The first guy needs to heal first from the first divorce before he enters a new relationship because rejection doesn't help his healing process bro God gut you ❤
love the vulnerability from caller 1 guy! he’s learning, going to therapy and doing the work! 👏🏻 it sounds like the girl he was referring to just lost interest after date 2 regardless of the love bombing but also exposed her poor communication skills tbh lol. accepting someone’s rejection without taking it personally is a hard lesson, but so worth it! i hope he doesn’t get discouraged and keeps on! ☺️
I don’t think I’ve ever heard a guy calling in to ask Nick; it’s refreshing actually to hear a guy getting vulnerable especially with another guy. Took a lot of guts. That’s all 😌
The first caller needs to move on. He first talked about contacting the girl because he thought there was something there, but when Nick didn’t agree with him, suddenly she was emotionally immature? It sounds to me like she dodged a bullet!
The first caller needs to wait for the ink to dry on the divorce papers first. He shouldn’t be dating while he’s going through that divorce. Also…she’s not into you dude. Move on!
100%. Clear example of she wants to be right not happy. I skipped it after 5 min. Came back for the end of the call, basically same story all over again
I wish Nick had asked more about the girl’s - subject of the first call - background - how old is she? What’s her relationship history? When did she learn about the divorce? Could she have thought he’s not ready bc he’s only been separated for 6 months? Also, is he ready for something serious after just being separated for 6 months? This is maybe a hopeful sign that yes, he can find connection, but he needs to take time to truly process and let go of his marriage and divorce before jumping into something serious again. Maybe she did care about him but she doesn’t want to be the inevitable rebound.
Love Bombing is not always intentional. And Manipulation, which is exactly what love-bombing is- is not always a conscious, concerted effort. Ask any therapist. The first caller was absolutely love-bombing.
Ya it's really sad. As a dude it's quite obvious when a girl isn't into you but I remember when I was younger and starting to date I wouldn't understand those signals and was naive as well lol. Takes some experience to get over it. If a girl is a tad unsure about you just move on there's hardly ever a second chance.
To the nice guy, I totally was that girl who ghosted you in my dating life. For some dumbass reason I could not go for a guy that was actually into me. I was instantly attracted to men who clearly didn’t really like me that much 😅 I know, completely ridiculous. The man I ended up with was very good at being mysterious & aloof and didn’t show his cards to me right away . Lol it turned out he was really into me too but he didn’t show it too much. Not that he was a jerk or lying to me, he just played it cool 😎
The first guy was exactly like my most recent ex. He was sooo eager to be a couple, it was too much, I pulled away after 6 months, I just wasn't feeling it with him and didn't want to drag it out any longer. I ended it and wished hme well. Funny my ex's beard was unkept as well, total turnoff and I just wasn't attracted to him anymore.
aww first caller seems like a good guy who's ready to be in love again, while he may still need time to heal, I hope he doesn't lose the romantic inside of him 🫂
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honestly was so beautiful hearing the first guy being so open and honest, he seems so genuinely lovely ❤
The first guy needs to heal first from the first divorce before he enters a new relationship because rejection doesn't help his healing process bro God gut you ❤
love the vulnerability from caller 1 guy! he’s learning, going to therapy and doing the work! 👏🏻 it sounds like the girl he was referring to just lost interest after date 2 regardless of the love bombing but also exposed her poor communication skills tbh lol.
accepting someone’s rejection without taking it personally is a hard lesson, but so worth it! i hope he doesn’t get discouraged and keeps on! ☺️
I don’t think I’ve ever heard a guy calling in to ask Nick; it’s refreshing actually to hear a guy getting vulnerable especially with another guy. Took a lot of guts. That’s all 😌
Omg the unsolicited beard advice 😂
first caller, way too needy. tone it down a little. she has your number, if it changed she’ll reach out. I won’t hold my breath
The first caller needs to move on. He first talked about contacting the girl because he thought there was something there, but when Nick didn’t agree with him, suddenly she was emotionally immature? It sounds to me like she dodged a bullet!
He seems like his ego is very fragile...
And he also is giving me obsessive controlling vibes
@@chonklife1809i don’t necessarily think he’s obsessive and controlling. Just extremely anxious and insecure
@@nafafonafafofo could be
I'm sure the first guy did not take Nick's advice and texted the girl 🙄
The first caller needs to wait for the ink to dry on the divorce papers first. He shouldn’t be dating while he’s going through that divorce. Also…she’s not into you dude. Move on!
2nd caller was a waste of time good lord!!! I’m sure she still didn’t get wtf Nick was trying to teach her 😂
100%. Clear example of she wants to be right not happy. I skipped it after 5 min. Came back for the end of the call, basically same story all over again
Drink every time 2nd caller says footbaaaal player
I wish Nick had asked more about the girl’s - subject of the first call - background - how old is she? What’s her relationship history? When did she learn about the divorce? Could she have thought he’s not ready bc he’s only been separated for 6 months? Also, is he ready for something serious after just being separated for 6 months? This is maybe a hopeful sign that yes, he can find connection, but he needs to take time to truly process and let go of his marriage and divorce before jumping into something serious again. Maybe she did care about him but she doesn’t want to be the inevitable rebound.
It seems like the woman this guy dated twice did not like their intimate connection.
Oooo that’s a good possibility
Love Bombing is not always intentional. And Manipulation, which is exactly what love-bombing is- is not always a conscious, concerted effort. Ask any therapist. The first caller was absolutely love-bombing.
This poor first guy is so clueless. She’s just not that into you dude.
Ya it's really sad. As a dude it's quite obvious when a girl isn't into you but I remember when I was younger and starting to date I wouldn't understand those signals and was naive as well lol. Takes some experience to get over it. If a girl is a tad unsure about you just move on there's hardly ever a second chance.
These poor callers just pleading with Nick to agree with them 😅
I often wonder what percentage of these callers actually take any of the advice he gives. I bet it’s very low.
Second person is just trying to get validation that she was right for being upset that her bf missed her grandpas funeral
Poor caller #1, she def just lost interest but it is good that he is doing the work. Caller #2 seems exhausting
To the nice guy, I totally was that girl who ghosted you in my dating life. For some dumbass reason I could not go for a guy that was actually into me. I was instantly attracted to men who clearly didn’t really like me that much 😅 I know, completely ridiculous. The man I ended up with was very good at being mysterious & aloof and didn’t show his cards to me right away . Lol it turned out he was really into me too but he didn’t show it too much. Not that he was a jerk or lying to me, he just played it cool 😎
The first guy was exactly like my most recent ex. He was sooo eager to be a couple, it was too much, I pulled away after 6 months, I just wasn't feeling it with him and didn't want to drag it out any longer. I ended it and wished hme well. Funny my ex's beard was unkept as well, total turnoff and I just wasn't attracted to him anymore.
40:45 i love this grooming advice! 😂 I like clean facial hair. And do not like a long beard!
Sorry but I don’t like guy callers 😂😂 can’t relate
aww first caller seems like a good guy who's ready to be in love again, while he may still need time to heal, I hope he doesn't lose the romantic inside of him 🫂