@@rubydejesus9119BUT, HOLY SPIRIT is YOUR HEALER... YOU, the essence of you is still there!!! Look inside and you'll see! You're still the beautiful, happy, loving woman ABBA made you to be! You win, because LOVE WINS. GOD ALMIGHTY is LOVE (and forgiveness, for sure forgiveness and mercy)🤗 🕊
My narcissistic ex said "when we started dating you were always happy and smiling, look at you now.." I said "exactly, I was happy before you came along"
Still hurts knowing someone you trusted to protect you turned in to the one that almost destroyed you while you stayed loyal until God forced you to expire that loyalty.
I was ashamed that I let him change me. I become someone I didn’t recognize. Took a long time to heal but after 7 years I finally feel like I will be okay.
So true. Most men blame the woman. They underestimate the mind of a women by thinking that she will always put up with mistreatment. Then when she's gone they have the tenacity to say, "You hurt me."
Facts, facts and facts! 👏 You didn't change her, she just realized that you are not who she thought you are. If she knew in the beginning the real you, you wouldn't have a chance to know her.
You described my situation 100%. I endured a narcissistic relationship for years, to the point I didn't recognize myself and my friends and family couldn't either. Been healing myself for several years now and am happy again, still working on regaining my self-assurance and confidence but it's coming back.
@@moisesbeyond this isn't that type of case. This is more of a conditioning of the mind, so to speak. Women absolutely do make mistakes. The biggest difference is that when you're in a narcissistic relationship, you are taught that your mistakes are yours, and that his mistakes, are also your fault. It has been shown to alter the actual brain and cause long term damage. I really suggest reading up on a trauma bond. It happens to men and women both.
Straight facts, he definitely changed me and I was healed in the process of him trying to break me. I’m healed and whole within myself. New life starts now
OOOMMMGGG!!! I went through exactly that with my husband!! We have been separated for years and he still trying get back home and God has changed the locks!!!
Truth. "If you put someone in Survival mode she can barely love herself much less love you." Same with children. They love you and some men use that as power to take their love and twist it. He could be healing himself with her love but instead he damages their pure hearts and souls.
This is so true. My ex destroyed me. Biggest heart in tinge world,so giving & loving just to be destroyed 😢but Hod takes care of people like that & they wonder why bad things happen to them. Most men don’t realize till the woman is gone or to scorn. My ex hurt me so bad then expected the same love I used to give smh! Ladies please be careful who u pour into,good men y’all do the same.
Yes so true I have to let him go I pray to God in Jesus name that I will be better in My spirit that I will be a better woman I am the apple in My GOD eye Amen
@@lisacranmer8005100% I left my abusive ex a decade ago when I gave birth to our baby. Ever since my health has declined and I'm sure my autoimmune disease was triggered due to that. I always had back issues and hip issues but they got so much worse. Mental health can impact physical health so much
Yup. My ex told me. You changed, I want you how you were when we first met. I told him, I matured, I got wiser, I am changing for the good. You should do the same. He’s 40 though, I’m 28, and I realized he’s not gonna change, only thing he can do now is make changes in his behavior with therapy ONLY if he wants to.
Then you must be real “special”. Like a feather being drifted through the wind by these “Christian pastors” he’s a for profit pastor. Profits from women that sipped that feminist kool-aid.
Real talk! That’s somebody’s sister, daughter, niece, relative. They will come back at you with a vengeance. God maybe loving, but the men in her family will show that love in a different way. Do not mess a woman, they are delicate.
You are 100% on Point Brother, I pray the men who are looking at this hear you and the ones that are not here will finding this message. God Bless You.
Not saying I love you is a red flag to me. I just broke off bc he could not tell me. I told him he doesn’t love me and that’s ok but when he finds the woman he truly loves he’ll see then…. Straight crickets
You telling the truth and nothing but the truth. These men need to listen up and take notes from this very intelligent gentleman. Let the Church say Amen
You're absolutely right I did everything I could for him but he played me and has drinking problems. Now I'm gone and God made sure im good .He did me wrong but God is handling it
She never changed "She woke TF UP!" And start loving her 1st.
👏👏👏👏👏
Yesssszz
THAT!!!👏👏👏👏
Thank you 👌🏾
Yess that part 💯
“ Bad relationships changes good people “
That's so true because I have changed from the trauma that came into my life.
@@rubydejesus9119BUT, HOLY SPIRIT is YOUR HEALER... YOU, the essence of you is still there!!! Look inside and you'll see! You're still the beautiful, happy, loving woman ABBA made you to be! You win, because LOVE WINS. GOD ALMIGHTY is LOVE (and forgiveness, for sure forgiveness and mercy)🤗 🕊
Ever,Ever!
I just change my mind u r who u r we learn and adapt
That’s 100 correct. My relationship has changed me to a toxic person. He became better and he put me down
Yep, women cry first, men cry longer
hahahahahahaha,love from China ❤
You are so right Amen I agree yessssssss
True
Truuuuueeeee!
YES
My narcissistic ex said "when we started dating you were always happy and smiling, look at you now.." I said "exactly, I was happy before you came along"
My husband said the same to be. He doesn't realize that maybe HE IS THE CAUSE and he changed.
Exactly
And you picked him.
🎉 facts
Thank you
My dad taught me that... he told me "Just leave, if you meant anything to him, that will hurt him more than anything you could ever do or say."
Wise
My father taught be to be strong for myself.
❤🎉yes
Still hurts knowing someone you trusted to protect you turned in to the one that almost destroyed you while you stayed loyal until God forced you to expire that loyalty.
Yes
This is truth, thank you brother.
Same here cause they give a fuck that was the devil plan this who time
This!!
@@tweetietrinidadlee9987 keep going babe. Idk y I'm compelled to tell you that
“You’re going feel that in your chest forever “ Facts!!💯
FACTS UPON FACTS....THAT'S WHAT HE GETS!!!! We Reap what we Sow!
EXACTLY
BOOM💣🎤👑💯
BOOM BITCH! 💥
FACTS!
People forget that God is the king of hearts. When you break someone's heart he is going to ensure you feel the same pain you inflicted.
Quite opposite I got pain but I'm good so I get pain for being good and the evil get rewarded all the time
thats why if its so good to be true and u hurt him and u can barely love yourself he is right.
@@BrandonEs-oj6gc I am. I would if damage and pain and suffering that happened to me it wouldn't happened
💯💯💯give it all to TMH GOD
REAL LIFE
I was ashamed that I let him change me. I become someone I didn’t recognize. Took a long time to heal but after 7 years I finally feel like I will be okay.
❤
❤
7 wow God bless u.
She woke up to the BS. Never take anyone for granted.
Amen
I second that one Almighty 💯
So true. Most men blame the woman. They underestimate the mind of a women by thinking that she will always put up with mistreatment. Then when she's gone they have the tenacity to say, "You hurt me."
Facts
No" try" asking me what he did too me?🤨❗⁉️
yep, my x said she LEFT me.. wonder why..
true
This one of the realistic messages I've heard. She will heal. You're going to feel it in your chest forever
God had my back on this one. I got a good one now ❤I can breathe again ❤
And he is going to feel it in his chest forever he will search for her in other women but he will never find her
@@charmainemiles4089amen that’s right!!!!!
She fell in love, then slowly became broken… yep she changed on the outside to survive, but she is still the same beautiful soul inside.
Facts
Well said
Then that's not love.
100%
U are so right !❤
Facts, facts and facts! 👏
You didn't change her, she just realized that you are not who she thought you are. If she knew in the beginning the real you, you wouldn't have a chance to know her.
Amen
Pretty much
You described my situation 100%. I endured a narcissistic relationship for years, to the point I didn't recognize myself and my friends and family couldn't either. Been healing myself for several years now and am happy again, still working on regaining my self-assurance and confidence but it's coming back.
❤
“It was Never designed to undergo that kind of treatment”! I felt that💯
So so true
She gave you a chance to be Hugely Blessed by her presence. ❤
Narcs don't care. They just move on to their next victim.
Exactly. The only thing he feeling in his chest rn is that extra medium shirt😅
And that’s exactly what he did
They sure don't. I just left mine and divorced him.
Facts
Facts.
You are speaking the truth!!! May God bless you brother!!!
When I listen to you I feel like crying because you get it…you would be so great to converse with.
This so true never miss a good woman until she's gone.. I tried until God healed me and showed me what true love is..Glory be to King Jesus Christ 🙏🏾
You are 100% right. He either a blessing or a lesson ladies.
...or a curse, either way it's fck'd up. 🫣😐
He's feeling it in his chest forever.!!!..I had his back but no more!🙌
Right. He thinks enough time has passed that people have forgotten he is a total klown.
You had his back❓️😱 why🥶 you must not know what a narcissistic sociopath is
@@reinamacaren-a4132 Right
Our world could use more emotional intelligence like this
"It was never designed to undergo that kind of treatment and then still function"
You are 💯% correct,narcissistic men always say the same thing, their right,your wrong.
👍💯💯💯
True
yes because we all know women are always right.....they never make mistakes..it is never her fault
@@moisesbeyond this isn't that type of case. This is more of a conditioning of the mind, so to speak. Women absolutely do make mistakes. The biggest difference is that when you're in a narcissistic relationship, you are taught that your mistakes are yours, and that his mistakes, are also your fault. It has been shown to alter the actual brain and cause long term damage.
I really suggest reading up on a trauma bond. It happens to men and women both.
My husband completely to a "T"
Straight facts, he definitely changed me and I was healed in the process of him trying to break me. I’m healed and whole within myself. New life starts now
Girl I know what you mean!!!!
@@sgaribaldi1163I'm only alive because Jeh God saved me..
OOOMMMGGG!!! I went through exactly that with my husband!! We have been separated for years and he still trying get back home and God has changed the locks!!!
GEESH KING YOU CERTAINLY SAID A MOUTH FULL OF TRUTH
TRUTH. I know someone right now who is feeling it in his chest forever.
He did change me. He almost broke me but I picked up the pieces and filled the cracks with gold. I am still a happy, youthful woman.
love it...I'm going to be 55 and endure pains radiating constant but I DNT look my age at all..
Yesss sis, I heard that
Gold filled cracks❤❤❤❤
2 snaps in a whole circle 🔵 🔴
I know you will be ok with out them take care..
Just remember that the one WHO created you loves you more than ever.
That's RIGHT brother, You tell them! I wish that there were men like you instead of those punks out there always running down women.
Truth. "If you put someone in Survival mode she can barely love herself much less love you." Same with children. They love you and some men use that as power to take their love and twist it. He could be healing himself with her love but instead he damages their pure hearts and souls.
Exactly
💔🎯💌
I want to thank you kind sir whom ever you are doing this message it's greatly appreciated and very true 🙏
Hallelujah 🙌 Hallelujah 🙏 Yes Lord!!! Thank You Lord for Loving me 🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏
Thank you for speaking up for trauma survivors 💞
Brother, God has truly blessed you with wisdom.
YES🥰
Yea wisdom to keep tricking y'all while making a bag of y'all smh
You’re not too smart
THIS KING SPEAKS TRUTH‼️
That’s funny
Amen Thank you for your beautiful message Amen
amen I need to hear this beautiful message ❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️
I love listening to your snippets of truth & brilliance . 🙏
Wow! Just Wow, He Absolutely without question NAILED IT! Blessings my brother…..to you and your family🌸🌸
Always treat people the way you want to be treated. "Do unto others as you would have them to do unto you. Pay attention to the message. It is so true
Everything he said was 💯
GOD 🙏 THANK you
Very true!❤️❤️❤️
This is so true. My ex destroyed me. Biggest heart in tinge world,so giving & loving just to be destroyed 😢but Hod takes care of people like that & they wonder why bad things happen to them. Most men don’t realize till the woman is gone or to scorn. My ex hurt me so bad then expected the same love I used to give smh! Ladies please be careful who u pour into,good men y’all do the same.
Yes so true I have to let him go I pray to God in Jesus name that I will be better in My spirit that I will be a better woman I am the apple in My GOD eye Amen
Amen God is protecting the one who's His
Facts. It can also take a downhill spiral on a woman’s health😢
it did..I suffer PTSD-anxiety from the people and Chronic neck and back pains...
@@lisacranmer8005100% I left my abusive ex a decade ago when I gave birth to our baby. Ever since my health has declined and I'm sure my autoimmune disease was triggered due to that. I always had back issues and hip issues but they got so much worse. Mental health can impact physical health so much
Seriously
Sure does 😢
@@lisacranmer8005oMG 😢same
Let him enjoy the loss ladies!!! Life is too short!!! Meet new people and make friends!!!!
If its around anybody with you, He WILL enjoy the loss.
Facts
@@nancybreaux9684 yes love..🥰
What does that mean? You selfish? You let people suffer that suffered
stuck on one is sick
Yup. My ex told me. You changed, I want you how you were when we first met. I told him, I matured, I got wiser, I am changing for the good. You should do the same. He’s 40 though, I’m 28, and I realized he’s not gonna change, only thing he can do now is make changes in his behavior with therapy ONLY if he wants to.
Sounds like he wanted you childlike like u were when he met u. He needs to date his own age
Why so old?? Yeah that's gross to me.. they snore, fart alot... beyond sloppy seconds!!! bad blood flow..do I need to continue..
@@scorpiocara6798 facts
@@hao9508not facts at all, women need to choose better men
it's so true!! As a woman, it's so uplifting to hear powerful words like that. Thank you, my dear brother.
He will feel it in his chest. Thank you for that message made me feel better
Love it!! He change me into the whole GODLY woman I'm today GOD did the work I love myself more and more ❤
Amen! The universe is blessing me every single day!! He living with a friend, bout to lose his job….he changed me & taught me VALUABLE lessons!!
The universe can’t bless you! it was all God!
Amen! Your sermon brought tears to my eyes. 🙏💓
Then you must be real “special”. Like a feather being drifted through the wind by these “Christian pastors” he’s a for profit pastor. Profits from women that sipped that feminist kool-aid.
Amen!!! I hear this one loud and clear. I hope he does 2 cause im tired 💔💯
Real talk! That’s somebody’s sister, daughter, niece, relative. They will come back at you with a vengeance. God maybe loving, but the men in her family will show that love in a different way. Do not mess a woman, they are delicate.
I’m better not bitter for it🥰 I’ve been set free and loving me for real💯
So happy for you!!!
So very true, keep speaking brother 🙏🏾🥲
You are 100% on Point Brother, I pray the men who are looking at this hear you and the ones that are not here will finding this message. God Bless You.
Living proff of that aglory ti the Most High my Gidvis awsime awesome Amen
Yes! How is such insight within such a young vessel?? Tha Lord!!! God is a wonderful redeemer!
I am that woman! I was asking God questions, this video is an answer to those questions 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Thank you, sir, for sharing and understanding the scare of betrayal.
Damn right he changed me, never said I love you, yet I tried so hard to keep us together just hurt me more, so I walked away.
Not saying I love you is a red flag to me. I just broke off bc he could not tell me. I told him he doesn’t love me and that’s ok but when he finds the woman he truly loves he’ll see then…. Straight crickets
CONGRATULATIONS Sis👏🏽 Many don't hv the COURAGE to leave!!!
You're absolutely right love your mind
I love your mindset and your videos
I know what you mean, I did the same thing too
Loveeeee youuuu for what you share. May you continue teaching people
Yesss they did .. now no one will ever mess with me again. Thank you 🙏
God made sure I was healed. He gave me hope that I would love and be loved again by the one he made for me. Real, eternal love.
Amen! The only love needed is Gods love. Romantic love doesn’t last.
@SeekHim7777 If God brings a relationship together, it will last forever. Romantic or not romantic, in my opinion.
@@cynthiagomes2979 I definitely won’t disagree. God can do anything and I have witnessed godly relationships. Thanks for adding that 🙏🏽
Wow! Truth be told!
Yes and ladies please protect your peace and joy. If q person interrupt your peace and joy remove them
Thank you so much
You are so right. Amen.
❤ so true, Thank you for your time.
This is so vital of a message to the guys today…women aren’t your enemy…until u make her feel she is
True, men ask why we changed yet they are the real reason why we changed according to the way they treated us.
What kind of change
You telling the truth and nothing but the truth. These men need to listen up and take notes from this very intelligent gentleman. Let the Church say Amen
Well alright but gentle women also don't exist
True words my friend ❤
AMEN 🙌
So TRUE, been there, done that. And YES God's Got Me ! ALWAYS
Speaking to my broken soul ❤️
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾...God had my back in my last marriage!!! Thank You, God...🙏🏾❤️
You have the wisdom to be an incredible leader and mentor to those in your life. Much love.
Yes and you must be part of that movement dweeb. I mean dweebyphoebe, sorry.
U hilarious!!!
Amen ❤you are speaking truth thank you ❤
MOST TRUE, POWERFUL WORDS UTILIZED IN LAMENS TERMS. THANK YOU❤😊
This teared me up because for once, I have hope that there are better men out there
Yep...
God bless you brother, well said.😊
He sure changed me and God helped me heel. Thank you God for everything 🙏 I love you God
THAT PART!! RIGHT BROTHER. AMEN 🙏 ❤
Hallelujah. Thank you for your wisdom
WOW...I felt that. Men, don't be damaging no woman. Especially not a good one.
Yeah he is speaking from experience
that's the fact 💯 Amen to that my brother.
He's speaking from experience. I appreciate Derrick
Exactly. He’s sharing the lessons he learned through his experiences. I appreciate him too.
True my brother.big ups🎉🎉
Say that god gave you this gift of understanding blessings
You're absolutely right
I did everything I could for him but he played me and has drinking problems. Now I'm gone and God made sure im good .He did me wrong but God is handling it
I walked away and heal myself.
Confession is good for the soul. Sir, "you changed her." Amen.
🤦🏽♀️
Exactly u are so point on!!!! U can't expect me to treat u like a "King " but u don't make me feel like/ treat me like your "Queen "......well said!!!
Thank You Sir! Well said.
Words came straight out of a cheaters mouth so you know his telling the truth
YES THANK YOU BROTHER FOR
SPEAKING UP FOR THE GOOD WOMEN
I WISH MORE MEN WILL SPEAK THE TRUTH 🙏♥️🙌
This goes both ways. It’s facts. I’ve been in a relationship and she treated me BAD and now I’m going to therapy to get myself together
It absolutely goes both ways, good for you for seeking help, I’m doing the same thing. I wish you well.
God bless you. You just keep saying the truth & it's SO APPRECIATED! Thank you so much.
Amen thank you brother