I completely understand what he’s saying; I haven’t walked away from my calling because I know it’s from God and i absolutely love what I do; but i absolutely have had moments where I’ve questioned and wanted to walk away. But riding out the storms with God is something I absolutely do not regret! Obedience is best, whether that’s marriage, business, parenting, or whatever God calls you to❤️
God has a beautiful way of reminding us that marriage still exist. When we submit truly to his plan, we cannot live by the flesh. Fleshly living will have us thinking that marriage is impossible that all men are horrible. When it’s clear, they still exist. We have to believe it we have to claim it, and we have to allow God to make it a part of our calling when the time comes, but until then submit to God’s plan, and do the inner work ❤️
That is beautiful. The whole truth nothing but the truth did that Man of God speak. He is 10 Billion% correct! Marriage is not about self serving interests; marriage is about serving God and your spouse to give God All the Glory through your marriage. Kingdom Marriage between one man and one woman is a reflection of God’s love for His bride the Church. Shalom 😊💖
Godly marriage is a self sacrificing covenant of serving & helping your spouse pursue God & become their most Christ like self, while worldly marriage is a self serving contract of serving one's ego at the very expense of their spouse's soul!
Facts! It's not about feeding our ego and selfish needs but about serving. Too often we got that wrong thanks to Hollywood and the music industry. Thanks for the confirmation #called🔥🔥
For a long time I have felt that the film, music & media have skewed what marriage is. Even the church and politics has contributed to this. Having the emotional intelligence to distinguish if someone is going to be a good fit with you or not. If you can make a life with that person, how you're going to approach your difficulties as well as your pleasures; that's what makes a marriage. Not the finding your fairy tale Prince, not the build up to the big day, how many people attend, how much you spend in the party - thats irrelevant. If you want happily ever after you need to be clear and realistic
@mypointofview1111 Right on! Most people dream of the white dress and the big show for their weddings whereas real marriage starts after the big show, it's a lifetime of dedication and commitment. Unfortunately, many will focus more on the show itself than the commitment. As if they're using marriage to go back to their old ways:"I tried it, not for me (oh, and crossing it off my bucket list).
Exactly this! My husband and I were just discussing this last week. You have to have a servant's heart and spirit to be a good spouse/parent. Many people are too selfish as he stated. It also requires an above average degree of maturity.
I know we're talking about marriage, but this is EXACTLY how I feel about the medical field, flaws and all. I nearly walked away from it and I was CALLED to come back to it. It's just something within you that you just know you can't break away from. Its just in your destiny. 🙏🏾
I feel that way with working with Children and families to create strong bonds and break chains of childhood trauma. I still discussed at length with my praying sister. ❤
This is DEEP, folks! My heart had been HEAVY due to coming from parents who seemed NOT to take their marriage as a CALLING but as a chore that adults do. My mom even told me we all have to just try it out and see if marriage works or not. I totally agree and I just went ahead with a marriage based on NOTHING. He just said let's get married so that he could process his papers through my British citizenship and I agreed as we had been living together. No discussion of godly vision or life values. Gosh. Never again for my generation as we had a babygirl. I break out of marital abnormalities in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, amen! 🙏🏿
Amen my brother. You know God never said for us to not be married. He has always made it clear why marriage is important. 1 Corinthians 7:9 But if they cannot control themselves, they should marry, for it is better to marry than to burn with passion. So many of ya are connected to the devil. Though you think you are not. Its called manipulation. You can be spiritual. You can be religious. You can be an atheist. You can be a sourcery worker. And you all will be connected to the devil. How? Through sin. As long as you are against the most high God and Jesus. You will never prosper. You will never have marraige. You will never have peace. So why punish yourself? I pray for so many in the mighty name of Jesus. Amen 🙏🏼✝️❤️❤️🙌🏼
I think sometimes we can make things overly deep.Humans are created for companionship,and that is simply why people just want to be with people for that need of companionship and connection. There are people more healthier and have had healthier conditioning and that makes it easier for them to navigate relationship. The calling for marriage is a desire to be a healthy companion to your partner and the choice to commit to one person. Things are not always only spiritual but also have a very human and psychological component to them.
You haven't been in a hard evil spouse like marriage. When you guys speak please bring the balance between destructive marriages and challenging / difficult marriages. Be in the first one, you will tell me that God didn't send you to be slaughtered. Cheers
I'm gona have to disagree. The Bible says that if you can't abstain from sex, then you should get married. The vast majority of ppl can't abstain from sex their entire lives. Therefore, most ppl are "called" to marriage, whatever that means.
Pretty much in this world if you're not in the business of getting then you're in the business of losing When someone still has the baby a person that means that person has the Peter Pan syndrome I still thinks like an infant Even though they are winning all kinds of foreign cars and foreign clothes they are pretty much in the infantile state- The Working is a Sucka..
SORRY BROTHER. WOMEN HAVE BEEN THE CULPRITS AND PROBLEMATIC ISSUES SINCE CHILDHOOD WHERE THERE IS NO FORGIVENESS ON MY PART. I WILL NEVER LEAVE THE WOMAN THAT HAS ENRICHED THIS LIFE. BUT I INTEND ON LIVING A LIFE OF SOLITUDE. A LEGACY TO BE REMEMBERED FOR THE AGES. ALWAYS CONSIDER THE STEPS OF THE SURVIVORS IN THIS WORLD. BEING COGNIZANT OF WALKING IN THE LIGHT AS A LONE WOLF MENTALITY. IT IS THE BEST COURSE TOWARDS ACTIONABLE WORKS TOWARDS REDISCOVERY AND PEACEFUL EXISTENCE. SISTER NOD YOUR HEAD TOWARDS THIS AS A MESSAGE OF REFLECTION. ISAIAH CHAPTER 32.
I completely understand what he’s saying; I haven’t walked away from my calling because I know it’s from God and i absolutely love what I do; but i absolutely have had moments where I’ve questioned and wanted to walk away. But riding out the storms with God is something I absolutely do not regret! Obedience is best, whether that’s marriage, business, parenting, or whatever God calls you to❤️
And by people we mean mostly women😂😂😂😂😂
God has a beautiful way of reminding us that marriage still exist. When we submit truly to his plan, we cannot live by the flesh. Fleshly living will have us thinking that marriage is impossible that all men are horrible. When it’s clear, they still exist. We have to believe it we have to claim it, and we have to allow God to make it a part of our calling when the time comes, but until then submit to God’s plan, and do the inner work ❤️
I’m a black man 22yr old & 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯👑 approve this everlasting wisdom 💎💎💎💎💎
That is beautiful. The whole truth nothing but the truth did that Man of God speak. He is 10 Billion% correct! Marriage is not about self serving interests; marriage is about serving God and your spouse to give God All the Glory through your marriage. Kingdom Marriage between one man and one woman is a reflection of God’s love for His bride the Church. Shalom 😊💖
Godly marriage is a self sacrificing covenant of serving & helping your spouse pursue God & become their most Christ like self, while worldly marriage is a self serving contract of serving one's ego at the very expense of their spouse's soul!
In the name of Jesus Christ Amen 👑
Amen🎇
Facts! It's not about feeding our ego and selfish needs but about serving. Too often we got that wrong thanks to Hollywood and the music industry. Thanks for the confirmation #called🔥🔥
For a long time I have felt that the film, music & media have skewed what marriage is. Even the church and politics has contributed to this. Having the emotional intelligence to distinguish if someone is going to be a good fit with you or not. If you can make a life with that person, how you're going to approach your difficulties as well as your pleasures; that's what makes a marriage. Not the finding your fairy tale Prince, not the build up to the big day, how many people attend, how much you spend in the party - thats irrelevant. If you want happily ever after you need to be clear and realistic
@mypointofview1111 Right on! Most people dream of the white dress and the big show for their weddings whereas real marriage starts after the big show, it's a lifetime of dedication and commitment. Unfortunately, many will focus more on the show itself than the commitment. As if they're using marriage to go back to their old ways:"I tried it, not for me (oh, and crossing it off my bucket list).
My pastor husband let me walk away. He cared more about serving folks and “performing” than taking care of his 1st ministry
Treating marriage as a calling is definitely something that can help spouses show up
Marriage is a calling! It’s refreshing to hear someone else share the same understanding about marriage! May Adonai bless you abundantly!✨🙏🏾👑
Exactly this! My husband and I were just discussing this last week. You have to have a servant's heart and spirit to be a good spouse/parent. Many people are too selfish as he stated. It also requires an above average degree of maturity.
Absolutely! I truly believe I am called to be a wife to the man God created just for me and me for him.
I know we're talking about marriage, but this is EXACTLY how I feel about the medical field, flaws and all. I nearly walked away from it and I was CALLED to come back to it. It's just something within you that you just know you can't break away from. Its just in your destiny. 🙏🏾
Oh, to have that knowing! What a blessing!
See the movie KNOWING starring Nicholas Cage...🎉
@@guerita7244
I feel that way with working with Children and families to create strong bonds and break chains of childhood trauma. I still discussed at length with my praying sister. ❤
He said a MOUTHFUL! 💯💯❤❤
And by people we mean mostly women😂😂😂😂😂
He’s absolutely right
And by people we mean mostly women😂😂😂😂😂
Let the church say AMEN🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Amen 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼Beautifully said😢❤🕊️😇🌺🌟
Amen and Amen
Beautifully and truthfully said brother.🙏🏾
Amen...this is honestly a message for the masses
❤ Amen
🙏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 God I need your help.
This is the conversation. Not all these lists and ridiculous requirements people are putting out here.
I agree wholeheartedly 🎉🎉🎉🎉
💯% FACTS! Well said 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
AAAMMEENN HALLELUJAH ‼️🙌🏾🙌🏾
This is so true 👍 😊
Amen ...i heard one Preacher say dont get married if youre not willing to serve
This is DEEP, folks! My heart had been HEAVY due to coming from parents who seemed NOT to take their marriage as a CALLING but as a chore that adults do. My mom even told me we all have to just try it out and see if marriage works or not. I totally agree and I just went ahead with a marriage based on NOTHING. He just said let's get married so that he could process his papers through my British citizenship and I agreed as we had been living together. No discussion of godly vision or life values. Gosh. Never again for my generation as we had a babygirl. I break out of marital abnormalities in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, amen! 🙏🏿
Powerful
Wow, just wow! So powerful!!! 🙏🏽❤️
Gospel.
Periodt! Couldn’t have been explained even better
Thank you and amen!!!!!
Facts ❤❤❤
Deep Truth! ✊🏽❤️✊🏽
Woo!! I wholeheartedly Agree! Amen Sir!
Realist words out there 💕 it’s a man’s mission to find his wife.
I feel this young King on this.😮💨
Wow. Deep and appreciated ! Bless🙏🏾
This Real Talk right here 🎯 💙🙏🏽🫡
Well said! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Hmmm. Well said. I need to change my perspective on this.
Woooow ❤
Whew💯
This is an absolute beautiful take on this. No one can say it better
Wow
And by people we mean mostly women😂😂😂😂😂
Nothing but Facts ‼️👏🏾
Perfectly said
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Great message D! I hope Leah's doing well! Who Dey and may the Most High continue to bless you!
I get it now ❤ thank you
Amen my brother.
You know God never said for us to not be married. He has always made it clear why marriage is important.
1 Corinthians 7:9
But if they cannot control themselves, they should marry, for it is better to marry than to burn with passion.
So many of ya are connected to the devil. Though you think you are not. Its called manipulation. You can be spiritual. You can be religious. You can be an atheist. You can be a sourcery worker. And you all will be connected to the devil. How? Through sin. As long as you are against the most high God and Jesus. You will never prosper. You will never have marraige. You will never have peace. So why punish yourself? I pray for so many in the mighty name of Jesus. Amen 🙏🏼✝️❤️❤️🙌🏼
That's Theee most beautiful thing I've everrrr heard about marriage ❤❤❤ is he married???
That's powerful
🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
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Wow can I get one of him please:)
DAAAAAAAMN❤❤❤❤
Yes YES Yes!!
This is truth! Listen to what he says. Self evaluate & then see if what you want lines up with what he said 🤔
YES!!!
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👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
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This was deep 🙏
🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯👌🏽
That’s right.
AMEN…GOD let me wait for the marriage that YOU have called me to!!!‼️
Yet women only care about the wedding.😊
#CHURCH
Can someone please tell me the name of this man?
Well these seems to be a man of god who takes marriage (calling) seriously. Basically it's either in you or it isn't.
I think sometimes we can make things overly deep.Humans are created for companionship,and that is simply why people just want to be with people for that need of companionship and connection.
There are people more healthier and have had healthier conditioning and that makes it easier for them to navigate relationship.
The calling for marriage is a desire to be a healthy companion to your partner and the choice to commit to one person.
Things are not always only spiritual but also have a very human and psychological component to them.
Marriage is for having children.
Raising children is left out of the modern drama of marriage.
You need to evaluate people before you marry them.
Men don't get married/ sign State paperwork. It's a loose loose situation!
You haven't been in a hard evil spouse like marriage.
When you guys speak please bring the balance between destructive marriages and challenging / difficult marriages.
Be in the first one, you will tell me that God didn't send you to be slaughtered.
Cheers
Most people who theorize about marriage have never been married.
You will notice married people are so hush hush about marriage.
For women it is a goal in their checklist.
For the wrong ones but for the right one it’s a commitment
Shut up. The entire population of women are not the same.
There's nothing wrong with that.
@@ShannonsBibleStudyPoor men who marry that type of woman.
For women they want to have kids.
I'm gona have to disagree. The Bible says that if you can't abstain from sex, then you should get married. The vast majority of ppl can't abstain from sex their entire lives. Therefore, most ppl are "called" to marriage, whatever that means.
He said a 🤬 mouth full of
Pretty much in this world if you're not in the business of getting then you're in the business of losing
When someone still has the baby a person that means that person has the Peter Pan syndrome I still thinks like an infant Even though they are winning all kinds of foreign cars and foreign clothes they are pretty much in the infantile state-
The Working is a Sucka..
Where’s the full video
Im sorry I dont know , I just ran across it on my tic toc page .
Another Derrick 😒🙄
I wonder who those "people" are whom he's laying mention to.
Marriage is for having kids.
Most theorists on marriage have never had to raise children with a husband or wife.
I know this tickles people's ear. But explain why it's true.
I feel called means nothing. I feel like cheating. Don't move on feeling move on wisdom.
Prime example of missing the whole point!!!! 😏
@@trevaswinson I understand the point, I disagree with it.. why do you agree with it?
@dmoffitt1914 I relate to this message spiritually!!!
I agree. This is nonsense.
Mmmm. I don’t know and would have to disagree with him.
And by people we mean mostly women😂😂😂😂😂
PANDERING TO THE MAX.
SORRY BROTHER. WOMEN HAVE BEEN THE CULPRITS AND PROBLEMATIC ISSUES SINCE CHILDHOOD WHERE THERE IS NO FORGIVENESS ON MY PART. I WILL NEVER LEAVE THE WOMAN THAT HAS ENRICHED THIS LIFE. BUT I INTEND ON LIVING A LIFE OF SOLITUDE. A LEGACY TO BE REMEMBERED FOR THE AGES. ALWAYS CONSIDER THE STEPS OF THE SURVIVORS IN THIS WORLD. BEING COGNIZANT OF WALKING IN THE LIGHT AS A LONE WOLF MENTALITY. IT IS THE BEST COURSE TOWARDS ACTIONABLE WORKS TOWARDS REDISCOVERY AND PEACEFUL EXISTENCE. SISTER NOD YOUR HEAD TOWARDS THIS AS A MESSAGE OF REFLECTION. ISAIAH CHAPTER 32.
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