-my opinion- A lot of men don’t propose bc of unhealed trauma. They did not have examples of healthy love at home and therefore they are afraid of commitment. Financial issues could definitely be a big factor but we need to recognize there is a lot of hurt men in this world who are emotionally unavailable for themselves and others. I truly hope men get the help they need and can feel open to talking to someone they trust or get therapy. This episode was really good and I respect you both for being vulnerable!
This is 100% true. My now husband went through with our wedding unwanting one. He wanted to just go to courthouse but a conversation he had with me was that he did not see his parents happy and it was always an unhealthy relationship growing up. He did not see the point or value marriage at all the way I did. So you’re absolutely right. Some men don’t have that to look up to growing up so marriage seems pointless to them. ☹️
@@Angielorraine2023I’m glad that he opened up to you and communicated about his childhood. I’m a big believer that you can create a happier future for yourself. Wish y’all the best 🫶🏽
This episode is that og Platica chemistry that we love. Many of us were raised in a "machista" environment and weren't given permission to be open about our emotions. Thank you for a valuable episode.
Ok SO... When I got married, we were only 20 & 22 with a 1 year old. My original ring was $200 and from the pawn shop he worked at! Now, 15 years later - after we came up (job and education wise) TOGETHER we got to spend whatever amount we wanted on rings. It could have gone either way - we could've waited 15 years to get our dream rings and wedding or 2 years and get a baby ring and courthouse wedding (like we did) and been completely content. What matters the most is the life built together and the family you create. All in your OWN time. Love the show and you guys!
I think a ring is a ring. If the right intentions and feelings are there it doesn’t matter if it’s $100 or $30,000. Congratulations on your beautiful glow up of a marriage ❤️
I was with someone for 12 years. We built a life together, moved out of state together, had a baby together. Our lives were completely integrated and when the topic of proposal and marriage came up, it was always very sensitive. He wanted to get married without a proposal and I wanted a proposal. Not because of the material value of a ring but because I was raised by a single mom who never had that experience and I wanted that for myself. I wanted to experience the joy of taking our relationship to the next level together. It never happened and I choose to leave the relationship (for that reason and others). After the break up he told me he didn’t propose because of he didn’t feel he was financially ready (exactly what Sebas was explaining). All those years I spent feeling not good enough or not worthy and really it was about him. Communication is important and I’m glad y’all opened up this conversation so men know it’s ok to be vulnerable. Looking back I may not have created that safe space for him because I didn’t know how… but that’s what life’s about, living and learning.
I feel us as women definitely are more open to being honest and when our men don’t open up that conversation for us, we get upset. I’m sure to you it wasn’t about the size or price of the ring. It was the action and promise behind it. Some men just don’t understand that. It’s always the “if he wanted to, he would” mindset for me and sometimes that sucks to feel. I hope you’re in a better place now ❤️❤️❤️🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
This is what I wont ever understand. He wasn’t financially stable to give you a ring but financially stable enough to have a child? I don’t understand.
Girllll yesss sometimes as women we make it all about us. About What we want and need but we never really sit down and think what about them? 😞 we never think about if they feel accomplished enough on their own to take the next step in life …
I’m currently pregnant with my first boy. Hearing you guys speak on how certain things can be viewed as weakness for a man motivates me to be more open with my son & telling it’s ok to love & to open up.
Possibly going through a second miscarriage right now and was definitely in my “why me” mindset. So you guys talking about hard stuff helping us grow is something I needed to hear. Thank you!
Everytime i Watch yall - i get a sense of breath air from the newer , toxic, and hyper masculine men on my fyp. You guys are the true definition of good men that’s out there ! I love hearing y’all’s opinions and reactions to these videos 🥰
My husband and I paid $87 for both our rings. 38 yrs later I have a beautiful ring that I received on our 25th anniversary when we renewed our Vows, not to mention I have a absolutely wonderful husband. ❤
College was 1 of the best times of my life! So much fun, meeting so many people (including lifetime friends), learning so much about yourself and being forced to hustle academically and financially. It was such a time!
I was told so many times that my man is never going to marry me because we’ve been together for 10yrs and we have two kids but he straight up told me his priority is getting his family (us) in a house. House first, ring second. And I could not be any more grateful he did it this way. I don’t need to be married to prove anything. It’ll happen when it happens. I rather have a safe home in a good school district for my kids than to have a ring and be married but still renting apartments. Just my personal preference. Everyone wants different things and it’s ok. Communication and honestly Ma boiiiiii
I agree 10000000% bc it’s my relationship on point almost 10 years and we have two kids and bought a home together. I don’t feel the pressure & neither does he. Nobody knows your relationship other than you two!
I get what you’re saying… but I don’t get why a ring is second? Is it because you want a specific ring at a specific price range? Because I just seen someone say their first ring was $200.
I love that you shared that sometimes you have to have a conversation with your partner bc I was w/my ex for 5 years and honestly I never saw myself having kids or marrying him so we broke up. Fast forward a year later, I’m engaged and having a baby with someone new. sometimes relationships aren’t meant to be and that’s ok
I’m so proud of myself after watching this. I am a Latina, the first one in my family to go to a university. I am in my early 30’s. It’s never too late in life to be wiser. That’s what education is, you are constantly accepting knowledge into your conscience. Currently there for science maaaaaaaa boiiiiiiioooo. Smarty pants here😊 I seriously love La Platica. Here for me at 6 am while I do my makeup 💓
Yes!!! I would Love my man to pick a ring HE LIKES. I want something that'll remind me of him. & the fact that he went to buy a ring and went thru so many different rings & pick this specific ring, will mean the world to me. ❤ it'll mean way more than me picking something.
Sebas my husband always tells me men have to provide for their family that’s how he was raised I always appreciate how hard he works and makes everything Hpnd for my son and I he is truly one of a kind! Thank you God!
Josh definitely gives me Frat boy energy 😅 College was the best! The tailgates, bar crawls, late night study sessions with all my friends, sharing that pledging experience 💀😅, and living next door to my girls ❤ Definitely an experience, and also learned so much about myself during that time away #illini
Can I just say…. By far my favorite episode. Straight up facts and for any girl who is against their opinion on it being okay for a man to admit that they aren’t financially stable to buy us a ring, step down a notch. Meaning, humble yourself a little. If you are with a man who you truly love, it is expected that you, as their partner, help him be successful in order to become financially stable. Show him that you are a ride or die and the BOTH of you should prepare for finances in the relationship to be able to exceed the woman’s expectations. Men have expectations too and expect a woman to work just as hard to fulfill each other’s needs. After watching this episode, it really made me want to just go to my man and say “I got you. I got us for life. Ring or no ring. Marriage or not. Rich or poor” Start practicing those vows of marriage before even getting married and show him that YOU are worth all of the hard work. This will make them want to grind so much harder to make us happy. I hope that made sense hahaha
One thing I’m going to teach my daughter is.. if she wants a ring from any man there’s a bigger picture to think about. Once you’re engaged you plan a wedding , that cost money…. Married people want their own place.. that cost money.. it’s not all of the man’s responsibility so look at the finances with your person and prepare for the married life. It’s sounds beautiful to have a huge ring a nice house and kids and a man to provide. But just know that the man is gunna have to bust their ass and not be around much to do that. One thing I also learned about being married is, you really got to get to your your partner before committing the rest of your life with this person. It’s a beautiful thing once you both are one.
To be honest with you guys, this is one of my favorite podcasts that you guys have done. Real and raw! Thanks for a valuable episode. See you Monday. ❤🎤🎙️
I see why Karen has involved herself w a guy like Sebastian. He is very layered… as in deep. His personality is complex and unique. He brings his own essence ❤
Ugh guys y’all don’t understand how the first 20 minutes of this podcast really turned my day around legit questioned my whole entire life and had a mental break down with the what if I would I done this or that Instead but hearing you guys get deep on life and how things happen made me feel better Ima be okay I’m meant to be where I’m at and things will get better 😭🫶🏽
Love this type of video! A lot of men don’t share the reason for marriage because they don’t feel they can be vulnerable but if you can’t be vulnerable with your partner then they aint the one.
There’s a high percentage of individuals not going to college now and that’s kinda a scary situation if you think about it. Not enough doctors, lawyers and other professionals.
Sebas was feeling the prososal question and had the ick! I feel like le quedo el saco he took wayyy too long to propose to Karen but glad she had the patience to wait for that even though she lost faith that wouldve never happened to her
If he would’ve proposed in 2 years his answer would’ve been completely different and would’ve talked shit about the guy instead, because him saying that the only reason a guy doesn’t propose is because of money is not the only answer
4:40 am in Cali!! Starting a new routine and trying to get up earlier to start my days and this made my difficult morning worth it to roll out of bed. Having my cafecito and watching the podcast as I get begin my day! Love to see this #Thursdaysdontsuck 2:03
I like to see that some guys think like us girls. Some guys don’t like to be upfront or even realize that there’s a problem and talk about it. Love these type of videos
This early upload made my day . I told my finance I would never have a kid with him 😂 that didn’t stop him. He got me pregnant a year later and it’s the best thing that happen to us both 😂 he gave me a very public , shocking , viral proposal with a little ring 😂 but his heart was in it and that’s all that matter ! He’s always tries to give me the most even when he doesn’t have it . Finding a partner that is willing to growing with you and be with you when you have nothing is priceless !
Been patiently waiting for you to post mah boiiiiiis! And my little add on.. petition to have snow tha product on and have a freestyle battle with don cachetes
For me, sebas is absolutely right! I love so much that my fiancé proposed to me with a ring he chose. I love what he picked out for me to wear. Of course he knows what I like etc. But, ultimately that’s all that mattered to me. Something he went out and took time to choose for me ❤ and I get hella compliments about it.. sometimes I get asked if I picked my own ring. I say, “absolutely not! That was all my man” 😊
That is so sweet 🥺 I can hear the pride in that last statement 💕 I can't wait til this happens to me for the same exact reasons you mentioned: having my person know me so well & taking his time picking out what he believes would be the perfect ring for me 🤍
Tearing up around the 44min mark… So happy y’all two men speak about things that are often deemed vulnerable for men to talk about. There’s a reason that 80% of suicides are men. Humans are not meant to bottle up so many emotions until it combust. Speak out, get it out. To me, that’s such a manly act!! 👏🏼
I agree with Sebas… money( financial) is super important factor when a man thinks about marrying a woman.. he could love her and all but if he thinks he doesnt have enough money for a ring , proposal or wedding in the future .. he will not do it as soon a woman would like to
Ok but this episode ! Chefs kiss 👨🍳 I agree , I got proposed 7 years into my relationship and I knew finance was the main factor why he didn’t do it before . But we waited and now we’re 5 years married , but not every relationship is mature enough to talk about stuff like this
I'm totally understanding what sebas is saying about the financial part of the rings. This sounds crazy but my fiance and I were together for 11 years when he proposed. People would always ask why he hadn't and it was always super awkward but he would kind of say wanting to afford a ring. I love the ring he got me I know myself that it's not expensive for us it was but it meant a lot because he saved what he could for it in order to be able to do it. 4 years later we still haven't gotten married just because it's a lot of money. I know the easy way is the court house but after all these years I think we deserve to celebrate out love and i can't wait for the day it happens.
I spent 5 years in my early 20s with someone who I knew never wanted to get married. In hopes that he would change his mind. Having those heavy convos and being with someone who wants the same things is SOOO important. Never settle.
I feel for that time in your life; that must've been so difficult. You obviously loved him and pictured yourself being with him for the rest of your life, making it that much harder to let go. I had to learn the hard way too but absolutely, 100% never settle for anything. I'm glad you had the strength to put your foot down, listen within, and decide. Don't know how old you are now, if you're married yet, etc but I hope you're happy. 🫶🏻
i teared up watching this episode. i have dreamed for a long time to get engaged with my current boyfriend of almost 4 years and having my dream ring. this episode made me realize the reason why he hasn’t yet proposed, thank u guys for giving me an insight on a males mind/perspective, you guys putting me at ease and peace. i can only hope it will happen eventually and when he is financially and emotionally ready.
Recently married in June and I’ve been with my now husband for almost 10yrs. I agree that a man will not propose until they are financially confident. Not only for the cost of the ring but also the cost of the commitment in general and fill the role as a man to be the provider and the protector. I dropped all the hints but I’m glad my man proposed when he felt ready💍🔐
I believe that the ring price doesn’t matter. I work in the food industry I never have time to wear my ring. My wedding ring set was $3,000. 2 years ago that was what we were able to afford. We didn’t have a big wedding for the same reason that we couldn’t afford it. It was just a civil wedding, him and I, alone. We decided that in the future when we have a church wedding we will gift each other a ring with more value and a overall wedding of our dreams.
My husband proposed to me one month in the relationship. And married a year and a month after and been together for 6 years now. And my husband didn’t buy me an expensive ring. He got me a 1k ring and I’m not materialistic at all but we didn’t have much. Now we own a home and have two kids. Money isn’t anything. I don’t care about an expensive ring. I grew up without money living paycheck to paycheck so any ring will do for me. Giving me a home I own will do me more than a ring.
Loved the flow of this poddy! It’s nice to get breaks from guests to see your own vibe/friendship thrive. But yes Mondays have sucked, so excited for the schedule to return 🤗
Love seeing you, my boiiiiiiss! On the ring topic, I personally feel like if you’ve been with your man for X amount of time, he SHOULD know what ring style you like and want, the setting, todo!!! Because from a woman’s perspective who’s recently engaged, you’re wearing this ring for the rest of your life so you have to like it. Love y’all! ❤️❤️❤️ Can’t wait for #mondaysdontsuck🎉🎉
I personally loveee more personal topic like this 😇 I feel like its nice to get different pov especially coming from a man. Now I don’t feel like I’m asking for to much I just have certain standards ☺️
I decided to go back to school majority of it being online and finish my AA at 24 which I loved. People of all ages in a community college to talk to, but now I chose to go to school full time at a University for the last 2 years. Idk if it's just a weird time after covid but I feel so out of place since I'm nearly a decade older than all these babies now at 27. It's hard to relate or talk to kids that aren't as social and many with no real world experience or have their own money 😭 I feel like I can relate and talk to the teachers more. So yeah to any of you out there 18-22 please go to school if you dream to during this time in your life.
This episode was so raw! The whole thing about men not fessing up about their financial issues should be something to be normalized! My fiancé feels defeated that I'm helping out financially wise! We are in this together if he needs help in any sort of way I will help and vice versa he helps me out. So I do believe men should be more open even if it's a step at a time
Love your podcast! Regarding the ring topic.. I always told my husband I wanted to go with him to look at rings and he told me no. He said I’ve known you for 7 years I think I know you and what you like 😊I get so many compliments I always tell people my husband picked it out on his own. ❤
*It's not What you know, it's Who you know.* I've seen this time & time again in the professional world. Often times, working hard doesn't get you noticed, it's personality and impressions you left on people.
The conversation of our lives already being predestined, reminded me of this incredible book titled "The Complete Conversation With God". Despite the title, it doesn't focus so much on religion. It taps into this bigger idea of how we are essentially the makers of our own creation/life. If you guys are ready for some mind blowing info and thought provoking ideas, this is a MUST READ!!
I’m super late to watching this one but this was a great episode. I so loved the dialog between Sebas and Josh here and also the vulnerability and examples too. Would love to see more points of view on masculinity and how they feel personally. Way to go guys! This all matters #LAPlatica
I use to wear a princess cut ring that my dad bought my mom and I use to say I wanted a princess cut also. My husband said he was stuck between a princess cut vs a round cut he liked and I’m soooo glad he went with what HE liked. My ring is literally one of a kind, it looks like a rose🌹
My husband chose a ring for me he took the time to customize it and chose clarity band everything. I loved it bc I love thoughtful gifts, so I agree with Sebas and loved my hubby’s creativity and initiative he took
Loved the episode!! Great insight from both you guys. Its amazing how you guys have these serious convos but also at the same time keep it light and can make me laugh! Keep them coming 🙌🙌🙌🙌👏👏👏👏👏👏
-my opinion- A lot of men don’t propose bc of unhealed trauma. They did not have examples of healthy love at home and therefore they are afraid of commitment. Financial issues could definitely be a big factor but we need to recognize there is a lot of hurt men in this world who are emotionally unavailable for themselves and others. I truly hope men get the help they need and can feel open to talking to someone they trust or get therapy. This episode was really good and I respect you both for being vulnerable!
So true
This is 100% true. My now husband went through with our wedding unwanting one. He wanted to just go to courthouse but a conversation he had with me was that he did not see his parents happy and it was always an unhealthy relationship growing up. He did not see the point or value marriage at all the way I did. So you’re absolutely right. Some men don’t have that to look up to growing up so marriage seems pointless to them. ☹️
@@Angielorraine2023I’m glad that he opened up to you and communicated about his childhood. I’m a big believer that you can create a happier future for yourself. Wish y’all the best 🫶🏽
100% agreed
This episode is that og Platica chemistry that we love. Many of us were raised in a "machista" environment and weren't given permission to be open about our emotions. Thank you for a valuable episode.
Ok SO... When I got married, we were only 20 & 22 with a 1 year old. My original ring was $200 and from the pawn shop he worked at! Now, 15 years later - after we came up (job and education wise) TOGETHER we got to spend whatever amount we wanted on rings. It could have gone either way - we could've waited 15 years to get our dream rings and wedding or 2 years and get a baby ring and courthouse wedding (like we did) and been completely content. What matters the most is the life built together and the family you create. All in your OWN time. Love the show and you guys!
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I think a ring is a ring. If the right intentions and feelings are there it doesn’t matter if it’s $100 or $30,000. Congratulations on your beautiful glow up of a marriage ❤️
🥴girl mine was from the pulga 25 bucks and he said choose the one u like 💀teenage love blinds you/us😂🤣💀
I was with someone for 12 years. We built a life together, moved out of state together, had a baby together. Our lives were completely integrated and when the topic of proposal and marriage came up, it was always very sensitive. He wanted to get married without a proposal and I wanted a proposal. Not because of the material value of a ring but because I was raised by a single mom who never had that experience and I wanted that for myself. I wanted to experience the joy of taking our relationship to the next level together. It never happened and I choose to leave the relationship (for that reason and others). After the break up he told me he didn’t propose because of he didn’t feel he was financially ready (exactly what Sebas was explaining). All those years I spent feeling not good enough or not worthy and really it was about him. Communication is important and I’m glad y’all opened up this conversation so men know it’s ok to be vulnerable. Looking back I may not have created that safe space for him because I didn’t know how… but that’s what life’s about, living and learning.
I feel us as women definitely are more open to being honest and when our men don’t open up that conversation for us, we get upset. I’m sure to you it wasn’t about the size or price of the ring. It was the action and promise behind it. Some men just don’t understand that. It’s always the “if he wanted to, he would” mindset for me and sometimes that sucks to feel. I hope you’re in a better place now ❤️❤️❤️🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
This is what I wont ever understand. He wasn’t financially stable to give you a ring but financially stable enough to have a child? I don’t understand.
Girllll yesss sometimes as women we make it all about us. About What we want and need but we never really sit down and think what about them? 😞 we never think about if they feel accomplished enough on their own to take the next step in life …
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Great way to start my day ❤ shoutout to all my fellow queens out here hustling at this time 🌞
I’m currently pregnant with my first boy. Hearing you guys speak on how certain things can be viewed as weakness for a man motivates me to be more open with my son & telling it’s ok to love & to open up.
I'm here for these DEEP TALKS! i really enjoy watching you guys get into existential discussions
Josh is the reason I watch this. I love how eloquent he speaks.
Possibly going through a second miscarriage right now and was definitely in my “why me” mindset. So you guys talking about hard stuff helping us grow is something I needed to hear. Thank you!
Praying for you, your heart and mind im so sorry for this hard time ❤️🫂
So sorry 😞
@@cynthiacortez7185thank you! 🤍
@@kaylag151thank you 🤍
Awww😔,
Tu tiempo llegara💕🌈
Everytime i Watch yall - i get a sense of breath air from the newer , toxic, and hyper masculine men on my fyp. You guys are the true definition of good men that’s out there ! I love hearing y’all’s opinions and reactions to these videos 🥰
My husband and I paid $87 for both our rings. 38 yrs later I have a beautiful ring that I received on our 25th anniversary when we renewed our Vows, not to mention I have a absolutely wonderful husband. ❤
College was 1 of the best times of my life! So much fun, meeting so many people (including lifetime friends), learning so much about yourself and being forced to hustle academically and financially. It was such a time!
I was told so many times that my man is never going to marry me because we’ve been together for 10yrs and we have two kids but he straight up told me his priority is getting his family (us) in a house. House first, ring second. And I could not be any more grateful he did it this way. I don’t need to be married to prove anything. It’ll happen when it happens. I rather have a safe home in a good school district for my kids than to have a ring and be married but still renting apartments. Just my personal preference. Everyone wants different things and it’s ok. Communication and honestly Ma boiiiiii
I agree 10000000% bc it’s my relationship on point almost 10 years and we have two kids and bought a home together. I don’t feel the pressure & neither does he. Nobody knows your relationship other than you two!
I get what you’re saying… but I don’t get why a ring is second? Is it because you want a specific ring at a specific price range? Because I just seen someone say their first ring was $200.
Love how mature y’all are. Like it’s crazy how much age makes a difference for guys and their maturity 😭
Btw loved this episode. I need to send it to my bf to watch lol!
I love that you shared that sometimes you have to have a conversation with your partner bc I was w/my ex for 5 years and honestly I never saw myself having kids or marrying him so we broke up. Fast forward a year later, I’m engaged and having a baby with someone new. sometimes relationships aren’t meant to be and that’s ok
As a high school teacher I'm showing my students your podcast! The section about college is 100%!!!!!!!!
I’m so proud of myself after watching this. I am a Latina, the first one in my family to go to a university. I am in my early 30’s. It’s never too late in life to be wiser. That’s what education is, you are constantly accepting knowledge into your conscience.
Currently there for science maaaaaaaa boiiiiiiioooo. Smarty pants here😊
I seriously love La Platica. Here for me at 6 am while I do my makeup 💓
Yes!!! I would Love my man to pick a ring HE LIKES. I want something that'll remind me of him. & the fact that he went to buy a ring and went thru so many different rings & pick this specific ring, will mean the world to me. ❤ it'll mean way more than me picking something.
Y’all should be at least at a milli subscribers by now! Cmon people!
Sebas my husband always tells me men have to provide for their family that’s how he was raised I always appreciate how hard he works and makes everything Hpnd for my son and I he is truly one of a kind! Thank you God!
Josh definitely gives me Frat boy energy 😅 College was the best! The tailgates, bar crawls, late night study sessions with all my friends, sharing that pledging experience 💀😅, and living next door to my girls ❤ Definitely an experience, and also learned so much about myself during that time away #illini
Ahhhhh, oh hey sis #I-L-L 😭🙌🏼
@@stephsaav omg 🥹🫶🏻 #I-N-I
Can I just say….
By far my favorite episode. Straight up facts and for any girl who is against their opinion on it being okay for a man to admit that they aren’t financially stable to buy us a ring, step down a notch. Meaning, humble yourself a little. If you are with a man who you truly love, it is expected that you, as their partner, help him be successful in order to become financially stable. Show him that you are a ride or die and the BOTH of you should prepare for finances in the relationship to be able to exceed the woman’s expectations. Men have expectations too and expect a woman to work just as hard to fulfill each other’s needs.
After watching this episode, it really made me want to just go to my man and say “I got you. I got us for life. Ring or no ring. Marriage or not. Rich or poor”
Start practicing those vows of marriage before even getting married and show him that YOU are worth all of the hard work. This will make them want to grind so much harder to make us happy.
I hope that made sense hahaha
One thing I’m going to teach my daughter is.. if she wants a ring from any man there’s a bigger picture to think about. Once you’re engaged you plan a wedding , that cost money…. Married people want their own place.. that cost money.. it’s not all of the man’s responsibility so look at the finances with your person and prepare for the married life. It’s sounds beautiful to have a huge ring a nice house and kids and a man to provide. But just know that the man is gunna have to bust their ass and not be around much to do that. One thing I also learned about being married is, you really got to get to your your partner before committing the rest of your life with this person. It’s a beautiful thing once you both are one.
The depth yall showed in this episode❤❤❤ Yall are GOATs i hope men watching you TAKE NOTES MAAA BOi😅❤
To be honest with you guys, this is one of my favorite podcasts that you guys have done. Real and raw! Thanks for a valuable episode. See you Monday. ❤🎤🎙️
LOVEEEEE that the guy stepped up and didn’t let his girl get disrespected like that.
I see why Karen has involved herself w a guy like Sebastian. He is very layered… as in deep. His personality is complex and unique. He brings his own essence ❤
Ugh guys y’all don’t understand how the first 20 minutes of this podcast really turned my day around legit questioned my whole entire life and had a mental break down with the what if I would I done this or that Instead but hearing you guys get deep on life and how things happen made me feel better Ima be okay I’m meant to be where I’m at and things will get better 😭🫶🏽
This is the type of content I love those deep conversations that gives the perspectives of a “traditional” and “modern” thinking man.
Love this type of video! A lot of men don’t share the reason for marriage because they don’t feel they can be vulnerable but if you can’t be vulnerable with your partner then they aint the one.
I looooved this topic. I think it takes a lot of personal growth and honesty to think this maturely.
There’s a high percentage of individuals not going to college now and that’s kinda a scary situation if you think about it. Not enough doctors, lawyers and other professionals.
people are getting lazier/don’t want to work. Or rather do an only fanz, social media to earn an income😬
@@Virgoae I agree !
Sebas was feeling the prososal question and had the ick! I feel like le quedo el saco he took wayyy too long to propose to Karen but glad she had the patience to wait for that even though she lost faith that wouldve never happened to her
If he would’ve proposed in 2 years his answer would’ve been completely different and would’ve talked shit about the guy instead, because him saying that the only reason a guy doesn’t propose is because of money is not the only answer
🐜🦟🐜🦟 me when Josh said throw that azz back hahaha! Great poddy mahhbois!
4:40 am in Cali!! Starting a new routine and trying to get up earlier to start my days and this made my difficult morning worth it to roll out of bed. Having my cafecito and watching the podcast as I get begin my day!
Love to see this #Thursdaysdontsuck 2:03
Y’all look hella immersive!!! Love you dudes !!
I like to see that some guys think like us girls. Some guys don’t like to be upfront or even realize that there’s a problem and talk about it. Love these type of videos
Loved the conversation. Thank you two for being here and giving us a part of you to us, Your Platica fam
This early upload made my day . I told my finance I would never have a kid with him 😂 that didn’t stop him. He got me pregnant a year later and it’s the best thing that happen to us both 😂 he gave me a very public , shocking , viral proposal with a little ring 😂 but his heart was in it and that’s all that matter ! He’s always tries to give me the most even when he doesn’t have it . Finding a partner that is willing to growing with you and be with you when you have nothing is priceless !
I love Sebas speaking about a guy perspective and that conversations never had. I never thought about it like that. How crazy!
I’m with Sebas!!!! “Que te valga madre!”
don’t ask me when I’m getting engaged! If you’re not buying my ring it’s not your business ✨
I'm ready to see both Sebas' girls and Josh's girl to be on at the same time. Josh seems much happier now. We as the fans love to see it.
Been patiently waiting for you to post mah boiiiiiis! And my little add on.. petition to have snow tha product on and have a freestyle battle with don cachetes
For me, sebas is absolutely right! I love so much that my fiancé proposed to me with a ring he chose. I love what he picked out for me to wear. Of course he knows what I like etc. But, ultimately that’s all that mattered to me. Something he went out and took time to choose for me ❤ and I get hella compliments about it.. sometimes I get asked if I picked my own ring. I say, “absolutely not! That was all my man” 😊
That is so sweet 🥺 I can hear the pride in that last statement 💕 I can't wait til this happens to me for the same exact reasons you mentioned: having my person know me so well & taking his time picking out what he believes would be the perfect ring for me 🤍
Tearing up around the 44min mark… So happy y’all two men speak about things that are often deemed vulnerable for men to talk about. There’s a reason that 80% of suicides are men. Humans are not meant to bottle up so many emotions until it combust. Speak out, get it out. To me, that’s such a manly act!! 👏🏼
Everyday I check for a poddy from la platica and when I see an upload, I know it’s going to be a good day 🫶🏼 blessed 🙏🏼
Buenos días ☀️ I’m here for the reaction videos and the deep conversations! Chicago thanks you for the early upload 🫶🏻
I agree with Sebas… money( financial) is super important factor when a man thinks about marrying a woman.. he could love her and all but if he thinks he doesnt have enough money for a ring , proposal or wedding in the future .. he will not do it as soon a woman would like to
The surprise ring story always hits 😢 it’s my favorite story to hear
Ok but this episode ! Chefs kiss 👨🍳 I agree , I got proposed 7 years into my relationship and I knew finance was the main factor why he didn’t do it before . But we waited and now we’re 5 years married , but not every relationship is mature enough to talk about stuff like this
LOVED THIS EPISODE! Love how deep both of you go into depth & aren’t afraid to express your feelings. My favorite podcast EVER! ❤
Okay love this episode! I’d love to hear y’all talk about men and therapy!!
I'm totally understanding what sebas is saying about the financial part of the rings. This sounds crazy but my fiance and I were together for 11 years when he proposed. People would always ask why he hadn't and it was always super awkward but he would kind of say wanting to afford a ring. I love the ring he got me I know myself that it's not expensive for us it was but it meant a lot because he saved what he could for it in order to be able to do it. 4 years later we still haven't gotten married just because it's a lot of money. I know the easy way is the court house but after all these years I think we deserve to celebrate out love and i can't wait for the day it happens.
I spent 5 years in my early 20s with someone who I knew never wanted to get married. In hopes that he would change his mind. Having those heavy convos and being with someone who wants the same things is SOOO important. Never settle.
I feel for that time in your life; that must've been so difficult. You obviously loved him and pictured yourself being with him for the rest of your life, making it that much harder to let go. I had to learn the hard way too but absolutely, 100% never settle for anything. I'm glad you had the strength to put your foot down, listen within, and decide. Don't know how old you are now, if you're married yet, etc but I hope you're happy. 🫶🏻
College and joining a sorority was definitely the years of my life!
i teared up watching this episode. i have dreamed for a long time to get engaged with my current boyfriend of almost 4 years and having my dream ring. this episode made me realize the reason why he hasn’t yet proposed, thank u guys for giving me an insight on a males mind/perspective, you guys putting me at ease and peace. i can only hope it will happen eventually and when he is financially and emotionally ready.
Recently married in June and I’ve been with my now husband for almost 10yrs. I agree that a man will not propose until they are financially confident. Not only for the cost of the ring but also the cost of the commitment in general and fill the role as a man to be the provider and the protector. I dropped all the hints but I’m glad my man proposed when he felt ready💍🔐
This is a real ass conversation, love it!!!!
There’s so much I want to say but don’t know how to say it, just WOW!!! Loved this episode!
I absolutely agree with and love Josh’s way of thinking ☺️
I believe that the ring price doesn’t matter. I work in the food industry I never have time to wear my ring. My wedding ring set was $3,000. 2 years ago that was what we were able to afford. We didn’t have a big wedding for the same reason that we couldn’t afford it. It was just a civil wedding, him and I, alone.
We decided that in the future when we have a church wedding we will gift each other a ring with more value and a overall wedding of our dreams.
Love the format to switch it up every once in a while.
My husband proposed to me one month in the relationship. And married a year and a month after and been together for 6 years now. And my husband didn’t buy me an expensive ring. He got me a 1k ring and I’m not materialistic at all but we didn’t have much. Now we own a home and have two kids. Money isn’t anything. I don’t care about an expensive ring. I grew up without money living paycheck to paycheck so any ring will do for me. Giving me a home I own will do me more than a ring.
Dang. This convo about the timelime provoked thoughts within me. Thanks y’all. ❤
Y'all need to do a full video about reacting to videos!!! I love hearing your opinions and y'all are hilarious lol
Loved the flow of this poddy! It’s nice to get breaks from guests to see your own vibe/friendship thrive.
But yes Mondays have sucked, so excited for the schedule to return 🤗
Love seeing you, my boiiiiiiss!
On the ring topic, I personally feel like if you’ve been with your man for X amount of time, he SHOULD know what ring style you like and want, the setting, todo!!! Because from a woman’s perspective who’s recently engaged, you’re wearing this ring for the rest of your life so you have to like it.
Love y’all! ❤️❤️❤️
Can’t wait for #mondaysdontsuck🎉🎉
I'm at least glad my Thursdays aren't sucking. Love you guys!
Awwww I love how Seba is so all about his wife and would always want to end up with her in any story 🤍 blessings. Josh it’s your turn to find that 😊
Listening to the poddy while getting ahead on my assignments! Shoutout to Chico State!! My education is my superpower 🌟🌟
I personally loveee more personal topic like this 😇 I feel like its nice to get different pov especially coming from a man. Now I don’t feel like I’m asking for to much I just have certain standards ☺️
Love listening to la platica. I recommend it to everyone. Of course I always end it with “yeah it’s the number one Latino podcast according to google”
I decided to go back to school majority of it being online and finish my AA at 24 which I loved. People of all ages in a community college to talk to, but now I chose to go to school full time at a University for the last 2 years. Idk if it's just a weird time after covid but I feel so out of place since I'm nearly a decade older than all these babies now at 27. It's hard to relate or talk to kids that aren't as social and many with no real world experience or have their own money 😭 I feel like I can relate and talk to the teachers more. So yeah to any of you out there 18-22 please go to school if you dream to during this time in your life.
This episode was so raw! The whole thing about men not fessing up about their financial issues should be something to be normalized! My fiancé feels defeated that I'm helping out financially wise! We are in this together if he needs help in any sort of way I will help and vice versa he helps me out. So I do believe men should be more open even if it's a step at a time
This was my FAVORITE podddyyyy ever !
Great job Josh
Love your podcast! Regarding the ring topic.. I always told my husband I wanted to go with him to look at rings and he told me no. He said I’ve known you for 7 years I think I know you and what you like 😊I get so many compliments I always tell people my husband picked it out on his own. ❤
We need more videos like this with deep discussions
Yesss I’ve been waiting for a new pod to watch before work ✨
yessssss love a 6 am upload I get to listen while getting ready for work 🔥
LP while getting ready for work, chefs kiss
Loved this video ! I do agree with
You guys! I just feel some guys tell girls to wait without having the passion to do better or be better
*It's not What you know, it's Who you know.* I've seen this time & time again in the professional world. Often times, working hard doesn't get you noticed, it's personality and impressions you left on people.
The conversation of our lives already being predestined, reminded me of this incredible book titled "The Complete Conversation With God". Despite the title, it doesn't focus so much on religion. It taps into this bigger idea of how we are essentially the makers of our own creation/life. If you guys are ready for some mind blowing info and thought provoking ideas, this is a MUST READ!!
I’m super late to watching this one but this was a great episode. I so loved the dialog between Sebas and Josh here and also the vulnerability and examples too. Would love to see more points of view on masculinity and how they feel personally. Way to go guys! This all matters #LAPlatica
I wake up at 5 to pump and then make breakfast usually all half asleep thanks for giving me something to keep me up 🤩
Just got off work and listening to the pody ends my night the right way ❤️
I use to wear a princess cut ring that my dad bought my mom and I use to say I wanted a princess cut also. My husband said he was stuck between a princess cut vs a round cut he liked and I’m soooo glad he went with what HE liked. My ring is literally one of a kind, it looks like a rose🌹
Love you guys 🫶🏽 great platica! Love how you guys get vulnerable and talk about how men feel.
Josh is fully messing with Sebas about frats and sororities 😂
My husband chose a ring for me he took the time to customize it and chose clarity band everything. I loved it bc I love thoughtful gifts, so I agree with Sebas and loved my hubby’s creativity and initiative he took
I need me a Josh love his personality and way of thinking 😭😭😭😝!!!! 😫
You guys are great together! Lol it’s just friends having a deep/funny/open minded/ everything convo
That’s my POV 😂♥️👏🏼
I’m currently at the airport about to head back home. Love watching you guys 🫶🏼
Loved the episode!! Great insight from both you guys. Its amazing how you guys have these serious convos but also at the same time keep it light and can make me laugh! Keep them coming 🙌🙌🙌🙌👏👏👏👏👏👏
this was so wholesome 🥹
This episode was EVERYTHING 👏🏼
Yess i loved when you’d post on MONDAYS 💕
BRING IT BACK perfect way to start the week 💐
My Monday’s have suuuuuuuucked, I appreciate you catching up thank you
That video with the ring went so viral. All I have to say is that man loves his woman!
so happy y’all posted @ this time, just clocked into work & ready to listen to the podcast😁😁