The day I got FIRED & almost QUIT guitar...

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  • Опубліковано 2 вер 2019
  • In this video I'm sharing a personal story. It may look like everything is going smoothly, but that wasn't (and isn't) always the case. Let me take you to that time I got fired and almost quit guitar.
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  • @jamiegatt5370
    @jamiegatt5370 4 роки тому +1827

    I started guitar on a whim, after watching School of Rock with my ex about 6 years ago. She told me I will never be any good as you need to 'have it in you'. The guitar is still here, she's not.............and I just got my first gig!

    • @jadelouisetidman7400
      @jadelouisetidman7400 4 роки тому +43

      Good luck on your first gig guys!
      You’re about to set off on one of the best journeys of your life🤘🏻

    • @kickinbackinOC
      @kickinbackinOC 4 роки тому +16

      Tenacious D has no talent, and it isn't stopping them! Lol!

    • @finneire2081
      @finneire2081 4 роки тому +28

      Guys women don’t want you to learn guitar as it drops knickers quicker than cocaine

    • @jamiegatt5370
      @jamiegatt5370 4 роки тому +23

      I should also add that I'm 31 years old, it's never too late to learn :) cheers guys

    • @finneire2081
      @finneire2081 4 роки тому +23

      I learned to play Guitar because of a break up I was experiencing and my so called friends weren’t there for me
      Just me and a guitar in a small room .
      Subsequently a friend was giving about about nobody being their for him when he broke up with his girl
      I laughed a pointed out that neither hi nor nobody else was there for me and that that how I learned guitar.
      I was 33 at the time I play in pubs and coffee shops now as a bit of cash on the side
      I always loved music and life has funny twists and turns this twist was a gift
      That I’m forever thankful

  • @TheFeelButton
    @TheFeelButton 4 роки тому +822

    Thinking of you in a group of chaotic children trying to calmly speak is hysterical!! 😄😂🤣😂😄

    • @KoPlaysGuitar
      @KoPlaysGuitar 4 роки тому

      The Feel Button 😂😂

    • @stillkickinbandgeorgianbay900
      @stillkickinbandgeorgianbay900 4 роки тому +26

      I teach children at a local elementary school on a weekly basis. It can be tough, and frustrating at times. I asked for permission to have my class time video recorded using 3 cameras in the room for a number of reasons.
      - When the children know that they are being video recorded, their behaviour and responsibility improves a great deal.
      - If any objections from any of the children, or myself is brought forward, the video recordings from 3 perspectives will either reinforce a legitimate grievance, or negate a meaningless one.
      - When I stumble upon a particularly good response in teaching, I can review the reasons why this positive reaction happened, and use this to help formulate better lessons.
      - The students may requisition portions of the class time to review for their own curiosity, and reinforce their development.
      - Also, segments of the video recordings can be provided for the families of the students as well. To appreciate some of the children's performances.
      This strategy was a bit difficult to get the school onboard with, but has led to great improvements for everyone in the classroom.

    • @TheFeelButton
      @TheFeelButton 4 роки тому +2

      @@stillkickinbandgeorgianbay900 wow! Sounds like those kids have a great teacher!! 🙏☺

    • @thesenescentsunfish6185
      @thesenescentsunfish6185 4 роки тому +1

      My band and I made our first ever song if you would like to hear it :)

    • @DLee1923
      @DLee1923 4 роки тому +2

      💕 My mom was an academic school teacher, with pretty much the same type of kids & the same area. She said her first day a kid took her car keys outside & threw them across a field. It was a tough time for her but she hung in there.
      Thanks for your story ! Very inspirational !! 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼😊

  • @andycrowley
    @andycrowley 4 роки тому +462

    Congrats on 1.3 mil dude! You're an inspiration 🎸

    • @LegoDonut18
      @LegoDonut18 4 роки тому +2

      You’re male

    • @PaulDavids
      @PaulDavids  4 роки тому +38

      Thanks Andy!

    • @zakibenzerga2044
      @zakibenzerga2044 4 роки тому +10

      Hey Andy!!!!! You're an inspiration as well, i learnt a lot from you

    • @Robertoilo
      @Robertoilo 3 роки тому +1

      @Paul Davids I am impressed with the quality of your videos, in every way. You don't only teach music, but teach also captivating communication besides video production and edititing lessons. Your videos always bring us life lessons too. I bet that many of your more than 2 million subscribers (almost doubled the amount in just one year) are not here just for the music lessons videos, but also for all the rich multidisciplinary content present in each one of them. Congratulations for the excellence you apply in every detail. Hugs from Brazil🇧🇷 .

    • @odysseaspierides7466
      @odysseaspierides7466 2 роки тому

      2, 3

  • @walterobrien467
    @walterobrien467 4 роки тому +133

    Imagine one of your student is watching this right now. Realizing that he/she messed up with the wrong teacher

    • @Takamine840
      @Takamine840 4 роки тому +1

      He may have done something right tho

    • @nath9233
      @nath9233 4 роки тому +9

      They probably couldn't care less

  • @TheMusicfan189
    @TheMusicfan189 4 роки тому +84

    Most genuine guy on UA-cam, absolutely class.

  • @RC32Smiths01
    @RC32Smiths01 4 роки тому +376

    Dang, I sure found this story extremely inspiring! I am so grateful you didn't give up, Otherwise we wouldn't have had such a talented, friendly, and informative guitar content creator! Congrats on 1.3m!

    • @larikipe940
      @larikipe940 4 роки тому +1

      Not to mention exceedingly attractive.

    • @RC32Smiths01
      @RC32Smiths01 4 роки тому +2

      @@larikipe940 that is definitely on point my man

    • @sadhappy8860
      @sadhappy8860 4 роки тому +7

      Get fired from teaching a small class -> Teach 1.3 million -> that's a win in my book

    • @RC32Smiths01
      @RC32Smiths01 4 роки тому +1

      @@sadhappy8860 I perfectly agree

  • @rebelba42
    @rebelba42 4 роки тому +11

    In my opinion, your entire channel reflects your continuous development of your great personality and I've learned a lot, not only musically! Thankfully you decided to go this way which gives me the opportunity to work on module 4 since a week. Can't wait to get to module 5 :) You're an awesome teacher getting an old man understanding basic music theory and having fun to explore it on a guitar! Thank you very much!

    • @PaulDavids
      @PaulDavids  4 роки тому +3

      Glad you're enjoying the course Reb! Always great to hear :)

  • @ugosmith7529
    @ugosmith7529 4 роки тому +85

    I would have killed to have a music teacher like you back in high school, these kids had no idea what a quality teacher they had ;)

    • @rishadtahjeeb3678
      @rishadtahjeeb3678 4 роки тому +2

      Yes, thats why children cant consent to most major decisions.

    • @eldenboi8354
      @eldenboi8354 4 роки тому +3

      Children are mostly cretins.

  • @johnloffredo
    @johnloffredo 4 роки тому +301

    I was 21 years old making $50,000 + a year at a high end company selling insurance. I wasn't fulfilled. Better yet, I wasn't even happy. I've been playing music since i was 5 years old and have a gift for it. Every single day I play piano and guitar. I used to bring my guitar in my car and practice in the car during my lunch breaks. One day, I was playing guitar on my lunch break and I broke down crying. That's not where I wanted to be and I knew it. I didn't care about the money anymore. Sure I was more financially successful than most people my age but that meant absolutely nothing if i couldn't be happy.
    I walked into my job and quit right on the spot. My family freaked out. So did some of my friends. But something told me I was a musician. I reached out to my old guitar teacher that day and asked him if he could please take me under his wing again and thank god he did. Fast forward about 7 months... Now, I work full time as a musician teaching privately, started my UA-cam channel (which i'm currently working on) and doing studio recording session with one of the best studios on Long Island (which is where i'm from) as a professional musician at 22 years old making around the same amount if not more than what I was making at the insurance company. Got invited to winter NAMM as an artist for a guitar company, and actually met paul. Super nice guy. I got to meet some of my heroes at NAMM. All of this because I went with my gut and I couldn't be more happier with the way my life is turning out. I thank god everyday.
    Do what you want to do its your life don't let people tell you how to live it. Trust your gut.
    This is one of my first comments I ever made on a UA-cam video but i felt like it was needed.

    • @proculusjulius7035
      @proculusjulius7035 4 роки тому +9

      Thanks John. I've been in the hospitality industry for the last two years and it has been depression the likes of which I have never experienced before... The only time I am calm and happy is when I sit down and grab my acoustic guitar and just noodle something... My parents really don't want me to do music but I know it's where I'm meant to be. So thank you for sharing your experience and I am subbing on your channel. All the best.

    • @ikigai47
      @ikigai47 4 роки тому +4

      Thanks John inspiring story. I would cry too if I was working a sales job

    • @Jason17300
      @Jason17300 4 роки тому +8

      Bullshit. Link me your music.

    • @glorioskiola
      @glorioskiola 4 роки тому +1

      That’s great, John. Best of luck!

    • @iansath2913
      @iansath2913 4 роки тому

      thanks for sharing man

  • @trevorjohnson8142
    @trevorjohnson8142 4 роки тому +120

    I started out with the disposition that doing music as a career was a dichotomy; you were either a rock star or a failure. I played in bands and tried to promote myself, but I had no idea what I was doing. I gave up, and just focused on doing music on the side here and there, but mostly I was just working the day job for many years. I moved up in the company and moved in to management, but I wasn't fulfilled in the least.
    Recently, and especially after watching channels like yours and Adam's, I decided to start pursuing the only thing that made me happy; music. I contacted a friend that owned a studio and started teaching lessons. I stepped down at my day job as more lessons started coming in. Currently I am part time at my day job; I teach two days a week, help produce artists in the evening, and play in a good paying country band every other weekend. I'm hoping within 3 years to be able to completely shift over to music as career. We'll see, it's pretty late in my life at this point, but I never imagined I could even get to where I'm at before because I didn't allow myself the opportunity to fail.
    I think you have to be willing to fail to actually succeed. I think that's ultimately the lesson to be learned from your story and your life (Paul David's); and I thank you for sharing it. Without this UA-cam musician community, I may never have taken these steps in my life, so thank you :)

    • @strider930
      @strider930 4 роки тому +3

      Trevor Johnson 🤘🏽 right on!!

    • @ctogive
      @ctogive 4 роки тому +5

      oh boy that first sentence is why i kinda gave up music 3 years ago.. i made the choice to study psychology, now after the first year i've hit depression. i am not enjoying my life and I feel like it's too late to catch up somehow. I am only twenty years old, but in these 3 years my musical friends went into music school and they are now so much futher than i am. and suddenly i feel jealous and mad at myself for never taking music serious enough.
      i think i'm now starting to see that music might be the best choice for me, even when there are other people who will outplay me, even when i feel like i could never make a living. You are right. At this point i need to know, and i'd rather fail than never try.

    • @ericscaillet2232
      @ericscaillet2232 4 роки тому +3

      @@ctogive it's never too late.

    • @ctogive
      @ctogive 4 роки тому

      @@ericscaillet2232 thank you :)

    • @drenrin2120
      @drenrin2120 4 роки тому +2

      @@ctogive It really isn't too late. I stopped playing guitar for a number of years during my mid 20s because I felt much the same way. Nothing worked out and playing open mics became dull. I felt like a fraud, an impostor. Now, I'm approaching my 30th birthday and in the last year I've picked guitar back up and I'm happy again. I don't know where I'm going but I know now that I just can't quit it, so I'm putting more into my music then I ever have before and I notice that, the more work I put into it, the happier I feel in my day to day. Don't ever quit.

  • @ourafilmes
    @ourafilmes 4 роки тому +337

    Man, I am a teacher for 19 years now... Wow, times goes fast... I always entered in the first class as a military... I don´t give them a chance. I scream if necessary and I do not make a happy face at all. Then, with time passing by, I get softer and I do not need to be rude as they know how it works. Hey, it is working for 19 years now! Cheers from Portugal!

    • @PaulDavids
      @PaulDavids  4 роки тому +50

      I should've done this... :o

    • @mark64tanner
      @mark64tanner 4 роки тому +15

      Firm but fair is a great start.
      Got to set the boundaries.
      Earn the respect but don't get run over trying to be everyone's friend, especially with kids.
      They'll always try and push the limits and there's good and bad ways to deal with that.
      A loud "Hey" to get their attention and then speaking quietly about consequences (which must be followed through) is very effective.
      I'm not a teacher (and don't want to sound like I know it all) but come from a long line of music educators and watched this in practice. My mother was my music teacher at high school for 3 of my 5 years as a music scholarship student and learned this the hard way as an obnoxious student ;)
      cheers

    • @ourafilmes
      @ourafilmes 4 роки тому +1

      @@PaulDavids You should have asked me mate! LOL! Cheers!

    • @pedroloboantunes4017
      @pedroloboantunes4017 4 роки тому

      Dás aulas na zona de cascais?

    • @ourafilmes
      @ourafilmes 4 роки тому

      @@pedroloboantunes4017 Boas. No Porto!

  • @0num4
    @0num4 4 роки тому +41

    There's a saying I've come to truly appreciate: "There is no growth in the comfort zone."
    If you're comfortable, you're complacent. If you're complacent, you won't likely seek to improve your lot in life. You will stagnate, and you will [metaphorically] die. More careers in art have been killed by complacency, before they ever took off, than any other reason.

    • @geovaniraffaelli4508
      @geovaniraffaelli4508 4 роки тому +2

      I call bs, you can be perfectly comfortable and happy while enjoying the process of learning. If there's no enjoyment in the process then why the hell would you keep playing, might as well pay 300$ to a dominatrix to step on your balls

  • @lancelotlink6545
    @lancelotlink6545 4 роки тому +55

    I had a very similar thing happen early in my career. When I first got out of university as an artist I struggled to find gainful employment. I only found occasional work and couldn't make a living. This went on for months until I finally decided to apply for a seriously shit desk job. Long story short- I didn't get the job- thank God. Eventually things panned out in my chosen filed. I've spent the last 25+ years creating animated shows for tv and film. As they say- do something you love and you'll never work a day in your life. Good luck to those still in the struggle.

  • @itsrob2321
    @itsrob2321 4 роки тому +12

    I’m glad you’re here in the tube! You do a great job. I almost quit when I was 17, 20, 34, 40, 45, 50, 54 and now I finally have it somewhat together at 57. I play piano, acoustic and electric guitars and bass, banjo and mandolin. I can also almost carry a tune on the drums although I’m not that motivated to play them. Keep working at it is all I can say.

    • @usernamemykel
      @usernamemykel 4 роки тому

      Just make sure that when you play the drums, you're in the right key...

  • @dikidsaputra2536
    @dikidsaputra2536 4 роки тому +5

    Thanks for the lesson too, I love the way you teach and congratulations 🎉🎉🎉

  • @psycofdo
    @psycofdo 4 роки тому +4

    First, congrats on the 1.3. That's a good sign you connect with people. I felt very identified with your story. I've been playing for almost 30 years and discovered too late that life is simple. Hard, but simple. I've spent some years teaching, some years playing on a band, but never had the guts to follow professionally what made me happy: playing, creating and sharing the love for music. My family wanted me to make money, so I studied engineering, went to law school. When I had a chance to become a music teacher and study on a university, my mother got cancer and my ex-wife forced me to forget about music or the marriage was over. I've followed other people's thoughts about what a well adjusted adult life is and never followed myself. A couple of years ago I got divorced, quitted the job as a programmer on a abusive little business. I just couldn't stand to look at myself on the mirror. That shadow of a man that's looking back at me with a guilty stare is me?. Today I still work a software engineer , but for myself. Got a newborn baby and an amazing new family. My wife is a kindergarten teacher and sings beautifully. Her oldest son I had the privilege of teaching him music and now he plays jazz piano mainly. I still don't find a way to dedicate myself to music since getting money to afford a life and a family is no small matter, but this time I'm loved because of who I am, and not an idea of what I'm supposed to be. At 42 years old i wish i knew this sooner, but as arthritis progresses and probably there will be a day I won't be able to play anymore, at least I turned to the right direction. Hopefully I'll find a way on youtube and other ways to make music, no matter how old I am, but is good to know that many of us are not alone on this, and we all struggle to fight for what make a life worth living... be able to be happy with what you choose to do, and mostly, with what you really are.

  • @SimonJohnOwen
    @SimonJohnOwen 4 роки тому +166

    I don't think you CAN truly quit the guitar, if there is music inside you it has to come out some way and the instrument will keep calling to you until you pick it up again.

    • @ares7738
      @ares7738 4 роки тому +4

      very well said

    • @scott121681
      @scott121681 4 роки тому +2

      Agree, that’s the relationship I have with my guitar. I reach a plateau and stop playing. But like you said, the guitar will start calling me

    • @A.sixsmith
      @A.sixsmith 4 роки тому +1

      I'll not pick up a guitar in weeks and then I'll hear a song and then just want to learn it

    • @mattgilbert7347
      @mattgilbert7347 4 роки тому +5

      Yes. you can. I did. For 20yrs. Sure, I picked it up again but I could just as easily quit again. Life happens, you get older, and things change.
      It's best not to romanticize these things.
      Ofc I could be wrong. Hope I am wrong.

    • @RylaDarkstar
      @RylaDarkstar 4 роки тому +2

      @@mattgilbert7347 I quit for years and I'm about to buy another guitar.. if there is a will there is a way

  • @-JohnGalt-
    @-JohnGalt- 4 роки тому +3

    You keep making videos and we'll keep watching them my friend! Very happy for you, and wishing you further success in your career and life!

  • @billeakin2511
    @billeakin2511 4 роки тому +1

    Congratulations on the milestone Paul! I for one, am appreciative that you hung in there. Your videos are not only instructive but entertaining. Please keep 'em coming!

  • @Bacchus_Now
    @Bacchus_Now 4 роки тому

    Thank you for being so vulnerable and transparent! Keep up the awesome work!!!

  • @juliorn1243
    @juliorn1243 4 роки тому +42

    Congrats for 1.3 million subs man, keep going

  • @Papa-Dima77
    @Papa-Dima77 4 роки тому +32

    Awesome story. You rock man! Thanks for all your efforts it has been very educational and inspiring!

  • @stephengoh5456
    @stephengoh5456 3 роки тому

    You survive! That's so awesome. Love your sharing. So happy for you. May things get much better for you.

  • @alvinvillas6823
    @alvinvillas6823 4 роки тому +4

    That was very inspiring! It is the lowest points in our lives that pushes us to find our true purpose in life. More power sir Paul Davis. You rock!🤘🏻

  • @joshsalar9728
    @joshsalar9728 4 роки тому +3

    Much respect. Making something happen for yourself takes a lot - something that not everyone has in them

  • @gustavomendez6279
    @gustavomendez6279 4 роки тому +3

    How crazy that you went through all that. I keep collecting gear and trying to up my guitar playing but I always get worn down from working a day job and feel like music will never be anything more than a pastime. Definitely makes me bummed out, but I’m glad that there are people like you who play, teach, and inspire others to keep going. Keep it up!

  • @surajanrai8358
    @surajanrai8358 4 роки тому +2

    It was so inspirational. Thanks for sharing. It’s really gratifying to see where you are today. I want to be able to tell my story just like you one day. Thanks for sharing.

  • @maggieo
    @maggieo 4 роки тому +1

    It's not just your passion, Paul- you have worked so damn hard to make your videos better and better, all the time. Thanks, and congrats!

  • @PutingPinoy
    @PutingPinoy 4 роки тому +49

    _I’ve been following you since you had 100k+ subs. Congrats!!_ I have had my channel for a year and I have almost 30k subs. It is tiring and rewarding at the same time. So hearing your story is very timely. At times it can get discouraging. But, this inspires perseverance.

    • @KoPlaysGuitar
      @KoPlaysGuitar 4 роки тому +1

      Puting Pinoy Wow, that’s nice, you grow really fast in fact (: I hope I can do the same this year!

  • @laskavais
    @laskavais 4 роки тому +3

    You are very humble guy, Paul. I enjoy watching your videos. Also i learned a lot from you. I started guitar about 1 year ago, and in changed my life since. But im at that situation, where you was. I guess i need to follow my intuition. Keep up the good work and the content you bring for us. I appreciate what you doing. Thank You!!!

  • @MarkShepard
    @MarkShepard 4 роки тому

    Thank you. Deeply appreciated hearing your stories.

  • @noahmackean1487
    @noahmackean1487 4 роки тому +1

    Seeing a lot of these motivational guitar videos and it’s really helping me with my perspective on growing my own channel
    Thanks Paul!

  • @javierzamora586
    @javierzamora586 4 роки тому +3

    Awesome story, keep it up!

  • @mark64tanner
    @mark64tanner 4 роки тому +8

    Very cool story Paul,
    especially for younger viewers,.
    Think about your future, don't obsess just keep it in mind.
    (before you get caught in the "did this to pay the bills, now I got bigger bills to pay, now I'm stuck having to do this to support my family roundabout).
    Follow your dreams, and be true to them.
    Set yourself achievable goals (one step at a time, not I'm going to be the greatest tomorrow) and when you get through that first step, enjoy it for a little while before setting the next one (don't enjoy for too long though)
    Don't know how comfortable you are with the title, but, you are a great role model for our kids. Cool and successful UA-camr (along with being a great teacher, not just guitar ;) )
    Really enjoy your videos and outlook.
    All the best, keep it up.
    Cheers.

  • @oterogreg
    @oterogreg 4 роки тому

    Great video, Paul. Thank you for sharing.

  • @bobsfog6339
    @bobsfog6339 4 роки тому +1

    You're the best guitar channel I know, everything you teach is gold and your voice is calm and relaxing!

  • @eliyahfranson
    @eliyahfranson 4 роки тому +22

    I love hearing stories like this from people like you, Paul, who manage to inspire so many musicians to keep chipping away at their craft. I’ve spent the past 10 months learning guitar and there have been countless occasions that I wanted to quit or felt it was going to get me nowhere in life but the passion persists and I find it the most rewarding challenge to figure out what to do with that passion

    • @hariearyatama436
      @hariearyatama436 4 роки тому

      i feel like of you really have a passion on guitar you wouldnt even think about quiting at all

    • @eliyahfranson
      @eliyahfranson 4 роки тому +1

      Harie Aryatama you would think that, wouldn’t you? I think Paul’s entire video kind of refutes that statement though

    • @cornela1
      @cornela1 4 роки тому +1

      @@hariearyatama436 Unfortunately that's most likely not the case for anyone.
      I've been around a lot of really talented musicians, and everybody has had those moments where one day they dropped their instrument, and didn't pick it up again for at least (more then) a month.
      Unfortunate events, health problems, depressions, lack of motivation or maybe even just broken strings.. they can all cause someone to stop playing their instrument for a while.
      The passion usually persists and we get back to it, but don't get discouraged when it happens. It has probably happened to the best

  • @pb12661
    @pb12661 4 роки тому +5

    always nice to hear stories from a successful AND HUMBLE person. Keep it up!!

  • @guycore5478
    @guycore5478 4 роки тому

    Thanks for following your bliss and inspiring us, Paul!

  • @RobertJSedky
    @RobertJSedky 2 роки тому

    Thanks for sharing. Congratulations on your success! 🎶

  • @ianbishop5715
    @ianbishop5715 4 роки тому +33

    I love guitar and i love bass guitar but i never expect to earn money because of it. I studied art and have a few ideas for books and graphic novels but work in retail, this keeps me ground down and not achieving. This video has made me want to pick myself up, dust myself down and do something with my life that i can enjoy. Thanks man

    • @MusicWithMarky
      @MusicWithMarky 4 роки тому +1

      Good for you, man! Go get what you want!

    • @mattgilbert7347
      @mattgilbert7347 4 роки тому +1

      Don't quit any job you may currently have atm, tho. The harsh truth is that there's not much money to be made. The global economy is headed for another crash, and jobs are precious. Everyone is replaceable.

    • @woomi177
      @woomi177 4 роки тому

      @@mattgilbert7347 let me guess . You live in the us?

  • @wessamlauf
    @wessamlauf 4 роки тому +9

    Thumbs up for your passion man. I was in Netherlands last month (im from Slovakia) and I really wanted to go to Rotterdam but I was too afraid to write you. I was just choosing a new guitar and I had so many questions to ask you and I still do hah. Well maybe next time. Hope you are happy now and everything goes according to your plan. And also, congratz to such a milestone 1,3m subs. Keep on going man.

    • @fritsvanzanten3573
      @fritsvanzanten3573 4 роки тому +1

      Did you pick a guitar in the end? If so, which one?

    • @wessamlauf
      @wessamlauf 4 роки тому

      @@fritsvanzanten3573 I wanted Dangelico Excel Fulton but in the end I picked up Takamine GJ72CE-12-NAT (yeah weird name). A guy in a guitar store told me it's better that Dangelico even if it's cheaper and well ... It sounds Great. First 12 string. I'm playing for 3 years but for 2 years I was just strumming basic open chords without any progress and then I started to learn fingerstyle and a bit of theory so 12 strings are way better for fingerstyle even tho it's harder. I'm still having hard time learning theory tho.

    • @fritsvanzanten3573
      @fritsvanzanten3573 4 роки тому

      @@wessamlauf Thx. In a way I thought you came to Rotterdam to buy the guitar. Acoustic, and even 12 string was not what I expected. Sophisticated choice, not the obvious. I didn't know D'Angelico made acoustic guitars. Happy playing!

  • @SuperMetalLicious
    @SuperMetalLicious Рік тому

    Thank you for the positive and personal insight!

  • @rondrew1
    @rondrew1 4 роки тому

    I’m so glad it worked out this way for you. I’ve learned a lot from you, and I’m very appreciative.

  • @kevmet84
    @kevmet84 4 роки тому +4

    If you have not already, you should read 'Chet Atkins: Me and My Guitars'. One of my favorite books. Within it, he discusses his successes and failures from his early days as a working musician. And then there's the bonus of his discussion of his guitars over his career with many good photos of them to excite the eyes as well. 😎

  • @alecpercy91
    @alecpercy91 4 роки тому +69

    I actually got fired today. So this is brilliant

    • @TheBrassGeologist
      @TheBrassGeologist 4 роки тому +19

      I hope this is the opportunity you need to get somewhere better. Best of luck to you.

    • @meadish
      @meadish 4 роки тому +4

      It sucks getting fired and rejected (I just got rejected for a project I really wanted yesterday too). But hey, there is a freedom there as well.

    • @alecpercy91
      @alecpercy91 4 роки тому +5

      @@TheBrassGeologist it was a chef position I was wanting to quit for ages. It's working perfectly. Apart from the fact that I'm residing in New Zealand and that job was keeping me here.
      Thank you for your kind words.

    • @alecpercy91
      @alecpercy91 4 роки тому +2

      @@meadish I hope theres a reason for it all bud. Keep your head up, the project obviously wasnt where you should be. Keep jamming keep smiling my brother you'll get there.

    • @versnellingspookie
      @versnellingspookie 4 роки тому

      Are you all right bud? Are you still in NZ?

  • @amritendughosh168
    @amritendughosh168 4 роки тому

    Wow!!! You are an inspiration!! Thank you for going on, not quitting and keep doing what you do the best! Wonderful!!!

  • @flbiker57
    @flbiker57 2 роки тому

    Glad you persevered and wish you continued success. I always enjoy your video and content. Cheers

  • @DizzyKrissi
    @DizzyKrissi 4 роки тому +29

    deskjobs are the most terrifying jobs you can imagine of as a creative musician

    • @mattgilbert7347
      @mattgilbert7347 4 роки тому +3

      I've been working at a deskjob for 15+ years. Making money playing music is simply impossible for many people.

    • @DizzyKrissi
      @DizzyKrissi 4 роки тому +2

      @@mattgilbert7347 : that's true - that's why most musicians teach their instruments. I do that as well and enjoy it.

    • @mattgilbert7347
      @mattgilbert7347 4 роки тому

      @@DizzyKrissi Who will pay for lessons when you can just go online?

    • @DizzyKrissi
      @DizzyKrissi 4 роки тому +4

      @@mattgilbert7347 : I have many students who previously tried to learn through youtube-lessons but failed. As a beginner you are not able to distinguish between good and bad lessons - the sheer amount is overwhelming. Nothing can replace a good teacher.

    • @mattgilbert7347
      @mattgilbert7347 4 роки тому

      @@DizzyKrissi And how many guitarists, realistically speaking, have the knowledge, ability, time, and resources to take on a second job as a teacher (that's assuming they are in my situation ie: working stiff who only has time to play on the weekends)?
      These are genuine questions. Not trying to be a negative Nelly, just trying to be realistic. I have *one* friend who gives me a few $ bills when he can and I teach him what I can. If I were to put myself out there as a "Guitar Teacher" it would feel like false advertising. Self-taught hack.
      I sincerely doubt that most guitarists could do it. You'd end up with oversupply, for starters, and that would lead to a race to the bottom vis a vis pricing (fees).
      Does that make sense? I'm trying to view this through the lens of economics in a post-Fordist world.

  • @SatanClaus69
    @SatanClaus69 4 роки тому +3

    Super proud to have been with you from pretty early on, mate! You inspire me daily and I love your videos! Cheers, mate, thank you for what you do :)

  • @datenimperator
    @datenimperator 4 роки тому +1

    Keep it going, Paul! This is so very helpful, I enjoy your work very much.

  • @alexgreychuck7605
    @alexgreychuck7605 4 роки тому

    A very inspiring story. Thanks for sharing.

  • @tristansayers6494
    @tristansayers6494 4 роки тому +5

    As I leave university and am about tackle and equally impenetrable industry, I'll remember this in the hard times

    • @Silverfirefly1
      @Silverfirefly1 3 роки тому

      I hope things are going well.
      My mind is a bit irreverent so forgive me, 'impenetrable industry' sounds like you design chastity belts!

  • @steveworley2997
    @steveworley2997 4 роки тому +5

    Thank you Paul. The same thing happened to me 2018-2019 school year; I was hired by one of the local “educational foundations” to teach extracurricular band class for one of the school districts. SIXTY+(60+) 4th-6th grade students. To prepare I boned up on brass instruments that I hadn’t played in many years plus woodwinds that I had had no prior experience with. No curriculum was provided, just some band books and most of the kids had never played an instrument before. I was left on my own to make the curriculum and figure out how to organize the band practices and get the kids playing. All this while I was attending college full time working on my music degree and running an election campaign while also doing a couple of part time jobs including some private lessons. A couple of old codgers from the foundation came in to “help out”, but they were completely disorganized and their expertise seemed to consist mainly about yelling at the kids. My initial goal was to start the beginners out learning first notes on their instruments, progressing to simple melodies and note-reading. Most of the kids couldn’t afford private teachers and they were borrowing their instruments from the foundation. So I went from section to section getting everybody started and asking the more experienced players to assist in helping the beginners learn how to play. I knew the kids weren’t likely to get much practice at home unless I could get them inspired to play and build their confidence up. By the third week I had taught the beginners and everyone to play ‘Happy Birthday’ by ear and a few simple melodies, which I also had them perform in front of the class in groups and solos with applause from the class after each performance. Okay so far so good, everything’s going great. Here’s where it starts to go downhill: the old farts started complaining that I was “losing control of the class”. They apparently expected me to stand in front and old school lecture music theory/scream at the kids for the entire period in order to “keep control”. They didn’t seem to understand how much help the beginners needed to get up to speed. Next problem: the principal of the school started coming to the practices because she was upset at the noise level of the kids learning to play their instruments. A cacophony to be sure, but it didn’t bother me as I knew what it would take for these kids to learn to play. Seemingly chaotic, but chaos with a purpose and I never lost control. The kids respected me, when I needed their attention for announcements or lectures they quieted down and paid attention. They even minded each other and helped me to manage the class. I knew how to talk to them and keep them engaged. I kept my lectures to a minimum as my main goal was to get them playing. However, management didn’t seem to like the kids enjoying themselves, talking to each other and playing their instruments in afterschool band class. Third problem: the principal’s kid was in the class, and he had some emotional problems; he was throwing fits/temper tantrums because he didn’t know what to do with himself, said he was bored after I put him on the instrument of his choice (bass drum). I also offered to get him on other percussion instruments. He needed extra attention which I tried to provide but I could only do so much with 60 other kids to manage. Funny thing is, I was starting to have a rapport with this kid when I got fired. He was starting to fit in and be helpful with the equipment after I showed him how to set up/break down. End of the story is, the principal came to class one day and started yelling at me because she saw her son sitting bored at his bass drum; she pointed to this as evidence that I had “lost control” of the class and because the kids were playing on their instruments. I told her if she wanted to stand in front of the class and scream at the kids all day she could be my guest, because I wasn’t going to do that. I was fired the next day. Some of the parents had started coming to me with complaints about the principal failing to provide a safe afterschool area for their kids; I offered some suggestions and perhaps that didn’t help my case either lol. The corrupt/clueless haters can go F___ themselves; I love guitar, I love music and I’m never giving up.

    • @TokyoBlue587
      @TokyoBlue587 4 роки тому

      Wow that sucks, it seems you're better off being out of that school, sounds like the principal was crazy and/or a terrible manager. You'll find something better, don't give up!

  • @bekind6763
    @bekind6763 4 роки тому

    Congratulations on 1.3M subscribers! What an inspirational story. Thank you!

  • @liamhagerty4249
    @liamhagerty4249 4 роки тому +2

    This is great I'm in that place right now not with guitar but in my career.
    This makes me feel like I'm doing right.
    Thanks for sharing Paul.

  • @sjguk267
    @sjguk267 4 роки тому +6

    Mate, I feel your pain for teaching, I teach karate to children as young as 4 upwards, in classes of 10 - 18 at a time. Teaching them to punch and kick without hurting each other and maintaining their concentration is a skill. Being a father of 4 helped me greatly. Love your vids, you have helped me loads.

  • @antonioo8911
    @antonioo8911 4 роки тому +6

    That's life! Always follow your guts. I jumped off a university lecturer/researcher career to become a simple trucker. I'm enjoying much more. Like you, I didn't belong to a classroom. Everyday it was a struggle. Now I'm fine. Antonio, Brazil.

  • @VICGUZ
    @VICGUZ 4 роки тому +1

    Great to hear it worked out for you, very happy for you and great true story. Wow.

  • @ericcoppola
    @ericcoppola 4 роки тому

    Way to go!!!!!! Great teaching style as well!!!!
    Tks

  • @Deneteus
    @Deneteus 4 роки тому +11

    You wanted a job but you ended up being stuck with Bebe's kids, with no lesson plan and no gear. This was one of those jobs where they pulled a bait and switch and then tried to blame you for them not setting expectations with their students before they brought in the teacher. It works the same way with adults. Any school that knew what they were doing would have provided an aid.

    • @scubaman2546
      @scubaman2546 3 роки тому

      +100 for this comment. A bait and switch indeed. You got out before that circus imploded.

  • @reinjouke9743
    @reinjouke9743 4 роки тому +3

    "gefeliciteerd je hebt de job, je past perfect in het profiel"

  • @Pedrostelling
    @Pedrostelling 4 роки тому

    Thanks for sharing, Paul! Love from Brazil, you rock

  • @hgaubaul
    @hgaubaul 4 роки тому

    Always be thankful for the struggles you go through. It helps us to be more thankful and appreciative of the things we have achieved when we look back on our past.

  • @eugenevedensky6071
    @eugenevedensky6071 4 роки тому +8

    Success is rarely a straight line. Also, where did you pick up these sick editing skills?

    • @rustyshackleford2841
      @rustyshackleford2841 4 роки тому

      Eugene Vedensky This!! I’m curious too. Where/how did you learn to edit your videos?

    • @PaulDavids
      @PaulDavids  4 роки тому +3

      By just doing it basically... Best school there is ;) If you know how you want it to look you just make sure you know how to get there.

  • @Luminario64
    @Luminario64 4 роки тому +6

    Hi Paul! Lately i've been having a hard time with music. I love playing the piano and the guitar, but these days, i'm not enjoying playing músic that much. I'm not motivated. What should i do?
    Pd: hugs from argentina!! Love your vids

    • @mark7166
      @mark7166 4 роки тому +1

      While I'm not Paul, I will give my opinion.
      What works for me is to just take a break. Take a couple days off, listen to some music (new, or already well-loved), and wait for the inspiration to kick in again. I was in a major lull lately, and then I decided to take some time off and just get away from the frustration.
      Then I was listening to Tool's 10,000 Days album, and I got this major inspiration to learn Vicarious note for note. And away I went. I've been obsessively working on learning to play it perfectly, getting the right tones, etc, and as an added bonus, am learning to love and write in Drop D far more than I ever have before.
      So... that's my 2 cents. It works for me more often than not.
      Good luck!

    • @mitchhamburger480
      @mitchhamburger480 4 роки тому

      I'm not Paul either but... Here are the things that rekindle my love of playing: 1. Jam session. Play with other people who share similar interests. If you have the space, set up a jam session at your home and invite anyone who plays or enjoys listening to music (It's nice to have an audience, too). 2. Get away. Take your headphones and go for a hike, ride a train, or just go somewhere you don't usually listen to music. Let the music be a soundtrack for adventure. 3. Perform. Play at an open mic night. Play on a bench at the park. Stand on a street corner. You don't have to play songs everyone knows; it's ok to experiment and just explore the instrument in a new environment. You are not there to entertain anyone but yourself. 4. Meditate (clear your mind). Contemplate (explore the noise that was persistent during meditation). Journal (evaluate in written form - pen and paper - what came from your contemplation) Optional: Pray for guidance. I like the Serenity Prayer. 5. Finally, after everything else, write a simple song. Even if it is only 2 chords and 10 words it's good enough. Repeat steps until the joy returns as it inevitably will. I have never had this process not work, and I know it will work for you too.

    • @Luminario64
      @Luminario64 4 роки тому +1

      @@mark7166 thanks a lot!!! 😄

    • @Luminario64
      @Luminario64 4 роки тому

      @@mitchhamburger480 thanks mitch! 😄

  • @normanclayton7818
    @normanclayton7818 2 роки тому +1

    Thanks Paul ...for everything you are

  • @sadokaguel1854
    @sadokaguel1854 4 роки тому

    Very inspirational man!
    Really happy for you!

  • @mrjohnp555
    @mrjohnp555 4 роки тому +25

    In a teacher-pupil relationship, when the teacher seeks the student, it may go well, but it's a crapshoot. When the student seeks the teacher, it will always go well.

    • @Silverfirefly1
      @Silverfirefly1 3 роки тому +1

      I recently started teaching English language in my new home in Spain and it was almost accidental. I'd taken my certificate just as a way to fill time but people started coming to me asking for private lessons, friends of friends and their children mostly.
      Fast forward one year and if I wanted to I could fill every weekday with students. I never really sought it out but now I have lots of eager students and I'm feeling more fulfilled than at any other time in my life.
      I just wanted to share that as your words are very much the same as my experience.

    • @mrjohnp555
      @mrjohnp555 3 роки тому +1

      @@Silverfirefly1 It sounds like you are a very good teacher, and now you have a bunch of self motivated students, the best scenario a teacher could have...

    • @Silverfirefly1
      @Silverfirefly1 3 роки тому

      @@mrjohnp555 Thank you, that's a very kind thing to say. Merry Christmas!

  • @abhraneel6635
    @abhraneel6635 4 роки тому +7

    A world deprived of Paul? That would be gloom!

  • @johnnystrat
    @johnnystrat 4 роки тому

    Thanks for sharing your experiences, Paul - really enjoy your videos.

  • @blackiejames1843
    @blackiejames1843 4 роки тому

    Great story and thanks for following your instincts. I enjoy your videos and know that you are appreciated.

  • @karlmarko511
    @karlmarko511 4 роки тому +5

    It's impossible to picture you without your glorious beard.

  • @bizzlarrsoundcloud5338
    @bizzlarrsoundcloud5338 4 роки тому +7

    reasons i watch this channel:
    to learn guitar 25%
    to listen to this guys fucking amazing accent%

  • @18echosf
    @18echosf 4 роки тому

    Fantastic video about life’s lessons. Wonderful!

  • @ebroebro1
    @ebroebro1 4 роки тому

    Happy you didn't shut down and never gave up. You're the best!

  • @harrykP9
    @harrykP9 4 роки тому +4

    "Mr Davids, you're old and you suck! And I swallowed my pick?" Just in case you miss teaching kids? Great videos!

  • @asdf9890
    @asdf9890 4 роки тому +6

    So not just American kids are little brats, good to know...

  • @johnnolan4312
    @johnnolan4312 4 роки тому

    You are straight up an inspiration for me, to keep striving and setting new goals, pushing myself harder and further than I could ever had imagined, thankyou Paul!

  • @HuskerTexan
    @HuskerTexan 4 роки тому

    Great video for people facing obstacles of any kind. Thx!

  • @mattgilbert7347
    @mattgilbert7347 4 роки тому +15

    "Graduated from College for Music"
    That explains a lot.

  • @CaffeineInjected
    @CaffeineInjected 3 роки тому

    Great Video. Appreciated your honest story telling about your own personal life and experiences. Nice!

  • @disturbedcarrot
    @disturbedcarrot 4 роки тому

    Congratulations, well done! 1.3m is a serious achievement for original content. All the hard work really shows through your fantastic videos. It's great to see somebody persevere and succeed with their gut instinct!

  • @cantstartafire
    @cantstartafire 4 роки тому +1

    Very cool man, Glad you stuck with it!

  • @alyciamarriott9506
    @alyciamarriott9506 4 роки тому

    Thankyou for sharing your story!

  • @JoelYeoh
    @JoelYeoh 4 роки тому

    Such an inspiration! Thank you for the motivation. Your story is resonating so much me at the moment. Congratulations on hitting 1.3M Subscribers. It's a HUGE milestone! Continue to post awesome content like this. God bless you 😊🙏

  • @livergen
    @livergen 2 роки тому

    We Love You Paul, Your a Good-Kind-Soul... God Bless Sir....!

  • @RandomJammer
    @RandomJammer 4 роки тому

    Inspirational Paul. You have clearly demonstrated how important it is to follow your instincts and passion. Congratulations and thanks for posting

  • @marcod.porter9807
    @marcod.porter9807 4 роки тому

    Everyone had to start from zero. So hearing more about your background is most definitely a big inspiration.
    Love the channel.
    Marco

  • @bluenetmarketing
    @bluenetmarketing 4 роки тому

    Great story. So happy you have found a good place for your talents, because you have so many.

  • @johnhardy3945
    @johnhardy3945 4 роки тому

    This is a must - see video. Your honesty is totally disarming Dr. Paul. Thank you.

  • @RGMDG
    @RGMDG 4 роки тому

    Congrats Paul. Great story. Very encouraging. Follow your dreams.

  • @anarchysoftworks4592
    @anarchysoftworks4592 10 місяців тому

    glad you pushed through - the world is a better place thanks to your online guitar lessons :)

  • @BAMozzy69
    @BAMozzy69 4 роки тому

    1.3m Congratulations!!! You deserve to have so many subscribers as your content and delivery is superb!!

  • @jess_0415
    @jess_0415 4 роки тому +1

    You inspire me a lot.. keep it up and continue share your knowledge...God bless

  • @nathannowack742
    @nathannowack742 4 роки тому

    It feels good to see you feel about your progress! Appreciate your videos

  • @rkrzbk
    @rkrzbk 4 роки тому

    So glad to hear it all worked out. Love to hear happy endings 👍

  • @alexandre.campinas
    @alexandre.campinas 4 роки тому

    Amazing man. thanks. wish you all the best for you!

  • @TheFULLMETALCHEF
    @TheFULLMETALCHEF 4 роки тому

    Inspiring story. congrats on the 1.3M.

  • @Dylanklinemusic
    @Dylanklinemusic 4 роки тому

    Great video, Paul! Thanks for sharing your story!