Its true! But you can’t expect all your friends and relatives to stop living just cause you’re sick… thats why your family should always be your first priority…
Guessing the dude wants everyone to stop living and stop moving on when he’s sick. Guessing if you can’t have fun…others can’t as well SMH…!! 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
Pretty sure he doesn’t stop partying and living on for another who’s sick or out of cash either. All the years he carried cancer, he didn’t even care to know if another guy of them partying community may have gotten stoke and started diapers 😂
90-80% of your friends are just there for a good time. They have their own family, life, and priorities. When you make the mistake of prioritizing friends over your family expecting them to do the same. Stick to your bounded and limitations. Friends who give you a hard time for prioritizing your spouse and family is not a true friend. Community work shouldn’t interfere with your family life. Xyaum saib mekas ua community work thiab mas.
You guys would sacrifice your marriage, your family, and your finances to give freely to the hmong community? For what? For a name? For face? Those things mean nothing when you lose everything in the end.
Remember outsiders are supportive, helpful and fun when you’re in great shape, wealth and health. No one ❤ you more than your spouse and children. Cherish and create your memories with them.
In the end, all that matters is your immediate family! They’re the ones that help you when you’re sick and they’re the ones that love you when you have the least. They’re the ones that cry when you die. Don’t ever forget that
To me I think it’s good to have friends and hangout once in a while but some dumb people over do it. Every week all you see is drinking drinking party party with their friends. People need to spend more time with their kids and spouse more than friends. Once a long special day is ok but not every weekend. Sad life.
Yus ua neej nyob yus yuavtsum hlub yus tus kheej ua ntej ce hlub yus tsev neeg thiaj yog kev hlub tseeb yus thiaj tsi muaj mob sai sai tsi txhob ntshaws meejmom ntshaws ,ua thawj coj tej ntawm pab tsi tau yus txojsia. Thaum yus muaj mob leejtwg yuav pab tau yus thaum yus muaj mob lawm yus tig rov qab saib tej uas yus ua yav tas los lawm yus siv nyiaj siv sijhawm siv dagzog tsi muaj qabhaus dabtsi rau yus lub neej kiag lis vim yus txoj kev ntshaws meejmom ntshaws kom luag qhua yus hai tia yus mas haib ua tau txiv muaj nyiaj kom luag tsa yus ua thawj coj tej no yog yus tsi txawj ua ce yus yuav tuag sai xwb tiag.
Haub yau nej cov niag txiv neej ntawm nej os thaum nej yuav tuag nej mam pom peb cov niam tsev muaj nqis xwb. Thiab thaum nej yuav tuag es nej mam pom nej cov phooj ywg txoj kev hlub nej zoo li cas xwb peb li peb yeej pom pom thiab paub paub txog phooj ywg hais tias lawv hlub nej li cas no peb thiaj li hais hais nej los tseem tub qaug.....nej thiab nej tseem cem peb hais tias poj niam siab me thiab. Es yus cov phooj ywg twb yog yus txoj sia ces tsam no zoo lawm ces rov mus koom yus cov phooj ywg dua los mas tsam poj niam siab me me poj niam tsis hlub yus lis yus cov phooj ywg laiv.
Thaum muaj mob phooj ywg tsis hu lawm vim tsis tau noj yus lawm ne. Ua neeg nyob yuav tau hlub yus poj niam thiab yus tej me nyuam ua ntej txhua yam tag nrho thaum yuav tuag thiaj tsis khuv xim txoj sia.
Kwv tij koj hais yeej yog lawm thiab tab si ua neej nyob ces yus poj niam me nyuam thiab yus tsev kwv tij tug dab qhua thiab li yog #1 ntawm yus lub neej ua neeg nyob nawb mog Phooj ywg mas kom koj nco ntsoov hais tias tsuas yog phooj ywg xwb thaum yuav ciaj thiab yuav tuag los mus rau plaub ntug tshoob kos lawv pab tsis yus so tsis txhob muaj koj txoj hlub thiab lub zog siv rau lawv tag tag mog hais peb cov Txiv neej hmong txhua tus paub li ntawv nawb
This story!!!! Men needs to be reminded that when all is said and done, the only one who will truly stand behind them is their wife. That’s if he loves her.
It's all about balance. Never an easy thing to do. But the measure should be that each of us can only do so much. Do something because it is meaningful to you. Not to recieve approvals and you will have fewer regrets.
You would’ve done the same if one of your friends is ill. This is why we need to focus on our family first. Glad you’re cancer free and good luck to you.
Cov txiv neej uas nws muab cov neeg sab nraum cov neeg uas tsis koom ib lub tsev saib hlob. Tsis hais kwv tij los phooj ywg thawm koj muaj mob ces lawv tsis nug koj hmoov. Lawv ua noj ua haus lawv tsis nco qab koj vim koj muaj mob nrog tsis tau lawv pab tsis tau lawv ces koj tag nqi.
This is a true story!! to all the hmong leader in the community you think your a hero when this day come you will feel sorry for yourself so learn from the story take care yourself and your family first
Haub yau ve koj ces siab me dhau lawm os koj siab ib nyuag loj me ntsis ntxiv xwb ces tau tus loj loj lawm mas siab txhob me me tej laus ib txwm hais tias siab loj thiaj li tau tus loj no ne. Peb cov hmoob Ces thaum koj mob Yeej zoo li hos thaum zoo lawm yuav tsum rov qab khiav dua thiaj li yog ib tug neeg tseem ceev ma
Brother txhob tu2 siab rau lawv os mog txawm yog koj los koj yuav ua tsi tau ib yam rau lawv thiab nyias Muaj nyias ib lub neej thiab koj twb mob ces yeej kawg li ntawm xwb mog es zoo siab koj tau yeej koj tus mob lawm os
Yup,.... we have a relative who was doing this also. He had a major stroke and now he's just home. His speech got slow and everything he does now he can't do it himself anymore. And now, no one calls him. His wife only takes care of him. I feel bad for him. My FIL does this type of work too and his sons sees all these horrible drunks and their father not putting his kids as a priority. It's a sad thing to see that they prioritize their friends/koom haum over family.
Sub tim mes kas teb muab huab tais moob thiab los cas ris muaj neeg qhia peb cov nyob thaib teb li na tam li sawv daws paub mas peb moob yog ib haiv moob poob teb chaws xwb nas los niam no peb moob muaj huab tais thiab na lawv 😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮
Hmong po lo tiv. Funny. Hmong leader is on the other side of the ocean. Kids playing around playing leader 35:27 noj li nol, haus li haus li haus thiaj li tuag..
Ua tiag ua tiag thiaj li tau nai npab nai npwb thiab nai phoo tsum hnub no ces ntsej muag yuav poob yeej meem ua nawb txiv neej hmoob na kav tsij haus cawv kom ntau ntau thiaj li tau ua tus nai npwb…cov uas tsis ua tej ntawd Nej tsis paub shit li peb cov txiv neej hmoob na Kav tsij sawv los ua nawb tsis hais tus hlob tus yau li Nej thiaj muaj koob nto npe thiab tau ua hmoob tus loj 😅😅😅
ruam kawg kiag os hmoob aw.... ua nom them nyiaj rau cov loj cov coj haus beer haus cawv xwb, ntshe nrhiav kev tuag xwb pob hmoob, 1..yog poj niam me nyuam, 2..yog yus txoj hauj lwm, 3..yog yuav tau so yuav tau pw, 4..yog niam txiv kwv tij, 5..yog neej tsa, 6..yog phooj ywg xwb ov mog, nco zoo zoo tias txuag zam ces zam tshiab, txhua siav ces siav ntev xwb ov mog hmoob,
Ua cas zoo li Niam Ntsuab Teev twb piav ua tus txiv tug tiamsis thaum txog @23:33 nws ho cia los mus hais "mom" lawm es kuv tsis nkagsiab li? Yuav tsum yog "dad" li cov menyuam hais lawv txiv uas yog tus txiv tsev piav zaj no na, puas yog? I'm confused. 🤔
I feel sorry for this guy. But the self victimhood mentality that all his friends should be there often when hes sick is not realistic. Many people have busy lives. Many are not suited to help a sick person with cancer. Fact is the more people who visits someone cancer the higher risk of transmitting other illnesses someone carries that could worsen the cancer patients recovery. He acts like everyone should stop moving forward with their life just because he's sick like a main character syndrome. Be happy for your recover and prioritized your health. Not get upset friends didn't party with you enough at your worse. Dude got a 2nd chance at not going out to drink and party all the time which is what probably could've caused his illness in the first place. 🤦♀️
Its true! But you can’t expect all your friends and relatives to stop living just cause you’re sick… thats why your family should always be your first priority…
Guessing the dude wants everyone to stop living and stop moving on when he’s sick.
Guessing if you can’t have fun…others can’t as well
SMH…!! 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
Pretty sure he doesn’t stop partying and living on for another who’s sick or out of cash either. All the years he carried cancer, he didn’t even care to know if another guy of them partying community may have gotten stoke and started diapers 😂
YEP! THAT'S WHY I STOPPED FOR A DECADE NOW AND LOVING MY OWN TIME. FEELING SO MUCH HAPPIER!
Thank you for your your inspiring story. It's an eye opener life lessons.
Nrog koj zoo siab uas koj tus mob zoo lawm mog, koj cov lus yeej muaj tseeb os me kwv tij, kav Liam xob rov mus nrog phooj yws haus cawv lawm nawv.
BEST NEEJ NEEG SO FAR. GOOD LESSON FOR OUR HMONG MEN.
Yep! For real.
A story worth listening! Tired of the cheating and divorce stories need more stories like this!
Friends comes and goes.
That's truth! Even when you die...it's only those in your immediate family that will miss you the most bc they have the most memories with you.
90-80% of your friends are just there for a good time. They have their own family, life, and priorities. When you make the mistake of prioritizing friends over your family expecting them to do the same. Stick to your bounded and limitations. Friends who give you a hard time for prioritizing your spouse and family is not a true friend. Community work shouldn’t interfere with your family life. Xyaum saib mekas ua community work thiab mas.
You guys would sacrifice your marriage, your family, and your finances to give freely to the hmong community? For what? For a name? For face? Those things mean nothing when you lose everything in the end.
Remember outsiders are supportive, helpful and fun when you’re in great shape, wealth and health. No one ❤ you more than your spouse and children. Cherish and create your memories with them.
Glad you are better now
In the end, all that matters is your immediate family! They’re the ones that help you when you’re sick and they’re the ones that love you when you have the least. They’re the ones that cry when you die. Don’t ever forget that
Head up people. It depends on who do you serve yourself, the devil or God the savior.
To me I think it’s good to have friends and hangout once in a while but some dumb people over do it. Every week all you see is drinking drinking party party with their friends. People need to spend more time with their kids and spouse more than friends. Once a long special day is ok but not every weekend. Sad life.
People will only know you when they can use you. Their loyalty ends when the benefits stop.
Community service is always a choice. Don’t say you can’t do anything once involved. Family should always come first.
Peb Hmoob yog cov neeg ua lub neej yuam kev loj tshaj plaws
Don't be too sad. Glad your priorities are straightened now.
Txiv neeg yeej hlub thiab nco poj niam ce thaum zoo li ko lm xwb tiag
Yus ua neej nyob yus yuavtsum hlub yus tus kheej ua ntej ce hlub yus tsev neeg thiaj yog kev hlub tseeb yus thiaj tsi muaj mob sai sai tsi txhob ntshaws meejmom ntshaws ,ua thawj coj tej ntawm pab tsi tau yus txojsia. Thaum yus muaj mob leejtwg yuav pab tau yus thaum yus muaj mob lawm yus tig rov qab saib tej uas yus ua yav tas los lawm yus siv nyiaj siv sijhawm siv dagzog tsi muaj qabhaus dabtsi rau yus lub neej kiag lis vim yus txoj kev ntshaws meejmom ntshaws kom luag qhua yus hai tia yus mas haib ua tau txiv muaj nyiaj kom luag tsa yus ua thawj coj tej no yog yus tsi txawj ua ce yus yuav tuag sai xwb tiag.
Haub yau nej cov niag txiv neej ntawm nej os thaum nej yuav tuag nej mam pom peb cov niam tsev muaj nqis xwb.
Thiab thaum nej yuav tuag es nej mam pom nej cov phooj ywg txoj kev hlub nej zoo li cas xwb peb li peb yeej pom pom thiab paub paub txog phooj ywg hais tias lawv hlub nej li cas no peb thiaj li hais hais nej los tseem tub qaug.....nej thiab nej tseem cem peb hais tias poj niam siab me thiab.
Es yus cov phooj ywg twb yog yus txoj sia ces tsam no zoo lawm ces rov mus koom yus cov phooj ywg dua los mas tsam poj niam siab me me poj niam tsis hlub yus lis yus cov phooj ywg laiv.
Yes, we all have to understand that when/if you’re sick who’s really there is where your priorities should be when you’re well.
Thaum muaj mob phooj ywg tsis hu lawm vim tsis tau noj yus lawm ne. Ua neeg nyob yuav tau hlub yus poj niam thiab yus tej me nyuam ua ntej txhua yam tag nrho thaum yuav tuag thiaj tsis khuv xim txoj sia.
Kwv tij koj hais yeej yog lawm thiab tab si ua neej nyob ces yus poj niam me nyuam thiab yus tsev kwv tij tug dab qhua thiab li yog #1 ntawm yus lub neej ua neeg nyob nawb mog
Phooj ywg mas kom koj nco ntsoov hais tias tsuas yog phooj ywg xwb thaum yuav ciaj thiab yuav tuag los mus rau plaub ntug tshoob kos lawv pab tsis yus so tsis txhob muaj koj txoj hlub thiab lub zog siv rau lawv tag tag mog hais peb cov Txiv neej hmong txhua tus paub li ntawv nawb
So true
This story!!!! Men needs to be reminded that when all is said and done, the only one who will truly stand behind them is their wife. That’s if he loves her.
Very true! 😢
It's all about balance. Never an easy thing to do. But the measure should be that each of us can only do so much. Do something because it is meaningful to you. Not to recieve approvals and you will have fewer regrets.
This dude expects his friends to be by his side 24/7...im sure you won't be able to do that to one of your friend that got sick too.
You would’ve done the same if one of your friends is ill. This is why we need to focus on our family first. Glad you’re cancer free and good luck to you.
A-Gree!
He wouldn’t show either
Kuv li mas kuv yeej xav li koj hais ko tab sis ib ntxia txiv neej mas nws ho tsis xav li koj hais thiab
Cov txiv neej uas nws muab cov neeg sab nraum cov neeg uas tsis koom ib lub tsev saib hlob. Tsis hais kwv tij los phooj ywg thawm koj muaj mob ces lawv tsis nug koj hmoov. Lawv ua noj ua haus lawv tsis nco qab koj vim koj muaj mob nrog tsis tau lawv pab tsis tau lawv ces koj tag nqi.
I feel like because they’re know you’re sick and tired so they wouldn’t want to bother you. We need to stop over thinking about the situation
This is a true story!! to all the hmong leader in the community you think your a hero when this day come you will feel sorry for yourself so learn from the story take care yourself and your family first
Leader???
Brother, you're lucky your wife didn't leave you. A hard lesson to learn. Those are fake friends.
Haub yau ve koj ces siab me dhau lawm os koj siab ib nyuag loj me ntsis ntxiv xwb ces tau tus loj loj lawm mas siab txhob me me tej laus ib txwm hais tias siab loj thiaj li tau tus loj no ne. Peb cov hmoob Ces thaum koj mob Yeej zoo li hos thaum zoo lawm yuav tsum rov qab khiav dua thiaj li yog ib tug neeg tseem ceev ma
Brother txhob tu2 siab rau lawv os mog txawm yog koj los koj yuav ua tsi tau ib yam rau lawv thiab nyias Muaj nyias ib lub neej thiab koj twb mob ces yeej kawg li ntawm xwb mog es zoo siab koj tau yeej koj tus mob lawm os
We want to hear all about what you did when your friend was ill and died.
Yeah….you said you only went to the funeral 🙄
Yup,.... we have a relative who was doing this also. He had a major stroke and now he's just home. His speech got slow and everything he does now he can't do it himself anymore. And now, no one calls him. His wife only takes care of him. I feel bad for him. My FIL does this type of work too and his sons sees all these horrible drunks and their father not putting his kids as a priority. It's a sad thing to see that they prioritize their friends/koom haum over family.
Leannon Brook
Tus kheej yog #1 tsev neeg yog #2 yus txoj hauj lwm yog #3 phooj ywg yog #4
Its funny how they think that this is the high life the so call neeg muaj nuj nqi the leaders that party day and night.
Cov haujlwm ko ces kawg tuag sai xwb. Hmoob tsuas siv thaum yus khov thiab muaj nyiaj xwb. Xav kajsiab ces tso tseg. Cov phoojywg noj xwb tsis tuag nrog yus. Zoo qhov koj tsim lawm. Tsa chij lawm. Pom dej dag siab nqig lawm.
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Kuv tus txiv lub neej ces txawv tsis deb koj lub thiab os brother ziag no nws cia li ua ib siab mus Hmong temple lawm xwb
Li no es wb ib niam txiv tsi haus tsi muaj Phoojywg los tsuav wb enjoy wb cov menyuam xwb.
Sub tim mes kas teb muab huab tais moob thiab los cas ris muaj neeg qhia peb cov nyob thaib teb li na tam li sawv daws paub mas peb moob yog ib haiv moob poob teb chaws xwb nas los niam no peb moob muaj huab tais thiab na lawv 😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮
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Hmong po lo tiv. Funny. Hmong leader is on the other side of the ocean. Kids playing around playing leader 35:27 noj li nol, haus li haus li haus thiaj li tuag..
Lol, txoj sia faus rawv tom qhov ntxa…
Thaub aw, koj cov nyiam phooj yug huas beer ko xwb ces,kuv tsis ntshaw os , huaj lwm pub dawb neeg ruam thiav huas xwb
Txiv zej txiv zos ces kawg xaus thaj no 😂
We are dumb people!!. There are no schedules in the hmoob community. Eat and drink nonstop. Overdone on every even!!
That's very true
Nej txoj hauj lwm quav dev… noj mov quav cawv ua lom lom vab vab xwb yeej ua tsis tau ib txoj hauj lwm tseeb ceeb thiaj yeej pab tsis tau leej twg li. Hmoob ces yuav muaj mob thiab tuag coob zuj zug lawm
Thov tswv ntuj foom koob hmoov zoo rau koj
Yog kawg nkau lawm nawb yus yuav tau hlub yus tus poj niam thiab mes nyuam lawm xwb es thiaj li zoo, phooj ywg ces ib vuag dhau xwb
Ua tiag ua tiag thiaj li tau nai npab nai npwb thiab nai phoo tsum hnub no ces ntsej muag yuav poob yeej meem ua nawb txiv neej hmoob na kav tsij haus cawv kom ntau ntau thiaj li tau ua tus nai npwb…cov uas tsis ua tej ntawd Nej tsis paub shit li peb cov txiv neej hmoob na Kav tsij sawv los ua nawb tsis hais tus hlob tus yau li Nej thiaj muaj koob nto npe thiab tau ua hmoob tus loj 😅😅😅
Vow koj tsis yog dog dig kiag nawb. Ua neeg khov kho li koj thiaj li yog tus # 1. Thov qhuas koj nawb.... kuv tuaj koj tog 💯
ruam kawg kiag os hmoob aw.... ua nom them nyiaj rau cov loj cov coj haus beer haus cawv xwb, ntshe nrhiav kev tuag xwb pob hmoob, 1..yog poj niam me nyuam, 2..yog yus txoj hauj lwm, 3..yog yuav tau so yuav tau pw, 4..yog niam txiv kwv tij, 5..yog neej tsa, 6..yog phooj ywg xwb ov mog, nco zoo zoo tias txuag zam ces zam tshiab, txhua siav ces siav ntev xwb ov mog hmoob,
Peb hmoob need to stay away being a PHA THA...
Seriously. In the end, it's just your immediate family. PERIOD. Unless u have that very small circle of friends.
So true 100💯
If u die, your friends come for your wife.
You already told this story before couple months ago.
Kwv tij hmoob ruam xwb os mog 😂😂😂
Ua cas zoo li Niam Ntsuab Teev twb piav ua tus txiv tug tiamsis thaum txog @23:33 nws ho cia los mus hais "mom" lawm es kuv tsis nkagsiab li? Yuav tsum yog "dad" li cov menyuam hais lawv txiv uas yog tus txiv tsev piav zaj no na, puas yog? I'm confused. 🤔
Koj qhov nyiag story no ruam dhau lawm los tseem muaj tiaj hais dab tsis thiab lau
Koj xav yuam kev lawm yog lwm tus mob li koj koj yeej ua li koj cov phooj ywg ua thiab kev noj haus yog kev sib pauv zog xwb
May makes the story so boring.
I stopped after 20 mins.
😂😂😂 💯💯💯
Then don’t listen. It’s that easy😂💯
@@shawnvang392 that’s why I stopped at 20 mins. That easy! 🤪
@@microbiologist50 you’re too funny. Still stay listening tho🫢
@@shawnvang392 in your dream I stayed listening to
I feel sorry for this guy. But the self victimhood mentality that all his friends should be there often when hes sick is not realistic. Many people have busy lives. Many are not suited to help a sick person with cancer. Fact is the more people who visits someone cancer the higher risk of transmitting other illnesses someone carries that could worsen the cancer patients recovery. He acts like everyone should stop moving forward with their life just because he's sick like a main character syndrome. Be happy for your recover and prioritized your health. Not get upset friends didn't party with you enough at your worse. Dude got a 2nd chance at not going out to drink and party all the time which is what probably could've caused his illness in the first place. 🤦♀️
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