I almost cried watching this video... i suffered from bullying throughout most of my life because i was the fat girl named Biancé(Beyoncé). I still go through it sometimes but not as much as i used to. I never really defended myself. I tried to put up a wall, and act like the comments didn’t affect me. It’s turned me bitter, anxious, and angry inside. Im not gonna sit here and act like i didn’t do wrong to others because i have... but it was because i was hurting, and all i knew how to do was hurt. I know that inside i have a good heart, and i wish wellbeing to all. I don’t you all to feel sorry for me I’d just thought I’d share my story... it kinda hurts writing this :( thanks for the video though, i can sense great healing coming :)
So sad you have no problems they don’t let get you don’t take it in they must hurting inside because they are sick not you are you things have away to work out believe in your self love your self yes meditation will help there lot of people out there on your board to don’t worry you are loved Blessings Love Light Healing
Hey lovely, I feel this in my core. Being born into a life of a single alcoholic abusive father, going from orphanage to orphanage. Bullying DAILY! years and years and years. Being called fat because I would always finish my plate, but they didnt know that my dad never fed me he spent all the money on alcohol and then beat me into a coma on the daily until I was taken away. My mom died when I was 1. But the bullying was from girls, guys, staff, everything. I was called ugly, stupid, (I had difficulty learning) I numbed. I closed off, and yes growing up I hurt people. I never had love how was I suppose to know that my idea of love was wrong. When I say I am struggling with this healing, I mean I literally tried taking my life few days ago. Forgiving myself for causing people same pain someone else caused me is the hardest part for me. It breaks my heart when I hurt people. Like serious self hate. Because I would never want anyone to feel what I felt but growing up I always felt, if i suffered so should everyone.
You are like a dream come true.❤️I’m not a licensed therapist but I’ve been saying this for years in so many words. But you My Dear, articulated and broke the message down so clearly that a 1st grader would understand and be healed.✅ You’re voice is so smooth and comforting. I never thought I’d say this about a woman but I can just sit and listen to you talk all day. 🤣🤣🤣 Keep up the good work God-Queen you are helping so many people.🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
I've been doing this (most of your points) for a good 3 years now. I was very unsure and a bit skeptical about my approach, but it was the only thing that made sense. That, and I could do by myself, because those pesky human earthling things were always out to get me. Don't worry if the road is rocky and you fail on your butt time after time, it's all part of the process - remember we're talking about a bit of neuro-plasticity here. When I think back, every bit was worth-it and I'm still going at it, yet I'm already living in a totally different world than I was. I can't wait to see how much wonderful this world can be, so don't be afraid - it's worth every little tear and frown along the way. Love & light, you goofy bunch!
You have some of the best insight I've ever heard and I hope people women and men will start waking up , I'm afraid there's not enough of us awake we need like 51% people awakened , I'm afraid it's gonna take a major event because I'm very empathic and grew up with some of the worst people that made me feel bad, my family, thank you, but they are still doing the same things twenty years later, what it will they every feel empathy and what will ever undo all the bad negative programming through tell-lie-vision, or tell lies on the masses vision, packed with snapped, murder shows, scary movies, hip hop, rap , creates hate against all digging each other when will people ever get it I feel alone here
THANK YOU! I was getting so tired of watching videos and reading that I need to heal, but noone willing to help on the HOW without money. (I do realize healers need to make a living too) I was getting so frustrated! Usually people that need healing most cant afford the sessions with professionals. This has been one of the most helpful videos I've seen in the last month I've been going through the dark night of the soul trying to find how to get out. Theres a ton of good videos on your channel!
Thank you Nicky. I think every person can relate to this video and the complex baggage we may carry around. Your psychological and spiritual techniques are very practical. I like the freeze frame flashback one, where you can shed the negative perception and hug your younger self. I understand so much more now of why things happened, than I did back then in the middle of confusion. I still get confused, but I know my Guides got my back🙏🏽🕉🦄
I had a very very complicated and traumatic childhood up till I was 18, i've tried therapy and other methods but it truly hasnt been until I awoke that I felt felt I was beginning to heal. I noticed that alot of my past problems are now arising in my present life almost as if I'm meant to deal with it and heal from it right that moment. There are times I feel ill never heal from everything that's happened because theres so so much left unresolved in my sub conscious but I know that's putting negative vibrations and inviting those negative manifest to come back in so recently instead of opening them up and resolving and healing from it , I've been letting them come to me 1 at a time so I'm not so overwhelmed. I've also been repeating in my consciousness that those problems and traumas in my childhood do not serve me now and that they are not me. Let's just say ive come farther than I have my whole life at healing my past now since I have awakened myself
I also endured 18 yrs of tramatic experiences ...my first memory is that of fear ,followed by a 17 yr abusive marriage...which probably only lasted that long because it seemed normal to me... After 34 yrs of abuse I finally said to myself" this can't be why I'm here". ... It has been very hard to work through all the yrs of pain and learn to love myself. But I have managed to finally forgive my abusers and understand what they were going through and I have forgiven myself for my actions also... But I'm still working on loving myself...that is harder ...at least I don't hate myself any more
As early as age 8, I was reacting to the world from a hyper set of emotions that obviously were cemented in place from my parents and me reacting. Ever since I have been literally programmed, but the question remains; can I be different? To feel normal, I must overamp any emotion, whether it's belly laughing, porn, or high states of flooding nervous emotion. So I am a prisioner of my programming! Even in a recovery group, a fairly large and wealthy one in Florida, I got squarely gaslighted by the big cheeses there--they lied about me stealing something, so therefore I couldn't have a door key. This is the type of emotional brutality that still exists in my vibration, but for my own sanity must forgive all every day.
Been doing a type of therapy called " constellation therapy" which addresses childhood traumas. I was too responsible as a child as my parents divorced and I always looked after my younger sister. During the therapy I did notice that I was actually happy some of the events occurred the way they did as they gave me a strength that helped me in life. I did find myself getting defensive a bit because I do feel like I understand my parents circumstances because I've done a lot of healing already. I like your technique because it really does allow forgiveness. The other therapy does too but I wasn't feeling forgiving I felt more angry. What would you say to that? Something felt judgmental about it. Thank you 😊 your feedback is wonderful.
But what if people are still carrying out the same abusive actions today? It’s hard to forgive when it’s not just in the past but still happening today.
How about Traumas i can not remember and I dont know exatly what's happen, because i was to young? But i have strange reactions in diffrend Situations, which block me in everyday life.
being unable to trust via from being an empath feeling others and pleasing others to the point of hurting the self, because as empath feeling other or others is a way of pleasing the self because we are inferior ego, pleasing others so that i can be happy. so being it, or guessing the action of others when we say NO, hurts us or empaths, therefore pleasing others and get hurt beyond our protection, is a mean of not able to trust our intuitive measure of protection and go out ward or fend off, by via protecting the self or distrust other by not going there in the first place, by mean of avoidance. does it make sense?
You have to pinpoint WHY you do it, why you compare yourself with other people. I have/had (still working on it) the same issue. Mine stemmed from feeling lack of self worth and lack of self-love. When you don't love yourself and feel that you aren't enough/worthy enough, you compare yourself with other people. This in turn makes you feel even more unworthy and dissatisfied with yourself. Of course it's much more complicated than that, but generally self-love (or lack thereof) is at the centre. If I were you I'd think about how and when it all started. If that seems to difficult, catch yourself next time you do it and ask yourself a number of questions. Eg. Why am I feeling this way? > Because I am jealous > Why am I jealous? > Because I don't have what they have > Why do I feel like I don't have what they have? > Because I feel a sense of lack inside > Why do I feel a sense of lack inside? > Because I don't think I will be able to be happy like they are > etc etc and on it goes until you arrive at the root of your problem. Good luck!
As long as you have an ego you will have an inferiority complex and as long as you are here in this reality you will have an ego. Its not about getting rid of it, just becoming aware of it and noticing that it is not really YOU.
A friend asked me to watch this, I'm sorry but her coquettish way of speaking and dressing, I find it very hard to take her seriously. Breathless and whispering...it's like she's on a bad drug. There's a reason for all behaviors, this just dismisses bad human behaviors, lack of human decency as being someone else's fault. Bottom line, regardless of backstory it's up to us today to recognize the current effect and seek proper treatment.
Last night before I slept I asked the universe to deliver to me a video or something that help me to deal with my past ... I'm so grateful for this.
Understanding => Forgiveness => Healing
I almost cried watching this video... i suffered from bullying throughout most of my life because i was the fat girl named Biancé(Beyoncé). I still go through it sometimes but not as much as i used to. I never really defended myself. I tried to put up a wall, and act like the comments didn’t affect me. It’s turned me bitter, anxious, and angry inside. Im not gonna sit here and act like i didn’t do wrong to others because i have... but it was because i was hurting, and all i knew how to do was hurt. I know that inside i have a good heart, and i wish wellbeing to all. I don’t you all to feel sorry for me I’d just thought I’d share my story... it kinda hurts writing this :( thanks for the video though, i can sense great healing coming :)
Biance, thank you so much for sharing your story. Sending love to you strong sweet sister.
I know EXACTLY how you feel. All the best! x
Same! Blessings to you, xxx
So sad you have no problems they don’t let get you don’t take it in they must hurting inside because they are sick not you are you things have away to work out believe in your self love your self yes meditation will help there lot of people out there on your board to don’t worry you are loved Blessings Love Light Healing
Hey lovely,
I feel this in my core. Being born into a life of a single alcoholic abusive father, going from orphanage to orphanage. Bullying DAILY! years and years and years. Being called fat because I would always finish my plate, but they didnt know that my dad never fed me he spent all the money on alcohol and then beat me into a coma on the daily until I was taken away. My mom died when I was 1. But the bullying was from girls, guys, staff, everything. I was called ugly, stupid, (I had difficulty learning) I numbed. I closed off, and yes growing up I hurt people. I never had love how was I suppose to know that my idea of love was wrong. When I say I am struggling with this healing, I mean I literally tried taking my life few days ago.
Forgiving myself for causing people same pain someone else caused me is the hardest part for me. It breaks my heart when I hurt people. Like serious self hate. Because I would never want anyone to feel what I felt but growing up I always felt, if i suffered so should everyone.
You are like a dream come true.❤️I’m not a licensed therapist but I’ve been saying this for years in so many words. But you My Dear, articulated and broke the message down so clearly that a 1st grader would understand and be healed.✅
You’re voice is so smooth and comforting. I never thought I’d say this about a woman but I can just sit and listen to you talk all day. 🤣🤣🤣
Keep up the good work God-Queen you are helping so many people.🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
Time heals, but sometimes we have to learn to live with the reality of our lives knowing the future holds promise.
People can suffer from a lack of time?
This is something I needed to hear, the present continually clouded by past trauma is difficult to live with. Thanks Nicky 🙏
I've been doing this (most of your points) for a good 3 years now. I was very unsure and a bit skeptical about my approach, but it was the only thing that made sense. That, and I could do by myself, because those pesky human earthling things were always out to get me. Don't worry if the road is rocky and you fail on your butt time after time, it's all part of the process - remember we're talking about a bit of neuro-plasticity here. When I think back, every bit was worth-it and I'm still going at it, yet I'm already living in a totally different world than I was. I can't wait to see how much wonderful this world can be, so don't be afraid - it's worth every little tear and frown along the way. Love & light, you goofy bunch!
Noc Miner I meant to say entangled in the 3D karma.......ooops
You have some of the best insight I've ever heard and I hope people women and men will start waking up , I'm afraid there's not enough of us awake we need like 51% people awakened , I'm afraid it's gonna take a major event because I'm very empathic and grew up with some of the worst people that made me feel bad, my family, thank you, but they are still doing the same things twenty years later, what it will they every feel empathy and what will ever undo all the bad negative programming through tell-lie-vision, or tell lies on the masses vision, packed with snapped, murder shows, scary movies, hip hop, rap , creates hate against all digging each other when will people ever get it I feel alone here
THANK YOU! I was getting so tired of watching videos and reading that I need to heal, but noone willing to help on the HOW without money. (I do realize healers need to make a living too) I was getting so frustrated! Usually people that need healing most cant afford the sessions with professionals. This has been one of the most helpful videos I've seen in the last month I've been going through the dark night of the soul trying to find how to get out. Theres a ton of good videos on your channel!
The background music you chose for this video is spiritually very soothing. Thank you so much, Nicky. ❤️💚💙
I love your energy, It feels so good... PEACE and LOVE
Grateful for this healing and all your teachings. May you be compensated abundantly.🙏🏽💕💜
You approach these teaching in such a kind and gracious way.
Thank you Nicki! Great info as always.Namaste
Thank you. For sharing you are amazing 💜
That was a KEY to completion. Thank you Nicky. 😇 blessings!
Thank you Nicky. I think every person can relate to this video and the complex baggage we may carry around. Your psychological and spiritual techniques are very practical. I like the freeze frame flashback one, where you can shed the negative perception and hug your younger self. I understand so much more now of why things happened, than I did back then in the middle of confusion. I still get confused, but I know my Guides got my back🙏🏽🕉🦄
You are amazing, and you are increasingly amazing with time! Thank you.
I had a very very complicated and traumatic childhood up till I was 18, i've tried therapy and other methods but it truly hasnt been until I awoke that I felt felt I was beginning to heal. I noticed that alot of my past problems are now arising in my present life almost as if I'm meant to deal with it and heal from it right that moment. There are times I feel ill never heal from everything that's happened because theres so so much left unresolved in my sub conscious but I know that's putting negative vibrations and inviting those negative manifest to come back in so recently instead of opening them up and resolving and healing from it , I've been letting them come to me 1 at a time so I'm not so overwhelmed. I've also been repeating in my consciousness that those problems and traumas in my childhood do not serve me now and that they are not me. Let's just say ive come farther than I have my whole life at healing my past now since I have awakened myself
I also endured 18 yrs of tramatic experiences ...my first memory is that of fear ,followed by a 17 yr abusive marriage...which probably only lasted that long because it seemed normal to me... After 34 yrs of abuse I finally said to myself" this can't be why I'm here". ... It has been very hard to work through all the yrs of pain and learn to love myself. But I have managed to finally forgive my abusers and understand what they were going through and I have forgiven myself for my actions also... But I'm still working on loving myself...that is harder ...at least I don't hate myself any more
Thank you so much ma'am 💕
Thank you!
thank you very much nicky with love&light....
That was great! Thank you so much.
As early as age 8, I was reacting to the world from a hyper set of emotions that obviously were cemented in place from my parents and me reacting. Ever since I have been literally programmed, but the question remains; can I be different? To feel normal, I must overamp any emotion, whether it's belly laughing, porn, or high states of flooding nervous emotion. So I am a prisioner of my programming!
Even in a recovery group, a fairly large and wealthy one in Florida, I got squarely gaslighted by the big cheeses there--they lied about me stealing something, so therefore I couldn't have a door key. This is the type of emotional brutality that still exists in my vibration, but for my own sanity must forgive all every day.
Can you do a video about how to stay balanced, grounded, calm, and spiritual around negative people who have anger issues and a complaining spirit?
This is so helpful. Thank you 🙏
Thank you for this video♡
This is a great video.thank u
Perfect explanation
Thank you 😊 much love ❤️
Been doing a type of therapy called " constellation therapy" which addresses childhood traumas. I was too responsible as a child as my parents divorced and I always looked after my younger sister. During the therapy I did notice that I was actually happy some of the events occurred the way they did as they gave me a strength that helped me in life. I did find myself getting defensive a bit because I do feel like I understand my parents circumstances because I've done a lot of healing already. I like your technique because it really does allow forgiveness. The other therapy does too but I wasn't feeling forgiving I felt more angry. What would you say to that? Something felt judgmental about it. Thank you 😊 your feedback is wonderful.
Thank you great Blessings Love Light
Thanks Nicky John England
I love your accent. Sounds so beautiful on my ears 🌹💞☝️😇
You are amazing, thank you sooooo much
Great !!!! Thank you !!!!
But what if people are still carrying out the same abusive actions today? It’s hard to forgive when it’s not just in the past but still happening today.
How about Traumas i can not remember and I dont know exatly what's happen, because i was to young? But i have strange reactions in diffrend Situations, which block me in everyday life.
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being unable to trust via from being an empath feeling others and pleasing others to the point of hurting the self, because as empath feeling other or others is a way of pleasing the self because we are inferior ego, pleasing others so that i can be happy.
so being it, or guessing the action of others when we say NO, hurts us or empaths, therefore pleasing others and get hurt beyond our protection, is a mean of not able to trust our intuitive measure of protection and go out ward or fend off, by via protecting the self or distrust other by not going there in the first place, by mean of avoidance. does it make sense?
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How do we deal with the death of a loved one?
I m just saying, but I'm not that way anymore. but trust is still a problem accordant to some circumstances.
I need to heal an inferiority complex and i dont know how to do it
You have to pinpoint WHY you do it, why you compare yourself with other people. I have/had (still working on it) the same issue. Mine stemmed from feeling lack of self worth and lack of self-love. When you don't love yourself and feel that you aren't enough/worthy enough, you compare yourself with other people. This in turn makes you feel even more unworthy and dissatisfied with yourself. Of course it's much more complicated than that, but generally self-love (or lack thereof) is at the centre. If I were you I'd think about how and when it all started. If that seems to difficult, catch yourself next time you do it and ask yourself a number of questions. Eg. Why am I feeling this way? > Because I am jealous > Why am I jealous? > Because I don't have what they have > Why do I feel like I don't have what they have? > Because I feel a sense of lack inside > Why do I feel a sense of lack inside? > Because I don't think I will be able to be happy like they are > etc etc and on it goes until you arrive at the root of your problem. Good luck!
Tachan you are v wise thank you. I work at the self love nowadays it helps indeed
@@serrenacochete I'm extremely happy to hear that :) You are wise too
As long as you have an ego you will have an inferiority complex and as long as you are here in this reality you will have an ego. Its not about getting rid of it, just becoming aware of it and noticing that it is not really YOU.
She sounds like the robot child in "Humans"
A friend asked me to watch this, I'm sorry but her coquettish way of speaking and dressing, I find it very hard to take her seriously. Breathless and whispering...it's like she's on a bad drug. There's a reason for all behaviors, this just dismisses bad human behaviors, lack of human decency as being someone else's fault. Bottom line, regardless of backstory it's up to us today to recognize the current effect and seek proper treatment.
Thank you ❤️
Thank you Nicky much appreciated
Thank you ❤
Thank you!