When my son completed high school, i wanted him to study medicine… he went for one semester then he told me that he cant do it, he told me mom am doing this for you not for me……. I asked him ok what would you like to do?, he said mom am good with numbers, i want to do Finance. As a parent i had to honor that, i did not want him to study then go into a career that he did not even like.. He is now studying for his masters having graduated with his bachelors in May… so yes parents do not pick what your kids should study…
Growing up is not easy for anyone icluding the parents themselves. I agree that there are cases of projection. Mental health is real degreewise. Some parents go through a lot and due to lack of knowledge they project on innocent children. Some women unhappy with their husbands can take it on the children. This is bad.
Wow! She nailed it..well said!! These are the kind of leaders that we need who understand our rights and that we in a different era and things need to be done different. And also our elders to understand we don't do things to disrespect them but it's different times. She needs to have a "chair" in the government and can be a good genz rep!
Wambui am a millennial,and this gal is talking the truth,l wish One day l get a chance,pia Mimi to talk the way family should be,tondu maa ile child trauma tuko nayo huku nje we are walking death,siwezi taka kulea watoto wangu hivo😢
so encouraging and inspiring to hear a genze with such wise viewpoints about family life, i hope and pray she gets the necessary help she needs to make an impact to society. You are doing good young lady!
Wazazi wasiku hizi, have to change. Halafu kitu nyingine, watoto hawachapwi. I have brought my son up without beating. And he gives me respect the way it’s supposed to go be. I love my Son so much, and I usually Show him that I love him and I’m there for him.
I Agree With This Girl. A Family That Has HATRED, Is Truthfully “Baaaaaaad”. Wambui Stories Ziko. Anyway, I Need To Bring The Kids According To The Ways Of The Lord. After Kuniambia.. Mum! Mbona Unashout, Ongea Tu Polepole Tutaskia. Weeeeh🤦🏾🤦🏾🤦🏾 Recently, Niliulizwa-- Kwani Mum Siku Hizi Hupigi Makelele. I Unlearn, Relearn n Learn. God Ways Always.
Mimi siwezi ongelelea kuhusu wazazi, ni watu wa maana maishani mwangu. Kama kwetu tulikuwa watoto kumi na tano mzazi mmoja. Siku hizi tunapata watoto wawili watatu na tunashindwa to control them.
Even if there are some toxic parents, 80% of children are toxic and very wicked And I'm very un apologetic about this Watoto wa siku izi wengi sana ni very wrong Another thing you should know, God expects children to take care of their old parents,the same way the parents took care of the children when they were weak n young But the children of these days are wicked. Even most of them hav alot of money but they have abandoned their parents They prefer doing other things with their monies and that's why most of them are very miserable in life and are even dying young The word of God never changes. Na haitambui Gen Z or which gen If children wants a long life with blessings, they must honour n take care of their parents His comes ,one parent can raise ten children,yet ten children cannot care for one parent ? Stop blaming parents. Even parents have their own battles n also their own children trauma If any child thinks his/her parent is toxic, let him/ her be a parent n show us by example how a good parent should be Tupeni mawe nijenge fence!!!!!
The Bible tells children to honor their parents not take care of them. Every parent before having children needs to plan and make sure they are financially able to take care of them and also have enough for their old age. If anything the Bible tells parents to leave an inheritance for their children’s children. Don’t have children as a retirement plan. Plan for your retirement. After all children did not ask to be born!!!! Please make sure you plan well for your retirement depend on God not children!! Cursed is the man/woman who depends on the arm of flleash. I am a single parent in my 50’s I have educated my daughter up to a masters level I do not expect her to help me. I am making sure I leave an inheritance for her children’s children.
@@Kijo135am also a single parent and doing well thank GOD n planning for my old age. But I expect my kids to be there for me just like I will be there for them if necessary.
This topic will always be here to stay for all generations Our parents say 'during our time ' this was like this and truth of the matter is that was then this is now,times are different and I believe their parents told them the same and the chain continues but I'm glad about the genz they're able to speak up and address something when it goes wrong We still have our traumas from childhood because of being raised by broken parents they passed on the traumas and psychological issues to the kids and now these kids wants to do it different
The DJs usually used to play music in nightclubs that's why many parents believed the work of DJ is not worthy. Many parents wanted their children to teachers
Wambui kuna watoto wabaya sana.Kama wangu nilimpeleka University last year na sasa nimepigiwa simu ati ako na mimba,na kila siku tunaongea na yeye akaniambia anasoma vizuri na ako shule.Sasa hivi amepatikana Limuru akiwa amefujika mguu ati akkiwa kwa shamba.Mimi nashangaa ,shamba gani na mimi najua ako shule.
Forgive her then mrudishe home azalie home,she will learn the hard way akiwa Karibu na wewe instead akiwa mbali, Later you might think of taking her back to school
Is high time wazazi tulee watoto na njia za Mungu siyo mambo yadunia haina faida kwao maana mwicho wake watapoteza nafsi zao juu yakuwandekeza sana tuwapende but siyo kuwatekeza
Let's be careful with 'parents are toxic ' though some cases are truly extreme.From my observation the older generation is 90 percent true . But the children of nowadays are also misusing exposure and wants to translate it to 'I should be allowed to express myself 'mmmmmh this topic is abit tricky
Ukilinganicha watoto wa kitabu na wasai wako tafauti sana wengi mpaka hawana heshima kwa wakubwa wao kama watoto wa kitabo na dio wengi wamekosa heshima juu yaku mbembekezwa sana
@@ms_mbatia U R THE FUTURE PARENTS ...... I tell my kids am not perfect but I sure do give my best, so they should note down my imperfections and do better when their time comes. parents should be open for constructive criticism n young adults should atleast listen n reason before giving some of these entitlements in the name of 'exposure/internet'
When my son completed high school, i wanted him to study medicine… he went for one semester then he told me that he cant do it, he told me mom am doing this for you not for me……. I asked him ok what would you like to do?, he said mom am good with numbers, i want to do Finance. As a parent i had to honor that, i did not want him to study then go into a career that he did not even like.. He is now studying for his masters having graduated with his bachelors in May… so yes parents do not pick what your kids should study…
Wow 🤗
She have a point 👌
🤝
Growing up is not easy for anyone icluding the parents themselves. I agree that there are cases of projection. Mental health is real degreewise. Some parents go through a lot and due to lack of knowledge they project on innocent children. Some women unhappy with their husbands can take it on the children. This is bad.
Very true,
Wow! She nailed it..well said!!
These are the kind of leaders that we need who understand our rights and that we in a different era and things need to be done different. And also our elders to understand we don't do things to disrespect them but it's different times. She needs to have a "chair" in the government and can be a good genz rep!
Gosh🥹 thankyouu for your kindness ❤
Wambui am a millennial,and this gal is talking the truth,l wish One day l get a chance,pia Mimi to talk the way family should be,tondu maa ile child trauma tuko nayo huku nje we are walking death,siwezi taka kulea watoto wangu hivo😢
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so encouraging and inspiring to hear a genze with such wise viewpoints about family life, i hope and pray she gets the necessary help she needs to make an impact to society. You are doing good young lady!
Thankyou for your kind words,, and Amen !
This is a brilliant girl. Families are something else...
Thankyou for your kind comment ❤
Kairitu kogì,👍 she's spoken the exact things that happen in life and the society today!Good one
Thankyou
Wazazi wasiku hizi, have to change. Halafu kitu nyingine, watoto hawachapwi. I have brought my son up without beating. And he gives me respect the way it’s supposed to go be. I love my Son so much, and I usually Show him that I love him and I’m there for him.
This is the way
I Agree With This Girl. A Family That Has HATRED, Is Truthfully “Baaaaaaad”. Wambui Stories Ziko. Anyway, I Need To Bring The Kids According To The Ways Of The Lord. After Kuniambia..
Mum! Mbona Unashout, Ongea Tu Polepole Tutaskia. Weeeeh🤦🏾🤦🏾🤦🏾
Recently, Niliulizwa-- Kwani Mum Siku Hizi Hupigi Makelele. I Unlearn, Relearn n Learn. God Ways Always.
Wow,,you are a good parent
@@ms_mbatia dear girl, thanks but through God’s Grace our kids will be better,choose n do wisely❤️❤️❤️
Mimi siwezi ongelelea kuhusu wazazi, ni watu wa maana maishani mwangu. Kama kwetu tulikuwa watoto kumi na tano mzazi mmoja. Siku hizi tunapata watoto wawili watatu na tunashindwa to control them.
God will help us know how to do it right ❤
This is great wambui we need to hear from our young people about their journey and their experiences and future plans.. 🙏🏿
We need more people like you 🎉
Even if there are some toxic parents, 80% of children are toxic and very wicked
And I'm very un apologetic about this
Watoto wa siku izi wengi sana ni very wrong
Another thing you should know, God expects children to take care of their old parents,the same way the parents took care of the children when they were weak n young
But the children of these days are wicked. Even most of them hav alot of money but they have abandoned their parents
They prefer doing other things with their monies and that's why most of them are very miserable in life and are even dying young
The word of God never changes. Na haitambui Gen Z or which gen
If children wants a long life with blessings, they must honour n take care of their parents
His comes ,one parent can raise ten children,yet ten children cannot care for one parent ?
Stop blaming parents. Even parents have their own battles n also their own children trauma
If any child thinks his/her parent is toxic, let him/ her be a parent n show us by example how a good parent should be
Tupeni mawe nijenge fence!!!!!
Talking is one thing , when you become a parent come back sweetie .. tell us more .. wueeh... Reke ngire
The Bible tells children to honor their parents not take care of them. Every parent before having children needs to plan and make sure they are financially able to take care of them and also have enough for their old age. If anything the Bible tells parents to leave an inheritance for their children’s children. Don’t have children as a retirement plan. Plan for your retirement. After all children did not ask to be born!!!! Please make sure you plan well for your retirement depend on God not children!! Cursed is the man/woman who depends on the arm of flleash. I am a single parent in my 50’s I have educated my daughter up to a masters level I do not expect her to help me. I am making sure I leave an inheritance for her children’s children.
We don't blame anyone,,we are trying to identify a problem and solve it
@@Kijo135very true!
@@Kijo135am also a single parent and doing well thank GOD n planning for my old age. But I expect my kids to be there for me just like I will be there for them if necessary.
This topic will always be here to stay for all generations
Our parents say 'during our time ' this was like this and truth of the matter is that was then this is now,times are different and I believe their parents told them the same and the chain continues but I'm glad about the genz they're able to speak up and address something when it goes wrong
We still have our traumas from childhood because of being raised by broken parents they passed on the traumas and psychological issues to the kids and now these kids wants to do it different
💯💯
Very true ❤
I understand her I come from a very conservative home and you have to adhere to everything
True
Ati sasa tukitaka kuhama tuambie watoto😮😮😮😮😮😮😮
Wah
Yenyewe Gen z really want to control us
Ati na mkitaka kudirvorce u involve ur children😏. You are still young to talk about that.
Let me keep my comment and opinion to myself, this generation don't want us to be parents, they're parenting us😢
Including them,,, not asking for permission from them... make them feel as part of the family 😍😍
Also invite me I talk about adopted kids
Ciiiku gaitu go go kamamii
Zenkyouuuu😍
The DJs usually used to play music in nightclubs that's why many parents believed the work of DJ is not worthy. Many parents wanted their children to teachers
But things have now changed . right? Good point
Wambui kuna watoto wabaya sana.Kama wangu nilimpeleka University last year na sasa nimepigiwa simu ati ako na mimba,na kila siku tunaongea na yeye akaniambia anasoma vizuri na ako shule.Sasa hivi amepatikana Limuru akiwa amefujika mguu ati akkiwa kwa shamba.Mimi nashangaa ,shamba gani na mimi najua ako shule.
Pole Sana mummy.,.. it's not your fault..watoto wengine wanaleangwa na tabia mzuri na wazazi na wao wanajitafutia tabia zao
Forgive her then mrudishe home azalie home,she will learn the hard way akiwa Karibu na wewe instead akiwa mbali,
Later you might think of taking her back to school
Woi pole mamaa,, but kupata mimba sio mwisho WA maisha yake,, she can give birth and still go back to school! It's not right but it's done.
Is high time wazazi tulee watoto na njia za Mungu siyo mambo yadunia haina faida kwao maana mwicho wake watapoteza nafsi zao juu yakuwandekeza sana tuwapende but siyo kuwatekeza
True
Si kupenda wengi wanalea watoto peke yao
Yes! We don't blame anyone
Let's be careful with 'parents are toxic ' though some cases are truly extreme.From my observation the older generation is 90 percent true .
But the children of nowadays are also misusing exposure and wants to translate it to 'I should be allowed to express myself 'mmmmmh this topic is abit tricky
Very true
Ukilinganicha watoto wa kitabu na wasai wako tafauti sana wengi mpaka hawana heshima kwa wakubwa wao kama watoto wa kitabo na dio wengi wamekosa heshima juu yaku mbembekezwa sana
It's a messed up society
sure..parents with unhealed childhood traumas are bitter and pass this to children
Very true!
Wazazi wananguanga hivo
We don't blame them
Most Gen Z are raised by broken parents who never had a chance to speak up and heal . Before you marry or get married, heal all the childhood traumas
Very true!
Wazazi ni Wazazi tu sasa tufanye nini twende tu
We want future parents to do better
@@ms_mbatia U R THE FUTURE PARENTS ...... I tell my kids am not perfect but I sure do give my best, so they should note down my imperfections and do better when their time comes.
parents should be open for constructive criticism n young adults should atleast listen n reason before giving some of these entitlements in the name of 'exposure/internet'
100%
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