If his mind is made let him marry her. The only problem is that they are living under the same roof. The wife and the second wife. Women should not be under one roof. It is not morally right.
I don’t know why men behave stupid. And this man will foolishly eat her food comfortably thinking he is a man. Many guilty men are in their early grave because of stupidity in the name of “Polygamy is part of my culture “ ooo foolish man beg your wife oo. Na grave de call u soo.
THIS STUPIDNESS ONLY HAPPENS IN AFRICA AND INDIA AS FAR AS I KNOW IN MY COUNTRY WHICH IS A BLACK COUNTRY YOU WILL ONLY HAVE ONE WIFE AND THATS FOR LIFE THE HUSBAND CAN GO OUT AND PLANT AS MUCH LITTLE PUPS AS HE LIKES BUT THEIRS ONLY ONE WIFE AND THATS HER CASTLE NO OTHER WOMAN CANNOT GO NEAR HER TERRITORY OR ELSE BUT THING IS THERES NO DIVORCE THE HUSBAND WILL NEVER LEAVE HIS FAMILY FOR NO OTHER WOMAN AND SOMETIMES SHE MAY FOND OUT AVOUT HIM WITH THE GOSSIP MONGERS AND SHE MIGHT EVEN EXCEPT THAT CHILD BUT NO SECOND WIFE WILL ENTER HER TERRITORY
This woman l fill for her because this man used this woman to build the house for them now he wants to marry the mady no is not right even the perent for that girl they must deal with him
I am proud of my African community standing up and supporting women. I went through all comments except for one against this woman. I am pleased towards your support ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤. God’s blessings to you all.
@@dicksonhaul4895 everything is wrong with taking a second wife, this day it's full of abominable things, doing evil & fetish things to other parties with no peace at home, heavy and jealousy, name but a few🤷♂️
@@zoedonajessys874God bless you, this are the things I do scared of in man getting second wife not even jealous, cos the second wife may come in and started doing juju and the children destiny are at stake, may God help us
Women this thing of we suffered together doesn’t usually end well most of the time . There is no need to sacrifice for a man. Love and encourage him to work hard like other men Don’t try to be his hero cause when lust takes over most of them quickly forget your sweat and where you started. If you have too much money help your poor relatives and later build houses for your children. Live in that smaller rented house till the man of the house can afford better. Let the ‘men of the house ‘take charge of things at home ,help little,after all you were created to be a helper not to carry that home . Men also learn to love your wives and Fear God
Marrying a 2nd wife isn't really the issue for the wife if it was with a different lady. But It's insensitive of the man to betray his wife in this manner and not care about the pain he is/would be causing the wife. Putting myself in the woman's shoes, she can never forgive nor that girl for their actions. I feel Nigeria laws that relates to marriage should be reviewed to protect married women. It's unfair to invest your life into marriage and when things become good, you are treated like trash. It's really sad.
Am so in support of Nigerian law reviewing the rights of married women. So men can turn someone into a monster if not for the fear of God. It's very painful.
Meaning that the man can't be able to pregnant her. You people are thinking negatives, Somebody the man dey nack and the man still very fit to pregnant woman and you are saying it may be his younger boyfriend. Is very obvious that the man can pregnant her.
This man has simply brought an ant infested firewood into his house and therefore invited lizards into his house. Definitely, with what I am seeing here, there will not be any peace in that family again. This is how men bring untimely death to themselves.
You have said it all. I still don"t understand why this old man is calling this beautiful woman that takes care of her body well old woman. Just take a look at the skin of this woman, her hair etc. The woman is not feeling the hardship in Nigeria. I support this woman. She should not accept, it is a slap on her face. Imagine the woman took care of the maid pregnancy untill she gave birth. This man is overwicked o.
One best solution just prank him with a younger man as the wife boyfriend and he also have to move in the house so peace will be and the world will see who is stupid
Whether it's a family matter or not, God 🙏 knows and sees everything, so what we can hide from man, we can not hide from God 🙏 or a servant of God 🙏 glory Allieau, Amen 🙏🙏😭.
Everytime she thinks about how long she took care of the girl, who he is now going to make his second wife. She will replace his wife with a child of his. She feels he set her up, and betrayed her. She gets a shot from a can of whip*^*. Since their cultures gove the man a right to take a second wife, does it give them rules on how it should be done? It seems too harsh of a treatment against the wife.He should have told her up front who this girl was. Then, the wife would have had time to absorb such a situation.
A married woman wants to take up an issue of infidelity legally and she's told it's a family matter. Please who protects the woman's interest when her husband misbehaves and begins to say his tradition permits it. Converting an housemaid to wife and keeping her in the same house with your first wife, is total disrespect to the first wife and there will always be trouble.
This is painful, after 20 years of marriage. Tomorrow when things go sour , he will come out and start begging . What a wicked man. The woman is pained.
You need to know or study most of Nigerian culture which isn't a crime marrying multiple wives however I don't support how the man did it but looking at how aggressive and disrespectful the woman is I don't blame the man.
In Zambia, we bring in the domestic relations issues to church as christians or attention with police department victim support unit to handle such matters before the court.
I thank God for Aunt Zi. Also, I've learnt that till now, many women haven't learnt the basic fiery needs of men, reason why they bring their sisters, nieces, housemaids, just to name a few, to their matrimonial homes. Ladies should learn how to never tempt the devil to tempt them. Period.
This man must be over 50 years old. What more does want. This is how some men spoiled their old age. This is the time he should settle down and enjoy his family.he wanted to start again. What a foolish old man.
The lady should just divorce instead of fighting. No man is worth that pain. Understand she may still love him but walk away . Maids! I can laugh now about it but in hurts when you first discover. Young girl- they'll look for younger man when the man grows old. Leave lady before you get HIV
Omo why men so wicked some girls don’t have shame too that househelp is wicked the woman it really hurt her … but is not a thing of fight but prayers and wisdom
These old fools should learn from each other a second wife will never work when you have a good first wife who has been managing you through your lowest times in life… mama is strong ooo and she still looks young and fresh this man dey craz
Can u truly say the madam was truly good see the behavior she put up can u as man put up with this type of woman, the woman has serious character issues. They man did this purposely which I do not support to humble her.
@@sundayapeji8662 he has played in her face for 5 good years him and this so called maid mama was taking care of this girl as a daughter mean while she was knacking her husband that will turn any woman to a beast
Ladies, please we need to stop fighting because a man is taking another wife. Please keep yourself happy with your children and work hard for your money to grow and enjoy life. Life is too short. Please let him go
The man is wicked and self center she suffer for you and you did it to her, the house help is also wicked. Both wii reap what they sold .it a matter of time saying I am the head of the head, you do not know the meaning of head of the house,if not you wii not alter that words.because what you did it not a good example for people to follow
So bad for the man to impregnate his house help and wants to marry her. But Realzitachy, I think it's time you guys make your clients to maintain peace while you are trying to carryout whatever they have requested for your help. If this woman can solve the problem by fighting her husband why did she request for your assistance.
AND WHY MAY I ASKED YOU ARE ASKING THAT STUPID QUESTION FOOLISH PERSON DID YOU STEAL SOMEONE ELSE HUSBAND AS WELL THE HUSBAND DISRESPED HIS WIFE BY SLEEPING WITH THE SERVANT HE WAS ARE DISGUSTING OLD MAN
This man is a BAD man. Madam keep calm and plan well. The man is far older than the woman and he has the gout to say she is old. Even if you don't have a child can't you adopt?
Lord have mercy. she has a right to color him , am a grand mother and am enjoying every minute of this,we need more women like this one ,he's very wicked, just don't leave your house and go,hang in there still be strong
This is why Edochie Vs Edochie is a landmark case! The entitlement these men have! The audacity! The abuse! Wives are human beings!!! This wife should leave him. Why is she fighting for a man like this who has disrespected her so?
Wow! shameless man😢He called her an old woman! what about him being an old fool😢 this should have been the time to enjoy peaceful time with his wife; traveling; loving each other without the pressure of the world. Instead the audacious man called her old😢😢
Please, i want to look at this issue from another side, i didn't support the husband on marring another wife, but we need to appeal to this woman to be very careful, for her not to injure her health. It's unfortunately that she had married a strong headed man, who will always claim culture and traditions as soon as they did something rong. The woman should for the sake of her children, take things lightly, so that the husband family and the maid will not throw her out of the house. They've planned the cinerio, unknown to the woman, a long time.
I feel her pain some men are just heartless and think they can service the world, but that was me I would kick them out or wip both ass and leave and never look back.
It is so sad and tragic what these men are doing to their wives. Just to dispose of them. His wife still looks young and attractive.
Yes, you are right, younger than him
Most wives leaves everything to the maids in the house. Cooks and serves the husband. Everything is the maid.. That's very tempting, people..
If his mind is made let him marry her. The only problem is that they are living under the same roof. The wife and the second wife. Women should not be under one roof. It is not morally right.
I don't support violence, but you see this one....I support!
When a woman say i will deal with you , think very well
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I don’t know why men behave stupid. And this man will foolishly eat her food comfortably thinking he is a man. Many guilty men are in their early grave because of stupidity in the name of “Polygamy is part of my culture “ ooo foolish man beg your wife oo. Na grave de call u soo.
PROVERBS 5:15
Nothing to think, let her go back to her father's house 🏠if she'll not allow second wife
The man is heartless
She is very beautiful woman,This man is wicked
He is not even ashamed at all. He has audacity for saying the wife is old, may God help him🙏🏽🙏🏽
He his even older then the wife shameless man
@@omotayoalabi1641 Exactly
She is sexy
I REALLY FEEL FOR THIS WOMAN IF SOMEONE CAN UNDERSTAND HER PAIN YOU WILL FEEL FOR HER SOME MEN ARE HEARTLESS
Very heartless
THIS STUPIDNESS ONLY HAPPENS IN AFRICA AND INDIA AS FAR AS I KNOW IN MY COUNTRY WHICH IS A BLACK COUNTRY YOU WILL ONLY HAVE ONE WIFE AND THATS FOR LIFE THE HUSBAND CAN GO OUT AND PLANT AS MUCH LITTLE PUPS AS HE LIKES BUT THEIRS ONLY ONE WIFE AND THATS HER CASTLE NO OTHER WOMAN CANNOT GO NEAR HER TERRITORY OR ELSE BUT THING IS THERES NO DIVORCE THE HUSBAND WILL NEVER LEAVE HIS FAMILY FOR NO OTHER WOMAN AND SOMETIMES SHE MAY FOND OUT AVOUT HIM WITH THE GOSSIP MONGERS AND SHE MIGHT EVEN EXCEPT THAT CHILD BUT NO SECOND WIFE WILL ENTER HER TERRITORY
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Not only heartless but ungrateful.
This woman is fighting for her own rights welldone mama never give up fight till the end this man is so disrespectful
This woman l fill for her because this man used this woman to build the house for them now he wants to marry the mady no is not right even the perent for that girl they must deal with him
I will marry her!!!, I am the head of the house. Just listen to this man!
He no get sense at all
Indeed
@@turrisbeatum-i3qyou said it all.
Very stupid old fool to be called a husband
Foolish man
I like this Justice guy, he is so real and knowledgeable.
I like this woman's action
I am proud of my African community standing up and supporting women. I went through all comments except for one against this woman. I am pleased towards your support ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤. God’s blessings to you all.
Amen 🙏
Useless disgusting husband! I won't blame the wife if she deals with him! The wife is even too pretty for him.😡
Hmmmmmm
The woman look younger than this old rugie
@@thandigetrude-wh3yrhonestly
I like the way this woman is behaving at list this man will not have peace of mind 😂😂😂
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20 years of marriage now is the time both should enjoy themselves . The man has no conscience
That’s our African men for you dear
@@nubianqueen4375hmmm
There's nothing wrong in getting second wife. As long as he can take a good care of them
@@dicksonhaul4895 everything is wrong with taking a second wife, this day it's full of abominable things, doing evil & fetish things to other parties with no peace at home, heavy and jealousy, name but a few🤷♂️
@@zoedonajessys874God bless you, this are the things I do scared of in man getting second wife not even jealous, cos the second wife may come in and started doing juju and the children destiny are at stake, may God help us
Women this thing of we suffered together doesn’t usually end well most of the time . There is no need to sacrifice for a man.
Love and encourage him to work hard like other men
Don’t try to be his hero cause when lust takes over most of them quickly forget your sweat and where you started.
If you have too much money help your poor relatives and later build houses for your children.
Live in that smaller rented house till the man of the house can afford better.
Let the ‘men of the house ‘take charge of things at home ,help little,after all you were created to be a helper not to carry that home
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Men also learn to love your wives and Fear God
You are welcome Zii. But stand strong. NEVER you accept the guy back to your life. He will stop your career and ruin you forever.
He will surely ruin her if she goes back! And she's to great for the likes of him. ❤
Wetin happened to our zii
Zee, you nailed. This woman has been bullying the man and now he found peace in the bosom of another woman
Marrying a 2nd wife isn't really the issue for the wife if it was with a different lady. But It's insensitive of the man to betray his wife in this manner and not care about the pain he is/would be causing the wife. Putting myself in the woman's shoes, she can never forgive nor that girl for their actions. I feel Nigeria laws that relates to marriage should be reviewed to protect married women. It's unfair to invest your life into marriage and when things become good, you are treated like trash. It's really sad.
Am so in support of Nigerian law reviewing the rights of married women. So men can turn someone into a monster if not for the fear of God. It's very painful.
I feel her pain that exactly what happened to my mum 20 years ago 😢
Go for DNA he may not be the father. Some of these girls are cunning that child may be for a boy friend. But some men are wicked.
😂😂😂 he get no sense
Na true. E fit be for her younger boyfriend oooo
Meaning that the man can't be able to pregnant her. You people are thinking negatives, Somebody the man dey nack and the man still very fit to pregnant woman and you are saying it may be his younger boyfriend. Is very obvious that the man can pregnant her.
Even an 70 year old man can pregnant a young girl
@@carolinenwachukwu7520😂😂😂
This man is wicked
Exactly
Very wicked
Zii really hard a rough day, starting from her ex crashing the set and this very energetic beautiful woman, na wa ooo!❤😂
Mrs. HEYHIS 😂😂😂
WELCOME BACK
LOVE U
This man has simply brought an ant infested firewood into his house and therefore invited lizards into his house. Definitely, with what I am seeing here, there will not be any peace in that family again. This is how men bring untimely death to themselves.
Exactly!
You've said it all!
In pete edochie voice😢
You have said it all. I still don"t understand why this old man is calling this beautiful woman that takes care of her body well old woman. Just take a look at the skin of this woman, her hair etc. The woman is not feeling the hardship in Nigeria. I support this woman. She should not accept, it is a slap on her face. Imagine the woman took care of the maid pregnancy untill she gave birth. This man is overwicked o.
One best solution just prank him with a younger man as the wife boyfriend and he also have to move in the house so peace will be and the world will see who is stupid
Whether it's a family matter or not, God 🙏 knows and sees everything, so what we can hide from man, we can not hide from God 🙏 or a servant of God 🙏 glory Allieau, Amen 🙏🙏😭.
When a woman says she will deal with you make sure to sleep with your eyes open, because even if it 100 years she will.
This man is playing with his life. Many men have been killed for this same reason. He is not wise.
Power of a housemaid 😮
Everytime she thinks about how long she took care of the girl, who he is now going to make his second wife. She will replace his wife with a child of his. She feels he set her up, and betrayed her. She gets a shot from a can of whip*^*.
Since their cultures gove the man a right to take a second wife, does it give them rules on how it should be done? It seems too harsh of a treatment against the wife.He should have told her up front who this girl was. Then, the wife would have had time to absorb such a situation.
Some men are inconsiderate. Toying with women emotions,
No Peace For the Wicked 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
This is how some people destroy what they toil to build. The man has set fire on his home. The result will be disastorous!
Madam my feelings goes with you.
God the Almighty will continue to support you.
Leave everything to God.
A married woman wants to take up an issue of infidelity legally and she's told it's a family matter. Please who protects the woman's interest when her husband misbehaves and begins to say his tradition permits it. Converting an housemaid to wife and keeping her in the same house with your first wife, is total disrespect to the first wife and there will always be trouble.
You’re not old ooo you’re beautiful
This very bad, this man is on grateful.
Drop him girl,, you still got it going on. Divorce him and get yourself a young fine man. Show him better then you can tell him!
This is painful, after 20 years of marriage. Tomorrow when things go sour , he will come out and start begging . What a wicked man. The woman is pained.
This man , you're a wicked man! Let's call a spade a spade!
This man is something else, which culture tell you to marry second wife especially your house help
You need to know or study most of Nigerian culture which isn't a crime marrying multiple wives however I don't support how the man did it but looking at how aggressive and disrespectful the woman is I don't blame the man.
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This man deserve jail term
I am so happy I live in the Caribbean. This kind of things don't happen..Marry another wife? He'll no!
In my home 🇭🇹country, I leave it alone.
That man should be careful now
This man is wicked it's hard to bear😢
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 The Pa funny ooh, only dodging skills wey yin get.
Look at a senseless head of the house
He is Runnig Chia, This Man Wicked
Na wah o! My dear, do not worry yourself. That man has slipped out of your hands. He is not worthy of your anger
That man is a compound fool... That mais will finish him
She can PRAY the Housemaid out of her husband life.
In Zambia, we bring in the domestic relations issues to church as christians or attention with police department victim support unit to handle such matters before the court.
That man is playing with fire, he is wicked and foolish. He has just invited war into his home. What ever the wife dose, she should not be blamed.
The man should be careful, if not he will sleep and will not wake up with what I just saw now
I thank God for Aunt Zi. Also, I've learnt that till now, many women haven't learnt the basic fiery needs of men, reason why they bring their sisters, nieces, housemaids, just to name a few, to their matrimonial homes. Ladies should learn how to never tempt the devil to tempt them. Period.
It is wicked the ways of the man. He is irresponsible and making excuses with his so called tradition
Thank God they did not poison you.
I love this lady that the husband called old woman, she's very active not old at all
The way chief is running behind Big Justice self😂😂😂
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🤣😂🤣😂 wahala everywhere
This man must be over 50 years old. What more does want. This is how some men spoiled their old age. This is the time he should settle down and enjoy his family.he wanted to start again. What a foolish old man.
70 years old, he’s a dead man standing.
That’s why most young ladies are not ready to suffer with a man again.. everybody need ODOGUN
Welcome back, Mrs Heyhis 😂😂😂.
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Ehi the woman beater
Let's call a spade a spade this man is provoking this woman calling her old woman who dose that?
A coward
Madam don't worry,one day you will remind him that he called you old woman.Just take care of yourself.Let God and your Children be your companion.
The lady should just divorce instead of fighting. No man is worth that pain. Understand she may still love him but walk away . Maids! I can laugh now about it but in hurts when you first discover. Young girl- they'll look for younger man when the man grows old. Leave lady before you get HIV
Omo why men so wicked some girls don’t have shame too that househelp is wicked the woman it really hurt her … but is not a thing of fight but prayers and wisdom
These old fools should learn from each other a second wife will never work when you have a good first wife who has been managing you through your lowest times in life… mama is strong ooo and she still looks young and fresh this man dey craz
Can u truly say the madam was truly good see the behavior she put up can u as man put up with this type of woman, the woman has serious character issues. They man did this purposely which I do not support to humble her.
@@sundayapeji8662 he has played in her face for 5 good years him and this so called maid mama was taking care of this girl as a daughter mean while she was knacking her husband that will turn any woman to a beast
As soon as she started talking, I knew he would be an Akwa Ibomite.
This is the type of things that discourages single guys and ladies to get marry. If this is the kind of nonsense that happens in marriage
Ladies, please we need to stop fighting because a man is taking another wife. Please keep yourself happy with your children and work hard for your money to grow and enjoy life. Life is too short. Please let him go
@@balqisajagun8197u make no sense so the second wife can kill her. See he call her old woman means he don't want her
@@dreamalee8400Right! No one should accept sin and wickedness when it's against the Lord and the Bible.
The man is wicked and self center she suffer for you and you did it to her, the house help is also wicked. Both wii reap what they sold .it a matter of time saying I am the head of the head, you do not know the meaning of head of the house,if not you wii not alter that words.because what you did it not a good example for people to follow
So bad for the man to impregnate his house help and wants to marry her. But Realzitachy, I think it's time you guys make your clients to maintain peace while you are trying to carryout whatever they have requested for your help. If this woman can solve the problem by fighting her husband why did she request for your assistance.
Fight don't solve it even she knows that I agree with her after using her money support his baby mother
AND WHY MAY I ASKED YOU ARE ASKING THAT STUPID QUESTION FOOLISH PERSON DID YOU STEAL SOMEONE ELSE HUSBAND AS WELL THE HUSBAND DISRESPED HIS WIFE BY SLEEPING WITH THE SERVANT HE WAS ARE DISGUSTING OLD MAN
So sad for us woman God have mercy
This man is a BAD man. Madam keep calm and plan well. The man is far older than the woman and he has the gout to say she is old. Even if you don't have a child can't you adopt?
but he called her mama Akpan
The man is very wicked
Chia I feel for the woman.
God will fight for u .
I can feel her pain, a man you love
I now understand why the man is looking for an alternative
please Nigeria parents living in Nigeria bring up your male child to respect women and do to them what they want to do for them the male
This is so painful and sad🥺😠😡
I pray this woman doesn't take action that she will regret 🙏
What action will be worse than what the husband has done to her?
@@preciousekuma7165please ask amazing grace again
So, the answer is yes.When someone answering your question with another question, the answer to your questions is yes.
This man gbola must be sweet 😅😅😅
Madam i support u completly. Deal wt him as much as u can. He is a very wicked man. Deal wt d baby mama too
Am enjoying the drama 😆
Iam so sorry for you sister do not every let him marry her. And find justice
It is not house help’s fault. She was vulnerable. He took advantage of the girl. Madam, you would have noticed it on time if you were observant.😢
most house help are not there for any house help rather to target their arm now she has successfully
If you have been keeping quiet then keep on keeping quiet * the audacity ! 😡
That man is insensiitive and selfish yeye chief going after his househelp for that matter
You people should hold her oooo, you people should hold her oooo 😅😂.
Genital wahala no dey finish for this world.
This man has no sense, it’s a pity.
Let the lady deal with the man, there should not be peace in the house, and that man should pay for what he did.
Lord have mercy. she has a right to color him , am a grand mother and am enjoying every minute of this,we need more women like this one ,he's very wicked, just don't leave your house and go,hang in there still be strong
As bad as it is, this matter shouldn't be social media since you already know the truth. SM is not family. Get your families to mediate.
If the house help was underaged when he impregnated her, call the police as this would be a criminal offence.
What this man did is very bad, I feel for this woman
This is why Edochie Vs Edochie is a landmark case! The entitlement these men have! The audacity! The abuse! Wives are human beings!!! This wife should leave him. Why is she fighting for a man like this who has disrespected her so?
Wow! shameless man😢He called her an old woman! what about him being an old fool😢 this should have been the time to enjoy peaceful time with his wife; traveling; loving each other without the pressure of the world. Instead the audacious man called her old😢😢
Please, i want to look at this issue from another side, i didn't support the husband on marring another wife, but we need to appeal to this woman to be very careful, for her not to injure her health. It's unfortunately that she had married a strong headed man, who will always claim culture and traditions as soon as they did something rong. The woman should for the sake of her children, take things lightly, so that the husband family and the maid will not throw her out of the house. They've planned the cinerio, unknown to the woman, a long time.
This woman looks good and beautiful. You both are growing old together! Why calling her an old woman. With all the grey hair.
I feel her pain some men are just heartless and think they can service the world, but that was me I would kick them out or wip both ass and leave and never look back.
Okay, women will now be marrying 2nd husbands o! Since this is what is going on, after suffering with a man???
Dis man is wicked wicked ooo,sleeping with ur house girl 😢 see his mouth, woman don’t let him marry dat girl