the fear of commitment

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  • Опубліковано 19 гру 2024

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  • @Songgoni
    @Songgoni 7 місяців тому +3

    this definitely resonated with me because im the exact same way. i always called myself a novelty chaser because i would pick up a new hobby, hyperfixate on it for a few weeks (if it even got that far) then i would get bored and the cycle repeated. my house is full of supplies of different crafting hobbies that i once picked up and then dropped. sometimes i get back to certain ones when im in the mood, but i find it hard to commit to being good at something because the problem is i want to be good at them all 😭 but on the flip side, i think it's okay to go through life and just do things that spark your interests without fully committing to it. life's too short to box ourselves in, so hang in there!!

    • @luciaaveryk
      @luciaaveryk  7 місяців тому

      SOOOO true! i've picked up so many hobbies that i've cycled through and am not super good at any 😭. i agree, life is too short to box ourselves in!

  • @heatherzhang4745
    @heatherzhang4745 7 місяців тому

    im proud of you, and I get the fear of wanting to settle for me is the longing for more but sometimes it feels nice when things stop moving enjoy it

    • @luciaaveryk
      @luciaaveryk  7 місяців тому

      thank youu! very true, living in the present is so difficult sometimes, but can be so rewarding for sure.

  • @centokiVA
    @centokiVA 3 місяці тому

    i feel like things like these that are so deeply personal are super hard to put out there and i really really wish it was seen more. always a fan of you and your big huge brain.

  • @kenough13
    @kenough13 7 місяців тому +1

    Felt this, here I am with a degree and still not committed to that field. However, I believe eventually everyone finds their own calling. I don’t necessarily think it’s self sabotage, well for me at least. I feel like it’s about finding out about yourself, thus leading to indecisiveness. But yea I feel this on a personal level, still haven’t found my calling either.

    • @luciaaveryk
      @luciaaveryk  7 місяців тому

      yeh i understand for sure. i think i might be in that position when i graduate too

  • @CassyFilms
    @CassyFilms 7 місяців тому

    this was so refreshing to watch. this is so good. i completely relate to this, and wish we could sit down and have a conversation girly. it takes time to find something that feels right, no one can tell you whats right for you. you have to go through that process. best wishes to you on your journey

    • @luciaaveryk
      @luciaaveryk  7 місяців тому +1

      that's so true and so hard to hear that no one can tell you what is best for you. me literally taking quizzes on what career i should pursue 😭. thank you, best wishes for you too!

  • @lila-laura9962
    @lila-laura9962 7 місяців тому

    Just one small thing: the sound between the cuts is really loud compared to the rest. Anyways really loved it tho

    • @luciaaveryk
      @luciaaveryk  7 місяців тому

      ooooohh okay thank you i will keep that in mind moving foward!