10 Agreements Every Couple Must Have Before Marriage | Kingsley & Mildred Okonkwo

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  • Embarking on the journey of marriage is a profound commitment, and laying a strong foundation is crucial for a successful partnership. This enlightening video delves into the 10 pivotal agreements every couple should establish before tying the knot. From finances and communication to personal boundaries and future goals, these agreements are the pillars that uphold a thriving relationship. Join us as we explore these fundamental principles that can foster understanding, trust, and harmony in your marital journey. Don't embark on this lifelong adventure unprepared - watch now and ensure your union is built on a solid framework of mutual respect and shared values.
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  • @titanimagalasi5139
    @titanimagalasi5139 3 місяці тому +53

    1. If we have any problems that are not going to get solved - Back down
    2. If we make it to marriage - no divorce
    3. Joint account- joint accountability
    4. Communication
    5. Secrets- no passwords
    6. Exchange parents
    7. No quarrelling in our home
    8. Intentional with our intimacy
    9. No body looks out for themselves
    10. Marriage would be word driven

    • @Auchanna
      @Auchanna 15 днів тому

      Thank you ❤

  • @zizi5137
    @zizi5137 3 місяці тому +21

    So ladies when you date a man outside of God, you will use the principles of Gods kingdom in how you treat him, love him, respect him submit etc. and since he is not used to such he will be warry of you and think you are up to something. He will think you are trying to trap him 😂. Even more sad is you will be expecting to be loved as Christ loved the church, that he will also use God's principles to love you back. When he doesn't you will feel betrayed. In reality a man can't give you what he does not know or have. So don't bother yourselves with a man outside of God. RUN and save yourselves

  • @kemilolafadeyi5483
    @kemilolafadeyi5483 3 місяці тому +21

    This pastor is just too equipped for the assignment . I knew you before I formed u in your mothers womb . You so anointed and the passion came across in your teaching . Love you guys . Keep changing marriages and relationship . 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @kemilolafadeyi5483
    @kemilolafadeyi5483 3 місяці тому +16

    Divorce was never an option . I love this agreement thing . This couple already knew God before getting married . This is a healthy relationship and not a toxic one .❤❤❤😊😊

  • @Tuoyoede
    @Tuoyoede 3 місяці тому +7

    Hmmm that birthday matter, I'm someone that likes people who take initiative, it'll annoy me if I have to tell you everything I'd like you to do🤷🏾‍♀️.

  • @ritajohnmark717
    @ritajohnmark717 3 місяці тому +5

    Communication is the life of any relationship.

  • @vivianumukoro8220
    @vivianumukoro8220 2 місяці тому +1

    Listening to your messages has made me a better person. I remember last year val I happened to answer a few questions in a conference meeting for couples and single. I was called upon as a guest speaker to educate the youth that same day. Pst K and pst M are among the few men of God who shaped my life. I love you pst M. I am looking forward to attending this year, just us girls, and I am attending in person not online.

  • @BishopG2009
    @BishopG2009 3 місяці тому

    I agree. It takes two intentional people to

  • @PecJay4106
    @PecJay4106 3 місяці тому

    You guys are a blessing ❤

  • @tomilolaadewuya
    @tomilolaadewuya 3 місяці тому

    Blessed! Blessed! Thank you Sir and ma

  • @IbiyeNgelale
    @IbiyeNgelale 3 місяці тому

    I admire both of you , God bless you, more grace

  • @Auchanna
    @Auchanna 15 днів тому

    Thank you❤

  • @akedaphilips3195
    @akedaphilips3195 3 місяці тому

    Thanking God for both of your lives ❤🙏🏾

  • @enobongernest8190
    @enobongernest8190 3 місяці тому +1

    The Lord continue to bless this family

  • @benjaminbenji6526
    @benjaminbenji6526 3 місяці тому

    Marriage is understanding and trust

  • @tolulopeoladimeji9246
    @tolulopeoladimeji9246 3 місяці тому +6

    I'm always delighted to listen to this beautiful kingdom couple! 😊. I deeply celebrate God's grace upon your lives Sir and Ma.
    I look forward to having a model marriage like yours 🙏💖

  • @ikporvivian5273
    @ikporvivian5273 2 місяці тому

    I love 💕 this video God bless pastor k&M

  • @AnneKeds
    @AnneKeds 3 місяці тому

    This conversation has been so insightful and helpful. Thank you so much 🙏🙏🙏

  • @adj5767
    @adj5767 3 місяці тому +1

    All these things are correct. I've been hearing these strategies for dealing and understanding men since my childhood. However, if you're the type of woman who doesn't like to talk much or repeat yourself ad nauseum to a man, you will find marriage tiring and hectic. Women really need men not to require constant reminders and told things when they simply just need to observe and act on it.

  • @nazfav2757
    @nazfav2757 3 місяці тому +1

    It takes intentionity to make a marriage thrive. Thank you model couples for your teachings

  • @chidimmalucy2754
    @chidimmalucy2754 3 місяці тому +1

    Thank you so much PK and PM. I am definitely implementing this in my marriage.

  • @vivianizuchukwu1129
    @vivianizuchukwu1129 2 місяці тому +1

    I love dis couples

  • @njuohrosita1898
    @njuohrosita1898 3 місяці тому +2

    I really appreciate you Ma and pastor K,you have really be of great blessing to me in particular and to the youths as a whole

  • @BishopG2009
    @BishopG2009 3 місяці тому +6

    Marriage will not give you what you don’t have

  • @pharmclare
    @pharmclare 2 місяці тому

    Women leave men's phone is wrong... valuable content

  • @siphathiswendlovu
    @siphathiswendlovu 3 місяці тому

    Amen

  • @raquelassis4643
    @raquelassis4643 3 місяці тому

    👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @tee4ChristJ
    @tee4ChristJ 3 місяці тому +2

    In some cases, the problem is that some pple change after getting married. They are open with everything they have before marriage, few years down the line, they say you have changed or something has changed and they withdraw and keep things from you or you start keeping things from each other. Phone is private bank account is mine, planned trips not discussed, separate future plans etc. How healthy can such marriage be?

    • @oneekamcogg1172
      @oneekamcogg1172 3 місяці тому

      We all change after marriage,the issue is understanding and knowing what causes the change and navigating through the changes together. Learning and unlearning what works and what doesn't

  • @Beauty-sw1dr
    @Beauty-sw1dr 3 місяці тому

    My husband and I always fight, and divorce is always on the table. I don’t know if to leave or stay

    • @Fridasylvester
      @Fridasylvester 3 місяці тому +1

      You can pray and go for counselling or better still talk to your partner

  • @kwinthebaby
    @kwinthebaby 3 місяці тому +2

    😂😂😂the “she’s strong oh” for me

  • @BishopG2009
    @BishopG2009 3 місяці тому

    Divorce is not an option

  • @vivianizuchukwu1129
    @vivianizuchukwu1129 2 місяці тому +1

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @ibifuronkpata5929
    @ibifuronkpata5929 3 місяці тому +2

    Even the ones i agreed with my husband after marriage, he decided to do his own thing😢.

    • @may-gg7yx
      @may-gg7yx 3 місяці тому +1

      I guess it's easier if the man is also intentional with going with the rules not just agreeing to it because he wants to marry

    • @agboolaoluwayomi6192
      @agboolaoluwayomi6192 3 місяці тому

      The Lord touch his hearts

  • @BishopG2009
    @BishopG2009 3 місяці тому

    Marriage is for two getters

  • @frankolaoluwadavid486
    @frankolaoluwadavid486 3 місяці тому

    Your analysis on saving is wrong. Even when Jesus say me n my father are one does not make the head or equal as God