Yes, they can't be using people to figure out their own self. Go figure that out at home, your problem isn't the shows problem. This wasn't fair whatsoever to Derek!
Susan Jones Because both of Kristina and Derek know about each other. Demi relationship with her gf isn’t yet exclusive she’s still exploring and she made it clear and she was honest to both of them.
Damn you are salty AF, are you telling me you'd turn down a paid vacation on the beach, also she was extremely open and communicative with all parties involved
I agree..its like the network is promoting it and pushing it in Dereck's face. What about Derecks happiness? Chris was so worried about Demi only and her happiness...REALLY? He went out of his way and brought in Hanna then Demis love interest Christian to stay on the show , to boot!
i sadly do agree w this it was so unfair to derek for them to basically be flaunting their relationship in his face especially he clearly made it obvious how he felt
I’m just so upset because nobody else gets rewarded for being in a relationship prior to the show and it’s so irritating that demi gets praised for it.
@Canal da Isadora Dias Ikr she should have stayed off the damn show and allow people who wanted to find love to find it. And Hannah B her friend dumped Jed for that same reason they so ughh
It’s not like she was hiding that she was seeing someone else. She told Derek up front and obviously Kristian was ok with her coming to Paradise and seeing other people so I think it’s different
Nathalia Castillo Kristian probably wasn’t okay with her coming...Demi’s under contract like every other person on the bachelor/bachelorette and doesn’t really have a choice. They’re all actors anyway and will do and say what the producers tell them to maximize ratings
Nathalia Castillo if you had a boyfriend, would you let him go to a show where he could potentially find another soulmate? If so? Would you be okay with watching him kiss and cuddle other girls on national television ? Would you be okay with him double crossing the girls he was hooking up with? I’m curious. Would you be fine with that?
My sentiment exactly. All for lesbian etc, etc. But they are not available to anybody else, and the show is basically "finding love" at the expense of others; they should just go on their own lesbian in paradise shows. Demi was confused before, so that's a reason to stay, but now she's not confused anymore; staying is just not pleasant for others.
@TheMac 727, I agree with you. The Producers want the ratings, but they need to leave. The show has nothing to do with what the two of them started "before" Paradise. So they need to go and focus on their relationship and allow Derek some space.
@@darlene4612, everyone was hating Blake, but Demi gets a pass?? The "Double Standards" are sooooo apparent. I am wondering if the producers are planning some type of "spin off," featuring "Demi and her girlfriend?" Either way, we know the producers want the ratings. SMH.
I really don't think there is anything wrong with being bisexual,but if she was straight and thinking about her ex boyfriend they would NEVER bring him here,so I guess it is not like Jed because he lied and Demi didn't but it is still very much double standards.
She should have left paradise island to pursue her relationship..not stay on with gf from home. So unhappy with bachelor in paradise. This is ridiculous! 😖
I don’t think so. Demi is very upfront and honest about still being the process of exploring. She’s respectful of both parties involve and the people she is dating both know it’s not an exclusive thing yet.
Jennifer K literally nothing is okay about this, Demi is really shady for this and if you don’t think so, there is something seriously wrong with you, I really feel bad for Derek because he turned down becca for her and he even knew she had a gf but the fact that she brought her here and went on dates in front of him is RIDICULOUS. It’s honestly morbid how people think this is cute or okay. I really don’t get people’s way of thinking.
@@chrispycream7748 If Demi really liked her gf she wouldn't have gone on the show. I think she's in love with bachelor in paradise. The idea of not working, but if she wants to pursue her relationship with the girl it should be outside the show where they met. It's like nothing is about right or wrong anymore it's just about feelings.
It’s as simple as this. Demi and Kristian were casual before Demi came to paradise. They weren’t exclusively in a relationship. She came to paradise to figure out what she wanted. She was really interested in Derek. But at the end of the day being with Derek helped her realize where her heart truly lied. I’m so happy for her. She deserves happiness, and it’s clear her heart belongs to Kristian. I do feel bad for Derek. He’s a good guy and he had genuine feelings for her. I respect Derek even more for how supportive he’s been of Demi. He just wants her to be happy. I respect the fact that he took it upon himself to speak with Kristian. Even though he’s hurt, he supports Demi. That just shows what a great guy he is.
Derek is stellar , Demi deserves happiness, however...she went on BIP knowing she loved someone else back home, I'm not sure I feel ok about that. With that being said, I love Demi. Derek for Bachelor!!! What a gem~
What makes her any different than Jed? She had a whole relationship back home and still came on this show? Obviously for publicity purposes. It sucks that she had to toy with Derek’s emotions. Just go back home with your girlfriend. She literally said, “it’s always been you and I want to be with you.” So leave!
I get mom vibes from Kristian ... as strong as Demi is, she also wants someone to take care of her, this woman tapped into that and that is how she got Demi
Agreed, double standards for women only! She went on this show despite having baggage just to come out of the closet on national tv just to humiliate an innocent dude, "Oh, I'm so confused" - F-that! Shame on ABC for using LGBT's for the sole purpose of ratings. This shows sucks "bachelorettes in paradise"!
Phil Chill I mean guys have done a lot worse on this show and they know they are being filmed. But you know even if it was an act at least you know he knows the difference between right and wrong and can control himself unlike some of the other men on this show.
misskaylee bugs as a rule, I distrust and would avoid the guys in the Bachelor franchise, but there’s a big exception for Derek. He can come on over and visit North Carolina anytime.😉
I love seeing all the love just explode on screen. It’s very evident she figured out at that moment what she really wanted. Other people may not agree the methods used to figure her self out but in the end she got clarity. ❤️
Homegirl: “don’t look at me so angry, I’m sorry I’m sorry.” Sis how is she suppose to feel? You guys were in a relationship and then you decided to go on BIP she’s gonna be mad 😂😂
Yup a double standard indeed.. Demi goes under cover to expose any guys coming onto Hanna's season that had a relationship on the side then she does exactly that herself.
Absolutely Paula. Not only that but when a guy has something cooking back home they roast him unmercifully. She knew it and still came here to get something started with Derek and then cut him off at the balls. And oh yeah that one with Clay(I forget her name) is a phony too. She was with that Christian(I think that was his name) then when he gets thrown off the show she goes back to Clay and tells him "It was you all along" yeah right. Loved Demi's cliche "It's not you it's me..Your a great guy" Everytime I watch one of these shows I know I'm gonna end up hating somebody. But it's kinda fun.
@@Mryrhodesian She is phony, all laid up in the bed with Christian, all over him with dumbass Clay watching. Clay has zero self respect. She would have banged Christian the first chance she got.
Paradise is about seeing multiple people to find the one. She was open with Derek and Kristian from the beginning, they both knew and were okay with her other relationships. It’s COMPLETELY different. If Jedd told Hannah about his girlfriend from the beginning she would have sent him home right away, he robbed her. He lied to both of them.
laynebrock it’s ridiculous how blatantly obvious they are trying to keep their ratings up. Just laughable. Let it be anyone else. Or a man for that matter. Lol
Really? This is wrong she should have stayed home. If one of the guys came out saying he had a girlfriend at home everyone would rip his head off but since it's a lesbian it's ok. Whatever happened to equal rights? She should be treated like any other person. Double standards much? She should have been asked to leave right away.
@@rylea7507 I think you guys got off topic with LGBT and equal rights. The point is that, it's very hypocritical that when its found out that some guys may have relationships back home while in BIP, it's always deemed as scumming, negative and completely unacceptable. But, when a girl has a relationship back home (regardless of they're sexual orientation), everyone just turns a blind eye.
Its all pre planned and they are doing it for ratings. They all know we dont like how she treated derek but at the end of the day they care about making money
This isn't fair at all to Derek. They were being dishonest with him. The rule is you make a relationship on the show, not bring people from the outside and put them in the show. Leave the show like it doesn't make sense!
@@romeodwest1532 I dont really know much about her or even that she was a lesbian until this show. Her business but I dont really understand it . Yes of course message me if you'd like always looking to make a friend:)
Okay but like Demi you went on the show to figure yourself out and I let is slide even though you had someone back home. But youve made a choice now go home and pursue your relationship off the show.
I absolutely love this. I think Demi and Kristina are really cute together and you can see how much they care for each other. Love is love. However, once Demi exclusively chose to be with Kristina, there was no point of keeping her on the show. Maybe if Demi had chose to date both while in paradise and eventually come to a decision then cool. But considering Kristina has nothing to do with Bachelor Nation, once Demi chose to be with her they should have just left happily together. I feel bad for Derek having to see their relationship.
I don't get why Demi even came on this show when she clearly has strong feelings for someone else back home. The only thing I can think of is that she is just thirsty for fame.
This my first time ever watching BIP. I was shocked to hear people get engaged. I watch B, but I soon realized most of it is staged it just became comic relief
Demi is a hypocrite you got a whole partner go be with her all this show stuff is ridiculous and everyday calling Blake a bad person but leading Derek on girl stop.
This is what I have been saying all along. Demi was one of the main people talking badly about Blake. He had two consenting hook ups, while she had a "relationship" with someone, but came on the show for a free vacation and screw around with someone's emotions; Derek. The "Double Standards" are pathetic.
Demi and Kristian are totally adorable together! Hope the best for them. And Derek is a great guy who will surely find his person too. Great reality episode!
Send Demi and her friend home! Does anyone else notice the double standards?! It’s not ok!!! How dare Demi play with Derek’s heart! I can’t believe that they wasted over 30 minutes of air time on their story! I was very disappointed...Now, it’s time to send these two home!!!
Oh great. Now from now on, let's invite every person who the contestants were having relationships with before coming to any of Bachelor/Bachelorrette season. What a joke.
Honey Lindsay hey it’s a show what do ya expect! I kind of liked it just because she seemed so happy and this is something that never would have been accepted ten years back on the bachelor. It’s nice that she can be who she is. BUT I do see your point she could have left to go see kristian instead
@@katiemarie1021 there are other ways to do this & to celebrate/embrace/accept same gender relationship on this franchise without hurting anyone. By doing this, it's gonna be at the expense of somebody else. In this case, it's Derek. It's not Demi's fault. It's the producers' fault who are cashing in on something like this at the expense of somebody's feeling not to mention the whole purpose of the show.
Honey Lindsay hey I didn’t disagree that she shouldn’t be doing this here I just think that in all honesty she IS handling it better then any woman has really handled a situation like this, usually the woman are all confused and can’t make up their mind so they string people along for sooo long
That's not the point....the point is that you are single......Demi not single. I like the girl but she is going down hard for this and maybe her future payday bs is gone,. I know I won't buy her bs
After getting completely humiliated on National television by a lying Demi, he'd be an absolute fool, correction, a complete idiot, to even think about returning!
Chris will give Demi what ever she wants he loves Demi😡 it’s not fair they get to stay in BIPD 😡 how’s the Rose ceremony going to work is that why he’s gonna change things next week? Because of Demi😡😡😡 it’s the same as Jed double standards so wrong😡😡😡
I have known them thru Demi Lovato's ig story but I don't understand this now when I'm actually watching the vid like so they were in relationship still Demi came to the show or they were on break cuz the shoe bachelor is abt what I think as of now is finding your significant other so what does that mean??? Sorry for the rant guys
Derek should be the next bachelor...he deserves to find someone who can make him truly happy. He's a great catch, handsome and so many women would want him to be their man.
Ok, the fact that Demi had a girlfriend before going on the show is no different that Blake pursuing Hannah G. It’s time to send Demi home. Some people may think that the ratings will go up because of the inclusion of bisexuals on the show, but I would have to disagree, I think the ratings will go down. Anyway, I feel it’s hypocritical for the producers to keep Demi on the show knowing that she already had a relationship before coming on the show. It is never right to play with a person’s heart, I feel sad for Derek. Again, send Demi and her friend home!!!
I love Demi and she deserves all the happiness in the world she’s such an amazing person and I hated seeing her so confused but I’m glad she made her decision. With that being said I do not think she should’ve been allowed to stay on the show with her girlfriend. She found her love and it wasn’t with someone on the show so she should’ve went home with her girlfriend.
Sooo now BIP has become bring your bf/gf that you’re currently in a relationship with, have a free vacation there and get engaged for the show?. What’s the point of keeping them there when this show is for the single ppl FINDING love there
@@phil6bien here we go again. Another UA-camr trying to be funny! I think you are referring to the village idiot. Which is you. Remember? Not me. Get it right next time.
Demi was genuinely trying to understand her journey in coming out. It's not an easy process to accept something so deep and meaningful about yourself. She accepted to go on BIP to get some clarity b/c she owed it to herself. I went through a similar experience where I was extremely scared to come out to the world b/c I was scared of how my family & friends would take it. So I broke up with my gf who I deeply loved b/c I need clarity and needed to be 100% sure. Eventually I came out but I lost the girl of my dreams b/c it was too late when I was finally ready. So I'm happy Demi gets an opportunity at love and she's following her heart ❤
@@darlene4612 Calm down. They were together for 2 weeks, they weren't getting married. Yes his feelings were hurt but it was also hard for Demi, Derek is moving on now. That's life. That's love.
i dont know why im crying so hard . this so beautiful after watching the both them in this state now i understand why people are guy . much luv to you both
All you guys who keep saying why is demi allowed Christian to come to show well it's because she is bi the show was trying to help her out as to whether she wants to be with a guy or girl.
Absolutely no reason for her GF to be on this show. None. This whole drama is intentional. Derek knew all along and went along with the plan to make the show's drama work. No man is that naive. Everybody is looking for self promotion and recognition. Appalling.
It’s sad how Demi’s “GF” is supportive of her going on a show to explore her “options”. Isn’t an option something you already had, not what you want? To me it’s all for TV, however I lost respect for the show. Making new connections is clearly an act of which you have nothing satisfying already, the GF is just as guilty allowing it and not realizing she isn’t enough for Demi to want to stay with her fully. If you love someone you don’t care what others think as long as your SO isn’t toxic. The whole being “understanding” is false and covering a cover up for being a push over. She needs to go home for being ok with being a manipulative liar and a clout chasing heart breaker.
piepandas I see what your saying, but I also understand her gf being supportive, for me if you truly love someone you let them figure out what they want. I’d do that if my SO truly need it. Cause I’d want them to be happy.
Thea Jacobsen In today’s age we confuse allowing infidelity as being understanding or a form of love. Everyone wants to be understanding, however, there’s a line and that is seeking another partner. If I had a SO, however they weren’t satisfied or happy with me and told me they wanted to see other people, I’d let them go even if I was still in love. But Demi’s GF was ok with being an item while she left to screw around, Demi even tells her GF not to look angry at her for cheating, and Demi’s GF apologizes! what happened to allowing people to be upset with others BS (yet handled well), if you allow your SO to do as they please (cheating) you downplay your relationship and they won’t be held accountable for their actions. I’m happy she found love, but it’s a terrible and toxic example of it. Tv drama isn’t worth watching if it’s poisonous to young couples.
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I can understand why some people don't like this situation. But. Demi has actually been honest right from the very start about her seeing someone on the outside. She told Hannah aswell so it wasn't a secret. Jedd kept the fact he was seeing someone right till the very end. I do agree Demi and Kristian should leave though. As the show is about finding love. And she's clearly already found it
nooooo that is not the best way to handel it , if demi chose kristian they should've both left paradise already and start dating !! why are they staying ??!
i really do like demi & she deserves to be happy but this is SO unfair. derek deserves to be happy too. they should just go home. there’s no reason for them to be here now. kristian isn’t part of the bachelor franchise. people get mad when anyone else comes onto the show w a significant other, but not this time. it makes me so mad. double standards. smh. as much as i like demi... no. just no. lmao.
Bachelor nation you have lost a bunch of followers.She is not part of the franchise and she’s staying there! What the heck are you guys doing! You’d sell your own children for a buck wouldn’t you! I’m all for freedom to love who you love. But this person is not part of the show! And watching two women exchanging body fluids before 11pm.Children are still up!not everyone is about that life.The show became popular with men and women trying to find love.Shove this down everyone’s throat and the show will go off the air sooner than you want it too!
"All I care about is what's best for you, and what's best for everyone else here.....except for Derek. We're gonna break his heart and rub salt in his wounds by keeping you and your girlfriend around."
I agree that an outsider shouldn' t have been brought in the show and that in future seasons they should stick to the Bachelor(ette) Alumnis, but the show needed this relanshionship to boost it' s ratings. How are they gonna top this on bip2020(D&Kwedding?)? They need this show to go a few weeks more during the summer. It ends too quickly or DWTS could start a bit later in the fall to extend the bipRun.
She’s getting special treatment ONLY because Kristian is a girl. Had she been in the same situation with a man.... she probably 1) wouldn’t have spoken about it on TV because she wants to stay on the show and 2) if she did talk about it on paradise, she would be hated and no guys would pursue her :)
Chris starting out like "all i care about is what is best for you", but actually saying "all I care about is what is best for my ratings"
Good one Jessica
Nailed it🤣
So true
Or what’s best for Hannah’s friends!
I agree!! This was totally staged!! Demi told this girl she wanted her to come. Not buying it.
Kristian is so gentle. Her voice is so soothing sigh
Why would demi go on the bachelor in paradise if she had a gf already before she begin the show
If you are in a relationship try to work on it and don't come to the show.
I agree. They should be single
Yes, they can't be using people to figure out their own self. Go figure that out at home, your problem isn't the shows problem. This wasn't fair whatsoever to Derek!
Why is it ok for Demi to have someone back home but not others. And then they make an acception for her by bringing her gf to paradise?!
Susan Jones Because both of Kristina and Derek know about each other. Demi relationship with her gf isn’t yet exclusive she’s still exploring and she made it clear and she was honest to both of them.
I agree. Why is the gf in paradise with Demi???? They should leave and pursue their relationship on their own.
Susan Jones bc viewership and money duh
Damn you are salty AF, are you telling me you'd turn down a paid vacation on the beach, also she was extremely open and communicative with all parties involved
I’m so confused right now. Why are they letting her gf stay? Wouldn’t it be better if they just left paradise together? 🤷🏻♀️
Now Demi should take Kristian and leave the show..
I agree..its like the network is promoting it and pushing it in Dereck's face. What about Derecks happiness?
Chris was so worried about Demi only and her happiness...REALLY? He went out of his way and brought in Hanna then Demis love interest Christian to stay on the show , to boot!
yes she should leave they both should not be allowed to stay Kristian is not part of Bachelor nation
She doesn’t even go here!
I don’t care Demi and Kristina at all. Get off the show!
i sadly do agree w this it was so unfair to derek for them to basically be flaunting their relationship in his face especially he clearly made it obvious how he felt
I’m just so upset because nobody else gets rewarded for being in a relationship prior to the show and it’s so irritating that demi gets praised for it.
@Canal da Isadora Dias so true
@Canal da Isadora Dias Ikr she should have stayed off the damn show and allow people who wanted to find love to find it. And Hannah B her friend dumped Jed for that same reason they so ughh
It’s not like she was hiding that she was seeing someone else. She told Derek up front and obviously Kristian was ok with her coming to Paradise and seeing other people so I think it’s different
Nathalia Castillo Kristian probably wasn’t okay with her coming...Demi’s under contract like every other person on the bachelor/bachelorette and doesn’t really have a choice. They’re all actors anyway and will do and say what the producers tell them to maximize ratings
Nathalia Castillo if you had a boyfriend, would you let him go to a show where he could potentially find another soulmate? If so? Would you be okay with watching him kiss and cuddle other girls on national television ? Would you be okay with him double crossing the girls he was hooking up with? I’m curious. Would you be fine with that?
I’m glad her gf came but I think it’s unfair they should just leave together the others didn’t get that
My sentiment exactly. All for lesbian etc, etc. But they are not available to anybody else, and the show is basically "finding love" at the expense of others; they should just go on their own lesbian in paradise shows. Demi was confused before, so that's a reason to stay, but now she's not confused anymore; staying is just not pleasant for others.
@TheMac 727, I agree with you. The Producers want the ratings, but they need to leave. The show has nothing to do with what the two of them started "before" Paradise. So they need to go and focus on their relationship and allow Derek some space.
@@darlene4612, everyone was hating Blake, but Demi gets a pass?? The "Double Standards" are sooooo apparent. I am wondering if the producers are planning some type of "spin off," featuring "Demi and her girlfriend?" Either way, we know the producers want the ratings. SMH.
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I really don't think there is anything wrong with being bisexual,but if she was straight and thinking about her ex boyfriend they would NEVER bring him here,so I guess it is not like Jed because he lied and Demi didn't but it is still very much double standards.
She should have left paradise island to pursue her relationship..not stay on with gf from home. So unhappy with bachelor in paradise. This is ridiculous! 😖
I don’t think so. Demi is very upfront and honest about still being the process of exploring. She’s respectful of both parties involve and the people she is dating both know it’s not an exclusive thing yet.
Demi didn't lie to the producers who set this up cause they knew her situation way before the show was filmed but she did lie to Derek.
Jennifer K literally nothing is okay about this, Demi is really shady for this and if you don’t think so, there is something seriously wrong with you, I really feel bad for Derek because he turned down becca for her and he even knew she had a gf but the fact that she brought her here and went on dates in front of him is RIDICULOUS. It’s honestly morbid how people think this is cute or okay. I really don’t get people’s way of thinking.
@@chrispycream7748 If Demi really liked her gf she wouldn't have gone on the show. I think she's in love with bachelor in paradise. The idea of not working, but if she wants to pursue her relationship with the girl it should be outside the show where they met. It's like nothing is about right or wrong anymore it's just about feelings.
It’s as simple as this. Demi and Kristian were casual before Demi came to paradise. They weren’t exclusively in a relationship. She came to paradise to figure out what she wanted. She was really interested in Derek. But at the end of the day being with Derek helped her realize where her heart truly lied. I’m so happy for her. She deserves happiness, and it’s clear her heart belongs to Kristian. I do feel bad for Derek. He’s a good guy and he had genuine feelings for her. I respect Derek even more for how supportive he’s been of Demi. He just wants her to be happy. I respect the fact that he took it upon himself to speak with Kristian. Even though he’s hurt, he supports Demi. That just shows what a great guy he is.
It's also as simple as this, Demi's heart belongs to Kristian and they need to leave Paradise.
Derek is stellar , Demi deserves happiness, however...she went on BIP knowing she loved someone else back home, I'm not sure I feel ok about that. With that being said, I love Demi. Derek for Bachelor!!! What a gem~
Bonnie Valverde stop saying “ with that being said”! That phrase has been played out to death!
@@Ali-vj6we They're words. It's a part of language. Why do you say "played out to death"? I've heard that alot. Ya damn idiot.
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What makes her any different than Jed? She had a whole relationship back home and still came on this show? Obviously for publicity purposes. It sucks that she had to toy with Derek’s emotions. Just go back home with your girlfriend. She literally said, “it’s always been you and I want to be with you.” So leave!
Sadia M. Took the words right out of my mouth👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽😩
I agree leave get stepping Demi.
It's different because Hollywood gets to push their LGBTQIAA narrative.
Well... She's not on here to promote music, she was here to try and get a connection 🤔
Lisa Ogonji or get the Fab Fit Fun box deal and the fit me tea check
I get mom vibes from Kristian ... as strong as Demi is, she also wants someone to take care of her, this woman tapped into that and that is how she got Demi
There love is so beautiful, they need each other. Kristian is magnetic, her quiet intensity is so unique. I find her captivating and I'm straight
If Demi was dating a guy, Derek would not have been cool with it, and this would have never happened! Double standard! Demi should go home!
Nobody takes lesbian couples serious.
Agreed, double standards for women only! She went on this show despite having baggage just to come out of the closet on national tv just to humiliate an innocent dude, "Oh, I'm so confused" - F-that! Shame on ABC for using LGBT's for the sole purpose of ratings. This shows sucks "bachelorettes in paradise"!
Derek wasn’t cool with it lol he was heart broken and just wanted what was best for her. I say that’s being a genuinely great guy.
Phil Chill I mean guys have done a lot worse on this show and they know they are being filmed. But you know even if it was an act at least you know he knows the difference between right and wrong and can control himself unlike some of the other men on this show.
misskaylee bugs as a rule, I distrust and would avoid the guys in the Bachelor franchise, but there’s a big exception for Derek. He can come on over and visit North Carolina anytime.😉
I love seeing all the love just explode on screen. It’s very evident she figured out at that moment what she really wanted. Other people may not agree the methods used to figure her self out but in the end she got clarity. ❤️
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Homegirl: “don’t look at me so angry, I’m sorry I’m sorry.”
Sis how is she suppose to feel? You guys were in a relationship and then you decided to go on BIP she’s gonna be mad 😂😂
Demi should go home now. She has what she wants so give others a chance!!!!!!!!
Lujuana Hastings maybe she doesn’t have the clarity she’s making it seem 🤷♀️
Word is, Chris Harrison has blue and green hair in the next episode.
Maybe she is told to stay so Derek can see.I'm sure she would have wanted to go
She’s milking the free vacation. Like...do neither of them work??
@TheMac 727 yes obviously because she is entertaining.People do not get that
Kristian seems nice and genuine. love it
Wow. Just parade it in front of Derek now and pour salt on the wound. She made it clear they are exclusive. Then leave the show.
Yes she have gf why is she on the show I don't understand
Yup a double standard indeed.. Demi goes under cover to expose any guys coming onto Hanna's season that had a relationship on the side then she does exactly that herself.
Absolutely Paula. Not only that but when a guy has something cooking back home they roast him unmercifully. She knew it and still came here to get something started with Derek and then cut him off at the balls. And oh yeah that one with Clay(I forget her name) is a phony too. She was with that Christian(I think that was his name) then when he gets thrown off the show she goes back to Clay and tells him "It was you all along" yeah right. Loved Demi's cliche "It's not you it's me..Your a great guy" Everytime I watch one of these shows I know I'm gonna end up hating somebody. But it's kinda fun.
@@Mryrhodesian She is phony, all laid up in the bed with Christian, all over him with dumbass Clay watching. Clay has zero self respect. She would have banged Christian the first chance she got.
Demi-bag, or d-bag, for short.
Paradise is about seeing multiple people to find the one. She was open with Derek and Kristian from the beginning, they both knew and were okay with her other relationships. It’s COMPLETELY different. If Jedd told Hannah about his girlfriend from the beginning she would have sent him home right away, he robbed her. He lied to both of them.
The should have brought Jeds gf to the show too. Maybe he could get some clarity on the bachelorette lol
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Poor derek 😭, i feel his pain, but i’m happy for demi!!!
M.J. Musta I know 😭💔
I feel awful for Derek but Demi deserves happiness
Shannon Moran Why does she deserve happiness...she planned this for clout
So she didn’t need to come on the show.....
Elisa Cason She’s under contract and a fan favorite so they made her come on the show and this was her way out
laynebrock it’s ridiculous how blatantly obvious they are trying to keep their ratings up. Just laughable. Let it be anyone else. Or a man for that matter. Lol
@@laynebrock fan fav? Oh right, she played the villian in Colton season.
Really? This is wrong she should have stayed home. If one of the guys came out saying he had a girlfriend at home everyone would rip his head off but since it's a lesbian it's ok. Whatever happened to equal rights? She should be treated like any other person. Double standards much? She should have been asked to leave right away.
@@rylea7507 I think you guys got off topic with LGBT and equal rights.
The point is that, it's very hypocritical that when its found out that some guys may have relationships back home while in BIP, it's always deemed as scumming, negative and completely unacceptable. But, when a girl has a relationship back home (regardless of they're sexual orientation), everyone just turns a blind eye.
I’m so confused on why Demi is on the show. 🤷♂️ She deserves to be happy but I just don’t get why she is on the show
She is on the show for publicity ....maybe a clothing line etc,...... but it was all preplanned..pure Derek or was he in on it?
Its all pre planned and they are doing it for ratings. They all know we dont like how she treated derek but at the end of the day they care about making money
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Matt Parliament Fame horror. That’s why
This isn't fair at all to Derek. They were being dishonest with him. The rule is you make a relationship on the show, not bring people from the outside and put them in the show. Leave the show like it doesn't make sense!
Derek should be the bachelor he would be a fantastic one I just know it
@@romeodwest1532 I dont really know much about her or even that she was a lesbian until this show. Her business but I dont really understand it . Yes of course message me if you'd like always looking to make a friend:)
I don’t understand why he can’t just be the Bachelor already oh my goodness.
He reminds me of donkey from shrek and I can’t unsee it.
@@hollymcgrath1337 hii
Okay but like Demi you went on the show to figure yourself out and I let is slide even though you had someone back home. But youve made a choice now go home and pursue your relationship off the show.
I absolutely love this. I think Demi and Kristina are really cute together and you can see how much they care for each other. Love is love. However, once Demi exclusively chose to be with Kristina, there was no point of keeping her on the show. Maybe if Demi had chose to date both while in paradise and eventually come to a decision then cool. But considering Kristina has nothing to do with Bachelor Nation, once Demi chose to be with her they should have just left happily together. I feel bad for Derek having to see their relationship.
Agree love these baby's they Rock lgbt community we need more of this
Love is love and true love and chemistry wow they are for each other
I don't get why Demi even came on this show when she clearly has strong feelings for someone else back home. The only thing I can think of is that she is just thirsty for fame.
To get more popular. Ugh
And was likely given a bonus by the ratings-hungry exploitative producers.
I think Demi and Kristian had this planned. "Oh, I am sooo surprised to see you here!" Yeah, right. 🤔
Its a tv show lol they gotta hype it up for the drama and ratings🙃
They probably planed for Demi to sleep with Derek, so they can have a baby.
@@berly9397 lol
This my first time ever watching BIP. I was shocked to hear people get engaged. I watch B, but I soon realized most of it is staged it just became comic relief
@@leesha4u Why are you surprised? They want a free diamond ring :)
Derek deserves better
True....
@Gal Horowitz hii
Demi is a hypocrite you got a whole partner go be with her all this show stuff is ridiculous and everyday calling Blake a bad person but leading Derek on girl stop.
She said nasty things about Blake. Yet she herself is far from perfect, and has hurt people. Agree. She's a hypocrite.
This is what I have been saying all along. Demi was one of the main people talking badly about Blake. He had two consenting hook ups, while she had a "relationship" with someone, but came on the show for a free vacation and screw around with someone's emotions; Derek. The "Double Standards" are pathetic.
the show has given too much airtime on this Demi person. be done with her quickly.
No tbeyre keeing them on for the engagement
Demi and Kristian are totally adorable together! Hope the best for them. And Derek is a great guy who will surely find his person too. Great reality episode!
Send Demi and her friend home! Does anyone else notice the double standards?! It’s not ok!!! How dare Demi play with Derek’s heart! I can’t believe that they wasted over 30 minutes of air time on their story! I was very disappointed...Now, it’s time to send these two home!!!
Oh great. Now from now on, let's invite every person who the contestants were having relationships with before coming to any of Bachelor/Bachelorrette season. What a joke.
Honey Lindsay hey it’s a show what do ya expect! I kind of liked it just because she seemed so happy and this is something that never would have been accepted ten years back on the bachelor. It’s nice that she can be who she is. BUT I do see your point she could have left to go see kristian instead
@@katiemarie1021 there are other ways to do this & to celebrate/embrace/accept same gender relationship on this franchise without hurting anyone. By doing this, it's gonna be at the expense of somebody else. In this case, it's Derek. It's not Demi's fault. It's the producers' fault who are cashing in on something like this at the expense of somebody's feeling not to mention the whole purpose of the show.
Honey Lindsay hey I didn’t disagree that she shouldn’t be doing this here I just think that in all honesty she IS handling it better then any woman has really handled a situation like this, usually the woman are all confused and can’t make up their mind so they string people along for sooo long
That's not the point....the point is that you are single......Demi not single. I like the girl but she is going down hard for this and maybe her future payday bs is gone,. I know I won't buy her bs
As soon as a buyer, then 2 then 3 then 4 don't like her style ...it's all over
this girl isn’t in the bachelor franchise, are they allowed to bring random people on here now? Lol
They did it a few times before
corgising they brought Ashely I’s sister
Right. ...is that Demi the bachelorette in her paradise ??
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@@peachy.chrissy hii how are you Where r u from
I feel bad for Derek but Im happy for Demi and Kristian
Aww. They are the most sincere couple there now lmao
Half of the comments, if not all of the comments are “she needs to leave now” but why can’t anyone just be happy for them?💛
Poor Derek 😭 Derek for the bachelor pls!
After getting completely humiliated on National television by a lying Demi, he'd be an absolute fool, correction, a complete idiot, to even think about returning!
But men aren't allowed to have girlfriend before show
Yes total bs as it';s hypocritical.
Yeah... Diversity... LGBT..... Yay...
Chris will give Demi what ever she wants he loves Demi😡 it’s not fair they get to stay in BIPD 😡 how’s the Rose ceremony going to work is that why he’s gonna change things next week? Because of Demi😡😡😡 it’s the same as Jed double standards so wrong😡😡😡
at the rose ceremonies they'll probably have a rose set aside for demi and kristian if they decide to stay in paradise no matter who has the power
Total double standard, this is such bs, she is as bad as Jed for coming on the show
That CH for you....and the producers...screw Dereks feelings...and double standards.
And now they’re engaged 💗❤️💗❤️
So can she go home......? She made it clear that she was conflicted prior to this “surprise” visit about her feelings for Derek. 🙂🙂🙂
I have known them thru Demi Lovato's ig story but I don't understand this now when I'm actually watching the vid like so they were in relationship still Demi came to the show or they were on break cuz the shoe bachelor is abt what I think as of now is finding your significant other so what does that mean??? Sorry for the rant guys
What I'm disappointed about is that Demi and her GF stays on BIP. They should leave. My heart breaks for Derek.
Just awful!! So disappointed in this season!!
Free vacation. I don’t blame them for staying but geez....do neither of them have a job?
@@Instrument_of_Peace hii how are you Where r u from
Idk why but this made me so emotional. She seems extremely happy with kristian and that’s what I think she needs to do :) happy for her
Ummmm. So anyone can just come over now? 🙄
I guess🤣😂i never seen this
Derek should be the next bachelor...he deserves to find someone who can make him truly happy. He's a great catch, handsome and so many women would want him to be their man.
So great!, love it
Soooooo it's ok for Demi to have someone at home but others can't? Is it because she is a woman? Hmmmm.........
Awesome reunion.💗💗💗
Thanks ABC
Still digging this scene! Long live Queen Demi.
Chris Harrison will do anything for Demi
I love Demi and her and girlfriend are so cute💕but I feel so horrible for Derek he was really feeling Demi awww 🥺💔
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Ok, the fact that Demi had a girlfriend before going on the show is no different that Blake pursuing Hannah G. It’s time to send Demi home. Some people may think that the ratings will go up because of the inclusion of bisexuals on the show, but I would have to disagree, I think the ratings will go down. Anyway, I feel it’s hypocritical for the producers to keep Demi on the show knowing that she already had a relationship before coming on the show. It is never right to play with a person’s heart, I feel sad for Derek. Again, send Demi and her friend home!!!
I don’t need to say anything else because +1 to every single word you said!🥳
Demi said “don’t look at me so angry, I’m sorry, I’m sorry “ 😭😭😭😭
Hoi how are you Where r u from
All they care about is rating, not people’s real feelings.
I haven't watched one second of this show before this clip yet I'm such a baby that I'm 5 minutes in I'm crying. Sigh.
Phil Chill chill, Phil
I love Demi and she deserves all the happiness in the world she’s such an amazing person and I hated seeing her so confused but I’m glad she made her decision. With that being said I do not think she should’ve been allowed to stay on the show with her girlfriend. She found her love and it wasn’t with someone on the show so she should’ve went home with her girlfriend.
Me too
@@fastsportgirl2002 hi baby how are you fine I miss you very long
I hope they won’t focus to much on them, I’m more interested with new... couples.
Wow what an amazing moment!
They are both so pretty. Love their eyes😍
Wow what passion, those 2 girls are really in love with each other.
Wasnt Demi a date whistleblower on Hanna season? And they went home .
If youre literally referring to whistle blowing, that was oneyeka lol
@@ashleyluna4290 hi dear how are you fine
Sooo now BIP has become bring your bf/gf that you’re currently in a relationship with, have a free vacation there and get engaged for the show?. What’s the point of keeping them there when this show is for the single ppl FINDING love there
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I wish I could be like them
Demi and Kristian are a beautiful couple though ☺️
Takes "bait and switch" to another level! (well, on more than one level actually)
Am just dumbfounded 🙄🙄🙄🙄. Poor Derek I just feel for him😢😢😢.
how dumb. he only likes her for her looks.
I love Demi. Couldn't imagine how difficult that was for her. Kristian is beautiful. ❤
@@phil6bien ????
@@phil6bien here we go again. Another UA-camr trying to be funny! I think you are referring to the village idiot. Which is you. Remember? Not me. Get it right next time.
@@phil6bien Nope, Notta, try again. Sorry. Not sorry.
I love kristain i think she's very kind person ❤
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Love this!
Demi was genuinely trying to understand her journey in coming out. It's not an easy process to accept something so deep and meaningful about yourself. She accepted to go on BIP to get some clarity b/c she owed it to herself. I went through a similar experience where I was extremely scared to come out to the world b/c I was scared of how my family & friends would take it. So I broke up with my gf who I deeply loved b/c I need clarity and needed to be 100% sure. Eventually I came out but I lost the girl of my dreams b/c it was too late when I was finally ready. So I'm happy Demi gets an opportunity at love and she's following her heart ❤
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@@darlene4612 Calm down. They were together for 2 weeks, they weren't getting married. Yes his feelings were hurt but it was also hard for Demi, Derek is moving on now. That's life. That's love.
i dont know why im crying so hard . this so beautiful after watching the both them in this state now i understand why people are guy . much luv to you both
All you guys who keep saying why is demi allowed Christian to come to show well it's because she is bi the show was trying to help her out as to whether she wants to be with a guy or girl.
I'm so happy for you Demi good luck you deserve the best
Why? She called out Jed for having someone else before coming on the show and yet she does the exact same thing on this show
I just want Demi to stay as her and don't change u have so much energy and we all want the best😇😍
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That's true I've never got that before but I'm sure maybe a person will only choose me one day that's good that at least she expressed her self
I actually really like Kristian! She has a lot of charisma and seems like a genuine person!
Absolutely no reason for her GF to be on this show. None.
This whole drama is intentional.
Derek knew all along and went along with the plan to make the show's drama work. No man is that naive. Everybody is looking for self promotion and recognition. Appalling.
It’s sad how Demi’s “GF” is supportive of her going on a show to explore her “options”. Isn’t an option something you already had, not what you want? To me it’s all for TV, however I lost respect for the show. Making new connections is clearly an act of which you have nothing satisfying already, the GF is just as guilty allowing it and not realizing she isn’t enough for Demi to want to stay with her fully. If you love someone you don’t care what others think as long as your SO isn’t toxic. The whole being “understanding” is false and covering a cover up for being a push over. She needs to go home for being ok with being a manipulative liar and a clout chasing heart breaker.
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piepandas I see what your saying, but I also understand her gf being supportive, for me if you truly love someone you let them figure out what they want. I’d do that if my SO truly need it. Cause I’d want them to be happy.
Thea Jacobsen In today’s age we confuse allowing infidelity as being understanding or a form of love. Everyone wants to be understanding, however, there’s a line and that is seeking another partner. If I had a SO, however they weren’t satisfied or happy with me and told me they wanted to see other people, I’d let them go even if I was still in love. But Demi’s GF was ok with being an item while she left to screw around, Demi even tells her GF not to look angry at her for cheating, and Demi’s GF apologizes! what happened to allowing people to be upset with others BS (yet handled well), if you allow your SO to do as they please (cheating) you downplay your relationship and they won’t be held accountable for their actions. I’m happy she found love, but it’s a terrible and toxic example of it. Tv drama isn’t worth watching if it’s poisonous to young couples.
So...Demi just couldn't stay at home with the person she loved? Guess she had to pull a jed
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People are mad that she is still there but I think she will leave because of how much she loves her gf.
Derek is a good looking guy he deserves better then Demi anyway
Demi please!! Leave!!
I’m so happy that Demi has found the person that she loves but at the same time I feel bad for Derek so I don’t know how’s that’s gonna go.
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I can understand why some people don't like this situation. But. Demi has actually been honest right from the very start about her seeing someone on the outside. She told Hannah aswell so it wasn't a secret. Jedd kept the fact he was seeing someone right till the very end. I do agree Demi and Kristian should leave though. As the show is about finding love. And she's clearly already found it
this scene was the show bip2019. Thanks! hope they stay together.
Let’s toy with Derek’s emotions instead of Demi and Kristian pursuing their relationship at home!
Surprised at this show...wont be watching anymore. Sad.
@Lazy Boyz Commentary Not about her sexuality, it's about different rules for different people.
Don't Be Scared How Others Feel About How You Are In Love With Your Girlfriend.She Loves You Very Dearly
if they already together let them go home !!! the show is abt finding love if they already found it .....leave
@@Thirteenbunion hii
nooooo that is not the best way to handel it , if demi chose kristian they should've both left paradise already and start dating !! why are they staying ??!
i really do like demi & she deserves to be happy but this is SO unfair. derek deserves to be happy too. they should just go home. there’s no reason for them to be here now. kristian isn’t part of the bachelor franchise. people get mad when anyone else comes onto the show w a significant other, but not this time. it makes me so mad. double standards. smh. as much as i like demi... no. just no. lmao.
Bachelor nation you have lost a bunch of followers.She is not part of the franchise and she’s staying there! What the heck are you guys doing! You’d sell your own children for a buck wouldn’t you! I’m all for freedom to love who you love. But this person is not part of the show! And watching two women exchanging body fluids before 11pm.Children are still up!not everyone is about that life.The show became popular with men and women trying to find love.Shove this down everyone’s throat and the show will go off the air sooner than you want it too!
"All I care about is what's best for you, and what's best for everyone else here.....except for Derek. We're gonna break his heart and rub salt in his wounds by keeping you and your girlfriend around."
I agree that an outsider shouldn' t have been brought in the show and that in future seasons they should stick to the Bachelor(ette) Alumnis, but the show needed this relanshionship to boost it' s ratings. How are they gonna top this on bip2020(D&Kwedding?)? They need this show to go a few weeks more during the summer. It ends too quickly or DWTS could start a bit later in the fall to extend the bipRun.
Demi is such a trend setter. Makes having a girlfriend is the way to love.
She’s getting special treatment ONLY because Kristian is a girl. Had she been in the same situation with a man.... she probably 1) wouldn’t have spoken about it on TV because she wants to stay on the show and 2) if she did talk about it on paradise, she would be hated and no guys would pursue her :)
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