I like how Sbu lets you talk and complete your sentences. People ouchea cutting each other off in podcasts making it hard to listen. 20 min in to the podcast I already have questions about my history
I appreciate how Panuel has adjusted well in this platform. First couple of episodes mans seemed uncomfortable. You've gained your momentum and I'm here for it.
@@siyabongasibanyoni6595 eish Bra our Sister are losing it here,Dubai is one of the Best City on the Plannet,our Sister are after Money they do what ever they want just because of Money.
I appreciate your content bhudas so wish most of our African people can listen to hear with sharp mind not only want to object to what you say. Big up to you Uqamata anisikelele nikwazi uzikhulisi enqondweni kuba nyani kule mihla asisenazinkonde zisifundisa ezinto kuba nazo zaguqukela entsona kakhulu.
Marriage with a person of shared values is a great thing, I myself have never been never been married but the "don't marry young" is a lie because Ive seen people who married people of shared values from families of shared values and it really calls for a beautiful life
This episode is one of the most educational episodes. Didn't spend too much time complimenting each other but just straight to real talk. Much appreciated Kings
Big up to Wandile for taking this opportunity to hang around productive people like DJ SBU and others...I hope he learn a lot ...am watching this from Verulam Durban
Great episode as usual gents. Been following the V.M show, looking forward to you guys having Mr Mbeki. I liked what you guys did this time, adding a lil bit of your personal life experiences (e.g Pen talking about his kids), some of us relate to such situations.
This is really proper gents👌🏼. As someone who only watches Russel Brand for real internationalnews, this channel is now my preferred source for local news. U guys should just do this daily Zoid 🤞🏼🤞🏼
Glad to have become a new sub during Mkhulu Nsingiza's interview. I like the way this podcast is taking shape of its own and that our melanated people are "spiritually waking up" because we are in the Age of Aquarius(Ma'at in Kemetic principles - Age of knowing that your power resides within and not out there and no more Believing in miracles, You are the miracle). Guys we do not need to re- invent the wheel our ancestors did the ground work, we only need to make it relevant for our situation and our time qha nje. The problem is that we got sidetracked and hoodwinked and it is TIME that we get back on track, instead of just "talking" about working together - Unity) let us start pulling & putting all these ideas into implementation (Action, action, more action). Siyabonga kakhulu for umsebenzi eniwenzayo Brothers wokukhumbuza isizwe esiNsundu ukuthi we are walking Kings and Queens, God's and Goddesses here on the Earth let us reclaim our power and that we can be, do and have so much more!
VM always great to be here Dj sbu and God Penuel we are wining..thanks to Netflix aswell for giving us some clarity on our beloved Senzo Meyiwa,we are hoping that justice system of South africa will bring us justice on this painful loss of a great man
I'm back again, I think I have found my own fountain of wealth in knowledge, now it's official Love you guys and the work you do, the reopening of minds and helping a black child find themselves. Keep it going we see and we love what you doing!
Wow what a great conversation SBU and Penuel. This episode has so much great information and advice for people of all ages and life’s circumstances. Excellent! Stuff. Peace and respect to you both from Canada 👊👊
I am glad that I am a South African who understands and speaks 8 official languages and I follow conversations with ease. I may not agree with all the content shared in your podcast but I follow it because I can tolerate different opinions. I would advice you balance your interviews by also inviting different people from different schools of thoughts and different political ideologies to avoid perceived biasness. Last advice to you guys is to add subtitles for those who don't understand local languages so that they don't feel lost when you switch to vernacular because this platform grows and followed by many around the globe.
Great session today guys. Another thing I would like to add on this lobola thing is that looking at the economy of mzansi, unemployment rate keeps increasing, how will the man pay these prices when we don't even have descent incomes. Some of us are still staying with our parents or families and we about to reach age 30. How will those type of man be able to pay for lobola when they can't even pay inhlawulo for their kids
@DJSbu thanks for your words of wisdom. Age has thought you well. Both Sbu's and Penuel's experiences add a wealth of value to the show. I am in the US and can't wait to visit South Africa to see the show live.
I was at my lowest spiritually, my other colleague DJ friend had just died the very same person that inspired e to become a Dj. I was popularly known Dj in my township everybody knew my name but i didn't know who i was deeply, i was really questioning my existence. You know, and growing up being told about God but me personally i never seen or felt God. So that day i had made a commitment with myself that today if God is really there today it's me and him. Suicide was not my option cause deep down i felt that there's something very huge i still need to archive and it's not money or nice cars or anything material. So i locked myself in my room started praying and asked God to show him/It's self to me. Amazingly God truly did reply. As i was praying a voice spoke to me and said "You're my Son" i heard the voice as if someone was right next to me. And mind you i started crying as I'm praying. After hearng the voice that's when i came myseld down and i truly believed that God did speak to me. Why did i believe it was God, who spoke to me because the next morning i woke up and i felt PEACE in my heart and soul. All the worries was totally gone like totally wiped out. I felt PEACE that the world couldn't give me or nothing in the world could gimme that peace. I felt brand new again. Like i was a total new person. My spirit came back to life, fear completely left me and i felt one with everything with the universe . I felt so much power. My heart was Circumcised. All of a sudden death didn't hold power anymore. I really wanted to know exactly happened to me. Cause i was very sure that I'm no longer the same. That's when i started doing my research about our history who we are as Human beings in this planet earth and beyond the galaxies and cosmics . After this awaken i started studying like never before about the mind and our history also as black people. I'm greatful for channels like this, for Dj Sbu for bringing God Penuel on board. Cause I'm still learning and enjoying the process since I'm now on the other side of the world. That's what transpired during my awakening. 🕊
I love you views gents but this time I did not agree with Penuel view on marraige and having more kids. Kids need their father figure on a daily basis as a single mother I wish I could have done things differently where I had proper family system to raise kids. But great show guys
When Umkhulu comes back or anyone that knows better about Amasiko. Please speak about amasiko. It is very difficult for some of young people have to do imisebenzi that keep us from investing our monies to our futures. What do they make of that
Besides the editing mistakes on this episode, loved it.(But please fix it) I appreciate how Pen "paces himself" on this show knowing how hard he goes on his own channel .But that's that great thing about substance, whether you talk more or less the conversation is always valuable.
My husband married me when my son was 3 years, helped me raise him(spiritually, emotionally and financially) ..he is now 19 years and I am so thankful and grateful for the love and principles he is imparting in his life.
Great work guys we learning a lot from you. Please bring GP Ma-orange, Vusi Thembekwayo or umama Khawla from EFF on the next episode. Thanks in advance.
i think virtual mkhuhu is a collective movement we need problem solver to be the backbone of the collective ffort for example lets create our own hashtags challenge and community building programmes on the ground and we all must contribute the small cash to build a black economy that promotes african interests and is of world class standard
Appreciate your podcast and can we take it to another level - I suggest that going forward can we have SHOW and TELL ( guest must share the screen based on their researched evidence). I notice a lot make a lot of sense but it is not backed up by any evidence (it's like dollar created out of thin air)
Great conversation Brothers. I think the conversation on marriage, culture and ilobolo is so crucial. And I think you Brothers have done well in really digging deep, but what I am noting is the absence of these very Elders who are demanding we pay ilobolo for their daughters. And I think this thing isazosishaya bafethu, please bring the Elders to address these issues specifically in depth. Often when Elders come on to platforms to discuss history and culture they will tell us about Afrika's historical greatness, Khemet, etc. Personally I am less interested in that. Let's have the difficult conversations on how building families works in 2023 and beyond. We can't keep expressing our confusion and frustration as the youth and the Elders are not responding to these issues. It's as though now we are left to figure out these things ourselves, and it's not working guys. Our Elders need to address us on these issues. I am myself dealing with issues around my child born out of wedlock and it's more complicated because the woman is from a different culture. How do we navigate such issues. If the Elders who insist on the proper Afrikan way of doing things are saying nothing on the practical issues of daily life then as far as I'm concerned the history they keep sharing with us falls flat because we are living in the here and now. It will be difficult to find relevance on these histories they keep sharing with us. Khemet is fine but what does that mean in terms of a man starting a life with a woman in 2023? We need Truth. We need those deeper conversations. Please.
Nice episode indeed.... can the production team advise on the table cloth. White is killing the camera view. Maybe switch to a more darker colour like black, or navy blue.
Moja good people.. Very informative indeed salute , we kindly please need a Africa Month special in May Dj SBU birthday special interview hosted by God Penuel in honor of the life of our living legend Dj SBU curated show. What do you think community ??
Penuel my brother you make me feel very uncomfortable with your views and your way of life, but in my state of discomfort I contemplate the things you say, I grow from them no matter how weird or unheard of they may be. Usuke ungadlali when you say you are different but I appreciate your uniqueness, I appreciate your courage in making choices for your life that you feel are best for you regardless of how different from society it may be. You're weird my brother, very weird. Please don't stop being weird.!
I agree kutsi most of our people don't know much about Lobola anymore or use it to suit their own greed. In my culture Lobola is paid to a wife not fiance/girlfriend. Lobola back in the day was to strengthen family relations because the Lobola is paid to the wife's family but half/part of it is converted into gifts which are sent to the groom's family & this is called Kuhlambisa where the bride's gifts (from the Lobola cows/money nowadays) are usually homemaking gifts like plates, traditional mats, blankets, etc. Lobola was standard but it can be negotiated & you don't really need to pay all of it but if you choose to pay it in installments it's encouraged as it gives the bride's family a reason to check up on the groom's family thus everyone is involved in creating a relationship with both family parties. Inhlawulo (Damages) for the mother includes the Inhlawulo for the child/children thus you can call them by their rightful surname & when she gets married later her Lobola will be reduced. This is just a general explanation since going deep includes other customs which I only know in my mother tongue.
I feel lobola works if the family is wealthy in business and is from a royal family. Coz we know that Rich wealthy family want to expand in wealth so when poor black people demand lobola and my question is is the woman or man safe in the relationship, coz we know about gender based volience another thing is when divorce happens will the bride's family pay the money back?. I totally agree that in this economy where will you pay R50 ks for lobola on top of that a white wedding? You want to begin a relationship with debt? ... I don't believe in lobola ..it only makes sense in wealthy and royal families who want to marry and expand their wealth with other rich and influential family ...but for a common man the needs to be an alternative option..coz times are hard
Great conversation gentlemen but I have a problem with your views on marriage and children. I think the way you guys perceive marriage and two parent households is a little bit flawed. Marriage is primarily about kids (not love) and raising those kids to be well balanced adults holistically. A lot of societal issues such as school drop outs, mental issues, crime, gangsterism, etc. Are a result mostly of fathers who are not present in their children's lives because a father brings tough love and delayed gratification to children which is pivotal in a child's life, boys especially. For a child to have a fighting chance in this life they need both parents to raise that child in one household. So marriage comes in handy in that context. Marriage, a contract that forces individuals to keep their word of loving each other, be there for each other in this extremely difficult life and to remain together for the well being of children even when they do not feel like it at times. Because human beings are inherently evil and without such contracts they are bound to neglect their responsibilities, especially men as we witness it through the number of single mothers we have as a nation. As long as we have kids to raise, marriage will always be relevant until we find another system that will benefit our children and ensure that they become well balanced and responsible adults, until then marriage is important and the only solution. People undermine the economic consequences of sex hence they talk about marriage being irrelevant yet those same men continue having sex with our sisters and leave them to raise children by themselves. A father who's not present, even if they do provide financially, they are failing us as a nation. If you're not willing to get married and stay with your baby mama to raise that kid then DON'T HAVE KIDS, PERIOD! Again thanks for the great conversation guys imfundo ayikhulelwa, give thanks 🙌🏾🙏🏽
I don't think the best place to get answers on Christianity are from people who are not Christian just as a man I am not supposed to answer on women issues.If you really want answers go to the 'source'
I like how Sbu lets you talk and complete your sentences. People ouchea cutting each other off in podcasts making it hard to listen. 20 min in to the podcast I already have questions about my history
I appreciate how Panuel has adjusted well in this platform. First couple of episodes mans seemed uncomfortable. You've gained your momentum and I'm here for it.
Ubesasaba udj Sbu😂
Lol Starstruck😂
He has
@Dj Sbu, @Black pen please don’t stop giving us this timeless content. This content will out live both you guys and I.❤️
First time I heard Penuel talk, I knew he was at a different level consciously. Thank you so much for this great content gents 🙏
Classy Podcast ever,I'm a South African citizen who based in Dubai.i never missed the Mkhukhu Episode.Danko Noxman&Mr P🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Hello from DIFC.
Hows things there in Dubai, we heard that there is some potty what what happening there.
@@siyabongasibanyoni6595 eish Bra our Sister are losing it here,Dubai is one of the Best City on the Plannet,our Sister are after Money they do what ever they want just because of Money.
I appreciate your content bhudas so wish most of our African people can listen to hear with sharp mind not only want to object to what you say. Big up to you Uqamata anisikelele nikwazi uzikhulisi enqondweni kuba nyani kule mihla asisenazinkonde zisifundisa ezinto kuba nazo zaguqukela entsona kakhulu.
School of the Blacks❤❤❤❤❤❤❤tell them God Penuel I like you when you talk our language...they won't understand but I do
Marriage with a person of shared values is a great thing, I myself have never been never been married but the "don't marry young" is a lie because Ive seen people who married people of shared values from families of shared values and it really calls for a beautiful life
This episode is one of the most educational episodes. Didn't spend too much time complimenting each other but just straight to real talk. Much appreciated Kings
Lobola has blocked a lot of people from getting married
Then those individuals were never serious about getting married if they were stopped by a mere lobolo
Big up to Wandile for taking this opportunity to hang around productive people like DJ SBU and others...I hope he learn a lot ...am watching this from Verulam Durban
I am in Verulam as well. Mdeezy Tdk 👊
I am in Verulam as well. Mdeezy Tdk 👊
Great episode as usual gents.
Been following the V.M show, looking forward to you guys having Mr Mbeki.
I liked what you guys did this time, adding a lil bit of your personal life experiences (e.g Pen talking about his kids), some of us relate to such situations.
This is really proper gents👌🏼. As someone who only watches Russel Brand for real internationalnews, this channel is now my preferred source for local news. U guys should just do this daily Zoid 🤞🏼🤞🏼
Just watched this episode for the 4th time, the power, wisdom, inspiration, etc. in this content is beyond comprehension 🙌
one day i will serve along side Panuel Mlotshwa and/or like minded souls. shout out to both lama grootman. salute.
I am afraid you guys MIGHT not top this specific episode. This is golden
Glad to have become a new sub during Mkhulu Nsingiza's interview. I like the way this podcast is taking shape of its own and that our melanated people are "spiritually waking up" because we are in the Age of Aquarius(Ma'at in Kemetic principles - Age of knowing that your power resides within and not out there and no more Believing in miracles, You are the miracle). Guys we do not need to re- invent the wheel our ancestors did the ground work, we only need to make it relevant for our situation and our time qha nje.
The problem is that we got sidetracked and hoodwinked and it is TIME that we get back on track, instead of just "talking" about working together - Unity) let us start pulling & putting all these ideas into implementation (Action, action, more action).
Siyabonga kakhulu for umsebenzi eniwenzayo Brothers wokukhumbuza isizwe esiNsundu ukuthi we are walking Kings and Queens, God's and Goddesses here on the Earth let us reclaim our power and that we can be, do and have so much more!
VM always great to be here Dj sbu and God Penuel we are wining..thanks to Netflix aswell for giving us some clarity on our beloved Senzo Meyiwa,we are hoping that justice system of South africa will bring us justice on this painful loss of a great man
You were a bit late today but then again knowledge and wisdom knows no time
I'm back again, I think I have found my own fountain of wealth in knowledge, now it's official
Love you guys and the work you do, the reopening of minds and helping a black child find themselves.
Keep it going we see and we love what you doing!
Wow what a great conversation SBU and Penuel. This episode has so much great information and advice for people of all ages and life’s circumstances. Excellent! Stuff.
Peace and respect to you both from Canada 👊👊
Thank you Panuel. Sixukuza umqondo, somethings has to change kuze siye phambili
I am glad that I am a South African who understands and speaks 8 official languages and I follow conversations with ease. I may not agree with all the content shared in your podcast but I follow it because I can tolerate different opinions. I would advice you balance your interviews by also inviting different people from different schools of thoughts and different political ideologies to avoid perceived biasness.
Last advice to you guys is to add subtitles for those who don't understand local languages so that they don't feel lost when you switch to vernacular because this platform grows and followed by many around the globe.
You know how many languages?..lol you should join Mensa.
@@SlowBRN_ I do know 8 official languages
Great session today guys. Another thing I would like to add on this lobola thing is that looking at the economy of mzansi, unemployment rate keeps increasing, how will the man pay these prices when we don't even have descent incomes. Some of us are still staying with our parents or families and we about to reach age 30. How will those type of man be able to pay for lobola when they can't even pay inhlawulo for their kids
There is power in every word spoken here, I feel uplifted in the wisdom that has been shared here.
This virtual mkhukhu has been inspiring, wisdom & knowledge for me. Thanks guys for a great show.
Great show gents, much appreciated 🙏🏾
This podcast is very enlightening. I really can't stop listening.
Great insight indeed. Siyabonga
@DJSbu thanks for your words of wisdom. Age has thought you well. Both Sbu's and Penuel's experiences add a wealth of value to the show. I am in the US and can't wait to visit South Africa to see the show live.
Great show,can you invite once per month your fans,we wanna contribute in terms of debating and having an opinion ,if you agree,can i be the first one
I got awoken 27 Sep 2016 - 16:08 and ever since then I've never been the same. I realized, I AM. Thank you for affirming to my believes, great show.🙏
What transpired during your awakening?
I was at my lowest spiritually, my other colleague DJ friend had just died the very same person that inspired e to become a Dj. I was popularly known Dj in my township everybody knew my name but i didn't know who i was deeply, i was really questioning my existence. You know, and growing up being told about God but me personally i never seen or felt God. So that day i had made a commitment with myself that today if God is really there today it's me and him. Suicide was not my option cause deep down i felt that there's something very huge i still need to archive and it's not money or nice cars or anything material. So i locked myself in my room started praying and asked God to show him/It's self to me. Amazingly God truly did reply. As i was praying a voice spoke to me and said "You're my Son" i heard the voice as if someone was right next to me. And mind you i started crying as I'm praying. After hearng the voice that's when i came myseld down and i truly believed that God did speak to me.
Why did i believe it was God, who spoke to me because the next morning i woke up and i felt PEACE in my heart and soul. All the worries was totally gone like totally wiped out. I felt PEACE that the world couldn't give me or nothing in the world could gimme that peace. I felt brand new again. Like i was a total new person. My spirit came back to life, fear completely left me and i felt one with everything with the universe . I felt so much power. My heart was Circumcised. All of a sudden death didn't hold power anymore. I really wanted to know exactly happened to me. Cause i was very sure that I'm no longer the same.
That's when i started doing my research about our history who we are as Human beings in this planet earth and beyond the galaxies and cosmics .
After this awaken i started studying like never before about the mind and our history also as black people.
I'm greatful for channels like this, for Dj Sbu for bringing God Penuel on board. Cause I'm still learning and enjoying the process since I'm now on the other side of the world.
That's what transpired during my awakening. 🕊
You just gotta love Penuel Lungelo Mlotshwa, what a guy! Shoutout to new subscribers 🎉 The community is growing at an exponential rate
Just practicing open mindedness can get you so far consciously, just that.
Please bring us Vusi Thembekwayo
This was brilliant got hooked after Dr JJ
Salute magents @sbu and peneul Maphiri sebapu from Tembisa. Keep the knowledge and wisdom coming.
We are water based beings and water stores memory of everything you tell it ,hence only water we self reflect on not the mirrors .
Have I just watched 1.5h episode? Great topics bros.
Siyabonga MaGrootman!!! Conversation is healthy as always.
When Grootmans speak, the best thing you can do is listen
this channel its a source of knowledge keep up the good work
I love you views gents but this time I did not agree with Penuel view on marraige and having more kids. Kids need their father figure on a daily basis as a single mother I wish I could have done things differently where I had proper family system to raise kids. But great show guys
My sentiments exactly, please look at my comment as it compliments yours
Danko leadership 101 free education danko yizo
Thank you for extending your time on the podcast🤟🤟🤟🤟🤙🤟🤟💯💥
When Umkhulu comes back or anyone that knows better about Amasiko. Please speak about amasiko. It is very difficult for some of young people have to do imisebenzi that keep us from investing our monies to our futures. What do they make of that
Besides the editing mistakes on this episode, loved it.(But please fix it)
I appreciate how Pen "paces himself" on this show knowing how hard he goes on his own channel .But that's that great thing about substance, whether you talk more or less the conversation is always valuable.
Thank you Dj Sbu and God Penuel. We need to build a black suburb. A suburb black owned
My husband married me when my son was 3 years, helped me raise him(spiritually, emotionally and financially) ..he is now 19 years and I am so thankful and grateful for the love and principles he is imparting in his life.
Thank you guys for such a beautiful discourse. Afrika Sankofa
Virtual mkhukhu the best I'm growing 🤝
much respect to Mr Penuel
After this episode I am a Fan of the black pen
When talking abt dreams u touching me my broz,I am even starting to learn how to interpret them bcos I write them down...
Great work guys we learning a lot from you. Please bring GP Ma-orange, Vusi Thembekwayo or umama Khawla from EFF on the next episode. Thanks in advance.
This episode was so deep yohhh.
School of thoughts I love this podcast ❤
dope episode. God Pen was on fire .
hope one day you guys bring me thru to add my tens cents
Dope Episode gents
Keep up the good work
i think virtual mkhuhu is a collective movement we need problem solver to be the backbone of the collective ffort for example lets create our own hashtags challenge and community building programmes on the ground and we all must contribute the small cash to build a black economy that promotes african interests and is of world class standard
Bra Sbu le Penuel, dankie magents
I love this ❤️😭
Dankie boabuti great conversations
Appreciate your podcast and can we take it to another level - I suggest that going forward can we have SHOW and TELL ( guest must share the screen based on their researched evidence). I notice a lot make a lot of sense but it is not backed up by any evidence (it's like dollar created out of thin air)
Dj Sbu-Everything happens for a reason...
I dont believe change is a problem in a controlled environment... e.g. people of shared values don't destroy each other when they change
Always love the episodes
Iam glad this podcast grows each and everyday. When will u baba uMbuso Khoza get an interview?
Great conversation Brothers. I think the conversation on marriage, culture and ilobolo is so crucial. And I think you Brothers have done well in really digging deep, but what I am noting is the absence of these very Elders who are demanding we pay ilobolo for their daughters. And I think this thing isazosishaya bafethu, please bring the Elders to address these issues specifically in depth.
Often when Elders come on to platforms to discuss history and culture they will tell us about Afrika's historical greatness, Khemet, etc. Personally I am less interested in that. Let's have the difficult conversations on how building families works in 2023 and beyond. We can't keep expressing our confusion and frustration as the youth and the Elders are not responding to these issues. It's as though now we are left to figure out these things ourselves, and it's not working guys.
Our Elders need to address us on these issues. I am myself dealing with issues around my child born out of wedlock and it's more complicated because the woman is from a different culture. How do we navigate such issues. If the Elders who insist on the proper Afrikan way of doing things are saying nothing on the practical issues of daily life then as far as I'm concerned the history they keep sharing with us falls flat because we are living in the here and now. It will be difficult to find relevance on these histories they keep sharing with us. Khemet is fine but what does that mean in terms of a man starting a life with a woman in 2023? We need Truth. We need those deeper conversations. Please.
Sicela Joshua Mapoga
Nice episode indeed.... can the production team advise on the table cloth. White is killing the camera view. Maybe switch to a more darker colour like black, or navy blue.
Most insightful podcast.
Soo much value here 🔥🌌🌌
Moja good people.. Very informative indeed salute , we kindly please need a Africa Month special in May Dj SBU birthday special interview hosted by God Penuel in honor of the life of our living legend Dj SBU curated show. What do you think community ??
awesome episode gents, i want more
Thanks again once more ...
🙏 wow gents this is so interesting, keya leboha. stay shining.
Thank you very much guys for building us the keeping us informed andfeedings our souls . Salute guys🤙🏽🤙🏽
Penuel my brother you make me feel very uncomfortable with your views and your way of life, but in my state of discomfort I contemplate the things you say, I grow from them no matter how weird or unheard of they may be. Usuke ungadlali when you say you are different but I appreciate your uniqueness, I appreciate your courage in making choices for your life that you feel are best for you regardless of how different from society it may be. You're weird my brother, very weird. Please don't stop being weird.!
Blessings ❤❤❤
Okay let's go now, the Kings are back!!!
love love love this!
That Zulu speaking third person waPenuel is the best 🤣🤣🤣
@Dj Sbu and Pen when are you gents rocking cape town think its time for a tour now
V.M is inspiring me every week ,got my click click click done💚
You guys are amazing
I agree kutsi most of our people don't know much about Lobola anymore or use it to suit their own greed. In my culture Lobola is paid to a wife not fiance/girlfriend. Lobola back in the day was to strengthen family relations because the Lobola is paid to the wife's family but half/part of it is converted into gifts which are sent to the groom's family & this is called Kuhlambisa where the bride's gifts (from the Lobola cows/money nowadays) are usually homemaking gifts like plates, traditional mats, blankets, etc. Lobola was standard but it can be negotiated & you don't really need to pay all of it but if you choose to pay it in installments it's encouraged as it gives the bride's family a reason to check up on the groom's family thus everyone is involved in creating a relationship with both family parties.
Inhlawulo (Damages) for the mother includes the Inhlawulo for the child/children thus you can call them by their rightful surname & when she gets married later her Lobola will be reduced. This is just a general explanation since going deep includes other customs which I only know in my mother tongue.
Penuel Mlotshwa u smart
Very much so
On the issue of property, can you please discuss body corps.
I dont believe in polygamy either, but yes it should be done right
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I feel lobola works if the family is wealthy in business and is from a royal family. Coz we know that Rich wealthy family want to expand in wealth so when poor black people demand lobola and my question is is the woman or man safe in the relationship, coz we know about gender based volience another thing is when divorce happens will the bride's family pay the money back?. I totally agree that in this economy where will you pay R50 ks for lobola on top of that a white wedding? You want to begin a relationship with debt? ... I don't believe in lobola ..it only makes sense in wealthy and royal families who want to marry and expand their wealth with other rich and influential family ...but for a common man the needs to be an alternative option..coz times are hard
Great conversation gentlemen but I have a problem with your views on marriage and children. I think the way you guys perceive marriage and two parent households is a little bit flawed. Marriage is primarily about kids (not love) and raising those kids to be well balanced adults holistically. A lot of societal issues such as school drop outs, mental issues, crime, gangsterism, etc. Are a result mostly of fathers who are not present in their children's lives because a father brings tough love and delayed gratification to children which is pivotal in a child's life, boys especially. For a child to have a fighting chance in this life they need both parents to raise that child in one household. So marriage comes in handy in that context.
Marriage, a contract that forces individuals to keep their word of loving each other, be there for each other in this extremely difficult life and to remain together for the well being of children even when they do not feel like it at times. Because human beings are inherently evil and without such contracts they are bound to neglect their responsibilities, especially men as we witness it through the number of single mothers we have as a nation.
As long as we have kids to raise, marriage will always be relevant until we find another system that will benefit our children and ensure that they become well balanced and responsible adults, until then marriage is important and the only solution. People undermine the economic consequences of sex hence they talk about marriage being irrelevant yet those same men continue having sex with our sisters and leave them to raise children by themselves. A father who's not present, even if they do provide financially, they are failing us as a nation. If you're not willing to get married and stay with your baby mama to raise that kid then DON'T HAVE KIDS, PERIOD!
Again thanks for the great conversation guys imfundo ayikhulelwa, give thanks 🙌🏾🙏🏽
panuel dropping facts
Penuel is wise😀
can we please have joshua maponga
🚩🚩🚩Please invite Coconut Kelz! 🚩🚩🚩
I don't think the best place to get answers on Christianity are from people who are not Christian just as a man I am not supposed to answer on women issues.If you really want answers go to the 'source'
The source will be papyrus
"OUR CHILDREN ARE ASSETS"
penuel please wear jacket or warm jersey so you can be warm.
hehehe... thank you.
Umhabulo 101
Illuminate!!!
Please bring Zahara on the show, siyacela bandla.
That would be lit🔥🔥
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