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The J&J podcast. Once a month. Q and A's, marriage ups and downs, babies, home life, God, new marriage getting to learn one another...so many topics to touch upon. You two would be great at this.
The pause when Johnathan said he doesn't believe in soul mates 😂😂😂😂😂 Same! I don't believe in them either but I definitely feel like my husband is my person ❤
OMG I don't either! I feel like we have multiple "soul mates" in this world. Many people that can compliment us greatly. But I also feel my hubby is my person too. It's a weird concept to explain lol
Issa YES PLEASEEEEE for the podcast! The J&J energy is what we (the viewers) love and need in our lives! From people we respect and enjoy listening to. So, I vote YES! Let go of those fears and let God lead. The sky is the limit! 🙏🏽🙌🏽😍 Sidenote: It'll be a lot less video editing for you too🥰. You could do the visual podcast for those that like watching, and the audio podcast for those that just want to listen. #teamJ&J #teamPodcast
Jess! You’re so freaking gorgeous! I’m loving the hair. I’m watching and trying to pay attention but I’m legit mesmerized by your velvety chocolate skin and angelic smile. Your energy is always amazing. I guess I’ll have to watch it again to receive the message cuz I just can not hear these “SuJessathans”. your vibe/energy is taking over the video! #ICantFocusOnTheword
It’s hard to step to your mother in law respectfully but… my mother in law has came at me in every way but right!!! Y’all it’s hard but my husband knew I don’t play with people trying to pick so… it’s always been us, then them.🤷🏾♀️ eventually they will understand and if not then keep your distance! Honor them, love them, but do not allow them to ruin your marriage or something like that.
I truly appreciate when yall share honestly surrounding your journey before marriage. Sometimes its refreshing to hear a couple share about their not-so-perfect story since most people hide theirs.
Johnathans (hopefully I spelled his name right) facial expressions during the first reading was ME! Cus what?!! That was whew!! That girl deserves better!!
You guys are such a great team. I would love a weekly (or monthly or however often works for y'all) segment from you together. I even like the set up...just chilling on the couch giving your thought on people's issues. It seems more intimate and real. Keep it coming. 💕
Oooo weee!! Johnathan's facial expressions when you were reading that letter 🤣 This was really good though. Thank you for dedicating the time, space, and energy.
You guys are good, your advice is spot on. Both of you seem wise beyond your years. I can tell that you definitely spend time with the Lord. Keep up the good work.
Jonathan was spitting when he said God has an abundance of good things! 🙌🏾 🙏🏾 The soul mate theory is man made and confusing… we know that God is NOT the author of confusion.
Love it when you guys do these sit down discussion videos . Definitely would love to hear your thoughts on more topics lol can't think of anything right now to suggest though😅
❤❤” HE will make it abundantly clear!” Jonathan i believe you might be destined to be the spritual leader of a God given flock one day! You are well beyond your years! Are you a youth group leader? If not… you should be!
Love what Jonathan said about soul mates. It's so true that we are all out here trying our best and constantly falling short. Sometimes i picture God is up there like, ok, I can still work with that lol. He's so good to us, because after all, he can't make us make the right choice. It's hard to do, but we should be allowing Him to guide and lead us so we are in His will, but we all for short and need His grace sometimes. We would have to make perfect choices to end up with our perfect person, and none of us are there yet.
Jessica I would like to hear about your husbands job, and being young working with much older adults in his field. And does he get discriminate against?
The Father said no! And she respects her dad’s decision! It’s not about their love! It has to be very serious they broke up because dad didn’t give the acceptance…
Great advice y’all gave. But if you are unevenly yoke you will have problems. The Bible says marry only in the Lord, three fold cord cannot be torn into two and if both are applying Bible principles you will be happy even when you have disagreements which you will because no two persons are alike you will not agree on everything but your love for each other will last.😊
Wheeew chile. That wedding one hit. So I'm once divorced and when my ex and I split, I was still close to his mom and siblings. And because of that, HE did not want me invited to anything he was attending. Mind you he is the one who ended the marriage and had a new girl as soon as we made our separation official and I moved out lol. I'm like nigga you broke my heart. I think it was guilt. I couldnt see my friend (his sister) graduate! Like really!?!? And she said she would never let him dictate those things again. Fast forward 11 yrs, we are both remarried, and his sisters and I grew apart which was probably his plan 🤷🏾♀️ and the one I was closest to is now besties with his current wife. Also, because we fell off so much our interactions are awkward when we run into each other at mutual friend functions. She's engaged and I already know I'm not getting invited to her wedding. Mind you she was my bridesmaid In both of my weddings. Her twin is pregnant and I found out from their half sister (who is my bestie) about the baby shower being soon. Divorce definitely sucks and trying to maintain certain relationships are just not possible.
Ah this sounds horrible 😭 I can’t imagine how messy it can become and how certain relationships break apart after that. But I’m glad you got your happy ending 🩷
I love how Jonathan had that look on his face concerning the manipulation. Because I was over here with my mouth wide-opened. That young lady is young and definitely need to move on because that manipulation is a form of abuse and just straight toxic.
God before any person. Topics: 1.Dating a non Christ follower 2.Navigating thru college or life after high school and maintaining virginity without coming across as ppl thinking you're thinking you're better than them or crazy for not testing the waters before marriage-saving oneself for marriage! 3. Finances and marriage 4. Setting individual & marital goals 5. Managing grad school and relationship or marriage. 6. Learning how to say no without feeling guilty about it in any situation. 7.Keeping family/friends out of marital issues. 8. Moving away from or out of home.
Some of these questions have me like 🥴 isn't it obvious lol but i can see how it's nice to be able to ask these things aloud anonymously and basically get confirmation for what these girls already know. But I do enjoy the sujjestions its just the questions be all over the place like oh you wanna work it out oh no wait you wanna be single and figure out how to move on? *scratches head*
.Jonathan LOVE and FEELING comment... Hit different. Because if we were to follow the hurt only and dismiss the brain.. people wouldn't survuve. Feelings change so sudden, bud decisions if you're serious about your future, are permanent.
I understand the first woman! My husbands mother and I have argued since the first time we met! Y’all….. lol but I wasn’t truly in Christ then, since getting in my Bible and growing with Christ I don’t give everything a reaction anymore. It’s easier said than done but PRAY for them! It’s spiritual!
Y’all should do more sit down talk videos where y’all discuss real life and perspectives, arguments y’all have had(obviously not too much to breach the marital unit) but relatable generic things. Like y’all could do a segment where you ask on ig people to post scenarios ,hot takes, and y’all say whether you could get over and marry the person or go separate ways like for example gf wants to have kids bf doesn’t can you work it out or no or gf doesn’t believe in marriage bf does can you work it out
Can you guys please please discuss the Keke Palmer and Darius situation? I would LOVE to hear your opinion as a married couple. Absolutely love you guys ❤️❤️❤️
Not me tuning into this like it’s a whole new episode to a series. No sah mi need fi get up and guh bout mi business but that a when this done tho cause mi nah move. Love from Jamaica 🇯🇲
Always a positive vibe and energy when I get the chance to watch how you two interact with each other. It’s the respect you two have for each other for me.
"I'm never starved of community"45:04 I've been wondering why my best friend feels like I'm replacing her but it's more of her living in a small town and always being indoors opposed to me who lives in the city and in an apartment where everyone around me is a socialite. She might just be starved of community 🥺
NOt me always searching UA-cam to see whether I missed a video or vlog from you and here I am later seeing that your just posted a video. I am here for it
“God isn’t the architect of confusion. Since God is the source of all good things he’s not going to run out of good things to give you” preach❤🌹
Jonathan was speaking a word today!!!
Let the church say Amen🙌
That right there… yes
Bruhhhhhh favorite thing I've heard this man say!!
That part ❤
You can’t hear God clearly if you’re focusing on the object/person and not focused on God…… now that’s a word, Jonothan🙌🏾❤️👍🏾🙏🏾🔥#PERIOD
You guys should do a monthly segment or something. I like to hear Jonathan perspective and y'alls interactions with each other is refreshing
That’s the plan for sure! Gotta make sure I catch him at his highest energy next time lol
For sure. The contribution from both Jess and Jonathan makes for a very interesting video 👍🏼
The J&J podcast. Once a month. Q and A's, marriage ups and downs, babies, home life, God, new marriage getting to learn one another...so many topics to touch upon. You two would be great at this.
I loooooove his contribution. He's so wise and it's nice hearing his perspective. #TeamPodcast!!
His is very wise
Ah, we’re thinking about something like it! Maybe not official podcast but more things like this with actual mics and things
you all should consider doing this once of month when ever you can find the time and energy
The pause when Johnathan said he doesn't believe in soul mates 😂😂😂😂😂 Same! I don't believe in them either but I definitely feel like my husband is my person ❤
Girl...the bombastic side eye from Jess. I ran out my room😂😂😂😂😂
OMG I don't either! I feel like we have multiple "soul mates" in this world. Many people that can compliment us greatly. But I also feel my hubby is my person too. It's a weird concept to explain lol
Loving the suJESS-JONs 👌🏾I appreciate hearing both POVs
Issa YES PLEASEEEEE for the podcast! The J&J energy is what we (the viewers) love and need in our lives! From people we respect and enjoy listening to. So, I vote YES! Let go of those fears and let God lead. The sky is the limit! 🙏🏽🙌🏽😍
Sidenote: It'll be a lot less video editing for you too🥰. You could do the visual podcast for those that like watching, and the audio podcast for those that just want to listen.
#teamJ&J #teamPodcast
Yes #J&Jpodcast
Jess! You’re so freaking gorgeous! I’m loving the hair. I’m watching and trying to pay attention but I’m legit mesmerized by your velvety chocolate skin and angelic smile. Your energy is always amazing. I guess I’ll have to watch it again to receive the message cuz I just can not hear these “SuJessathans”. your vibe/energy is taking over the video! #ICantFocusOnTheword
😂😂😂😂 lol thank youuuu 🥹🩷
i like both of you doing this together... Jonathan gives insightful, thoughtful responses.
It’s hard to step to your mother in law respectfully but… my mother in law has came at me in every way but right!!! Y’all it’s hard but my husband knew I don’t play with people trying to pick so… it’s always been us, then them.🤷🏾♀️ eventually they will understand and if not then keep your distance! Honor them, love them, but do not allow them to ruin your marriage or something like that.
Jonathan is SO wise and insightful to be so young. i love to see it. "thank you to my mannnn" and shoutout to yall for meshing so well! ❤
Thank you to my mannnnn 😂😂 lol thank you!! 🥰🥰
@@OnlyOneJess love you! ❤️✨
I truly appreciate when yall share honestly surrounding your journey before marriage. Sometimes its refreshing to hear a couple share about their not-so-perfect story since most people hide theirs.
Thank you! 🥹
I enjoyed this. The best way for a person to move on is to go NO CONTACT. Its extremely difficult but works like a charm!
Johnathans (hopefully I spelled his name right) facial expressions during the first reading was ME! Cus what?!! That was whew!! That girl deserves better!!
Thanks. I cant sleep and was super happy with these SuJessThans❤ You were great company!
You guys are such a great team. I would love a weekly (or monthly or however often works for y'all) segment from you together. I even like the set up...just chilling on the couch giving your thought on people's issues. It seems more intimate and real. Keep it coming. 💕
Oooo weee!! Johnathan's facial expressions when you were reading that letter 🤣 This was really good though. Thank you for dedicating the time, space, and energy.
❤ it!! “Prepare yourself for yourself!!”I’m gonna share this quote with my daughters who are your age!!
You guys are good, your advice is spot on. Both of you seem wise beyond your years. I can tell that you definitely spend time with the Lord. Keep up the good work.
Thank you so much! 🩷
Jonathan was spitting when he said God has an abundance of good things! 🙌🏾 🙏🏾
The soul mate theory is man made and confusing… we know that God is NOT the author of confusion.
Yes! I love how he broke that down.
I just turned of the Parkers to watch your video. Yesssss Jess I love your content.
That right there is what a man of God sounds like! Yes ma'am!
Ahhh thank you! I’m so grateful!
Listen the title pulled me off tik tok😂😂 early gang
Same 😂. I was like "well, wait a minute😮what's going on hereeee"
@@stargirl_max😂😂exactly
My God answers prayers! I was about to rest and I silently prayed that you made a video. I came on UA-cam and you actually did🤩🫶🏾
I truly enjoy your channel! You and your husband are a very entertaining couple. Continue Peace and Blessings to You!!
I’m actually writing all these mantras in my journal!! I’m easily 25+ years older than y’all but I love ❤ y’all!!
I love this! “How to wait on him without waiting for him.” That whole conversation piece was perfect! Thank you cause this helped me a lot!
It's the outfit change for me😂😂😂. Also, this was sooooo good. So many great advise.
Come on wisdom, yesss speak lil brother. I love yall so much. This was good
Girl the man of my dreams is engaged. I just threw myself in my schooling and finding a new church 😭 I wish I sent this in as a sugjesstion
17:12 Come on Jonathan with the wisdom! GOD is not the architect of confusion!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
🥰 Jess skin is glowing
Thank youuu 🥰
Good point Jonathan!! Awesome discussion Y’all, keep it going!!!
Love it when you guys do these sit down discussion videos . Definitely would love to hear your thoughts on more topics lol can't think of anything right now to suggest though😅
Lol thank you though!
I love your hair, Jess, and I loved this video. Great job!
SuJESStions works for a title! Keep it
The Holy Spirit speaks to us. I definitely heard from the Holy Spirit when I met my husband.
❤❤” HE will make it abundantly clear!”
Jonathan i believe you might be destined to be the spritual leader of a God given flock one day! You are well beyond your years! Are you a youth group leader? If not… you should be!
He used to be a youth leader at our previous church, he is undergoing group leader training at our new church to get back into it 🥰🤍
Love this segment. You both gave sound advice.
You both could be my kids, but I love your wisdom. I totally agree with Jonathan on soulmates.
Love what Jonathan said about soul mates. It's so true that we are all out here trying our best and constantly falling short. Sometimes i picture God is up there like, ok, I can still work with that lol. He's so good to us, because after all, he can't make us make the right choice. It's hard to do, but we should be allowing Him to guide and lead us so we are in His will, but we all for short and need His grace sometimes. We would have to make perfect choices to end up with our perfect person, and none of us are there yet.
Loved the video per usual. Y’all were spot on with all of your advice!!
Thank you!! So glad you enjoyed 🩷
Jessica I would like to hear about your husbands job, and being young working with much older adults in his field. And does he get discriminate against?
31:49 Jonathan dropping Godly wisdom!!!
Yaaaaas, It's Jess and Jonathan!!! ❤❤ Jess has to correct him, needed or Nah... 🤣😂✌🏾 Jonathan is so Wise 🤔
johnathan face when you was reading that message wow his face expressions are everything lhh well put Johnathan
Jess, ma'am I can't concentrate with your dimple just doin the most with its cute self. When you turn to look at Jonathan maaaaaaaammmmm!!!
The Father said no! And she respects her dad’s decision! It’s not about their love! It has to be very serious they broke up because dad didn’t give the acceptance…
Yea but if she brown a parent can’t really do too much. They can voice their opinion but that’s pretty much it, it’s up to her at the end of the day
The bloopers staying in was refreshing
Such a lovely couple❤❤❤. Johnathan is sooo chill😀
The common take home message:
Give yourself grace!!
Let Go and Let God!
Oooouuuuuuu CHILE😫, when you said life be life'n... I swear i felt that in my spirit!!! Which is why I'm Sooooooooo late to this party!!!🥹😁😁😁
Y'all should do more of these. I love the female & male perspective on the suggestions.
Great advice y’all gave. But if you are unevenly yoke you will have problems. The Bible says marry only in the Lord, three fold cord cannot be torn into two and if both are applying Bible principles you will be happy even when you have disagreements which you will because no two persons are alike you will not agree on everything but your love for each other will last.😊
❤ naming future Wallace’s J names will be so cool. Great video.
I love the plant reference. ❤ Great video.
I love the flag idea please ya should do it and I can see this being a podcast too for sure Jessss I love your hair it’s sooo cute
Thank you so much! I didn’t even think to actually get the white flags but it may not be too bad of an idea lol
Awesome, well done! God bless you guys.
Ok, the twist are still looking good🥰
Wheeew chile. That wedding one hit. So I'm once divorced and when my ex and I split, I was still close to his mom and siblings. And because of that, HE did not want me invited to anything he was attending. Mind you he is the one who ended the marriage and had a new girl as soon as we made our separation official and I moved out lol. I'm like nigga you broke my heart. I think it was guilt. I couldnt see my friend (his sister) graduate! Like really!?!? And she said she would never let him dictate those things again. Fast forward 11 yrs, we are both remarried, and his sisters and I grew apart which was probably his plan 🤷🏾♀️ and the one I was closest to is now besties with his current wife. Also, because we fell off so much our interactions are awkward when we run into each other at mutual friend functions. She's engaged and I already know I'm not getting invited to her wedding. Mind you she was my bridesmaid In both of my weddings. Her twin is pregnant and I found out from their half sister (who is my bestie) about the baby shower being soon. Divorce definitely sucks and trying to maintain certain relationships are just not possible.
Ah this sounds horrible 😭 I can’t imagine how messy it can become and how certain relationships break apart after that. But I’m glad you got your happy ending 🩷
Giving you a virtual hug🫂
Jonathan is so spiritually woke. He should hold a husband’s boot camp or something😭.
1st letter, RUN sis RUN don't walk away .
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Love when your Jamaican side comes out😂❤
I love how Jonathan had that look on his face concerning the manipulation. Because I was over here with my mouth wide-opened. That young lady is young and definitely need to move on because that manipulation is a form of abuse and just straight toxic.
This was great! Love both of you guys input!
Thank you!! 🥰🥰
I just came to say how amazing your hair looks! Maybe you should get sister locs lol
Yesss love leave any guy who mom is a nut. Learn from me. My husband mom is a jerk who lie on me all of the time. Run and don't look back
God before any person.
Topics:
1.Dating a non Christ follower
2.Navigating thru college or life after high school and maintaining virginity without coming across as ppl thinking you're thinking you're better than them or crazy for not testing the waters before marriage-saving oneself for marriage!
3. Finances and marriage
4. Setting individual & marital goals
5. Managing grad school and relationship or marriage.
6. Learning how to say no without feeling guilty about it in any situation.
7.Keeping family/friends out of marital issues.
8. Moving away from or out of home.
Jesssssssssssssssssssss I love YOUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU!!!!!!!! I love you both ..... this is so refreshing....
Jessssss, jess, in my jamaican voice. I'm so glad you're back my friend. You have been missed❤❤❤
.THIS COULD BE A PODCAST. just saying.
Love incorporating both perspectives. ☺️
Some of these questions have me like 🥴 isn't it obvious lol but i can see how it's nice to be able to ask these things aloud anonymously and basically get confirmation for what these girls already know. But I do enjoy the sujjestions its just the questions be all over the place like oh you wanna work it out oh no wait you wanna be single and figure out how to move on? *scratches head*
Enjoyed this so much!!!❤
You guys are amazing and gave great advice (suJESSions).
If you decide to do a podcast you should call it Selfless. Lol
“His (God’s) goodness towards you, isn’t dependent on you making the right choices”, preach brother.
I love this! Jonathan: "I'm not doonneee" 😂
.Jonathan LOVE and FEELING comment... Hit different. Because if we were to follow the hurt only and dismiss the brain.. people wouldn't survuve. Feelings change so sudden, bud decisions if you're serious about your future, are permanent.
I would love to see more challenges to get to know y’all like the old 3,2,1 tag etc
I understand the first woman! My husbands mother and I have argued since the first time we met! Y’all….. lol but I wasn’t truly in Christ then, since getting in my Bible and growing with Christ I don’t give everything a reaction anymore. It’s easier said than done but PRAY for them! It’s spiritual!
Y’all should do more sit down talk videos where y’all discuss real life and perspectives, arguments y’all have had(obviously not too much to breach the marital unit) but relatable generic things. Like y’all could do a segment where you ask on ig people to post scenarios ,hot takes, and y’all say whether you could get over and marry the person or go separate ways like for example gf wants to have kids bf doesn’t can you work it out or no or gf doesn’t believe in marriage bf does can you work it out
Yea we definitely want to do more sit down videos like this! I think that’s a great idea 🥰
Can you guys please please discuss the Keke Palmer and Darius situation? I would LOVE to hear your opinion as a married couple. Absolutely love you guys ❤️❤️❤️
I agree on the closure bit...that could mess a sista/brotha up 😅
5 minutes or less gang gang!! Hey Jess and Jonathan!!
Hey fellow Jessies!!! 😅🩵
Not me tuning into this like it’s a whole new episode to a series. No sah mi need fi get up and guh bout mi business but that a when this done tho cause mi nah move. Love from Jamaica 🇯🇲
Always a positive vibe and energy when I get the chance to watch how you two interact with each other. It’s the respect you two have for each other for me.
"I'm never starved of community"45:04 I've been wondering why my best friend feels like I'm replacing her but it's more of her living in a small town and always being indoors opposed to me who lives in the city and in an apartment where everyone around me is a socialite. She might just be starved of community 🥺
hey you guys !!! my favorite couple
Hey Jess! I rushed to see this video so fast. I sent you an email regarding my situation. I hope that’s okay. Love you 😘
The way I just closed out someone Vlog to come watch this once i saw the notification 😭😭😭😭
Same here😂
NOt me always searching UA-cam to see whether I missed a video or vlog from you and here I am later seeing that your just posted a video. I am here for it
Girl you can’t be gone this long. Let me watch the video
Facts😂
Wow! You are absolutely gorgeous ❤
Been waiting on you to post! 😊
I love your JJ’s Couch sessions. 💗
Good to see and your husband, but the we're is the light, it looks a little dark.
yes we know lol that's Florida for you, one minute its sunny the next its dark and gloomy and raining lol gotta catch the best time of day next time!
@@OnlyOneJess okay 👍 thank you for replying back.
Love that Jonathan….
“God is NOT the architect of confusion!”
Luv your hair like that Jess!
51:29 can we talk about y’all take on modesty?