Tus yus tsis tau ces yeej khuv xim es tus ntses loj ces yeej yog tus dim, thaum nyob yus xub ntiag ces dub dub tabsis tso plhuas rau luag ces tseem ntxim ntxim hlub.
Wow... pab koj tu siab ua luaj, peb Hmoob cov niam txiv uas tsi paub pab lawv cov me nyuam ho mus pab tus sab nraum. Lub neej pem suab thov kom peb cov ntxhais yuav tsum ua neej kom tsim nyog yug los ib zaug thiab maz lov!!!
I wish Hmong women would stop blaming on the culture but instead do whats best for themselvesand not for others. Always remember Good or bad people will always have shit to say. Do what’s best for u.
Exactly totally agree with you. It's not like we live in Laos and everything is neej tsa. Have a backbone woman. I thought she was educated. Guess 4 year degree didn't do shit for her. So stop complaining and lay in your bed that you made.
I was in the same situation. My family and his family refused for us to divorce. I awoke up one day and tell myself, do I really want to live like this for another 30 years...NO.. so I left... my family disowned me. After 2 years, my family and I patched things back up and now we are closer than ever. I raised 4 beautiful kids on my own, held a good job ... my kids are all grown up and doing great. I don’t plan to get married because I enjoy being able to do whatever I want with my kids and my money. However, my boyfriend and I have been together for six years and going on strong. He treats me like a queen. The number one thing you need to realize is .. love yourself first, do what makes your little heart happy.. not for your husband, parent or kids.. At the end of the day...it’s YOU. I took a few years just finding myself and truly love myself before I finally enter relationships. You need to love yourself.
It was just a taste of her own medicine... Why betray the first love in the first place. It’s call karma!!! I know ladies gonna defend ladies but she’s a rotten human too
Poor guy. U didn't pick him the first time. U cheated on him wit your husband. The 2nd time, u used him as revenge on your husband and u didn't pick him again. He should move on. You're not worth his time. Lol. Can't blame anyone lady. You yourself is the one who makes all your decisions for you, whether u believe or not.
Lady, this is America. No one can make you stay or do anything you don’t want to. Please don’t play the victim. If you truly want to leave your cheating husband you would have done it. In your heart you still want to stay so be honest and don’t blame others. I feel bad for you but you need make that decision.
Right? I honestly feel she still loves and wants her husband, but she's just mad and hurt. And she acts tough to show that she can cheat on him too, but at the end she couldn't leave him bc she still loves him, yet she blames it on her parents. Lol. Trust me. If she's able to cheat on him back, she's able to leave him too. She just doesn't want to.
By all means, he doesn’t deserve your forgiveness. However, if you can’t forgove him, don’t stay in the relationship. Why suffer in pain and no happiness? Life with no love will be miserable. Why would you want to stay in that?!
Don’t feel bad sis. Cov neej tsa ces yog peb pojniam lub neej thiab lub hom piaj ho peb poj niam ces zoo li tsis muaj dabtsi li. Kiag tag los rov los nyob tu siab nrog vim mloog neej tsa hais tas lub neeg xwb. Tas twg mam ncaim lub ntiaj teb mus es mam dim txoj kev nyuaj siab ua poj niam hmoob.
I feel so sorry for you. Respect yourself and do not let your husband cheat on you. You are worth so much more. Live for yourself because your parents do not always know best. Life is too precious to live it while not being happy. Everyone deserves happiness including you.
Me muam yus xav yuav tus zoo tsaj plaws ces lawv mus txog twg los yeej tau tus hlub ces yeej ua kev mob siab rau koj mog tus muam lub neej yuav kom zoo yuav tau yuav tus hlub yus es txhob mus yus tus yus hlub es lawv thiajmuabtag nro lawv lub siab rau yua es ua neej thiaj tsis tsau2 run mog.
I hate how cheating spouses & family members accuse u if having a “small liver”...but if the cheating spouse & family members have such a “big liver, “ then they’d let u have ur own slice of happiness (even if it means returning the favor back to the cheating spouse).
Txiv neej muaj poj niam tham hluas nkauj yog kev ua si rau lawv nkaus xwb, tab sis qee tug kuv tsis yog li ntawv thiab. Txhua tus poj niam muaj txiv tham hluas nraug mas tsis yog ua si li txiv neej muaj poj niam tham hluas nkauj lawm. Kev txiav txim siab yuav koj tus txij nkawm thiab kev ua neej nrog nws yog koj. Koj xav tias txoj kev ua neej nrog nws yoj koob xov los tsis tau lawm ces koj cia li nrauj nws xwb vim kev ua neej nrog nws yeej tsis tsav thiab tsam rau neb ob leeg ntxiv mus lawm. Koj yog poj niam, thov nrauj koj tus txiv ua ntej koj tham hluas thiaj tsis khaum!
Me niam hluas es!!! kuv nrog koj tu siab koj lub neej los kuamuag zoo li kuv thiab vim peb yug los ua ib tug ntxhaig hmong es peb thiaj tau lub hais tías uv yeej tsis tuag no tabsis yog uv tiag tuag tiag os lub cev tsis tuag tiamsis siab ntsws tuag tag ua neej tsis muaj kev zoo siab nrog luag vim lub siab hlub li yav ntuj qub qab tsis muaj lawm mog kuv txiv hais tib yam li koj txiv thiab mas lam ua neej kom tej me nyuam tau chaw nyob os mog
Sim neej no mas thiaj li txawj liam tiag tiag...cas tseem muaj ntsej muag muab liam rau yus niam yus txiv...koj twb tau ko tab sis koj tsis tuav...lub neej nyob teb chaws meskas no koj twb yeej paub zoo ntawm peb hmoob lub neej los koj yeej paub zoo...yuav nyiag sib aim yuav tsum nrauj kom tu taw tso tbiaj li tsis txhaum...koj uv luag es koj tau dab tsi...cas koj twb tsis xav hais tias koj twb tag nqi rau luag lawm es luag thiaj mus ua yam li koj twb tsis yog luag tus poj niam li lawm...ntshe tej zaum koj yeej siab phem ua ntej rau tus nram ntej lawm es hnub no thiaj li npam koj lawm xwb os
tu me niam tsev koj txiav txim siab yog lawm nawb mog tej niag txiv neej no siab phem2 li thaum lawv tsi tau yuav koj ce lawv ua zaj ua ntxeev hai lu zoo rau koj kom koj lub siab muag rau lawv xwb tab sis thaum lawv yuav tau koj lawm ce lawv xav ua phem li ca rau koj lo tau tag nrho tsi txhob mu ntseeg txiv neej lub siab thiab lo nyuag lu zoo ntawv yooj yim yuav koj tu qub txiv ko twj ywm xwb lwm hnub koj thiaj tsi muaj txoj kev yuam kev thiab khuv xim os mog
Why, iv been listing to some of these stories on my spear time...that most of u guys have such High degrees on Bachelor, doctor, the list goes on etc....but all ur lifes is so mess up🙄for real!! I guess r smart book wise only. Not Street smart love(means got to be tough) tough up ur love, relationship, n more not just childish play.☝️✊💪 Those that dont have that are better love n respect each other.
Peb ua neeg ces thaum zoo li no ces yeej yuav tau ua li tus niam tsev no vim tsi nrhiav kev pab yus tus kheej ces kawg tuag xwb yog li kuv xav ntse yog lub neej zoo li no lawm thaum yus hai tsi tau yus tus txiv lawm cez yuav tau ua li koj ua yog lawm
Vaus cas zoo li kuv os.. Lub neej no yauv thaum twg es yus mam li mus es kuv tiaj li tau zoo. Sim neej no tus siab tshaj plaws. Chim2 es xav npo npa xwb. Cas yus xav yus lub neej yog yus xwb los cas tseem muaj lwm tus thiab..
Cas yuav txau tu siab ua luaj.😢😢😢zoo li kuv lub neej Kiag li hmoob aw tau niam tau txiv zoo li koj peb no ces tu siab tag ib sim neej os me vivncau txau hlub aw
Yes yog kawm mas!!! If your parents really love you they’ll take you back! But Hmong parents now and days they only care about their reputation! Sad but true
Oh no I will not forgive a husband who cheat on me sister. No way! If you're not happy like you said, leave that husband. You live for you not for your parents. Your father don't want you to divorce because he was a cheater to your mom too. A father who cheat on your mom will never be on your side.
gachagirl Yang were you really listening to the story??? The boyfriend is the victim here and she’s a two time manipulative sick lying individual. She just got a taste of her own medicine that’s all
These OG’s makes no sense, all about their pride not about their kids. Sad to hear a lot of these situations, and there’s the one people bash for finding another solutions
Tus niam tsev Tsi txhob tu siab os yog koj mus tau niag qub Yawg nrauj ntawd los xyov puas yuav txog twg os yij meem rau siab ua koj lub neej xwb twb yog vim txoj kev niam nyob ib qho txiv ua dej Num rau ib qhov ces lub neej thiaj zoo li ko, koj hais tias koj txiv hais koj Tsi yog no tab sis yog koj mus tau nws es Tsi zoo mas haj yam txom nyem siab Tsi muaj leej twg nrog hlub koj tej me nyuam koj yuav tu siab tshaj
Tu siab heev li os kov lub neej tag tom nyob li koj lub thiab es. Kuv yuav li cas thov koj pab ib txoj kev tawm pub rau kuv thiab vim nyuaj siab dhau tsis pom kev tawm lawm os
I wouldn't care if my family wants to disown me. If I want to divorce, it's my decision. It's my life. I won't die if my family don't want me. There's many resources here in America.
Obviously, if she really truly wants to divorce him, she would have done it on her own, just like when she truly wanted to cheat on him to get her revenge. She didn't need her parents permission to cheat and yet, she cheated. So i don't understand why she would need their permission to divorce. We know she's only using them as an excuse to remain married to her husband.
Ua tsaug rau tus sister no zaj dab neeg. Yeej yog li koj hais os sister aws, cov laus tsuas xav txog lawv lub meej mom xwb. Tej menyuam yuav tuag los tsuas luag saib tau ob niag laus xwb ces menyuam yuav tuag tiag tiag los kav liam hmoob yeej zoo li no thov kom cov menyuam hmoob xas maim tshiab no txhob siab phem li cov laus thauv.
Mloog kojlub siab os mog..txiv siab phem li no nrauj zoo dua yus thiaj tsis mob hlwb tuag uv tiag yuav tuag tiag .mes kas teb no yog nyob tsis tau lawm ces yus nrauj yus tom mes kas xwb
I can only forgive if it was a true and one time mistake. But never forgive a purposeful act ever. If my husband did like yours, I showed him the door to exit real quick! Because if I can’t have him all to myself, then I don’t want him at all period!!! Life is too busy and short to be miserable and depressed. Don’t leave to show as “power “ but leave because you want to be better! I would hate to see you missing out on potential happiness with your exboyfriend whom truly loves you! Of course, no guarantee, but 50 percent chance!
Tus txiv ua hluas nej txhob xav tias nej ntse nej tham hluas nkauj es peb tsis paub thiab peb paub peb yeej ua tsis tau li nej tsis xav yuav tab sis muaj tej tug mas ntshaw nej tus poj niam heev thiab hais txog kev sib nyiag tham hluas nkauj hluas nraug peb poj niam yog tham lawm tus ntse tiag2 tham tau ntev ntau xyoo tshaj nej nej twb tsis muaj hnub paub nej ua rau poj niam mob2 los peb poj niam tseem nyob uv taus yog nej paub txog peb poj niam tham hluas nraug kawg nej mob thiab tsis mob los kawg ntshav ntswg cia li tawm los xwb txhais tau tias nej mob tshaj poj niam lawm
I’m sorry that you have to stay with someone only because your family is threatening to disown you if you leave. Let me tell you something and I hope you will take this into consideration. Growing up in a dysfunctional family with my parents living in their toxic marriage, as their children, my siblings and I would’ve wished for them to go their separate ways and be happy than stick together and be miserable. It made our life hard growing up as their children because going home to seeing your parents fight and unhappy everyday was so sad. I left home and got married at 15 to get out of that life and I’m still married to my husband to this day. My parents are still together but now that they’re older they just try to live it to the fullest even if they’re still unhappy. It still makes me sad when I hear from both of them that they’re not happy together and they don’t even have nice things to say to each other. I also believe that in life we all deserve to be happy and to be loved because life is so short. I applaud you for staying, but I hope you will take into consideration for your mental health and your kids, to have the courage to go out there and find your happiness and be with who you love and who loves you back. We only have this one life to live and it should be your choice and your decision on how you want to live it. Best of luck to you.
Txiv neej lub siab ces zoo tus kab mob covid 19 txhua leej txhua tus ntshai Lub neej txiv yuav niam yau ces lwj siab tshaj li yog vim li cas txiv neej lub siab phem ua luaj li thov kom tiam no muaj txij li no xwb
Tus txiv liam los tus niam leej liam thiab. Yog tseem yuav tau tus txiv them child support ces txais tau hais tias yeej tseem hlub tus txiv tiag. Lub ncauj lam hais tias tsis hlub es muab iab liam rau niam thiab txiv tab sis ma lub siab yeej tseem hlub tus txiv.
Txiv neej siab phem lim hiam heev li nawb. Thaum tsis tau tau koj ces nws ua txhua yam zoo rau koj nawb. Nws hais txhua yam lus zoo rau koj ov. Nws yuav hlais koj lub siab tom ntej no nawb. Nws dag kom tau koj paum txiag ua si xwb nawb. Nco ntsoov li ntawd ov.
No sympathy for you lady!! For the boyfriend: Move on with your life dude. You should have learned your lesson the first time around. She is just a user. She is no better than her husband!.
You don't need your parent's approval to do what you want to do. I think you're blaming people for your actions e.g your parents, you ex and your husband. If you don't know what you want... you need to give yourself time to figure things out.
Aib pog twb yog neeg kawm ntawv siab thiab txhob ruam ruam os nawb ....koj tu qub hluas nraug nws lam ntxias koj xwb lam hais lu zoo dag koj kom koj lub neej tawg xwb nws tsis yuav koj.....yog koj nrauj koj tu txiv es yuav lwm tu no mas zoo dua koj tu qub hluas nraug....koj txiv yeej paub zoo es thiaj li tsis pub koj nrauj
Hais rau tus tswv ntawm zaj neej neeg no tias txhob mus cia siab rau tus qub hluas nraug mog kuv li thaum kuv hnov tias nws rov los ua yawg nrauj lawm no mas kuv haj yam zam kev kom deb hos
Sis, I am so sorry for your life and what you are willing to give up or endure. You are telling us to not do what you are doing and to follow our hearts. Well, I need you to follow your heart... Yes, it's TRUE that of how the old tradition Hmong ways of talking and not wanting their daughter to divorce. But, you should know this is America and you must be not to listen to the old hmong ways. Listen to your heart, love yourself enough to be there for your children. Tak a chance at true love. You dont need to stay with someone who does loves you. Who knows if you let this chance pass on your true love, there might not be another chance.
God Ness you should feel bad for the poor guy instead of siding with the two face cheating female dog. You gotta really listen lady or your probably just sexiest
cov me niam tsev aw om hlub nej tus kheej thiab os mog...ib tug txiv tsis hlub koj txhob cia siab nws yuav hlub koj txhob muab tej cawv los haus vim koj yuav ua mob rau koj tus kheej xwb...hmoob txoj kev ruam ces yuav ruam tas tiam.. kav liamm os koj twb tau mus tsoob txaus yuav li ntawd xwb mas...niag hnub tsoob nws xwb cov pojniam ruam li no cia nws txom nyem mas. pojniam ruam li no nyuam qhuav ntxim xwb sawv sawm tuag tsis tuag
Xyov li lau peb ua ib leej ntxhais hmoob mas lwj siab tag ib sim neej li os tus viv ncaus aws! Tsam no ces nrauj tsis tau los kav tsij tsim kom nws siab ntsws lwj di thiab es kom sib phim ces sijhawm dhau mus yuav ploj lawm zuj zus xwb os..
can’t comprehend these indecisive people. Annoying. Tos niag txiv saib cov pog no zoo nkaus aub los cov poj niam no yeej coj li aub. Nyob co tw zov tswv rov los. No sympathy for this lady. Nws zoo li tu aub es tus twg pub pob txha rau yaim ces ncawg tus ntawd xwb. น่ารำคาญว่า
Awww..woman!! Who cares about your parents. They dont care about you. your parents will be mad at you for a few days only. When they see you doing well and happy again and can support them again, they will forgive u. Old people only love u when you can support them.
Such a waste of time telling this story. I hate women who are so decisive. Make a decision and move on with your life lady. Life is too short so stop living in a loveless marriage and resentment. Stand firm on the ground and don't tolerate your spouse cheating, you are the problem by standing by their side and promoting their behaviors. I hope you don't have any daughters because you are teaching them that when their husband cheat in the future, they have to be submissive to their husband. 😤😤😠😠
This is the problem with us women... forgive forgive and forgive. Then don't complain!! If you don't see you're worthy then you are not. Additionally this is one reason why many women die the hand of her husband. Someday your husband cannot tolerate your cheating then he shoots you.
This is like the saying you can take a person out of the ghetto but can’t take the ghetto out of the person. Hmong habits all the same with or without higher education. All the Hmong OGs, cheaters, and undignified have the same history in the US, Laos, and everywhere else.
Your parents are too old fashioned that was back in the old days but today now life is different and if you love your child then no matter what you on her side this is the American way of life.
This might come across as insensitive and mean, but I cannot stand people who complain but refuse to do anything about it. Stop complaining about how shitty your husband is/was because you had the choice of removing him out of your life but you chose not to. Also, who cares what your parents or relatives say because they do not live your life. Better to be happy and not have family and parents than miserable with family and parents. I can't stand Hmong OGs who want their children to stay in a marriage to save face. There's nothing wrong with being divorce especially if you're in a toxic relationship. Anyways, end of my rant!
Why do you have to suffer so your father can save his face? Your father does not wear your shoe. Please move on and find someone who truly love you. Listing to this story gives me high blood pressure.
Why u listen to parents for their approval of your divorce? U are over 18 yrs of age! U need to be strong for your own will. U can live by yourself as independent and dont depend on your parents. U suffer yourself.
Thought you were going to make the right choice. Don’t blame your parents because you are old enough to decide for yourself. This is just another venting story.
Koj mas tsim nyog kawg tau ob tsab phom ruam. Peb cov no hlub poj niam tuag nthi peb tej qub kiav roj ces ua poj nrauj tag peb vim thaum thuam tias peb tsis zoo nraug tiam sis peb hom no yog hom zoo tau tus me tob tob thiab zoo nraug tuaj rau yav laus tsuas muaj koj tus qub kiav roj es thiaj rov qab noj qub zaub peb mas tus siab nrho tag tiam....
Poj niam mas siab muag tshaj tos lawv hais tias poj niam siab dev no yeej muaj tiag txiv siab phem npaum ko es tseem uv thiab nim hais hais cuag li yuav muab nrauj twb nrauj tsis tau li los.
Poj duam aws, cas koj tsis nyob twj ywm lub npe duam naw, cas tseem coj tuaj paiv rau peb chim siab pab koj khib txog twg. Koj ces yuav khuv xim mus tag tiam no txog hnub koj lub eye close
YOg koj tus hluas nraug zoo nws yeej tsis ua yawg nrauj li nawb. Nws yeej phem xws kiag li koj niag txiv ntag. Nws thiaj li muaj peev xwm tuaj tham tau luag tej pojniam li koj ko. Nws siab phem heev li nawb. Nws ua lus qhua ntxias koj ces koj nim khuv khuv xim nws xwb ov. Tau kiag ces nws cem koj tias koj siab phem heev, koj tseem muaj txiv los koj thiaj li tham nws. Koj yuav khuv xim heev li nawb.
TUS NIAM TSEV NO MUAB XAV MAS NWS PHEM NAWB VIM NWS TWB G KAM NRAUG NWS TUS TXIV TAB SIS NWS HO HAIS KOM LWM TUS NRAUJ E XOB UV LI NWS NO MAS NWS YOG IB TUG NEEG G NCAJ KIAG NWS MLOOG NWS NIAM NWS TXIV HAIS TAB SIS NWS HO KOM LWM TUS XOB MLOOG NIAM MLOOG TXIV HAIS TUS POJ NIAM NO SIV G TAU LOS UA NIAM TSEV NWS G NRAUJ TAB SIS NWS COB KOM LWM TUS NRAUJ.
Sister, mloog niam txiv lus tau dabtsi no? Your parents don’t pay your bills or feed you! You only have one life to live! Make your self happy with the one who loves you! Stop wasting your life away in a loveless painful life. No man, parents, families, or friends worth being miserable for. This is one way to make a clear decision: you already know that by staying, you’re 100% unhappy, miserable, and dead inside. Leaving: you got 50/50 percent chance of finding happiness. Most people would take this 50% chance especially when you still have someone waiting on you. Your kids will grow up and leave home and your parents will passed away down the road. None of them are your future. Can you imagine living this kind of life for the next 20 plus years? Really? Peb cov pojniam hmoob aw! Thov txhob pheej ua cav lwj sib ib lawn mas los! Yuav tsum hlub yus tus kheej thiab ma! Peb yuav cia cov txiv neej siab dev no ua phem npaum li cas ntxiv thiab no? Koi tus txiv no ces thaum neb laus lawm nws tseem yuav rov ua rau koi ntxiv ov! This is not the end of his games! Child support only hold him for a little while but won’t last! Trust me, I know these things!
Your husband is only doing this because he is wrong. You are weak that’s why you will suffer. Just wait, in the future when you are older he will leave you and NO ONE will be able to help you BUT say sorry. You will regret and I feel sorry for you. Your parents will always be there but they cannot agree with you to divorce your husband. You need to be strong and go for what you want than your parents will follow. Good luck!!
Tus viv ncaus xaiv mog yeej ua tus neeg mob zoo dua ua tus neeg phem nyob ua ib leej niam zoo rau tej me nyuam yus pom tej me nyuam nyob kaj siab luag ntxhi ces zoo yus siab dua nawb mog
You should have left him. It's not worth your pain. You'll always wondered what if. Run away to be with him. You only live once. Your husband is worthless now. Go find your bf before he's gone and you'll regret it forever.
Tus yus tsis tau ces yeej khuv xim es tus ntses loj ces yeej yog tus dim, thaum nyob yus xub ntiag ces dub dub tabsis tso plhuas rau luag ces tseem ntxim ntxim hlub.
Wow... pab koj tu siab ua luaj, peb Hmoob cov niam txiv uas tsi paub pab lawv cov me nyuam ho mus pab tus sab nraum. Lub neej pem suab thov kom peb cov ntxhais yuav tsum ua neej kom tsim nyog yug los ib zaug thiab maz lov!!!
I wish Hmong women would stop blaming on the culture but instead do whats best for themselvesand not for others. Always remember Good or bad people will always have shit to say. Do what’s best for u.
Mg Mua ❤️❤️❤️
Exactly totally agree with you. It's not like we live in Laos and everything is neej tsa. Have a backbone woman. I thought she was educated. Guess 4 year degree didn't do shit for her. So stop complaining and lay in your bed that you made.
I was in the same situation. My family and his family refused for us to divorce. I awoke up one day and tell myself, do I really want to live like this for another 30 years...NO.. so I left... my family disowned me. After 2 years, my family and I patched things back up and now we are closer than ever. I raised 4 beautiful kids on my own, held a good job ... my kids are all grown up and doing great. I don’t plan to get married because I enjoy being able to do whatever I want with my kids and my money. However, my boyfriend and I have been together for six years and going on strong. He treats me like a queen. The number one thing you need to realize is .. love yourself first, do what makes your little heart happy.. not for your husband, parent or kids.. At the end of the day...it’s YOU. I took a few years just finding myself and truly love myself before I finally enter relationships. You need to love yourself.
💯 truth.
I wish we get more stories from strong women like you than all these low self-esteem and weak minded ladies.
She’s the real perpetrator. The real victim is the boyfriend. Listen to the story people🤦🏻♂️🤦🏻♂️🤦🏻♂️
Tsu Vaj i agree
Be with who makes you happy, stop listening to others who doesn’t even wear your shoes.
It was just a taste of her own medicine... Why betray the first love in the first place. It’s call karma!!! I know ladies gonna defend ladies but she’s a rotten human too
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Poor guy. U didn't pick him the first time. U cheated on him wit your husband. The 2nd time, u used him as revenge on your husband and u didn't pick him again. He should move on. You're not worth his time. Lol. Can't blame anyone lady. You yourself is the one who makes all your decisions for you, whether u believe or not.
maryly09 thank you for seeing deep into the story instead of just bashing on the wrong person👍🏼
Lady, this is America. No one can make you stay or do anything you don’t want to. Please don’t play the victim. If you truly want to leave your cheating husband you would have done it. In your heart you still want to stay so be honest and don’t blame others. I feel bad for you but you need make that decision.
Right? I honestly feel she still loves and wants her husband, but she's just mad and hurt. And she acts tough to show that she can cheat on him too, but at the end she couldn't leave him bc she still loves him, yet she blames it on her parents. Lol. Trust me. If she's able to cheat on him back, she's able to leave him too. She just doesn't want to.
By all means, he doesn’t deserve your forgiveness. However, if you can’t forgove him, don’t stay in the relationship. Why suffer in pain and no happiness? Life with no love will be miserable. Why would you want to stay in that?!
mimaiv Oaht by all means she doesn’t deserve the first guy cause she basically cheated on him first. You got to really listen!!!
Don’t feel bad sis. Cov neej tsa ces yog peb pojniam lub neej thiab lub hom piaj ho peb poj niam ces zoo li tsis muaj dabtsi li. Kiag tag los rov los nyob tu siab nrog vim mloog neej tsa hais tas lub neeg xwb. Tas twg mam ncaim lub ntiaj teb mus es mam dim txoj kev nyuaj siab ua poj niam hmoob.
I feel so sorry for you. Respect yourself and do not let your husband cheat on you. You are worth so much more. Live for yourself because your parents do not always know best. Life is too precious to live it while not being happy. Everyone deserves happiness including you.
Sister, no one can force you. Find your happiness. Life's too short.
“Sometimes the best revenge is best served cold”.
I think you should go for it. He deserved to feel your pain.
Me muam yus xav yuav tus zoo tsaj plaws ces lawv mus txog twg los yeej tau tus hlub ces yeej ua kev mob siab rau koj mog tus muam lub neej yuav kom zoo yuav tau yuav tus hlub yus es txhob mus yus tus yus hlub es lawv thiajmuabtag nro lawv lub siab rau yua es ua neej thiaj tsis tsau2 run mog.
I hate how cheating spouses & family members accuse u if having a “small liver”...but if the cheating spouse & family members have such a “big liver, “ then they’d let u have ur own slice of happiness (even if it means returning the favor back to the cheating spouse).
Txhob ua sib Pauj thiaj tsis muaj kev sib nrauj mog hmoob
Txiv neej muaj poj niam tham hluas nkauj yog kev ua si rau lawv nkaus xwb, tab sis qee tug kuv tsis yog li ntawv thiab. Txhua tus poj niam muaj txiv tham hluas nraug mas tsis yog ua si li txiv neej muaj poj niam tham hluas nkauj lawm. Kev txiav txim siab yuav koj tus txij nkawm thiab kev ua neej nrog nws yog koj. Koj xav tias txoj kev ua neej nrog nws yoj koob xov los tsis tau lawm ces koj cia li nrauj nws xwb vim kev ua neej nrog nws yeej tsis tsav thiab tsam rau neb ob leeg ntxiv mus lawm. Koj yog poj niam, thov nrauj koj tus txiv ua ntej koj tham hluas thiaj tsis khaum!
Me niam hluas es!!! kuv nrog koj tu siab koj lub neej los kuamuag zoo li kuv thiab vim peb yug los ua ib tug ntxhaig hmong es peb thiaj tau lub hais tías uv yeej tsis tuag no tabsis yog uv tiag tuag tiag os lub cev tsis tuag tiamsis siab ntsws tuag tag ua neej tsis muaj kev zoo siab nrog luag vim lub siab hlub li yav ntuj qub qab tsis muaj lawm mog kuv txiv hais tib yam li koj txiv thiab mas lam ua neej kom tej me nyuam tau chaw nyob os mog
Sim neej no mas thiaj li txawj liam tiag tiag...cas tseem muaj ntsej muag muab liam rau yus niam yus txiv...koj twb tau ko tab sis koj tsis tuav...lub neej nyob teb chaws meskas no koj twb yeej paub zoo ntawm peb hmoob lub neej los koj yeej paub zoo...yuav nyiag sib aim yuav tsum nrauj kom tu taw tso tbiaj li tsis txhaum...koj uv luag es koj tau dab tsi...cas koj twb tsis xav hais tias koj twb tag nqi rau luag lawm es luag thiaj mus ua yam li koj twb tsis yog luag tus poj niam li lawm...ntshe tej zaum koj yeej siab phem ua ntej rau tus nram ntej lawm es hnub no thiaj li npam koj lawm xwb os
tu me niam tsev koj txiav txim siab yog lawm nawb mog tej niag txiv neej no siab phem2 li thaum lawv tsi tau yuav koj ce lawv ua zaj ua ntxeev hai lu zoo rau koj kom koj lub siab muag rau lawv xwb tab sis thaum lawv yuav tau koj lawm ce lawv xav ua phem li ca rau koj lo tau tag nrho tsi txhob mu ntseeg txiv neej lub siab thiab lo nyuag lu zoo ntawv yooj yim yuav koj tu qub txiv ko twj ywm xwb lwm hnub koj thiaj tsi muaj txoj kev yuam kev thiab khuv xim os mog
Why, iv been listing to some of these stories on my spear time...that most of u guys have such High degrees on Bachelor, doctor, the list goes on etc....but all ur lifes is so mess up🙄for real!! I guess r smart book wise only. Not Street smart love(means got to be tough) tough up ur love, relationship, n more not just childish play.☝️✊💪
Those that dont have that are better love n respect each other.
Peb ua neeg ces thaum zoo li no ces yeej yuav tau ua li tus niam tsev no vim tsi nrhiav kev pab yus tus kheej ces kawg tuag xwb yog li kuv xav ntse yog lub neej zoo li no lawm thaum yus hai tsi tau yus tus txiv lawm cez yuav tau ua li koj ua yog lawm
Qub neeg qub siab.qub dev qub ntxhiab .av tsis lem ces tsis hloov li os .ib hnub twg nws yeej yuav rov ua dua
I agree.
Vaus cas zoo li kuv os.. Lub neej no yauv thaum twg es yus mam li mus es kuv tiaj li tau zoo. Sim neej no tus siab tshaj plaws. Chim2 es xav npo npa xwb. Cas yus xav yus lub neej yog yus xwb los cas tseem muaj lwm tus thiab..
Tus niam laus koj ua yog lawm os txiv neej ua yus mob mob siab ces kawg nrhiav tus ntshiab
Boyfriend: THANK YOU FOR YOUR SERVICE!!!!
Cas yuav txau tu siab ua luaj.😢😢😢zoo li kuv lub neej Kiag li hmoob aw tau niam tau txiv zoo li koj peb no ces tu siab tag ib sim neej os me vivncau txau hlub aw
Thaum txiv neej lub qau tawv mas lawv hais ib yam lus rau nej pojniam ov. Thaum lawv tus qau tuag lawm mas lawv hais lawv ib yam lus rau nej pojniam nawb. Txhob lam qaug quav ntseeg txiv neej cov lus mos lus muag ntxias nej ov mog.
Yes yog kawm mas!!! If your parents really love you they’ll take you back! But Hmong parents now and days they only care about their reputation! Sad but true
Oh no I will not forgive a husband who cheat on me sister. No way! If you're not happy like you said, leave that husband. You live for you not for your parents. Your father don't want you to divorce because he was a cheater to your mom too. A father who cheat on your mom will never be on your side.
gachagirl Yang were you really listening to the story??? The boyfriend is the victim here and she’s a two time manipulative sick lying individual. She just got a taste of her own medicine that’s all
Koj niam koj txiv yeej hais yog lawm yog nws twb los nyoo thov txim quaj qaws lawm koj yuav tau zam txim rau ib zaug. Koj lub siab tsis kam rov ua zoo vim muaj tus tod ntxias2 koj lawm koj thiaj tsis kam zam txim. Yeej paub tias nws ua mob2 koj lawm tabsis nws twb thov quaj qaws lawm koj yuav tau pib dua tshiab vim txoj kev yuav mus ua Poj nrauj mus ua niam txais tig koj twb tsis paub tias yuav zoo los tsis zoo mog. Txoj kev Tom ntej tsuas yog nyob ntawm txoj hmoo xwb mog es rov ua zoo rau tus uas koj twb muaj neej nrog los lawm es twb paub siab ntseeg siab thiab nws twb yeem los ua zoo ces ua zoo mus thiaj tsis lig rau koj ib Hnub Tom ntej nawb mog
You’re smart for nothing! Love yourself and your kids and leave the dog of yours instead of being crazy!
Txiv neej ces poj niam tsis tham hluas nraug ces txiv neej yeej tsis hlub li os.
These OG’s makes no sense, all about their pride not about their kids. Sad to hear a lot of these situations, and there’s the one people bash for finding another solutions
I can’t believe I listened this far to only hear you went back to your husband! How disappointing! You deserve to be happy too!
Tus me niam tsev aw , peb cov laus no yeej xav lis koj txiv xav thiab, vim pom cev tsis paub paub siab . tej zaum koj khuv 2 xim, tab sis tsam koj lub neej yuav puas ,es xyov yog nws hlub tiag los nws yuav lov koj duav xwbnawb , muaj faj yeej meem ceev thiab yog yus yeej tsis muaj txiv lawm , ces lis cas los xij, tab sis yus tus txiv rov thov yuav koj yeej meem hlub npaum lis hlub tau es thiaj tsis xav txog lig nawb. Twb muaj cov qub nkauj qub nraug rov sib yuav uas neej tsis txog twg lis.
Why live in pain. Move on. When your kids are grown, they not gonna care much about parents anymore!
Sad story sister 😭😭😭😭
Tus niam tsev Tsi txhob tu siab os yog koj mus tau niag qub Yawg nrauj ntawd los xyov puas yuav txog twg os yij meem rau siab ua koj lub neej xwb twb yog vim txoj kev niam nyob ib qho txiv ua dej Num rau ib qhov ces lub neej thiaj zoo li ko, koj hais tias koj txiv hais koj Tsi yog no tab sis yog koj mus tau nws es Tsi zoo mas haj yam txom nyem siab Tsi muaj leej twg nrog hlub koj tej me nyuam koj yuav tu siab tshaj
Tu siab heev li os kov lub neej tag tom nyob li koj lub thiab es. Kuv yuav li cas thov koj pab ib txoj kev tawm pub rau kuv thiab vim nyuaj siab dhau tsis pom kev tawm lawm os
I wouldn't care if my family wants to disown me. If I want to divorce, it's my decision. It's my life. I won't die if my family don't want me. There's many resources here in America.
Obviously, if she really truly wants to divorce him, she would have done it on her own, just like when she truly wanted to cheat on him to get her revenge. She didn't need her parents permission to cheat and yet, she cheated. So i don't understand why she would need their permission to divorce. We know she's only using them as an excuse to remain married to her husband.
Ua tsaug rau tus sister no zaj dab neeg. Yeej yog li koj hais os sister aws, cov laus tsuas xav txog lawv lub meej mom xwb. Tej menyuam yuav tuag los tsuas luag saib tau ob niag laus xwb ces menyuam yuav tuag tiag tiag los kav liam hmoob yeej zoo li no thov kom cov menyuam hmoob xas maim tshiab no txhob siab phem li cov laus thauv.
Know how feel es nroj koj tus siab thiab mob siab os tus mes vivncaus.
Please quit blaming your decisions on being born a "Hmong Daughter". Blame your loveless marriage on yourself!!
Good Job Well done
Mloog kojlub siab os mog..txiv siab phem li no nrauj zoo dua yus thiaj tsis mob hlwb tuag uv tiag yuav tuag tiag .mes kas teb no yog nyob tsis tau lawm ces yus nrauj yus tom mes kas xwb
Tired of old folks. U care so much about reputation but not your happiness... no wonder Hmong people so miserable
Dont blame others cause you are stupid
Tug niam tsev cas kj tug txiv g nruaj kj kiag mus nrog kj niag qub hmoob. Qub hmoob qub mob 6 kj yav ntej xb, txhob cia siab rau tug qub lawm.
I can only forgive if it was a true and one time mistake. But never forgive a purposeful act ever. If my husband did like yours, I showed him the door to exit real quick! Because if I can’t have him all to myself, then I don’t want him at all period!!! Life is too busy and short to be miserable and depressed. Don’t leave to show as “power “ but leave because you want to be better! I would hate to see you missing out on potential happiness with your exboyfriend whom truly loves you! Of course, no guarantee, but 50 percent chance!
Tus txiv ua hluas nej txhob xav tias nej ntse nej tham hluas nkauj es peb tsis paub thiab peb paub peb yeej ua tsis tau li nej tsis xav yuav tab sis muaj tej tug mas ntshaw nej tus poj niam heev thiab hais txog kev sib nyiag tham hluas nkauj hluas nraug peb poj niam yog tham lawm tus ntse tiag2 tham tau ntev ntau xyoo tshaj nej nej twb tsis muaj hnub paub nej ua rau poj niam mob2 los peb poj niam tseem nyob uv taus yog nej paub txog peb poj niam tham hluas nraug kawg nej mob thiab tsis mob los kawg ntshav ntswg cia li tawm los xwb txhais tau tias nej mob tshaj poj niam lawm
I’m sorry that you have to stay with someone only because your family is threatening to disown you if you leave. Let me tell you something and I hope you will take this into consideration. Growing up in a dysfunctional family with my parents living in their toxic marriage, as their children, my siblings and I would’ve wished for them to go their separate ways and be happy than stick together and be miserable. It made our life hard growing up as their children because going home to seeing your parents fight and unhappy everyday was so sad. I left home and got married at 15 to get out of that life and I’m still married to my husband to this day. My parents are still together but now that they’re older they just try to live it to the fullest even if they’re still unhappy. It still makes me sad when I hear from both of them that they’re not happy together and they don’t even have nice things to say to each other.
I also believe that in life we all deserve to be happy and to be loved because life is so short. I applaud you for staying, but I hope you will take into consideration for your mental health and your kids, to have the courage to go out there and find your happiness and be with who you love and who loves you back. We only have this one life to live and it should be your choice and your decision on how you want to live it. Best of luck to you.
Txiv neej lub siab ces zoo tus kab mob covid 19 txhua leej txhua tus ntshai Lub neej txiv yuav niam yau ces lwj siab tshaj li yog vim li cas txiv neej lub siab phem ua luaj li thov kom tiam no muaj txij li no xwb
Nyob teb chaws meskas lawm es ua cas koj thiaj mus mploog koj niam txiv hais nas poj ruam. Koj ya qhov kom kav koj siab xwb ib tsam koj tuag nas
Tus txiv liam los tus niam leej liam thiab. Yog tseem yuav tau tus txiv them child support ces txais tau hais tias yeej tseem hlub tus txiv tiag. Lub ncauj lam hais tias tsis hlub es muab iab liam rau niam thiab txiv tab sis ma lub siab yeej tseem hlub tus txiv.
Txiv neej siab phem lim hiam heev li nawb. Thaum tsis tau tau koj ces nws ua txhua yam zoo rau koj nawb. Nws hais txhua yam lus zoo rau koj ov. Nws yuav hlais koj lub siab tom ntej no nawb. Nws dag kom tau koj paum txiag ua si xwb nawb. Nco ntsoov li ntawd ov.
No sympathy for you lady!! For the boyfriend: Move on with your life dude. You should have learned your lesson the first time around. She is just a user. She is no better than her husband!.
You don't need your parent's approval to do what you want to do. I think you're blaming people for your actions e.g your parents, you ex and your husband. If you don't know what you want... you need to give yourself time to figure things out.
Aib pog twb yog neeg kawm ntawv siab thiab txhob ruam ruam os nawb ....koj tu qub hluas nraug nws lam ntxias koj xwb lam hais lu zoo dag koj kom koj lub neej tawg xwb nws tsis yuav koj.....yog koj nrauj koj tu txiv es yuav lwm tu no mas zoo dua koj tu qub hluas nraug....koj txiv yeej paub zoo es thiaj li tsis pub koj nrauj
Hais rau tus tswv ntawm zaj neej neeg no tias txhob mus cia siab rau tus qub hluas nraug mog kuv li thaum kuv hnov tias nws rov los ua yawg nrauj lawm no mas kuv haj yam zam kev kom deb hos
Sis, I am so sorry for your life and what you are willing to give up or endure. You are telling us to not do what you are doing and to follow our hearts. Well, I need you to follow your heart... Yes, it's TRUE that of how the old tradition Hmong ways of talking and not wanting their daughter to divorce. But, you should know this is America and you must be not to listen to the old hmong ways. Listen to your heart, love yourself enough to be there for your children. Tak a chance at true love. You dont need to stay with someone who does loves you. Who knows if you let this chance pass on your true love, there might not be another chance.
God Ness you should feel bad for the poor guy instead of siding with the two face cheating female dog. You gotta really listen lady or your probably just sexiest
Can't wait until u there 🤔
cov me niam tsev aw om hlub nej tus kheej thiab os mog...ib tug txiv tsis hlub koj txhob cia siab nws yuav hlub koj txhob muab tej cawv los haus vim koj yuav ua mob rau koj tus kheej xwb...hmoob txoj kev ruam ces yuav ruam tas tiam..
kav liamm os koj twb tau mus tsoob txaus yuav li ntawd xwb mas...niag hnub tsoob nws xwb cov pojniam ruam li no cia nws txom nyem mas. pojniam ruam li no nyuam qhuav ntxim xwb sawv sawm tuag tsis tuag
Koj ntsia koj tus txiv ntawm koj xub ntiag ko txoj kev ua hluas nraug xwb mas, ces koj paub txiv neej lub siab lim hiam lawm ov. Nws mus dag pim txiag rau ub rau no xwb nawb, Thaum nws tus hluas nkauj muaj me nyuam lawm, nws twb hloov siab kiag lawm ov. Txhob mus ntseeg tus txiv neej uas tab tom los ntxias koj ntawd nawb.
Xyov li lau peb ua ib leej ntxhais hmoob mas lwj siab tag ib sim neej li os tus viv ncaus aws! Tsam no ces nrauj tsis tau los kav tsij tsim kom nws siab ntsws lwj di thiab es kom sib phim ces sijhawm dhau mus yuav ploj lawm zuj zus xwb os..
Tus me niam hluas aw cas nim raug kv tus mob thiab os sim neej no tu siab tag nrho rau lub neej no mog
can’t comprehend these indecisive people. Annoying.
Tos niag txiv saib cov pog no zoo nkaus aub los cov poj niam no yeej coj li aub. Nyob co tw zov tswv rov los.
No sympathy for this lady. Nws zoo li tu aub es tus twg pub pob txha rau yaim ces ncawg tus ntawd xwb. น่ารำคาญว่า
Tus txiv zoo li ko ces kuv muab veg pov tseg ntev. Tau cov nyiag niam thiab txiv zoo li ko ces tu siab nrho
Pojniam hmoob ces yeej yog tus swb xwb mog, txhob tu2 siab, hmoov zoo koj tus txiv twb rov los ces zoo kawg lawm
Awww..woman!! Who cares about your parents. They dont care about you. your parents will be mad at you for a few days only. When they see you doing well and happy again and can support them again, they will forgive u. Old people only love u when you can support them.
Such a waste of time telling this story. I hate women who are so decisive. Make a decision and move on with your life lady. Life is too short so stop living in a loveless marriage and resentment. Stand firm on the ground and don't tolerate your spouse cheating, you are the problem by standing by their side and promoting their behaviors. I hope you don't have any daughters because you are teaching them that when their husband cheat in the future, they have to be submissive to their husband. 😤😤😠😠
What go around come around should never done what you done to the services man.
Xou Moua right!!! And all these women do is bash on the dudes but turn a blind eye on other women 🤦🏻♂️
This is the problem with us women... forgive forgive and forgive. Then don't complain!! If you don't see you're worthy then you are not. Additionally this is one reason why many women die the hand of her husband. Someday your husband cannot tolerate your cheating then he shoots you.
This is like the saying you can take a person out of the ghetto but can’t take the ghetto out of the person. Hmong habits all the same with or without higher education. All the Hmong OGs, cheaters, and undignified have the same history in the US, Laos, and everywhere else.
As a child this is the most heartbreaking thing to see your Dad put your Mom through. Remember to love yourself before you love anyone else.
You have a choice.. don’t blame it on your parents
Your parents are too old fashioned that was back in the old days but today now life is different and if you love your child then no matter what you on her side this is the American way of life.
You know that it’s a toxic marriage. Why would you continue to stay? 🤷♀️🤷♀️
This might come across as insensitive and mean, but I cannot stand people who complain but refuse to do anything about it. Stop complaining about how shitty your husband is/was because you had the choice of removing him out of your life but you chose not to.
Also, who cares what your parents or relatives say because they do not live your life. Better to be happy and not have family and parents than miserable with family and parents. I can't stand Hmong OGs who want their children to stay in a marriage to save face. There's nothing wrong with being divorce especially if you're in a toxic relationship. Anyways, end of my rant!
Why do you have to suffer so your father can save his face? Your father does not wear your shoe. Please move on and find someone who truly love you. Listing to this story gives me high blood pressure.
Kuv xav ntse koj twb kaj siab lawm no es cas tseem tiv kev lwj siab li kos es cas hos tsi txhob mus tham lwm tus nas ntuj es
Why u listen to parents for their approval of your divorce? U are over 18 yrs of age! U need to be strong for your own will. U can live by yourself as independent and dont depend on your parents. U suffer yourself.
Sad...I hope you find happiness
Thought you were going to make the right choice. Don’t blame your parents because you are old enough to decide for yourself. This is just another venting story.
Koj mas tsim nyog kawg tau ob tsab phom ruam. Peb cov no hlub poj niam tuag nthi peb tej qub kiav roj ces ua poj nrauj tag peb vim thaum thuam tias peb tsis zoo nraug tiam sis peb hom no yog hom zoo tau tus me tob tob thiab zoo nraug tuaj rau yav laus tsuas muaj koj tus qub kiav roj es thiaj rov qab noj qub zaub peb mas tus siab nrho tag tiam....
Poj niam mas siab muag tshaj tos lawv hais tias poj niam siab dev no yeej muaj tiag txiv siab phem npaum ko es tseem uv thiab nim hais hais cuag li yuav muab nrauj twb nrauj tsis tau li los.
Poj duam aws, cas koj tsis nyob twj ywm lub npe duam naw, cas tseem coj tuaj paiv rau peb chim siab pab koj khib txog twg. Koj ces yuav khuv xim mus tag tiam no txog hnub koj lub eye close
Lam ciaj txoj sia los ua neej tus siab tab si tsis muaj peev xwv vim tseg tsis taus tus txiv
YOg koj tus hluas nraug zoo nws yeej tsis ua yawg nrauj li nawb. Nws yeej phem xws kiag li koj niag txiv ntag. Nws thiaj li muaj peev xwm tuaj tham tau luag tej pojniam li koj ko. Nws siab phem heev li nawb. Nws ua lus qhua ntxias koj ces koj nim khuv khuv xim nws xwb ov. Tau kiag ces nws cem koj tias koj siab phem heev, koj tseem muaj txiv los koj thiaj li tham nws. Koj yuav khuv xim heev li nawb.
TUS NIAM TSEV NO MUAB XAV MAS NWS PHEM NAWB VIM NWS TWB G KAM NRAUG NWS TUS TXIV TAB SIS NWS HO HAIS KOM LWM TUS NRAUJ E XOB UV LI NWS NO MAS NWS YOG IB TUG NEEG G NCAJ KIAG NWS MLOOG NWS NIAM NWS TXIV HAIS TAB SIS NWS HO KOM LWM TUS XOB MLOOG NIAM MLOOG TXIV HAIS TUS POJ NIAM NO SIV G TAU LOS UA NIAM TSEV NWS G NRAUJ TAB SIS NWS COB KOM LWM TUS NRAUJ.
Yog lawm os 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Aww so sad
Koj txiv his tias mob tsis tuag koj txiv ua neej puas npe los yeej tsis tuag thiab. Koj txiv you ib tu neeg phem tshaj plaws.
Sister, mloog niam txiv lus tau dabtsi no? Your parents don’t pay your bills or feed you! You only have one life to live! Make your self happy with the one who loves you! Stop wasting your life away in a loveless painful life. No man, parents, families, or friends worth being miserable for. This is one way to make a clear decision: you already know that by staying, you’re 100% unhappy, miserable, and dead inside. Leaving: you got 50/50 percent chance of finding happiness. Most people would take this 50% chance especially when you still have someone waiting on you. Your kids will grow up and leave home and your parents will passed away down the road. None of them are your future. Can you imagine living this kind of life for the next 20 plus years? Really? Peb cov pojniam hmoob aw! Thov txhob pheej ua cav lwj sib ib lawn mas los! Yuav tsum hlub yus tus kheej thiab ma! Peb yuav cia cov txiv neej siab dev no ua phem npaum li cas ntxiv thiab no? Koi tus txiv no ces thaum neb laus lawm nws tseem yuav rov ua rau koi ntxiv ov! This is not the end of his games! Child support only hold him for a little while but won’t last! Trust me, I know these things!
This lady deserved it. She can't make a decision. So her and her husband deserve eachother. Hope her ex bf moves on.
Your husband is only doing this because he is wrong. You are weak that’s why you will suffer. Just wait, in the future when you are older he will leave you and NO ONE will be able to help you BUT say sorry. You will regret and I feel sorry for you. Your parents will always be there but they cannot agree with you to divorce your husband. You need to be strong and go for what you want than your parents will follow. Good luck!!
Tus viv ncaus xaiv mog yeej ua tus neeg mob zoo dua ua tus neeg phem nyob ua ib leej niam zoo rau tej me nyuam yus pom tej me nyuam nyob kaj siab luag ntxhi ces zoo yus siab dua nawb mog
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Hmoob pheej hais tias yog nej Niam nej Txiv ntshai2 tsam nyhav lawv tog no es lawv thiaj pheej nias nej no puas yog ne!
You should have left him. It's not worth your pain. You'll always wondered what if. Run away to be with him. You only live once. Your husband is worthless now. Go find your bf before he's gone and you'll regret it forever.