was this a big mistake🤦🏽♀️? (Decluttering my sisters bedroom pt. 2)
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Carla....New outlet covers are less than a dollar (just a few cents for the basic white ones) and would really make the room look much better. Such a small, easy, cheap, safe thing to do....
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@@SS-rv1mboh there’s a general link to the website and then individual links for each item! Thanks for checking them out❤❤❤
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There is a Lowes and a Home Depot close to us and I will pick the Lowe’s after seeing how great everything turned out! !!
Sorry for the blurred portion everyone! My jumper came unbuttoned and I don’t wanna flash the internet so blurring was the best solution 😅❤
Oops!! I figured that's what happened!
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Haha whoops is that your new jumpsuit from Walmart ?
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Lol I was wondering what happened
One of the things I learned from another organizer that really helped me might help Sherry. Instead of asking yourself " is this useful?" Instead ask, " Can I do without this?" Can I live without this ? Helped me start tossing more. It helps us realize that it is more important to be able to find what we have than to have all we want or need. Living in the present is so important! We miss so much life, trying to organize and keep everything! Sherri will appreciate not having so many daily decisions. I'm slowly getting there. But I'm getting there!
Mine is if my house burned down would I replace it? 9 times out of 10 it's a NO.
@@jillberry2802 my horded house did burn down and I replaced very few items. It really does wake you up to how little you really need!
or as Marie Kondo asks "Does this bring me joy"? If it doesn't bring you joy or you can live without it, then get rid of it
Right on! 😃 You can also ask yourself if you didn’t have that item, would purchase that item again.
Gonna try that. I'm struggling with holding on to things that im not utilizing.
James is an absolute superhero!! He did so much in a short time, wow!!! Love seeing the wardrobe doors and the flooring. You must all be exhausted!!! That you took the donations immediately, that’s clever decluttering right there. No chance for Sherry to rethink any of it in a moment of weakness. 😅
I agree! I’m trying to understand who he is? 😊 a family member?
James is Sherry’s son-in-law.
The paint colour is perfect! It is such a soothing touch to your sister’s “sanctuary”/bedroom. The wooden floor and the doors on the closet are wonderful. Also the bed frame is very nice. And you are patient with your sister as she goes through the process of decluttering. I recall my husband always saying “a place for each item and each item in its place” - no truer words 😊
So pretty!
Oh my goodness, you're sister should be so proud of herself. What a transformation! She's very lucky to have you. She'll get there eventually, hopefully she understood that eliminating the bin is how to truly declutter. Hope you give future updates.
My favorite part about her new bedroom is....everything! How clean and spacious it feels decluttered, with the new floors and paint, the closet doors, the new wider baseboards.
Me too!!😍
Beautiful! I have one suggestion.... ask wonderful James to also install baseboards in the closet. Can't wait to see the final decor.
I was looking for this comment! I agree. Not a necessity of course but it really helps finish everything out.
Glad I’m not the only one who thought this! The room is lovely and James did such a wonderful job!
Ha! This comment had me jump up to see if my closets have baseboards and yes they do.
I am so happy for Sherry!!!! She deserves a calm, clean room. My favorite part is the horrible, old carpet gone!!
It’s so sweet to see you and your sister working together! Helping her process her feelings around why she is holding onto things is so helpful to her and us watching. It was such a lightbulb moment when you helped her realize a relocation cycle was happening and something different needed to occur in order for her to truly declutter and be able to find things. Brava ladies!
You’re so patient with your sister, you have a lovely respectful relationship ❤
Sheri, you deserve this lovely makeover. You take care of everyone else, and now they get to help spoil you a little bit 😊
Agreed!
I could feel the frustration building and it was such a relief when Sherri decided to do another pass and you guys totally emptied that tote. Bravo! Oh and I wish I had a James in my life, he did a wonderful job making that room look brand new. I hope Sherri enjoys the peace and calm without all the clutter and realises she doesn’t need so much stuff. She is doing great so far. You, Carla are such a treasure, I wish you were my sister ❤
2 Carla Project videos in two days AND they’re both you and sis working together?! Happy early birthday to me! I’m here for it!! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 Love when you help your sister and what an awesome transformation. ❤
Love the closet doors, paint color, flooring, and the bed. All of it. Good job!
Those closet drapes were replaced, amazing.
I gasped when I first saw the painted room and new floors. Big props to James! It is so gorgeous. Can’t wait to see Part 3 with the furniture in place. 💜 p.s. Congrats for Lowes sponsoring!
Thanks so much!
It's so nice that you and James are helping Sherri. She deserves this beautiful room. This was very hard work for her, too. ❤
Yay for James!! The room looks beautiful now. So glad you stopped that box from going to the garage! You and your sister are my favorites!
Wow 2 episodes this weekend both Saturday & Sunday I love it
The new doors on the wardrobe and removing the curtains looks great, and I love her new bed frame.
I bet this has a real 'knock on effect' for the rest of the house. When you finally get the space in a beautiful fresh looking room, it is hard to re-clutter it with old things. I would take inspiration from times spent on holiday with just the bare minimum and give it a week or so getting used to the new look before asking the questions, what do I really need or want in here, what do I really miss? Sometimes, less is more. Great result!
I loved seeing the processing in real time that you needed to find a home for all the "keeps" instead of putting them back into a bin. Also so giddy to have two episodes in a row, what a special weekend!
I think she'll definitely feel more calm and peace in the new bedroom, especially with less clutter in sight.
My favorite series is your sisters house declutter!!!
Thanks for sharing. 😘 My husband of almost 42 years passed last November and I am determined to declutter. Initially it was overwhelming because my project included the contents from his mother (passed 2018), undone because of his failing health. Once I categorized all the ‘stuff’ and realized I wasn’t obligated to anyone else’s time frame, it became easier. One bin at a time.
Keep going, you'll find yourself pulling out a bin before you've even realised what you're doing!
Hubby finds it overwhelming, and we've done both parents houses in recent years. He's stuck on his workshop, which is a shame because it's the last place of his to be done. He just sees it is one big pile, you are wise to categorise it.
I'm stuck on heirloom crockery. That will definitely be the Swedish death cleaning method.
Keep up the good work. So worthwhile- once it is done you will feel lighter
I’m so sorry for your loss. Hugs. ❤
My favorite part of her new space are her new closet doors. Makes such a difference and streamlines everything visually. And going bin by bin and making sure everything has a home is time consuming, but so satisfying and helpful in keeping your space tidy. When I clean/tidy my home, I always tell myself "everything has a place" to help me not get overwhelmed with the mess.
A labelmaker really helped me not just to find stuff, but having to make the decisions and keeping myself to it. Your hard work really pays off! Great job both of you
Yes! Something the channel "a hoarders heart" talks about is churning. That's EXACTLY what was about to happen with that bin! SO glad you pushed your sister to ACTUALLY process her items. Way to go ladies!
Would you describe what is “churning”? I’m very interested! (And possibly very guilty of it!)
@@21cormorants I think it is the going through that bin, but putting things back in to keep for someday. Instead, they made decisions for everything they were keeping and took it to where it needed to go,(or decide on a home for it) not just back in the bin as a a future acton item. Because you'll forget what's in the bin, and have to go through it again. Until you actually do the action of putting it in its rightful home you are simply moving it around in baskets, bin, out to the garage etc... so it's still clutter.
@@jackieo2403 This can also be called "stuff shuffling."
Sherry - Just a little FYI: We're now about 90% finished decluttering and now do the one-in, one-out process (new shirt in? an old shirt goes) and think VERY carefully about buying anything. Anyway, just to let you know, we now have a total of only four bins: two hold Christmas stuff (yes, all xmas stuff has actually been reduced to 2 bins!) and two hold CD's that were moved onto the cloud. That's it! Those bins are the devil! ;-) Great to see that you got RID of a bin. (We ended up donating loads of bins.) Make those decisions...trash, donate, or a home...and continue to do your best not to make bins an option. Your bedroom is looking fabulous! So clean, fresh, and calming. I'm crossing my fingers that you don't bring too much stuff back into the room. Living with less stuff is such a good feeling. I'm cheering you on. Keep up the great work!
Your sister is truly BLESSED to have your SKILLS and PATIENCE . It appears your treasured sister may have a hoarding disorder, if that is the case - it would have to be addressed by a medical professional. Here's to years of beautiful comfort in her "clean slate" bedroom and home thanx to her AWESOME sister ! God Bless her always !
James to the rescue 😊 He did a great job. The color on the walls looks like an ocean front retreat vibe.
I understand the extra convo about that bin. It could be a "time will tell" bin but maybe that's not good for Sherry.
You and James are both GEMS! The “fully processing” of bins was an essential demonstration and lesson for you to give to Sherri. Little by little, she’s learning the skills.
Just 3 minutes in and WOW!!!! What a difference!
James deserves ALL Good Things In Life!!!
I hope that Sherry is inspired by her wonderful new space to keep it nice and *not* let the "stuff" creep back in 🦋
Carla, I'm impressed by your inner strength. This was a heck of a task (one of many in the house), but it certainly sets the tone for the rest of the place. Your sister did a good job of letting go and she'll do more - just like your friend did. And I can't say enough good things about James! Great team work!!
Carla, Sherry, and James, thank you for sharing the transformation with the world. Lots of stress and lots of love involved by all. I appreciate the negotiation that you engaged in. Carla and Sherry, your friendship is abundant especially in the most trying times. ❤️2U
Thank you so much!💖💖💖
Your sister just seems to have the sweetest disposition. Let her know many of appreciate her allowing us to continue to peak into her life. And her room coming along beautifully.
I love this series and watching the relationship between you and your sister. I hope your sister is proud of her hard work. She may not realize it but she has been a blessing to many by being so open with her journey. Blessings to you both
We used Lowe's for laminate flooring for our entire house about 10 years ago and it was the BEST decision we ever made! Also, they put ceramic tile in both bathrooms. Everything still looks brand new!!!
We were shocked at how affordable the flooring was!! And they look fantastic!❤
I love love lovee when you have Sherry on. She is such a sweet lady and deserved herself a room makeover after all the hardwork she has put in decluttering. You're an awesome sister for doing this for her and thank you to Mr James for all his hard work.
James is a super hero!!! It is so nice to see a man help his family.
Beautiful!! Glad that you did not lose your patience when she said she will put it in the garage. She did good.
Love the wall color and the new floor! Sister is really making changes.
Amazing transformation! I appreciated how you challenged your sister, in a gentle but firm way, about finding a home for everything in the bin and not just delaying the decisions by storing it in the garage.
Wow, huge project! Just getting that old carpet out will make a big difference! You girls and James did great!!
The paint color and flooring looks amazing. Great work to all of you: especially James. Your sister deserves this beautiful space!
Thank you, Sherry, for allowing us to follow your journey. What a difference flooring and paint make! It seems so much calmer already. The closet doors will make such a difference, too! Love the wall color you chose. I love seeing the sisters at work, lol! Take care, Linda 🦋
Thanks for the drop-off footage…..important!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Congratulations on such big sponsors! I'm so glad you're being recognized by these companies!
Great start to your sister's bedroom makeover. My favorite is all of the upgrades and how you challenge your sister to ensure everything she keeps has a space in her home that she can access when needed. You ladies have inspired me to tackle my spare room!!
Her room is going to look beautiful! And it'll be such a relaxing space for her. I have a feeling it's going to help her truly declutter the rest of the house.
Awesome. I like the way you ladies decided to go through one box at a time and find those items at home.
Yes! The “take it there now” method really helps make immediate progress. Dana K White talks about this method and it was a game changer for me.
Along with “don’t put it down, put it away.”
Agree wholeheartedly. Definitely stops the churn.
Fantastic job to everyone that has been involved. This is the reward your sister is getting for doing the work of decluttering. So many interesting parts of how effective it was to full remove and empty a space like the closets. She had all kinds of hidden things away she got rid of. I also realized your sister can’t do it all and will need multiple passes to build up her decluttering skills. I think a table station to empty bags or boxes would actually be helpful for her. Bins set in front of trash, donate, relocate. And a journal next to her to write down projects because it is true- we all shift them to side but then our environment becomes loaded with “things to do” all around us.
I love the new wall color, the flooring, the closet doors and the rug. Happy to see Sheri again. I bet her sleep has improved immensely since the room can now breathe.
My favourite part is the flooring and folding doors. Very nice 😁 I like a bold blue myself too, but the more neutral paint tone is very calming and works well.
Good paint color, flooring beautiful! Would have been nice to bring new paint n trim to inside the closets as well for a total polished look. Yay for James! Thanks for not making us wait another week for the extra video
Will you be updating more rooms? It’s fun to watch the transformation. I love everything that you have picked out so far. I think James should have his own channel! He does great work.
I was getting ready to watch Bridgerton and your video popped up. 😂 Carla and Sherry won out! Love your channel, Carla. 🥰🤗🌴☀️
People often choose too strong or saturated colours when buying paint, they underrate the affect of the softer pallet. It´s good you went with the lightest colour and I love how the room turned out. My favorite are the doors, they are so much better and cleaner look for a sanctuary.
Hey Carla
I know that was the start to a tough conversation. There’s no point in moving around stuff. Sherry said at the beginning an Airbnb inspired her to let stuff go. Maybe Sherry needs something on the wall to remind her of how being at the AB made her feel.
Another thought I had, Sherry could list 3 hobbies and 3 home projects to do; only keep stuff that matches that list. Any other stuff let it go. And only do an emergency kit that fits in one bin. Lastly, try to live in the now. Keeping stuff for what may happen just keeps your life and home cluttered. Live for right now. As always ty for sharing your life. Hope you meet your goals. ❤
Oh Carla! This is so inspiring. What a transformation! The new floors, the closet doors, and the fresh paint were equally impactful. I’m as excited for Sherri as if this makeover was for me. Can’t wait to see the culmination! Well done! And kudos to James for his help. 🤗
The floor looks awesome great color! Really liked how you had her continue with the box and process it to the end. Seems like a big breakthrough.
It's looking so much better. Getting rid of the carpeting was the biggest improvement. New fresh paint, nice and the adding closet doors was a good choice
Yay, another episode! The closet doors are terrific, will make the space so much neater. Great job :)
I loved this video and how you were trying to solve the problem of stuff shuffling, it’s easy enough to put it off for tomorrow but to fully decide and give it a home or get rid of it is the real work. You did great, and my favorite part of the makeover was the wall color.😊
2 videos in 2 days?? What’d we do to deserve this!
Yes! Let's do it again...whatever it was LOL!!!
Beautiful transformation. I love the flooring and closet doors. Wonderful sister relationship.
The room makeover is fabulous, the colour, the rug, the doors on the closet, I love it, we all need a James to assist…lol. I can feel the tension as Sherry went through all her things one at a time, and doing the second pass and putting the objects into their own home was very helpful. I’m hoping that over time, Sherry will let go of more as ‘less becomes more’ for her. Well done to both of you ❤❤❤
My favourite part was “ second pass” and getting rid of more and making decisions right there 😉🇨🇦❤️👍🏼 the room is looking beautiful 💖
My best bit? Must be James at the end with his 'midriff' singlet/vest rolled up!🤣 But really, I think that it looks like a different room entirely! Loved the colour, loved the floor, loved the mat/rug, loved the wardrobe/closet doors, loved the bed. All in all gals, YOU NAILED IT!
Carla, this bedroom is incredibly beautiful!!! You guys chose so well on everything! Your sister must just love her bedroom now. Calming, relaxing, peaceful and just downright beautiful. James is such a fantastic friend! Excellent work everyone!💙💚💙💚👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
EXCELLENT WORK LADIES❤ LOVE THAT YOU ARE SLOWING DOWN BUT ACTUALLY MOVING FORWARD, NOT SHUFFLING CLUTTER. Oops, sorry for the caps.. I love that she is ditching all the old furniture, hopefully for lighter, less brown heavy stuff
A potential idea going forward is to carry that same flooring throughout the whole house, which would inspire faster decluttering. Plus you never know when the company will retire a flooring for new ones.
Omg I just put this same bed together (twin) for my kiddo! The room looks great and I love the realization about where the problem is with the storage bins.
Excellent job getting the perfect sponsorship and making your sister's dream bedroom come true. James is a true hero and you and your sister worked so hard for this too!
Ooh, thought we would have to wait forever for more of this series 😅
Love the floor and the color of the walls in your sisters room. I also love the bi-fold closet doors! ❤
Wow! The flooring, fresh paint, the closet doors, bed -- everything looks amazing!! I’m so glad you & Lowes could do this for your sister.
I Love the paint color! Those closet doors make a Huge Difference.
It does look peaceful. Beautiful.
You're a great Sister Carla.
What a difference! It looks amazing. Can’t wait to see the finished room 😊
What a lovely reward for all the hard work. Thank you Carla and Sherry for inspiring us to get sorted in our own lives ❤
Love the floors w/ the paint. Amazing work, James, Sherry & Carla. Kiss Sampson for us.
I am loving the new aesthetic!! So calming, peaceful and serene. Sherry will love her room now... it's a sanctuary.
Oh and I suspect if something is in a box, unless it's inventory for selling then it basically has no home. And if it has no home... well it doesn't belong in Sherry's home.
Carla, I love how patient you are with your sister.
The bedroom looks so bright and airy now 😍
Looks great! She should get faux wood blinds from Lowe’s for her windows instead of putting up curtains.
It's so heartwarming how generous and patient you are with your sister.
Wow! The flooring is a game changer! Was so pleased to see you complete the box fully and rehome the items - I was thinking, NOOOOO, stuff shuffling! But you and your sis followed through and I think she saw the benefit of not simply relocating the boxes. Great work, both of you. Look forward to the next instalment! 🙂
I love the whole transformation of Sheri’s room. But the new flooring and closet doors are my favorites.
Great idea to get the donation items gone right away. Too easy to pick through if they are still laying around. Been there done that. Sherry's progress in letting things go is wonderful to see. It seems to be easier and easier for her. The closet doors are a lovely addition. The paint color is lovely too. That may be the color I am looking for for my windowless bathroom. Thank you these videos. They are inspiring.
Love the queen bed!! My husband and I downsized to a queen after the youngest moved out. Without having 2 dogs and 5 kids, a king feels lonely. Not to mention they take up so much space and cost so much extra for everything! Amazing work ladies and James is absolutely Superman!! God bless y'all and much love.
The flooring made such a difference
Carla, please let us know how the floors wear. They look great.
That room is so much more calmer for your sister. Hopefully the calm peacefulness of the change will help her to stay declutterred
Carla
It’s good you take the long view of finding all the final homes for things instead of just putting them all in another box!
I love this! I am so happy you can help your sister and that her son in law also could help. I looks so good with new floors, doors and paint! I just wish you could also give a fresh coat of paint inside the closets and also put up skirting boards inside the closet. It would just make it more complete and look flawless. Keep up the good work! You are a great sister
4 years on I still have the paint samples on the wall. You ladies did well
Sherri deserves her new sanctuary after all the work she's put into letting things go. And you and James are wonderful for helping her out.
I cannot wait to see Sherry's room when it's all finished. It's looking great so far, very relaxing.
So glad for her, that is going to change her mind set. No more clotter.great job girls❤
My favorite things are the wider baseboards and the closet doors! Keep decluttering, I believe in the power of sisters! Thank you Lowe’s! ❤️💕❤️💕❤️💕❤️💕
Mine too! love the diff the baseboards make!!