I’m there. Being alone for the first time at 50 caused me to self reflect and heal from my childhood trauma which rewrote my history. The walls crumbled to the floor and I had a massive conscious expansion which left me a being of pure unconditional love for all. I’m free and fearless. Manifestations are occurring sooner than before. But there is nothing I want, I realize I have it all. I thought I’d always need a partner to depend on, I never thought I could do it alone. I’m the greatest gift to myself 😂 Blessings family on your journey 🔑💜
This is a beautiful story ❤ I would like to add You are a creative being. It is your nature to Desire expansion. We may give up wanting because we know we can have anything by becoming it and knowing it already exists. If we stop desiring the universe will stop expanding.
@@rachelb8863 Thank you for this reminder. I follow my desires to create as they arise which is becoming something BIG 😆 I’m grateful for what I have and for what is on it’s way 💫 Blessings family 🙏🏼
THANK YOU FOR MAKING ME UNDERSTAND I AM OKAY!!! I have been single and live alone for 12 years… I’ve NEVER been lonely…I’ve waited to be lonely…I haven’t…I LOVE living alone and work for myself at home…I workout every day at the gym, I wrote a book that was published 10/2024! I meditate several times a day…I eat what I want…read a ton…dance to music I love! I take classes and I don’t have to share! I was married 25 years…I ended it 2009…raised three now adult children…I would never have believed I could be at peace like this…I know it’s not for everyone…but I do feel super natural 🩷
Wonderful👌Thank you for sharing. Isn't this amazing, it's like we know a secret. Loneliness being a state of mind, which can not mainifest if you feel whole on the inside.
I’ve worked alone for 25 years but only lived alone for 6. I absolutely love it, yet if I talk to friends they treat me like I’m disadvantaged. They don’t believe me. All the best to you ☺️✨
I love living alone! My husband passed away 5 years ago. I feel more alive than I have felt I years! Women have been programmed to be in a relationship. That is such BS. I am sociable when I want to be but I don’t need someone else to complete me. It’s empowering!🦋
I love living alone. I wish I could find a lady who thinks the same. My dream? She has her place and I have my mine( which I do). We can go out, have fun etc. but someone is going home lol! I’ll see you next week.
I really needed to hear this. Was beginning to think something was wrong with me because I love living alone! I love people and I work with him every day, but nothing beats coming home and doing exactly what I want, how I want when I want. A couple years ago I did something that was really big for me and I went on a solo trip! I thought I was going to have anxiety andfeel uncomfortable, but it ended up being the best trip of my life so far! You all are my people!
I’ve taken vacations solo, even ate out solo, movies 🍿 solo too.. I’m ok 🙂 🧘♀️ 💕 Enjoy my own company/ peace. I also go out to eat & movies 🍿 with positive friends also.. Balance is key 😉 I enjoy living alone in solitude
Nothing is wrong with you. Over 1/2 of the population is single.. the other 1/2 are couples or married etc.. Nothing is wrong with either choice. 🤷♀️ or lifestyle…
I love my solitude! Used to mourn never having found longterm partnership. But in my 50s, I now see how I have exponentially grown and surpassed my peers who went down more traditional paths. I don’t think I would have had the space and self reflection time to become and achieve who I am today. There are benefits to both, but this video validates what I feel but could never quite put into words.
The one that walks alone falls alone. So you must have the inner strenght, creativity and tenacity to pick yourself up, dust yourself off and go on. Lived alone most of my life, now age 70 love it more than ever.
Thx for expressing that.. as the only challenging part of solo living for me seems to be suffering setbacks or extreme difficulties alone without a parter to help or be of emotional support etc.. Having to pick myself up, dust myself off solo is the hardest part… However , the rest is peace, solitude 🧘♀️ & freedom- independence etc- rest is easier & feels most positive to me honestly.. ☺️
WORD! Having gone from a long time of solitude to recently, living with someone, I can attest to this being true, for me. Entangling with another, and constantly sharing space-time with them and having their energy in my bubble, has caused what feels like a shift from coherence to incoherence. Before living together, i felt extraordinary. Now, I feel ordinary. And this is not me whining or blaming them for my head-space, and it's not to say they aren't wonderful, but that having to engage and attend to another's energy definitely causes me to change the way I engage with myself and the amount of time I have to seek my spiritual path.
I chose to be alone 17 years ago after my 20 yo marriage ended and I 'tried' finding another life partner. I felt incredibly alone and isolated in relationships. Now I am alone but not lonely. No one looks after or cares more for me that myself.
I feel the same way. Which is why I don't think marriage is for me. It's not that I'm totally closed off to it. But for 42 years, I've never found the one. I've tried dating it, but it just doesn't click or make sense with anyone.
I understand you apsolutely! After 20 years of marrige, I lived next 20 years alone! My best period ever. Now I have a boyfriend, he lives 150km far away. We meet or travell together, not to often, for me, this is my private maximum on relationship. I adore to be alone, free and independet, to think what I want, to feel what I feel, to do what and when I want it, to live alone! I am so grateful for my lifeexperience 🙏
I've worked on healing my trauma from childhood and have spent years on my own. I love myself and I'm ready at 68 to finally experience loving and being loved from a place of wholeness with someone who is also in that place
@@IAmEnoughClubI love this sentiment because at 55 and 2 turbulent relationships, I realize that no matter who I am with, I had to learn myself 🧡💫 Now I am ready and FEEL ready for love
I couldn’t agree more..♥️ I have been married over 24 years and the first few years were quite tumultuous. I suffered from depression on and off since teenage years. This video resonates with me so much, I was always seeking the love and pleasure outside of myself, always seeking that perfect relationship. After years of deep self-reflection and introspection, I finally have arrived at the point where I truly love myself. I have been meditating for years and I have followed Dr Joe for years as well, I spend a lot of time in solitude and I am blessed that my husband is very open and understands that. As I listen to this video, I feel so blessed that I do have a lot of that solitude within the relationship. I do have a question about this that came up… why do studies show that married men live longer and having a “healthy” relationship shows a better health outcome as well as life span? I know community has been part of our evolution… 🤔
This is very true. I have been living alone for 5 years now. I do not want to have any children. And I could never gamble my peace and comfort plus stress-free personal space on anything. I absolutely love this lifestyle. No negotiation, no compromise. Aboslute authority and control of my life and my space. I love it so much.... I do nit want and need outside factor to make me complete. I feel sooo blissful and at peace. This message resonates completely with me.
I married myself almost ten years ago and it’s been the BEST CHOICE EVER‼️🙌🏼😍 When you commit to YOURSELF FIRST, EVERYTHING SHIFTS‼️✨ I have stronger, deeper intimacy with a few platonically than I’ve ever had in a “relationship”! I have all the time in the world for my talents, and gifts which gives to others in the most intentional way! ❤ I’ve said many times before, you should “Marry Yourself Firat” if you want a healthier, more focused, and INTENTIONAL LIFE‼️🙌🏼
I'm so glad to hear this! I know this and people treat me like I am lonely. I'm not lonely, I love it! I don't even like myself in relationships! I wish everyone knew this so they could stop telling healthy people that they're praying we find someone! 😂 Pray for yourself!
Living alone is wonderful but nothing can beat a companionship with the right person who knows how to share care and laugh and love as much as we do ....but the company should be right ...if we can't find a suitable partner who is understanding and more feeling ...than just stay alone have fun in your company ....🎉
I've always felt I was never my best self in a relationship, I know I truly thrive on being alone. I was fortunate in some ways to see this modeled for me by my mother after my father died when i was young. Despite that tragedy, she has an amazingly full life, including many good friends, but also enjoys her peace and solitude. It has never looked deficient to me.
The AI with the synthesized voice of Dr. Joe Dispenza is unknowingly referring only to unhealthy relationships. Most people are traumatized and out of touch with themselves and resultingly have unhealthy relationships. There's absolutely no dependency or unhealthy stress in a healthy relationship, only harmony and an inexplicable, transcendent sense of bliss that, in my experience, can only be had in a healthy relationship with another person. Become truly healthy and harmonious within yourself and you will be able to have happy, health promoting, harmonious, and even utterly blissful relationships.
The truth is, most people never have the opportunity to be in a truly healthy relationship. The very act of attachment invites exploitation and conditions. Women, in particular, are programmed to accept this.
There are no perfect relationships. Even in so-called healthy relationships, there are times of dependency and stress. If you listen to couples who’ve been married for 30, 50, 60 years , etc, they’ve all said there were fights and stressful times, and sometimes they wanted to split, but what kept them together was a strong commitment to work through the difficult times and not leave even if they wanted to. They believed if they gave it enough time and effort, the good would outweigh the bad.
I've been alone for more than half my 50s yrs of life. When in relationship I've felt my energy drained, stressed, or that I've had to conform. Everyone around me trying to convince I need a mate and that I was depressed. I feel best when I'm alone n able to accomplish goals, but nobody ever understood this. This video points out all the answers as to why I enjoy alone time👏
This is not Joe Dispenza. While portions of this video are by Joe, most of it is not. Solitude is great and you do you, but question the content of this video while doing so. There is a disclaimer on this video that clearly states it was either edited or ai generated.
Anyone who's listened to Dr. Joe extensively or read his books can tell this is NOT his message. The author of this work has taken SIGNIFICANT liberties with Dr. Joe's message and has cut, pasted, spliced and probably used AI to fill in the blanks.
This is for sure altered... wtf?? I kept thinking something was off because of the sound glitches, and then saw that disclaimer. What is Joe and what is not???
I love living alone and being single. People don’t understand that though and for whatever reason they can get really triggered. I wouldn’t change anything for the world and think when you go through betrayal and backstabbing, it makes the peace and no drama feel like you’ve discovered treasure at the bottom of the ocean.
Well said…lol 😂 Bravo 👏 So true - I’ve had friends try to set me up romantically with guys- without me ever expressing interest in that 😮… They can’t fathom I’m happy solo or content not being a couple !🤷♀️ They assume I must be lonely! Not true at all …🙄 I’m at peace 🧘♀️ 😌 solo 💕
I think it does make others uncomfortable and we can be seen as a "threat" by being singular when others are busy being coupled and grouped Like you talk to your neighbor and it's like I need a tree that's fallen cut I'm not trying to steal your person. I had a friend say "I don't want to end up like you" I just immediately thought it's not possible we are so different not realizing she was talking about me being alone, lol The ole insulting you to your face "friend" God bless 'em! But they turn it on you They flip it and reverse it Like you are a problem and maybe it's done unconsciously* But I get that we get strange stuff projected on to us that isn't true that doesn't reflect who we are but who they are 💕 it just adds to our distaste for ppl like we always have to be the more mindful strong ones or something
@@ms.suzylee2932 I love what you wrote and it’s so very true. That’s exactly another reason I stay alone because what’s the point. The judgment and projection is so bad and so harsh. I don’t even bother to try anymore to make new friends or branch out of my solitude. The world just isn’t the same place that it used to be people seem angry and that makes it all that much more difficult for them when they stumble upon us. Every time they see us, we are genuinely happy and yet it just triggers their misery and danger can come from their negative emotions so best to stay away. Happy Thanksgiving. People just don’t understand the blissful world we live in.
I think we live through stages. During the child-rearing years, I needed a partner and they needed me. Once that was done, we are both better off alone and neither remarried and we don't have much contact, but when we do it is fine, just both outgrew that phase. I would never remarry, he says he wouldn't either. And talk about spiritual growth! Yes, but I also frequently have a sense of others around me in spirit, loving presences, I doubt we are ever truly alone.
I’m alone for the first time in my life at 50 after most of my life 1:50 prior centered around raising children and marriage. I have never been happier, the personal growth I’ve achieved just wasn’t possible in relationships. It is the most liberating feeling not needing anyone and finally having the time and space to be in relationship with yourself - and life. One of the most powerful periods of my life - loving every second despite still missing my children who are now adults.
This is so interesting I moved to a new dream city in my 40s and also hit perimenopause and Ive never cried so much and had internal reflection this year Ive finally had a break through and finding peace in my solo living in my new city!
what is extraordinary is that this one is the first time that someone not only tells me that there is nothing wrong with me but also that is good. Of course I don't believe anyone blindly and this includes this video for sure. Yet after a long transition and a lot of sufferance, after many years of almost complete isolation I started feeling very well in many dimensions, not only inter-relationally but also operationally, ie. my work life has become extremely productive.
Joe, we met in person in 2015 at the Agape Revolution Conference. I was a VIP Guest of Michael Beckwith. There's one mistake you make in this video. Consciousness is ALWAYS evolving. Challenges give us the opportunities to evolve very quickly, when we rise above those challenges.
@@BrinkOf50 I was replying to the statement about conscious evolution. That statement does seem like something Joe would say. And it is an incorrect statement. I know that this is not Joe's UA-cam channel.
Love this. . . This whole relationships thing and all the social conditioning and rituals most people get addicted to that gets passed off as normal behaviour, it all comes from survival mode, and a fear of being alone, and it can serve a purpose, as a reflective learning therapy, but it gets tedious, and if you work on yourself in solitude for a time you will outgrow it, and once you get into more of a thriving mode I found it lost it's appeal for me, and I just got to love hanging out by myself and working on my creative projects, what joy. I will never NEED to be in any relationships again, I still interact with people at times, and really enjoy it, but it's always from a sharing caring creative mode rather than a needy dependant place these days. . . Amazing state of grace to be in. Peaceful, self reliant and delitefully selfish in the best way. . . Freedom. . . Blessings to you all. . .
Plus I agree- unfortunately- majority of relationships or marriages are codependent in nature & fear of being alone etc Not all but most. That’s not psychologically healthy honestly Being solo in peace & emotionally healthy is best. Only if it’s 2 psychologically healthy / independent / compatible people- is it possible to couple or Marry & it be of positive - healthy benefit!!
In a more advanced state, I don’t really feel others will contaminate my space. I’ve reached so many plateaus in this area….the joy the feeling of completeness in your own ability to recognize the relationship with yourself is the ultimate self discovery. The joy clarity and balance of your own existence is Powerful incredibly creative and supercharged with energy and for me so much love and joy!!! I know I’ve said that already twice maybe but it’s very abundant! Dr. Joe is pretty amazing. I haven’t listened to him in a while and this video was no accident appearing in my newsfeed. I was supposed to see it for more clarity. Life is such an amazing journey. Best🦋
I am so grateful for this podcast. I knew I was happier in my 50’s and 60’s when I was finally able to be alone. This explains SO MUCH! I am also moving forward faster and getting healing from childhood trauma. Being able to be a more loving and peaceful human being. So happy and grateful!
You can love yourself AND experience being in a reciprocal loving relationship with a partner where the love you already feel for yourself is amplified. The love you feel from what you think is another person is only ever the love that you give and that you ARE. In a safe and reciprocal relationship you now have the original love that you are to yourself and then add the extra love that you are to your chosen partner that you are sharing all the gifts of life with.💕 Blessings to all and may you all experience love in abundance.
1000% i do this! And when I go out, which is not too often, people just are awed by my aura I've had people stop me and say your aura is like a hundred feet wide. I stay away from relationships my entire life and never need anything to fulfill me; it's the most beautiful feeling ever, not to mention completely powerful. And by the way, I'm not one that was married and just recently been alone so now at peace, no ......that's why I know everything he's saying...because I've experienced it, I just can't explain it scientifically like him. I never felt I needed anybody else I was always whole and could find it within me. It was the other broken people who looked at me like I had something wrong with me, when it was the other way around. Relationship is even more discombobulating than just living with other people, talk about entanglement, I avoid it like the plague. Love is everywhere love is within you love is anywhere you look if you want to look for it, you don't need a person for that
I was wondering if something was wrong with me. Why do I enjoy being in solitude so much these days. Well this explains it all! For once in my life I am completely ok with being alone and living alone. It turned out to be the greatest decision I ever made. I'm a lot happier, content, relaxed and stress free than I have ever been in my life. Not to mention better off financially. But for once in my life I actually enjoy the peacefulness and solitude of being alone and I wouldn't change it for anything.
I've lived alone since I was 50. I turned 75 last July and was hanging out with a group of people that I've known for over a year and a half. It was someone's birthday and when I asked him how old he was, he wanted me to guess his age. I guessed him at 34 and he was 32. I then asked him to guess my age and he guessed me at 43. A girl who was with her husband guessed me at 48 and he guessed me at 49. After 10 years of marriage when I was 18 and a 14 year relationship I decided to learn to live with myself. In the last 25 years, I have not had one argument or disagreement with a woman. I can go to the fanciest restaurant I like and I always get half off on the check because I don't take a date. I can have any kind of sex I can imagine whenever I want. Albeit with myself. I'm always at peace with myself and I don't have one enemy in my social circle. My life partner is my Higher Self and living in the present keeps me happy and healthy. I love it. 😜😜😎😎
You sound like the most selfish person in the world. And there is no way a 75 year old can look 46 unless you Botox. 65 yes. Believe me they were being polite. That shows that they are good people. He is talking about people who enjoy being alone without putting others down or being arrogant.
Live solo on a mountain in spain ,,i usually dont see other humans unless i go to town for supplies ,, I have 2horses and a doggo .+ 3cats ,,cos of rodent control .( without which i get snakes ) Just found this podcast and am very grateful as was starting to think i am selfish and strange for being happy alone ,,so thankyou ❤❤some of your suggestions i already do ,,but awareness of their effect will definately enhance the effect ..Very grateful Dr Dispenza for your wise words ,,and great advise as to how to optimise my situation .❤🌀🌄
I was alone for 5 years until I had my big awakening and realized I had never been alone because the angels and my ancestors are with me all the time and the best thing of all- I am with self, such an extrordinary and amazing beautiful,fun and energetic beautiful self I am. I do not think I would have discovered self if I had been in a relation ship. 🥰😻❤️🔥🤗❣️❣️❣️🌞🌞🌞✨️
This is absolutely pure heaven speaking!! I adore / love and cherished my solitude greatly. My best years of my life where I decided to remain single. For four years I experienced pure serenity and tranquility. I can never emphasize enough the power of solitude.
Wow. This just gave me massive validation for my solitary lifestyle. I really love being able to get a clear signal and do what I want. This just solidified my desire to be on my own.
On this Thanksgiving Day THANK YOU! I feel good. I am grateful for my blessings and I try to remember them all. I am me and when people try to change me to be more like them, I think, " I am Patty. I am not you. I hope you like you, but I like me and I don't want to be you. " 💐❤🕊✌
Of course! This post truly applies to only those on a fast track spiritual life track!! As an empath, I cant imagine the restrictive life of having to live with someone else. I have lived alone since 1988 and am thriving with my Higher Self...being a devotee and Reiki Master requires a solo lifestyle to maximize my Soul connection. ❤ Also, for many, living solo is a privilege in today's limiting, restrictive society.
This message from Dr. Joe has done More to bolster my self confidence than anything I've found. My husband died in 2009 & I've been enjoying getting to know myself, heal from grief, and learn to enjoy life as a single woman. Seems to be a Huge problem for others who constantly tell me they wish I could find someone. I'm lovin it; but until listening to this, I've felt that I wasn't living according to Society's approval. He just identified all the things I've been accomplishing for myself that may not be tangible; but expanding my conscious awareness more than I ever dreamed. Thank you for posting this gift. I AM Grateful!
At 61, I have been alone my entire life; the closest I've ever been to having a romantic relationship was back in 1988. I used to feel that something was wrong with me, and it didn't help that other people, including some family members, thought (and probably still think) that there must be something wrong with me. Throughout most of human history, being alone made you the subject of derision. It's only been in the past few years that I've become filled with gratitude that none of the relationships I had wished for and sought out ever worked out. I am never bored, I am never lonely, and I have no regrets. There is no comparison to the unconditional love that you can discover within your own self.
I love and crave being alone. I have since childhood when I was raised in an unhappy home. Now I am married and have a teenage son. We have a happy home life, but I am always seeking alone time. Honestly, this video made me kind of sad because my circumstances don't allow all the alone time I crave. Thankfully, my husband has always understood this need in me. It is about learning to balance between my relationships and alone time.
This explain a lot. As a younger woman I was in and out of relationships but never happy or contented. I was even married for 17 years but struggled because I wanted to do things creatively but had to squash it because ie clashed with my husband’s wishes. Finally after we divorced I felt a weight off my shoulders. Found my own apartment traveled when and where I wanted. I enjoy being alone to move and go about without having clock my time with my boyfriend or husband. I must go to work but that is for survival but my off time I can do as I please, paint draw give myself a spa day. I thought I had to be in a relationship. It’s nice to know I’m not some anti social misfit. TY
I have been in several relationships in my 69 years on this planet, but I have to say I am so much happier after living by myself for over 20 years. I really like my own company, and I am much more creative. I actually find being around a lot of people very distracting and exhausting.
Single and happy. Financially free, completely independent, content, at peace with myself and life. Impossible to be triggered or emotionally manipulated. I don't need anyone's approval or permission for anything.
Great video, concepts, information. Many people speak of the pain & suffering of living alone. The pain is caused by fighting the adjustment to living alone, being single. When a person is newly married, they are told they will adjust to it. When a person welcomes a new baby, people will say that it takes time to adjust. The same thing is said to someone who moves to a new place to live or starts a new job. No one ever tells someone that after a romantic relationship ends that they need to give it time to adjust to living alone, being single, etc. To just give it time. The truth is that it's important to let yourself adjust to being single, living alone. The pai & anxiety comes from fighting the adjustment.
Thank you for this video came perfectly on time for me here ams now.🙏🏻 I am 46 going through the divorce and I noticed how my brain is so linked to my husbands that I am having the worst time to make decisions on my own . Grrr…. After watching this video I feel better! The solitude is the answer to find my true self and make my own decisions. It’s super depressing and painful to separate from another being , but I know it’s possible and even healthy for me . Thank you again for this video today! Best wishes to all💓
We get told that isolation is bad for us and reduces life expectancy. I've lived alone and been single for over 12 years now through choice. It does give me a much clearer sense of my spiritual path when I'm alone, I feel more in touch with my self and am able to meet my own needs in terms of self care, emotional regulation etc. I am also an empath with ADHD so really need space and time alone
My last relationship (he passed) was remarkably healthy and balanced. We had companionship and support with minimal expectations. Of course, in any relationship, a healthy, non self serving person will consider the other person's feelings. But when both people are free to live and express themselves without expectations, it can be a lovely eco system where you receive the benefits without codependency or the stifling of one's self development. That said, I recognize how rare that type of relationship is and have yet to find anyone who's energy doesn't deplete or distort mine in the way Dr. Joe is describing here. I am learning more and more to fully appreciate being in my own energy and being the source of my peace.
I just love the freedom I have to be and do what I like to do without having to to worry about pleasing or displeasing a partner as I tend to often put them first. I felt more alone in a relationship than being by myself where I’m the best friend and companion I can get… of course I have a healthy social life but my home is my sanctuary 🥰💝
Thanks for this, I have really struggled with this and therapist’s pushing me towards relationships when I have absolutely no drive or interest in it. It makes me feel broken, isolated and trapped because I cannot pursue it when there is no drive for it. It has allowed me to develop great introspection and spiritual growth but boy is it hard watching everyone have families and feeling left behind
I've lived alone and been single for 20 years now and i've never been happier or healthier - I love my family and friends and work part time as a therapist and so my life feels balanced and peaceful more than it ever did when in long term relationship including a past marriage.
One's you find yourself...your life can never be the same !!! ...I find peace joy small things all by myself ..help me to focus and I truly even can't relate to comune people...only here whomever into quantum reality are my family ...even we never meet..but we understand each other ! .. Blessings from Texas..waxahachie. ❤
Solitude - but only if you are not feeling lonely and suffer from that. It is a superpower to self regulate and create states and emotions. It's not about being alone and watching movies, it's about sitting with yourself.
Thank-you Dr. Joe this is the best piece of information I have heard on the topic on living alone . I've chosen that for myself . Peace to my brain , healthy energy patterns with no other person interference. I have always been happy being in relationship with myself. I love the peace I feel everyday. I choose myself first....
This so accurately accords with my own lived experience. I have always known that my own evolution as a person, becoming who i meant to be, more and more as i go through life, wasn’t just important to me, it was priority one. When Ive been in relationships that have diverted my energy toward realizing someone else’s dream, I’ve fought it like my life depends on it. Because it did. This all makes sense through this lens.
Yes I was alone for 20 yrs met joes online n did his meditations yes thk u Joe I agree n people treat single people different for now at 60 i met my man calked him in me my self n me yes i torally agree i grew so much. Never really felt lonely at all will say on this side to my man is great hss no patience yes agree.
Nobody ever could give that peace when being alone. Peace is the only reason getting a relationship though. So as he says, where's Your Attention going
Being alone is the highest form of peace and freedom
Amen❤
The Way to one's higher self. Yes❤
@@janphilipphermannlohmar indeed
yes but when you find yourself elderly. you will find no support which is a human nessity.
@@georgefleet6350 You will die alone either way. No one comes and says oh let me die for you
I’m there. Being alone for the first time at 50 caused me to self reflect and heal from my childhood trauma which rewrote my history. The walls crumbled to the floor and I had a massive conscious expansion which left me a being of pure unconditional love for all. I’m free and fearless. Manifestations are occurring sooner than before. But there is nothing I want, I realize I have it all. I thought I’d always need a partner to depend on, I never thought I could do it alone. I’m the greatest gift to myself 😂 Blessings family on your journey 🔑💜
This is a beautiful story ❤
I would like to add
You are a creative being. It is your nature to Desire expansion. We may give up wanting because we know we can have anything by becoming it and knowing it already exists. If we stop desiring the universe will stop expanding.
Love this and had a similar experience. It is all about being love!💕
Relate!
Beautiful and something I needed to hear right now. Thank you.
@@rachelb8863 Thank you for this reminder. I follow my desires to create as they arise which is becoming something BIG 😆 I’m grateful for what I have and for what is on it’s way 💫 Blessings family 🙏🏼
Living alone is bliss i love my solitude and silence
Yes
I love my solitude too.❤
You said it! Beyond blessed yes❤
Bliss-FULL and grateful to the maximum extent as well.
Goodnight
THANK YOU FOR MAKING ME UNDERSTAND I AM OKAY!!! I have been single and live alone for 12 years… I’ve NEVER been lonely…I’ve waited to be lonely…I haven’t…I LOVE living alone and work for myself at home…I workout every day at the gym, I wrote a book that was published 10/2024!
I meditate several times a day…I eat what I want…read a ton…dance to music I love! I take classes and I don’t have to share! I was married 25 years…I ended it 2009…raised three now adult children…I would never have believed I could be at peace like this…I know it’s not for everyone…but I do feel super natural 🩷
Wonderful👌Thank you for sharing. Isn't this amazing, it's like we know a secret. Loneliness being a state of mind, which can not mainifest if you feel whole on the inside.
I feel that!
Beautiful ❤
I’ve worked alone for 25 years but only lived alone for 6. I absolutely love it, yet if I talk to friends they treat me like I’m disadvantaged. They don’t believe me. All the best to you ☺️✨
Could you share the book title, maybe?;)
I love living alone! My husband passed away 5 years ago. I feel more alive than I have felt I years! Women have been programmed to be in a relationship. That is such BS. I am sociable when I want to be but I don’t need someone else to complete me. It’s empowering!🦋
Well said 👏 😅
I love living alone. I wish I could find a lady who thinks the same. My dream? She has her place and I have my mine( which I do). We can go out, have fun etc. but someone is going home lol! I’ll see you next week.
You’re not alone with this dream. 😊
After a relationship of 26 years, I now live alone for 14 years. And I’ve never felt happier, I love my life to the fullest ❤
If you want to know more about my process or want information, help, support…. Feel free to contact me , I am always willing to help 🙏🏽💙🌟
I like my own company!!
That is a beautiful thing.
Living alone is the utter peace, simply wonderful.
I really needed to hear this. Was beginning to think something was wrong with me because I love living alone! I love people and I work with him every day, but nothing beats coming home and doing exactly what I want, how I want when I want.
A couple years ago I did something that was really big for me and I went on a solo trip! I thought I was going to have anxiety andfeel uncomfortable, but it ended up being the best trip of my life so far!
You all are my people!
I’ve taken vacations solo, even ate out solo, movies 🍿 solo too..
I’m ok 🙂 🧘♀️ 💕
Enjoy my own company/ peace.
I also go out to eat & movies 🍿 with positive friends also..
Balance is key 😉
I enjoy living alone in solitude
Nothing is wrong with you.
Over 1/2 of the population is single.. the other 1/2 are couples or married etc..
Nothing is wrong with either choice. 🤷♀️ or lifestyle…
Amazed to see so many people appreciate living alone 🎉❤
Indeed
@@nandinialagar2810 The longer I go alone, the less I can imagine sharing space. I just need to BE 🦋
It's a revoltion!
In reality we never are alone,we are with self💯❤️🔥🙏🌞
Yes ma’am and I love it
I love my solitude! Used to mourn never having found longterm partnership. But in my 50s, I now see how I have exponentially grown and surpassed my peers who went down more traditional paths. I don’t think I would have had the space and self reflection time to become and achieve who I am today. There are benefits to both, but this video validates what I feel but could never quite put into words.
Beautiful thank you for sharing❤
57 & same!💚
62 and yes…. 💚🙌🏽🕊️
54 & solo at peace 🧘♀️ 💕 🏝️
Cool Lee 😊
The one that walks alone falls alone. So you must have the inner strenght, creativity and tenacity to pick yourself up, dust yourself off and go on. Lived alone most of my life, now age 70 love it more than ever.
Thx for expressing that.. as the only challenging part of solo living for me seems to be suffering setbacks or extreme difficulties alone without a parter to help or be of emotional support etc..
Having to pick myself up, dust myself off solo is the hardest part…
However , the rest is peace, solitude 🧘♀️ & freedom- independence etc- rest is easier & feels most positive to me honestly.. ☺️
The one who falls alone falls alone. The one who falls with someone else beside him can be kicked when already down.😅
@@janiemiller825you are never alone...your Higher Self is constantly with you supporting you in every way. Truth!
WORD! Having gone from a long time of solitude to recently, living with someone, I can attest to this being true, for me. Entangling with another, and constantly sharing space-time with them and having their energy in my bubble, has caused what feels like a shift from coherence to incoherence. Before living together, i felt extraordinary. Now, I feel ordinary. And this is not me whining or blaming them for my head-space, and it's not to say they aren't wonderful, but that having to engage and attend to another's energy definitely causes me to change the way I engage with myself and the amount of time I have to seek my spiritual path.
I chose to be alone 17 years ago after my 20 yo marriage ended and I 'tried' finding another life partner. I felt incredibly alone and isolated in relationships. Now I am alone but not lonely. No one looks after or cares more for me that myself.
I feel the same way. Which is why I don't think marriage is for me. It's not that I'm totally closed off to it. But for 42 years, I've never found the one. I've tried dating it, but it just doesn't click or make sense with anyone.
I understand you apsolutely! After 20 years of marrige, I lived next 20 years alone! My best period ever.
Now I have a boyfriend, he lives 150km far away. We meet or travell together, not to often, for me, this is my private maximum on relationship. I adore to be alone, free and independet, to think what I want, to feel what I feel, to do what and when I want it, to live alone! I am so grateful for my lifeexperience 🙏
I've always aspired to Frida Kahlos lifestyle of having two separate, but attached, homes. No taker yet!
I hear you! Same situation
No other person can fulfill your need for happiness, but you. ❤🙏
Every day, I rejoice in solitude. I'm not really alone, though. It's sweet abiding with my God.
Plus I have positive friends to go to movies 🍿 & out to eat occasionally & even celebrate holidays with ☺️
🦃 🎄 🐣 🎃 ❤️
Indeed . Make your own choices, When you so desire.
Yes yes yes!
Self love is wonderful! But don’t be afraid of relationships. Loving and being loved is pretty damn amazing!
I've worked on healing my trauma from childhood and have spent years on my own. I love myself and I'm ready at 68 to finally experience loving and being loved from a place of wholeness with someone who is also in that place
@@IAmEnoughClubI love this sentiment because at 55 and 2 turbulent relationships, I realize that no matter who I am with, I had to learn myself 🧡💫 Now I am ready and FEEL ready for love
I couldn’t agree more..♥️
I have been married over 24 years and the first few years were quite tumultuous. I suffered from depression on and off since teenage years. This video resonates with me so much, I was always seeking the love and pleasure outside of myself, always seeking that perfect relationship. After years of deep self-reflection and introspection, I finally have arrived at the point where I truly love myself. I have been meditating for years and I have followed Dr Joe for years as well, I spend a lot of time in solitude and I am blessed that my husband is very open and understands that. As I listen to this video, I feel so blessed that I do have a lot of that solitude within the relationship.
I do have a question about this that came up… why do studies show that married men live longer and having a “healthy” relationship shows a better health outcome as well as life span? I know community has been part of our evolution… 🤔
@@marly1869 Because we end up taking care of them in their old age.
@@heathermorris1206 not from the couples I’ve seen, as a matter of fact, most of them the woman outlived the man.
This is very true. I have been living alone for 5 years now. I do not want to have any children. And I could never gamble my peace and comfort plus stress-free personal space on anything. I absolutely love this lifestyle. No negotiation, no compromise. Aboslute authority and control of my life and my space. I love it so much.... I do nit want and need outside factor to make me complete. I feel sooo blissful and at peace. This message resonates completely with me.
You are on target. Well said. Beautiful.
I've been living alone for over 15 years. The peace is indescribable. Life changes. ❤
I married myself almost ten years ago and it’s been the BEST CHOICE EVER‼️🙌🏼😍 When you commit to YOURSELF FIRST, EVERYTHING SHIFTS‼️✨ I have stronger, deeper intimacy with a few platonically than I’ve ever had in a “relationship”! I have all the time in the world for my talents, and gifts which gives to others in the most intentional way! ❤ I’ve said many times before, you should “Marry Yourself Firat” if you want a healthier, more focused, and INTENTIONAL LIFE‼️🙌🏼
Beautiful truth!
♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
Best Wishes and Happy Thanksgiving 🍁 🥧 🍂
from San Francisco. ♥️ 🌉 💫
Been single and live alone till my 45 this year...finally found that's science and life choice and not be judged as most people would do. Thanks🎉
I'm so glad to hear this!
I know this and people treat me like I am lonely. I'm not lonely, I love it!
I don't even like myself in relationships!
I wish everyone knew this so they could stop telling healthy people that they're praying we find someone! 😂
Pray for yourself!
Fantastic. But don’t forget the joy and care of relationships. Just don’t let them dominate you.
This is the most important video I have seen and explains why "loners' are addicted to being alone as a priority
Living alone is wonderful but nothing can beat a companionship with the right person who knows how to share care and laugh and love as much as we do ....but the company should be right ...if we can't find a suitable partner who is understanding and more feeling ...than just stay alone have fun in your company ....🎉
Agree 100%
Well said 👏
I agree. Still waiting for my soul mate
I've always felt I was never my best self in a relationship, I know I truly thrive on being alone. I was fortunate in some ways to see this modeled for me by my mother after my father died when i was young. Despite that tragedy, she has an amazingly full life, including many good friends, but also enjoys her peace and solitude. It has never looked deficient to me.
The AI with the synthesized voice of Dr. Joe Dispenza is unknowingly referring only to unhealthy relationships. Most people are traumatized and out of touch with themselves and resultingly have unhealthy relationships. There's absolutely no dependency or unhealthy stress in a healthy relationship, only harmony and an inexplicable, transcendent sense of bliss that, in my experience, can only be had in a healthy relationship with another person. Become truly healthy and harmonious within yourself and you will be able to have happy, health promoting, harmonious, and even utterly blissful relationships.
You can tell it's AI
Thank you for mentioning the AI voice!! oh my God it’s so grading with the fake, repetitive vocal fry. Hire an Actor!!
The truth is, most people never have the opportunity to be in a truly healthy relationship. The very act of attachment invites exploitation and conditions. Women, in particular, are programmed to accept this.
There are no perfect relationships. Even in so-called healthy relationships, there are times of dependency and stress. If you listen to couples who’ve been married for 30, 50, 60 years , etc, they’ve all said there were fights and stressful times, and sometimes they wanted to split, but what kept them together was a strong commitment to work through the difficult times and not leave even if they wanted to. They believed if they gave it enough time and effort, the good would outweigh the bad.
Absolutely UNnecessary...you are not there yet.
I've been alone for more than half my 50s yrs of life. When in relationship I've felt my energy drained, stressed, or that I've had to conform. Everyone around me trying to convince I need a mate and that I was depressed. I feel best when I'm alone n able to accomplish goals, but nobody ever understood this. This video points out all the answers as to why I enjoy alone time👏
This is not Joe Dispenza. While portions of this video are by Joe, most of it is not. Solitude is great and you do you, but question the content of this video while doing so. There is a disclaimer on this video that clearly states it was either edited or ai generated.
Anyone who's listened to Dr. Joe extensively or read his books can tell this is NOT his message. The author of this work has taken SIGNIFICANT liberties with Dr. Joe's message and has cut, pasted, spliced and probably used AI to fill in the blanks.
Voice is Joes! Deal with being alone sometimes!
@@bichu232 already did. Maybe you can do the same.
What do you think the motive might be to create an artificial Joe Dispenza video?
This is for sure altered... wtf?? I kept thinking something was off because of the sound glitches, and then saw that disclaimer. What is Joe and what is not???
I love living alone and being single. People don’t understand that though and for whatever reason they can get really triggered. I wouldn’t change anything for the world and think when you go through betrayal and backstabbing, it makes the peace and no drama feel like you’ve discovered treasure at the bottom of the ocean.
Well said…lol 😂
Bravo 👏
So true - I’ve had friends try to set me up romantically with guys- without me ever expressing interest in that 😮…
They can’t fathom I’m happy solo or content not being a couple !🤷♀️
They assume I must be lonely!
Not true at all …🙄
I’m at peace 🧘♀️ 😌 solo 💕
I think it does make others uncomfortable and we can be seen as a "threat" by being singular when others are busy being coupled and grouped
Like you talk to your neighbor and it's like I need a tree that's fallen cut I'm not trying to steal your person.
I had a friend say "I don't want to end up like you"
I just immediately thought it's not possible we are so different
not realizing she was talking about me being alone, lol
The ole insulting you to your face "friend" God bless 'em!
But they turn it on you
They flip it and reverse it
Like you are a problem and maybe it's done unconsciously*
But I get that we get strange stuff projected on to us that isn't true that doesn't reflect who we are but who they are 💕
it just adds to our distaste for ppl like we always have to be the more mindful strong ones or something
Well said. It's true freedom.
@@ms.suzylee2932 I love what you wrote and it’s so very true. That’s exactly another reason I stay alone because what’s the point. The judgment and projection is so bad and so harsh. I don’t even bother to try anymore to make new friends or branch out of my solitude. The world just isn’t the same place that it used to be people seem angry and that makes it all that much more difficult for them when they stumble upon us. Every time they see us, we are genuinely happy and yet it just triggers their misery and danger can come from their negative emotions so best to stay away. Happy Thanksgiving. People just don’t understand the blissful world we live in.
Well said! ♥️ 😘 🌹
Living alone 20 years. Peace of mind.
Wow! I love the expression: 'Quantum Entanglement that blocks manifestation...' BRILLIANT🥰
Exactly why i live alone!
I think we live through stages. During the child-rearing years, I needed a partner and they needed me. Once that was done, we are both better off alone and neither remarried and we don't have much contact, but when we do it is fine, just both outgrew that phase. I would never remarry, he says he wouldn't either. And talk about spiritual growth! Yes, but I also frequently have a sense of others around me in spirit, loving presences, I doubt we are ever truly alone.
I agree we live in stages.
I’m alone for the first time in my life at 50 after most of my life 1:50 prior centered around raising children and marriage. I have never been happier, the personal growth I’ve achieved just wasn’t possible in relationships. It is the most liberating feeling not needing anyone and finally having the time and space to be in relationship with yourself - and life. One of the most powerful periods of my life - loving every second despite still missing my children who are now adults.
This is so interesting I moved to a new dream city in my 40s and also hit perimenopause and Ive never cried so much and had internal reflection this year Ive finally had a break through and finding peace in my solo living in my new city!
yaaay!
what is extraordinary is that this one is the first time that someone not only tells me that there is nothing wrong with me but also that is good. Of course I don't believe anyone blindly and this includes this video for sure. Yet after a long transition and a lot of sufferance, after many years of almost complete isolation I started feeling very well in many dimensions, not only inter-relationally but also operationally, ie. my work life has become extremely productive.
So true, I finally had the privilege of being alone at 44 and it changed everything!
I’m 48 and I’m starting to think it will NEVER happen to me. I was destined to always be tied down with a family member who needs my help.
@ its a choice, you are taking on helping so the universes giving you things to help with. Set boundaries, find your peace.
Joe, we met in person in 2015 at the Agape Revolution Conference. I was a VIP Guest of Michael Beckwith. There's one mistake you make in this video. Consciousness is ALWAYS evolving. Challenges give us the opportunities to evolve very quickly, when we rise above those challenges.
This isn't Joe. It's an AI. Do you really think Joe can't pronounce "dopamine?"
@@BrinkOf50 I was replying to the statement about conscious evolution. That statement does seem like something Joe would say. And it is an incorrect statement. I know that this is not Joe's UA-cam channel.
Love this. . . This whole relationships thing and all the social conditioning and rituals most people get addicted to that gets passed off as normal behaviour, it all comes from survival mode, and a fear of being alone, and it can serve a purpose, as a reflective learning therapy, but it gets tedious, and if you work on yourself in solitude for a time you will outgrow it, and once you get into more of a thriving mode I found it lost it's appeal for me, and I just got to love hanging out by myself and working on my creative projects, what joy. I will never NEED to be in any relationships again, I still interact with people at times, and really enjoy it, but it's always from a sharing caring creative mode rather than a needy dependant place these days. . . Amazing state of grace to be in. Peaceful, self reliant and delitefully selfish in the best way. . . Freedom. . . Blessings to you all. . .
Not selfish really.. 🤷♀️
It’s more self care … 🧘♀️
Plus I agree- unfortunately- majority of relationships or marriages are codependent in nature & fear of being alone etc
Not all but most.
That’s not psychologically healthy honestly
Being solo in peace & emotionally healthy is best.
Only if it’s 2 psychologically healthy / independent / compatible people- is it possible to couple or Marry & it be of positive - healthy benefit!!
In a more advanced state, I don’t really feel others will contaminate my space. I’ve reached so many plateaus in this area….the joy the feeling of completeness in your own ability to recognize the relationship with yourself is the ultimate self discovery. The joy clarity and balance of your own existence is Powerful incredibly creative and supercharged with energy and for me so much love and joy!!! I know I’ve said that already twice maybe but it’s very abundant!
Dr. Joe is pretty amazing. I haven’t listened to him in a while and this video was no accident appearing in my newsfeed. I was supposed to see it for more clarity. Life is such an amazing journey. Best🦋
I am so grateful for this podcast. I knew I was happier in my 50’s and 60’s when I was finally able to be alone. This explains SO MUCH! I am also moving forward faster and getting healing from childhood trauma. Being able to be a more loving and peaceful human being. So happy and grateful!
You can love yourself AND experience being in a reciprocal loving relationship with a partner where the love you already feel for yourself is amplified. The love you feel from what you think is another person is only ever the love that you give and that you ARE. In a safe and reciprocal relationship you now have the original love that you are to yourself and then add the extra love that you are to your chosen partner that you are sharing all the gifts of life with.💕 Blessings to all and may you all experience love in abundance.
If you listen to this video, you may get the message.
One of my favorite segments of him so far, every word resonated 🙌🏼🔥💯
I love my own company but believe I can build this peace with someone who is meant for me!
Times and people keep evolving 🫶
1000% i do this! And when I go out, which is not too often, people just are awed by my aura I've had people stop me and say your aura is like a hundred feet wide. I stay away from relationships my entire life and never need anything to fulfill me; it's the most beautiful feeling ever, not to mention completely powerful. And by the way, I'm not one that was married and just recently been alone so now at peace, no ......that's why I know everything he's saying...because I've experienced it, I just can't explain it scientifically like him. I never felt I needed anybody else I was always whole and could find it within me. It was the other broken people who looked at me like I had something wrong with me, when it was the other way around. Relationship is even more discombobulating than just living with other people, talk about entanglement, I avoid it like the plague. Love is everywhere love is within you love is anywhere you look if you want to look for it, you don't need a person for that
Same
I could never go back to having to make sure some body's day is going well
Being alone is simply being all ONE with your SELF!!
I believe there needs to be a balance of solitude and relationships.
Of course! Joe is referring to the constant required interaction when having to live with another.
I cannot wait to live alone again.im counting down the days.
I was wondering if something was wrong with me. Why do I enjoy being in solitude so much these days. Well this explains it all! For once in my life I am completely ok with being alone and living alone. It turned out to be the greatest decision I ever made. I'm a lot happier, content, relaxed and stress free than I have ever been in my life. Not to mention better off financially. But for once in my life I actually enjoy the peacefulness and solitude of being alone and I wouldn't change it for anything.
I've lived alone since I was 50. I turned 75 last July and was hanging out with a group of people that I've known for over a year and a half. It was someone's birthday and when I asked him how old he was, he wanted me to guess his age. I guessed him at 34 and he was 32. I then asked him to guess my age and he guessed me at 43. A girl who was with her husband guessed me at 48 and he guessed me at 49. After 10 years of marriage when I was 18 and a 14 year relationship I decided to learn to live with myself. In the last 25 years, I have not had one argument or disagreement with a woman. I can go to the fanciest restaurant I like and I always get half off on the check because I don't take a date. I can have any kind of sex I can imagine whenever I want. Albeit with myself. I'm always at peace with myself and I don't have one enemy in my social circle. My life partner is my Higher Self and living in the present keeps me happy and healthy. I love it. 😜😜😎😎
You sound like the most selfish person in the world. And there is no way a 75 year old can look 46 unless you Botox. 65 yes. Believe me they were being polite. That shows that they are good people. He is talking about people who enjoy being alone without putting others down or being arrogant.
This just made me more confident in my path. ❤ blessings ❤
We do not need anyone to feel complete we already are compleet. I love to be alone cannot be happyer ..
Send this excellent video to Dr. Jordan Peterson.
Self-described as "altered or synthetic content" and worth a listen, IMO. The comments lend the warmth of the human touch.❤
Live solo on a mountain in spain ,,i usually dont see other humans unless i go to town for supplies ,,
I have 2horses and a doggo .+ 3cats ,,cos of rodent control .( without which i get snakes )
Just found this podcast and am very grateful as was starting to think i am selfish and strange for being happy alone ,,so thankyou ❤❤some of your suggestions i already do ,,but awareness of their effect will definately enhance the effect ..Very grateful Dr Dispenza for your wise words ,,and great advise as to how to optimise my situation .❤🌀🌄
I was alone for 5 years until I had my big awakening and realized I had never been alone because the angels and my ancestors are with me all the time and the best thing of all- I am with self, such an extrordinary and amazing beautiful,fun and energetic beautiful self I am.
I do not think I would have discovered self if I had been in a relation ship.
🥰😻❤️🔥🤗❣️❣️❣️🌞🌞🌞✨️
It doesn't beat any relationship. It is incalculably better to live with the love of your life. Going on 20 years.
Do you mean by the love of your life is yourself?
Same@@IAMTatianaIAM
This is absolutely pure heaven speaking!! I adore / love and cherished my solitude greatly.
My best years of my life where I decided to remain single. For four years I experienced pure serenity and tranquility.
I can never emphasize enough the power of solitude.
Wow. This just gave me massive validation for my solitary lifestyle. I really love being able to get a clear signal and do what I want. This just solidified my desire to be on my own.
I feel happy and calm when I’m alone. I feel anxious and vulnerable when I date. That says everything.
I so needed this and realized my growth was so much more because of this. Thank you! ❤
i’m great alone.. that is why i’m more focused and calm being alone.. ❤😂
On this Thanksgiving Day THANK YOU! I feel good. I am grateful for my blessings and I try to remember them all. I am me and when people try to change me to be more like them, I think, " I am Patty. I am not you. I hope you like you, but I like me and I don't want to be you. " 💐❤🕊✌
Of course! This post truly applies to only those on a fast track spiritual life track!! As an empath, I cant imagine the restrictive life of having to live with someone else. I have lived alone since 1988 and am thriving with my Higher Self...being a devotee and Reiki Master requires a solo lifestyle to maximize my Soul connection. ❤
Also, for many, living solo is a privilege in today's limiting, restrictive society.
This message from Dr. Joe has done More to bolster my self confidence than anything I've found. My husband died in 2009 & I've been enjoying getting to know myself, heal from grief, and learn to enjoy life as a single woman. Seems to be a Huge problem for others who constantly tell me they wish I could find someone. I'm lovin it; but until listening to this, I've felt that I wasn't living according to Society's approval. He just identified all the things I've been accomplishing for myself that may not be tangible; but expanding my conscious awareness more than I ever dreamed. Thank you for posting this gift. I AM Grateful!
At 61, I have been alone my entire life; the closest I've ever been to having a romantic relationship was back in 1988. I used to feel that something was wrong with me, and it didn't help that other people, including some family members, thought (and probably still think) that there must be something wrong with me. Throughout most of human history, being alone made you the subject of derision.
It's only been in the past few years that I've become filled with gratitude that none of the relationships I had wished for and sought out ever worked out. I am never bored, I am never lonely, and I have no regrets. There is no comparison to the unconditional love that you can discover within your own self.
I love and crave being alone. I have since childhood when I was raised in an unhappy home. Now I am married and have a teenage son. We have a happy home life, but I am always seeking alone time. Honestly, this video made me kind of sad because my circumstances don't allow all the alone time I crave. Thankfully, my husband has always understood this need in me. It is about learning to balance between my relationships and alone time.
I’m kind of opposite of you…wish I had a partner but still enjoy alone time
Been alone 20 years now and find what you are saying to be true! Thank you for this truth ❣️
I’m the happiest I’ve ever been being alone. I don’t miss being married or in a relationship at all.
🌠 This is brilliant!
No wonder I'm doing so well. Thanks for explaining the gift of being single!
❤😊
This explain a lot. As a younger woman I was in and out of relationships but never happy or contented. I was even married for 17 years but struggled because I wanted to do things creatively but had to squash it because ie clashed with my husband’s wishes. Finally after we divorced I felt a weight off my shoulders. Found my own apartment traveled when and where I wanted. I enjoy being alone to move and go about without having clock my time with my boyfriend or husband. I must go to work but that is for survival but my off time I can do as I please, paint draw give myself a spa day. I thought I had to be in a relationship. It’s nice to know I’m not some anti social misfit. TY
I have been in several relationships in my 69 years on this planet, but I have to say I am so much happier after living by myself for over 20 years. I really like my own company, and I am much more creative. I actually find being around a lot of people very distracting and exhausting.
Single and happy. Financially free, completely independent, content, at peace with myself and life. Impossible to be triggered or emotionally manipulated. I don't need anyone's approval or permission for anything.
Great video, concepts, information. Many people speak of the pain & suffering of living alone.
The pain is caused by fighting the adjustment to living alone, being single.
When a person is newly married, they are told they will adjust to it.
When a person welcomes a new baby, people will say that it takes time to adjust.
The same thing is said to someone who moves to a new place to live or starts a new job.
No one ever tells someone that after a romantic relationship ends that they need to give it time to adjust to living alone, being single, etc. To just give it time.
The truth is that it's important to let yourself adjust to being single, living alone. The pai & anxiety comes from fighting the adjustment.
Very well said ..😅👏 Bravo 🙌
So true too 🤷♀️
I’m Not alone. I love this peace!!! Rescue dogs and ❤❤❤
Thank you for this video came perfectly on time for me here ams now.🙏🏻 I am 46 going through the divorce and I noticed how my brain is so linked to my husbands that I am having the worst time to make decisions on my own . Grrr…. After watching this video I feel better! The solitude is the answer to find my true self and make my own decisions. It’s super depressing and painful to separate from another being , but I know it’s possible and even healthy for me . Thank you again for this video today!
Best wishes to all💓
I have been by myself for while and feel good ! My emotions are regulated and peace ✌️
We get told that isolation is bad for us and reduces life expectancy. I've lived alone and been single for over 12 years now through choice. It does give me a much clearer sense of my spiritual path when I'm alone, I feel more in touch with my self and am able to meet my own needs in terms of self care, emotional regulation etc. I am also an empath with ADHD so really need space and time alone
My last relationship (he passed) was remarkably healthy and balanced. We had companionship and support with minimal expectations. Of course, in any relationship, a healthy, non self serving person will consider the other person's feelings. But when both people are free to live and express themselves without expectations, it can be a lovely eco system where you receive the benefits without codependency or the stifling of one's self development.
That said, I recognize how rare that type of relationship is and have yet to find anyone who's energy doesn't deplete or distort mine in the way Dr. Joe is describing here.
I am learning more and more to fully appreciate being in my own energy and being the source of my peace.
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I just love the freedom I have to be and do what I like to do without having to to worry about pleasing or displeasing a partner as I tend to often put them first. I felt more alone in a relationship than being by myself where I’m the best friend and companion I can get… of course I have a healthy social life but my home is my sanctuary 🥰💝
thank you joe dispenza.
Thanks for this, I have really struggled with this and therapist’s pushing me towards relationships when I have absolutely no drive or interest in it. It makes me feel broken, isolated and trapped because I cannot pursue it when there is no drive for it. It has allowed me to develop great introspection and spiritual growth but boy is it hard watching everyone have families and feeling left behind
I've lived alone and been single for 20 years now and i've never been happier or healthier - I love my family and friends and work part time as a therapist and so my life feels balanced and peaceful more than it ever did when in long term relationship including a past marriage.
I live alone I LOVE IT❤ ... HOWEVER I live with 6 Cats ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Animals are the best companions
Great video to watch first thing in the morning in my apartment where I live alone.
Wow! Soulitude. 🙏🍃
I love the peace of
My own space where I can be myself with conflict.
One's you find yourself...your life can never be the same !!! ...I find peace joy small things all by myself ..help me to focus and I truly even can't relate to comune people...only here whomever into quantum reality are my family ...even we never meet..but we understand each other ! ..
Blessings from Texas..waxahachie. ❤
Solitude - but only if you are not feeling lonely and suffer from that. It is a superpower to self regulate and create states and emotions. It's not about being alone and watching movies, it's about sitting with yourself.
Dr. Joe Dispenza is the best teacher I ever had.
Thank-you Dr. Joe this is the best piece of information I have heard on the topic on living alone . I've chosen that for myself . Peace to my brain , healthy energy patterns with no other person interference. I have always been happy being in relationship with myself. I love the peace I feel everyday. I choose myself first....
I can't express my gratitude for this Video!
It resonates entirely with my understanding.....
This so accurately accords with my own lived experience. I have always known that my own evolution as a person, becoming who i meant to be, more and more as i go through life, wasn’t just important to me, it was priority one. When Ive been in relationships that have diverted my energy toward realizing someone else’s dream, I’ve fought it like my life depends on it. Because it did. This all makes sense through this lens.
I no longer feel abandoned or rejected , I am by myself as an efficient powerful consciousness .
Agreed! Much prefer living alone.
I am the happiest, and life is so much easier and self rewarding.
Yes I was alone for 20 yrs met joes online n did his meditations yes thk u Joe I agree n people treat single people different for now at 60 i met my man calked him in me my self n me yes i torally agree i grew so much. Never really felt lonely at all will say on this side to my man is great hss no patience yes agree.
Even if it is AI, as a 64 year old introverted, widowed woman I have experienced both. And I agree with the video.
I agree. However it is generated is not the point, it is the message that counts.
Nobody ever could give that peace when being alone. Peace is the only reason getting a relationship though. So as he says, where's Your Attention going
Being alone help me recover memories once lost due to head injury.
Wow!! Be well! 💚