I worked as a psychiatric nurse for just under 20yrs. I see him as a massively vulnerable and developmentally stunted young man who has a partner capitalising on those vulnerabilities. So much of what they've said has been exposed as lies, and their own stories contradict themselves each time they're told. So much of their body language and behaviour screams concealment and dishonesty.
I have no experience in a professional field that could give my comment credit and yet see the obvious insecurities and weak spots in Prince Harry. Only because his wife keeps pushing him to generate income from his story. He doesn't even have an interesting story . I have relatives. I have the same boring drama. Netflix would never offer me money to rat on my sister in law , step mother, and complain about the time my dad didn't hug me .
@@Balletified She's not diagnosing him, she'd offering her observations about his actions & situation. Harry will also never be a candidate for political office in the US nor King of England; so, speculation about him is fair game.
It is my belief that Harry being sensitive has been a forever thing… BUT, it has gotten worse as Meghan, in her narcissism, has guided him to resent his family like she did with her own family. This way, she can control him better. Sadly!
She has fed his fears,both real & imagined, then blown them out of proportion to maximise the slights into enormous grudges. I have never seen one marriage cause such destruction on the families they came from. It’s all a “test” of proof to his love for her-she demands it. “What Meghan wants,Meghan gets”
@@MayThereBeWorldPeace I think only her narcissism influences Meghan. She thinks she is superior to all of us. She worships and listens only to herself. Just my opinion.
I think William was seriously concerned that his younger brother was being used by a woman because of who he was, rather than truly loving him. He was frustrated that Harry wasn't listening. Grabbing him by the collar isn't hitting him. The whole situation is sad! I would like to think that Meghan married him for love, but she seemed more interested in being the center of attention in a very wealthy, very public family. The whole thing is very sad.
I would assume, I guess, that if someone cared they would speak out. Perhaps Prince William spoke to Prince Harry out of true love. Who knows. I wasn't there. ;)
I don't think any reasonable person wouldn't wonder that. I think it's OK to question people until they prove their loyalty, even if you're giving them the benefit of the doubt. They're around lots of predatory people.
The timeline of the fight coincides with the resignation of staff members and reports that Meghan was engaged in bullying. The RF was hoping that William could get Harry to "guide" Meghan toward better behavior. Apparently --- at least in the released excerpt --- Harry avoids this elephant in the room and makes it sound as if William just waltzed in and called Meghan "difficult" and "abrasive" for no good reason.
That's literally deflection and you're doing it for Williams sake lol. Meghan "wanted to be the center of attention" in a very public family SO much so that she literally left the house of hell aka the Royal RATskeletors and the UK to get away from them? Bc that's a great publicity stunt for garnering both sympathy and more front news coverage tearing your entire family asunder 24/7. You are batshit insane if you truly believe that the UK British royals are the good guy's here? Smdh
If you look back at Lady Diana's funeral, Prince Charles, as he was then, is holding Harry's hand whilst reading all the heartfelt messages. There's also lots of photos of Prince Charles with the boys hugging them & there's even one where he's kissing Harry's head. I think our late Queen had things right when she said recollections may vary.
@Lynette Agueda Rubbish. Charlie might not have been perfect but no parent is. Harry and Meggsy are pathetic cry babies who despite having immense wealth do nothing but bleat and moan. It's fabulous William smacked stupid Harry. You can bet Harry used to fight too. In his book he mentions bullying a matron at his prep school. So there you go, Harry can be a nasty bully but woe betide if someone else does it
So, she wanted to be a princess and when she finally got the position, she doesn't want to follow the rules? It's like finally getting a job, and ignoring the company's security rules.
And Meghan's statement, "I can't believe I'm not getting paid for this," while doing a walkabout in Australia says a lot about her. But I guess that could have been quoted out of context...
She was unprepared for the reality of people who didn’t actually give an eff about the games of television. She had to make a boob out of Harry to fit boob tube scripts. Guess what he likes living in a tv script. Strictly commercial but no way near Zappa
One account is that when Harry went round to Clarence House to tell his father and Camilla about dating Meghan and wanting to propose, he told them about Meghan being mixed race and Camilla cracked a joke (she is known to be funny) saying, “I wonder if your child will have a ginger Afro?” Allegedly, the three of them laughed, but when Harry told Meghan, she instantly blamed racism. This rings true.
@Rescue Mom it's not a "happy dance!" It's called Not being a corpse and actually having and showing some passion and emotion. God forbid, in this day and age though, eh??!!
So it was a remark that ruffled feathers. It wasn’t, however, a license to name call or deem someone a racist. We hear these accusations made as a form of control. A label to package and then dismiss people. Enough already. People who keep the racist card in their pocket have an agenda and are petty power/advantage seekers in my experience.
It does ring true. Meghan has no discernible sense of humour, whereas the Royals have a delightful, typically British sense of humour, as we Aussies do.
@@chantel7827 In your view, how would you like to see the Royals ‘showing enotion’? It’s not enough that they kiss publicly when they meet, grasping each other’s arms? That they have been seen with tears? That they occasionally huh members of the public? What do you want?
You are right harry, Charles and camilla were discussing it. Catherine wasn't in on the conversation. Megan doesn't like her so that's why she put her name in the mix.
@@derickrae ha ha. My brother and I fought when we were young, and about 16 yrs and we never ever fought again. I was jealous of my mom's attention of him for all his accomplishments. But I never felt ill will towards HIM. :) It sounds painful I'm guessing to be at odds with people you love.
As a mother of mixed race children, my family had a lot of questions when I was pregnant with my first child. It’s definitely about the tone. Some family members were flat out rude. My grandfather said a few things that could have been taken as insulting, but I knew he loved me with all his heart and wouldn’t hurt me like that. The questions were just out of curiosity. In fact, when I was in labor, my child’s father wasn’t there, so my grandfather rushed to the hospital to be by my side. He held my hand through each contraction and fed me ice chips. He only left the room and had my mom take over when I had to push. 😂
Tamara, great story Thank You!! Yes, sometimes we are just curious, maybe ending up fumbling the meaning. You understood though, you were LOVED!! Hugs from me.
@Mikolt Avas Yeah, they are. I have 6 children. Being in labor is physically exhausting. It’s okay to take very small sips of water, but I found ice chips to be very helpful.
Tone is huge. Prince Philip was known for talking a bit crass at time, a lot of men their generation do. Partly because while they might have changed language over time, as your memory becomes advance you loose your filter and a lot of this language was ok when they were young. So they loose that, wait it’s not right to say that phrase it this way. My grandfather got to be the same way before his death
Evidently the queen insisted on sending him to therapy. So, he had some support, but clearly he didn't get the help he needed. This obsession in adulthood with his mum now is unsettling. His keeping her hair in a box at his nightstand - troubling. Meg "communing" with dead mum-in-law to get guidance - really manipulative and creepy. I'm not a RF fan, but I think they did the best they could. Parenting is hard. Mistakes and misses (not even seeing the problem or minefield) are so easy!
@@kalicanterbury8085 And who are you to tell someone else how they should process grief? Some people never move on from grief, they just learn to live with it. Others never manage to move on. Who are we to judge Harry in that matter ?
I agree with kalicantterbury - I read that he was provided with therapy and has used therapy throughout his life. He says after he and Will fought, he dialed his therapist right away.
He said after his fight with his brother the 1st person he called was his therypist , so he was able to get help! My mother was killed by a drunk driver when I was 14. My Parents had divorced when I was 3, so I had no relationship with him. I do understand his pain, but at this age he knows he is hurting his father and brother and that is just jealousy!
Well done for recovering and moving on. Harry never will, because being Diana’s son is literally the only thing he has going for him to make money from, ghastly boy.
Yes, quite true. He also credited his brother in convincing him to see a Therapist long before meeting TW. That's how the Mental Health initiative got started. But obviously he didn't stick with Therapy as evidenced by his behavior, or maybe just wasn't willing to do the work.
@@basicallyamy Here is the resident sugar again: 1) The Archbishop married them in their backyard the day before..The archbishop himsef denied it. 2) She and Harry have conficting timelines about the supposed " racist " question about the skin color of Archie 3) If Meghan was suffering from deppression...Harry had a therapist on speed dial. :)
@@basicallyamyYES! 😄 Their "private wedding" 3 days before the big wedding comes to mind. What a whopper! Google "Lies Meghan told on Oprah" and the number of lies, somewhere in the range of 30, is exposed extensively.
@@macandcheese9324 4. Palast refused Archie a Prince titel because of his color and many more lies. The Sugars don't like facts ! They make their money by disturbing chats about their cult leader.
IF William dared tell Harry that his wife was difficult, rude and abrasive then I’d bet money on the likelihood that angry, fiery Harry flew at William in a rage and William pushed him away to prevent a fight occurring which is why Harry ended up on the floor. Harry wouldn’t say his part in it though. He would blame someone else, as he always does. We all know Harry has “his own versions” of stories that often don’t even match up to his wife’s
Also Andrew I love your interviews. You did so well with HG Tudor and others. You have a gift. I watch interviews I wouldn’t normally watch (like this one about Harry) because you do such a good job. You’re kind, compassionate, ask good questions, but are quiet when you need to be and let guests talk. Rare ability these days.
I must admit that I’m quite sick of listening to H&M whine about everything. She’s toxic and he’s needy. Not buying the book. Not watching the documentary because it frustrates me beyond words.
Agreed! So sick of manipulitive Megan and pathetic Harry. I see regrets in his future, when he finds himself alone and realizes that the bridges he's burned cannot be rebuilt.
I completely disagree with this Brit racist and hatred media bubble that is in denial of realty. Most Brits are so racist they cannot admit that structural racism even exists in the UK. Nothing new here, just ask the Windrush gen, Grenfell Towers inhabitants, Indians and Pakistanis how non-racist the Brits are…. There’s a serious problem in the UK that the country is not dealing with. It will always be the ‘uppity’ and and pushy’ minorities that are lightning rods of blame in Britain’s horribly flawed system classist system.
For goodness sake, when you get bullied by the public and devalued by the family, why would you not say enough is enough and speak up. His mother tried to warn the public about this dysfunctional family but because she was adored by the public, people did not attack her to the level the toxic media and public attack M&H
@@louisasellek6125 Diana's family was also dysfunctional. Both her father and grandfather beat their wives. Her mother filed for divorce on the grounds of cruelty.
Harry's nickname in the army was "Bunker Harry". Because that's where he spent all his time playing XBox. He was constantly guarded by Special forces and only come out for photo ops. He put troops at risk because of who he is. Servicemen are starting to spill the beans.
We have all lost family and close friends and those deaths have impacted us. But you grieve and eventually life goes on. It is as if he is fixated on her passing and has tried to replace his mother with this manipulative opportunist of a wife.
@@kathrynbaker8215 you can't compare grief. It's an individual thing. Me and my sister are only 2 years apart and handled our father's death very differently. It's been 22 years and I don't think I am still over it.
@@WellISaidIt it’s understandable to not be “over it”. My mom will never be over losing her mother. I feel for you and I am so sorry you had to go through that. What is not understandable is using losing your mother as an excuse to throw your whole family under the bus for millions of dollars. He’s also ruining Diana’s legacy by constantly comparing Meghan to her. Now a lot of people are saying “hmm you’re right Harry, Diana did have these negative personality traits like Meghan” when people were not before. William lost his mother too. And they seemed to have grieved very differently. Which is natural. But I don’t think it’s right for Harry to judge how William grieved differently so publicly.
Surely any therapist who has been advising Harry would not suggest making these accusations public. Writing his grievances down would be a healing experience, but no need to publish them to the whole world! He must be very naive to think this would bring any reconciliation, so is he just self sabbotaging?
Quote from Prince Phillip (he didn't think H & M were doing the right thing, either for the country or for them), "It's a big mistake to think about yourself,. No one is interested in you in the long run. Don't court popularity. It doesn't last. Remember that the attention comes because of the position you are privileged to hold, not because of who you are. If you think it's all about you, you'll never be happy." The Queen subscribed to this as well. She almost never spoke about herself, never granted an interview, never performed or played up for the camera. She saw her duty to be a unifying symbol in the society of the UK above politics (which we sadly lack in the US), providing a thread of continuity linking the past w/ the future plus soft diplomacy. Yes, the royal family does have incredible privileges, but they have an annual contribution to the UK economy est. to be £1.766 billion. These estimates included indirect economic effects on tourism, trade, media and arts.
@@clareleach921 But you didn't say any such thing. You said you'd have done the same thing and implied that it's acceptable. None of that is relevant. The fact reminds that only cavepeople get physical to settle disagreements. It's not OK. I certainly hope it's not true, but you didn't comment about whether this was a truth or a lie. My father used to hurt me when I was a child and physical violence is really more common in family situations than people realize. It's life-ruining and it's not funny. It solves nothing. It's for bullies and people who can't express themselves.
That is one therapeutic and professionally-minded psychiatrist. He didn't speak negatively about them as everyone else is, but, in fact, felt empathy for them. Great insight on his part.
A brilliant conversation but there is a LOT missing in regard to the last five years of this dastardly duo. They planned on leaving as quickly as they got married…
***MISTAKE: They were paid $100m for the Netflix doc, not $10m! Is Prince Harry jealous of his brother? Meghan a narcissist? Or a victim of a racist/unfair press? BIG DISCUSSIONS TO BE HAD!
Complaints? O wow what about truth n it boils down to W is more concerned abt appearance n the upkeep of the "firm" above anything else the business comes 1st for W which can come off as cold n selfish if no1 likes it don't listen r read how English say "keep calm n CARRY ON ppl"
Actions speak for themselves. It’s not W or C that seem jealous, but M & C seem to be based on their actions. Many psychological professionals have all guessed the same pathology regarding M & H. I tend to agree with them.
Yeah that a lot money to basically have a moan about the family if we could let's all go to netflix. Then we mite afford to heat our homes and eat this winter 👺🤬
I think in childhood, Harry after the death of his mother, felt lost and got very bounded to William. But William left him by going to school, maturing and going independent. Harry was trying various things to find his place but acctually never achieved it (by his army service was getting him closest to it), however it didn't last. He saw himself in William and wished similar things for himself (representative wife, soulmate, family). With Megan he got manipulative narcissist, that family could not approve and Harry felt betrayed. He was also "massaged" by Megan constantly on how he got mistreated by his family, so the division of two brothers progressed. Now they are trying to earn money the way that is the easiest, plus getting the attention they both crave (for different reasons). Personally, I am getting bored by actual content they bring or create. For obvious reason they will work on that that it lasts as long as possible, cause they don't have other way of earning the money. I am quite curious about the end of this story. I would guess, it will not work at one point ang Megan will dump him. Than he will go home.
🤔 I’ve watched the Royals since Diana & Charlie’s met & married. Now if Meghan did her homework when she met Harry she could have watched all the documentaries & read every book written out there about her & Fergie’s lives within the Royals. Did she really think she was going to chance an institution? Harry had an obligation to explain how the firm worked. His other gf didn’t want to marry him because they knew what it took to be a royal. So there shouldn’t have been any blindsiding on Meghan’s part. You prep for a job interview, I’d be preparing for this job, but I already know the role. When ppl become citizens of the US they learn the The Star Spangle Banner when they become US citizens, why did Markle make such a big deal learning the God Save The Queen. Really? She’s an actress, how many times did she go for auditions? You learn to play a part. As for Harry he’s paranoid. Both brothers lost their mother, William is only 2 yrs older than Harry. I find it hard to believe Harry wasn’t allowed to grieve his mother’s death. It was decades ago, lots of things change over time being more open talking about death.
@Rescue Mom You know, that was my impression from the limited stuff I watched on it when they first got together. That she wanted the prestige of being a princess but not to do the work to learn how to be a royal. There was some brief interview she did where she talked about it and I just remember thinking... you haven't prepared yourself for this. Not that she didn't know but just that she didn't do her homework. Is some of the stuff they do stupid, heck yea. It's still their traditions and I felt like she didn't take it seriously at all. Now that I see all this stuff going on it justifies that odd feeling I had back then. The fact that they keep trying to capitalize is telling.
As a psychologist, I do have concerns about Harry and his current level of depression. I would not be surprised if he becomes suicidal given all the negative feedback that has resulted from his horrible book! Has anyone come to this possibility?
I have encountered people who could not accept their position in life and deluded themselves that they were somebodies, which if gone too far has led to madness.
I read in a newspaper that King Charles is trying to end the toxic relationship that Prince Harry has with Meghan by giving a divorce settlement. I am not sure how much is true. But I think the chances are there.
It's sad and I'm sorry he feels this way. I have to ask though, if they were told that yes, they could stay and continue to work for his grandmother, but do it part-time, would they have still done Oprah, Netflix and the book deal? Is this the revenge for that, bc he thought his grandmother would be reading his book too, and that's really sad. Leaving the Taliban comment in the book also proves Harry doesn't have good people behind him, looking after his best interests.
He had to see a therapist after his fight with William but her couldn't get his suicidal wife help! They've been caught in so many lies and ever changing stories. Don't believe anything they say!
I think the Royal Family needs to hold the Duke and Duchess of Suckage at arms length, kind of like a rabid dog. There seems to be no end in sight of this nonsense. Way too many contradictions. Bad behavior - Harry was invited several times to visit the Queen at Balmoral, refused and then argued with Prince Charles about bringing M when the Queen was dying. The Queen who saw her namesake great-grandaughter, Lillibet ONCE. How disrespectful. He claimed to care about HRM but his actions say otherwise. And that book. I have heard some excerpts, and it's a real shit-show - vulgar, disrespectful and the Queen is probably doing a spin in her grave.
The love of money does horrendous things to some people. Unfortunately I have witnessed it myself in my own family - it was shameful 😢 Harry is a very sick man & being propelled by a very unsavoury partner helping him make a fool of himself to make more ££. I wish his therapist would just get him to have more sessions rather than being in the media all the time.
What about Meghan father? He is painting himself as a victim now, when he exposed her own daughter’s life to the media long time before. He is not a victim , he is earning more money than in his entire life. What about Meghan’s half brother, creating a UA-cam channel just to mock her? That looks like a good people to you? It’s funny how no matter what Harry does the blame is on Meghan ALWAYS!It’s crazy
Great Guest. He was intriguing to listen to. His theories are top notch and he truly is on his way to success in helping people. He sees and understands it all. Not all Doctors do. Bless you both. Best wishes. Bring him back please ✨
@lissa274, that you think he "sees and understands it all" is exactly why he should lose his medical license. He is asserting medical assessments and diagnoses about particular named people he has never met with facts he doesn't know. He includes opinions about areas outside of his expertise. He is using his medical credentials for credibility and tabloid popularity. I knew he was slime when I saw him say in an interview that he thought the Goldwater principle isn't important. He was talking about the Dr. Speigal debacle in the DeppvHeard case. I'm pretty sure Das woudn't get away with this kind of unethical behaviour in Canada.
Please check out Dr Sohom Das' channel called Psyche for sore minds. He is amazing. I also red his book, and Im a big fan of his content. 😊. BTW I'm not on any commission.
I raised 6 kids and my two middle daughters were brutal . They were very close in age and competitive . These behaviors were rooted in insecurity .They've since mended their ways
I have two young daughters 4 years apart and everything is like a competition between them it's so annoying I'm hoping they grow out of it soon. Me and my partner are the only children so is this normal behaviour for siblings as I have no idea.
@@beccaboo3040 Please be careful with that. I had a sister who was 4 years younger than me. I have no clue how old your girls are now, but I assure you, there is no competition between a 4 year old and an 8 year old, that a 4 year old can win. 8 year old's go to school, they can read and write, they are maybe playing in a sport well or have a talent for drawing, riding a 2 wheeled bike. Whatever the 4 year old does, the 8 year old will likely easily surpass them and still have a later bedtime and be responsible for a chore or two. As you move along to say 12 and 16, again, the 12 year old will not win any sort of competition. 16 year old's are likely very involved in a social group, maybe have part time jobs, are allowed out later in the evening, perhaps wear heels or bras, or other more grown up clothing and make up. Perhaps they can even drive. I don't think most 8 year old's feel very competitive toward 4 year old's, and likewise, most girls of 16 aren't even slightly interested in competing with a 12 year old. What went on in my house was a jealous younger sister continually targeting the older sister, and the older sister being told to be the bigger person. When the older one is continually told to be the bigger person, what is happening is the younger is actually being given a sort of license to continue targeting the older. And the older is told it's their role to be a target without complaint. And when a parent makes comments about the girls "competing", it can be a huge insult to the older who may well not be competing, she's already mastered the tasks of years earlier, it could be a jealous younger sister targeting her. And it shows a callous disregard for what the older might be going through emotionally. How can it be good for self esteem to constantly have to "take it". And how can the younger develop integrity when taught that it's ok to target people you're jealous of? Or even that being jealous is a valid emotion worthy of being acted upon? I never rubbed anything in her face. And I wasn't the cause of the perks that came with my advancing age. And, any successes I had were downplayed because younger sister would be upset, and we sure didn't want to upset her. As she got older she would also do things like steal and let older sister or brother be blamed. Terrible accusations would be made, feelings would be hurt and older's had to spend way too much time proving and defending or even being punished. She would snoop, she was constantly looking to get "dirt" on others. And the lying goes without saying, about just about anything, with a special place for lying just to hurt others, if you couldn't find dirt you could always make it up. I'm sure she's a narcissist, which I know complicates things. And clearly I'm the older in the story, so admittedly the perspective isn't even handed. Where we ended up decades later is living thousands of miles apart, and since some key family members passed I haven't had to be near her. I couldn't possibly convey all the stress of growing up as a target of hate fueled by jealousy, and it doesn't get easier to deal with as you move into college, career, marriage and children, they simply provide other potential arenas for injury. Being thousands of miles away, she doesn't make my stomach hurt any more. Anyhow, on behalf of older sister, I implore you, address what is actually happening. Is the older girl actually competing with the younger? Or is the younger the one competing or expressing jealousy? And please don't use appeals to "be the bigger person", to replace parenting. I remember having something very special cut to pieces by a jealous, competing younger teenage sister, and being told to be the bigger person, yes, it makes sense with a 2 year old, take away the scissors and tell them "no", end of story. So what did that actually mean over the years? It meant, get over it, don't make a fuss, accept your place as a target without complaint and then parent wont have to deal with it. A monster was created, and self esteem was damaged. Sorry, I've made this long, and it's all one sided, but for what it's worth I kind of enjoyed sticking up for the older's out there, and also for my younger self. I'm sure, just based on your caring enough to ask the question, you will get it right.
@@beccaboo3040 unfortunately yes . However what worked for me was mom dates . Each on by themselves . Just keep the date relaxed and listen .to what ever they want to talk about Let them decide what they want to do . Alot of rivalry has to do with wanting parental validation . I let my girls complain ,,validated their. feelings no matter how misplaced and gave them tools to work things out .. These. Mom dates are allot of fun.It builds their confidence and self esteem. Don't take sides . . No pressure . You'll be great at it . Good luck . Keep in touch I recommend at the least 2 dates a month .
Wow...H must feel so horrible. Betraying his family. I think the comparison between Megan and princess Diana is completely ridiculous! Their situations were so different. I think m is a camera hog and so obviously fake.
Family relations can be extremely complicated. This is so true when you are referring to upper class families that are Royals. My kids fight, argue and are extremely hurtful towards eachother. Siblings will definitely fight when one sibling is expected to live a very particular lifestyle and have certain expectations for their life. Hopefully these two brother can meet in the middle and be brothers in the future.
It's possible but doubtful. Hazza has been too busy throwing hand grenades at William and the rest of the family. It's odd he does that then says he wants to be on good terms with them?! Talk about gaslighting
@B.M.T.H. Hazza? I'm not following, Maybe it should spark a conversation on what expectations The UK have to the Royals that you eagerly pay taxes to. It would be a healthy checkup.
HG Tudors video today comparing being in a cult and being with a narcissist is adressing exactly this. So illuminating. The prince is empathic but he has bought into the victim story totally right now, that is what I see. I feel sad for him. If he wakes up and sees what he has been doing in an undistorted way it is going to be tough. Good people who have been cult members know this.
One of the best videos he ever made about Harry and his wife. I do feel sorry for him sometimes, but overall I have come to despise him. Because it isn't all his wife's fault, but his as well. And as much as we may feel sorry for him like we would for some clueness cult members, the fact remains that he had, and still has, plenty of issues of his own. And those contributed to his downward spiral just as much as his shacking up with his wife did.
I hope someone can answer this. Remember Harry before Megan? I just remember Harry, William and Katherine all working together and laughing and doing such wonderful work. What changed?
How many 8 -10 year old lost their mother in 1997, how many of them went into foster care or care homes, and how many went back to a Palace and a very large extended family. He had a secure future.for God's sake hw got into Sandhurst. The most under qualified candidate to probably enter its Hallowed Halls. Diane was right in what she said about Harry needing special attention she obviously saw in him what we are seeing now.
Different versions of stories coming out in the book, compared to what they claimed in the Oprah show and the Netflix drama. They can’t even keep their stories straight.
Harry's revelations about his brother indicate his immaturity, not his pathology. These sort of disagreements and rivalry should not be broadcast to the world. The book is a massive mistake on Harry's part. He will regret it. Because the brothers love each other, over time, they will reconcile, wives be damned. If Megan pushed Harry to make these revelations in public, she is thinking more of herself than her husband. The attention and the money it brings will never compensate for the massive damage done to these brothers. Diana's death affected both brothers, not just Harry. Grief is a weird thing for children. My mother died when I was 8, so I know of what I speak. It makes trusting relationships a lifetime issue, and in that family of "stiff upper lip" I expect that those trust issues are magnified a thousand fold. It's just that William was a bit older so more cognizant.
As an American, we fought to keep the RF out of our affairs. Me-gain thinks she had it rough? Try being Queen Camilla having bread thrown at her AND the most hated person in the UK. ALL of the blame was placed on her, being sl*t shamed when there were two involved. She dealt with it and even proved to Queen Elizabeth II and the rest of the Commonwealth she was a valuable asset, even to the point where she would not be referred to as Princess Consort. Why Queen Consort is stressed now and not with the Queen Mother is truly beyond me. Catherine was hounded for the better part of ten years by the press. She got zero protection until the engagement, which I believe is standard (I barely follow my own country's politics and the lunacy of the two party system). Nothing these two say seems very genuine. All families have rows, I have gone through many myself, but some want to tell the world "their truth" for a huge amount of money. I hope the King strips them of their titles. I am all for forgiveness, but these two are beyond redemption.
Brit here, we are waiting for our king to acknowledge his people's opionions? We have huge sympathy for Charles as a parent, but we do expect at the very least a comment to his people,??
@@christinalock9937 I'm American too, and I'm intensely interested in the Harry /Meghan situation. Meghan is despicable, but with book I realize that Harry is truly mentally ill and she exacerbates his problems. I feel sorry for him and I can't imagine how he will get any help as long as he's with her., but I think he will fall apart if she left him. I've read he has had a lot of therapy, but it doesn't seem to have helped a bit. I feel sad for the whole family.
@@christinalock9937 I think his actions are more powerful than any statement that he could issue tbh. Eg: Changing the Coronation protocols so that Harry’s not featured, not granting the children HRH titles etc.
I think they are grey rocking H & M , effectively giving them enough rope to hang themselves, so that eventually the public will get sick of the mega tantrums
Unfortunately for H&M, I think it's clear that this book is turning into a real home goal and that people are seriously tired of all the complaints when there is real hardship in the world...
People in Britain and the world are desperately sick of these normal minor scuffles siblings have . Harry at this point is reaching. All families have been through scuffles . Very few get a ghost writer and have Megan critique it to make it seem worse . It looks desperate! These two are crashing and thank God, maybe then he’ll get serious mental health probably needs impatient with ban from toxic evil nasty cruel wife from interfering 😮
The underlying assumption here is that people’s upbringing and personal experiences don’t have validity because there are other people in the world who are suffering…. This is absolutely wack. Just because you are born with means doesn’t make your mental suffering and lack of love more tolerable. Please stop it with this point of view - abuse is abuse and money and position doesn’t make that abuse more acceptable or tolerable. What I find insufferable is William and Charles turning their backs on Harry because he didn’t fall in love with the right woman. There is no question that Charles is a hypocrite, emotionally abusive and a very selfish individual, king or not. I cannot imagine him as a ‘good father’ by any measure of that term. The Brits are so racist it is hard for the world to get their heads around how racist they are….
18:27 Exactly my thoughts! Never in my life would I even consider wearing a anything related to nazi's. Not when I was 20, not when I was 10. And now he is going to lecture people? The commoners? Jeez, man have some self awareness.
Also: even if the Queen herself would have advised him to wear the nazi costume it doesn't exempt him! He's now 40 and partly blaming his brother and his brothers wife for this?! For 95% of the people this wouldn't even be considered an option, wouldn't enter anyone's mind! This is the worst of the worst of the worst part for me. Sorry to go on and on but this makes my blood boil.
It's called necklace! That is, by the person who has written the script for the book. I will leave you to figure out who's words,jealousy,bitterness and hate shines through.
As someone mixed, skin-tone can't always been known. My maternal grams is full Native American, my birth father is Jewish, and my maternal grandfather is Irish. My grandmother was very dark. My birth father was very olive but still had very red hair. My brother and all my aunts are tawny, even though my brother is a redhead with freckles. Whereas my mother (who is mixed of 2 backgrounds) and myself (3 backgrounds) are both very pale. So there is no way they could predict their child's skin-tone.
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He changed the narrative all right......Consider this - all the years he was involved with the Royal Family his reputation was pretty intact and since leaving their protection, all of a sudden his reputation is in free fall. So, do you think perhaps there may have been some positive influence on the press from the palace? Like withholding the staff bullying report??
Thank you! Yes, a humble brag! That sums up just what I was thinking, but I had not articulated it as well as you. Great show! Absolutely the best pod cast talking about H & M. Great guest, Andrew. I’ll start following the Dr.
Another great guest, Andrew; you ask the best questions. You’re just so smart and curious. I always learn something new when I tune in. Channels like yours are fundamental and necessary with the sophistication of grifting and other criminal/abusive elements that lurk around us. You make us all a bit smarter! 🤓
The brawl/row was likely after staff complained about Meghan again or after Meghan upset Catherine over wedding plans. I think William was terrified how fast things were moving when Meghan was so different in her dealing with staff and re events.
@@charisma-hornum-fries Meghan was bullying staff as well as Princess Charlotte who was 3 at the time. Meghan kept showing favouritism towards her friends child and ghosting little Charlotte. She also wouldn’t let the girls wear stockings , so their shoes were hurting. All this (and who knows what else ) Made Kate upset and she confronted Meghan. You can imagine the scene that followed.
My brother broke my pencil when I was young and I have never forgiven him, he said he was sorry, but I don't think he meant it. I am going to break his pencil when I find it, then I will feel even, maybe I can break two pencils. 😄😄😄
Prince Harry's "necklace" was a rope or leather string that his girlfriend Chelsea had given him. It is visible on photographs. The things Prince William was saying to Harry were words used by the staff members that had complained about Meghan's bullying.
On the last point about the control and Meghan not being able to share pictures, that wasn't just a rule for her, that was a rule for anyone invited in to private areas of the royal residences. A few years ago either Princess Beatrice or Eugenie apparently got in trouble for posting a picture on Instagram of a private area of Buckingham Palace.
A lot of people (most) in the public eye don’t allow pics of their home interiors because it poses a security risk. Once enough pics are floating around, someone can basically put together a floor plan. And with a few more, they would also be able tell which rooms are used at which times of the day, thus not only knowing the floor plan, but a lot of your daily routine.
@@deejames1st You're right, and it's probably also the fact that these people are in the public eye so they want to keep certain aspects of their life private. I think a lot of the rules Meghan seems to find ridiculous are probably security measures. And the rest are probably normal rules anyone would have in a job and being a working royal is a job but I'm not sure she saw it that way. I think Harry failed her massively by not getting her to understand all this before taking on that role.
@@kaycee7550 I am of the opinion that they knew going in, that they’d be leaving for Hollywood soon. She was briefed and tutored for her role/job by a team. One of whom worked for QE for decades. She knew what to do…
@@deejames1st Exactly. My sister posted my toddler in a diaper in our back yard and I had her remove immediately. she then posted a pic of my other child in hospital after an operation...again told her never to do that again...never learns.
"A sense of duty" does need to be proven. Holding a door open for the one behind you does not merit you for an award or round of applause. My parents and siblings would NEVER throw me under the bus no matter what! If anything THEY WOULD and WILL STAND IN FRONT OF IT.
He needs to grow up and understand how lucky and privileged he is. In this unfair world people are struggling in so many ways to provide for their families and these two get paid millions , not for their talent or gift or education but for whining!
This was another great interview Andrew, thank you so much for your this, you are so talented at asking questions and getting the most out of time with your guests!
If Harry and Meghan had just done the Netflix doc and then got on with their lives I think things would have settled down but I think the interviews and book were a big mistake. Seems that Harry doesn't care about what his country is going through right now, poor me syndrome! This was a great episode, a lot of my thoughts on this you guys covered 👍
Thank you for finally addressing this it's pretty obvious to me that Harry's got a lot of issues that need addressing. Megan's just a sociopath and that's pretty obvious as well..🧐💯👍
She’s a narcissist. Check out HG Tudor’s UA-cam videos on the subject. He also thinks Harry is at this point in a similar state to a member of a cult, due to a combination of his own issues and Meghan’s manipulation
Sibling fight all the time. Without context, I can’t comment on this other than to say I might just be sibling conflict. No family is all sweetness and light all the time. The public image might be one thing, but what happens behind closed doors might be entirely different. I suspect the Royal family is similar. And I fully believe that William said those things about Megan - because she seems to be highly likely to be rude and abrasive.
I really feel for poor King Charles. He's had a lot of loss, including both his parents, and all this when all should be celebrating his coronation. Charles has copped bad press all his life It's been brutal
@@rocaz6629 I mean you sugars are biatches...cruel mean love gossip and chaos. The fact that any people haven't arrested any of the squatties for threatening children and seniors is beyond me. Karma...yeah you must have such a horrible loveless life because you get a boner out of a senior citizens hardships and family breakdown. God yr pathetic
She bullied everyone all her life. Ask her family. She’s the mean girl. She was sued for having out superglue on two girls eyes. One almost lost her eyesight.
Yes thats true!! I had forgotten that! It was at one of those sorority initiation things and there was at least one article about the incident in the local newspaper. I believe her dad paid (alot) damages?
This is not fact. Don’t believe everything you read in tabloids. Also, the only info I could find on this online is people asking the same question on Quora. So I wouldn’t state something like this as fact. How would you feel if people spread rumours about you but stated it as facts?
@@priscillayoga4040 I read the article. Not something written about it in tabloid press, but the actual newspaper print article from I believe around 2010. You contradict yourself in your comment too. You say “don’t believe everything you read in tabloids”, yet go on to say, the only info you could find was people asking about it on quora. So, nothing in the tabloid then. Damaging material is removed from public access all the time, by threats of, or actual legal action, by deals/pay offs aso. I will not tell you what to believe, but I am telling you, this incident ocurred. One of the girls spoke up, or it was her father who spoke for her, I can’t remember as its a while ago. The other girl (victim) dit not. But as I stated earlier, I read a printed copy of the newspaper article, not online gossip or tabloid press.
Just an observers point of view: Meghan saw Harry as an opportunity. Harry provided her the opportunity to get the fame and attention she craved. She never had any intention of staying. She was going to get the prince, the title, the money and, most of all, the fame, and as many perques as possible to take with her back to California. William recognized this and tried to caution Harry, who is massively defensive and easily angered. There were also reports of her bullying staff and William wanted to address that situation. It did not sit well with Harry. Various photos and stories through the years have shown Harry to be hot tempered and physically aggressive. Harry is nothing like the portrait he paints of himself being all Zen. I seriously doubt that William initiated the first punch in that so called "fight". All in all, it certainly looks like Harry has been more interested in sensationalism for cash rather than anything else. Finally, I think Harry was right to step down from the Monarchy but made a huge mistake in the way he went about it and the way he is using them in the cruelest way for profit. .
Exactly! He also has a wife and two kids. Does he even give them his time and attention? But he seems to be a record stuck and keeps harping on the same things. I think if he doesn’t, he won’t earn so much and people will lose interest.
The title of the book should be Spite. There are so many excerpts that have his wife's fingerprints all over it and are ludicrous. She is fueling a resentment that was never apparent before. The video and photographic evidence of a close relationship with his brother, sister-in-law and father is legion. Harry has known all his life that William will be king. Another telling excerpt was Harry's Wife's reaction to the 'opulence' of William and Catherine's apartment in Kensington Palace. It turned her brown eyes green. It should be noted that William and Catherine lived in Nottingham Cottage before being gifted the KP apartment and that, after marriage, The Duke and Duchess of Gloucester were moved out of their Kensington Palace apartment to make way for Harry and his wife, who decided that wasn't good enough, so the Queen gifted them Frogmore Cottage. Harry's Wife is pushing the Diana narrative. The meat in Harry's comment about William's baldness is that it makes him look less like Diana. That says so very much. There are so many assertions in this book that does not ring true.
You are a breath of fresh air. I am seventy yrs old and my opinions have changed radically about subjects i have felt strongly about - and i can tell you it is from the influence of social media. After my uncle died we read his diary. He never said one word or bragged that he drove a troop transport ashore on D Day.. Not one word.
The 'Divine Right of Kings' ended in the late 17C in the UK. "After the Glorious Revolution, John Locke published his Two Treatises of Government, in which he argued against the theory of the Divine Right of Kings and advocated the social contract as a basis for creating governments."
The trouble is, it’s a case of the little boy who cried wolf, they’ve told so many proven lies at this point, how can we believe anything, the hypocrisy,is off the scale.
I had one sister that was 2 years younger, and we fought like cat's and dogs. The only difference is that she was bigger than me and could beat the stuffing out of me if she could catch me.
Bottom line is that yes, H & M would always be treated differently then W & C because H would never be king. I think, ultimately, that is H’s issue. The two of them could have found a role and lived in a Commonwealth country and made a difference.
It's like when he said he was ashame to ask for help from his family when Meghan was suicidal (in Oprah's interview) but he had no shame to share all the details with the world.
Sibling rivalry? Surely rivalry means both parties have an issue with each other?. This is resentment, Harry's resentment & jealousy towards his only brother. The only problem William has is dealing with Harry's behaviour TOWARDS him.
Harkle knew at a certain age, his lot in life. Princess Margaret was never going to be Queen & according to some accounts, ACTED Out in destructive ways. Harkle could use some counseling.
If he was my brother I would have tipped the dog food over his head or pushed his silly face in the food. 😂the necklace was a leather thong given by a previous girl friend apparently. 🤷🏼♀️
If I understand correctly Harry had therapy more ore less his whole life. What if he also has anti depressants or anti psychosis medication for manny years. That would do something to his brain and perception of things.
@@morticiagomez6166 well I think it will do something that can't be to good. Ad up the recreational drugs. Then he finally finds someone who he thinks he gives him warmth ( probably love bombing😬) toxic combination those two together.
Most people could retire for life forever and support their extended families on any one of their income sources. I do understand they have costs, but most of us would be settled with a couple mill, could pay off our houses, invest a bit, and travel to disney or whatever bs trip we want once a year (for me, never disney, but i'd settle for algonquin park or iceland). Most of us are really happy to be able to pay our bills, mortgage, have two bathrooms, pay for the kids' education, a few pairs of shoes, etc etc. They should not be allowed to keep those money making titles. Neither of them actually earned it. I am a nurse. Trust me, I earn my money every day, and it's not much. It's really hard to listen to these people.
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“difficult,” “rude”, “abrasive”; sounds pretty under control to me, not the language of someone about to assault someone. It makes you wonder what Harry's response was. We have seen a pattern of half-truths and insinuations from Meghan and Harry starting with their interview with Oprah. They like to leave out the parts that don't fit their narrative or they take advantage of the world's lack of knowledge of the customs and culture of the UK.
The influence of Meghan over Harry cannot be understated, imo. She had no intention of putting on the mandatory Royal garb for the rest of her life. That was so obvious right after their marrying. Sleek California girl now has to wear the exclusive hats...oh, no. And besides the requisite wardrobe, the whole Royal life was incompatible for her. Harry was hurting big-time for so long, she got in there and we have seen how it's been played out so far in the media. Their home life, we don't know. And why should we. And who knows at this point if there's even a remote chance of reconciliation any time soon with William.
I worked as a psychiatric nurse for just under 20yrs. I see him as a massively vulnerable and developmentally stunted young man who has a partner capitalising on those vulnerabilities. So much of what they've said has been exposed as lies, and their own stories contradict themselves each time they're told. So much of their body language and behaviour screams concealment and dishonesty.
I have no experience in a professional field that could give my comment credit and yet see the obvious insecurities and weak spots in Prince Harry.
Only because his wife keeps pushing him to generate income from his story. He doesn't even have an interesting story . I have relatives.
I have the same boring drama.
Netflix would never offer me money to rat on my sister in law , step mother, and complain about the time my dad didn't hug me .
developmentally stunted certainly rings a bell!
Fantastic summary
Uh huh.
@@Balletified She's not diagnosing him, she'd offering her observations about his actions & situation. Harry will also never be a candidate for political office in the US nor King of England; so, speculation about him is fair game.
It is my belief that Harry being sensitive has been a forever thing… BUT, it has gotten worse as Meghan, in her narcissism, has guided him to resent his family like she did with her own family. This way, she can control him better. Sadly!
She has fed his fears,both real & imagined, then blown them out of proportion to maximise the slights into enormous grudges.
I have never seen one marriage cause such destruction on the families they came from.
It’s all a “test” of proof to his love for her-she demands it.
“What Meghan wants,Meghan gets”
And who influences Meghan I wonder. Besides Oprah, I mean.
Excellent analysis
@@MayThereBeWorldPeace I think only her narcissism influences Meghan. She thinks she is superior to all of us. She worships and listens only to herself. Just my opinion.
I think William was seriously concerned that his younger brother was being used by a woman because of who he was, rather than truly loving him. He was frustrated that Harry wasn't listening. Grabbing him by the collar isn't hitting him. The whole situation is sad! I would like to think that Meghan married him for love, but she seemed more interested in being the center of attention in a very wealthy, very public family. The whole thing is very sad.
Can't imagine...
I would assume, I guess, that if someone cared they would speak out. Perhaps Prince William spoke to Prince Harry out of true love.
Who knows. I wasn't there. ;)
I don't think any reasonable person wouldn't wonder that. I think it's OK to question people until they prove their loyalty, even if you're giving them the benefit of the doubt. They're around lots of predatory people.
The timeline of the fight coincides with the resignation of staff members and reports that Meghan was engaged in bullying. The RF was hoping that William could get Harry to "guide" Meghan toward better behavior. Apparently --- at least in the released excerpt --- Harry avoids this elephant in the room and makes it sound as if William just waltzed in and called Meghan "difficult" and "abrasive" for no good reason.
That's literally deflection and you're doing it for Williams sake lol. Meghan "wanted to be the center of attention" in a very public family SO much so that she literally left the house of hell aka the Royal RATskeletors and the UK to get away from them? Bc that's a great publicity stunt for garnering both sympathy and more front news coverage tearing your entire family asunder 24/7. You are batshit insane if you truly believe that the UK British royals are the good guy's here? Smdh
If you look back at Lady Diana's funeral, Prince Charles, as he was then, is holding Harry's hand whilst reading all the heartfelt messages. There's also lots of photos of Prince Charles with the boys hugging them & there's even one where he's kissing Harry's head. I think our late Queen had things right when she said recollections may vary.
Yes and remember Harry saying he never rode a bike with his dad and then there were photos of him doing it when he was young with his dad.
I have searched for images and videos of this with no luck. Have you got a link please?
@@dawnfrost5374 there was?
@@mssoundbites1697 if you look on UA-cam & go to 'According 2taz', 'Singing with Seals, you'll find a lot of photos of the RF on her channel.
@Lynette Agueda Rubbish. Charlie might not have been perfect but no parent is. Harry and Meggsy are pathetic cry babies who despite having immense wealth do nothing but bleat and moan. It's fabulous William smacked stupid Harry. You can bet Harry used to fight too. In his book he mentions bullying a matron at his prep school. So there you go, Harry can be a nasty bully but woe betide if someone else does it
How refreshing to have some decent humans having a decent conversation …. This is great content
So, she wanted to be a princess and when she finally got the position, she doesn't want to follow the rules? It's like finally getting a job, and ignoring the company's security rules.
I agree. I think she was desperate for the job but very underqualified. Once she realised she found all the excuses in the world to leave.
@@dawnfrost5374 not the job but the money and prestige she got of it
And Meghan's statement, "I can't believe I'm not getting paid for this," while doing a walkabout in Australia says a lot about her. But I guess that could have been quoted out of context...
She was unprepared for the reality of people who didn’t actually give an eff about the games of television. She had to make a boob out of Harry to fit boob tube scripts. Guess what he likes living in a tv script. Strictly commercial but no way near Zappa
That's pretty much it. The revenge of the narcissist and her victim and his own paranoia. Total disaster.
One account is that when Harry went round to Clarence House to tell his father and Camilla about dating Meghan and wanting to propose, he told them about Meghan being mixed race and Camilla cracked a joke (she is known to be funny) saying, “I wonder if your child will have a ginger Afro?” Allegedly, the three of them laughed, but when Harry told Meghan, she instantly blamed racism. This rings true.
@Rescue Mom it's not a "happy dance!" It's called Not being a corpse and actually having and showing some passion and emotion. God forbid, in this day and age though, eh??!!
So it was a remark that ruffled feathers. It wasn’t, however, a license to name call or deem someone a racist. We hear these accusations made as a form of control. A label to package and then dismiss people. Enough already. People who keep the racist card in their pocket have an agenda and are petty power/advantage seekers in my experience.
It does ring true. Meghan has no discernible sense of humour, whereas the Royals have a delightful, typically British sense of humour, as we Aussies do.
@@chantel7827 In your view, how would you like to see the Royals ‘showing enotion’? It’s not enough that they kiss publicly when they meet, grasping each other’s arms? That they have been seen with tears? That they occasionally huh members of the public? What do you want?
You are right harry, Charles and camilla were discussing it. Catherine wasn't in on the conversation. Megan doesn't like her so that's why she put her name in the mix.
I have 4 sons. To hear that they ended up fighting physically sounds like Tuesday in my house. 😂
🤣🤣🤣
Yup🤣..Noone has broken a dog bowl yet...but hey...🤣
At their age though?
@@michellemooresings mine range from 12-23. 🤷🏻♀️. Crazy thing is that it sometimes works. Whatever they were fighting about is now over and done.
@@derickrae ha ha. My brother and I fought when we were young, and about 16 yrs and we never ever fought again. I was jealous of my mom's attention of him for all his accomplishments. But I never felt ill will towards HIM. :)
It sounds painful I'm guessing to be at odds with people you love.
As a mother of mixed race children, my family had a lot of questions when I was pregnant with my first child. It’s definitely about the tone. Some family members were flat out rude. My grandfather said a few things that could have been taken as insulting, but I knew he loved me with all his heart and wouldn’t hurt me like that. The questions were just out of curiosity. In fact, when I was in labor, my child’s father wasn’t there, so my grandfather rushed to the hospital to be by my side. He held my hand through each contraction and fed me ice chips. He only left the room and had my mom take over when I had to push. 😂
Tamara, great story Thank You!! Yes, sometimes we are just curious, maybe ending up fumbling the meaning. You understood though, you were LOVED!! Hugs from me.
@@annamariedouglas4874 Thank you ♥️
@Mikolt Avas yes, ice chips are 🙌🏼😉
@Mikolt Avas Yeah, they are. I have 6 children. Being in labor is physically exhausting. It’s okay to take very small sips of water, but I found ice chips to be very helpful.
Tone is huge. Prince Philip was known for talking a bit crass at time, a lot of men their generation do. Partly because while they might have changed language over time, as your memory becomes advance you loose your filter and a lot of this language was ok when they were young. So they loose that, wait it’s not right to say that phrase it this way. My grandfather got to be the same way before his death
I don’t believe Harry didn’t get any support when his mother died.
Evidently the queen insisted on sending him to therapy. So, he had some support, but clearly he didn't get the help he needed. This obsession in adulthood with his mum now is unsettling. His keeping her hair in a box at his nightstand - troubling. Meg "communing" with dead mum-in-law to get guidance - really manipulative and creepy. I'm not a RF fan, but I think they did the best they could. Parenting is hard. Mistakes and misses (not even seeing the problem or minefield) are so easy!
@@kalicanterbury8085 And who are you to tell someone else how they should process grief? Some people never move on from grief, they just learn to live with it. Others never manage to move on. Who are we to judge Harry in that matter ?
@@LU-ji6lq He gets judged because he is, and always was, a petulant little man boy, alcohol and drug user (his words) and a PROVEN habitual liar.
@@LU-ji6lq
People can make any judgements they want, be they positive or negative. Who are you to control other peoples opinions.
I agree with kalicantterbury - I read that he was provided with therapy and has used therapy throughout his life. He says after he and Will fought, he dialed his therapist right away.
He said after his fight with his brother the 1st person he called was his therypist , so he was able to get help! My mother was killed by a drunk driver when I was 14. My Parents had divorced when I was 3, so I had no relationship with him. I do understand his pain, but at this age he knows he is hurting his father and brother and that is just jealousy!
Well done for recovering and moving on. Harry never will, because being Diana’s son is literally the only thing he has going for him to make money from, ghastly boy.
Yes, quite true. He also credited his brother in convincing him to see a Therapist long before meeting TW. That's how the Mental Health initiative got started. But obviously he didn't stick with Therapy as evidenced by his behavior, or maybe just wasn't willing to do the work.
"If what he says is true," is the critical question. So many things they've said on Oprah, for example, have been proved false.
Can you give some examples?
@@basicallyamy Here is the resident sugar again:
1) The Archbishop married them in their backyard the day before..The archbishop himsef denied it.
2) She and Harry have conficting timelines about the supposed " racist " question about the skin color of Archie
3) If Meghan was suffering from deppression...Harry had a therapist on speed dial. :)
@@basicallyamyYES!
😄 Their "private wedding" 3 days before the big wedding comes to mind. What a whopper!
Google "Lies Meghan told on Oprah" and the number of lies, somewhere in the range of 30, is exposed extensively.
@@macandcheese9324 4. Palast refused Archie a Prince titel because of his color and many more lies. The Sugars don't like facts ! They make their money by disturbing chats about their cult leader.
@@macandcheese9324 police chief in Toronto re. security.
IF William dared tell Harry that his wife was difficult, rude and abrasive then I’d bet money on the likelihood that angry, fiery Harry flew at William in a rage and William pushed him away to prevent a fight occurring which is why Harry ended up on the floor. Harry wouldn’t say his part in it though. He would blame someone else, as he always does.
We all know Harry has “his own versions” of stories that often don’t even match up to his wife’s
Also Andrew I love your interviews. You did so well with HG Tudor and others. You have a gift. I watch interviews I wouldn’t normally watch (like this one about Harry) because you do such a good job. You’re kind, compassionate, ask good questions, but are quiet when you need to be and let guests talk. Rare ability these days.
Ah thank you so much Laura !!
I must admit that I’m quite sick of listening to H&M whine about everything. She’s toxic and he’s needy. Not buying the book. Not watching the documentary because it frustrates me beyond words.
Agreed! So sick of manipulitive Megan and pathetic Harry. I see regrets in his future, when he finds himself alone and realizes that the bridges he's burned cannot be rebuilt.
Your not on your own
I completely disagree with this Brit racist and hatred media bubble that is in denial of realty. Most Brits are so racist they cannot admit that structural racism even exists in the UK. Nothing new here, just ask the Windrush gen, Grenfell Towers inhabitants, Indians and Pakistanis how non-racist the Brits are…. There’s a serious problem in the UK that the country is not dealing with. It will always be the ‘uppity’ and and pushy’ minorities that are lightning rods of blame in Britain’s horribly flawed system classist system.
For goodness sake, when you get bullied by the public and devalued by the family, why would you not say enough is enough and speak up. His mother tried to warn the public about this dysfunctional family but because she was adored by the public, people did not attack her to the level the toxic media and public attack M&H
@@louisasellek6125 Diana's family was also dysfunctional. Both her father and grandfather beat their wives. Her mother filed for divorce on the grounds of cruelty.
Harry's nickname in the army was "Bunker Harry". Because that's where he spent all his time playing XBox. He was constantly guarded by Special forces and only come out for photo ops. He put troops at risk because of who he is. Servicemen are starting to spill the beans.
Why is Diana s death any more tragic than anyone in this world losing a mother? Im sorry he really needs to let his mother Rest In Peace
We have all lost family and close friends and those deaths have impacted us. But you grieve and eventually life goes on. It is as if he is fixated on her passing and has tried to replace his mother with this manipulative opportunist of a wife.
There are the Kennedy children whose father was gunned down in public and they had to go through a very public funeral.
@@cookiegirl2cookie197 Great point! Excellent comparison.
@@kathrynbaker8215 you can't compare grief. It's an individual thing. Me and my sister are only 2 years apart and handled our father's death very differently. It's been 22 years and I don't think I am still over it.
@@WellISaidIt it’s understandable to not be “over it”. My mom will never be over losing her mother. I feel for you and I am so sorry you had to go through that. What is not understandable is using losing your mother as an excuse to throw your whole family under the bus for millions of dollars. He’s also ruining Diana’s legacy by constantly comparing Meghan to her. Now a lot of people are saying “hmm you’re right Harry, Diana did have these negative personality traits like Meghan” when people were not before. William lost his mother too. And they seemed to have grieved very differently. Which is natural. But I don’t think it’s right for Harry to judge how William grieved differently so publicly.
Henry was kicking shins and elbows before he could walk.
Diana said more than once that Henry was “a bit thick.”
Surely any therapist who has been advising Harry would not suggest making these accusations public. Writing his grievances down would be a healing experience, but no need to publish them to the whole world! He must be very naive to think this would bring any reconciliation, so is he just self sabbotaging?
Quote from Prince Phillip (he didn't think H & M were doing the right thing, either for the country or for them), "It's a big mistake to think about yourself,. No one is interested in you in the long run. Don't court popularity. It doesn't last. Remember that the attention comes because of the position you are privileged to hold, not because of who you are. If you think it's all about you, you'll never be happy." The Queen subscribed to this as well. She almost never spoke about herself, never granted an interview, never performed or played up for the camera. She saw her duty to be a unifying symbol in the society of the UK above politics (which we sadly lack in the US), providing a thread of continuity linking the past w/ the future plus soft diplomacy. Yes, the royal family does have incredible privileges, but they have an annual contribution to the UK economy est. to be £1.766 billion. These estimates included indirect economic effects on tourism, trade, media and arts.
Brilliant points.
Well said. Constitutional Monarchy is far superior to the American system, and this has become really obvious in the last 7 years.
William didn't allegedly punch Harry. He grabbed him by his collar.
I don't really see how it matters. It's not acceptable to lay your hands on anyone.
@@pamelaboswell9715 We are only hearing one side of the story. Harry is a proven liar!
I too don't condone violence, but William grabbed the sense out of Harry, poor guy.
I imagine William wouldn't describe th 'fight' that way. Too bad he has to be silent.
@@clareleach921 But you didn't say any such thing. You said you'd have done the same thing and implied that it's acceptable. None of that is relevant. The fact reminds that only cavepeople get physical to settle disagreements. It's not OK. I certainly hope it's not true, but you didn't comment about whether this was a truth or a lie. My father used to hurt me when I was a child and physical violence is really more common in family situations than people realize. It's life-ruining and it's not funny. It solves nothing. It's for bullies and people who can't express themselves.
That is one therapeutic and professionally-minded psychiatrist. He didn't speak negatively about them as everyone else is, but, in fact, felt empathy for them. Great insight on his part.
A brilliant conversation but there is a LOT missing in regard to the last five years of this dastardly duo. They planned on leaving as quickly as they got married…
Much more to cover then!
I will watch! Love your approach to interviews!
***MISTAKE: They were paid $100m for the Netflix doc, not $10m!
Is Prince Harry jealous of his brother? Meghan a narcissist? Or a victim of a racist/unfair press? BIG DISCUSSIONS TO BE HAD!
Loved ur live last night Andrew u r so funny loved the scots accent and ur ray ramano 🤣
@@Leahbumblebee872 hahaha thank you!
Complaints? O wow what about truth n it boils down to W is more concerned abt appearance n the upkeep of the "firm" above anything else the business comes 1st for W which can come off as cold n selfish if no1 likes it don't listen r read how English say "keep calm n CARRY ON ppl"
Actions speak for themselves. It’s not W or C that seem jealous, but M & C seem to be based on their actions. Many psychological professionals have all guessed the same pathology regarding M & H. I tend to agree with them.
Yeah that a lot money to basically have a moan about the family if we could let's all go to netflix. Then we mite afford to heat our homes and eat this winter 👺🤬
I think in childhood, Harry after the death of his mother, felt lost and got very bounded to William. But William left him by going to school, maturing and going independent. Harry was trying various things to find his place but acctually never achieved it (by his army service was getting him closest to it), however it didn't last. He saw himself in William and wished similar things for himself (representative wife, soulmate, family). With Megan he got manipulative narcissist, that family could not approve and Harry felt betrayed. He was also "massaged" by Megan constantly on how he got mistreated by his family, so the division of two brothers progressed. Now they are trying to earn money the way that is the easiest, plus getting the attention they both crave (for different reasons).
Personally, I am getting bored by actual content they bring or create. For obvious reason they will work on that that it lasts as long as possible, cause they don't have other way of earning the money.
I am quite curious about the end of this story. I would guess, it will not work at one point ang Megan will dump him. Than he will go home.
Pretty much summed it up. 👌
You can't really blame William for going to school.
@@rocketmom60 no one is blaming him for going to school. Just pointing out the timing of events
I hope he gets home safely
That's my exact prediction. 4 or 5 years from now, she'll dump him.
🤔 I’ve watched the Royals since Diana & Charlie’s met & married. Now if Meghan did her homework when she met Harry she could have watched all the documentaries & read every book written out there about her & Fergie’s lives within the Royals. Did she really think she was going to chance an institution? Harry had an obligation to explain how the firm worked. His other gf didn’t want to marry him because they knew what it took to be a royal. So there shouldn’t have been any blindsiding on Meghan’s part. You prep for a job interview, I’d be preparing for this job, but I already know the role. When ppl become citizens of the US they learn the The Star Spangle Banner when they become US citizens, why did Markle make such a big deal learning the God Save The Queen. Really? She’s an actress, how many times did she go for auditions? You learn to play a part. As for Harry he’s paranoid. Both brothers lost their mother, William is only 2 yrs older than Harry. I find it hard to believe Harry wasn’t allowed to grieve his mother’s death. It was decades ago, lots of things change over time being more open talking about death.
And probably because of his immaturity and his temper....
@Rescue Mom You know, that was my impression from the limited stuff I watched on it when they first got together. That she wanted the prestige of being a princess but not to do the work to learn how to be a royal. There was some brief interview she did where she talked about it and I just remember thinking... you haven't prepared yourself for this. Not that she didn't know but just that she didn't do her homework. Is some of the stuff they do stupid, heck yea. It's still their traditions and I felt like she didn't take it seriously at all. Now that I see all this stuff going on it justifies that odd feeling I had back then. The fact that they keep trying to capitalize is telling.
Their Netflix contract is reportedly $100 million. $20 million for the autobiography. $17 million for the Spotify.
Good for H&M, Wills gets his money from daddy and his grants…
Dang
You couldn't pay me any amount of money to sell my family down the river
Friends, family and a good reputation OR money to sell out?.. I know what I'd chose.
I still don’t think that is an accurate figure, but I do admit I’m no entertainment expert .
As a psychologist, I do have concerns about Harry and his current level of depression. I would not be surprised if he becomes suicidal given all the negative feedback that has resulted from his horrible book! Has anyone come to this possibility?
I have encountered people who could not accept their position in life and deluded themselves that they were somebodies, which if gone too far has led to madness.
I have thought this as well.
I definitely worry about this and feel real pity for Harry.
I read in a newspaper that King Charles is trying to end the toxic relationship that Prince Harry has with Meghan by giving a divorce settlement.
I am not sure how much is true. But I think the chances are there.
Definitely possible.
It's sad and I'm sorry he feels this way. I have to ask though, if they were told that yes, they could stay and continue to work for his grandmother, but do it part-time, would they have still done Oprah, Netflix and the book deal? Is this the revenge for that, bc he thought his grandmother would be reading his book too, and that's really sad. Leaving the Taliban comment in the book also proves Harry doesn't have good people behind him, looking after his best interests.
He had to see a therapist after his fight with William but her couldn't get his suicidal wife help! They've been caught in so many lies and ever changing stories. Don't believe anything they say!
I think the Royal Family needs to hold the Duke and Duchess of Suckage at arms length, kind of like a rabid dog. There seems to be no end in sight of this nonsense. Way too many contradictions. Bad behavior - Harry was invited several times to visit the Queen at Balmoral, refused and then argued with Prince Charles about bringing M when the Queen was dying. The Queen who saw her namesake great-grandaughter, Lillibet ONCE. How disrespectful. He claimed to care about HRM but his actions say otherwise. And that book. I have heard some excerpts, and it's a real shit-show - vulgar, disrespectful and the Queen is probably doing a spin in her grave.
The love of money does horrendous things to some people. Unfortunately I have witnessed it myself in my own family - it was shameful 😢 Harry is a very sick man & being propelled by a very unsavoury partner helping him make a fool of himself to make more ££. I wish his therapist would just get him to have more sessions rather than being in the media all the time.
What about Meghan father? He is painting himself as a victim now, when he exposed her own daughter’s life to the media long time before. He is not a victim , he is earning more money than in his entire life. What about Meghan’s half brother, creating a UA-cam channel just to mock her? That looks like a good people to you? It’s funny how no matter what Harry does the blame is on Meghan ALWAYS!It’s crazy
@@LU-ji6lq Did you not read the part about money in my comment?
Great Guest. He was intriguing to listen to. His theories are top notch and he truly is on his way to success in helping people. He sees and understands it all. Not all Doctors do. Bless you both. Best wishes.
Bring him back please ✨
@lissa274, that you think he "sees and understands it all" is exactly why he should lose his medical license. He is asserting medical assessments and diagnoses about particular named people he has never met with facts he doesn't know. He includes opinions about areas outside of his expertise. He is using his medical credentials for credibility and tabloid popularity. I knew he was slime when I saw him say in an interview that he thought the Goldwater principle isn't important. He was talking about the Dr. Speigal debacle in the DeppvHeard case. I'm pretty sure Das woudn't get away with this kind of unethical behaviour in Canada.
Please check out Dr Sohom Das' channel called Psyche for sore minds. He is amazing. I also red his book, and Im a big fan of his content. 😊. BTW I'm not on any commission.
Great interview as always with Andrew Gold. Dr.Sohom Das is very eloquent and a pleasure to listen to!
Glad you enjoyed it!
I raised 6 kids and my two middle daughters were brutal . They were very close in age and competitive . These behaviors were rooted in insecurity .They've since mended their ways
I’m the oldest of 5 , two girls followed by 3 boys. My sister and I are 15months apart and we had battles as teenagers but now in our 60s all good.
I have two young daughters 4 years apart and everything is like a competition between them it's so annoying I'm hoping they grow out of it soon. Me and my partner are the only children so is this normal behaviour for siblings as I have no idea.
@@beccaboo3040 Please be careful with that. I had a sister who was 4 years younger than me. I have no clue how old your girls are now, but I assure you, there is no competition between a 4 year old and an 8 year old, that a 4 year old can win. 8 year old's go to school, they can read and write, they are maybe playing in a sport well or have a talent for drawing, riding a 2 wheeled bike. Whatever the 4 year old does, the 8 year old will likely easily surpass them and still have a later bedtime and be responsible for a chore or two. As you move along to say 12 and 16, again, the 12 year old will not win any sort of competition. 16 year old's are likely very involved in a social group, maybe have part time jobs, are allowed out later in the evening, perhaps wear heels or bras, or other more grown up clothing and make up. Perhaps they can even drive. I don't think most 8 year old's feel very competitive toward 4 year old's, and likewise, most girls of 16 aren't even slightly interested in competing with a 12 year old.
What went on in my house was a jealous younger sister continually targeting the older sister, and the older sister being told to be the bigger person. When the older one is continually told to be the bigger person, what is happening is the younger is actually being given a sort of license to continue targeting the older. And the older is told it's their role to be a target without complaint. And when a parent makes comments about the girls "competing", it can be a huge insult to the older who may well not be competing, she's already mastered the tasks of years earlier, it could be a jealous younger sister targeting her. And it shows a callous disregard for what the older might be going through emotionally. How can it be good for self esteem to constantly have to "take it". And how can the younger develop integrity when taught that it's ok to target people you're jealous of? Or even that being jealous is a valid emotion worthy of being acted upon?
I never rubbed anything in her face. And I wasn't the cause of the perks that came with my advancing age. And, any successes I had were downplayed because younger sister would be upset, and we sure didn't want to upset her. As she got older she would also do things like steal and let older sister or brother be blamed. Terrible accusations would be made, feelings would be hurt and older's had to spend way too much time proving and defending or even being punished. She would snoop, she was constantly looking to get "dirt" on others. And the lying goes without saying, about just about anything, with a special place for lying just to hurt others, if you couldn't find dirt you could always make it up.
I'm sure she's a narcissist, which I know complicates things. And clearly I'm the older in the story, so admittedly the perspective isn't even handed.
Where we ended up decades later is living thousands of miles apart, and since some key family members passed I haven't had to be near her. I couldn't possibly convey all the stress of growing up as a target of hate fueled by jealousy, and it doesn't get easier to deal with as you move into college, career, marriage and children, they simply provide other potential arenas for injury. Being thousands of miles away, she doesn't make my stomach hurt any more.
Anyhow, on behalf of older sister, I implore you, address what is actually happening. Is the older girl actually competing with the younger? Or is the younger the one competing or expressing jealousy? And please don't use appeals to "be the bigger person", to replace parenting. I remember having something very special cut to pieces by a jealous, competing younger teenage sister, and being told to be the bigger person, yes, it makes sense with a 2 year old, take away the scissors and tell them "no", end of story. So what did that actually mean over the years? It meant, get over it, don't make a fuss, accept your place as a target without complaint and then parent wont have to deal with it. A monster was created, and self esteem was damaged.
Sorry, I've made this long, and it's all one sided, but for what it's worth I kind of enjoyed sticking up for the older's out there, and also for my younger self. I'm sure, just based on your caring enough to ask the question, you will get it right.
@@beccaboo3040 unfortunately yes . However what worked for me was mom dates . Each on by themselves . Just keep the date relaxed and listen .to what ever they want to talk about Let them decide what they want to do . Alot of rivalry has to do with wanting parental validation . I let my girls complain ,,validated their. feelings no matter how misplaced and gave them tools to work things out .. These. Mom dates are allot of fun.It builds their confidence and self esteem. Don't take sides . . No pressure . You'll be great at it .
Good luck . Keep in touch I recommend at the least 2 dates a month .
Harry is like my mom. Today she is living a lonely life soon Harry would regret his decisions
Hi Gadfly...you make a very important point, they will either end up divorced, and miserably lonely, and their children will bare the brunt!
Wow...H must feel so horrible. Betraying his family. I think the comparison between Megan and princess Diana is completely ridiculous! Their situations were so different. I think m is a camera hog and so obviously fake.
I think its creepy how Harry is always comparing Princess Diana to his loony wife.
Family relations can be extremely complicated. This is so true when you are referring to upper class families that are Royals. My kids fight, argue and are extremely hurtful towards eachother. Siblings will definitely fight when one sibling is expected to live a very particular lifestyle and have certain expectations for their life. Hopefully these two brother can meet in the middle and be brothers in the future.
It's possible but doubtful. Hazza has been too busy throwing hand grenades at William and the rest of the family. It's odd he does that then says he wants to be on good terms with them?! Talk about gaslighting
@B.M.T.H. Hazza? I'm not following, Maybe it should spark a conversation on what expectations The UK have to the Royals that you eagerly pay taxes to. It would be a healthy checkup.
HG Tudors video today comparing being in a cult and being with a narcissist is adressing exactly this. So illuminating. The prince is empathic but he has bought into the victim story totally right now, that is what I see. I feel sad for him. If he wakes up and sees what he has been doing in an undistorted way it is going to be tough. Good people who have been cult members know this.
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HG's analysis was enlightening, made so much sense.
One of the best videos he ever made about Harry and his wife. I do feel sorry for him sometimes, but overall I have come to despise him. Because it isn't all his wife's fault, but his as well. And as much as we may feel sorry for him like we would for some clueness cult members, the fact remains that he had, and still has, plenty of issues of his own. And those contributed to his downward spiral just as much as his shacking up with his wife did.
I hope someone can answer this. Remember Harry before Megan? I just remember Harry, William and Katherine all working together and laughing and doing such wonderful work. What changed?
We know the answer don’t we ?
How many 8 -10 year old lost their mother in 1997, how many of them went into foster care or care homes, and how many went back to a Palace and a very large extended family. He had a secure future.for God's sake hw got into Sandhurst. The most under qualified candidate to probably enter its Hallowed Halls. Diane was right in what she said about Harry needing special attention she obviously saw in him what we are seeing now.
Umm the couple have REPEATEDLY PROVEN that 😳 everything they say is a lie
Different versions of stories coming out in the book, compared to what they claimed in the Oprah show and the Netflix drama. They can’t even keep their stories straight.
Harry's revelations about his brother indicate his immaturity, not his pathology. These sort of disagreements and rivalry should not be broadcast to the world. The book is a massive mistake on Harry's part. He will regret it. Because the brothers love each other, over time, they will reconcile, wives be damned. If Megan pushed Harry to make these revelations in public, she is thinking more of herself than her husband. The attention and the money it brings will never compensate for the massive damage done to these brothers. Diana's death affected both brothers, not just Harry. Grief is a weird thing for children. My mother died when I was 8, so I know of what I speak. It makes trusting relationships a lifetime issue, and in that family of "stiff upper lip" I expect that those trust issues are magnified a thousand fold. It's just that William was a bit older so more cognizant.
‼️There is no hope for H&M - they sold their souls to the devil 👿
This podcast is way more interesting and educational than any of H&M's media content and the book.
As an American, we fought to keep the RF out of our affairs. Me-gain thinks she had it rough? Try being Queen Camilla having bread thrown at her AND the most hated person in the UK. ALL of the blame was placed on her, being sl*t shamed when there were two involved. She dealt with it and even proved to Queen Elizabeth II and the rest of the Commonwealth she was a valuable asset, even to the point where she would not be referred to as Princess Consort. Why Queen Consort is stressed now and not with the Queen Mother is truly beyond me.
Catherine was hounded for the better part of ten years by the press. She got zero protection until the engagement, which I believe is standard (I barely follow my own country's politics and the lunacy of the two party system).
Nothing these two say seems very genuine. All families have rows, I have gone through many myself, but some want to tell the world "their truth" for a huge amount of money.
I hope the King strips them of their titles. I am all for forgiveness, but these two are beyond redemption.
Brit here, we are waiting for our king to acknowledge his people's opionions? We have huge sympathy for Charles as a parent, but we do expect at the very least a comment to his people,??
@@christinalock9937 I guess when the time is right? I wonder if it will go down like it did for the Duke and Duchess of Windsor.
@@christinalock9937 I'm American too, and I'm intensely interested in the Harry /Meghan situation. Meghan is despicable, but with book I realize that Harry is truly mentally ill and she exacerbates his problems. I feel sorry for him and I can't imagine how he will get any help as long as he's with her., but I think he will fall apart if she left him. I've read he has had a lot of therapy, but it doesn't seem to have helped a bit. I feel sad for the whole family.
@@christinalock9937 I think his actions are more powerful than any statement that he could issue tbh. Eg: Changing the Coronation protocols so that Harry’s not featured, not granting the children HRH titles etc.
I think they are grey rocking H & M , effectively giving them enough rope to hang themselves, so that eventually the public will get sick of the mega tantrums
Unfortunately for H&M, I think it's clear that this book is turning into a real home goal and that people are seriously tired of all the complaints when there is real hardship in the world...
People in Britain and the world are desperately sick of these normal minor scuffles siblings have . Harry at this point is reaching. All families have been through scuffles . Very few get a ghost writer and have Megan critique it to make it seem worse . It looks desperate! These two are crashing and thank God, maybe then he’ll get serious mental health probably needs impatient with ban from toxic evil nasty cruel wife from interfering 😮
Everything they've put out is a home goal
The underlying assumption here is that people’s upbringing and personal experiences don’t have validity because there are other people in the world who are suffering…. This is absolutely wack. Just because you are born with means doesn’t make your mental suffering and lack of love more tolerable. Please stop it with this point of view - abuse is abuse and money and position doesn’t make that abuse more acceptable or tolerable.
What I find insufferable is William and Charles turning their backs on Harry because he didn’t fall in love with the right woman. There is no question that Charles is a hypocrite, emotionally abusive and a very selfish individual, king or not. I cannot imagine him as a ‘good father’ by any measure of that term. The Brits are so racist it is hard for the world to get their heads around how racist they are….
All it seems H/m do is complain. At some point in every interview or speech, there is a complaint about “something”.
And here come the comments bringing up the dreaded R word to try to shut down criticism… that’s getting old too. Big yawn.
18:27 Exactly my thoughts!
Never in my life would I even consider wearing a anything related to nazi's. Not when I was 20, not when I was 10.
And now he is going to lecture people? The commoners?
Jeez, man have some self awareness.
Also: even if the Queen herself would have advised him to wear the nazi costume it doesn't exempt him!
He's now 40 and partly blaming his brother and his brothers wife for this?!
For 95% of the people this wouldn't even be considered an option, wouldn't enter anyone's mind!
This is the worst of the worst of the worst part for me. Sorry to go on and on but this makes my blood boil.
No one forced H to wear that shirt. H is an idiot.
Men don’t call it a necklace. It’s a chain
It's called necklace! That is, by the person who has written the script for the book. I will leave you to figure out who's words,jealousy,bitterness and hate shines through.
@@fatzmybug what are you talking about?
@@Murph110 simply put the words in the book are 90% megain. Harry may have related some experiences but it's actually all megain
@@fatzmybug When Harry said "silence is betrayal" Meghan put those words in his mouth. He's a confused puppet.
@E Miller…yeah no doubt his wife helped him write this book
As someone mixed, skin-tone can't always been known. My maternal grams is full Native American, my birth father is Jewish, and my maternal grandfather is Irish. My grandmother was very dark. My birth father was very olive but still had very red hair. My brother and all my aunts are tawny, even though my brother is a redhead with freckles. Whereas my mother (who is mixed of 2 backgrounds) and myself (3 backgrounds) are both very pale. So there is no way they could predict their child's skin-tone.
Years ago HRH Princess Anne spoke about the radically different treatment the Heir received from ALL the other children.
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He changed the narrative all right......Consider this - all the years he was involved with the Royal Family his reputation was pretty intact and since leaving their protection, all of a sudden his reputation is in free fall. So, do you think perhaps there may have been some positive influence on the press from the palace? Like withholding the staff bullying report??
Lots of things have been withheld by Buckingham Palace and his friends to protect Harry. And now he shits on them all
For years, Harry was the most popular role after the Queen. Harry is not a child. He's 40 years old. Time to get over him self.
Thank you! Yes, a humble brag! That sums up just what I was thinking, but I had not articulated it as well as you.
Great show! Absolutely the best pod cast talking about H & M. Great guest, Andrew. I’ll start following the Dr.
Another great guest, Andrew; you ask the best questions. You’re just so smart and curious. I always learn something new when I tune in. Channels like yours are fundamental and necessary with the sophistication of grifting and other criminal/abusive elements that lurk around us.
You make us all a bit smarter! 🤓
Awww thank you !!
Much respect from Alberta Canada 🍁🇨🇦👏🏻👏🏻😉
The brawl/row was likely after staff complained about Meghan again or after Meghan upset Catherine over wedding plans. I think William was terrified how fast things were moving when Meghan was so different in her dealing with staff and re events.
@least they work for their funds anyway yall have a good day!
@@spicycajun2core But what is the content of that work?? Slagging off his family to earn 10 million dollars? That’s essentially what he’s done
It was 2019, so the former. The various Bridezilla crises were in 2018.
Why did Cathrinen get upset? It wasn't her wedding?
@@charisma-hornum-fries Meghan was bullying staff as well as Princess Charlotte who was 3 at the time. Meghan kept showing favouritism towards her friends child and ghosting little Charlotte. She also wouldn’t let the girls wear stockings , so their shoes were hurting. All this (and who knows what else ) Made Kate upset and she confronted Meghan. You can imagine the scene that followed.
My brother broke my pencil when I was young and I have never forgiven him, he said he was sorry, but I don't think he meant it. I am going to break his pencil when I find it, then I will feel even, maybe I can break two pencils. 😄😄😄
He would break the first rule of fight club straight away
Prince Harry's "necklace" was a rope or leather string that his girlfriend Chelsea had given him. It is visible on photographs. The things Prince William was saying to Harry were words used by the staff members that had complained about Meghan's bullying.
On the last point about the control and Meghan not being able to share pictures, that wasn't just a rule for her, that was a rule for anyone invited in to private areas of the royal residences. A few years ago either Princess Beatrice or Eugenie apparently got in trouble for posting a picture on Instagram of a private area of Buckingham Palace.
A lot of people (most) in the public eye don’t allow pics of their home interiors because it poses a security risk. Once enough pics are floating around, someone can basically put together a floor plan. And with a few more, they would also be able tell which rooms are used at which times of the day, thus not only knowing the floor plan, but a lot of your daily routine.
@@deejames1st You're right, and it's probably also the fact that these people are in the public eye so they want to keep certain aspects of their life private. I think a lot of the rules Meghan seems to find ridiculous are probably security measures. And the rest are probably normal rules anyone would have in a job and being a working royal is a job but I'm not sure she saw it that way. I think Harry failed her massively by not getting her to understand all this before taking on that role.
@@kaycee7550 I am of the opinion that they knew going in, that they’d be leaving for Hollywood soon. She was briefed and tutored for her role/job by a team. One of whom worked for QE for decades. She knew what to do…
@@deejames1st Exactly. My sister posted my toddler in a diaper in our back yard and I had her remove immediately. she then posted a pic of my other child in hospital after an operation...again told her never to do that again...never learns.
"A sense of duty" does need to be proven. Holding a door open for the one behind you does not merit you for an award or round of applause. My parents and siblings would NEVER throw me under the bus no matter what! If anything THEY WOULD and WILL STAND IN FRONT OF IT.
He needs to grow up and understand how lucky and privileged he is. In this unfair world people are struggling in so many ways to provide for their families and these two get paid millions , not for their talent or gift or education but for whining!
This was another great interview Andrew, thank you so much for your this, you are so talented at asking questions and getting the most out of time with your guests!
Glad you enjoyed it!
If Harry and Meghan had just done the Netflix doc and then got on with their lives I think things would have settled down but I think the interviews and book were a big mistake. Seems that Harry doesn't care about what his country is going through right now, poor me syndrome!
This was a great episode, a lot of my thoughts on this you guys covered 👍
And now we are going to be treated to Harry's wife's book as well, allegedly.
Whatever he wants to say I’m frightened that his comments about killing in Afghanistan has fanned flames and I now fear someone retaliation
Nooooo! That was far too short an interview lols. My two favourite UA-camrs at the same time, brilliant interview 😊
I just put out another 12 mins now!
Thank you for finally addressing this it's pretty obvious to me that Harry's got a lot of issues that need addressing. Megan's just a sociopath and that's pretty obvious as well..🧐💯👍
Probably a sociopathic narcissist. She's scary.
Well said 👍
She’s a narcissist. Check out HG Tudor’s UA-cam videos on the subject. He also thinks Harry is at this point in a similar state to a member of a cult, due to a combination of his own issues and Meghan’s manipulation
Drug abuse can cause paranoia.
Sibling fight all the time. Without context, I can’t comment on this other than to say I might just be sibling conflict.
No family is all sweetness and light all the time. The public image might be one thing, but what happens behind closed doors might be entirely different. I suspect the Royal family is similar.
And I fully believe that William said those things about Megan - because she seems to be highly likely to be rude and abrasive.
I really feel for poor King Charles. He's had a lot of loss, including both his parents, and all this when all should be celebrating his coronation. Charles has copped bad press all his life It's been brutal
yes and all he asked of Harry was please don't make my life miserable
KC is weak & indecisive
Karma was served
@@rocaz6629 my God are you 4 roro?
@@rocaz6629 I mean you sugars are biatches...cruel mean love gossip and chaos. The fact that any people haven't arrested any of the squatties for threatening children and seniors is beyond me. Karma...yeah you must have such a horrible loveless life because you get a boner out of a senior citizens hardships and family breakdown. God yr pathetic
She bullied everyone all her life. Ask her family. She’s the mean girl. She was sued for having out superglue on two girls eyes. One almost lost her eyesight.
Yes thats true!! I had forgotten that! It was at one of those sorority initiation things and there was at least one article about the incident in the local newspaper. I believe her dad paid (alot) damages?
This is not fact. Don’t believe everything you read in tabloids. Also, the only info I could find on this online is people asking the same question on Quora. So I wouldn’t state something like this as fact. How would you feel if people spread rumours about you but stated it as facts?
@@priscillayoga4040 I read the article. Not something written about it in tabloid press, but the actual newspaper print article from I believe around 2010. You contradict yourself in your comment too. You say “don’t believe everything you read in tabloids”, yet go on to say, the only info you could find was people asking about it on quora. So, nothing in the tabloid then. Damaging material is removed from public access all the time, by threats of, or actual legal action, by deals/pay offs aso. I will not tell you what to believe, but I am telling you, this incident ocurred. One of the girls spoke up, or it was her father who spoke for her, I can’t remember as its a while ago. The other girl (victim) dit not. But as I stated earlier, I read a printed copy of the newspaper article, not online gossip or tabloid press.
We all have hierarchy in our own families.
Just an observers point of view: Meghan saw Harry as an opportunity. Harry provided her the opportunity to get the fame and attention she craved. She never had any intention of staying. She was going to get the prince, the title, the money and, most of all, the fame, and as many perques as possible to take with her back to California. William recognized this and tried to caution Harry, who is massively defensive and easily angered. There were also reports of her bullying staff and William wanted to address that situation. It did not sit well with Harry. Various photos and stories through the years have shown Harry to be hot tempered and physically aggressive. Harry is nothing like the portrait he paints of himself being all Zen. I seriously doubt that William initiated the first punch in that so called "fight". All in all, it certainly looks like Harry has been more interested in sensationalism for cash rather than anything else. Finally, I think Harry was right to step down from the Monarchy but made a huge mistake in the way he went about it and the way he is using them in the cruelest way for profit. .
Life is unfair, as you said, Andrew. He has a therapist, or several, that should be enough.
Exactly! He also has a wife and two kids. Does he even give them his time and attention?
But he seems to be a record stuck and keeps harping on the same things. I think if he doesn’t, he won’t earn so much and people will lose interest.
He should likely change therapists to get a different perspective on life maybe. If he doesn't like the new one, he can go back to the original one.
This was brilliant and also "a dog bowl shaped indentation in his back" made me laugh!
The title of the book should be Spite. There are so many excerpts that have his wife's fingerprints all over it and are ludicrous. She is fueling a resentment that was never apparent before. The video and photographic evidence of a close relationship with his brother, sister-in-law and father is legion.
Harry has known all his life that William will be king. Another telling excerpt was Harry's Wife's reaction to the 'opulence' of William and Catherine's apartment in Kensington Palace. It turned her brown eyes green. It should be noted that William and Catherine lived in Nottingham Cottage before being gifted the KP apartment and that, after marriage, The Duke and Duchess of Gloucester were moved out of their Kensington Palace apartment to make way for Harry and his wife, who decided that wasn't good enough, so the Queen gifted them Frogmore Cottage.
Harry's Wife is pushing the Diana narrative. The meat in Harry's comment about William's baldness is that it makes him look less like Diana. That says so very much.
There are so many assertions in this book that does not ring true.
Totally. Lots of the excerpts have been written by a woman I think
The money involved is obscene and a clear indicator that we are a sick society.
Such a good channel!! Thank you and hugs from the Netherlands
I really enjoyed this one. You guys are jiving really well together here. 👍
Glad you enjoyed it Tracey !
Such a great UA-cam duo! Thanks both.
He did receive alot of support and his grandmother lived him.
You are a breath of fresh air. I am seventy yrs old and my opinions have changed radically about subjects i have felt strongly about - and i can tell you it is from the influence of social media. After my uncle died we read his diary. He never said one word or bragged that he drove a troop transport ashore on D Day.. Not one word.
The 'Divine Right of Kings' ended in the late 17C in the UK.
"After the Glorious Revolution, John Locke published his Two Treatises of Government, in which he argued against the theory of the Divine Right of Kings and advocated the social contract as a basis for creating governments."
The trouble is, it’s a case of the little boy who cried wolf, they’ve told so many proven lies at this point, how can we believe anything, the hypocrisy,is off the scale.
I had one sister that was 2 years younger, and we fought like cat's and dogs. The only difference is that she was bigger than me and could beat the stuffing out of me if she could catch me.
Bottom line is that yes, H & M would always be treated differently then W & C because H would never be king. I think, ultimately, that is H’s issue. The two of them could have found a role and lived in a Commonwealth country and made a difference.
Fan of both these speakers! Trusted assessment. Thank you for all the good information!!! Best of luck with the New Year!!!
Could it be that he's just bitter and resentful that William had a longer and better relationship with Diana?
He said something about Williams looks fading and he was looking less like Diana than before …,?
Hahaha! I’ve killed 25 people. And Willy ripped my “necklace”. OMG
Exactly.
Surely the Dr. Doesn’t buy the Netflix Doco - with ever changing stories/tales from the Sussex ?? Please say it ain’t so 🇺🇸
Seriously Harry was scared of his brother shouting at him ......but he came out and said he killed 25 people Harry has lost his freaking mind
It's like when he said he was ashame to ask for help from his family when Meghan was suicidal (in Oprah's interview) but he had no shame to share all the details with the world.
@@feefiisaifon7131 exactly
Sibling rivalry? Surely rivalry means both parties have an issue with each other?. This is resentment, Harry's resentment & jealousy towards his only brother. The only problem William has is dealing with Harry's behaviour TOWARDS him.
Harkle knew at a certain age, his lot in life. Princess Margaret was never going to be Queen & according to some accounts, ACTED Out in destructive ways. Harkle could use some counseling.
If he was my brother I would have tipped the dog food over his head or pushed his silly face in the food. 😂the necklace was a leather thong given by a previous girl friend apparently. 🤷🏼♀️
If I understand correctly Harry had therapy more ore less his whole life. What if he also has anti depressants or anti psychosis medication for manny years. That would do something to his brain and perception of things.
Or ADD meds as a young boy? They fry up your brain?
@@morticiagomez6166 well I think it will do something that can't be to good. Ad up the recreational drugs. Then he finally finds someone who he thinks he gives him warmth ( probably love bombing😬) toxic combination those two together.
'Sibling rivalry'....wow....staggering insight
Most people could retire for life forever and support their extended families on any one of their income sources. I do understand they have costs, but most of us would be settled with a couple mill, could pay off our houses, invest a bit, and travel to disney or whatever bs trip we want once a year (for me, never disney, but i'd settle for algonquin park or iceland). Most of us are really happy to be able to pay our bills, mortgage, have two bathrooms, pay for the kids' education, a few pairs of shoes, etc etc. They should not be allowed to keep those money making titles. Neither of them actually earned it. I am a nurse. Trust me, I earn my money every day, and it's not much. It's really hard to listen to these people.
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“difficult,” “rude”, “abrasive”; sounds pretty under control to me, not the language of someone about to assault someone. It makes you wonder what Harry's response was. We have seen a pattern of half-truths and insinuations from Meghan and Harry starting with their interview with Oprah. They like to leave out the parts that don't fit their narrative or they take advantage of the world's lack of knowledge of the customs and culture of the UK.
The influence of Meghan over Harry cannot be understated, imo. She had no intention of putting on the mandatory Royal garb for the rest of her life. That was so obvious right after their marrying. Sleek California girl now has to wear the exclusive hats...oh, no. And besides the requisite wardrobe, the whole Royal life was incompatible for her. Harry was hurting big-time for so long, she got in there and we have seen how it's been played out so far in the media. Their home life, we don't know. And why should we. And who knows at this point if there's even a remote chance of reconciliation any time soon with William.