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  • @songyang5185
    @songyang5185 5 місяців тому +1

    Niam hlob niam you lub neej yeej tsis vam meej li os cov me nyuam yeej tsis sib hlub li txiv hlub tus niam twg ces txiv yeej hlub tus niam ntaw cov me nyuam tshaj li xuam coob txiv yeejhlub niam you cov me nyuam heev dua niam loj cov nawb cov niam yau yeej muaj ib lub siab phem heev li yeej tsis pub tus txiv hlub thiab pab niam loj cov me nyuam es thaum tuag thiaj li tsis sib haum vim txiv twb tsis hlub niam loj cov me nyuam es thiaj li muaj teeb meem nej cov ua muaj ib leeg niam ib leeg txiv ces nej yeej tsis Paub hais tias tus siab npau li cas os peb cov ua yog niam loj yug Mas thiaj li txawj tu siab tshaj plaws li os peb yeej pom ntawm peb lub qov muag hais tias txiv hlub tus niam yau thiab niam yau cov me nyuam xwb Mas thiaj li zoo hos yog txiv hlub niam loj cov me nyuam ces niam yau yeej nrhiav teeb meem xwb tu siab heev li os niam loj cov me nyuam ces yeej tsis tau leej txiv txoj me kev hlub li nyias peem nyias tus kheej xwb os hos txiv ces yeej txhawb niam yau cov me nyuam xwb tu siab kawg li os lawv

  • @user-su2rc6tx8j
    @user-su2rc6tx8j 5 місяців тому +16

    Nej ua ntees loj npaum li ko es nej puas ciaj huab tais na los txhob ruam ruam na los

    • @yerlor8328
      @yerlor8328 5 місяців тому

      Ciaj mas tab tom ciaj no ne. Hmoob muaj niam loj niam me ces yeej muaj txhua txhua tus li os

    • @ThePrincessWorrior
      @ThePrincessWorrior 5 місяців тому

      Cia las mas, ciaj mi nyuam niam yau na 😂

    • @yl7495
      @yl7495 5 місяців тому

      Lawv ciaj huab tais ciaj nom ciaj tsw tag tug li tsuas yog peb tsis paub txog xwb os. Lawv los lawv kuj tsis kam qhia ntiajteb paub li thiab.

  • @DisBoiVaj
    @DisBoiVaj 5 місяців тому +9

    This guy says he’s educated but super gullible and cannot do anything to protect his mom or himself.

    • @youwatchme3631
      @youwatchme3631 5 місяців тому

      If you wear his shoes 👞 👟 you'll understand.

    • @N.Ly00
      @N.Ly00 5 місяців тому +2

      I know. I got so mad at him when his half-brother hit his mom, and he just stood there doing nothing.

    • @N.Ly00
      @N.Ly00 5 місяців тому +2

      ​@@youwatchme3631If I were in his shoes, I would not stand there and let my half-brother hit my mom.

    • @MissYing80
      @MissYing80 5 місяців тому

      Agree!

  • @ItsYou2
    @ItsYou2 5 місяців тому +16

    Funeral now days are just for show. Back in the old days before Hmong came to US funeral was easy. 1 pig or 1 cow is ok but these Kwvtij wants to show off and ask family to come up with 60 to 80k.

    • @pangfang6301
      @pangfang6301 5 місяців тому +2

      Yes so true kwv tij got the advantage to use all your money

    • @hlixyooj8179
      @hlixyooj8179 5 місяців тому +3

      Or they know the family will get life insurance money, so they ask for money to spend on who knows what expenses, and then the receipts suddenly disappear.

    • @nailsbymemk2656
      @nailsbymemk2656 5 місяців тому +2

      100% agreed...

    • @c.lee-soulisak327
      @c.lee-soulisak327 5 місяців тому +1

      That's bc the men relatives get to dictate what to do. It's them that spend the money frivolously. Everyone of us need to put our foot down and say enough is enough of these 100k funerals. It's ridiculous!

    • @Leea209
      @Leea209 5 місяців тому +1

      The secret is.. They are jealous of life insurance money and wants you to be poor so that’s why they want you to spend all your money and be in debt so makes them happy. Just sad. 😞

  • @lisadarling5126
    @lisadarling5126 5 місяців тому +41

    In this time Era, we gotta stop pleasing people who don't even give a f about you. You dont need people's approval to live a good life. It's better to live no contact instead of just taking the abuse.

    • @yerthor4207
      @yerthor4207 5 місяців тому +4

      Yog lawm os tab si tu txiv neeb siab phem li Koj tu niam no ce nw yeej yuav tau ri nw lub txim Ua nw muab Koj niam kaw Lwm hnub txog nw ce yeej yuav paub Xwb ma lo

    • @c.lee-soulisak327
      @c.lee-soulisak327 5 місяців тому +4

      AMEN!!! I just had a discussion with my OG mother..who kept saying what are people going to say when they hear about what we were discussing? I said, "Who cares what other people think and say. They don't pay my bills, feed me and my children, clothed us or out a roof over our heads. I do all that so I will do what I darn well want." She didn't like my response.

    • @suevue4045
      @suevue4045 5 місяців тому +2

      I totally agree. We don’t need to pleased others.

  • @Mloogzoo
    @Mloogzoo 5 місяців тому +8

    It sounds like your dad never loved niam hlob and her kids. You were the special one.

  • @nkaujmoobleeg
    @nkaujmoobleeg 5 місяців тому +1

    Your mom should not have gone to your niam loj to help her when she got covid.

  • @Lifemoments54
    @Lifemoments54 5 місяців тому +8

    Family drama like this is the result and teaching of both mothers. They hold grudges and hatred towards one another and brainwashed their children to hate on each other all because of one man. As children, we all should not take side but keep peace.

  • @Leea209
    @Leea209 5 місяців тому

    Wow! Is sad how people still spent so much money on funeral. It doesn’t make sense at all. Why not celebrate the person when they are living and can enjoy the party? The 24hrs celebration of life is honestly for the people to enjoy each other’s company. Should have gone to church. Less stressful and saves money, and time. The best thing about church is that everyone helps you with love no payment required. God love is free.

  • @nalaher3022
    @nalaher3022 5 місяців тому +1

    Oh my gosh, this family keeps listening to the very people who don't give a hoot about them. I guess some people just need more lessons before they learn. When you put yourself through situations like this, it's hard to give you sympathy.

  • @nalaher3022
    @nalaher3022 5 місяців тому

    Aw hmoob cov kevcai qub mas them tiag2. In life, they punish you and follow you into the afterlife to punish you still.

  • @pajthao4813
    @pajthao4813 5 місяців тому

    Vim tib qho yus muaj tsev zoo dua lawv xablais los tsis ua cas yus yeej zoo dua lawv thiaj khib2

  • @Louni125
    @Louni125 5 місяців тому

    The stress people put on themselves for having religions. Just believe in yourselves and worship your parents instead of make believe gods and imaginary afterlives. We would all save so much money and stress.

  • @chouyang2955
    @chouyang2955 5 місяців тому

    Hmoob lam hais tias ua li poj ua tseg yawm ua cia. Tsis yog mog . Yog poj thiab yawm paub mas tseem tub qaug lawv. Lam muab lub npe pov rau lawv tabsis yog yus ua li yus ua Kom tau ntsejmuag xwb os.. yog peb muaj ib tug neeg kawm tiav los es peb ua loj npaum pam tuag ntshe yuav zoo thiab muaj nuj qes heev nawb.

  • @madamtokyo1
    @madamtokyo1 5 місяців тому

    Funeral nowadays are ridiculous. People dont come to pay respect anymore. Its more like to kick it and drink alll day and night but call it tradition. Its not like how it use to be. Its all about bragging status spending 100k to go broke. Some relatives or the so call leader or pathan will have a family go broke to say " this funeral is the best" they benefit from the drinking and creepy with poj nrauj.

  • @gaosayvu6554
    @gaosayvu6554 5 місяців тому

    Niam hlob niam yau ces yeeb ncuab xwb mas, cov txiv neej ntshaw2 ntau tus thiab ntshaw2 tub ki coob tab sis lawv yuam kev loj kawg

  • @pkcyang2910
    @pkcyang2910 5 місяців тому +2

    Lub neej muaj niam loj niam yau ces yeej tsis sib haum li os. Cia koj txiv ua tau qauv rau nej hlub nej cov pojniam txhob siab phem li koj txiv. Tej teeb meem no ces tsim los ntawm koj txiv xwb. I don't blame no one but your father for marrying a 2nd wife. All these drama was created by your father alone. No niam loj (first wife) will ever be happy. If you want to test it out, marry a 2nd wife and see how your wife and children feel about it.

  • @jasmineflower7115
    @jasmineflower7115 5 місяців тому +10

    Thank god we were able to do my mom funeral for under $15K only. She goes to church so we kept it very simple. Plus she left words that she forbid us to spend too much on her funeral.
    These Hmong funeral are crazy expensive, too much money wasted for show.

    • @isarili747
      @isarili747 5 місяців тому +1

      Agree

    • @isarili747
      @isarili747 5 місяців тому +1

      When my husband passed away I only spent 14,000 for his funeral, everything including just at least 20,000 expensive.

    • @yl7495
      @yl7495 5 місяців тому

      How did you keep it under $15k? I genuinely want to know because everything costs so much now.

    • @jasmineflower7115
      @jasmineflower7115 5 місяців тому

      @@yl7495 she passed in 2015, when everything was still affordable I guess 🤷🏻‍♀️ if I remember correctly the burial and funeral service was under $10K ( only 1 1/2 days service) The rest was spent on food/drinks and supplies. The only thing that came from our pocket was the flowers. Even her gravestone was paid from the all sunshine money.

    • @yl7495
      @yl7495 5 місяців тому

      @@jasmineflower7115 My mom passed in 2013. We did it fast, but it still came out to $25k. My dad passed in 2007 and everything cost $40k because we ate for 3 weeks at home before the funeral.

  • @kevinlee2791
    @kevinlee2791 5 місяців тому

    niam ntsuab teev, kuv hnov koj hais ib zaj lus txog ntawm tus txiv tsev paub saib looj mem, kuv xav kom koj pab hais cov lus no rau nws. koj kom nws txhob coj peb hmoob tus cwj pwm qub qub. muaj zoo txuj los yuav zais tseg thiab yuav coj nrog yus mus sab nrub yeeb. kom nws pauv tus cwj pwm ntawv. yeej meem qhia rau yus tsev hmoob. kom peb zoo ib yam lwm haiv neeg thiab. tus twg muaj twb zoo tsuav yog yus tsev neeg xwb. tsam lwm tiam koj rov los ces yus ho los poob rau tsev neeg poob qab vim yus ntshai tsam yus tsev hmoob ho zoo li luag lwm haiv neeg thiab. thov koj pab thov nws kom nws yeej meem nthuav nws cov txuj pub rau peb haiv hmoob tiag os nawb

  • @julieanjel
    @julieanjel 5 місяців тому +5

    Good suggestion, but I don't think funeral expenses are up to the family. Funeral expenses are up to the heads of the clan family, and they don't want to loss face so they always have you go big. Cov coj thiab paub kev cai dab quas, so if you don't go along, you can't do the funeral by yourself. It is sad that cov coj tsis txawj xav, lwv xav kom lawv tau ntsej muag xwb.
    Another thing, what happened to all the talk about making the funeral smaller/less expensive?? All I see now is it got way more out of hands.. cutting back on the cows but adding the cost of decorations. The cost of decorations is way way more than killing 10 cows.. 😢😢

    • @judyvang9089
      @judyvang9089 5 місяців тому

      All those decorations are not mandatory or necessary. Some people just want to show off. Funerals are more lavish then weddings nowadays for some people. I don’t get it.🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @Leea209
      @Leea209 5 місяців тому

      And the liquors are expensive too.

  • @caaspasvang7427
    @caaspasvang7427 5 місяців тому

    Wow me tub cas nej tsev neeg ko yuav phem ua luaj os los xyov nej lam make xwb ….. tu siab kawg

  • @c.lee-soulisak327
    @c.lee-soulisak327 5 місяців тому +2

    Funerals should only be half or one day. It's an exhausting ordeal for the grieving family to endure..people coming over to the house on the weekends leading up to the funeral and then 3 long days of the funeral. Having to host and cater to a whole bunch of people.
    I'm doing half a day bc I am thinking of the cost to my husband and children. And the emotional and mental distress.

    • @yl7495
      @yl7495 5 місяців тому +1

      Make sure you make your wishes known to your neejtsa. Your neejtsa will be the ones to raise objections to your husband and children.

  • @chongly8351
    @chongly8351 5 місяців тому

    Yeej tsis tsim nyog ua ntees loj npaum hmoob ua lawm.

  • @cellanthao7682
    @cellanthao7682 5 місяців тому

    Nej cov hmoob coj kev cai dab qhuas thj nkim nyiaj txog 100 txhiab xb os peb cov ntseeg noj luam lug tsuas tas 50 lo 60 phav xb os qhov 100 txhiab ces pluag tsab muaj xb os

  • @hlubforlife
    @hlubforlife 5 місяців тому +13

    100K+ for a funeral is CRAZY!!!

    • @jqhuahawj3272
      @jqhuahawj3272 5 місяців тому

      All in the name of having “face” only

  • @mithao1730
    @mithao1730 5 місяців тому +1

    Kuv los yj ts nyiam niam yau

  • @nkaujhnubnravaaj2233
    @nkaujhnubnravaaj2233 5 місяців тому

    Cas koj niam tsis los cab koj tus niam tij poj saub ntawv ma ua ib tug niam neeb yog siab phem li ntawv ntuj yuav cia nws vwm tag ib sim neej.

  • @nkaujhmoobsiabdawbchannel9852
    @nkaujhmoobsiabdawbchannel9852 4 місяці тому

    Tim niam loj tsi txawj coj me nyuam thhiAj txawj sib hlub txawm niam loj niam yaus los ob leeg txawj sib hlub ho

  • @SV-ii6fy
    @SV-ii6fy 5 місяців тому

    Why would you allow your mom to go take care of someone who already has covid? 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @lovetoplaywithyou3530
    @lovetoplaywithyou3530 5 місяців тому +12

    If your mom was force to marry your dad why didn’t she want to go to church?

    • @pkcyang2910
      @pkcyang2910 5 місяців тому

      I agree

    • @ThePrincessWorrior
      @ThePrincessWorrior 5 місяців тому +1

      No body can be forced, if one is not agree to.

    • @tswvlor9877
      @tswvlor9877 5 місяців тому

      He already explained.

    • @amazinggrace8136
      @amazinggrace8136 5 місяців тому +2

      Going to church to save money on funeral cost and bc your family have disowned you is the wrong reason to be attending church anyways.

    • @tswvlor9877
      @tswvlor9877 5 місяців тому

      Vim yog cov coj dab coj qhua yog cov tsis lub tshe vim tshem lawm ces lawv tsis tseem ceeb lawm. Kuv muaj kiag ib co Kwv tij uas coj dab coj qhua los lub hais ncaj qha tias tsis yog txhaum dab tab sis yog txhaum tus coj ntawv xwb. Yog vim li es tam sis no thiaj Yaj tej koom haum ib koom haum no los txo Hmoob tej kev cai dab qhuas no kom sawv daws muaj choice/options es txhob rau cov coj dab no insult lawm.

  • @user-jq1fl2zg2b
    @user-jq1fl2zg2b 5 місяців тому +2

    Tus me tub kv yog kj niam yus los ua niam yau xwb lawv txawm tuag mus lawm los pem ntuj lawv tseem yog txij nkawm es yus yeej tsis muaj tug yog kv ces kv yeej yuav tsum ntseeg vaj tswv lawm

  • @user-gq3zd3lu2d
    @user-gq3zd3lu2d 5 місяців тому +1

    ❤❤

  • @nkaujmoobleeg
    @nkaujmoobleeg 5 місяців тому

    Wow! Ua neeb leej ua luaj! Koj niag tij ntawm mas ntshai tseem yuav haj yam yuav npam thiab laus.

  • @fulovelyly9161
    @fulovelyly9161 5 місяців тому

    That title should called :: Niam Loj Niam Me or Niam Hlob Niam Yau”

  • @colleenchan9872
    @colleenchan9872 5 місяців тому

    Yog kawg hmoob muab tsab muaj dhau ua ib lub ntees tag tsheej pua pua txhiab nyiaj OMG tsab muaj thiab ntshaw ntsej muag dhau li os!! I pray that tag peb cov niam thiab txiv 75 mind setting no thov muab lawb lau! Pam ib tug neeg tag es pluag tag vim yus tsis kam ua los kwvtij yuav need ntseg muag lawv yuam kom ua yus tsis kam ua ces lawv yog cov yuav ua dab qhuas ces lawv tsis kam pab thiab mas mob hlwb dhau li os!

  • @kahvang3522
    @kahvang3522 5 місяців тому +4

    This Hmong funeral had always been costly, unaffordable but no one seem to care about changing the practice. People should stop complaining about how costly the funeral of their loved ones when they willing to pay the price just to save their own face😂

  • @sunnygirl973
    @sunnygirl973 5 місяців тому +2

    Nej hmoob mes kas nej muab ntees tuag ua luam thuam d'autres lawm. Tsis tau pom dua lis 10400$! Pluag tuag lis os. Ua cuag lis tus tuag yuav sawv los qhua nej os.

  • @mthoj
    @mthoj 4 місяці тому

    There is always 2 story!

  • @stephaniecooper7371
    @stephaniecooper7371 5 місяців тому

    Cad zaj no yuav tsis txaus ntses li o

  • @fongyang6564
    @fongyang6564 5 місяців тому +1

    Hmong lub neej muab ua rov quav lawm os kwv tij tej zaum tsis ntev xyoo tom ntej no tej kev cai no yuav ploj zuj zus mus qhov yooj yim yuav tawm tuaj vim hais tias hmong plog tuag tag lawm tshuav hmong America lawm xwb ces yuav work ok lawm

  • @kaciewanh1986
    @kaciewanh1986 5 місяців тому

    Bro., thas tuag, nej yog tus tshwm nyiaj, nej control cov nyiaj, txhob khav, txhob ua li luag hais. Niaj hnub no coob tus hais kiag tias peb ua txij no xwb yog tshaj ces nej coj mus ua li nej hais. Puas muaj leejtwg lees tias nej tsis ua kuv mam coj mus ua loj2 no? No body!!! Tim peb Hmoob tsab muaj ua loj xwb.

  • @triaxiong5619
    @triaxiong5619 4 місяці тому

    Sorry but these stories are unbelievable with all the dreams.

  • @nengthao8318
    @nengthao8318 5 місяців тому

    Mloog mas nej yim hmoob ko nyias yeej phem txaus nkaus nyias ris kawg li lawm. Koj tus tij laug tuag los vim nws yeej phem txaus nws ris lawm thiab. Tiag ces tim niam loj thiab koj niam nkawd tsis txawj coj, nyias txw nyias cov me nyuam rau txoj kev sib khib kom tej me nyuam tsis txawj sib fwm xwb. Qhov zoo ces cov phem twb tuag tas lawm. Nej tsis txawj sib hlub ces nyias nyob nyias twj ywm txhob sib khiav li lawm zoo dua.

  • @souavang5978
    @souavang5978 5 місяців тому

    You may try to make your side sound innocent. But in order for all your half siblings to dislike you, you are not so innocent yourself. This is what's wrong with all these stories. It's all one-sided

  • @marylorxiong9924
    @marylorxiong9924 5 місяців тому +1

    txhob tu siab tas tas thiab yus niam yog niam yau ces li cas los yus yeej tau ntau dua kev hlub kev tshua yus ib leeg yog tus tau tsis hais los yeej paub zoo!!!

  • @stephaniecooper7371
    @stephaniecooper7371 5 місяців тому

    Tim koj niam xwb es koj txiv thiaj tsis hlub niam loj thiab cov tij laug hlob. Koj ces zoo li koj niam ntag mad

  • @Shoua608
    @Shoua608 5 місяців тому +1

    Lesson from your parents” life: don’t have niam hlob niam yau like your father or you’ll create the same problems for your children, like your dad did for you and your half brothers.

  • @shengxiong6814
    @shengxiong6814 5 місяців тому +1

    Peb mam li pauv li peb pauv tau nawb Ua tsaug os ❤

  • @myprecious6751
    @myprecious6751 5 місяців тому +1

    WTF, you don't show while still alive, but once dead, you're spending so much money for a funeral. Those half siblings do not care about you. They hate you and are jealous and envious of you. They only seek to bring you down and destroy your life. Stop trusting them and stop believing in them above all else. STOP HELPING THEM. Do not waste your time, efforts, and finances on them. Instead, concentrate on your wife and kid's and those that help and support and love you wholeheartedly.

  • @diaxiong3361
    @diaxiong3361 5 місяців тому

    Koj niam yeej tau los txeeb nej niam loj tus txiv lawm tiag ne lov nov yog lub pob chim koj txiv tus niam loj vim koj niam yog niam yau xwb qhov koj niam tsis tau koj niam niag hluas nraug ntawv nws yog koj niam teeb meem xwb

  • @yl7495
    @yl7495 5 місяців тому +1

    To this guy in the story, you and your mother are not as innocent as you make yourselves seem.

  • @williyummy
    @williyummy 5 місяців тому

    These people too soft, gotta learn to watch them 💀💀 and drink some wine

  • @kaitelecome396
    @kaitelecome396 5 місяців тому

    Cov niag hmoob coj kev cai qub mas cia cov laus ua tus coj mas tsab tsab muaj npav kaus khuj noj khuj haus thaum lub sib hawm muaj tus tuag mas khoo tej me nyuam ua loj loj kom lawv pluag kiag phem tiag hmoob coj dab

    • @yl7495
      @yl7495 5 місяців тому

      Koj hais lus koj tsis yog lus hais lawm os.

  • @mouavang3371
    @mouavang3371 5 місяців тому

    I totally agree with you on that brother. Hais txog txoj kev pam tuag.

  • @nkaujpagxiong8335
    @nkaujpagxiong8335 5 місяців тому

    Hmong America tsis yog pam tuag nej pam ciaj xwb. Spending on funerals that even the entrepreneur Billion aire only spend 15 k for their funeral.

    • @yl7495
      @yl7495 5 місяців тому

      Hmoob ntse dua Meskas lawm na. Hmoob lub neej ces tsuas nyob tos koob hmoov los ntawm tus tuag es thaum tseem tha tha xwb. Hos lwm haiv neeg mas lawv tsis npaj txais koob hmoov ntawm tus tuag li ov. Lawv tsuas paub tias koob hmoov ces nyob ntawm yus lub zog lub tswvyim thiab lub dag zog khwv.

  • @maivpaxiongandjulie9721
    @maivpaxiongandjulie9721 5 місяців тому

    Zaj dab neeg no Hai tau tu siab tshaj plwg li 😂😂😂😂

  • @zoolikuv
    @zoolikuv 5 місяців тому

    This man is wise, but someone thawj coj don't feel as such. I hate the way we do funerals nowadays.

  • @nouyang3166
    @nouyang3166 5 місяців тому +1

    Funeral expenses are up to the family of deceased, don't listen to other people bc at the end of the day, you're the one broke. Hmong just like to save face, but it's OK, if they want to bs you bc you did a small service oh well. Let them talk

  • @tiachang-sn5ic
    @tiachang-sn5ic 5 місяців тому +1

    It ur mom fault to be niam yau
    Move on stay away

  • @chuvang5487
    @chuvang5487 5 місяців тому

    koj twb haistias koj niam coj nej mus church lawm no cas koj tshuab qeej rau koj niam thiab tseem yuav ua ntees rau koj niam thiab ntshe nej vwm lawm. Ua neeg nyob yuav ntse txawm ntse kiag, yuav ruam txawm ruam kiag, zoo li koj yus yog noob ruam tab sis tseem xav mus kawm kev cai dab qhuas kom luag tej xav tias yus yog neeg ntse ntshe noj tsis tas.

  • @YuYu-xl1tx
    @YuYu-xl1tx 5 місяців тому

    Muaj tseeb os niam hlob niam yaub nas mis nyuam loom niam sib hlub tshaj mis nyuam loom txiv nawb

  • @huntermoua4536
    @huntermoua4536 5 місяців тому

    Hey brother your family doesn't love why u keep love them

  • @user-ig2jr2pv3s
    @user-ig2jr2pv3s 5 місяців тому

    yuav sib hlub hlub thaum tseem muaj txoj sia nyob xwb thaum puv 120 xyoo lawm ces kwv pov tseg xwb los tau teb chaws yuav hais los xij luaj twb cev g tau ib plug rau yus noj g k k na

  • @lusntiajteb
    @lusntiajteb 5 місяців тому

    Hmoob meska ruam tsab ntse khav theeb muaj nyiaj ce niam txiv tuag tub ki lub neej thiaj li pluag vim hu dab dhau noj loj ntau npaum li ca lo yeej tsis txaus yog vim li ca thaum tseem ciaj ho tsis muab 100 txhiab pub rau niam txiv thaum tuag nim ho ua rau luag tuaj noj. Vim hmoob ruam ntshaw tau ntsej muag ce kawg pluag xwb twb tsis muaj ib tug nom meska khoo nej txoj niag cai quav dev no kom tub ki pluag rau kev quaj ntsuag vim yim muaj ma yim khav cia nyuam qhuav ntxim kom pluag thov hloov thiab lauj yog hmoob tsis ntev no ce nyuj npua qaib nyob meska yuav tuag tu noob tim hmoob ntag

  • @maivpaxiongandjulie9721
    @maivpaxiongandjulie9721 5 місяців тому

    Koj Hai yog tshaj plwg li o mi tub

  • @khamyang5128
    @khamyang5128 5 місяців тому

    Master's degree but no common sense.

  • @kaitelecome396
    @kaitelecome396 5 місяців тому

    Niam loj cov me nyuam khib khib koj lub neeg xwb thiaj ua phem rau koj thiab koj niam neb koj tus tij laug ntaus koj niam yog kev npam ntav

  • @vaya2267
    @vaya2267 5 місяців тому

    Hais nraug tus nkwv no. Yog vim nej cov assurense 2 vig es nej cov hmoob meskas thiaj li ua nej lub ntees thiaj li lo. Yuav txhuam ua li koj Los lus ntawm koj zaj dab neej Los lus koj xaus.. 😢😢😅

  • @user-vu2xd1fi3u
    @user-vu2xd1fi3u 5 місяців тому +1

    Ok now can we hear the other side of the story so we can see who is right and wrong 😂😂😂😂

  • @xyoojmeelauj7355
    @xyoojmeelauj7355 5 місяців тому

    Niam loj twb tau mob lawm es.. niam loj hu tuaj cem xwb los tseem mus zov niam loj kom tau mob thiab

  • @vwjanonomous
    @vwjanonomous 5 місяців тому

    Drama in life drama after life. Ya need therapy and live humble

  • @nkaujmoobleeg
    @nkaujmoobleeg 5 місяців тому

    Yes, agreed! The closest ones to you are the most jealous ones of you!

  • @user-vq6lt8bu7i
    @user-vq6lt8bu7i 5 місяців тому

    Thov muam phauj nyob hauv txhua xeem foom txhob pub txiv yeej yuav niam loj niam yau ntxiv lawm

  • @yl7495
    @yl7495 5 місяців тому

    Koj niam los yeej phem txaus nkaus rau niam loj lawm thiab

  • @HahaTimeOut
    @HahaTimeOut 5 місяців тому

    Hahaha like i would give a fawwk 😅

  • @tswjntug2346
    @tswjntug2346 5 місяців тому

    Cov ntshaw ntshaw thiab xav xav tau ntsej muag ces yim meem ua kom loj li loj tau, kom tus pluag ces pluag ti txha nkaus tsuav zoo siab thiab siab nqig xwb lauv.

  • @WhoAmIy9
    @WhoAmIy9 5 місяців тому

    vim koj twb tsis hlub koj niam pob koj twb paub tias lawv mob kab mob lawm es koj tseem thauj koj niam mus tim lawv thiab na yog peb mas peb tsis kam yus niam mus tim lawv tsev laiv tim koj xwb mas

  • @amazinggrace8136
    @amazinggrace8136 5 місяців тому

    You have no power to send anyone’s soul anywhere. It doesn’t matter what rituals or money it cost etc bc only God can send our souls to where it needs to go and he don’t need your help. He has spoken and it is either heaven or h3ll. There is no in between.

  • @fuemoua8345
    @fuemoua8345 5 місяців тому

    lawb kuv pov tseg lawm ces haj yam zoo xwb los peb ntseeg VAJTSWV zoo dua muab kiag lub ntseeg VAJTSWV thiaj tsis muaj kev nyuaj siab txhob ntshaw lub meej mom hauv lub ntiaj teb no

  • @yenglor691
    @yenglor691 5 місяців тому

    Only marry if you have your own money - you are too dependent on your parents for everything.

  • @kaitelecome396
    @kaitelecome396 5 місяців тому

    Cov niag niam loj mas siab phem phem phem phem xav kaus kom niam yau cov me nyuam hlub nws rab mas nws yeej tsi pub nws cov me nyuam hlub niam yau li thiab tsi hlub niam yau cov me nyuam li mas niam loj siab me me thiab siab phem phem khib khib niam laus tej me nyuam lub neej tus niam loj phem li kov tsi tas hlub li

  • @syang257
    @syang257 5 місяців тому

    Teeb meem nyob teeb meem yus pheej niaj hnub nrhiav teeb meem ces yuav tsum muaj teeb meem xwb . Bye.

  • @suxiong2240
    @suxiong2240 5 місяців тому

    Of course u can change funeral expenses. There r only four important steps to the funeral only. It all depends on the person.

  • @yeejheev8187
    @yeejheev8187 5 місяців тому

    Moob ruam hwm lawm os. Ntseeg Vaajtswv hab ntseeg dlaab-qhov twg yog qhov yog hab tsi yog los koj yeej paub. You are smart so analyze the belief and the theory to see which is TRUE. Kuv xaav noog koj (lossis mej suavdlawg), yog lwm nub tsi muaj koj lawm ne, leejtwg hov pub koj nam tug kws tuag lawm noj? For you son, mej nam hlub hab nwg cov tub sab phem heev hwm lawm os.

  • @siavang5637
    @siavang5637 5 місяців тому

    This old triedition way is too old. Our generation, need to change for our kids future generation. For the last 6 years, we only spent 4 hours at the funeral. We cater food and have just for lunch. After that I heard so many people wants the same way for the funeral. Younger kids now days dont understand the old fashioned way and don't wants to spent all their life's savings for their family funeral. They wanna America ways , Just say good bye and have a decent funeral than take it to the burial that's it. No need to spent our entire money for that. Love them when they're living. Not when they die.

  • @eiathorthor9867
    @eiathorthor9867 5 місяців тому

    Txhua yam teeb meem ce yog tim koj txiv yog tu pib ib leeg xwb

  • @hmoob-usalauj3934
    @hmoob-usalauj3934 5 місяців тому

    Brother, your mom is at fault for marrying a married man. She’s a home wrecker. The life of niam hlob niam Yau is not successful. The pain of sorrow of the first wife and her children will forever be toxic. You should break the cycle.

  • @maivpaxiongandjulie9721
    @maivpaxiongandjulie9721 5 місяців тому +1

    I love your story sis 💕 ❤️ 💗 💓

  • @chiliayang5832
    @chiliayang5832 5 місяців тому

    Cas koj niam yuav siab zoo ua luaj li nas koj niam es cas tsis tiv thaiv koj li nas brother pab koj tu siab kawg li os 😢

    • @ThePrincessWorrior
      @ThePrincessWorrior 5 місяців тому

      Yog siab zoo ces yeej tsis aim lawv niag txiv li las mas. poj ntxwg nyoog xwb es lawv niag txiv los thiaj tsis xyeej, nrhab rau tag nrho ne

  • @SubZeroBullies
    @SubZeroBullies 5 місяців тому

    How do we send out story to her???

  • @kevincvang
    @kevincvang 5 місяців тому +1

    Hmoob mas ruam tshaj tsiaj lawm thiab, believing such nonsense Hmong old traditional culture which cost over 100$k for a stupid funeral.

  • @shengyang872
    @shengyang872 5 місяців тому

    Nej ua neej nyob es nej twb tsis sib hlub es ua ntees loj ua luaj es nej tsis txaj muag los ua cas na.hos koj niag niam tij los tsis txaj muag thiab nws tus txiv twb yog tus ntaus koj niam na es tseem ua phem tau koj niam tus tsuj plig nyob dab teb thiab nws yeej yuav npam xwb yeej khiav tsis dim li os.

  • @persimmonberry3475
    @persimmonberry3475 5 місяців тому

    If you all don’t have the money to do a funeral as big as you did, why even do it?
    This is a stupid tradition many Hmong has followed. Going into debt for face.
    The dead is dead. Why not shower the dead with love and happiness when they’re alive instead?

  • @seethao79
    @seethao79 5 місяців тому

    Ua ib lub ntees tag 100 tawm phav ntshe ua tag tau koob hmoov ntau heev pob.

  • @cua1879
    @cua1879 5 місяців тому

    $104K?!😲😳 People really need to stay within your means. Yus twb raug kev txom nyem lawm es tseem yuav ua noj ua haus qab2 rau zej zog tuaj noj thiab? Aiya....

  • @bliavang7817
    @bliavang7817 5 місяців тому

    Twb laus tag lawm los tseem tsis txawj sib hlub thiab os hmoob aw txiv twb tuag lawm ne cas tseem tsis txaawj sib hlub thiab os.

    • @ThePrincessWorrior
      @ThePrincessWorrior 5 місяців тому

      Cia ib cob poj ntxwg nyoog los nrog koj niam sib txeeb ain koj txiv es yug ib pab mi nyuam niam yau seb koh puas sib hlub nrog lawv ma😂

  • @xaothao8787
    @xaothao8787 5 місяців тому

    Thov hmoob tsis txhob ua nteeg loj ua luaj lawm os

  • @user-gp1gr2sz1k
    @user-gp1gr2sz1k 5 місяців тому

    Thaub no tham ib cov lu dag xwb o yog lawv ua phem thiab hai lu phem li ntawv es tseeg nyob thiab o .... Neeg nruam ces nruam xwb mo

  • @isabellexiong227
    @isabellexiong227 5 місяців тому

    Nej cov moob mekas thiaj ua . Ntees lojloj xwb es peb moob fab kis tsis ua li nej peb noj tag 3o ncau s phav xwb

  • @fuemoua8345
    @fuemoua8345 5 місяців тому

    cas nej cov dab xwm kab thiab dab vaj dab tsev thiab hmoob lub ntuj tsis txiav txim rau tam sim ntawv nthe nqho, yog nthe nqho ces twb tsis muaj tej teeb meem no