in the family. A white Penn State College sociology professor- recently said "migrants that identify as lgbtq- deserve to come to America (because they are oppressed) ---but not those that need to work, for a living to get "better living conditions".
The "others" withhold funding for our communities, but make sure theirs are in excess. Will throw away groceries/supplies/books/etc- before they sell it to you for a fair price.
Or- Say they, will handle your wrongful eviction case for free; yet in the end charge you. & not get you all the law- says you deserve, cause he wants you in your Black place..- etc . Cold part; I've seen "ideal non blacks" just as low class as you think we are.
So one could say- it's them contributing to xyz, too-----Right? But yea the "image" of doing/being- better is what matters?
TYPICAL...
Stop enforcing Jim Crow if BW wanted to be married they wouldn’t have a 78% single mother rate while less than 20% of black men are unwed fathers 🤷🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️
Tell BDub to stick to their own hair and not some Asian or Brazilian then we can talk.
Your people are the people who think as you do.... skin color doesn't mean someone is your people.
I am multiracial. My father is black and my mother is white. They were married in 1970 and stayed together until he died in 2022. They faced backlash for being an interracial couple. They were married only two years after the Supreme Court made it legal in all the United State to have interracial marriages. I do not understand why some black people try to impose social "Jim Crow" laws on others for their choice of who they date or marry. We all should worry about if we the best person we can be in a relationship rather than worrying about the quality of the partner of someone else. Especially when your first critique is the person's race.
As an Afro American woman I think this was a great leveled headed conversation. Even the ww was leveled seemingly unbiased & no bw was torn up, ripped, belittled, hurt, or denigrated having to come into defense mode😅 I would love to see us heal and be made whole but it takes all hands and not just the women who wants. But if a man of another race finds me and marries me i am unbiased. 🙂↔️🖤😌
White women play the long game lol 😂
Shout out to the white people that show love to white people. 😊
Based
This discussion is exclusive to blacks, mainly because of the insecurities of black women, no other race have these discussions
All other races raise hell when their sons marry out. Asien men can't even tell their parents they are marrying out as a joke.
Just get a woman that values herself doesn’t matter the race. The down to earth baby loving women are the best and they come in all ways shapes and forms
Delusional.
@@o13sweetboy okay ninja
@@4rubberzaday Race ALWAYS matters and it is ALWAYS a factor!
@@DrUmarJohnson1 Maybe getting away from your race will solve your problems then can’t make simple decisions as pack then might be time to branch out. Mixed kids have a lot better life for them than the poor kids
I think it's more about proximity. Most of these colleges or Universities are predominantly white. Most of the girls who are thrust in front of them on these college visits are white. For most of the Black athletes it's probably the first time their in an environment where their in the minority. So they have to assimilate to their environment. For most of them the "white girls" are something new and vice versa for the white girls. I think the issue is when some of them assimilate too much, and forget who they are and where they come from. Love who you want to love, just don't forget who you are and where you come from!! I'm sure this happens with Black women on college campuses, accept they aren't in the spotlight for people to critique who their dating or marrying. Simply put never sell your soul to fit into any group, love who you want to, but Just don't forget where you come from. And if your a Black Athlete who dates outside your race especially in America just remember your kids will be half Black and have to endure hardships because of the color of their skin in the country you help shape for them. Love is colorblind, but unfortunately the world and this country is not.
@RallyRally-sv6dz Your statement is ignorant. Being Pro Black comes with a Minda State and commitment to the community no matter who you date. The same way Clarence Thomas white wife has a commitment to White Supremacy despite being married to a Black man!! "All kinfolk ain't Skinfolk"!! Candace Owens, Tim Scott, Clarence Thomas, Stacey Dash etc.. Love is hard to find, just make sure that the person truly has your best interest at heart no matter the Color!! Just because someone dates outside of their race doesn't mean they can't be true to the community that has their and their children's best interest at heart!! Judge a person by the Content of their character, not by the color of their skin!!
Any excuse is better than none, I guess.
@@jamberry8026 There is no excuse, it's called real life!! It's the same reasoning why there are so many work relationships, you often find what's in close proximity. Between work, games and practice they have very little time to venture far beyond their campuses. Most go to schools out of state which is unfamiliar territory. We only see these dynamics because their Athletes in popular sports under a spotlight. These dynamics play out with other students who aren't playing sports under a microscope!!
@@jjscrilla3558 You ain't getting nothing but a throw away in the first place. Lie and tell us that white men are competing with you for that throw away "gettin' the bag" becky you got! Y'all got the nerve to be flexing about a throw away!!! 😂
They all get the same black man and they all get the bitter exes that want to take half. Let them love who they love y’all. Black love is dead anyway
Yet Brad is choppin' y'all up and spreading the pieces all over the country.
@@KtotheG- and we see what he's doing to you too.
@@djlivvy46 He's doing nothing to me... I'm chillin'.
@@KtotheG - you can play dumb if you want to.
@@djlivvy46 I'm sorry but Brad is not a supreme being to me...That is your perspective.. He rules over your life, not mine.
Never trust someone who talks faster than they can think
Ethnicity doesn't make a difference when it comes to Golddiggers
most unnecessary topic ever. who cares as long as they're not weird about it
They scared to say how they truly feel so they don’t get cancelled. Lol
The Professional player stated something important, "Fitting In" is a possible reason.
Respectfully; Using that logic, we can see why society is- the way it is, too. We "help" the others "think" they are better. If we- don't bring our own into the room/up with us--we are the problem. Notice how, the non blacks bring "who looks like them up & in the room/etc". Ours that "make it" don't. If, they did their own college course work/etc; something would click/awaken mentally within Self....
I’m going to say this, it really makes me mad when women see a man with money and want him to all of a sudden start paying for your nails and hair to get done. Wants him to take you to all these fancy restaurants. Someone such as myself would be GLAD to go to chipotle, or even chillis! Because it’s not about the place, for me it’s about me just spending time with you because I know you could have been out with any other girl. So let me just be greatful! I would never ask a man to pay for my hair and nails, I pay my stylist to do my hair, and I actually do my own nails and toes. He don’t need to come out of pocket for nothing! I got this!
Why do you care what other women want a man to pay for, though? Between the nail shop, the hair shop and the med spa I drop close to $1000/month....I don't give a damn how other women are living, tho.
@@RepentImmediately did you not just hear yourself what you spend on all of that a month? You sound triggered because I’m right. Why would you ask a man to start funding your life? We need to be humble and be thankful that we were even chosen to be by his side because these men have many options when it comes to women. There are more of us than there are of them anyways. And to me 1,000 a month is very extreme but hey to each their own. But I’m not asking a man to pay for that. Even when I’m married, I’m not asking. Now if he just offered maybe once or twice then ok, but I wouldn’t get used to that.
@@beautyoflifewithtalya5322- you're doing all this but you're still not married?
@@djlivvy46 does it matter? Even if I were married I wouldn’t be asking my husband to pay for any of it. Technically his money would be mine anyways and my money his. I’m just saying, too many women have all these unrealistic expectations for men. Do those things yourself and be humble about it. If he absolutely wants to pay for hair and nails to get done then ok, but don’t get comfortable. You work and make your own money, do for yourself.
Dont be mad at the woman be mad at the dudes whos picking them (dont hate the Player hate the Game)
Is she a millionaire matchmaker for the lottery winners? 🤔🤨😒🤦🏻♀️
Thinking 💬🤔 the same
Let’s not generalize. There are nice Black woman and nice White Woman . It’s a total myth that White Woman are nicer than Black Woman . Again stop generalizing .
And white women owned over 40% of slaves, that's how nice they are.
I like women of all races I don’t care about race just looking for a person that’s going to do me right and who is going to like me for me
Someone said it's mainly baby boomers and gen x who take issue with interracial dating and I agree. Older people oppose interracial dating much more than millennials and gen z. For exemple Dr Umar Johnson is gen x and he staunchly opposes interracial dating.
WHY IS THIS NEWS??????
Cause they can’t find nothing else
1:45 First guy talking is true!! If you want to go somewhere, you better date a woman who knows how to behave, because that's who will ensure you have peace on your way to making it.
Lets observe something here:
Not one of these black men felt safe enough to be completely honest. They were more concerned about being politically correct out of fear.
That says sooo much about our culture and how us as men feel.
This is not even just an athlete thing, this is just a culture. And i think the interracial marriage stats reflect this. More black men are married than black women, due to this.
You can take certain other women out for a hike or something and it not be an issue while for many black women they feel its half ass and not good enough for them, while at the same time giving you little care or concern.
Want the world for little effort.
Just choose your Becky and stop making excuses and comparisons!!! JUST CHOOSE YOUR BECKY nothing else is needed!!!
@@choconethotcoco4717 ok
Oh gosh. That's like me saying I can't take Tyrone, Jamal, or Damir to the annual company picnic because they'll embarrass me with their broken English. Or the way they reek of marijuana smoke. Or the stints they did in prison. Or their multiple baby mothers. Or outstanding warrants. Or their incessant chatter of how the white man is keeping them from um....getting their degrees, purchasing a home, obtaining AND maintaining a career with a semi decent salary, taking care of said kids (see above) and a plethora of additional reasons why they cant/won't/doesn't measure up.
Hiking? That's what you have to contend with?
🤡
BDub first to complain, last to compete!
They mommas taught them how to treat good dudes not millionaires
Because snow bunnies > hair-hats.
My game is so weak I cant be choosy. The first woman that give me the time of day we’re moving in together, even if she’s in a wheelchair. Shout out to y’all brothers that has the pick of the litter.
You selling yourself short. You have every right to be choosey. Right now you are willing to settle and that is a big mistake. One reasons many marriage fail is because that significant other wasn't they real choice..they settled and regret it
Watch out, I hope some of these athletes realize that they are indeed being targeted.
they don't need no man so what's the problem. we are doing what they want leaving them alone. I'm confused someone help me understand this twilight zone crap.
😂😂 Plz continue to marry WW, Ive never seen bw accomplishing the dreams finding their purpose and healing as must as i do now. 🎉 I have 15 female cousins between the ages of 15-42 none are Baby momma all have homes are in nice apt. 4 of the bought a house together and living their best life with a dog thats livng better than me. Not a one of them are married and only 3 of them have a boyfriend. ❤
Y’all r obessed wit blk guys
Its amazing how much white sumprecist has accomplished in the last 20 years.
With all this wealth BW are acquiring, as you point out, tell m
e who gets their wealth when they pass away??? Sure cant leave it to the dog. No legacy to pass so state or county transfers that asset you built to the next deserving white person.
I dont know when our people has becane this selfish
Black rappers also prefer white women...look at Kanye,Jeezy,drake,ect..
Most of Drake’s dating history is black
Jeezy ex wife is Asian
Kanye’s ex fiance is black
@@TINKERB121
It's odd the examples of "men" you chose to praise; are colorists. It's in their lyrics/actions. Even the Mexican rappers -say they looking for a "light skin" chick. & none of the women in his videos, are darker than a paper bag. Yet, he stays in Black business/culture, with black men around him.
we speaking on everybody- rather rich or Po. It's an Agenda to make the Black Woman, feel as if she is nothing compared to the others. Meanwhile- when Black men "make it" they tell the non black woman- to act/look like a Black woman & be a Coretta Scott like wife.
Cold part- the wake up call is brutal to the Black Man, that burdens the black woman with lies/trouble, for the others acceptance. They see they can't break the Black Woman- so they go through the men- that think with his worm & want of material things...
I'm praying for our community. We've been programmed/trained/self taught to hate each other. It's getting better one day at a time!
Kim Kardashian 💀💀💀💀@@TINKERB121
Nobody takes rappers seriously
When that athlete’s career ends, these women divorce him. Pro athletes have a higher divorce rate than people at large.
Who cares...noooooone wants to come home to a headache
I agree 100 percent
People are people, you seem to think that somehow the color of someones skin changes the human condition!! Even more you seem to think a women somehow is different based off of race. All people have problems, that's why divorce rates are so high across the board.
@@jjscrilla3558 you have a very interesting take. anyhow..most people don't care either way. no wants to deal with a : ' You know me you owe me' personality
@@wellthatgotweird who doesn't want money?? Wh*res are universal and so are problems!! That's the part Passport Bro's don't understand. Cultures may be different, but the human condition remains the same!!
Why do you feel you have to justify your choices! Choose who you choose but you feel you have to justify your choice by putting down women who look like you.
Back in tha Hay, When PAWG call the house, the caller ID reads their Father's name, when BBG call the house, the ID reads the girls name
ya'll know they have "handlers". required to . like a pet and owner.
aren't they traded, bought and sold if they don't work? how is this any different than slav3ry
Will she love you or want you if you end up in a wheelchair? ive seen some veterans in wheelchairs. A lot of it is based on performance.
athletes like women that like them on the way to the finish line, not the women waiting at the finish line
De lu lu 🙄
@@jamberry8026😂😂😂fool. Those white women prey on them because they KNOW money is coming. Any lie to make a black man feel desirable in the eyes of white people. Shameful. Carry on.
Have you ever dated a professional athlete? I have. They like light skin, generally speaking.
@@RepentImmediately Humans are so weird... that must make one feel so special for being the " right " color huh? If light skin and white women were so ethereal and top tier... why are they changing through so many of you? Why can't one white woman and the first light skin be the solution to all the suffering and desires in their lives? Why do athletes claim dark women are this and that simply for being darker... yet some of these lighter women they date are extremely immodest, IG " models " sharing bodies with the world, using them for money, trips, fake body parts... lack self respect, etc.. you're not special because you're lighter than anyone. Skin color does not determine character and compatibility. Some black men are just puzzling and shameless...You disparage the women god made to look just as brown as you are and convince yourselves that they deserve to be dehumanized for looking as they do just like your oppressors in the past and present. Carry on with your nonsense.
Sidenote. I knew I recognized his voice but I didn’t quite recognize the face of this gentleman.
The host went viral 15 years. Must watch!!!
Yes he took his hard moment and turned it into this I love watching 😂😂
@@ShutYoMoufWideOpen my kids grew up, laughing at that video… absolute classic!!
And they offered absolutely nothing to the conversation. I love my black women, it’s a preference, every race of women do it, it’s not really like that…but to each is on. The rest is fluff. All surface level, towing the line, politically correct stuff said. 🤷🏾♂️😂
Do black athletes prefer to white women over black women?...
Prefer to???
Kudos to the brotha in the blue jacket, me personally I don't know what its like to talk to a white women, because I don't talk to them at all, but like the brotha in the blue jacket, I love my black women.
Nobody Want a Drama Queen.
And who’s the drama queens? Because the non black women i k ow are full of drama as well.
@livelaughlove1259 true all women bring bs but some not all black women are a bit worse and radioactive.
Black doesn't equal drama.
@@livelaughlove1259 If the Shoe Fits?
@@shauneenicole2535 If the Shoe Fits?
Black women are so demure,so likable,raise excellent children, grow long flowing hair and have wonderful attitudes. I just can not wonder why black men would not want to be with them.
Why do y’all think that the choice is only between Black and White women?
Because you see it most of the time.
Anything else is just ethnicity which isn’t the topic at hand. Lol
@@citizencoy4393 There’s more than Black and White people on this planet PERIOD lol
All races date their own or then white. Literally all races' 2nd most married group is white.
They're the majority and what is pushed as prestigious
@@okene First white people are NOT the majority of people on this planet. Second I have AND will continue to date ALL KINDS of women not just white or black.
You Americans pay attention to almost really irrelevant things.
Good grief who cares. People need to get a life.
Their daddy loaded but I love my black women.😂
Which in term is your slave master.
The WW think long term. Simple as that.
The ones y'all get are throw aways that white men don't want. When have you ever seen a white man competing for the white woman you got? N E V E R!!!!!
😂 Wow so a skin color thinks long term. Wow! So what about black, Asian, Latino, and Indian women? I guess we all dont think long term? Your comment is as ignorant as you are. Seek God
They are just making excuses, no good Black woman would just use a Black man to get her hair and nails done. Any woman could be a user. Thats a huge excuse. There are sooo many good black women who are rejected just because they are Black. People can love who they love but Dont bring down Black Women. YOUR OWN RACE!!!
black women in the comments triggered
Would you be triggered if they had a panel with all blk women and asked them why they only date white male athletes? Then they went on to tell the world how blk men are in prison and create broken homes etc… would you like that? Seek God and cut out all the stereotypes. If you have a problem with someone of a specific race then get out more and find someone who doesn’t fit that narrative.
I really hope trump puts more bm in the system when he becomes president 😂😂
they are alot more generous & giving in relationships. Blk women can't wait to take & when men see a woman spending, that's a turn on
Yea cause a lot of time its like a new experience like wow
Ask any white man that who has been divorced from a white woman. People are people no matter the race!!
😂😂 Lou Williams said it the best, retirement for athletes means divorce, unless you are an elite athlete
In my experience, black men are extremely reckless with their dicks. I stopped dating black men more than a decade ago. I'm mixed with long hair so, I still get hit on by black men all the time, of course.
Seek God. A lot of negative things can be said about blk men but I won’t go there. Just look at the stats in America. Your comment proves what you are.