Yup my hs had the same policy if you got bullied you were part of the problem it’s just a way for shitty school system to pass on issues to another school kept me from beating some losers ass until I saw him outside of school kids are tough when they know you both go down for their bs but when it’s out in the open things change
@BlueSoulGamer it's not spineless, it's no longer trusting authority figures, refusing to stand up for others, long term psychological damage, and just hate for society as a whole. Some may just become cowardly, others end up despising the country as a whole for creating a system and then being insulted for bringing it up.
The principal knows it's negotiable if she doesn't want to do that. It also happens with companies, if they know their client doesn't want to sue on principal but for personal damages they'll settle out of court to keep it out of public view if they know it'll make them look bad and that they'd lose.
"Our school has a zero-tolerance policy on violence." "Well, the other kid put their hands on our kid and stabbed him with a sharpened pencil. If he was an adult that'd be battery and assault with a deadly weapon." "No not that kind violence. We only have zero tolerance for what occurs after kids stick up for themselves against bullies. Not for everything the bullies do to provoke it."
Yeah how come they did not mentioned he freshly sharpened pencil stab on his neck/ spinal cord area!? That’s huge is it not? Could be deadly if not just detrimental for the guy.
Omg some dbag did this to me in elementary school.. I guess I did not trust my parents enough and suffered in silence (never told them). But somehow I must have gotten out .. school was tough then.. 😢😢😢 I bet he grew up to be a real sadistic person..
Lol right? "Oh he called me names" not "oh he stabbed me and called me a name, then threw me against the wall to try to continue beating me after I retaliated"
My son’s middle school tried that with me. I dialed my lawyer, right in the Principal’s office. Put him on speaker and asked him how hard would it be to sue the school district, the bullies parents, etc. (I had been documenting EVERYTHING, and had it on my phone, emailed it to him right before I got to the school.) My lawyer started saying what could happen if I went ahead and sued. Words like ,”pain and suffering, CPSD, therapy bills, pressing charges, etc”. Needless to say, MY son didn’t get suspended and the school district made sure NOBODY ever messed with my son again. (The lawyer was an ex boyfriend of mine😂😂.) The only reason the school finally cared was because money would have been involved. People suck.
that’s what had to happen for me too when I was in high school for the school to get their ducks in a row. I had medical issues and the school refused to adhere to my medical plans and restrictions.. going as far to even say they lost the papers when they were visibly sitting on the top of an untouched stack right on the corner of their desk. As SOON as we threatened to sue, they started apologizing and trying to rectify the situation. They had ruined my chances at graduating, and after the threat to take legal action, they suddenly had the ability to provide me with options that were previously unmentioned. Absolutely disgusting
As rulers, especially Scamperial rulers, tend to see it, bullies make ideal enforcers of their utopia, where they get to be the rulers of us all. Peace at any price, as long as it’s not them who has to pay it.
Honestly, this portrays school accurately. Punish the victim, not the bully. It's like arresting a stabbing victim for trying to fight off their stabber.
And that's the messed up part, because here in Ontario you're supposed to go above and beyond to get away from the attacker. Self defense laws are a joke here.
It’s not just “like” that. As another comment said, the bully clearly was preparing to stab him in the back of the neck with a freshly sharpened pencil.
Are we going to ignore the fact that he was defending himself after BEING STABBED IN THE NECK? That's attempted murder. Forget what he called you, he tried to KILL you.
@@luna84_aggravated assault, as it was battery with a weapon intending to cause harm but without the intent to kill. I would hope the bully isn’t so stupid as to try and kill someone in front of a crowd.
@@ProleDaddybecause some people in this world need to be punched to learn to stop doing bullcrap to others. Words are not always going to be the answer.
It's so sad but true....my cousin was kicked out of some university in FL for standing up for one of his friends. His parents are strict as hell and took away his phone but me n my siblings n his we're all like you did good J.
@@secretsmith813that actually makes a lot of sense, the part you mentioned about them trying to make people not wanna go to them for help to make their own jobs easier.
That's funny because my Dad taught me not to be a bully but if shit hits the fan don't ever tell someone to hit me first because that may just be the hit to knock me tf out so always take the first punch if it comes down to that 😂🤷🏻♀️
I absolutely love the first part of the movie. It took a weird turn in the second part, but it was still well done despite the direction the story took.
Schools give bullies a slap on the wrist every time, no suspension, no detention or ISS. But the second a bullied kid pushes back, all of a sudden they give a shit.
The problem is most times bullies don’t go this overboard to the point of causing a scene etc the victim who’s had enough is the one who punches or does something violent most times bullies push or bug you to get a reaction. School policy is no violence so if you are getting bullied stop worrying about “being a snitch” or what people would think and just report it
@@skyler862It's fascinating that your brain couldn't comprehend the whole message being told here. Do principal or whoever in charge of the school disclose information like its candy? Think about that first and then we move onto the next part of the conversation. Am aware thinking is hard so please, take all the time you need.
The inverse happened to me: Bully physically pushed me down to the ground on a muddy day at school, staining my clothes in front of the whole grade. I was angry and verbally retaliated by yelling at him “Fuck you” a couple times and walking away to the front office to get a change of clothes. As far as the school was concerned, we were in equal amounts of trouble all bc I said a bad word and that was somehow equal to this dude physically attacking me while I was minding my own business. The school staff LITERALLY said if I want to get him in trouble then I get in trouble too with the same punishment, either that or I just drop it altogether. School bullying policies are a fucking joke that benefit the bully more than the innocent kid. In my case the bully was physical and I retaliated verbally which makes it even more of a joke.
I love how teachers tell you to to say if you're getting bullied and then if you say something it gets worse and worse until you lash out and then you get in trouble. But the bully never does.
I got bullied when I was 12, and I couldn't go to middle school and dropped out of high school because of my depression and social anxiety. :D But Thank God, he gave me time to follow Jesus and stay focus on him.🙏❤️😊
Ong I was bullied for being short during middle school but I turned out normal and not affected by it after i accepted that my height was a predetermined genetic I stopped caring.
Not sure what I was bullied for - I suspect it was because it was my slow speech pattern - but I lifted weights and let their words roll off me like water and pinned them to the floor or wall, forcing them to submit anytime they'd get physical. Was it easy to ignore their words? No. But it did help that my role model growing up strongly encouraged me to defend myself from violence by being more violent.
I used to get bullied a lot all the way through high school, and it got so bad that one day I had a sit down with the principal and vice principals, plus the school counselor. I remember my father telling me during that meeting that he didn't give a fuck about the school's "zero tolerance" policies. Told me in front of everyone that I had his permission to stand up for myself and defend myself. I remember my mom telling me that if I ever got suspended for sticking up for myself, we'd go and fucking celebrate. I know lots of people say their parents aren't cool, but this was a certified "cool parents" moment.
Dumbfucks will say that parents defend their kids from teachers too much, but the truth is that the education system has always been a stagnated piece of shit
Your parents wore the crowns WELL! That's that Old School Policy -- Take No Shit, Guard Your Grill, Take No Prisoners, Fuck Their Feelings. #70sBaby80sKid ... YOU know what it IS...!
Well Mine however, I just took their insults as a Joke instead of getting triggered and i insulted them back in a Jokingly way and a few months later they left me alone Lol
In school they don't teach you to stand up for yourself, they teach you to be a defenseless sheep. That is why the bullied kid gets the heavier punishment for acting on his own will.
Hey back in my day this was reality and we didn’t have kids hitting teachers and cops because we all learned in school how to treat others or get a bloody nose ❤
Its not so much that, its that teachers where a point of authority and you learnt to respect that and they treated you with respect as a example. They didn't pretend to be your friend, they didn't give you there first name to call them, it was Sir or Mr X. They punisehed everyone not just the bully or the bulled they made it everyone's problem and taught others to look out for each other or the whole system turns to crap.@@diannekelly3319
I got punished a lot for fighting back. You’re damn right I’ll stand up and yell at someone to stop touching me from behind! I also nearly died in a locker room because a girl headlocked me and tried to bash my face in. Don’t ask me why, I didn’t speak to her that day and she just randomly took it too far. She was apologetic when she realized that day her ass got handed to her when the school FINALLY stepped in!
Adults become violent & cruel because of society but children are becoming more cruel than adults. The cruelty & violence portrait by teenagers is alarming. When the parents wake up? Would they ever be? When will the society!!
Punishing the victim for sticking up for himself, accurate description of all schools UK or USA. In the UK teachers ENCOURAGE bullying and whenever the victim stands up for themselves they get punished and sometimes even arrested if the teachers call the cops.
It happens around the world and most of the time there's no investigation done. The school sometimes decide who to punish by their background,race,capabilities to contribute funds to the school,connections between them and the list can go on. Those being raised in a single parent household are usually blamed to be the bully since they "lack parental love and guidance".
At the school I went to, my younger brother went to, and my younger sister now goes to, you can honestly see the difference in discipline. When I went, you fight whether you're bully or bullied you go to highpoint. When my brother went, you weren't allowed to defend yourself and if you did, not only did you get suspended but you also went to highpoint after, and for longer before you were allowed to return to school. Now that my lil sis is going, let's just say, the school may look 10x better than we went, but it's a shit ton worse. Good thing she isn't as rowdy as we were. But other things are so wrong with that school.
@@brendon7638 ok, how is that even allowed? like sure i understand banning SOME guns, but if those states made every gun illegal? that's literally unconstitutional and violates the second amendment
@@lugismansion2400be real for a second, do you think our government, the same government that's been lying and scamming us all these years with bogus promises, price increases, and laws gives a damn about breaking the constitution. I mean for goodness sake there also breaking the law by having congress members still in office way WAY past there time they should of been removed, Rigging votes overnight by forging votes of people who are dead, there were more votes than there were people on the planet for Biden and Trump combined.
@@lugismansion2400Be real for just a second, do you think our government, the same government that's been lying and scamming us all these years with bogus promises, corruption, price increases, and laws gives a damn about breaking the constitution. I mean for goodness sake there also breaking the law by having congress members still in office that should have been gone ages ago, Rigging votes overnight by forging votes of people who are dead, there were more votes than there were people on the planet for Biden and Trump combined. Heck UA-cam just shadowbanned this comment when I first wrote it, if that doesn't prove this corruption idk what will. That's right youtube I know what your trying to pull😡
@@bimbumaru Probably applies just fine if you act as if you believe they were a protected class. Stabbing and using slurs against someone you believe is gay? Pretty sure you don't have to be gay for that to be a hate crime.
Hate crimes don't exist. Assault was the crime the bully should be charged with. In America, you are allowed to hate but you are not allowed to assault people. The "hate crime" approach is absolute trash. You can tag "hate crime" to literally any crime if you play enough mental gymnastics
This one time, back in 4th grade, I was talking to my teacher, and this one kid (who's from the hood lmao) jumped in and said something (I forgot if it was disrespectful or not). And I got irritated at him for not minding his business and eventually I said I was gonna punch him in his fac and he said to do it, but I flinched at him and he quickly got up and started punching me. I didn't lay a finger on him, because I had no actual intentions of fighting him and later on he said he did it because he thought I was actually gonna do something. I ended up getting a harsher punishment. I DID KINDA start the fight, but like not verbally. AITA?
Passei 2 anos sofrendo bullying de 6 alunos e quando revidei, acabou com 1 deles em coma pois bati com cabeça de 1 no ferro, fui suspenso, mas só não fui expulso do colégio pois viram nas câmeras que faziam isso com muitos alunos...
As a person who grew up in a special ed program were i was relentlessly bullied and fighting i never once got the end of the stick were i wasn’t at fault not to say i didn’t start my own fights sometimes but still it truly is a horrible thing i had to go through and i wouldn’t wish it on anyone its a true miracle im not in some jail cell at this point it took a lot of mental work to move on from the part of my life which has left a great deal of trauma on me. Remember there is always someone somewhere to talk to and you can get through it, things do get better In Time, you got this, you are strong, you are loved.❤
My son got bullied once & beat the breaks off the kid. I was called in & they tried punishing my kid (in school suspension at another school) for defending himself (after being surrounded & had no choice but to fight his way out. I made it crystal clear my son did the RIGHT thing & will NOT be punished. In fact, he's gonna have a nice, 1 week vacation. And if the bully who went after my son isn't disciplined, I'm bringing in the news & a lawyer. 1 week later, the other kid was relocated. Found out this was a pattern with this bully that the school let continue.
Sucks to hear ur kid have to go through that.💯 I been in the same situation so many times. Teachers dont do shit but when the victim decides they had enough and runs it up, they treat us like the Green Goblin😂 I never understood that logic. If u properly defend me, I wont have to do it myself🤷🏾♂️
@MADLADCOMICS damn, sorry to hear that. I think every mother should advocate for their kids. It's hard enough in school, then to have your parents punish you for defending yourself just makes it worse. Hope your out of school by now.
@chriss.249 The truth of the matter is, school sucks! Always had even when i was in high school. Thank God i was never bullied, but i was raised by a father & brothers, so i was taught to fight & stand up for myself since i was very young. So when i had my 2 sons, i immediately taught them to do the same. Never be a bully, but always defend yourself & know your worth. And if anyone ever puts their hands on you to hurt you, don't even think. React! Never start a fight, but if you're unfortunately forced into one, make sure you finish it! I don't believe fists are a 1st resort, ever! But if that time ever came, they should always be prepared & not afraid to stand up for themselves.
I had a similar experience, I was bullied a lot in primary school (although fortunately I don't remember much about that time) apparently I used to come home crying and didn't want to go to school. One day this boy was bothering me in class, pulling my hair and things like that, I got up and hit him in the face making his nose bleed. Of course they sent me to the principal, they reprimanded me and called my mom, they wanted her to discipline me too, but she basically said: "No, my daughter has been bullied for a long time and you didn't do anything, now she defended herself and I'm not going to make her feel bad about it."
Bruhhhh the school wouldn't punish the victim of bullying who fights back only if you threaten to sue them. That totally explains the quality of their justice system.
Yeah, usually works because no one wants to deal with law suits, they take long and are just annoying. It’s a great scare tactic. They just don’t want bad publicity.
The government hates people that fight back. School is an indoctrination operation. Therefore those who naturally fight injustice and don’t put up with bullshit are punished and reprogrammed.
I remember a kid named Alaa, he was new, couldn’t speak Danish yet, because he was a war refugee from Palestine. He was bullied because his face was all scared up. One day he threw a milk holder (not the carton, but a plastic holder) at the kids that beat him daily, and the next day he was never seen again. It’s crazy that a kid that has been bombed almost to death, beaten everyday for a couple weeks stands up for himself once, and gets expelled for it.
Its clearly self defence. The guy stabs him in the back, he strikes him back. The guy throws him on the ground. He the picks up the closest object and hits the attacker to subdue him.
No. Just no. Case law dictates that self-defense must be reasonable, timely, AND proportional. This was not. Getting shoved down and having your “attacker” turn away from you does not reasonably give the notion that you will be attacked again. Furthermore, the time it took the kid to get back up, grab a yard stick and hit him with it makes it untimely as well. As for proportional, getting poked with a pencil does not give you the right to punch somebody in the nose. That is assault. Is it fair? Everyone has opinions. Is it the law? Yes.
@@masonsullivan2928Also, the attacker literally turned away and then turned back to the victim when he got hit by the stick, meaning there was reason to believe the bully might attack again
This is accurate af A decade ago I was in primary school and I got bullied by a kid during 6 years, one day, he started to hit me and I fought back with a punch in his face and a kick in his balls, I almost got expelled from my school because I broke his nose. It wasn't until 4 th grade that they expelled him because we put a report in the local police station after I came back to home with my nose and mouth bleeding after an entire hour of getting physsically abused by that kid. It's funny that they expel the innocent for fighting back before expelling the bullies for bullying.
And would you believe, this exact same thing happened to my son in school yesterday. He took 5 cuff to the head from a girl-bully. He spin upwards and fired 1 swift uppercut to her jaw and sent her straight to the floor. My husband had to go into the school meeting today to discuss the situation. He told the Principal, the Dean and the class teacher who also collected 3 slap from the girl-bully, that if my son ever gets suspended or expelled, he was going straight into the Police Station to make an official report to go to Court. Then head down to the Ministry of Education to file a Bullying complaint against the School. We parents have to start observing our kids and deferentiate who wants to learn from who are troublemakers in the school and society at large.
That never happened when I was bullied and even SA'd/R*ped in the boys locker room by a male classmate. Mom didn't even believe that happened to me, told me to ignore them, which is impossible. She didn't even fight for me, and corporal punished me after I defended myself after was attacked and called an ugly weakling by multiple students at the same.
I just threatened the vice principal to make the 2 boys disappear if they didn't get in any trouble. Got a call from him my girlfriend answered and was told my daughter, 9th grade, was pinned down in class and she freaked out and was crying, I'm listening to my girlfriends reactions because I could tell something was wrong, he's playing it down with the whole boys will be boys, I'm thinking it's one of our younger daughters in elementary,, he wasn't going to do anything about it when gf tells me it's my oldest. I snatch the phone out her hands and told him that they are more than old enough to know better and if ANYONE ever does it again I will make them disappear. Now I've been called a psycho numerous times but many people, after stabbing 1 friend when I was ~9, trying to kill another at 10 and my grandfather as a teen I realized I needed to keep my sh*t together at all times and avoid confrontation because I black out. Point is it was not a pleasant polite kind of I'll k*ll your whole family kinda chat, it was intense. He apologized told me he would handle it and for me to have a good day. The next day he approaches my daughter and tells her that her dad is scary and never wants to make him mad.
My school had a zero tolerance policy, and I personally got it abolished fast. My sister had a lot of friends and was very protective of me, so there was always a witness in my favor. It only took one bully to learn that I was to be left alone. I was bullied a lot in school growing up and only after I started to protect myself did it ever stop. First time the bully even touched me, I laid him out flat (I fight dirty btw). School wanted to suspend only me and I told them I'd get a lawyer as I had at least 3 witnesses that could prove that the bully started the fight by laying his hands on me, I merely protected myself. Principal stated the zero tolerance policy and I immediately then said then the bully should get the same punishment since it was his fault for putting me in danger. I also warned the principal I would tell everyone how the school wants to punish the victims and not the actual aggressors. First time I ever saw a person's face go pale. Bully got suspended for a week while I got no punishment, and the policy was gone by the end of that week. Overall violence in the school dropped once word got around that the victims could now fight back as hard as they wanted and not get in trouble. Edit: Mind you this was back in the 1990s before cameras and smartphones were commonplace everywhere.
In the words of Tyrion: “Never forget what you are, for surely the world will not. Make it your strength. Then it can never be your weakness. Armor yourself in it, and it will never be used to hurt you.”
@@mcleo1212he did it right just in a different way but still the same he didn’t say were it like a armor and it can never be use to hurt you but saying armor yourself in it is still the same different way but same meaning
The only thing the Zero tolerance policy does is make bullying more rampant because if the assailant attacks they get a lighter punishment but if the assailant attacks and the victim retaliates then both are given equally harsher punishments. Which does nothing but tell the victim to not fight back, but hell with the rule, stand up for yourself regardless.
Nah, makes the bullys, aim for people who won't fight back, a good few stepped to me, and the punishment is the same if you punch them once, or stop them out, so it really encourages you to go all the way if you gotta go at all. I definitely disagree with the policy tho, means nobody else is gonna be willing to so much as pull someone off of you, bc then they're "involved" in the fight.
Nah man when I was in high school zero tolerance was for anyone "involved" didn't matter if you hit back or not or if you were even actually involved. I got a 3 day suspension one bc 2 kids were fighting and one of them fell into me pushing me into the lockers causing me to black out woke up and was told I was being suspended for being "involved" 😡 asked wth I was supposed to do when they were fighting 5 feet from the classroom I was headed to and was told I should have turned around and gone the long way which with how big my school was would have took about 5 minutes and the warning bell had already rung zero tolerance is bs
How many of us went through this in school? The sad thing is when some kids take revenge on their bullies too far, and we see the school shutting because the may problem was never resolved. Stop bullies in schools.
Back in the day I used to get bullied, at some point my parents simply said "if someone hits you, hit them back and win, we'll handle the consequences".
Guy is a soldier in the same team as the kid's now deceased older brother to take care of the family as older bros dying wish. Twist happens and chaos ensues
Take my childhood for example. Parents divorced before I was born (always far apart), an older brother who as a kid was more of a bully than a brother, I was held back twice (probably undiagnosed learning disability or depression), & constantly had some kids act standoff-ish toward me bc I was a little bit bigger & they felt threatened. I was rarely physically bullied but many kids verbally bullied me in every way. I'd NEVER go back. Not every childhood is the same. As an adult you realize who had a privileged upbringing by how they treat children/ child victims. I too faced time out from school for defending other kids after a bully was on the bus punching everyone in the nuts thinking its funny. I never even laid a hand on him & was punched 6 times in the forehead. Thankfully my friend next to me was bigger & pushed him off. I still was punished by the school. I didn't care at the time but even if it was a few days, it was still wrong. Especially when the kid is already struggling academically. It seems like its only getting worse these days in our schools.
True. I was being raised by a single mom who was barely able to make ends meet and was barely able to pay for my education(all of my scholarship applications were denied every year even though she was barely making more than 200 per month but the kids of doctors or other well paid jobs were offered scholarships that lasted until they graduated university). I was bullied on a daily basis and the teachers keep saying that I must have done something to be constantly bullied(the counselor found out that I was innocent when she called the bullies into the staff room and demanded an explanation for their constant bullying. They couldn't even answer her question and when she asked if they were bullying without reason, they just looked at the floor). No apologies from the teachers and I had a bad reputation for fighting(defending bully victims but even just using myself to shield the victim from potential attacks was considered fighting since it's equivalent to starting a fight). When the new principal transferred to my school, the teachers were adamant that she immediately expelled me(they listed down the things I've done that shows how I was a bad influence on others. Even the rumors about me flying around the school were on the list(about me being a gangster and involved with a local gang,violent behavior,practicing occult and countless others). I was just lucky that the principal did her own investigation and stood firm on her decision that I wasn't going to be expelled for things I didn't do. They weren't happy that I was staying and tried to change her mind. Eventually she pointed out how biased they were and how I was just doing their jobs to protect other students because they couldn't be bothered(prefects turned a blind eye as well). I did panic when the principal called me into her office and told me to bring my mom to her on report card day. I thought I was going to be suspended or expelled and was mentally preparing myself for an earful from my mom. Turns out she was concerned about my mental well-being and talk to my mom about it(I'm not the type to admit that I was struggling mentally to the teachers because I was usually made the laughing stock and class scapegoat). The principal did tell her about what she discovered about the past 3 years and told my mom that she was actually grateful for me for protecting the weaker students from the bully gangs(claimed that my mom should be proud of me and ignore what the teachers claimed about my true character). I'm grateful that I got a wonderful principal but it still didn't stop the bullying I received until graduation. Most of the teachers remained biased and even spoke poorly about me after I graduated(bad mouthed the principal for keeping me in the school instead of immediately expelling me).
Yeah but you know, they care about you more if you’re a minority whose rights are being violated. He being stabbed alone means nothing, being stabbed cause you’re gay however…
They didn’t mention that for some reason. You would think that would be very handy in defending your case but I guess calling someone a name is more important.
I've been bullied out of school, on my senior year. My principles were always downplaying the way I was bullied, so I started to fight back and even hurt one girl breaking her wrist. and I was also being a target for one teacher who was a racist and also bullied me with the few students who were willing... My mom wanted to sue but we did not have the finances to gain an attorney at that time. My mom pulled me out of school to stop the bullying, but I didn't want to be pulled out so I got back into school and placed at another district. That new school was amazing, but the traumatic moments I had in the previous school got to me, as I started to get constant anxiety attacks, faint spells, and much more happening to me. The school couldn't handle me fainting a lot...so once again I was pulled out, homeschooled and now here I am an ex college student. Even so, bullying can take a toll on someone, mentally and emotionally. Even physically. Always check on children who have been bullied. You never know what they'll go through. Because even more will be on their shoulders that they would have to bear and endure. It's why some suicides happen too. Not many kids are heard. So be kind..
My grandfather raised me to never start fights but always defend myself, he never got mad when i got in trouble for fighting as long as i didn't start it. I was the same way when raising my neices and nephews for 8 years and i had no problems with them.
I got 3 days of ISS for shoving a kid who was bullying me in the hall with his friends, he sprayed Axe all over the back of my head. I nearly shoved him down some stairs, he told the vice principal I punched him. "There would be serious damage to his face if I did." They wanted me to write a report on what happened and a formal apology, I refused. My mom forced me to do it so they wouldn't expel me. He only got a day of ISS. That's when I realized that it's not about the bullying, it's just about punishing anyone involved in an altercation. Teachers and school administrators get drunk on power over little kids!
Kids are also notorious for being liars and assholes. So if 2 kids come to you complaining with different stories and you don't have any other witnesses. Wtf else are you supposed to do? I think being expelled is too much if they don't have proof though. Just give em detention for a bit. That's what my ghetto school did
Ok so I had a similar interaction except there was this massive Mexican kid in my art class who absolutely hated me and treated me like trash so I gave him the middle finger in class and told him to F off and he proceeded to throw me across the room literally and yet I got nearly a week of ISS and he only got 2 days but funny enough I got bailed out after 2 days cause I had a clean record and good behavior in school. I was a 96 pound and skinny kid
Principal: we can't protect your kid My mom (to my brother): if you get jumped, you fight like your life is in danger Principal: hey, you can't tell him that!
The thing about bullies is, they know the rules and they operate in the blank spaces between them. Make certain words punishable? They'll make up new words to express their hate and suffering. Zero tolerance for fighting? "I wasnt fighting, I was attacked and had to defend myself. I was just teasing him, how was I supposed to know he was so sensitive?"
Adult excuse that bullies act the way they do because they're suffering from insecurities is a lame excuse. They're not suffering they're just assholes. I was bullied during my years in school too much to believe that bulshit about them suffering. Would you make that excuse for Donald Trump?
Words is NEVER a justifiable reason to commit violence... The "bully" was rude as hell... But the "victim" is a sociopath that is beyond pedagogical scope...
Did you black out for the part where the bully stabbed the guy in the back of the neck? Then after being punched in retaliation, grabbed him by the collar and slammed him against the wall? Both instances of violence from the victim were in response to violent provocation from the bully. It's people like you that make these "no tolerance" policies I keep hearing about, isn't it?
"Did he call him f***ot?" "I don't think that's relevant" OF COURSE IT'S RELEVANT Edit: thank you so much for the likes this is the most I've ever gotten love you guys
I'm 62 years old. I was bullied most of my childhood, the worst of it being in middle school through 7th grade, which would have been in the early 1970s (for cultural reference) 7th grade would have been the 1974-75 school year. If you went to a teacher for help, even if the teacher did help, the bully would find a way to retaliate, maybe when you were leaving school for home, or during the dreaded walk through the woods to the high school for home ec class. So best not to involve teachers and take matters into your own hands, which was the only way you would get the respect of the bullies and their cronies. In my childhood, the little, scrawny kids never got picked on, because if the bullies did, the girls would give the bullies hell for not picking on someone their own size. So the popular targets for the bullies were the bigger kids who didn't fight back. My father, may he rest in peace, was my teacher and advocate for fighting back. He too was bullied, which was hard for me to imagine as a kid, because of his 6'3" size and intimidating demeanor. I eventually grew to 6'1", but in 7th grade, I was probably like 5'7" or so, but I was among the taller kids in my class. By the time I got to 8th grade, I had finally had enough and had a massive chip on my shoulder. I had to fight my way through a bunch of lower-level punks, eventually gaining their respect until I was left alone by this group. Fights were not really fights, but tussles that were quickly broken up by a teacher, but as my father used to say, it didn't matter if you won or lost, you just had to make it difficult (and if possible, make it hurt) if they bullied you, so that they would move on to easier targets. I had one such tussle with a punk while watching health-oriented videos in the cafeteria... usually, I can remember perfectly what started every fight I had, but I honestly can't recall what he did to set me off, but he did. I took a couple of swings at him, connected with my left to his mouth, which left a tooth-shaped scar on the back of my left hand that has been visible most of my life since then... only in the past few years has it faded to being nearly invisible. The teacher sent us both to the principal's office. The principal said that he knew both of us and thus knew who started it. We were assigned "central detentions" which was that schools kind of ultimate punishment... I got one and the other guy got two or three. My point here is that, unless the teacher lives under a rock, or is a substitute, they know who the punks are and who the peaceful people are. They witness a lot of low-level bullying to know the score... which is why severe punishment of the bullying victim for retaliating seems like such a load of cr@p to me. I eventually put myself in a situation to be confronted by the Number 2 bully in the school. He thought he could intimidate me, but I didn't back down. At the end of a lunch break, I was heading into the school building, and he was lurking by one of the entrances, waiting for me. I saw him there, and could have taken another route into the building, but I wanted to have it out with him. He stepped out of his "hiding" place to confront me, and I went ape-sh-t on him with a barrage of fists, that all he could do was to try to deflect my onslaught. It only lasted for a couple of minutes before a teacher broke it up, but that got him off my case. Now there was only one king bully left. He was sitting behind me. We were on the left edge of the classrom right next to a wooden "curtain" that could be opened to the adjacent classroom to make one huge classroom if necessary. He began "thwacking" my right ear with his finger. There was a girl sitting to his right who started warning him that he should stop doing that because my face was turning red. Indeed it was with white hot rage. He contined to thwack my ear every time the teacher turned her back to write something on the blackboard. Eventually I had enough, and abruptly stood up. We had those desks that were attached to the chair, so the whole thing tipped over and crashed onto the floor. In a move that I later learned that, in Tae Kwon Do, is called a spinning back fist, I spun to my right "cracking the whip" with my right hand and swung the back of my right fist for his head. Lucky for him, I only grazed him, or I could have done some serious damage with this move (it was one of my secret weapons when I did pursue a black belt in Tae Kwon Do in my adulthood). I knocked his glasses off his face and grazed his face. His glasses clacked against the wooden curtain to our left and fell on the floor. All of this commotion of my desk falling and his glasses clacking against the wall made more than a little noise, so the teacher turned around and stared at me, standing there. I quietly bent over to pick up my desk and sat back down. The teacher said nothing. Again, she knew who must have been the instigator. The king bully mumbled that he wouldn't thwack me anymore. Since nobody in the school would have dared to confront this guy, I had earned his respect and he and I ended up being, sort-of friends. When I started 9th grade, my family moved to another state and I had to go through the process of proving myself yet again. I actually got into some real fights rather than brief tussles, but the result was the same... I was left alone after proving myself a few times.
My mum told me to punch them. All fights were after school due to the expulsion policy for fighting. Took about 4 fights to stop getting bullied but by high school no-one would mess with me. Even as an adult they kept well clear of me.
My friend used to get bullied alot he used to cry the teacher would tell him to shut it and stop we had a system of cards a yellow card warning is a small warning if you get 3 of them you get a red card which is a huge warning if you get 3 red cards your expelled he literally got 3 yellow cards for just crying and getting bullied he even got a red one because he got 3
Its incredible how accurate this is the victim gets expelled while the bully suffers no consequences and continues to bully until someone dies Edit: I love that there's an argument on how many kids kill themselves a year
Its so crazy seeing him painted as a hero out of the context of the rest of the movie. Such good writing that you can take almost any individual scene and he is seen as the protagonist, though hes the main antagonist.
Aside from the father saying that the son breaking a ruler on his face was awesome, the fake goatee on the bully’s face is the craziest thing in this video 😂
🎬Movie: The Guest (2014)
had that on my Netflix list for a looong time
God damn I’ve never had a clip make me want to jump on watching the whole movie like this lol
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Bruh the part of punishing the bullied kid instead of the bully is super realistic
Yup my hs had the same policy if you got bullied you were part of the problem it’s just a way for shitty school system to pass on issues to another school kept me from beating some losers ass until I saw him outside of school kids are tough when they know you both go down for their bs but when it’s out in the open things change
A lot of bullies are the offspring of so-called "educators".
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@@BEASTLYDROKyeah policies like that suck. So dumb
The problem is it is
It's always "zero tolerance" after the victim fights back
So true !
Yep, teaching kids from a young age to never fight back and we wonder why newer generations are spineless in this country.
@@BlueSoulGamerexactly!
@BlueSoulGamer it's not spineless, it's no longer trusting authority figures, refusing to stand up for others, long term psychological damage, and just hate for society as a whole. Some may just become cowardly, others end up despising the country as a whole for creating a system and then being insulted for bringing it up.
...
"do you want to sue them?"
"no."
"were going to sue you."
that was funny.
The principal knows it's negotiable if she doesn't want to do that. It also happens with companies, if they know their client doesn't want to sue on principal but for personal damages they'll settle out of court to keep it out of public view if they know it'll make them look bad and that they'd lose.
@@JoseSerrato0420 I would have negotiated down to 2 weeks of detention.
@@fleatactical7390 yeah i fully expected the dad to negotiate that
@@fleatactical7390 IF the bully also gets detention.
Dad asked her "Are you on board?"
Mom said "N-no i dont really.."
Dad just cuts her off and goes "Well fuck you then"
LOVE IT!
"Our school has a zero-tolerance policy on violence."
"Well, the other kid put their hands on our kid and stabbed him with a sharpened pencil. If he was an adult that'd be battery and assault with a deadly weapon."
"No not that kind violence. We only have zero tolerance for what occurs after kids stick up for themselves against bullies. Not for everything the bullies do to provoke it."
true
Yeah how come they did not mentioned he freshly sharpened pencil stab on his neck/ spinal cord area!? That’s huge is it not? Could be deadly if not just detrimental for the guy.
@@YoSpongebobbecause He didn't tell them
Omg some dbag did this to me in elementary school.. I guess I did not trust my parents enough and suffered in silence (never told them). But somehow I must have gotten out .. school was tough then.. 😢😢😢 I bet he grew up to be a real sadistic person..
@@ryandidehban695he should’ve ! 😢😢😢
"Zero tolerance" is code for "We love the bullies of our school"
So fucking god damn true
"Their parents donate a lot of money to this community"
it's actually code for ; "we dont want to do our jobs because trying to find out what actually happened is work and we cant have that"
Real zero tolerance could at least expel them both...
Job Corps. Fuck their Government program and their Zero Tolerance BS
That was clear self-defence. He got stabbed in the back of the neck with a freshly sharpened pencil.
lol Im surprised the guy wasn't bleeding from the pencil.
I'm surprised this wasn't brought up at all in the interaction between the adults and the principal.
Lol right? "Oh he called me names" not "oh he stabbed me and called me a name, then threw me against the wall to try to continue beating me after I retaliated"
He's lucky he didn't catch the pointy end of the broken yard stick
@@anthonydavis5288yea maybe because it was a poke and not a full stab probably still sung like hell tho
My son’s middle school tried that with me. I dialed my lawyer, right in the Principal’s office. Put him on speaker and asked him how hard would it be to sue the school district, the bullies parents, etc. (I had been documenting EVERYTHING, and had it on my phone, emailed it to him right before I got to the school.) My lawyer started saying what could happen if I went ahead and sued. Words like ,”pain and suffering, CPSD, therapy bills, pressing charges, etc”. Needless to say, MY son didn’t get suspended and the school district made sure NOBODY ever messed with my son again. (The lawyer was an ex boyfriend of mine😂😂.) The only reason the school finally cared was because money would have been involved. People suck.
that’s what had to happen for me too when I was in high school for the school to get their ducks in a row. I had medical issues and the school refused to adhere to my medical plans and restrictions.. going as far to even say they lost the papers when they were visibly sitting on the top of an untouched stack right on the corner of their desk. As SOON as we threatened to sue, they started apologizing and trying to rectify the situation. They had ruined my chances at graduating, and after the threat to take legal action, they suddenly had the ability to provide me with options that were previously unmentioned. Absolutely disgusting
@maryannwatkins7166 your a W mother or father idk I don’t wanna assume
Thank you. Because of you, I will use this info in the future when I have a kid.
I’m a lawyer, what’s up momma bear?
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This made me happy. They’re always defending the damn bully and not the one actually being bullied…
Which is exactly why I stopped trying to defend myself when I was being bullied.
As rulers, especially Scamperial rulers, tend to see it, bullies make ideal enforcers of their utopia, where they get to be the rulers of us all. Peace at any price, as long as it’s not them who has to pay it.
Not a feel-good movie, however
@@JateGuitar reality can be a pain but lets face it..if this can show the world what happen to the bully
Honestly, this portrays school accurately. Punish the victim, not the bully. It's like arresting a stabbing victim for trying to fight off their stabber.
And that's the messed up part, because here in Ontario you're supposed to go above and beyond to get away from the attacker. Self defense laws are a joke here.
Oh, but that happened in New York!😢😢😢😢
It’s not just “like” that. As another comment said, the bully clearly was preparing to stab him in the back of the neck with a freshly sharpened pencil.
Exactly man, it's bullshit. When I was 16 I was being picked on and I fought back and I got suspended, what the f**k?
In Illinois you cant fight back if someone attacks you unless you have no escape. If you can run away and you fight back you get charged.
"What about after school detention??"
"Nah, hell be able to afford private tuition when we finish eviscerating your budget."
This is right answer here!!
"Eviscerating" I LOVE IT 🤣🤣🤣
It was for the bully, not the victim
@@powerman9923 it was probably for both cause parents of the bully will probably sue if the bullied kid doesn’t get in any trouble.
....holy
Are we going to ignore the fact that he was defending himself after BEING STABBED IN THE NECK? That's attempted murder. Forget what he called you, he tried to KILL you.
@@Gray_Box Found the bully! How about keeping your hands to yourself before someone justifiably breaks them for you?
@@Gray_Boxif it hurts its assault
@@luna84_aggravated assault, as it was battery with a weapon intending to cause harm but without the intent to kill. I would hope the bully isn’t so stupid as to try and kill someone in front of a crowd.
@@Gray_Box How many kids you bully in middle school?
@@Gray_BoxRight. Try to get 'poked' by a freshly sharpened pencil and come back and tell us again how'd you like it.
Bingus
How so?
@@ProleDaddybecause some people in this world need to be punched to learn to stop doing bullcrap to others. Words are not always going to be the answer.
It's so sad but true....my cousin was kicked out of some university in FL for standing up for one of his friends. His parents are strict as hell and took away his phone but me n my siblings n his we're all like you did good J.
Kids that refuse to be bullied are just bully's. Good try tho
really?
Why do schools do this. If you portray a bully as a innocent kid then he will just hurt more people
It's easier the day of. It also makes people not go to them making their job easier in the future as well.
@@secretsmith813that actually makes a lot of sense, the part you mentioned about them trying to make people not wanna go to them for help to make their own jobs easier.
Usually bullys like these are.... how can you say it "socially challenged" so you can't really act on them whitout a shitshow.
If you still haven't figured out that schools set children up for violence on purpose then there just isn't anything left to say
Because it's a he said/ she said situation and kids need to learn restraint for the real world
My mother used to say to me:
“You don’t need to throw the first punch, but you sure as hell better throw the last.”
Remember you don't get in trouble if they hit first
Wise words of hers!
I used to say to my younger brother that No matter what, don't start the fight, but if the fight has started, make sure to win.
That's funny because my Dad taught me not to be a bully but if shit hits the fan don't ever tell someone to hit me first because that may just be the hit to knock me tf out so always take the first punch if it comes down to that 😂🤷🏻♀️
Wise Mum .. !!!!
The Guest is a low-key classic. A simple movie done well. It’s really a shame this isn’t more popular or well-known.
Thank you for giving the name of the movie this is from!
I absolutely love the first part of the movie. It took a weird turn in the second part, but it was still well done despite the direction the story took.
@@Crispy1961there was no weird turn
I almost doubt you watched the movie
Bro was dark and sketchy from the start
The father does not promote violence, he demands that the school be fair. I'm glad he defended himself.
He ain’t the father, he’s a guest of the house just looking out for the kid
You should probably watch the movie lol
Schools give bullies a slap on the wrist every time, no suspension, no detention or ISS. But the second a bullied kid pushes back, all of a sudden they give a shit.
The problem is most times bullies don’t go this overboard to the point of causing a scene etc the victim who’s had enough is the one who punches or does something violent most times bullies push or bug you to get a reaction. School policy is no violence so if you are getting bullied stop worrying about “being a snitch” or what people would think and just report it
It’s not what you know, it’s what you can prove. Evidence. Record it
It's to change the psychology of the population. It has worked very well.
@@ChillinWill your kidding right
@@ChillinWill you've clearly never been bullied
"What did the kid call him? That's irrelevant."
Accurately describes real life situations like this
What real life situations? where is the proof?
Yeah, that’s right you have no proof of it
Now move along
@@skyler862 what are you talking about? You're asking for proof of bullying in schools? tf are you on buddy
@@skyler862100% homeschooled
Who hurt you@@SadisticMindz
@@skyler862It's fascinating that your brain couldn't comprehend the whole message being told here. Do principal or whoever in charge of the school disclose information like its candy? Think about that first and then we move onto the next part of the conversation.
Am aware thinking is hard so please, take all the time you need.
The inverse happened to me:
Bully physically pushed me down to the ground on a muddy day at school, staining my clothes in front of the whole grade.
I was angry and verbally retaliated by yelling at him “Fuck you” a couple times and walking away to the front office to get a change of clothes.
As far as the school was concerned, we were in equal amounts of trouble all bc I said a bad word and that was somehow equal to this dude physically attacking me while I was minding my own business.
The school staff LITERALLY said if I want to get him in trouble then I get in trouble too with the same punishment, either that or I just drop it altogether.
School bullying policies are a fucking joke that benefit the bully more than the innocent kid. In my case the bully was physical and I retaliated verbally which makes it even more of a joke.
If you're gonna get in trouble regardless, why not make the bully regret being born?
I love how teachers tell you to to say if you're getting bullied and then if you say something it gets worse and worse until you lash out and then you get in trouble. But the bully never does.
"Do you wanna sue them?"
...
"We're suing you" 😂😂😂
"hate crime" lol. no wonder world has no respect for America anymore
Oh how fast he switch up his tone after the word “sue” came out.
It’s hilarious but sad how true this can be.
Bullying is not wrong until the bullied kid fights back.
-every school ever.
And everyone sees past it except for the system
i had luck on one of my schools.. one time, i fight back.. i never got in trouble for that
"Every school ever"
Prove it. Oh wait - you can't
Notice how quick his attitude changes when he threatens to get lawyers involved
My dad would always be proud of me standing up to bullies in school. Didnt matter if i got expelled or not
Some people don't understand how much bullying can ruin a person's life
It’s a hit or miss, either benefit or not. This is straight hate crimes so this won’t benefit anyone.
I got bullied when I was 12, and I couldn't go to middle school and dropped out of high school because of my depression and social anxiety. :D
But Thank God, he gave me time to follow Jesus and stay focus on him.🙏❤️😊
@@jaybuck9124amen 🙏
Ong I was bullied for being short during middle school but I turned out normal and not affected by it after i accepted that my height was a predetermined genetic I stopped caring.
Not sure what I was bullied for - I suspect it was because it was my slow speech pattern - but I lifted weights and let their words roll off me like water and pinned them to the floor or wall, forcing them to submit anytime they'd get physical.
Was it easy to ignore their words? No. But it did help that my role model growing up strongly encouraged me to defend myself from violence by being more violent.
I used to get bullied a lot all the way through high school, and it got so bad that one day I had a sit down with the principal and vice principals, plus the school counselor. I remember my father telling me during that meeting that he didn't give a fuck about the school's "zero tolerance" policies. Told me in front of everyone that I had his permission to stand up for myself and defend myself. I remember my mom telling me that if I ever got suspended for sticking up for myself, we'd go and fucking celebrate. I know lots of people say their parents aren't cool, but this was a certified "cool parents" moment.
Dumbfucks will say that parents defend their kids from teachers too much, but the truth is that the education system has always been a stagnated piece of shit
Your parents wore the crowns WELL!
That's that Old School Policy -- Take No Shit, Guard Your Grill, Take No Prisoners, Fuck Their Feelings.
#70sBaby80sKid ... YOU know what it IS...!
My parents were the same way.
Well Mine however, I just took their insults as a Joke instead of getting triggered and i insulted them back in a Jokingly way and a few months later they left me alone Lol
@@Memesifoundonfacebook I did the same thing here in Brazil (I'm Brazilian) and now I'm friends with the bully.
In school they don't teach you to stand up for yourself, they teach you to be a defenseless sheep. That is why the bullied kid gets the heavier punishment for acting on his own will.
For women, it's 'bend over.'
For men too.
"never start fights. But sure as hell end'em"
- my dad
"I broke a yard stick on his face"
"Awesome"
😂😂
A true father
Hey back in my day this was reality and we didn’t have kids hitting teachers and cops because we all learned in school how to treat others or get a bloody nose ❤
@@diannekelly3319how it should be
Its not so much that, its that teachers where a point of authority and you learnt to respect that and they treated you with respect as a example. They didn't pretend to be your friend, they didn't give you there first name to call them, it was Sir or Mr X. They punisehed everyone not just the bully or the bulled they made it everyone's problem and taught others to look out for each other or the whole system turns to crap.@@diannekelly3319
What was the word? 😨🫣😵💫
I got punished a lot for fighting back. You’re damn right I’ll stand up and yell at someone to stop touching me from behind!
I also nearly died in a locker room because a girl headlocked me and tried to bash my face in. Don’t ask me why, I didn’t speak to her that day and she just randomly took it too far. She was apologetic when she realized that day her ass got handed to her when the school FINALLY stepped in!
Adults become violent & cruel because of society but children are becoming more cruel than adults. The cruelty & violence portrait by teenagers is alarming. When the parents wake up? Would they ever be? When will the society!!
Headlock or none I'd be fighting back girl or not
Cool story. No one asked
@@nldm561why tf you being an asshole for,he's just telling his story?
Idk what this ‘you can’t hit a girl even if she starts it but a boy can’t’ is about but damn right I’d use self Defense. I hope ur ok tho
Punishing the victim for sticking up for himself, accurate description of all schools UK or USA. In the UK teachers ENCOURAGE bullying and whenever the victim stands up for themselves they get punished and sometimes even arrested if the teachers call the cops.
It happens around the world and most of the time there's no investigation done. The school sometimes decide who to punish by their background,race,capabilities to contribute funds to the school,connections between them and the list can go on. Those being raised in a single parent household are usually blamed to be the bully since they "lack parental love and guidance".
The amount of principals that are like this is insane.
Every principle in every school is just like this!!!
The dad's smile when he said awesome. That's how you know he's proud of him.
not his dad. he actually tried to kill him in the movie
@@300murder4hireboyz The fuck? I need to watch this movie now.
What is it @@300murder4hireboyz
not his dad apparently not even related to him if you watch the movie !!
@@isaias9319 It's called The Guest
Schools: Stand up for yourself!
Also Schools: Hey thats not nice to punch a kid even if you’re trying to stand up for yourself, expelled!
if the guy told me that im calling his wifes and kids saying hes aint coming for dinner today
So true 😑😑
schools do not advocate for standing up for yourself lol. you are just making that up
Hypocrisy
At the school I went to, my younger brother went to, and my younger sister now goes to, you can honestly see the difference in discipline. When I went, you fight whether you're bully or bullied you go to highpoint. When my brother went, you weren't allowed to defend yourself and if you did, not only did you get suspended but you also went to highpoint after, and for longer before you were allowed to return to school. Now that my lil sis is going, let's just say, the school may look 10x better than we went, but it's a shit ton worse. Good thing she isn't as rowdy as we were. But other things are so wrong with that school.
"Due to the victim defending themselves, we have no choice but to protect the bully"
All parents should be like him honestly
Zero tolerance is one of the absolute worst policies in a school. It only benefits the bullies.
It teaches if you fight back make it worth it
Just like how guns are illegal in primarily democrat states , yet crime is exponential in these places (California, New York )
@@brendon7638 ok, how is that even allowed? like sure i understand banning SOME guns, but if those states made every gun illegal? that's literally unconstitutional and violates the second amendment
@@lugismansion2400be real for a second, do you think our government, the same government that's been lying and scamming us all these years with bogus promises, price increases, and laws gives a damn about breaking the constitution.
I mean for goodness sake there also breaking the law by having congress members still in office way WAY past there time they should of been removed,
Rigging votes overnight by forging votes of people who are dead, there were more votes than there were people on the planet for Biden and Trump combined.
@@lugismansion2400Be real for just a second, do you think our government, the same government that's been lying and scamming us all these years with bogus promises, corruption, price increases, and laws gives a damn about breaking the constitution.
I mean for goodness sake there also breaking the law by having congress members still in office that should have been gone ages ago,
Rigging votes overnight by forging votes of people who are dead, there were more votes than there were people on the planet for Biden and Trump combined.
Heck UA-cam just shadowbanned this comment when I first wrote it, if that doesn't prove this corruption idk what will. That's right youtube I know what your trying to pull😡
i love how the principal got quiet when the word "hate crime" popped up
hate crime only applies for the protected class
@@bimbumaru Probably applies just fine if you act as if you believe they were a protected class. Stabbing and using slurs against someone you believe is gay? Pretty sure you don't have to be gay for that to be a hate crime.
@@kingsalmon2315 christian straight white men are not a protected class. so one cannot commit hate crimes against them.
Hate crimes don't exist. Assault was the crime the bully should be charged with. In America, you are allowed to hate but you are not allowed to assault people. The "hate crime" approach is absolute trash. You can tag "hate crime" to literally any crime if you play enough mental gymnastics
@@BroWithTheFro Can't we do both? Hate crimes and assault at the same time?
guy: "i'm sueing you...."
expeler: instantly changes demeanor
lmao i love how taking this scene out of context and putting this music under it makes it look like a completely different movie
"Do you, wanna sue them?"
"Uhh i-i don't uh-"
"We're sueing you and the school board"
W dad
Must be money problem you know lawyers are expensive
L Mom
@@danielschwager1209you don't have a mom Danny boy. Just dads
@@mclovin1546 you have to know m8
A true loving father and a man will defend his son and not put the anger towards his son. The boy is in good hands.
Yeaaaaah. This is one of my favourite movies. I'd suggest watching it
Then the father figure kills everybody
@@Finndl101 what's the name of the movie
@@abhy6919 "The Guest" from 2014
Not the father also he kills everyone in the boys family in the end
“What about after school detention?”
“No.”
😂😂
"Too late. See you in court."
He seems like a nice guy, I really hope he doesn’t end up unaliving everyone
“I don’t want to”
“We’re sueing you and the school” 😂
Someone had to stand up bro
She only said “I don’t” before finishing the sentence. The intended sentence could have been “I don’t know” before she got cut off
@@ignisofficialgamingthat’s true
Instructions unclear
Now facing up 20 years in prison
For Murdering the family of the person that called me Dumb
She was really about to let the school get away with the bs
_"A month."_
"I think a week would be more appropriate, don't you?"
detention for the bully or victim?
I think you need to stay in school, and learn how quotes work, don't you?
@@yourface3154
Huh?
@yourface3154 Wtf are you yapping about?
@@xenaguy01He thinks you’re not using quotes right but he doesn’t understand this is your quotes. 😂
I just love Dan Steven’s in this movie, the line delivery of “that seems fair” is so on point
What movie is this?
@@DansrgurlIt’s called the guest from 2014
Such a supportive parents can boost the self esteem of any kid❤❤❤
Man David Haller destroyed reality and still made time for his kids at school, what a great dad 👨
I understood that reference
Legion?
@@luckyloser1946yes legion
I thought I was the only person to have seen Legion.
@@ezriderdznutztillyomomzcomhome legion is goated idc what anyone says
What’s funny is schools are actually like this, they don’t give a fuck about bullying and when somebody sticks up for themselves, they get in trouble
This one time, back in 4th grade, I was talking to my teacher, and this one kid (who's from the hood lmao) jumped in and said something (I forgot if it was disrespectful or not). And I got irritated at him for not minding his business and eventually I said I was gonna punch him in his fac and he said to do it, but I flinched at him and he quickly got up and started punching me. I didn't lay a finger on him, because I had no actual intentions of fighting him and later on he said he did it because he thought I was actually gonna do something.
I ended up getting a harsher punishment. I DID KINDA start the fight, but like not verbally.
AITA?
100%
Well that's why the government hates the 2nd, teach you not to stand up for yourself.
🎯💯 but they’ll hang up banners in the hallways like “stop bullying” or “tell an adult” it’s BS
Passei 2 anos sofrendo bullying de 6 alunos e quando revidei, acabou com 1 deles em coma pois bati com cabeça de 1 no ferro, fui suspenso, mas só não fui expulso do colégio pois viram nas câmeras que faziam isso com muitos alunos...
As a person who grew up in a special ed program were i was relentlessly bullied and fighting i never once got the end of the stick were i wasn’t at fault not to say i didn’t start my own fights sometimes but still it truly is a horrible thing i had to go through and i wouldn’t wish it on anyone its a true miracle im not in some jail cell at this point it took a lot of mental work to move on from the part of my life which has left a great deal of trauma on me.
Remember there is always someone somewhere to talk to and you can get through it, things do get better In Time, you got this, you are strong, you are loved.❤
One of the most underrated films of the last 20 years.
He wasn't just called a derogatory word, he was physically attacked by the bully first
So that wasn’t derogatory, and watch the video again he was called it, then poked in the neck with a sharp pencil
@@A-Warthog-wm1oq Are we watching the same thing? He was called a fa***t, which is derogatory...
Other comment must be a bully sympathizer or some weird shit
@@A-Warthog-wm1oqhuh?
@@Danymok read what he said... he said the derogatory phrase wasn't the only factor. the stabbing was the other.
Deadass we need more people to stand up for their kids like this. those teachers and principals don’t care, it’s not their kids.
Yeah...watch the movie...it's pretty damn good.
I think the principals do care, just not the teachers. If the principal doesn't care you have the right to sue.
@@Guandiliciousname of the movie? Please and thank you
@@Oakland9600"The Guest"
as a teacher I can tell you many of us care, we wouldn't put in the crazy hours for this pay if we didn't want to be there for the kids
the guy who said "awesome" and defended the kid is an absolute g
My son got bullied once & beat the breaks off the kid. I was called in & they tried punishing my kid (in school suspension at another school) for defending himself (after being surrounded & had no choice but to fight his way out. I made it crystal clear my son did the RIGHT thing & will NOT be punished. In fact, he's gonna have a nice, 1 week vacation. And if the bully who went after my son isn't disciplined, I'm bringing in the news & a lawyer. 1 week later, the other kid was relocated. Found out this was a pattern with this bully that the school let continue.
That's some bs, I'm glad your son was able to defend himself in that situation
W parent. A similar situation happened to me as a kid and my mom beat the fuck outta me regardless of me needing to defending myself in the situation.
Sucks to hear ur kid have to go through that.💯
I been in the same situation so many times.
Teachers dont do shit but when the victim decides they had enough and runs it up, they treat us like the Green Goblin😂
I never understood that logic. If u properly defend me, I wont have to do it myself🤷🏾♂️
@MADLADCOMICS damn, sorry to hear that. I think every mother should advocate for their kids. It's hard enough in school, then to have your parents punish you for defending yourself just makes it worse. Hope your out of school by now.
@chriss.249 The truth of the matter is, school sucks! Always had even when i was in high school. Thank God i was never bullied, but i was raised by a father & brothers, so i was taught to fight & stand up for myself since i was very young. So when i had my 2 sons, i immediately taught them to do the same. Never be a bully, but always defend yourself & know your worth. And if anyone ever puts their hands on you to hurt you, don't even think. React! Never start a fight, but if you're unfortunately forced into one, make sure you finish it! I don't believe fists are a 1st resort, ever! But if that time ever came, they should always be prepared & not afraid to stand up for themselves.
It’s not just bullying it’s harassment. Harassment should be taken seriously in schools especially if it escalates to violence
Bullying is harassment.
@@Nionivek that’s my point
@@Nionivek correct. Bullying is simply a more specific and more severe version of harassment.
Harassment is just non repetitive bullying.
Harassment, by definition, is repetitive
"Hate Crime" should not b a slap on the hand by the School Police(ies), School Board(s) & School Principle(s), in ANY SCHOOL!
I had a similar experience, I was bullied a lot in primary school (although fortunately I don't remember much about that time) apparently I used to come home crying and didn't want to go to school.
One day this boy was bothering me in class, pulling my hair and things like that, I got up and hit him in the face making his nose bleed. Of course they sent me to the principal, they reprimanded me and called my mom, they wanted her to discipline me too, but she basically said:
"No, my daughter has been bullied for a long time and you didn't do anything, now she defended herself and I'm not going to make her feel bad about it."
Bruhhhh the school wouldn't punish the victim of bullying who fights back only if you threaten to sue them. That totally explains the quality of their justice system.
Yeah, usually works because no one wants to deal with law suits, they take long and are just annoying. It’s a great scare tactic. They just don’t want bad publicity.
Unfortunately that's how my high-school works
The government hates people that fight back. School is an indoctrination operation. Therefore those who naturally fight injustice and don’t put up with bullshit are punished and reprogrammed.
I remember a kid named Alaa, he was new, couldn’t speak Danish yet, because he was a war refugee from Palestine. He was bullied because his face was all scared up. One day he threw a milk holder (not the carton, but a plastic holder) at the kids that beat him daily, and the next day he was never seen again.
It’s crazy that a kid that has been bombed almost to death, beaten everyday for a couple weeks stands up for himself once, and gets expelled for it.
@@Cobra-zv5db My condolences, It is a sad reality, isn't it???😔😔😔
Its clearly self defence. The guy stabs him in the back, he strikes him back. The guy throws him on the ground. He the picks up the closest object and hits the attacker to subdue him.
Seriously. Hate crime? The kid freaking STABBED him. The writers lost the plot to their own freaking show lol
No. Just no. Case law dictates that self-defense must be reasonable, timely, AND proportional. This was not. Getting shoved down and having your “attacker” turn away from you does not reasonably give the notion that you will be attacked again. Furthermore, the time it took the kid to get back up, grab a yard stick and hit him with it makes it untimely as well. As for proportional, getting poked with a pencil does not give you the right to punch somebody in the nose. That is assault. Is it fair? Everyone has opinions. Is it the law? Yes.
@@masonsullivan2928 people like you, protecting those that hurt others under loopholes and isms, are what is wrong with the world.
He was not *poked* by a pencil he was *stabbed* @@masonsullivan2928
@@masonsullivan2928Also, the attacker literally turned away and then turned back to the victim when he got hit by the stick, meaning there was reason to believe the bully might attack again
This is accurate af
A decade ago I was in primary school and I got bullied by a kid during 6 years, one day, he started to hit me and I fought back with a punch in his face and a kick in his balls, I almost got expelled from my school because I broke his nose. It wasn't until 4 th grade that they expelled him because we put a report in the local police station after I came back to home with my nose and mouth bleeding after an entire hour of getting physsically abused by that kid. It's funny that they expel the innocent for fighting back before expelling the bullies for bullying.
Love how fast the punishment from the Principal went from extreme to being reasonable for a fight in school. 😅
You know that’s a good actor when he makes you mad.
Yes. This exactly.
Which one was supposed to make us mad?
@@JoseRodriguez-eu5ezthe principal ofc
The bully qnd the principle @@JoseRodriguez-eu5ez
The bully im guessing.@@JoseRodriguez-eu5ez
And would you believe, this exact same thing happened to my son in school yesterday. He took 5 cuff to the head from a girl-bully. He spin upwards and fired 1 swift uppercut to her jaw and sent her straight to the floor.
My husband had to go into the school meeting today to discuss the situation. He told the Principal, the Dean and the class teacher who also collected 3 slap from the girl-bully, that if my son ever gets suspended or expelled, he was going straight into the Police Station to make an official report to go to Court. Then head down to the Ministry of Education to file a Bullying complaint against the School.
We parents have to start observing our kids and deferentiate who wants to learn from who are troublemakers in the school and society at large.
so your son hit a girl? way to teach em early. good kid
Hahaha imagine being a boy bullied by a girl... Maybe you should educate your son like a man. What's wrong with our society nowadays.
That never happened when I was bullied and even SA'd/R*ped in the boys locker room by a male classmate. Mom didn't even believe that happened to me, told me to ignore them, which is impossible. She didn't even fight for me, and corporal punished me after I defended myself after was attacked and called an ugly weakling by multiple students at the same.
@@mast3gam3r18absolutely horrifying
I just threatened the vice principal to make the 2 boys disappear if they didn't get in any trouble. Got a call from him my girlfriend answered and was told my daughter, 9th grade, was pinned down in class and she freaked out and was crying, I'm listening to my girlfriends reactions because I could tell something was wrong, he's playing it down with the whole boys will be boys, I'm thinking it's one of our younger daughters in elementary,, he wasn't going to do anything about it when gf tells me it's my oldest. I snatch the phone out her hands and told him that they are more than old enough to know better and if ANYONE ever does it again I will make them disappear. Now I've been called a psycho numerous times but many people, after stabbing 1 friend when I was ~9, trying to kill another at 10 and my grandfather as a teen I realized I needed to keep my sh*t together at all times and avoid confrontation because I black out. Point is it was not a pleasant polite kind of I'll k*ll your whole family kinda chat, it was intense. He apologized told me he would handle it and for me to have a good day. The next day he approaches my daughter and tells her that her dad is scary and never wants to make him mad.
The guest was an awesome movie
My school had a zero tolerance policy, and I personally got it abolished fast. My sister had a lot of friends and was very protective of me, so there was always a witness in my favor. It only took one bully to learn that I was to be left alone.
I was bullied a lot in school growing up and only after I started to protect myself did it ever stop. First time the bully even touched me, I laid him out flat (I fight dirty btw). School wanted to suspend only me and I told them I'd get a lawyer as I had at least 3 witnesses that could prove that the bully started the fight by laying his hands on me, I merely protected myself. Principal stated the zero tolerance policy and I immediately then said then the bully should get the same punishment since it was his fault for putting me in danger. I also warned the principal I would tell everyone how the school wants to punish the victims and not the actual aggressors. First time I ever saw a person's face go pale.
Bully got suspended for a week while I got no punishment, and the policy was gone by the end of that week. Overall violence in the school dropped once word got around that the victims could now fight back as hard as they wanted and not get in trouble.
Edit: Mind you this was back in the 1990s before cameras and smartphones were commonplace everywhere.
In the words of Tyrion: “Never forget what you are, for surely the world will not. Make it your strength. Then it can never be your weakness. Armor yourself in it, and it will never be used to hurt you.”
He's the smartest Lannister for sure
you quoted this so poorly and I am displeased
@@mcleo1212 I believe that’s the book quote sir
@@mcleo1212he did it right just in a different way but still the same he didn’t say were it like a armor and it can never be use to hurt you but saying armor yourself in it is still the same different way but same meaning
@@mcleo1212what is it your Bible shut up dude it was close enough
Somehow the rule “zero tolerance” only counts when the bullied kid fights back
What’s with these censors? Censoring the words “his” or “broke” is just stupid.
The only thing the Zero tolerance policy does is make bullying more rampant because if the assailant attacks they get a lighter punishment but if the assailant attacks and the victim retaliates then both are given equally harsher punishments. Which does nothing but tell the victim to not fight back, but hell with the rule, stand up for yourself regardless.
Nah, makes the bullys, aim for people who won't fight back, a good few stepped to me, and the punishment is the same if you punch them once, or stop them out, so it really encourages you to go all the way if you gotta go at all.
I definitely disagree with the policy tho, means nobody else is gonna be willing to so much as pull someone off of you, bc then they're "involved" in the fight.
Nah man when I was in high school zero tolerance was for anyone "involved" didn't matter if you hit back or not or if you were even actually involved. I got a 3 day suspension one bc 2 kids were fighting and one of them fell into me pushing me into the lockers causing me to black out woke up and was told I was being suspended for being "involved" 😡 asked wth I was supposed to do when they were fighting 5 feet from the classroom I was headed to and was told I should have turned around and gone the long way which with how big my school was would have took about 5 minutes and the warning bell had already rung zero tolerance is bs
Apuñale a uno de mis bullies solo me expulsaron jaja
Teach your kids to be respectful. And how to stick up for and defend themself this is a golden example
How many of us went through this in school? The sad thing is when some kids take revenge on their bullies too far, and we see the school shutting because the may problem was never resolved. Stop bullies in schools.
Back in the day I used to get bullied, at some point my parents simply said "if someone hits you, hit them back and win, we'll handle the consequences".
you better not throw the first punch, but you better throw the last damn punch
-mom
I am going to use this quote and refer to @imjackduncan’s mother bc this is amazing🤣
,
Good on ya mom! I'm right there with you 💖
🎯🎯🎯 this mom, too
I tell my daughters the same.
I love when the father protects his child like that.
Don't think he was the kids father... He seemed more like a lawyer..
Guy is a killer.
Guy is a soldier in the same team as the kid's now deceased older brother to take care of the family as older bros dying wish. Twist happens and chaos ensues
@@halvinalvinse nota que no viste la película. Las apariencias engañan.el mato a su madre del niño
Wish I had one fr 🔥
Dan Stevens will ALWAYS be daddy.
Take my childhood for example. Parents divorced before I was born (always far apart), an older brother who as a kid was more of a bully than a brother, I was held back twice (probably undiagnosed learning disability or depression), & constantly had some kids act standoff-ish toward me bc I was a little bit bigger & they felt threatened. I was rarely physically bullied but many kids verbally bullied me in every way. I'd NEVER go back. Not every childhood is the same. As an adult you realize who had a privileged upbringing by how they treat children/ child victims. I too faced time out from school for defending other kids after a bully was on the bus punching everyone in the nuts thinking its funny. I never even laid a hand on him & was punched 6 times in the forehead. Thankfully my friend next to me was bigger & pushed him off. I still was punished by the school. I didn't care at the time but even if it was a few days, it was still wrong. Especially when the kid is already struggling academically. It seems like its only getting worse these days in our schools.
True. I was being raised by a single mom who was barely able to make ends meet and was barely able to pay for my education(all of my scholarship applications were denied every year even though she was barely making more than 200 per month but the kids of doctors or other well paid jobs were offered scholarships that lasted until they graduated university). I was bullied on a daily basis and the teachers keep saying that I must have done something to be constantly bullied(the counselor found out that I was innocent when she called the bullies into the staff room and demanded an explanation for their constant bullying. They couldn't even answer her question and when she asked if they were bullying without reason, they just looked at the floor). No apologies from the teachers and I had a bad reputation for fighting(defending bully victims but even just using myself to shield the victim from potential attacks was considered fighting since it's equivalent to starting a fight). When the new principal transferred to my school, the teachers were adamant that she immediately expelled me(they listed down the things I've done that shows how I was a bad influence on others. Even the rumors about me flying around the school were on the list(about me being a gangster and involved with a local gang,violent behavior,practicing occult and countless others). I was just lucky that the principal did her own investigation and stood firm on her decision that I wasn't going to be expelled for things I didn't do. They weren't happy that I was staying and tried to change her mind. Eventually she pointed out how biased they were and how I was just doing their jobs to protect other students because they couldn't be bothered(prefects turned a blind eye as well). I did panic when the principal called me into her office and told me to bring my mom to her on report card day. I thought I was going to be suspended or expelled and was mentally preparing myself for an earful from my mom. Turns out she was concerned about my mental well-being and talk to my mom about it(I'm not the type to admit that I was struggling mentally to the teachers because I was usually made the laughing stock and class scapegoat). The principal did tell her about what she discovered about the past 3 years and told my mom that she was actually grateful for me for protecting the weaker students from the bully gangs(claimed that my mom should be proud of me and ignore what the teachers claimed about my true character). I'm grateful that I got a wonderful principal but it still didn't stop the bullying I received until graduation. Most of the teachers remained biased and even spoke poorly about me after I graduated(bad mouthed the principal for keeping me in the school instead of immediately expelling me).
they completley forgot to put into account the fact that dude literally STABED HIM WITH A SHARPENED PENCIL like. that's violent af.
Yeah but you know, they care about you more if you’re a minority whose rights are being violated. He being stabbed alone means nothing, being stabbed cause you’re gay however…
They didn’t mention that for some reason. You would think that would be very handy in defending your case but I guess calling someone a name is more important.
@@mrgodzillaraptors8632 lol ya know...but honestly I'd press charges and sue the parent plus the school just for their kimumpents
@@selenamoreno7689 seeing this is an expensive school, you are gunna need a bit of help. Odd are, the school wins
I've been bullied out of school, on my senior year. My principles were always downplaying the way I was bullied, so I started to fight back and even hurt one girl breaking her wrist. and I was also being a target for one teacher who was a racist and also bullied me with the few students who were willing... My mom wanted to sue but we did not have the finances to gain an attorney at that time. My mom pulled me out of school to stop the bullying, but I didn't want to be pulled out so I got back into school and placed at another district. That new school was amazing, but the traumatic moments I had in the previous school got to me, as I started to get constant anxiety attacks, faint spells, and much more happening to me. The school couldn't handle me fainting a lot...so once again I was pulled out, homeschooled and now here I am an ex college student. Even so, bullying can take a toll on someone, mentally and emotionally. Even physically.
Always check on children who have been bullied. You never know what they'll go through. Because even more will be on their shoulders that they would have to bear and endure. It's why some suicides happen too. Not many kids are heard. So be kind..
@@limundosel6284 there's nothing to lie about bullying. Now go touch grass, thanks.
@@limundosel6284 there's no lying about bullying. So who's lying? Go touch grass. It'll make you see the world better.
@@limundosel6284 no one was lying. There is no lying about bullying. Bet your mother never taught you morals.
@@HayatoPato stfu weeb stop projecting
@limundosel6284 stop being a.... BULLY💯
“awesome :)” same response my dad had when he came to get me from school for defending myself
The fact that the bully crying sounded like Morty 💀
My grandfather raised me to never start fights but always defend myself, he never got mad when i got in trouble for fighting as long as i didn't start it. I was the same way when raising my neices and nephews for 8 years and i had no problems with them.
Thats how i was raised, "Did you start it"
As “a lady”, my Dad taught me along the same lines, it was “don’t go around starting fights but make sure you can finish them”
I got 3 days of ISS for shoving a kid who was bullying me in the hall with his friends, he sprayed Axe all over the back of my head. I nearly shoved him down some stairs, he told the vice principal I punched him. "There would be serious damage to his face if I did." They wanted me to write a report on what happened and a formal apology, I refused. My mom forced me to do it so they wouldn't expel me. He only got a day of ISS. That's when I realized that it's not about the bullying, it's just about punishing anyone involved in an altercation. Teachers and school administrators get drunk on power over little kids!
Kids are also notorious for being liars and assholes. So if 2 kids come to you complaining with different stories and you don't have any other witnesses. Wtf else are you supposed to do?
I think being expelled is too much if they don't have proof though. Just give em detention for a bit. That's what my ghetto school did
What is ISS?
@@〆えき in school suspension
@@dragonleo2009 oh ok
Ok so I had a similar interaction except there was this massive Mexican kid in my art class who absolutely hated me and treated me like trash so I gave him the middle finger in class and told him to F off and he proceeded to throw me across the room literally and yet I got nearly a week of ISS and he only got 2 days but funny enough I got bailed out after 2 days cause I had a clean record and good behavior in school. I was a 96 pound and skinny kid
"stabs him with a sharp object"
tHAt Is NO ExCusE
The bleeping out of the word “his” is crazy
Principal: we can't protect your kid
My mom (to my brother): if you get jumped, you fight like your life is in danger
Principal: hey, you can't tell him that!
The thing about bullies is, they know the rules and they operate in the blank spaces between them. Make certain words punishable? They'll make up new words to express their hate and suffering. Zero tolerance for fighting? "I wasnt fighting, I was attacked and had to defend myself. I was just teasing him, how was I supposed to know he was so sensitive?"
Adult excuse that bullies act the way they do because they're suffering from insecurities is a lame excuse. They're not suffering they're just assholes. I was bullied during my years in school too much to believe that bulshit about them suffering. Would you make that excuse for Donald Trump?
“How often would you like to use this music?”
“Yes”
Words is NEVER a justifiable
reason to commit violence...
The "bully" was rude as hell...
But the "victim" is a sociopath
that is beyond pedagogical scope...
Did you black out for the part where the bully stabbed the guy in the back of the neck? Then after being punched in retaliation, grabbed him by the collar and slammed him against the wall? Both instances of violence from the victim were in response to violent provocation from the bully. It's people like you that make these "no tolerance" policies I keep hearing about, isn't it?
"Did he call him f***ot?"
"I don't think that's relevant"
OF COURSE IT'S RELEVANT
Edit: thank you so much for the likes this is the most I've ever gotten love you guys
😂😂
Only a weakling would give a shit about being insulted. Thin skinned people now man
Can you tell me what f***ot means???
@@iliairemadze1561 I'd rather not
@@iliairemadze1561 Search it up
I'm 62 years old. I was bullied most of my childhood, the worst of it being in middle school through 7th grade, which would have been in the early 1970s (for cultural reference) 7th grade would have been the 1974-75 school year. If you went to a teacher for help, even if the teacher did help, the bully would find a way to retaliate, maybe when you were leaving school for home, or during the dreaded walk through the woods to the high school for home ec class. So best not to involve teachers and take matters into your own hands, which was the only way you would get the respect of the bullies and their cronies. In my childhood, the little, scrawny kids never got picked on, because if the bullies did, the girls would give the bullies hell for not picking on someone their own size. So the popular targets for the bullies were the bigger kids who didn't fight back. My father, may he rest in peace, was my teacher and advocate for fighting back. He too was bullied, which was hard for me to imagine as a kid, because of his 6'3" size and intimidating demeanor. I eventually grew to 6'1", but in 7th grade, I was probably like 5'7" or so, but I was among the taller kids in my class.
By the time I got to 8th grade, I had finally had enough and had a massive chip on my shoulder. I had to fight my way through a bunch of lower-level punks, eventually gaining their respect until I was left alone by this group. Fights were not really fights, but tussles that were quickly broken up by a teacher, but as my father used to say, it didn't matter if you won or lost, you just had to make it difficult (and if possible, make it hurt) if they bullied you, so that they would move on to easier targets. I had one such tussle with a punk while watching health-oriented videos in the cafeteria... usually, I can remember perfectly what started every fight I had, but I honestly can't recall what he did to set me off, but he did. I took a couple of swings at him, connected with my left to his mouth, which left a tooth-shaped scar on the back of my left hand that has been visible most of my life since then... only in the past few years has it faded to being nearly invisible. The teacher sent us both to the principal's office. The principal said that he knew both of us and thus knew who started it. We were assigned "central detentions" which was that schools kind of ultimate punishment... I got one and the other guy got two or three. My point here is that, unless the teacher lives under a rock, or is a substitute, they know who the punks are and who the peaceful people are. They witness a lot of low-level bullying to know the score... which is why severe punishment of the bullying victim for retaliating seems like such a load of cr@p to me.
I eventually put myself in a situation to be confronted by the Number 2 bully in the school. He thought he could intimidate me, but I didn't back down. At the end of a lunch break, I was heading into the school building, and he was lurking by one of the entrances, waiting for me. I saw him there, and could have taken another route into the building, but I wanted to have it out with him. He stepped out of his "hiding" place to confront me, and I went ape-sh-t on him with a barrage of fists, that all he could do was to try to deflect my onslaught. It only lasted for a couple of minutes before a teacher broke it up, but that got him off my case. Now there was only one king bully left. He was sitting behind me. We were on the left edge of the classrom right next to a wooden "curtain" that could be opened to the adjacent classroom to make one huge classroom if necessary. He began "thwacking" my right ear with his finger. There was a girl sitting to his right who started warning him that he should stop doing that because my face was turning red. Indeed it was with white hot rage. He contined to thwack my ear every time the teacher turned her back to write something on the blackboard. Eventually I had enough, and abruptly stood up. We had those desks that were attached to the chair, so the whole thing tipped over and crashed onto the floor. In a move that I later learned that, in Tae Kwon Do, is called a spinning back fist, I spun to my right "cracking the whip" with my right hand and swung the back of my right fist for his head. Lucky for him, I only grazed him, or I could have done some serious damage with this move (it was one of my secret weapons when I did pursue a black belt in Tae Kwon Do in my adulthood). I knocked his glasses off his face and grazed his face. His glasses clacked against the wooden curtain to our left and fell on the floor. All of this commotion of my desk falling and his glasses clacking against the wall made more than a little noise, so the teacher turned around and stared at me, standing there. I quietly bent over to pick up my desk and sat back down. The teacher said nothing. Again, she knew who must have been the instigator. The king bully mumbled that he wouldn't thwack me anymore. Since nobody in the school would have dared to confront this guy, I had earned his respect and he and I ended up being, sort-of friends. When I started 9th grade, my family moved to another state and I had to go through the process of proving myself yet again. I actually got into some real fights rather than brief tussles, but the result was the same... I was left alone after proving myself a few times.
Thank you for sharing your story sir
My mum told me to punch them. All fights were after school due to the expulsion policy for fighting. Took about 4 fights to stop getting bullied but by high school no-one would mess with me. Even as an adult they kept well clear of me.
My friend used to get bullied alot he used to cry the teacher would tell him to shut it and stop we had a system of cards a yellow card warning is a small warning if you get 3 of them you get a red card which is a huge warning if you get 3 red cards your expelled he literally got 3 yellow cards for just crying and getting bullied he even got a red one because he got 3
This shit didn't happen. Maybe you getting bullied, but the angle of you being an angel of justice, bullshit.
@@Th1sIsMyLegacy can you prove that it didn't happen, maybe an explanation as long as the evidence they gave?
if anyone was wondering, a yardstick is basically a larger ruler
Its incredible how accurate this is the victim gets expelled while the bully suffers no consequences and continues to bully until someone dies
Edit: I love that there's an argument on how many kids kill themselves a year
In socialist countries, the bullies do the dirty work for the teachers...
Unfortunately this does happens, the victims are the ones who gets it from both sides ( bullies and the school ).
“ZeRo ToLeRaNcE” is a fucking joke 😂😂😂😂😂
That's why schools have shootings. Incompetent school staff.
This was definitely my experience, getting suspended everytime I fought back and nothing being done to defend me.
My guy did an entire heel face turn when he heard the word "Sue"
I love this guy, from Downton Abbey to The Guest, he’s a superb actor!
Its so crazy seeing him painted as a hero out of the context of the rest of the movie. Such good writing that you can take almost any individual scene and he is seen as the protagonist, though hes the main antagonist.
School: "We are making an Anti-bullying campaign ; stop those bullies!!"
Also school:
Let's stop Donald Trump, the biggest bully of them all.
Aside from the father saying that the son breaking a ruler on his face was awesome, the fake goatee on the bully’s face is the craziest thing in this video 😂
Wasn’t his father
He's a drifter. It's kind of like Drive but if Gosling's character had more charisma