I think she is caught up and in some way wants to get back at Reva. It's hard not being the winner. I have seen this too many times. Women will know the man or husband has someone or moved on and will stay there either to antagonize or prove something to the other woman.. I know two women right now with about 6 kids for the same man and know of each other and will fight each other each time it gets. One finally gave up..
Empowering Success with Kim sad to see this. But this is how relationships play out. Tondy needs to move on. She’s letting Mario keep his foot in the door and he has no respect for her.
She sounds so foolish talking about he still talk to me, call me, sleep with me, BUT HE DIDN'T PICK YOU.. and I bet he still communicating with the woman he choose. THIS IS WHY YOU DON'T COMPETE FOR A DAMN MAN..lol
I was team Tondy until this interview, now she’s making herself look bad. He humiliated you on national TV and he chose another woman in front of the world. BLOCK DELETE MOVE ON!!!!
90 days is not enough time to know a person. They had a world- wind connection. Why make it more than what it was. It's got to be ok, that a person exercise their will and you have no other choice but to allow it, or you will drive yourself crazy.
My God. Is he worth all this conversation. Your shaming yourself with this back and forth. Are these games making you feel more womanly, giving you a 1 up.. your both the same. Grow up
Yes I was very impressed. I also liked the way she held Reva accountable. Its difficult to find a host that asks the right questions and isn't afraid to call their guests on their BS. Good Job EPROnline!
Tondy Tondy Tondy, I love you girl but I am at a loss for how you still sleeping with Mario after the biggest humiliation of the year. Girl he ain't worth it. Glad you are finally moving on. Please don't look back
She's defending him because she thinks they may get back together , sadly she hasn't yet realized she was used. He hooked up with reva way before he and tondy broke up he got what he wanted mission accomplished he's going to complete reva's mission as well. I must say that both ladies look gorgeous.
When Mario compared Tondy's personality to his ex wife's personality that was Tondy's queue to bail. There was so many red flags and caution signs but she ignored them all and got played.
@joshua19942 the way Reva were to Tondy on the show. As if she won the prize. I could clearly see that they aren't compatible. I can tell Reva is ratchet. Although she tries to act classy and Mario is a playa. What I don't get is why Tondy is allowing him to sleep with her after he embarrassed her on the show. He'll never have respect for her now. Her standards are low
@@lilredgemini613 I've been saying that. I said it on another channel. Look who her friends are. Some ratchet women who pull up and fight. Mario hit Tondy hard. She loves him.
Why is Tondy still contact with this man? This makes her no better than Reva. He’s no prize for either lady. Grown woman move differently. Have some class please!
“Don’t be the rebound” 🙄 Tondy I ain’t taking no advice from you. You continued to be with him. At this point it’s a pissing contest between the women. This is sad.
All this time we was mad at Mario and she was still kicking it with him on the side. Chile I can’t. 🤦🏾♀️. They was together 3 months, after a man humiliated you on national tv and you couldn’t let that go sis? 🤦🏾♀️🤔How deep in love can you be in 3 months. Over it.com #teamnoone
Jazzy Jai it was More than love it was sex. A tie was created. That’s hard to break and it will definitely have you looking foolish. But I don’t think she is. Just to trusting. This is why it’s recommended to have sex with a man you’ve married and have committed to you. Not that that makes him stay in line but at least the vow is a protection.
@@Rizzyvoe That's right!!! Soul ties are the worst ties to have between a man who's sleeping around with multiple women. He knows he has the woman when she doesn't cut him off after he's played her and she takes him back.
RIzz I agree that sex should be with your husband, that is such an important point however sex has never trumped being mistreated for me. Every woman is different. The sex can be great and a tie but mistreatment immediately cuts that tie for me. Although its hard to cut ties from a person you have strong feelings for once you fall in love with yourself and really recognize what love is supposed to look like its easy as hell. You can train your mind to change the way you feel. We have that power. God gave it to us. Most of us just dont know the power we actually have. Change the way you think then you’ll change the way you feel. Once you recognize Love, staying in something where Love isn’t present will NEVER be option. As we get older our perception of what Love is changes hence our standards change. Hell at 19 all he had to be was cute. At 44 the way I think about Love and what it is and what it should look like has totally changed my way of thinking so I can walk away easier than that 19yr old girl.
Something ain't right.😒😒..I want to be team Tondy! But when he went to that other couch with Reba, you should let them snakes stay tangled together....that was your closure.
So true Nichole...just my opinion and I kno it's a lil harsh and judgemental but its disappointing to hear a mature woman speak about "closure" like that
Also, let's not forget he "shewed" her backstage...told her to get away from him. Not to be too judgemental tho. When you have feelings for someone there are some blurred lines. He def treated her bad tho and every one in America thinks she deserves better
In the words of the great Nina Simone : “You've got to learn to leave the table when love's no longer being served” Whether they are physically attracted to each other or not he unfortunately doesn’t like her or respect her enough to care for her feelings. That much was evident the way he treated her on television. Older women have a responsibility to younger women to demonstrate what self love looks like. Tondy is beautiful with a great personality. She did not deserve to be hurt so publicly. She needed to stop let that man take up her time and use body after the reunion. She deserves someone who loves and respects with his whole heart. We teach them how to treat us. #lovethyself
Tondy is a fool. Men leave women everyday. He played you on national tv and you slept with him afterwards and bragging now trying to hurt Reva. You're acting pathetic. Move on sis
I like Tondy a lot, but I learned from my own personal experience to stop feeling sorry for women that don't feel sorry for themselves. I had a friend with a boyfriend/baby daddy that put her out in the dead of winter. Had her living in a shelter. I took her in and really helped her get stuff together. Somewhere through all of that her and the boyfriend/baby daddy was still communicating. Once she was no longer a burden on him - they got along fine. I found it difficult accepting that I'm bending over backwards trying to help her while she cuddling with the very person that causes me to have to help her. So I just stopped helping her. I started feeling like I was being used. Big lesson learned!
Story of my life. I've been through the exact same thing helping "friends", but when I lost my mom and needed support, those "friends" I helped were nowhere to be found. I tell you, lesson learned the hard way.
It's absolutely nothing wrong with being a womanizer! Just say off ripp "I am a womanizer" most chicks will be intrigued and still get down with it! Lol :)
If he heard all that over the phone, why is he with her. It says a lot about him. You two women need to step it up and be the Queen women you suppose to be. Lord help our women; we can do better!!!
This is the true definition of a “pickmeisha”!! Both Tondy and Reva need to make better choices because Mario or any man is not worth all this drama 🤦🏽♀️
God bless you sister!!! My point exactly!! women should stop this nasty fight against each other all because of a boy man!! we're better than that. You both should make him lose you not play with your bodies and mess up with your emotions!!
I don't think he believed her, she was just too easy and he got stuck there. He ran to her after his feelings was hurt about Tondy going to her Ex show.
Blew Reva lied and said she never spoke to Tondy and only thru the mutual friend. She said she only invited her to a group brunch. The proof is she was texting and calling tons of times. Asking as she Going to the genuine show, did she want to share a room with her, what was she doing on memorial day, she invited her to a one on one mother daughter day, not a brunch with a group of friends, there were tons of lies and the receipts are showing that Reva was a liar because she said she never ever spoke to her
I am still confused.. If they both were friends, Why didn't Tondy back off on the journey instead of addressing Reva to back off from Mario.. Especially if Tondy was so sure, that Mario wasn't so into Reva.. it seems as if they was competing towards each other..
She is highly delusional, and wants to be loved so bad, self love is the best love. He came on national TV and told YOU what he wanted, take it and go on with your life.
Lesson: Do not move too fast in relationships. No judgement because we’ve all been guilty of it. Especially ladies, since we’re the prize, let him prove he understands your value and is willing to work for the prize!
People killed me with this “I need closure!” This is code for I still want you and want to convince you that we should be together. Stupid! I would just stay single if I had to deal with this mess.
Tondy ain’t wise smh ... Girl he humiliated you on TV and you still smashing him , girl bye 🙄🙄 The closure should have been when he was kissing another girl on national TV and left your side on the reunion. You as much of a rebound as Reva. She thinks she won or something , nah girl you loss as well!!
Reva sounds like a woman who was secretly jealous and secretly envious of Tondy.. Probably the reason she wanted to 'Hang out' with Tondy, so that she could 'Observe' her.. Some women do this in order to better 'Compete' with you..
@@thetruth7900 Me too & she did it twice & is forever messing around with married men or is always saying that one of her friends men or husband likes her. She has a sickness & gets off with being competitive & secretly messing around with other Women's man... She's very evil & disgusting!!
Who says everything Tondy said is true!!? You very gullible. I take everything Reva and Tondy said with a big grain of salt. The truth lays in the middle!!!!!!!
I didn’t say that tondi is the 100 percent the gospel truth what I am saying is reva completely lied about their interactions and relationships as women she was dirty how she went about it but Mario is to blame for this big mess both women need to reevaluate the situationships and relationships period
Have we watched the same interview ? Reva lied that there was no interaction , no contact in five years apart from a proposed branch for their daughters hence the perpetual "Associate BS". the text messages were intimate messages between Tondy and Reva and not part of a group @AList Closet please re watch the video.
Absolutely ! I agree Mario did wrong but Reva was also shady , she texted Tondy under the table warning her off and then went off with Mario . She was attempting to save face by branding Tondy a lair stating that they were not friends , they never spoke on the phone for 5 years and they never hanged together , well we saw them receipts Reva was lying .
All this over a man you've only dated for three months who humiliated you on television. Seriously she needs to move on because at this point she's looking real desperate.
Always love yourself more. He humiliated you on national television you can forgive him, but still love yourself enough to know that he isn't a person you need to further communicate with. Ladies love you, the right person will come along. No matter how many receipts are shown there is no need to reminisce about something that was never yours to begin with. The best thing is to focus on moving forward and knowing that the best is waiting for you.
@mrzbarry when you are grown you aint giving it up, you are getting it. Men have sex with women they don't necessarily care for all the time because they have great sexual chemistry. It's not deep, just hope everyone is wrapping it up
So she’s still entertaining him like it’s cute after he humiliated her on tv? He can have her if he wanted her, but he obviously doesn’t want her. He’s going back & forth between the both of them
I was rooting for and even sympathized with Tondy after the reunion because it was wrong how he broke that news to her. However, after watching this interview and realizing how pathetic she is, I no longer support her. I knew her self esteem was low, but this man HUMILIATED, embarrassed and DISRESPECTED you on NATIONAL television & didnt give a damn and you're STILL communicating with and seeing him??? Smh 🤦🏽♀️ Women have GOT to do BETTER!
A women should never allow a man to downgrade her to a booty call. That is what Tondy allowed Mario to do to her. Girl wake up and CUT IT OFF COMPLETELY.
Hey another AMAZING interview by Christal! She’s a great host! These receipts are real and Reva is a big liar! She said she NEVER called or contacted Tondy. Catch a person in one lie they are a total liar! Great interview Tondy
ymc m no she said she spoke to her through the mutual friends. She invited her to memorial day, she asked was she out at the club, she asked her to share a room, she asked her was she going to the Ginuwine concert, she warned her bout Mario, and then she asked about mommy daughter day. Not a brunch invite with a group of ladies. Then she said she don’t like texting she will call her later. Reva told tons of lies she said her only interaction was thru the friend she stressed I NEVER called or talked to her. She’s a big liar.
Seems like Tondy just might be a sweet girl. A good woman who deserves to have her softness protected instead of exploited by a man. I really wish men would be our protectors, instead of using our softness for them as a weapon against us.
I see your point dear. That is why I keep my sweetness and softness for myself. I am my first protector before any man. I learned so much from this crazy triangle.
At this point Mario isn't playing Tondy, Tondy is playing herself. He's a man, he's gonna say what she she want to hear and say enough to get what he came for. No, she wanted & needed closure not him. Her goal is to break them up. I thought Tondy was better than this.
Char'Kita Hood if you sleep with a man during taping what do you expect. She slept with him on at the cabin. She said it herself. From her lips in her live new years eve. She was tipsy or drunk whichever u choose to call it. she let it slip. Drunks reveal things later they regret
Broads are on this thread like they have never let a dude back in before. Stop the lies please. All y’all ain’t saints in these streets. One thing about it is that Tondy is honest with herself and everyone else.
We've all probably let the man come back. But shes doing it to hurt another woman and in the process looking dumb af. She needs to move on. You expect this behavior from 20 smthg little girls.
The difference is you behave that way when you're young and naive. When you're a grown ass woman like she is you know better therefore you you should be doing better. When you're of a certain age and still believing Lil boy lies and getting played with boys antics 101 you look desperate, stupid, and pretty pathetic.
Man because of women like Tondy is why men don’t respect woman .... There should be a class for women to learn self worth . So sad 😞. I like her but those she have self love ? Us women should value our selves better than this !!!
Mario doesn't care about either one of them. He played on their rivalry and gets off on them competing for him. Once one of them figures it out, and leaves, he will lose interest in the other one.
Maybe it’s just me....but I can’t really look in Mario’s face for more than 10sec. And he is broke. And he is evil per his own family. Real grown Queens need to run!!!
So Tondy is still with mario and reva and her were "friends" but only reva did the reaching out. But more importantly she's still blaming reva but fooling around with a broke tax preparer that humiliated her. I can't.
This interview was on point! I knew Mario was gonna try to have his cake and eat it too! Womanizer! PERIOD. Lesson for women.. Don't get in competition with another woman over a man. Don't jump into something with a man fresh out of a relationship. The man is the only one that comes out as the winner. Reva was faking it until she made it. Now Tondy done slapped you back into reality with the truth. The Oscar goes to Mario for best actor. He need to do theater. Lol
Brittney Boone why is Tondy trying to prove that she was friends with Reva? Once someone says u was never a friend, why force that subject? Still in touch with Mario?? Why??? He is not worth it! She is proud of hooking up with him, she should block him! Receipts are irrelevant at this point, the man made you look like a fool!
Tondy has a gorgeous singing voice ... beautiful woman. Not sure if she dances as well, but she is definitely a double threat with her vocal and acting skills.
Don't get me wrong I'm #TeamTondy but I hate how highly she speaks of Mario... he is NOT a good Man because good men don't treat women like this... I'm glad they both cleared things up but I would never want that thang touching me... This whole conversation has made me realize just how sad I am for the Women in Atlanta... to sleep with a Man AFTER he has publicly humiliated you is disgusting and desperate. Thank you Crystal for the great questions.
Tondy and Reva both need to research Narcissist Personality Disorder. Three phases of relationships with those who suffer from this disorder are IDEALIZE, DEVALUE and DISCARD. In the idealization phase you are everything to that person, they claim they will always love you, you are their soul mate...etc, etc. None of it is real. Then when you don’t live up to their unrealistic expectations they start devaluing you, pointing out everything that’s wrong with you. Then in the discard phase they do just that...discard you. Tondy didn’t experience those things his family mentioned because narcissist put on full face mask when they are trying to get what they want. That mask eventually slips in this case it slipped at the reunion. This disorder is real and people better start educating themselves on it. It’s becoming more and more common and talked about. The ultimate goal for a narcissistic at the end of a relationship is to hurt you. Trust and believe Tondy...the Mario you saw at the reunion is the real Mario. He’s going to do the same thing to Reva eventually. Narcissist are incapable of loving anyone....they mimic emotions and feelings based on what they think others think and feel. They are incapable of empathy. It’s real just like bi-polar and borderline personality disorders. All narcissist are pathological liars, selfish and controlling!
Don't forget Hoover, which is what Tondy has allowed that creature Mario to do. He should be Non-existent to her yet she let him back in... She will regret it....
100% True. I met my narcissistic ex in May 2017 & dumped him in March 2018. He HARASSED me until Feb 2019. He was blocked from calling me but he would get new #s & start calling & texting me again. Eventually I had to change my #. I had my phone # for 11 years prior to changing it but my peace of mind was worth it. I was under so much stress that my hair had fell out in clumps. My cortisol levels was through the point I burned through my adrenal glands causing more symptoms....weight gain, dark circles around my eyes, recurrent UTIs, fatigued, depression, rage, & PTSD from being in flight or fight mode all the time. That relationship was the worse I ever been in! Prior to him I didn’t know a damn thing about narcissistic personality disorder. So yes I agree people need get educated about this disorder. The main sign is that narcissists LACK empathy & they never take responsibility for anything. They always blame the victim for EVERYTHING!!!!
I love Tondy's energy. She seems so sweet and vivacious at the same time. Also I appreciate that she took accountability for her actions and chooses to still have a positive outlook on love. Good for her!
He sounds like he's playing both of them. At this point, Tondy should just let him go completely. Reva thinks she has something and he over to Tondy's house.Tondy you're his side chick now😒
I don't feel sorry for both women Reva has a history of running behind Tondey! True she self eliminated herself but for what? To still run behind her again. I had to watch this interview 2 times.. An I'm still trying to give reva the benefit of the doubt and I can't this lady has all the txt messages. Mario is a piece of work they were not BFF but like Tondey said her moral compass is off the hung out!! Period.
Nooooo Tondy, Mario is not confused. He knows EXACTLY what he is doing!! Cut him off girl. Also those receipts - all I can say is Reva doesn't have a leg to stand on after those!! 👀😂😆
Man, to hear her say “Don’t be the rebound” and not consider herself a rebound at this point is frightening. She’s become who she is telling Reva not to be. There’s residual damage happening here.
When a man's mom and other family members (Mario's, during the meet-the-parents dinner) tells you her son has an attitude problem (a "dark-side" as they put it)... uhhh... "that right there" was an indicator of the future events (for me, at least)! Consider yourself "rescued", Tondy!
Tondy he is definitely not worth it. To embarrass you and then still give him the time of day and anything else. He's a F Boy you can and have done better. Don't want to be seen with you in public but coming to my house. If that makes you happy live your life.
You know what Mario is doing at her house.. I like Tondy but she's allowing him to play her like a deck of cards. She needs to have enough self love to not entertain him at all. This is a soul tie issue that's why she sleeping with him.
LaShonda Rochell . To be humiliated like that and still spend time with this person is ridiculous. I liked Tondy but, gurl! What are you showing to your daughter? This dude is playing both and probably lining up someone else. 3 months isn’t that long. Be glad it wasn’t 3 years. Is it that big of a shortage of men in ATL?
Greetings!😊 Insightful interview. I respect Tondy’s honesty and wish her best with strengthening her self worth. Beautiful women & soul. Crystal, I enjoy your interviewing style. Thank you for sharing the interviews w/us. You ask great questions, respectfully & wittily hold the guests accountable, and provide helpful feedback, all while exuding grace & fashion. Love & Respect! ~Wishing all much peace & many blessings
Tondy is such an elegant and strong woman! She is so classy and keeps herself together she is the type of woman who keeps it REAL and a man who can’t handle that does not deserve her! She deserves a strong KING. Not a man who isn’t willing to fight for her. Honestly Riva is beautiful too but she also needs to realize she is just a rebound and cut her losses!
Venita Bolden Now I see why Tondy is still single. As beautiful as she is probably hotter when she was younger, dating high profile men, she is totally lost when it comes to men.
Mario isn’t in love with two women. He’s a narcissist.
HE FULL OF HIMSELF AND FOUND 2 IDIOTS TO PLAY ALONG
True - love is not selfish, it is selfless.
his family tried to warn her...
@@ChocolateSunshine1
Facts
@@michellebelk9951
🙏🏿👍🏽
This man ain’t no prize for either of these women.
Abeo Turner thank you!!!! This man actually thinks he’s a prize! That’s why he’s moving like this......he thinks he’s the prize!
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Mario and Reva are perfect for each other. They are both manipulators and liars.
Both Mario and Reva are good for one another...👽
He slept with both of them, he a 🐕.
Why talk to Mario🤔 He is definitely not trustworthy
She still had feelings for him. It's a woman 's thing to prove to the other woman. I can still have him. Anyhow she had to get him out her system
Because she's still competing with Reva.
@Sarah R Lol...
Sooooooo....she's trying to prove that she can still sleep with him but, at the end of the day he's still trying to be with Reva?????😐
Mario is a little boy stuck in a mans body!!!!
Not ready for the presence of a queen..
I don’t believe Mario has feelings for Tondy or Reva. I think he is all about himself & he has gotten Tondy goodies but also wanted to try Revas too!
Being Tracy yep
@@leelanae EXACTLY!!!
Preach!
I think bruh was spoiled growing up
You are so spot on
The fact that she still entertaining him on any level is a problem . He just disrespected you on national TV
Smdh...Word!😡
We out here in Joburg, South Africa! We saw the entire show...and the humiliation scene was highest level of respect!!!
Exactly how stupid his not genuine
Exactly just shameful like she suppose to move on just embrassing herself. Maybe she wants to be a side chick
@@ndumi-lightYou mean highest level if disrespect!!!
This is so sad! She is allowing herself to be used. Mario is not worth it.
IKR..sh e sound dumb entertaining him after HE CLEARLY DON'T WANT HER... he will never treat her better b/c she is ACCEPTING IT...sad
I think she is caught up and in some way wants to get back at Reva. It's hard not being the winner. I have seen this too many times. Women will know the man or husband has someone or moved on and will stay there either to antagonize or prove something to the other woman.. I know two women right now with about 6 kids for the same man and know of each other and will fight each other each time it gets. One finally gave up..
Empowering Success with Kim sad to see this. But this is how relationships play out. Tondy needs to move on. She’s letting Mario keep his foot in the door and he has no respect for her.
He made her his side chick
He is playing the 2 between one another...
The markings of a boy struggling in a mans body
And I believe he and Reva never stopped communicating just as he and Tondy are doing the same
She sounds so foolish talking about he still talk to me, call me, sleep with me, BUT HE DIDN'T PICK YOU.. and I bet he still communicating with the woman he choose. THIS IS WHY YOU DON'T COMPETE FOR A DAMN MAN..lol
Yes that's why she was trying to warn her but didn't say exactly what he was doing.
Never thought of that....but wow @ friends become associates when a man involved...
When a man show you who is really is then move on
She aint stuck. He was lying and still chasing her.
I was team Tondy until this interview, now she’s making herself look bad. He humiliated you on national TV and he chose another woman in front of the world. BLOCK DELETE MOVE ON!!!!
If I could like your comment one more time.
Im with u Jennifer. Saddest of it all s that she keeps talking about Reva. But Mario humiliated her and she still seems to have feelings for him.
90 days is not enough time to know a person. They had a world- wind connection. Why make it more than what it was. It's got to be ok, that a person exercise their will and you have no other choice but to allow it, or you will drive yourself crazy.
True he was never honest
My God. Is he worth all this conversation. Your shaming yourself with this back and forth. Are these games making you feel more womanly, giving you a 1 up.. your both the same. Grow up
Kudos to the host for calling tondy out about why was she letting Mario even come to the house
Exactly
Baby the host is asking all the right questions... The hostess with the mostess
Yes I was very impressed. I also liked the way she held Reva accountable. Its difficult to find a host that asks the right questions and isn't afraid to call their guests on their BS. Good Job EPROnline!
Trust me she is full of the sauce. She's got minerals baby
Little Black Book 91 so a review is coming soon then 👀
@@LittleBlackBook91 What you doing over here? LOL
@@LittleBlackBook91 Looking forward to your review, of this!
Tondy Tondy Tondy, I love you girl but I am at a loss for how you still sleeping with Mario after the biggest humiliation of the year. Girl he ain't worth it. Glad you are finally moving on. Please don't look back
catmo59 she’s lying that mans not sleeping with her lying ass
catmo59 I think she just doing it to get back at Reeva
Paris Rosen Beanpie9311 Are you Mario how would you know exactly?
@@haydenluvskia1911 must be one of Revas friends....I mean associates
catmo59 exactly!
MARIO IS NOT WHAT I WOULD CALL A GOOD GUY!! Tondy made a lot of excuses in defending Mario in this interview. I doubt he'd do the same for her
" I doubt he would do the same for her" ...hmmm...definitely something to consider
She's defending him because she thinks they may get back together , sadly she hasn't yet realized she was used. He hooked up with reva way before he and tondy broke up he got what he wanted mission accomplished he's going to complete reva's mission as well. I must say that both ladies look gorgeous.
Ally B sadly he’s going to leave them both. He has no respect for either of them.
I think he would defend her to make himself look good. He has a public reputation... he wants to redeem himself as the good guy
@@TishaPisha Good point
Tondy and Ashima literally has two of the best personalities on the show. Tondy will find a real REAL one soon.
And she did❤
When Mario compared Tondy's personality to his ex wife's personality that was Tondy's queue to bail. There was so many red flags and caution signs but she ignored them all and got played.
Love is very blind
Being desperate will make you do that!
Exactly, whenever a man’s family starts talking crazy about him, I’d be out.
Mama tried to warn her. You know its bad if mana has something to say.
The red flags were when he met his family. She should have listened
I agree
@joshua19942 the way Reva were to Tondy on the show. As if she won the prize. I could clearly see that they aren't compatible. I can tell Reva is ratchet. Although she tries to act classy and Mario is a playa. What I don't get is why Tondy is allowing him to sleep with her after he embarrassed her on the show. He'll never have respect for her now. Her standards are low
@@kriskay3652 now I understand why she's friends with Erica Dixon
@@lilredgemini613 I've been saying that. I said it on another channel. Look who her friends are. Some ratchet women who pull up and fight.
Mario hit Tondy hard. She loves him.
Kris Kay I agree women that choose to ignore the signs set themselves up. Makes me think he wanted to have his cake and eat it to
Why is Tondy still contact with this man? This makes her no better than Reva. He’s no prize for either lady. Grown woman move differently. Have some class please!
Denyce Nicole, the fact she was impressed by him doing oral, showed she felt special. Maybe it put her in a mental trance that gave her self esteem.
Amen!
Denyce Nicole you said it best!!!! These ladies are acting like teenagers not grown ass 40 something year old women.
I know there's a shortage of men n the ATL but dayam
Desperation
Throw the whole situationship away. Chile it's too murch 🙄
Raven Seay Not too murch 😂😂😂😂😂😂
You mean "associationship" lol
Basically he has a heart. Wanted to let her down easy but loves Reva
Situationship is what it is! Tondy wants to get back at Reva but you can't do that with your body, you will be the one who look foolish in the end.
Talks With Tara bruh😂😂😂💀💀
A fake ring should never impress a women. First mistake.......
“Don’t be the rebound” 🙄 Tondy I ain’t taking no advice from you. You continued to be with him. At this point it’s a pissing contest between the women. This is sad.
Nah. She Needed to Do This. The Girl Tried to Play Her. Reva is a Clout-Chasing Industry Groupie
All this time we was mad at Mario and she was still kicking it with him on the side. Chile I can’t. 🤦🏾♀️. They was together 3 months, after a man humiliated you on national tv and you couldn’t let that go sis? 🤦🏾♀️🤔How deep in love can you be in 3 months. Over it.com #teamnoone
Jazzy Jai it was
More than love it was sex. A tie was created. That’s hard to break and it will definitely have you looking foolish. But I don’t think she is. Just to trusting. This is why it’s recommended to have sex with a man you’ve married and have committed to you. Not that that makes him stay in line but at least the vow is a protection.
@@Rizzyvoe You preaching, Rizz! Say it again for the ppl in the back! :)
@@Rizzyvoe That's right!!! Soul ties are the worst ties to have between a man who's sleeping around with multiple women. He knows he has the woman when she doesn't cut him off after he's played her and she takes him back.
Lol
RIzz I agree that sex should be with your husband, that is such an important point however sex has never trumped being mistreated for me. Every woman is different. The sex can be great and a tie but mistreatment immediately cuts that tie for me. Although its hard to cut ties from a person you have strong feelings for once you fall in love with yourself and really recognize what love is supposed to look like its easy as hell. You can train your mind to change the way you feel. We have that power. God gave it to us. Most of us just dont know the power we actually have. Change the way you think then you’ll change the way you feel. Once you recognize Love, staying in something where Love isn’t present will NEVER be option. As we get older our perception of what Love is changes hence our standards change. Hell at 19 all he had to be was cute. At 44 the way I think about Love and what it is and what it should look like has totally changed my way of thinking so I can walk away easier than that 19yr old girl.
He did try to control you....when a person says that you are too outgoing; you drink, you loud, etc. It’s control issues.
No. That's a difference in personality.
I agree because if your not his cup of tea... then you need to select another flavor of tea
@@rebuiltgirl3263 and that's what he did.
@Abisola Abiodun Child everyone is grown. It takes people many months, even a few years to figure out what they want. 3 months is not enough time.
but didn't she still wanted him?
Something ain't right.😒😒..I want to be team Tondy! But when he went to that other couch with Reba, you should let them snakes stay tangled together....that was your closure.
Reva
You don't get to determine anybody's closure. Folks are done when they're done.
So true Nichole...just my opinion and I kno it's a lil harsh and judgemental but its disappointing to hear a mature woman speak about "closure" like that
Also, let's not forget he "shewed" her backstage...told her to get away from him. Not to be too judgemental tho. When you have feelings for someone there are some blurred lines. He def treated her bad tho and every one in America thinks she deserves better
Tondy is what she accuses Reva of being.
In the words of the great Nina Simone :
“You've got to learn to leave the table when love's no longer being served”
Whether they are physically attracted to each other or not he unfortunately doesn’t like her or respect her enough to care for her feelings. That much was evident the way he treated her on television.
Older women have a responsibility to younger women to demonstrate what self love looks like. Tondy is beautiful with a great personality. She did not deserve to be hurt so publicly. She needed to stop let that man take up her time and use body after the reunion. She deserves someone who loves and respects with his whole heart. We teach them how to treat us. #lovethyself
Tondy is a fool. Men leave women everyday. He played you on national tv and you slept with him afterwards and bragging now trying to hurt Reva. You're acting pathetic. Move on sis
EXACTLY!!
She's Not bragging she was asked 🙄 and she gave still team Tondy her business was aired on TV versus EVERYONE here on this thread, but ANYWHO
So, she still let him get the loving AFTER he chose to humiliate her on national tv? 🤦
So low down as a female
And while he's with another woman. Is it a wonder that Reva never considered her a friend?
Birds of the same feathers flock together
Cosmo Energy THAT WAS STUPID OF HER STILL BEING PLAYED
Aww man
I like Tondy a lot, but I learned from my own personal experience to stop feeling sorry for women that don't feel sorry for themselves.
I had a friend with a boyfriend/baby daddy that put her out in the dead of winter. Had her living in a shelter. I took her in and really helped her get stuff together. Somewhere through all of that her and the boyfriend/baby daddy was still communicating. Once she was no longer a burden on him - they got along fine. I found it difficult accepting that I'm bending over backwards trying to help her while she cuddling with the very person that causes me to have to help her. So I just stopped helping her. I started feeling like I was being used. Big lesson learned!
Where did Tondy feel sorry for herself? You're self-projecting, Sis. She owned her mess and was honest. She even said she'd be alright.
@@annetted9579 She didn't have to ask. As women we naturally did - everything he did on surface with the DEATH of any type of relationship.
You did the right thing...being a friend too her In her time of need
Story of my life. I've been through the exact same thing helping "friends", but when I lost my mom and needed support, those "friends" I helped were nowhere to be found. I tell you, lesson learned the hard way.
Mario is the guy that plays the Mr. Nice Guy roll and is a womanizer.
I fully agree 💯%
Bravoooo to mindset
Mario is d evil BM
OMG...YES
It's absolutely nothing wrong with being a womanizer! Just say off ripp "I am a womanizer" most chicks will be intrigued and still get down with it! Lol :)
Tondy is in denial. We’ve all tolerated a man’s bad behavior at one point. But to be humiliated on national tv? Nah! You playing yourself.
0 tolerance for disloyalty, they seem to be playing this game to prove their value which is sad.
Tony is 100 x’s more believable than Reva. She’s seems more real, more humble, and more genuine, while Reva is a gamer, and a tad treacherous.
If he heard all that over the phone, why is he with her. It says a lot about him.
You two women need to step it up and be the Queen women you suppose to be. Lord help our women; we can do better!!!
Exactly, he is just messy and want his ice cream and cake.
This is the true definition of a “pickmeisha”!! Both Tondy and Reva need to make better choices because Mario or any man is not worth all this drama 🤦🏽♀️
4LADYSWEET you ain’t never lied smfh
God bless you sister!!! My point exactly!! women should stop this nasty fight against each other all because of a boy man!! we're better than that. You both should make him lose you not play with your bodies and mess up with your emotions!!
@Sun Flower True
I like Tondy but homegirl played herself
Tondy is a trustworthy person
Yep, she played herself!!!
Sure did!
Kimberley McDowell and STILL playing herself. He humiliated her, and he still sliding over to her house.
I think she knows she played herself, atleast she's honest about it not being her proudest moment
All I can say is..... 😳those receipts.....Reva is a Bad Liar.....Christal you were great....Superb interview
I don't think he believed her, she was just too easy and he got stuck there. He ran to her after his feelings was hurt about Tondy going to her Ex show.
Are you kidding? What receipts?
Blew Reva lied and said she never spoke to Tondy and only thru the mutual friend. She said she only invited her to a group brunch. The proof is she was texting and calling tons of times. Asking as she Going to the genuine show, did she want to share a room with her, what was she doing on memorial day, she invited her to a one on one mother daughter day, not a brunch with a group of friends, there were tons of lies and the receipts are showing that Reva was a liar because she said she never ever spoke to her
I am still confused.. If they both were friends, Why didn't Tondy back off on the journey instead of addressing Reva to back off from Mario.. Especially if Tondy was so sure, that Mario wasn't so into Reva.. it seems as if they was competing towards each other..
She is highly delusional, and wants to be loved so bad, self love is the best love. He came on national TV and told YOU what he wanted, take it and go on with your life.
UniversallyConnected1111 Agreed! She’s beautiful but definitely has self esteem issues.
When a man says he's hard to please...walk 🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️
She is so wrapped up in trying to hurt reeva, when the real problem is mario.
She’s not trying to hurt Reva.. He’s trying to prove it was more to their friendship
And this is exactly why men like him continue to do what they do smdh
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@@nikkideevah She only proved she was an associate. It seems Reva tried to hang but she didn't do it.
Absolutely
Random post: This camera quality is impeccable
It sure is!
Keani Rae Girl ain’t it?! That was my first observation.
😂😂😂😂
True
yes very clear
Please move the show to a different city. I'm over Atlanta.
Like Houston
I said this after Season 1. I think Houston, DC, or Virginia would be great!!
Exactly. I said the same thing. Dating in Atlanta seems dreadful and very unsuccessful for straight black women! It’s very demoralizing!
@Bighearted Sunshine The one with the grey hair was suspect
@@jefferycates8571 Yes! Very!🤫
Lesson: Do not move too fast in relationships. No judgement because we’ve all been guilty of it. Especially ladies, since we’re the prize, let him prove he understands your value and is willing to work for the prize!
@ Janice Burton CHURCH!!!!!! Can you repeat that for the people in the back?! Sis, AMEN!!!!
People killed me with this “I need closure!” This is code for I still want you and want to convince you that we should be together. Stupid! I would just stay single if I had to deal with this mess.
The Mrs Jones exactly why do you need a man to tell you why he doesn’t want you
Correct Mrs.Jones! I’ve already decided that will be the way I go before I EVER DEAL WITH THIS
YAAAAAAAAAS Mrs Jones🥰🙌
Exactly you just still want to talk point blank period!!
He must have a ding-a-ling of gold because this is messy!
I GOT NEXT!!
Sonia Blount lol, Tamar 🤣
It must have a golden/silver tip or something on it....
I love dingaling of gold 😂😂😂
@@ladyp9710 😂😂😂
Tondy's really pretty.
Nichelle Nunya pretty only from the outside, I won’t want her as a daughter in law .
Not really she looks like a man
She and Reva are gorgeous. Makes this even more sad
Red Sunshine 😮
U see her with make up
No respect for any of the parties involved in this pathetic game.
I couldn't play it not my style of dating
Tondy ain’t wise smh ...
Girl he humiliated you on TV and you still smashing him , girl bye 🙄🙄
The closure should have been when he was kissing another girl on national TV and left your side on the reunion. You as much of a rebound as Reva. She thinks she won or something , nah girl you loss as well!!
Tondy spoke with far more clarity and sense than Reva did.
Low self esteem at it finest, girl stop because you’re playing yourself. Mario doesn’t want you he just want that kitty 🐱
He wants her😍...he already had! The...KAT!😄
Exactly
Bingo!
Tamara D exactly
He sure does not want her
Reva sounds like a woman who was secretly jealous and secretly envious of Tondy.. Probably the reason she wanted to 'Hang out' with Tondy, so that she could 'Observe' her.. Some women do this in order to better 'Compete' with you..
Ikr!! I agree
Fact. I had that done to me by a so call friend.
@@thetruth7900 Me too & she did it twice & is forever messing around with married men or is always saying that one of her friends men or husband likes her. She has a sickness & gets off with being competitive & secretly messing around with other Women's man... She's very evil & disgusting!!
Seems like Tondy knows where to hang out and Reva trying to be seen too. But I agree too she is envious of her.
Preach!
Reba isn’t to be trusted after this interview she completely lied
Who says everything Tondy said is true!!? You very gullible. I take everything Reva and Tondy said with a big grain of salt. The truth lays in the middle!!!!!!!
Reva lied period, Facts. she completely dismissed their friendship all cos of a man.
I didn’t say that tondi is the 100 percent the gospel truth what I am saying is reva completely lied about their interactions and relationships as women she was dirty how she went about it but Mario is to blame for this big mess both women need to reevaluate the situationships and relationships period
Have we watched the same interview ? Reva lied that there was no interaction , no contact in five years apart from a proposed branch for their daughters hence the perpetual "Associate BS". the text messages were intimate messages between Tondy and Reva and not part of a group @AList Closet please re watch the video.
Absolutely ! I agree Mario did wrong but Reva was also shady , she texted Tondy under the table warning her off and then went off with Mario . She was attempting to save face by branding Tondy a lair stating that they were not friends , they never spoke on the phone for 5 years and they never hanged together , well we saw them receipts Reva was lying .
All this over a man you've only dated for three months who humiliated you on television. Seriously she needs to move on because at this point she's looking real desperate.
Mario cares for himself and himself only!! Leave this boy alone!
She needs to host for ALL the shows!! Love and Hip-Hop.....Ready to love...Real Housewives!! She gets allll the tea!!... I love it!
Always love yourself more. He humiliated you on national television you can forgive him, but still love yourself enough to know that he isn't a person you need to further communicate with. Ladies love you, the right person will come along. No matter how many receipts are shown there is no need to reminisce about something that was never yours to begin with. The best thing is to focus on moving forward and knowing that the best is waiting for you.
C ChooseChrist AMEN!!!!!
Well said. 💯
Certified!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
It makes me so sad that these ladies don’t love themselves enough to want better. They are both beautiful women! He not even all that🤷🏽♀️
@mrzbarry when you are grown you aint giving it up, you are getting it. Men have sex with women they don't necessarily care for all the time because they have great sexual chemistry. It's not deep, just hope everyone is wrapping it up
So she’s still entertaining him like it’s cute after he humiliated her on tv? He can have her if he wanted her, but he obviously doesn’t want her. He’s going back & forth between the both of them
I pray one day every woman finds and live in their worth. Accepts nothing less than respect, honesty and loyalty
Love is a schemar.
I was rooting for and even sympathized with Tondy after the reunion because it was wrong how he broke that news to her. However, after watching this interview and realizing how pathetic she is, I no longer support her. I knew her self esteem was low, but this man HUMILIATED, embarrassed and DISRESPECTED you on NATIONAL television & didnt give a damn and you're STILL communicating with and seeing him??? Smh 🤦🏽♀️ Women have GOT to do BETTER!
So many are used to being treated like trash it's normal. Many women cling to abusive and disrespectful behaviors.
A women should never allow a man to downgrade her to a booty call. That is what Tondy allowed Mario to do to her. Girl wake up and CUT IT OFF COMPLETELY.
It ain't a booty call if she wanted it, too. It's 2020.
@@annetted9579 yes ma'am talk that talk. When you are grown it isn't about giving it up but about getting it, ok!
@mzbrown but you have to ask yourself why do you want it from a man who would treat you like this?
@@annetted9579 It's still a booty call. If she didn't want it and they had sex anyway, it would've been rape.
@@gorgeousgab48 not everyone views sex as mutually exclusive with emotional intimacy
Tondy! Wake up every control freak is hard to please.
WOW!! this interview is everything!! Great interview & Tondy is very candid & forthcoming. I truly wish her the best & I hope she finds true love💕
Thank you xo
@@fromChristalXO You're most welcome😊
Mario is bleh 🤮 these women should know better
I personally think hes a very attractive man, its his narcissistic ways that make him ugly as hell. Yuck
His family volunteered info about. They know he’s a trip
It’s interesting how probably about 100% of the women downing Tondy are playing the fool for someone’s son right now. Cut it out
Paulette Stovall
Truth is most women will be single if they practice what they preach. Most men aren’t that great, periodt!🤷🏾♀️
PeridozQ and a lot of women ain’t shit either if we want to speak facts. 😂
Yaaaaas chile! I see no lies told here! Not that it's right...but it sho is real.
Single is better than 5 mins with an ugly broke dusty male
PeridozQ nah, men will be forced to step it up when their peen gets no action for a while
Hey another AMAZING interview by Christal! She’s a great host! These receipts are real and Reva is a big liar! She said she NEVER called or contacted Tondy. Catch a person in one lie they are a total liar! Great interview Tondy
I love her!
BAM Best Artist Management One Lie= COMPLETE LIAR!!!!!
No Reva said they had two conversations...the trip and a mommy and daughter deal....PERIOD!!! and this TWO text messages make them FRIENDS?
ymc m no she said she spoke to her through the mutual friends. She invited her to memorial day, she asked was she out at the club, she asked her to share a room, she asked her was she going to the Ginuwine concert, she warned her bout Mario, and then she asked about mommy daughter day. Not a brunch invite with a group of ladies. Then she said she don’t like texting she will call her later. Reva told tons of lies she said her only interaction was thru the friend she stressed I NEVER called or talked to her. She’s a big liar.
I bet Reva's somewhere punching air right now.
She's at the gun range
@@janevain2192 she sure is
@Sarah R 🤣🤣🤣🤣
jane vain 😹😹😹😹😹😹
@Red Sunshine Why are y'all so mean n nasty towards one another?
Seems like Tondy just might be a sweet girl. A good woman who deserves to have her softness protected instead of exploited by a man. I really wish men would be our protectors, instead of using our softness for them as a weapon against us.
Stop waiting on men and protect yourself
@@annetted9579 sad but true.. PEOPLE WILL TREAT YOU HOW YOU LET THEM. period
I see your point dear. That is why I keep my sweetness and softness for myself. I am my first protector before any man. I learned so much from this crazy triangle.
Women get “Whoa-ed” to easily. Nothing was impressive about that cheesy clay ring.
I thought the same thing. I would have been gone.
😅😅🤣🤣🤣
Tivony By Tifani 💯especially in your 40’s . It’s actually insulting 😂
It would only matter if a real ring was brought out immediately after the clay. Almost as gotcha moment . lol
Tivony By Tifani
Absolutely nothing!
At this point Mario isn't playing Tondy, Tondy is playing herself. He's a man, he's gonna say what she she want to hear and say enough to get what he came for. No, she wanted & needed closure not him. Her goal is to break them up. I thought Tondy was better than this.
Never4saken 1 I agree. She wants to break them up and force him back to her.
Tondy you’re too easy. No one likes it easy.
Cheap and easy
Uhmmm
Char'Kita Hood if you sleep with a man during taping what do you expect. She slept with him on at the cabin. She said it herself. From her lips in her live new years eve. She was tipsy or drunk whichever u choose to call it. she let it slip. Drunks reveal things later they regret
Broads are on this thread like they have never let a dude back in before. Stop the lies please. All y’all ain’t saints in these streets. One thing about it is that Tondy is honest with herself and everyone else.
We've all probably let the man come back. But shes doing it to hurt another woman and in the process looking dumb af. She needs to move on. You expect this behavior from 20 smthg little girls.
I think if you've ever been truly in love with the wrong guy unknowingly. We've been there before. Love can be addicting which can be unhealthy.
We all have been there ...even the...SHOCKED!😳...Host!🤣
The difference is you behave that way when you're young and naive. When you're a grown ass woman like she is you know better therefore you you should be doing better. When you're of a certain age and still believing Lil boy lies and getting played with boys antics 101 you look desperate, stupid, and pretty pathetic.
Markeda Clarkson Preach Lady,......
Man because of women like Tondy is why men don’t respect woman .... There should be a class for women to learn self worth . So sad 😞. I like her but those she have self love ? Us women should value our selves better than this !!!
Mario doesn't care about either one of them. He played on their rivalry and gets off on them competing for him. Once one of them figures it out, and leaves, he will lose interest in the other one.
Mario and Reva are made for each other. Shitty individuals to do that.
Maybe it’s just me....but I can’t really look in Mario’s face for more than 10sec. And he is broke. And he is evil per his own family. Real grown Queens need to run!!!
Yessssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss
He’s broke? Lol
Every one and I do mean every one of your comments is a AMEN you speaking them words!
So Tondy is still with mario and reva and her were "friends" but only reva did the reaching out. But more importantly she's still blaming reva but fooling around with a broke tax preparer that humiliated her. I can't.
Jazzy Nicole cantttttttt!!!!!!
Right! Tondy is full of it!
Jazzy Nicole smh
This interview was on point! I knew Mario was gonna try to have his cake and eat it too! Womanizer! PERIOD. Lesson for women.. Don't get in competition with another woman over a man. Don't jump into something with a man fresh out of a relationship. The man is the only one that comes out as the winner. Reva was faking it until she made it. Now Tondy done slapped you back into reality with the truth. The Oscar goes to Mario for best actor. He need to do theater. Lol
Tori Davis Sad part is a I think he does perform. Sigh
Tondy looks like a hurt fool. Please move on...
She’s trying to prove to Reba that she can still get with him but actually making herself look dumb he’s playing you girl run 🏃♀️
He's a playah!
Brittney Boone why is Tondy trying to prove that she was friends with Reva? Once someone says u was never a friend, why force that subject? Still in touch with Mario?? Why??? He is not worth it! She is proud of hooking up with him, she should block him! Receipts are irrelevant at this point, the man made you look like a fool!
Tondy has a gorgeous singing voice ... beautiful woman. Not sure if she dances as well, but she is definitely a double threat with her vocal and acting skills.
i just wanna know where Crystal got her off-the-shoulder dress from? super cute 👍🏽
diamondsandlipgloss okay I’m with you... details on that outfit plz!
diamondsandlipgloss Yes! first thing I thought when the video started
Just seeing this interview, but I want that dress too
Amazon
DD Booth...GIRL can you picture that with some riding boots....what!
Don't get me wrong I'm #TeamTondy but I hate how highly she speaks of Mario... he is NOT a good Man because good men don't treat women like this... I'm glad they both cleared things up but I would never want that thang touching me... This whole conversation has made me realize just how sad I am for the Women in Atlanta... to sleep with a Man AFTER he has publicly humiliated you is disgusting and desperate. Thank you Crystal for the great questions.
She speaks highly of him because she wants to leave the door open to take hm back.
@@filmadcamp1512 No she doesn't. Tondy believes the best in everybody until they call her a liar.
@@annetted9579 Okay whatever you say. 😂😂
No this anit about just women in Atlanta, cause I'm not with that creepy shit.
@@filmadcamp1512 Lol
Tondy and Reva both need to research Narcissist Personality Disorder. Three phases of relationships with those who suffer from this disorder are IDEALIZE, DEVALUE and DISCARD. In the idealization phase you are everything to that person, they claim they will always love you, you are their soul mate...etc, etc. None of it is real. Then when you don’t live up to their unrealistic expectations they start devaluing you, pointing out everything that’s wrong with you. Then in the discard phase they do just that...discard you. Tondy didn’t experience those things his family mentioned because narcissist put on full face mask when they are trying to get what they want. That mask eventually slips in this case it slipped at the reunion. This disorder is real and people better start educating themselves on it. It’s becoming more and more common and talked about. The ultimate goal for a narcissistic at the end of a relationship is to hurt you. Trust and believe Tondy...the Mario you saw at the reunion is the real Mario. He’s going to do the same thing to Reva eventually. Narcissist are incapable of loving anyone....they mimic emotions and feelings based on what they think others think and feel. They are incapable of empathy. It’s real just like bi-polar and borderline personality disorders. All narcissist are pathological liars, selfish and controlling!
Don't forget Hoover, which is what Tondy has allowed that creature Mario to do.
He should be Non-existent to her yet she let him back in... She will regret it....
Ally B you are absolutely right! I forgot about the hoover.
Timeka Wilson ~~Spot on!!!!!!!!
Ally B ~~ Yes!!!!
100% True. I met my narcissistic ex in May 2017 & dumped him in March 2018. He HARASSED me until Feb 2019. He was blocked from calling me but he would get new #s & start calling & texting me again. Eventually I had to change my #. I had my phone # for 11 years prior to changing it but my peace of mind was worth it. I was under so much stress that my hair had fell out in clumps. My cortisol levels was through the point I burned through my adrenal glands causing more symptoms....weight gain, dark circles around my eyes, recurrent UTIs, fatigued, depression, rage, & PTSD from being in flight or fight mode all the time. That relationship was the worse I ever been in! Prior to him I didn’t know a damn thing about narcissistic personality disorder. So yes I agree people need get educated about this disorder. The main sign is that narcissists LACK empathy & they never take responsibility for anything. They always blame the victim for EVERYTHING!!!!
Tondy is beautiful and sweet hearted and talented,,,,like Mario said his lose😂
I love Tondy's energy. She seems so sweet and vivacious at the same time. Also I appreciate that she took accountability for her actions and chooses to still have a positive outlook on love. Good for her!
He sounds like he's playing both of them. At this point, Tondy should just let him go completely. Reva thinks she has something and he over to Tondy's house.Tondy you're his side chick now😒
I feel sorry for BOTH of them. Smh...
American cutie the only one who won is Mario. He played them both!
Both of them need to drop that looser who is trying to play the oldest game in the book
@@lovelife47ds yes!. And he knows it
I don't feel sorry for both women Reva has a history of running behind Tondey! True she self eliminated herself but for what? To still run behind her again. I had to watch this interview 2 times.. An I'm still trying to give reva the benefit of the doubt and I can't this lady has all the txt messages. Mario is a piece of work they were not BFF but like Tondey said her moral compass is off the hung out!! Period.
Nooooo Tondy, Mario is not confused. He knows EXACTLY what he is doing!! Cut him off girl.
Also those receipts - all I can say is Reva doesn't have a leg to stand on after those!! 👀😂😆
exactly- his "only child syndrome" is kicking in & he is getting away with as much as these two women will let him get away with.
I lOVE this girl! She has slimmed down too! Her ENERGY is EVERYTHING!
Why would she want to communicate with him after that
I loved this interview but I’m ready for Brent 😩😩
Kaira Cruz Girl!!! Yeeesssssss!!!!
Kaira Cruz ua-cam.com/video/Phok-H6Qbvw/v-deo.html
So ready for Brent
😄😄😄😄😄😄😄
Without Alexis because he can't talk with her
They all need to be tested.
Go test your damn self🤷♀️People fuck everyday.
@@MrsBryant1024 see now.....you're probably one of those that pass STDs around because that was totally uncalled for......😩
Mrs Bryant must’ve struck a nerve nasty bish
@@BellaNoir3 I'm not passing anything around. Just being honest because it's the truth. I've been with my husband 10 years. He's the only man.
@@GiGiChosen I have a husband. I BET you DON'T 🤷♀️
When a man knows that two women know of each other and are still sleeping with him, he will never be honest and will go as far as they both let him
Man, to hear her say “Don’t be the rebound” and not consider herself a rebound at this point is frightening. She’s become who she is telling Reva not to be. There’s residual damage happening here.
When a man's mom and other family members (Mario's, during the meet-the-parents dinner) tells you her son has an attitude problem (a "dark-side" as they put it)... uhhh... "that right there" was an indicator of the future events (for me, at least)! Consider yourself "rescued", Tondy!
Tondy he is definitely not worth it. To embarrass you and then still give him the time of day and anything else. He's a F Boy you can and have done better. Don't want to be seen with you in public but coming to my house. If that makes you happy live your life.
Exactly! This is also a bad example to set for her daughter.
You know what Mario is doing at her house.. I like Tondy but she's allowing him to play her like a deck of cards. She needs to have enough self love to not entertain him at all. This is a soul tie issue that's why she sleeping with him.
LaShonda Rochell . To be humiliated like that and still spend time with this person is ridiculous. I liked Tondy but, gurl! What are you showing to your daughter? This dude is playing both and probably lining up someone else. 3 months isn’t that long. Be glad it wasn’t 3 years. Is it that big of a shortage of men in ATL?
Tondy just loves D and she had the opportunity to get some from someone who isn't a stranger so she took advantage of it. She low though.
"Soul tie issue" Siss 💯
Absolutely
Listen I like this lady as an interviewer!!! She asks great questions and doesn't take it easy on them. These are some good interviews 👍👍👍
I hope the only thing Mario is spreading is lies between these two 😳
Greetings!😊
Insightful interview. I respect Tondy’s honesty and wish her best with strengthening her self worth. Beautiful women & soul.
Crystal, I enjoy your interviewing style. Thank you for sharing the interviews w/us. You ask great questions, respectfully & wittily hold the guests accountable, and provide helpful feedback, all while exuding grace & fashion. Love & Respect!
~Wishing all much peace & many blessings
Host that dress is much better than then one you wore in the reva interview. You look pretty and very well dressed
Amazing!!!
We want Brent next..... please
Tondy she’s so stupid to make such a comment even for a joke .......
@@rosemartine8674 girl bye!
Nicky lafrench Brent Brent Brent
Nicky lafrench I am referring to Tondy not u . Lol
@@rosemartine8674 Sorry girl. See, u did not mention Tondy at first. I thought u were calling me stupid. loool
Tondy is doin the same exact thing she blaming Reva of doin,
Keylon Cousins wish hosts would of said that
They both are messy and wasting time over a man that does not want neither.
Tondy is such an elegant and strong woman! She is so classy and keeps herself together she is the type of woman who keeps it REAL and a man who can’t handle that does not deserve her! She deserves a strong KING. Not a man who isn’t willing to fight for her. Honestly Riva is beautiful too but she also needs to realize she is just a rebound and cut her losses!
Truth be told...she was jealous of you...she wanted to be in your circle because of your ex...which is Ginuwine
bingo
Venita Bolden
Now I see why Tondy is still single. As beautiful as she is probably hotter when she was younger, dating high profile men, she is totally lost when it comes to men.