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  • THIS IS THRLE REASON WHY YOU SHOULD NEVER INTRODUCE YOUR MAN TO YOUR FRIENDS |BWWM |INTERRACIALCOUPLES
    This is a true story that happened to someone I know in lagos nigeria, this actually happened earlier this month October 2020,
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 77

  • @geanmundea145
    @geanmundea145 Рік тому +2

    I fully agree with you 100% never trust a friend with your man

  • @julee2766
    @julee2766 Рік тому +8

    I cannot imagine how heartbroken and the level of betrayal that lady will feel. I pray God grant her heart desires and give her someone better than the ass.
    I married my man on his first visit to Nigeria too.

    • @CHEKSLEA
      @CHEKSLEA  Рік тому +2

      Alot of us did, her bad was involving someone she thought could be a friend not knowing she is the devil

  • @welchfavor518
    @welchfavor518 Рік тому +2

    She's right that is not her man
    A through man GOD will give to you will not hurt you.

  • @nakyeyunejojolalasha8612
    @nakyeyunejojolalasha8612 Рік тому +4

    Ohhhh my God , this is really heart breaking , I can imagine this girls pain , her time she wasted waiting , the besties betrayal , I pray God give her another man , thanks for sharing girl , this is a lesson I have learnt , I love u girl , am following u from Uganda , am so so touched

    • @CHEKSLEA
      @CHEKSLEA  Рік тому

      Thank you Nakyeyune, you are welcome

  • @Vibe_with_fiona
    @Vibe_with_fiona Рік тому +5

    My dear,men know what they want..he never likes the friend of yours.
    He just doesn’t know how to go about it with her so she doesn’t get hurt.
    I just pray she recover from this.
    That kind of man will cause more hell in the relationship..
    Keeping such for almost a year plus.
    Shows he was the real enemy!

  • @Sweetlito
    @Sweetlito Рік тому +3

    Talking to someone is not the problem but I’m the issue is over sharing !!!

  • @Riechell70
    @Riechell70 Місяць тому +1

    You are so right. Everything is on point. I am an older woman(50)ish and I enjoy life more now because I am mature & wiser. You learn all the things to watch out for when in a relationship. Life is too short to play games, especially with relationships. Both of you make a nice couple!! 😊💐😘💐

    • @CHEKSLEA
      @CHEKSLEA  Місяць тому +1

      Thank you so much ma, I feel happy hearing this from you, happy to have you here 😍❤️

  • @bugibecky5600
    @bugibecky5600 10 місяців тому +1

    I just came across your channel today and watched almost all your videos and I'm so pissed off by this so called bestie, I'm in a long distance relationship with a German guy and I'm trying to put myself in this lady's shoes it's so painful 😢
    For me i don't have any besties and the only person who knows about my relationship is my sister, i will never involve any friends in my relationship. Never!
    I hope the lady finds another loving, caring and mature guy who will genuinely love only her. I send warm hugs and love her way 🤗 💓

    • @CHEKSLEA
      @CHEKSLEA  10 місяців тому +1

      Is so good my dear just your family is enough because things are really happening these days, friends are being so envious about what their friend have. So is better to keep your relationship private till you get married, thanks for watching my videos ❤️

  • @doreenkevin177
    @doreenkevin177 Рік тому +4

    That’s so sad and really heartbreaking 💔. I hope she finds it in her heart to move on. That’s why I always keep my relationship private, only a few people know about my long distance fiancé. I do pray she gets someone better than ‘Michael’

    • @CHEKSLEA
      @CHEKSLEA  Рік тому

      Exactly privacy pays, I pray she find a better person

    • @doreenkevin177
      @doreenkevin177 Рік тому

      @@CHEKSLEA Amen to that

  • @iwutungimmaculate7371
    @iwutungimmaculate7371 Рік тому +1

    That is very sad🤔 , thank you for the advice Chelsea 🙏

    • @CHEKSLEA
      @CHEKSLEA  Рік тому

      Yes is a sad one, 😔 you are welcome

  • @cynthial5901
    @cynthial5901 Рік тому +1

    Thank you, this is great advice for everyone!!

  • @benedictaokogie845
    @benedictaokogie845 Рік тому +2

    Hi gal.
    Wat a story! . Poor gal. So sorry 4 ur friend. She must hv been pained!😒.lm sure she has learnt her lessons. So sorry 4 her. Next time like we say here, "Shine ur eyes".
    Tnx 4 d story and advise.
    Ciao.

    • @CHEKSLEA
      @CHEKSLEA  Рік тому

      Exactly, na to shine eyes oo

  • @Riechell70
    @Riechell70 Місяць тому +1

    Also was with an "Italian. But American" man. His mother was born in Italy. He passed away after 11 years together. Had cancer. To this day, he was the best relationship I ever had. Never remarried. If I still believe in love--maybe one day in another year or so. Yet I am not looking!!. GOD will guide me to another good one.

    • @CHEKSLEA
      @CHEKSLEA  Місяць тому

      Ohhh so sorry to hear that he past, I can imagine how you feel, I pray God send you someone that will truly love you 😍, your story touched my heart 💔it’s a sad one but God knows the best, I’m sending you a warm hugs 🤗 😍

  • @dictabae5300
    @dictabae5300 Рік тому +4

    Hmm this is very sad but what goes around comes around,we should be careful with the bad things we do to people because karma is real,take care and God be with u and ur family 🥰

    • @CHEKSLEA
      @CHEKSLEA  Рік тому

      Yes Karma is real I believe in it,it will surely hit them

  • @mayasayonara9169
    @mayasayonara9169 Рік тому +2

    Thank you for sharing this story Cheks, you have a good heart and soul because you learned lesson from this which will help other women!! God bless you! 😘🙌💗Please tell your friend that she dodged a bullet. I can understand this is a painful situation but she should be grateful that he came clean and she didn't marry him. Don't shed more tears, a good man will come I'll definitely pray for her!! God is faithful!! 👏🙏Imagine starting the marriage on this foundation of him and her friend going behind her back, and only finding out after marriage. I think that's worse. God is good!!
    And you make a good point that there's no such thing as a 'bestie'. And yes as women we need to be wary of who we bring into our lives, who we call 'friends' because it's an evil world but God always shows us, gives us signs and our intuition as women. Sometimes we can sense if a person has bad intentions just even the first time meeting them, or seeing how they behave. I hope more women watch this video, very valuable lesson!!

    • @CHEKSLEA
      @CHEKSLEA  Рік тому +1

      Thank you so much for this words Maya, is a wise words, and true it's good she found out the people she was trusting, though its sad, she is trying to move on even though is not so easy for her,as her family is also involved. Please do well to share this video to friends thank you.

  • @vickyhilda1421
    @vickyhilda1421 Рік тому

    Such a great advice, thanx you sister

  • @tarots270
    @tarots270 Рік тому +1

    That is so heartbreaking 😢

  • @ellasstyle1002
    @ellasstyle1002 Рік тому +5

    In this life you have to be smart and always use your brain, I'm heartbroken by this story, I feel pained I feel very very sad, she trusted her enemy not her friend, The world is wicked trust nobody, There is no best friend I repeat there is no best friend they are only betrayers and friend-enemy. The so called best friends are only close to you to eat from your table and take away food from your mouth so you have to be wise. I pray God gives her a better loving man and a happy relationship

    • @CHEKSLEA
      @CHEKSLEA  Рік тому

      Exactly, trust no one and use your brain when trusting

  • @laetitiamathe5779
    @laetitiamathe5779 Рік тому +1

    So sorry for her 😱😱. But Thank you so much for the advice 🥰. From Congo

  • @victoriaravera5831
    @victoriaravera5831 Рік тому +1

    Thanks so much dear Chekslea for sharing, this story reminds me of a friend when i was in Nigeria, some friends/ friend can be so heartless and some men can be foolish but i thank GOD almighty for everything he has done. And i also feel for the girl, may God grant her, her heart desires soon, also my husband his an Italian and we have been married for almost 6years now.

    • @CHEKSLEA
      @CHEKSLEA  Рік тому +1

      Exactly, some friends are heartless, wow 6years is long time, atlast I have Italian inlaw here, welcome Victoria

    • @CHEKSLEA
      @CHEKSLEA  Рік тому

      honestly some girls can be wicked, and men are not helping as well,God will help every one and also we have to becareful with those we call best friend

  • @Euginia.O
    @Euginia.O 11 місяців тому +2

    Shame...and the guy kept misleading her,there was no point 4 the guy to say he wants to spend time with her 💔he was just fooling her n wanted to use her...and the bestie will surely get what she deserves both her n the guy,they truly did this poor girl wrong.. can't wait for her to share her story ❤️❤️💕and if she has please let us know

    • @CHEKSLEA
      @CHEKSLEA  11 місяців тому +1

      Yes exactly 😊😊I will surely post her update when the right time comes ❤️

  • @janetmbao6345
    @janetmbao6345 Рік тому +2

    Hello Cheks.I watched the video yesterday. I was so surprised, about how someone can be so evil to do that to a friend. It's true these so called besties are never your friends.They just hear what you tell them and they are envious about you and just want an open opportunity to take what you have from you.I don't have a besty either and I keep my plans to myself and family. Thank you so much for this,you and your husband are perfect for each other. Happy New Year to you.

    • @CHEKSLEA
      @CHEKSLEA  Рік тому

      Exactly Janet sometimes is good to keep somethings to yourself because these days we don't even know who to trust. Thank for watching ,thanks for the compliment

    • @janetmbao6345
      @janetmbao6345 Рік тому

      @@CHEKSLEA Yes you are right. I'm from Zambia and I'm in a long distance relationship. My guy is from Sweden and it makes me happy, that I'm not the only one that has been searching online.

    • @janetmbao6345
      @janetmbao6345 Рік тому +1

      @@CHEKSLEA I also you like to ask,how long did you wait for your Visa to be ready?I saw your video when you explained about Visa I just didnt hear how many months.

    • @CHEKSLEA
      @CHEKSLEA  Рік тому +1

      @@janetmbao6345 I waited 3weeks dear

  • @ehigiatorpeterfavourbeliev7095

    if i most say , she's so wrong for giving her man number out to her friend for a man she have not meet yet to help her talk to him i just feel sorry for her this is a lesson we have so many jealous people in nigeria when it come to something like this

    • @CHEKSLEA
      @CHEKSLEA  Рік тому

      Exactly I totally agree with what you said

  • @SoulMates_Forever
    @SoulMates_Forever Рік тому +1

    Great video ❤❤❤❤ love your videos ❤❤❤❤

    • @CHEKSLEA
      @CHEKSLEA  Рік тому +1

      Ooh my dear thank you so much I appreciate it 😊 ❤️

  • @chinwemuze2718
    @chinwemuze2718 Рік тому +1

    Omoh, it's best to just settle your issues by yourselves ohh.. no dey join join people.. chineke ékwere ifeojo.. Keep your relationships private, especially the type that y'all are courting for marriage. Even sisters, cousins, etc knowing your relationship matters isn't always advisable. It's not all family members that have positive thoughts. I totally dig italian men, I pray for mine. 🤲☺️😁 I pray your marriage will be fruitful, filled with the love of God and happiness. Love your vlog, keep it up. 👍

    • @CHEKSLEA
      @CHEKSLEA  Рік тому

      Exactly is true to keep your private life to yourself aline, you don't know what people really wish for you, some pretend to be happy for you but in reality they are envious and wish to have what you have.
      Thank you do much for your kind words, i say Amen to that

  • @Real_horror_Storiess
    @Real_horror_Storiess Рік тому +1

    So heartbreaking, God forbid 💔

  • @Ugo292
    @Ugo292 Рік тому +1

    This is really heartbreaking

    • @CHEKSLEA
      @CHEKSLEA  Рік тому

      Yes it's really sad 😔

  • @Ugo292
    @Ugo292 Рік тому +5

    Your husband is very funny😆

  • @peacenancysvlogs7520
    @peacenancysvlogs7520 Рік тому +1

    Chaii chi moooo🙆🏼‍♀️🙆🏼‍♀️🙆🏼‍♀️🙆🏼‍♀️🙆🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️🥺

    • @CHEKSLEA
      @CHEKSLEA  Рік тому

      Such is life, we have to be careful

  • @winniekaburara5738
    @winniekaburara5738 Рік тому +1

    Girl that wig. Am so in love with it. Where should I get it

    • @CHEKSLEA
      @CHEKSLEA  Рік тому +1

      Thank you so much winnie, I got it from a hair vendor in Nigeria she sells good hair, I bought all my hair from her, +2349054055024 that's her WhatsApp number

  • @bintokiria5338
    @bintokiria5338 Рік тому +1

    🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂
    Your Husband is so funny 😂🤣😂🤣

  • @ichbibi
    @ichbibi Рік тому

    Problem e no dey finish...

  • @marcellinebachidere4295
    @marcellinebachidere4295 Рік тому

    It so sad...but everything you will saw you will also reap it..she built her relationship by breaking someone else heart..it might be successful in the beginning but she will payback also...it's painful but she needs to pray ,forgive this friend and God will send her the best one...

  • @ruthie8466
    @ruthie8466 Рік тому +2

    Tht is sooooo wrong. Sm1 shld whip tht betrayer. 😭
    Let them wait for karma,it doesnt forget,neither does God.

    • @CHEKSLEA
      @CHEKSLEA  Рік тому +1

      My dear I believe in karma ,it will hit every bad person

  • @Flawless-m7y
    @Flawless-m7y Рік тому +1

    😱Oh😱my😱God😱!!!!
    Lyk wah da heck???!!!!
    This bestie.......the guy....the bestie's sister......jeez! And they're getting married????!!!😱
    I'm even angry

    • @CHEKSLEA
      @CHEKSLEA  Рік тому +1

      Exactly I'm still pained till now, anyway she is still hurting as its still fresh. We all have ti be careful who we let into our space

    • @Flawless-m7y
      @Flawless-m7y Рік тому

      @@CHEKSLEA I can imagine....oh God!
      I pray she gets someone who will erase this terrible experience she's going through and who will fill her heart with the joy she deserves.
      You're right, this bestie bestie thing......is dangerous. Some besties are toxic

  • @sijuolaoketokun1576
    @sijuolaoketokun1576 Рік тому +1

    This was all her fault ó... Omo, this is deep. Bestie bestie hmmm

    • @CHEKSLEA
      @CHEKSLEA  Рік тому

      I wouldn't blame her though, because her heart is pure so she thought the other girl is just like her till she did her dirty

    • @sijuolaoketokun1576
      @sijuolaoketokun1576 Рік тому

      @@CHEKSLEA there's limit to trust ó... But I get you. Her heart was just too pure,God will reward her soonest.