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Well said sister, even one of my colleagues also did the same mistake just for a small problem she got divorce from her husband. Because of her mother she quarreld with her husband and divorced him. But now her mother settled with her son's family in abroad to take care of his kids. Now she is struggling a lot with her kids, only we friends are taking care of her kids in her absence,her husband got married and had kids. Now she is facing the hardship alone. So women should have atleast a minimum of patience for their life survival.
True💯
I pray for that sister
I am single Parent.Lost my life Partner 23 years Back.Financially I am.independent.But emotional dependent is with family member is important
Since her Financially she was strong .She would have joined some course or did small bussiness or some hobby to keep herself busy
Nuclear family non working women loneliness has made her take this decision
You are right should never get influenced by others
Well said akka. Because of social media everyone are in dreams only.
Hi sis, video last la எந்த ரெண்டு இருக்க கூடாதுனு சொன்னீங்களோ அந்த ரெண்டுமே என் வாழ்க்கையில இருந்தது. 6 வருடம் அப்படி தான் வாழ்ந்த வேற வழி இல்ல ரெண்டு குழந்தைங்க வேற அது க்கு அப்புறம் என் பொறுமைக்கு பரிசு கிடைச்ச மாதிரி என் கணவர் மாறிட்டரு.நானும் லவ் மேரேஜ் தான். நா வீட்ல இருக்கும் போதே என்னோட மாமியார் என் கணவருக்கு பொண்ணு பார்த்தாங்க. அப்போது கூட நா பொறுமையா அந்த வீட்ல தான் இருந்தேன்.இப்போது நாங்க நல்ல இருக்கோம்.jesus is good all tha time.
Hi sis நா உங்க வீடியோ 2 வருடம் பாத்துட்டு இருக்க நாங்க லவ் marriage no family support na BE complete panniruka but na job ku poogala we have two children one girl one boy starting romba kasta pattom yengaaluku marriage aagi 8years complete aachu we both of them have understand each other. yentha relations solarthum keka mattom including parents because both of them love marriage by god's grace yenga life romba super ah poitu iruku my husband n me doing own business n shops with our hard work n lot of efforts .My husband give me all the amount to me and then he ask me give for useful expenses and saving with our own saving we purchase all the things for home n some jewels. In my home my parents didn't give any jewels becoz of my love marriage we both of them have many rich friends but நாங்க யார் பார்த்தும் அவுங்க அப்படி இருக்காங்க நாம் இப்படி இருக்கோம் அப்படி நாங்க சொன்னது இல்ல நம்ம வாழ்க்கைக்கு தேவையான அனைத்து நாம தா செய்ய வேண்டும் we both of them live our life for ourselves only,not for others...soo enjoy our life.🥰
மத்தவங்களை பார்த்து நாம இப்படிதான் இருக்கணும் நெனைச்சா நம்ம வாழ்க்கை தான் போகும் நம்ம வாழ்க்கையை நாம் பார்த்துக்க வேண்டும்
Hello sister!!
My mother is a single parent,, she raised us almost 25 years and still now,, all alone we are three daughters to where as my sisters are twins
It's really very hard in this society to survive as a single parent and raising children!! I have seen the struggles of my mother with my own eyes,, its really difficult and harder than everyone's imagination
Now I am married and myself mother of two kids, graduated and preparing for civil services
My sister's are also doing post graduation and one is also preparing for IAS exams
We left our father long 20 years back due to harassment and many other reasons
My mother was just 23 years old, when she became single parent, she sacrificed her entire life for raising us,, even though she is uneducated she struggled very hard with multiple jobs to educate us
Life is full of ups and downs we should only adjust!!
Like you said we should live for us not for others,,
Ur mother is really great
Ur mother is great sister
Great, I too single parent of girl child, its really very hard to face the society , by God grace my parents support me to give safety for us.
There were nobody with us sisters, not even one single family members to support us
Innaiku unga video patthu oru vishayam katthukita ...Yarachu advice keta mattum tha advice pannanum... Kekkama kandipa advice panna kudathu... Thank you 😊😊
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Correct 💯
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Yes I agree with you 💯
Exactly
கல்யாணம் ஆன புதிதில் எப்படி சந்தோஷமா( positive side ) இருந்தோமோ அந்த நல்ல விஷயங்களை நினைத்து நினைத்து வாழ பழகி கொள்ள வேண்டும்
After seeing your video I learnt to be more calm and not to compare with others.Not to expect everything from our relations
It's heartening sis. I was , a kind of in similar situation. All my friends are working, I am a house wife. Seeing their achievements in social media ruins my peace of mind. My husband is a simple, monotonous guy, he will never support me when there is a family fight. Once I saw your video , where you spoke about husband's blood relations are more important to them than us. Then I kind of ignored my husband, I will fight but somehow I will convince myself. He will not regret though.
Then I became stoic, I will just feel happy if I can go for grocery shopping with my hubby and son. We will eat masalpuri in roadside shop. I stated to find happiness in such a small family time, though not insta worthy moment. We will go to a small temple nearby, watch news for 10 mins, my son and hubby will have small cuddling time for 2 to 3 mins daily. my son and me used to gave a lot of small small moments. After all it's the life of our kids we live for. Their world is so pure and small. They just want hugs, kisses, appreciation, play time and yummy food.
Happiness is in little things, if we can see and recognize.
True💯💯💯👍🏻
well said
சில நாட்கள் இடைவேளைகளுக்கு பின், கருத்து தெரிவிக்கிறேன், எல்லா தடங்கல்களையும் தாண்டி, தடம் பதிக்க போராடும்,.... கூடவே வாழ்ந்து கொண்டிருக்கையில் நம்மை நீக்கினால் தான் நிம்மதி என்ற, முடிவெடுத்து, நம்மை துரத்த நினைக்கும் நபருக்கு, உனக்கு வேண்டும் என்றால், தாலி கட்டுவதும், வேண்டாம் என்றால், விரட்டி விட, நினைப்பதும், நான் ஏற்றுக் கொள்ள இயலாது என்று, எவ்வளவு கஷ்டம் வந்தாலும் பரவாயில்லை என்று போராடி, வந்த துன்பங்களை, வாய் திறக்காமல், தாங்கி கொண்டு, தற்சமயம், என் குழந்தை ஒரு நல்ல நிலைக்கு வந்தபோதும், தான் தனியாக நின்று கொள்வேன் என்ற, பிடிவாதம் பிடித்த, பித்தலாட்ட கும்பலில், மாட்டிக்கொண்டு மன்றாடி தவிக்கும் நான், இன்னும் சில பல நாட்களில், கடினம் என்ற கடலை கடந்து நீந்தி வந்து விடுவேன் என்ற நம்பிக்கையில், நகர்ந்து கொண்டிருக்கிறேன் (தனி குடித்தனம் என்ற பெயரில், மாமியார் வீட்டில் நிற்க சொன்னால் நிற்பதும், ஆட சொன்னால் ஆடுவதும், என் கணவர், அவர்கள் எங்கே போகவேண்டும், என்ன செய்ய வேண்டும் என்று நினைக்கிறார்களோ அத்தனையும் நடக்கும், என்னையும் என் குழந்தைகளையும் தவிர்த்து, நாங்கள் இல்லை என்றாலும் அவர்கள் ஆட நினைத்தால், நடக்கும் கும்மாளம், கொண்டாட்டம், எல்லாருடைய தேவைகளுக்கும் பணதேவை இவர் தான் பயன்படுவார்)
நம்ம வாழ்க்கையே நம்ம குழந்தைகளுக்காக தான்.
தாயாக யோசிங்க 🙏
Rombha nalla vedeo akka.... Naanum love mrg dhan... En husband and in laws enaku rendume daughters nu yethukala... En second daughter c section porandha odane family planning panaga... But en husband doctor kita next day morning eh poi family planning reverse panna soli lam sandai potaru... En daughter s eh yethukala.... I stood for myself and my daughters but avara vita vilagala.... Eppo konjam positive eh en situations maarudhu... Neraya time thonum, epadi namalayum nam daughters eh yum hurt panavanga kuda irukanuma nu but divorce is not a solution... My patience is getting paid now... I shoes lot of love to my daughters and I loved my self.... Neega sonna mari physical and mental harassment eh illadhavaraikum, v should try to solve the problem s together.... Love u akka
Hai sister... I am also facing the same problem ...... 8 years I stayed in bangalore last year we are all shifted to tamilnadu... . Me also house wife love come arrange marriage my parent also told like the same .... after that, I took the decision to face all problems and people's ... still, the same problem is going on ..... I am staying separately with my husband and kid in tamilnadu... last 1 year, I am not going to my husband native .... my husband comple me to come my native I said no ..... I am following your decision only .... last 3 to 4 years I have been watching your channel before that itself I took decision whT your said that ..... by that time, nobody is there to help me..... now you are there ... thanks, sister .... now i am ready to face any things
and down .... you are the good , best , better teacher and wellwisher thank you swt sister .... 😊
ஒருவருக்கு ஒருவர் விட்டு கொடுத்து போவது தான் வாழ்க்கை
I fully agree with you sis. We have not compare with others. I also told my sons not to compare with other people. You people work hard and you will succeed
Nice video. Good lesson for this generation
Inspired by this story ☺️ actually we are in this same stage but I take the decision to live with him
Good 👍🏻
Well said sister. Whatever is the problem we should not move out of our house and should stand on our own. Advice should be given only when asked for. I pray for yr friend to get back happy life.
Nenga romba sariya sonenga sissy... Naa ninu face pananum konjam kashtama tha irukum, aana konja varsham namma porumaiya enna nadanthalum vetukulla ninu face pananum... Na marriage aana puthusula kovuchutu poita, athu series aana vishyam illa, aana na oru one week kuda irukala athukulla yellaru ulla pugunthu onume illatha vishyatha perusu pana start panitanga... Nane vanthutan kilambi.. Enna appa amma yella sonaga wait panu apotha un arumai purium nu.. Aana na nenga sona mari tha yosicha , once namma husband wife bonding poiduchuna namma enna senjum atha sari kata mudiyathunu.. Iniku engaluku marriage aagi 5yrs completed sisy... He is always with me na situation puriya vechu apove sari panalana enga alagana valkai veena poidukum.. Enaku oru daughter sisy 3yrs old...Ipo again na pregnant ah iruka sisy 8months now... kandipa na itha solanum sisy.. Savings ku romba periya guidance nenga enaku.. Thank u sissy.. Always good vibes 🥰❤.....
எனக்கு திருமணம் ஆகி 10 வருடம் ஆச்சு.தமிழ்நாட்டுல இருந்து Andaman கு வந்துட்டேன்.சொல்லமுடியாத கஷ்டம் யாருமே இல்லாத தனிமை .கணவர் எனக்கு ஆதரவு இருந்தாலும் ,நாங்க எப்படியாவது பிரியனும் னு அவங்க வீட்ல நினைப்பு.இதுவரைக்கும் எங்க ரெண்டு பேரோட சண்டையாவே இருந்தாலும் நாலு சுவற்றுக்குள்ளதான் . வெளியே கிளம்பி போகனும்னு நினைச்சாலும் கடல் தாண்டி போக முடியாது.பத்து வருடத்துக்கு அப்புறம் இப்போ யோசிக்கிறேன்.இந்த அக்கா வீடியோ பாத்துட்டு நல்ல வேளை போகல. னு நினைக்கிறேன் போனா இதே நிலைதான்..... என்னதான் கணவர் அன்பா இருந்தாலும் மூளைச்சலவை நடந்தே தீரும்.நம் பிரிந்து போனால் .....உஷாரா இருப்போம்😄
Hai sisy....nenga solrathu 💯 crct....
First anthakka ah husband V2 Ku kelampi poga solunga vakkil notice vantha varatum face panipom....
Mamiyar ku place koduthutengana again unga side varathu rompa kastam.....
Truely na 3 years ah padatha kastam elam paten en paiyan life kaga enoda appa 10 th padikrapo death agitanga en amma Thani alu ah ninu ena padika vachanga marriage pani vachanga ..... marriage new la husband nalla than irupanga baby vanthapram than elame real ku theriyum......so na 3 yrs ah irunthu en mamiyar over place pidichu now also nan en paiyan kaga irukren antha ore mind mattum than evlo analum nikkuthu......so please sis first husband kita Ponga and never mind others ena ninaipangalo nu.....apdi parthutu irunthengana unga daughters life ethumillama poirum.....intha world husband kuda Ilama thaniya iruntha vera mari parkum ka ..unga life unga Kai la 2 daughters irukangalla so avanga than important...ego elathayum vitutu relax ah confident ah oru decision eduthutu kelampunga nenga poi anga iruntha ungala V2 ah vittu thorathuna pogama bold ah face panunga .....and very very very important porumai porumaiya Kai vida kudathu nga sis ......nenga ponathum unga husband change ago sudden ah normal agumnu never judge.....it wl take time ... daughters studies rompa mukiyam.....kelampi ponga ka....relative and others solratha ketu manasa kulampi entha avasara mudivum edukathenga ka....ne bold .... sacrifice.....be calm
Nane en paiyanukaga vanthu konja months than aguthu ethume change agala sis but kadavul nampikaiyum namma child mela irukra anbum nammala kondu varumnu nampikai 👍🙏🏻poga solunga ka antha akka ah husband kita
Mam i was same luke that girl... Ours was arranged marriage... I am a homemaker... I too expect same things like what that girl did... But i have no big support at my family side.... I am the first person to start fight always... Since i have no big support i didnt get out... We lived together without talking with each other for few days or months.... As time passed sometimes my husband got sick and i took care of him well so that he was very impressed... After 5 years he got transfer, a situation arise so that he have to go leaving me and my child.... From that time he started showing his full love upon me.... Now we are good friends and my son is growing in a healthy environment... Like u my best friend advised me not to leave him during hard times... That advise saved my life💐🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Social media la paakurathu edhuvume unmai illa. Ella family la yum problem irukum. Naanum ipadi ninacha kaalam iruku but konja naal la ye adhellam poli nu purinchutu life ah accept panika aarambichutean. Divorce varaikum poi adhuku aparam we both think about our daughter and gave one more chance to us this time we both started to understand each other better and irukarathu la positive ah ennenna iruko adha mattum paarka aarambichutean. yaara irunthaalum perfect life nu onnu illave illa. As you abuser, arrogant, psycho, violence intha maari iruntha adjust panna thevai illla. But chinna chinna visayatha ellam perusu panni life ah spoil pannika koodathu. Andha ponnu kita kadaisi oruthadava sernthu iruka try panna solunga konjam avangala anba iruka solunga he ll come her way.
Hello Sis, I search for your videos when I feel down when there is family issues. I haven seen your MIL related videos many times to get calm when i feel stressed . This is my first comment after seeing so many videos because my situation is very similar to your friend's.mine is arranged marriage. I'm working in IT, mother of 5 yr old girl kid.I earn 60K per month. My husband is agriculturalist.we have property but he is no were upto my expectations in styling, gifting, soft skills etc. He went to college but didnt get degree.little affectionate with me & kid Whenever I see my friends posting celebrating their special days, travel diaries, onsite pictures I really felt down and terrible about my life. So I closed my FB account few years back and away from all social media now.If I keep my attitude away and be simple we can live happily. So I'm following this.Even I got more clarity that not only me most of the girls longing for such special gifting moments but it is not the only thing what life is given for. Gift your kids the special moments with their dad which they can cherish for lifetime. Eventhough I had potential and this life doesn't suite me I dont wish to move away just for my kid and other small happiness around. Time heals everything . Keep your distant friends "away" for your own peace and try to see happiness in small things around.Don't give up !!
We can gift Ourself for special occasions & celebrate the moment with our kids👍🏻
Hi sis I am also crossed ur situation tooo.. v hve sme imagination before our marriage .. i m interested in surprise gift for special occasions... But my husband has not no idea in dis.. i did it for him.. now v crossed 11 years mother of 2 boys... Firstly it got me more upset and angry but after some months i just think it from his side ... At dat i can able to understand him... Avanga valantha situation is like dat...
IPA enaku athu perusa therla... Epava thu kovama vantha kathitu apram 5 min la naane samathanam akiruven...
Ithu thavira avangata neraya positive thinks iruku so I just think of dat at dat time enaku ithu perusa theriyathu....
Life la yarume 100 % perfect kediyathu(enga appa adikadi enaku soltra advice)... Every life has up n down... Enoda personal life la ullatha just share panen..
What u said is correct most of people leave for social media,instead of enjoying happy moments ,they concentrate on how to show off moments
1. I too work in IT and my husband as well. Officially i should be working from 10 to 7 and mon to fri. But the reality is from 10am to 11pm sometime 3 or 4 am. It's very unpredictable schedule. Especially if you are TL or manager.
2. I too fight with my husband 300 days out of 365 days and balance 65 days will be in my hometown or outing. But fight won't last more than 1 hour. It's just part of life. Nothing wrong in it.
3. Any time fight comes both partners should be leave the fight and move on with out any ego.
4.Don't take any kind of fight to parents no matter what( until it become physical assault), both partners can reach therapist, but not to parents.
Absolutely mam..my mother is single parent. Without anyone's support she brought up me and brother. I know her struggles, pain so we studied well and standing a good position . But marriage la amma yemanthuttaga. Husband family antha alavuku support illa . Suthi irukaravangala engalukkula problems varum. Otherwise quite ok. Marriage ana firstla nanum veeta vita amma veetu vanthuten. Apram compromise panni onna than irukom. Enga amma than enku periya balam .thaniya poradunanga Ennala mudiyum. Eppo confident en kulantha , en job nu iruken. After watched ur videos get more booster for me. 6 years ku munnadi video parthu iruntha innum life evvolavo improve ayiruppen. Enga amma patta kashtam en manasula iruku. Neenga video la namma nalla vazhanu nu motivate panradhu enaku romba pidikum. Thank you mam🙏🙏
Akka ur right . I also faced many problems while my life started but now 10years complete i can feel lot of changes in my life. We understood eachother now a day. Really it will take 10years for clear bonding.
Well said mam.... All the points you said were 100% true.... All husband and wife faces these problems at one stage of their life.... But they should move on from that together...
நீங்கள் சொல்லறது உண்மை sis எனது கல்யாணம் அப்பா அம்மா பார்த்து வைத்த கல்யாணம் ஆனால் கணவர் குடுமபத்தில் என்னையும் என்னை சார்தவர்களும் பிடிக்கவில்லை என் மீது கடும் கோபம் இருக்கு அதை நேரில் அல்லது பிள்ளைகளிடம் காட்டுவர்கள் என் கணவர் கன்டு கொள்ள மாட்டர் நான் சொன்னாலும் எதுவும் செய்ய மாட்டார் பிறந்த விடுக்கு போனல் நாம் மிதும் குழந்தைகள் மிது பாசம் வரும் என்று போய் விடுவேன் ஆனால் அவர் நிதானே போன நான் வருவேன் நினைகதே என்று செல்லும் அளவுக்கு அவர் குடும்பமும் சொல்லி என் வாழ்க்கை10 வருடம் போய் விட்டது என் அப்பா அம்மா சன்டை வரும் போது நீ வந்து விடு என்று சொல்வர்கள் முன்று நாள் கூட போகது உன் மேல் தான் தப்பு என்று கூறும் போது மிகவும் வேதனையாக இருக்கும் நான் ஒரு முடிவு எடுத்தேன் இனி என்ன நடந்தாலூம் நான் என் வீட்டை விட்டு போக கூடாது என்று: சரியோ தவறு நம் வாழ்க்கை இங்கு தான் இரண்டு குழந்தைகா நான் மாறினேன் எது நடந்தாலும் இங்கு இருந்து போரட்ட வேண்டும்/ என்று கஷ்மாக தான் இருக்கும் நம் பிள்ளைகளின் முகம் பார்த்தால் போதும் இவர்களுக்கா சமாளிக்க முடியும் இப்போது13 வருடம் திருமண வாழ்கை போய் கொண்டு இருகிறது என் வாழ்கை என் குழந்தைகள் தான் கணவருடன் இருந்து வாழ்ந்து காட்டுகிறேன்* கணவர் குடும்ப முன்னிலையில் அது தான் நாம் அவர்களுக்கு தரும் பதில்
Hi sis ennku marriage agi 22 years achu first 10 year's na romba kasta paten en husband drinks ku attid agi enna adika kuda seitharu sapatuku kuda ellatha allvuku kastam nanum love marriage than en parents avara veeturu vaanu sonnaga but avara romba love panren and en pasaga rendu peeukaga nan avara veetutu pogala epidiyavathu avar sariyagiruvarunu nambunen athey marri en feeling kagavum en pasangalukagaum sari agitar epo romba happy ya erukom but en husband ellrkitaum romba perumaya solluvanga en wife ellve kastathilaum enni vettu pogala na avalukga than drinks veetenu ethai en sollerana antha sisteer enniyavathu vanthu avaga husband kuda sernthu vallanum nam valkai kulanthilkaluka than rendu perum vetu kuduthu valrathu than valkai by Revathi shiva Kumar
Thank u sister! It will be an eye opening for many young girls who thinks relationships are very easy to deal with!❤
I have real life example in my family ,since great support was there from parents side ,girl left husband came with small child,but years passed,once she saw her own siblings found to live with their own husband and family,she realised it on fine day during a family get-together,then she went rejoined with husband and living with same issues which were in past due to her mil fil,....so finally a girl should have a personal responsibility that we shouldn't be burdern to husband and even to our parents,same time both father and mom has same responsibility in growing up a child.....love, fight , sorrow will come and go,but manam mariyadai pona thirumba varada, thatsy in those days in village if a married girl stays long time in mom house ,they will start to spread rumour. Nowadays in name of western culture all atrocities happening from both girls side and boys side which is misguiding upcoming new couples. Finally physical torture is not acceptable at any cost, immediate help should be taken ....
You are right.. No couple is perfect or made for each other... Small small fights and difference of opinion are part and parcel of every family. We hv to forget, resolve and move on. Staying with family is the greatest protection one can have...
Even I am also in same mentality..now 2 yrs completed with my marriage life..that’s why I have avoided Instagram to see such pics becoz I too expect all those from my hubby ..I understand now and both will manage and live happily ❤
Nangalum love come arranged marriage sis...marriage agi 4.5 yrs aguthu papa ku ipo than 1+yr..Romba neraya fight irukum... but we have to adjust and move on... because neenga sonna mathri society la romba kashtam single parent ah valrathu..adhuvum girl baby irundha we have to think multiple times before we take a decision😌
Every family wl have issues..
As u said u have advised yr friend properly she should comeback and live a happy life..If she doesn't she wl be the looser.
U were absolutely rite regarding social media.
Today's vlog was really good it is a good social thought u have shared 👍👍
1st view nu happy ah feel pannan...but ivlo kastamana real story kekrathukae romba kastama iruku.antha sis nenga soldra mathri vanthu ingaye irunthu avanga husband kuda manasu vtu pesi irukanum...kandipa husband one day purinjupanga...sandai podama avangaloda feelings , expectations matum hus kita solalam..then Daughters kandipa appava change paniduvanga future la,nalla bonding irukum..so ivangaloda future life um marum ..ithu advice ila....ithu ennoda personal experience ....,ithelam marriage aagi intha 5 yrs laye na feel panan...ipo enkum hus kum Nala bonding iruku...so be positive sis ..
Akka..... Ella family layum sandai irukum........ Sandai illatha family engaiyum illa..... Appadi irukarathum rare ka....... Family la sandai varum pothu...... Oru பிரிவு வரும் போது...... Husband.... wife oda nalla விசயத்தையும்........ Wife husband oda nalla விசயத்தையும்....... Yosicha sandai konjam குறையும்........
Rendu perum avanga pannina thappa patthiye yosicha sandai அதிகம் தான் ஆகும்...... So rendu perum avanga avangaloda nalla விசயத்தையும் yosikkanum......... Kandippa unga friend ah thirumba Vara solli conveyance pannunga..... Akka..... Antha 2 baby girl life rommmmmba important..........
Hey mahe mam... Wow wat a video... Many families have this kind of prob .. Especially now after this social media boom.. Everyone wants to show off.. N v well said abt ADVICE.... I'm gonna follow that... Even parents ll respect if we r with our husband.. Strange but true 😢
S,நீங்க சொல்லுறது உண்மைதான், கல்யாணம் ஆகி 26 வருடமாச்சு, இன்னும் எங்களுக்குள் சண்டை வரத்தான் செய்கிறது. ஒரு level kku மேல கோபம் வந்து சண்டை போடத்தான் செய்கிறோம்.
G.m.sis what u said is absolutely true this advise u disclosed in ur earlier videos (subscriber story + ur opinion
In our fights will come night n go in morning 🌅 like that days passing on but at any cost vittu kuduthu poradhu thaan vazhkaai it varies to situation of others..
Snacks r quite different
Tqusmm for ur wonderful video shared which will be an eye opener to many of them.
Indha story enakum oru nalla lesson kuduthu iruku sis.... Thank you for sharing... I hope and pray to God they both get together again🙏
ரொம்ப நல்லா சொன்னீங்க கணவன் மனைவி இரண்டுபேரும் விட்டுக் குடுத்து போகவேண்டும் குடும்பம் என்றால் கண்டிப்பா சின்ன சின்ன சண்டைகள் வருவது உண்டு தான் குழந்தைகள் எதிர்காலத்தை மனதில் வைத்து செயல்பட வேண்டும்
Hi sis! What you said is right. We have to see only our life style. It will give more peace, than compared to others. HAPPY LIFE SIS 😊
Hi sis.... 200% correct sis... Bcos my mother single parent due to some family problems my father left away from our family... My ammamma family is not supported we didn't expect any financial help they not even share their words don't worry we are there for you always nu that is the part very very sad and enga Amma engala Kanya dhanam pannum bothu enga Nana illanu oru oru person kita poi ninnadhu evlo Vali teriyuma sis.... Magi sis pls i personally ask you to convey my words to your neighbour friend avanga kita Kenju kekuren avanga husband kuda vaala sollunga avangalukaa illanalum antha kids kaga .... She will never imagine once the kids facing problems in school /college times... Even my sister in law also single parent.... Pls advise her to come to husband home ...
எங்களுக்கு எல்லாம் சண்ட போட்றதெல்லாம் காலையில சாயங்காலம் காஃபி குடிக்கிற மாதிரி! ஒரு நாளைக்கு ஒரு சண்டையாவது கண்டிப்பா வரும்! ஆனா, எப்படியோ சமாதானம் ஆயிடும்! 😊😊😊
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போன வந்தா சும்மா சும்மா சண்டை தா mam.,.but don't know speaking again
@@poongodit2001 இங்கையும் அப்படித்தான் மா. எப்படி சமாதானம் ஆகுதுன்னு எனக்கே தெரியல!
Hi ,I m a Doctor, and your subscriber.This is my first comment to your videos. I usually give the same advices to my colleagues and friends ,only 2 situations in which a girl can move away from the marriage life,,, if the husband has any extramarital affair or psychopath.
Even we ll fight with the Parents if we live with them.
After all marriage life is an art of adjustment
10 years and above after marriage only couple know about each other. U are absolutely ( 💯%) correct
True sis, social media has lot of impact of personal life of people. V should carry gratitude and should not compare out life with others, desired yummy food, place to rest and ppl to love is a blessing. If v count on our blessings v Wil learn to live content and happy. This is my opinion.
Happy Sunday All, I was eagerly waiting for your video maha akka. Yes we should be calm and think many times before making any decision. Nice palampori 😊I have tried already. I thought cooking was boring but after watching your quick and easy recipies I really enjoy cooking. Thanks 👍 akka.
Sissy..Truly an eye opening video🎥 today👍👍.I am a very matured person but I fall for movie lovable scenes. I expected my husband since I didn't loved any before my marriage. Every time i fail i feel down and I convince. But i will not in a steady state. But now am totally gave up the thought. Just observing my activities in the family and trying to mould me. And unga friend ku nenga kudutha advice padi avanga kids kooda varathu than correct✅✅✅. Sangada pattalum konjam pillainga future ah ninachutu vanthu avanga urimai ulla house ku vanthu vaalthu kaatanum. My strong prayers 🙏for her.
Good morning sister.... In every home misunderstanding, fighting all will be there if they are really loving each other... If they want to lead a happy life they have to fight & they have to talk each other y this fighting happened...if they have discussion every problem will be solved... This is LIFE... Let that sister come & leave with her husband & childrens happily....God bless her.....
In marriage life we must have lot of patience and don't get angry , ego with life partner. Take a time to share our feelings& try to understand themselves also not to compare others, not to expect our relation also as much as we will take a decision in own it's must mam
Ama akka neenka solrathu 100%unmai ❤️akka. Husband wife kkum ulla sanda kandippa varum akka... Enkalukkum sanda varum akka... Konchom thandi maridum 👍akka.
True... Nice vlog for Sunday. Husband and wife problems should be like a meal, it should get digested before next meal, whatever happens life should move on for children's better and happy life. Only people without good family or no kids will understand the pain of distanced relationship.
Inda advice enaku sonna mathiriye iruku ...correct ana time la kidachuruku ... Thank u 😊😊😊 sister....
Very well said mam.....I fully agree with your words. Even on arranged marriage also parents won't support us if we leave our husband and go and settle at parents house. Fir few days they won't bother but as days pass they will say when we will go out of their house. After marriage we don't have full right in parents house, because other siblings will be there. What your friend did was wrong, but atleast her husband should not remarriage. Because he is father of two daughters.. both should visit a counselor and live happily in future....thats my prayer. Because I'm also mother of two daughters. Though my husband is very supportive, we also have misunderstanding at times. I always feel that I'm not 100% perfect. If he is adjusting with me , even I have to adjust with him. Thanks for the awareness video mam🙏😊
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Hi mam...... Each and every house has problems. If we think and fighting, then no one can live together with their husband. We have to overcome problems in our life. Today u convey true words. Once we leave our house, then another person enters and brainwash the mind. Finally children is affected.
100 percent of women tolerate all things for our children only.
Even one person can see this video and take correct decision, credit goes to u mam..
Every house has problems...we have to adjust and move on .. nicely said sister
Yeh i got a heart ❤️ from you....i am sooo happy... biggest fan of you akka..you are my role model
Very true madam, yeppo comparison thought varutho appo nammaloda self confidence korayum and leads to many problems.
Unga cleaning videos elam enaku romba motivating ah iruku, nanum agaro bread vacuum cleaner vangina and jeevan clean pandratha ennoda amma kita Kati ipdi tha clean pannanum nu sollitiruntha mam.
Thank you
என்னோட opinion அந்த பொண்ணு huspand கூட இருக்குறது தான் best. எல்லாமே ஒரு நாள் மாறும்.இது இப்படி யே இருக்காது.எதுவும் நிரந்தரம் இல்லை என்பதை நாம் அனைவரும் உணர வேண்டும்.எங்களுக்கும் Arrange Marriage தான் ஆனால் என் husband அவங்க வீட்டு ஆட்கள் பேச்சு கேட்டு என்னை வேண்டாம் என்று தான் சொன்னாரு.எங்க வீட்டு ல என்னை ஏத்துக்கல. என்க்கு 2 பையன்.என்ன பண்ண வேற வழியே இல்லாமல் என் husband தான் இருந்தேன்.இப்ப life ஒரளவு நல்லா இருக்கு.யாராவது ஒருத்தர் விட்டு கொடுத்து தான் வாழனும்.அதுவும் பெண்கள் தான் விட்டு கொடுக்கனும் என்று ஆண்கள் நினைக்கிறாங்க.என்ன பண்ண எல்லாம் விதி.குழந்தைகளுக்காக வாழனும்.அந்த பொண்ணு சேர்ந்து வாழறது தான் நல்லது sis.
Thanks for making this video...i too have problem with my husband like this story and I have one girl baby..by seeing this came to know life is not what we think..it depends on both husband and wife understanding.
சிஸ்டர் எங்க வீட்ல வாரத்துல ஒரு நாள் கூட லீவு இல்ல 7 நாளும் சண்டை நடக்குது.என்ன கேட்ட அந்த பொன்னு வந்து வீட்டுகாரர் கிட்ட மன்னிப்பு கேட்டுட்டு அவரு கூடியே வாழலாம் 2 குழந்தைகளுக்குகாக அது விட்டுட்டு பிடிவாதம பிரிஞ்சு வாழ்ந்த கோடிக்கணக்கான பிரச்சனைகள சந்திக்க வேண்டி வரும்.நா 3 வருசம் ஆச்சு வாட்ஸ் அப்பில் ஸ்டேட்ஸ் பாக்கறது இல்ல பாத்த நமக்கு பிரசர் வந்து சண்டை வந்து நிம்மதி இல்லாம போயிரும்.ஒருத்தங்க வைக்கிற போட்டோ எத்தனை பேருக்கு நிம்மதி இல்லை பாருங்க சிஸ்டர்.
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Hi sister nangalum love marriage dha.. abroad la irukom.. Marriage agi 2.5 years agudhu.. 1 1/2 vayasu boy baby irukan.. engalukum neraiya fight varum.. then nangaley solve panikuvom.. ennoda ammakum, mother in law kum koda enga sandai ah solla matom.. nenga sonadhu elam 💯 % correct sister..
Akka yanakku therinchi social media la eppadi than husband wife anba erukkura mathiri madhavangalukku kattanum nu pannuranga ana unmaiyale avangalukku ulla sandai varum veli kamikkurathu illa ...angaraikku engarai pachanu solluvanga atha unmai kuda
True mam. Motivation tips super. Kitchen very neat and snack items. Wow
What you said is 💯 true akka...every house has problems we have to move on...tasty palampori...I love it very much
Pazhampori yummy! If u can make it with fully ripe banana it will taste much better.
If we with husband we can solve our pbm.. intially i was fighting everything... After watching ur videos .. .. i didn't expect anything from my husband i ll become silent... He started changing.. i think not fully ... But we have to accept this.... Whatever i want my husband doing.. he s supporting.. both are working.. we don't have time to talk freely.... Everything both are managing......
Fight ilatha life oru life ah. Bt fight mutinchu 2perukkum oru understanding & love varum paarunga athuthaan life😁
Good life lesson Mahi madam. Very emotional, an eye opener for those who believe in other's Whatsapp status and FB post. Pazham puri is my all time favorite, thanks for sharing the recipe. seems easy to prepare. I will make for my kids one day 👍
Very much true mahi, no husband and wife are there without fighting it's all common and thank you for sharing us how to compromise and lead life hats off to your work dear 😊
true words.really motivated.really am proud of you mam.god bless you mam.you are a such Great women.thank you mam for posting videos.Lots of love
Thankyou for your sharing the video,nice advice to everyone,neat kitchen look akka👏👏
Mosaic floor ku mi robavac suit aguma sis..enaku wheezing iruku vaccum cleaner வாங்கலாமா,இல்ல robavac வாங்கலாமா
Yes
Yes semaya fight varum... But maranthuttu life pogum... Sila samayam outing ponna photos jollya than poduvanga...
Think before you leap.....in her life there is no body to tell which is the right decision..since she is love marriage..tq MAHESWARI mam for sharing this
Yes sister, well said. Even mine is a love come arranged marriage. Before marriage my husband side they were so nice with me but after that my mother in-law and there 5 daughter turned exactly opposite to show there real face. But for 3 years i went thru every difficult just becoz of my husband support. As you always say women should be financially independent. After 3 years again I joined IT company started working now none of the idiots dare to behave badly atleast in front of me. Pennadi enna venalu pesattum.
Keep inspiring 😊
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My day doesn't end without arguments.. wat u have said s correct.. dear sister if u see this comment plz come and live with ur husband..
Hi Akka 💖 after watching your videos I stopped comparing myself to others 👍 and I started savings habit😍 whatever you conveyed in this video I'm 💯 agree with you ka 💗 yummy palampori 😋 waiting for the upcoming videos 😘Love you My Stress Buster 💖
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அனைத்து வீட்டுலையும் பிராப்ளம் இருக்கு. ஆனா குழந்தைக்காக பெண்கள் எல்லாத்தையும் சரி செய்து சமாளித்து தான் குடும்பத்தை ரன் பண்ணனும்.
Hi akka every family facing the issue ND am also facing the problem. 100% true the all words women expectations always disappointment 😔 don't expectations guys 👍
I like your kitchen design very much and really appreciate your efforts in keeping it spic and span always sister 👍👍
Ellorrudaiya veetalaum sandai kandipa irrukum sis. Aduthavanga life pathu nama vala Kudathu namakku athu thevaiuanu pakkanum .
Whatever u have mentioned in this video is 100% true sis, Marraige life without fight unbelievable, need some patience to move on.yummy palampuri😋😋
Most of the social media couple acting well as made for each other... Pavam andha ponnu.. idhai thavira Enna solradhu nu theriyala.. Kerala pazham pori.. yummmmmmmyyyyy...
Romba kastama iruku ka.... Avanga kandippaaa seranum... Ka... Neenga soldra oru oru word vum 100%unmai ka... Romba nandri ka intha visayam share pannathuku🙏
Sam thng here sis my husband wrks my son s 5yrs I'm hous wif i dnt hv any frnds my tim pas s tv an social media... recently my husband lost job 4month ovr he s siting n hom dnt gt job ...my father in law takng care of our house...my husband bcam addict to alcohol i managed a lot to mk him com out bt no use ...WIC lead he hit me in road drnkng alcohol fr smal smal things he gt angry aftr drnkng an hit me ..frm mrng til night he drnk using his credit card ...i cm to my mom house wit my son ...dono wat dicision to tak ...plz tl wit idea
Your life, u only should decide
I love to fight with my husband... .. 1st five years lots of fight... But I waited now he started understanding about everything... He is realising i m also understanding..... Going smoothly..
Whatever pbm comes we can't leave husband
Hi sis every home has problem. As u said upto 5 to 10 years of marriage we will have misunderstanding after that we can understand in marriage life
வணக்கம் எல்லார் வீட்டிலும் பிரச்சினை உள்ளது. குழந்தைகள் எதிர்காலம் கருதி விட்டு கொடுத்து வாழ்வது பெண்களின் குணம்.சமூகம் எப்போதும் பெண்களை மட்டுமே குறை கூறுகிறது. நீங்கள் சொல்வது 💯% உண்மை. நீங்கள் கூறியது பல பெண்களுக்கு பயனுள்ளதாக இருக்கும்.நன்றி
True 👍👍
Marriage agi 16 year's agudhu husband crpf.yearly 2 to 3 times dha veetukey varuvar. Ana phone la kuda sanda potukolvom.sandai illadha life ye illa bore adichirum.
Neengal sonnathu unmai kulanthaikalin nalan karuthi iruvarum ontru seerattum evvalavu veelai palu irunthalum manaivikkaka kocham time spend pannanum because pen enbaval ellavatraiyum vituvitu antha aanai mattum nambithan varukiral kocham vittu kotuthu povathil entha thavarum illaiye
Veedu naa sandai varaama irukkaathu. But Unga self esteem, maturity, dedication to house work and college work is astonishing. Books neraya read panreenga. Parents ungala nalla vidhama valarthirukkanga. So bitter words, hatred etc ethuvum Unga kitta illa. But ithayellaam ellaar kittayum expect Panna mudiyathu. You are diplomatic. Continue sister. God always bless you and your family
Thank u🙏🏻
Hi sisi... whatever information you conveyed in this video is true one especially one point ie after 10 years you will get good relationship between both of them so dats true one... Even I realized that in my life too.. well said finally we should move from the house want to struggle almost to get into our life peacefully. Nice video 👍👍👍👌
Thank you for sharing this video ma’am.. ur true ma’am all have their own problems .. we should never compare other ur true life… 👌👍👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
super akka that is true akka and motivation speech i true and sure social media is not really akka and sure akka all relative will do like this only 100true akkw
A good message conveyed nicely.Mistakes are part and parcel of human life and it helps to understand the partner better.
Well said sister 🥰 As many people got inspired to go for job by you, i inspired by you to take care of personal responsibility.. Though i m working, I started to do lot of Pooja and gained house keeping skills because of you. I see much positive changes in my personal life.. as you explained in this video, lot of politics happened for me as well due to love marriage (including second marriage to my husband for silly reasons but i m still alive 😭) i overcome everything because there is no room for anyone to do fault finding now 😂😂 Finally my husband also standing with me because he understood my hard work and commitment for our personal relationship ❤️ Happy to share with you..Lots of love to you and your family akka 🥰🥰
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Well said mam, most of the women accept the life for children only. It's most most true and bitter truth. Women work ponatha mathippe illana Inga yarume mathikka mattanga. Avanga diverse kudukka kudathu athan avangalukku nallathu .. correct time la ipti oru video potinga ithu neraya women's ku help ah irukum...keep rocking mam