It wasn't about being celebrated. The lesson is to learn & do better, or you'll have it hard in life. So take all the knowledge in like a sponge. It's a wake-up call..
I wish. Nineteen, kicked out at 18, (with a job) had to move across the country, twice, I have no idea what I'm doing I have no essential documents I have no id, thankfully I found work but it's nickels and dimes. I don't have a formal education because my mom threatened me to drop out and get a job at *17* or shed kick me out. What's funny is it was my aunt's house and my aunt was just too much of a pushover to say anything.
I left at 18 when I saw the situation with my mom was hopeless. She hadn't had a job since I was in middle school and I could tell she was planning on dragging me down with her. I left of my own accord at 18 and moved in with my grandparents. Neither of their kids bothered taking care of them in their old age, but I do because they bothered to take me in and teach me how to be an adult.
My mom had 4 boys by 4 different men and she doesn’t know who my father is (I’m not judging). But we had/have a very difficult relationship. Long story short, everything that I am today, my mother did everything in her power to prevent me from becoming. She said that music was just “noise”; I got a partial band scholarship. She said that kids play games; I got a partial baseball scholarship. And she complained that me studying at night “ran up her electricity bill.” Fast forward some decades later and I made it CLEAR with my other brothers that she was living with them. Period.
I got put out on my 18th birthday went homeless for two weeks I heard those sentiments for a long time til the exact date.After two weeks being homeless at 18 .I caught a pack from the homie and then got on my feet and got my own crib The mentality in that life made me known as heartless watch what you say to your kids
I’m glad you recognize that that was wrong and it affected you in a negative way. Now if you haven’t started the process already please start to heal. Seek therapy and let all that pain go. Family can indeed be the best ppl in your life and also your worse enemy trust me I’m speaking from experience I know. God bless you
@@Ray-pp5qbHe probably did though bud. If you my grown child and acting like some pussyboy punk then you can get the fuck out of my house, living for free while not appreciating it.
Shit my mom put me out earlier than that…i was 16 , and I was in Brooklyn I felt like I was in apocalypto trying to survive…had to find a way to have money for school clothes and lunch and supplies and toiletries ..not to mention taking the train from a homeless shelter in Manhattan….shit was rough but I’m 32 now and healthy as fuck and an Automated Logistics Specialist in the Army…the anxiety was ridiculous though , there was pressure everyday.
@@clintonclark3192 it’s what made us who we are brother …stronger than ever …I mean I ate shit food cause I never learned how to cook but I found a good woman…and now I get that king treatment , sometimes I get bad dreams of the past and wake up and sometimes it’s a lot to handle mentally it makes me she’s a tear but I thank god for another day and no more struggling.
Just can’t wrap my mind around putting your child out of your home at such a young age if you haven’t prepared them for that jungle. Some it makes them a dog and they survive but many get lost in the world and suffer terribly. Much love to all who had to go through that.
I was told that, and by 17, I had to start making a life changing decision. So a month after I turned 18, I was gone and didn't look back. Had my own place before I turned 21
@@micahrobinson530man it’s like a 1 out of every 50 that make it most get into that street life to survive and never make it out. Some ppl are just selfish and don’t understand that once you have a child our life is now theirs we are supposed to sacrifice for our children no matter what we are supposed to have their backs. Some ppl just wasn’t raised that way I got older and tried talking to my mother about these things and she swears up and down she ain’t cause me no mental damage so I learned that you have to be the one to break that generational curse because if your parent was raised messed up then they will think it’s normal when it’s not
When I hear about parents kicking their kids out of the house at 18, I often wonder, what was the point of you having a child in the first place, if all you wanted to do was get rid of it? It's like, you LITERALLY just put up with this person for 18 years knowing full well you didn't REALLY want them around.
@@ProblemchildEnt24 I don’t think the point was about college. You have parents who aren’t properly prepared raising kids that they haven’t prepared for life but expect them to get out in the world. It’s the sink or swim mentality which is dysfunctional when you consider the life skills they will need was never taught to them.
I never told my son the get out at 18. He went California to finish his Senior year of High at 17 he turned 18 and now he lives in Vegas right now! The kid is amazing and he can come home anytime he wants but he's happy away from home!
Black community been doing this for years we gotta do better and give our kids better options outside of going to debt I mean college or kicking them out. We gotta find out the path with our kids so they can be successful once they graduate highschool because the job ain’t done with just highschool 💯
@@chrisstewart5518as opposed to those who throw their kids out like they don't even know them as soon as they turn 18 regardless if they know they could survive on their own or not... yeah cuz that's perfectly normal thing to do. But this person is toxic...
My dad used to say that to me all the time, and meant it. It's only through God's grace I survived with no criminal record, no bad credit, no homelessness. Poverty, absolutely, but God is great, it didn't last. That's all I have to say.
I had my own house and two cars by my senior year in HS 1996…I heard you out at 18 for years 😂 I beat her time frame by a year and she was mad 😡 tried talking my uncle out of renting me a house 😂😂😂😂
Damn am I the only one that didn’t hear that shit? My parents never told me that. Hell my momma was sad. She would LOVE if I came back home. My daddy would be happy cuz she would have a “friend” now 🤣🤣🤣
People say stuff like that because they have really crappy parents on drugs. "I've been taking care of myself since I was 14!" Yeah cause your dad left and your mom did dope. It's not a good thing.
Nah your parents are normal, situations like this are not very common at all. The type of parents to say or do this to their children are on drugs and/or parents who never planned to have kids and therefore don’t love them. Don’t get me wrong a good chunk of parents have a cutoff age but good parents usually give their children until 22-25 to get it together before they force them to move on. Some parents will allow their children to live with them however long they like no matter what.
I didn't hear that. I moved out when I was 21 engaged and started having kids. If I didn't have kids I probably would still be in my mom's house. I am her baby and only girl. We are very close. I never moved to far from her. I stayed across the road from her for 18 years.
My mom never gave her kids a timeline to leave. If we wanted to stay out late, play loud music, break stuff when angry she'll say we need to get our own place to do all that. So we abided by her rules until we was ready to leave on our own. But my dad, he was ok if u lived with him but he gave u a job to do while u there. Cutting grass, chopping down trees/bushes, painting the house, fixing on ppl cars, putting gravel down, planting flowers, killing snakes, hard s*** lol. But we learned survival skills that is helping us out today. Rest their heavenly souls
My children can’t leave without a bachelors degree at least otherwise they’re going to keep having to come home for things because they’re not ready yet.❤
My mom put me out, came home from class and the locks was changed, called my mom and she said my younger sister would let me in over the weekend to get my shit, i had to sleep on friend's floors until i could find an apartment. Years later, im the only child that still talks to my mother.. im 34.
I'm picking bills Fasho because WTF wants to go right back to Skoo after finishing and WTF truly wants to join da military knowing dam well America Don't even do shit for dey veterans now lbs 😭😂😂😂
I was also given a choice between more SCHOOL, or get a job. Why O, WHY did I get to choose??? I chose poorly... now that I think on it. I went to work on the customer service "plantation"
@@whatsnext4306a whole black American agrees with you, you have children so they can be better than you not like you. My children going be better than me, thank God I don’t have kids now while I’m still on my career journey but it’s hard being 27 still schooling and working. So once the child get 18 they should be on the next journey to supporting their future and most basic 9-5’s are low paying jobs. I’m a CNA, my career end goal is to be an OBGYN. I’m already 27, if I would have started this at the correct age and not dibbled and dabbled in jobs, because I had to work and support myself at 18 as well, been supporting myself since, I may be a nurse already and have only about 7 years at the most of school but I’ll be started from scratch so I’ll have to do a 4 year bachelors in science then 4 more of undergraduate, then a 4-7 year residency. If you going have children make sure to work hard so they can have a better future than you. Not struggle and be working hard for crumbs, like you did.
Lmfao I love how he makes up phrases that take the sting out of the actual actions. 😂 "Street pharmaceutical life." Though be it, corporations do it, none the less comical.
How the hell can you legally support yourself by the age of 18 when you can’t get a good paying job until 18 maybe? My moms told me this, but thank god she backtracked by the time I became 18.
I learned that causes panic in the kids and I've witnessed parents hand over a birthday cake and packed bags at 18th birthday That foolery messed up so many of my classmates 😢
Congratulations man, it's hard turning a fucked up childhood into something positive, especially when all along the way you getting fucked with. It makes you wise quick, die quick, or turn evil quick. Whatever it is though you better hurry tf before you turn 18😂 god damn I hate that generation
One more option. Hiding in plain sight. And I totally agree, he's telling truth and dripping that serotonin. I think we should have a full day of comedy on election day. Kids, teens, moms, race, disability, caregiver, gov workers that want a change, different age groups, adults, even the wrong, sick, or illegal but funny, whatever can unite us enough to begin turning things around. There is an ominous feeling gathering about being human and the hope of the future lately. Who wins if no one votes? Too bad there are always going to be a few bad beans.
It's hard when they don't take what you try to teach them. I remember my mom saying, "I refuse to allow someone live their life at my expense and be disrespectful." ( I changed my habits quick) Now that I have my own, I understand.
From reading comments, I was about to ask, who parents said that because they were being disrepectful🤔. Usually parents say that when the child is smelling themselves to hard.😉
@@tamararogers4148 my mom said I wasn't as bad as most, but I was lazy sometimes with cleaning up. I didn't do things like cuss or fight. However, my mom liked things a certain way and I wasn't considerate enough to follow the simple rules she made. After we sat down and talked, I understood and finally made the change after some stubbornness. A lot of things my mother tried showing me when I was a child to help me build good habits I am seeing as an adult and am trying to rectify my now bad habits. It is hard, but better late than never.
Thas the blk community overall. Everyone else it’s seldomly happening, or they voluntarily leave. Blk parenting (moms) aren’t the best n no one is speaking up on it. Jus enabling them on their shitty job as nurturers .
@@tziondudley thats why i said not all of it. Those who's really in bad position can be saved. Also where i came from we dont throw our relative that has drug problem or mental illness in the street. We take care of them. But you guys are the "civilised" one. So yeah goodluck.
Because our parents do this to us we see no problem with putting them in care facilities when they’re old. We’re taught from an early age that it’s okay to get rid of family that we care not to deal with.
That didn't work on my son he wouldn't leave! Until he met his fiancee who is now his wife. But I never told him he had to leave like my parents told me until my son came along then they said I could stay cause they wanted to see their grandchild!
The same parents eager to toss their kids out at 18 ...will be the same 'parents' searching for someone to wipe their azz when they get old. Never mistreat your child. They are always a blessing. When they fall short, nurture them onto the correct path. No such thing as bad children...just children who didn't get love, guidance, nurturing and support from parents or others who didn't have it together.
It’s crazy how this dude can make you laugh your ass off and just feel the fuckin pain of it, “don’t worry honey, he’ll be gone in a few months” hurts more than anything else in my life
It took me to age 62 to learn the same things you would do for somebody else to do for yourself. That’s the hardest lesson but I wish I had known it 50 years ago! That’s a good one!
My dad a whole PUNK..we had beef forever, we good now..but he treated me like an enemy since I was 10-11…so I grew up with the STREETS AS A FATHER…I learned my life lessons there…thank god I don’t have felonies like all my homies do
My parents told me the same thing. I was ready at 17. Gone by the time I was 18. I was happy for the unsupervised life that followed. I told my kids same thing. They turned out better than me. Their kids have the easy life and are going to be living with them.....a lot longer
My dad would always tell me this as a teenager. As soon as i turned 18 i went to live with a 29 year old man that made me feel safe. I made a lot of wrong decisions and now at 30 i realized i was never taught how to be an adult, i made a lot of wrong decisions trying to make my life better. I forgive myself but i cant forgive my dad, he never taught me anything.
This is one of the reasons why our communities are the way they are, we have absolute dumbasses for parents, instead of every other culture nurturing their children up until marriage damn near, ours forces us out of the house at 18 even if we don’t have accommodations.
Parents typically tell hard-headed children 18, and you are out, but nobody want to admit how their awful behavior contributed to being asked to leave.
NEVER stay where you are tolerated. Go where you are celebrated/appreciated.
Could be the wrong crowd celebrating you. And the right ones trying to teach you a lesson with tolerance.
That can’t be a quote
Truer words never spoken!!!
Very true thats very sensible. People utilize quotes because they sound nice without looking at the deeper meaning of them.@@rashidblack6445
It wasn't about being celebrated. The lesson is to learn & do better, or you'll have it hard in life. So take all the knowledge in like a sponge. It's a wake-up call..
@@rashidblack6445 amen brother ❤
Real parents know that when your kid turns 18 it don't mean your parenting days are over. Shiiiid, you just gettin started. Lol
Fr!
I wish. Nineteen, kicked out at 18, (with a job) had to move across the country, twice, I have no idea what I'm doing I have no essential documents I have no id, thankfully I found work but it's nickels and dimes. I don't have a formal education because my mom threatened me to drop out and get a job at *17* or shed kick me out. What's funny is it was my aunt's house and my aunt was just too much of a pushover to say anything.
@damienwylaz1738 nah you don't got a mom. She jus gave birth to yu but she ain shit
But not up In Here
@@damienwylaz1738sorry bro, i know god will bless you stay strong
Street pharmaceutical life 😂
I left at 18 when I saw the situation with my mom was hopeless. She hadn't had a job since I was in middle school and I could tell she was planning on dragging me down with her. I left of my own accord at 18 and moved in with my grandparents. Neither of their kids bothered taking care of them in their old age, but I do because they bothered to take me in and teach me how to be an adult.
Grand parents are amazing❤
These same kids that you say "you gotta get yo ass outta here at 18" gonna be the adults picking your nursing home lol
IF THEY LIVE THAT LONG😂😂😂😂
@@mikeoxlong8264 morbid yet true 😆
They are on their own iam not picking out no nursing home.
My mom had 4 boys by 4 different men and she doesn’t know who my father is (I’m not judging). But we had/have a very difficult relationship. Long story short, everything that I am today, my mother did everything in her power to prevent me from becoming. She said that music was just “noise”; I got a partial band scholarship. She said that kids play games; I got a partial baseball scholarship. And she complained that me studying at night “ran up her electricity bill.” Fast forward some decades later and I made it CLEAR with my other brothers that she was living with them. Period.
I got put out on my 18th birthday went homeless for two weeks I heard those sentiments for a long time til the exact date.After two weeks being homeless at 18 .I caught a pack from the homie and then got on my feet and got my own crib The mentality in that life made me known as heartless
watch what you say to your kids
Sorry, bro. You didn't deserve that shit.
I’m glad you recognize that that was wrong and it affected you in a negative way. Now if you haven’t started the process already please start to heal. Seek therapy and let all that pain go. Family can indeed be the best ppl in your life and also your worse enemy trust me I’m speaking from experience I know. God bless you
@@Ray-pp5qbHe probably did though bud. If you my grown child and acting like some pussyboy punk then you can get the fuck out of my house, living for free while not appreciating it.
God is good homie
You not heartless homie. You just need to open up them clouds 😢
Shit my mom put me out earlier than that…i was 16 , and I was in Brooklyn I felt like I was in apocalypto trying to survive…had to find a way to have money for school clothes and lunch and supplies and toiletries ..not to mention taking the train from a homeless shelter in Manhattan….shit was rough but I’m 32 now and healthy as fuck and an Automated Logistics Specialist in the Army…the anxiety was ridiculous though , there was pressure everyday.
Sorry brother. I slept in the streets hungry many nights cold af. God was with us.
@@clintonclark3192 it’s what made us who we are brother …stronger than ever …I mean I ate shit food cause I never learned how to cook but I found a good woman…and now I get that king treatment , sometimes I get bad dreams of the past and wake up and sometimes it’s a lot to handle mentally it makes me she’s a tear but I thank god for another day and no more struggling.
Just can’t wrap my mind around putting your child out of your home at such a young age if you haven’t prepared them for that jungle. Some it makes them a dog and they survive but many get lost in the world and suffer terribly. Much love to all who had to go through that.
Yea man....if you know about riding a train to the last stop and back all night ....shit makes you value life a little different
🎉I celebrate you! And I'm sorry you had to endure that.
Sometimes parents won’t understand that negativity ain’t gonna always make people wanna do positive
Big facts. I have 4 sons. I would never force them into the streets. And they can always come back home.
Yes! I have an open door policy for my children, too! And idc what anyone thinks! If they need to come home, then they can come home!
Always.
Yesss❤ I tell my 3 Son's the same.
I was told that, and by 17, I had to start making a life changing decision.
So a month after I turned 18, I was gone and didn't look back. Had my own place before I turned 21
Some people make it. Most don't.
I left at 15, but I had the mentality to never quit so I also made it just fine.
@@micahrobinson530man it’s like a 1 out of every 50 that make it most get into that street life to survive and never make it out. Some ppl are just selfish and don’t understand that once you have a child our life is now theirs we are supposed to sacrifice for our children no matter what we are supposed to have their backs. Some ppl just wasn’t raised that way I got older and tried talking to my mother about these things and she swears up and down she ain’t cause me no mental damage so I learned that you have to be the one to break that generational curse because if your parent was raised messed up then they will think it’s normal when it’s not
When I hear about parents kicking their kids out of the house at 18, I often wonder, what was the point of you having a child in the first place, if all you wanted to do was get rid of it? It's like, you LITERALLY just put up with this person for 18 years knowing full well you didn't REALLY want them around.
and people wonder why 80's/90's kids have bad relationships with their parents....
🤣🤣🤣 damn so ig college wasnt in your future lol
@@ProblemchildEnt24 I mean the parents weren’t saying you’re going to college when you graduate but you got to leave
@@darius318 does it matter? Ppl just sensitive that's all
@@ProblemchildEnt24 I don’t think the point was about college. You have parents who aren’t properly prepared raising kids that they haven’t prepared for life but expect them to get out in the world. It’s the sink or swim mentality which is dysfunctional when you consider the life skills they will need was never taught to them.
I never told my son the get out at 18. He went California to finish his Senior year of High at 17 he turned 18 and now he lives in Vegas right now! The kid is amazing and he can come home anytime he wants but he's happy away from home!
Black community been doing this for years we gotta do better and give our kids better options outside of going to debt I mean college or kicking them out. We gotta find out the path with our kids so they can be successful once they graduate highschool because the job ain’t done with just highschool 💯
A parents job is never over 🤷🏾♂️ my baby girls will always be my baby girls. Same for my son
U toxic 😊
@@chrisstewart5518huh
@@chrisstewart5518as opposed to those who throw their kids out like they don't even know them as soon as they turn 18 regardless if they know they could survive on their own or not... yeah cuz that's perfectly normal thing to do. But this person is toxic...
Awesome ❤
@@zhin8294. Agreed
My dad used to say that to me all the time, and meant it. It's only through God's grace I survived with no criminal record, no bad credit, no homelessness. Poverty, absolutely, but God is great, it didn't last. That's all I have to say.
I had my own house and two cars by my senior year in HS 1996…I heard you out at 18 for years 😂 I beat her time frame by a year and she was mad 😡 tried talking my uncle out of renting me a house 😂😂😂😂
So nice of your uncle to lend you his cars and a room
Was your mom was hating on you or something?
Damn am I the only one that didn’t hear that shit? My parents never told me that. Hell my momma was sad. She would LOVE if I came back home. My daddy would be happy cuz she would have a “friend” now 🤣🤣🤣
People say stuff like that because they have really crappy parents on drugs. "I've been taking care of myself since I was 14!" Yeah cause your dad left and your mom did dope. It's not a good thing.
Sh.. You better give them a hug and show some appreciation
Nah your parents are normal, situations like this are not very common at all. The type of parents to say or do this to their children are on drugs and/or parents who never planned to have kids and therefore don’t love them. Don’t get me wrong a good chunk of parents have a cutoff age but good parents usually give their children until 22-25 to get it together before they force them to move on. Some parents will allow their children to live with them however long they like no matter what.
Mine too lol
I didn't hear that. I moved out when I was 21 engaged and started having kids. If I didn't have kids I probably would still be in my mom's house. I am her baby and only girl. We are very close. I never moved to far from her. I stayed across the road from her for 18 years.
My mom never gave her kids a timeline to leave. If we wanted to stay out late, play loud music, break stuff when angry she'll say we need to get our own place to do all that. So we abided by her rules until we was ready to leave on our own. But my dad, he was ok if u lived with him but he gave u a job to do while u there. Cutting grass, chopping down trees/bushes, painting the house, fixing on ppl cars, putting gravel down, planting flowers, killing snakes, hard s*** lol. But we learned survival skills that is helping us out today. Rest their heavenly souls
King Ali he is a beast at story telling
Happened to me and 10 months later I received a 10 year prison sentence can't blame it directly on that but it had alot to do with it
😧 I'm soooo sorry...
Violent felony??
@@jonasbaine3538Gotta do what you gotta do to make ends meet 🤷🏾♂️. That or he let shit get to his head
Your momma is hilarious. As long as we were in school or working, we could stay.😂😂😂
I’ll never tell my kids they HAVE to leave.
So happy I was never told or treated this way. I left because I went to college, not because I was put out.
Time is funny tho, now my mom will die alone with a cat wishing she didn’t put us out.
No one is thinking that.
My children can’t leave without a bachelors degree at least otherwise they’re going to keep having to come home for things because they’re not ready yet.❤
My mom put me out, came home from class and the locks was changed, called my mom and she said my younger sister would let me in over the weekend to get my shit, i had to sleep on friend's floors until i could find an apartment. Years later, im the only child that still talks to my mother.. im 34.
I won't...
Wowwww!
I’d always think to myself “what if I didn’t make it through that?”
This the longest 3 weeks I've ever experienced. Ali, where is Domino Effect 2?
You never hope, you hustle
What I tell my children is that when you turn 18, you have 3 choices. College, military, or pick a bill you want to start paying.
This us waay better
I'm picking bills Fasho because WTF wants to go right back to Skoo after finishing and WTF truly wants to join da military knowing dam well America Don't even do shit for dey veterans now lbs 😭😂😂😂
I was also given a choice between more SCHOOL, or get a job. Why O, WHY did I get to choose??? I chose poorly... now that I think on it. I went to work on the customer service "plantation"
@@whatsnext4306a whole black American agrees with you, you have children so they can be better than you not like you. My children going be better than me, thank God I don’t have kids now while I’m still on my career journey but it’s hard being 27 still schooling and working. So once the child get 18 they should be on the next journey to supporting their future and most basic 9-5’s are low paying jobs. I’m a CNA, my career end goal is to be an OBGYN. I’m already 27, if I would have started this at the correct age and not dibbled and dabbled in jobs, because I had to work and support myself at 18 as well, been supporting myself since, I may be a nurse already and have only about 7 years at the most of school but I’ll be started from scratch so I’ll have to do a 4 year bachelors in science then 4 more of undergraduate, then a 4-7 year residency. If you going have children make sure to work hard so they can have a better future than you. Not struggle and be working hard for crumbs, like you did.
@@REALWomenDontDoNONSENSE40what did you choose?
Ok. No problem mom. Keep that same energy when you’re at old age and need me to take care of you.
That part 😂😂😂
Stop whining
Correct!!! Ain't in tune when the rabbit's got the gun.
Facts
If they tell you to leave at 18 then don’t expect to move in with me
Lmfao I love how he makes up phrases that take the sting out of the actual actions. 😂 "Street pharmaceutical life." Though be it, corporations do it, none the less comical.
I went to Jamaica and the driver who took us to our hotel pointed to the nice houses in the hills and said “street pharmacist” 😂
Give a fuck what katt talkin about bro is a comedy legend 😂😂😂
My favorite comic
Left high school graduation night and never looked back
Facts, moved out at 18 struggled hard ASF for 4 years. Luckily things changed and i was accepted back with open arms to work on a solid career 🙏🏾
How the hell can you legally support yourself by the age of 18 when you can’t get a good paying job until 18 maybe? My moms told me this, but thank god she backtracked by the time I became 18.
I expect mine to be here until middle 20's. He 17 and damn sure ain't ready to go but he respectful😂❤
I learned that causes panic in the kids and I've witnessed parents hand over a birthday cake and packed bags at 18th birthday
That foolery messed up so many of my classmates 😢
Single parents take no accountability
I thought my mom was the only one that used to say that..she was dead serious when she said it when I was a kid kid…I was out by 16
Me 17
Congratulations man, it's hard turning a fucked up childhood into something positive, especially when all along the way you getting fucked with. It makes you wise quick, die quick, or turn evil quick. Whatever it is though you better hurry tf before you turn 18😂 god damn I hate that generation
One more option. Hiding in plain sight. And I totally agree, he's telling truth and dripping that serotonin.
I think we should have a full day of comedy on election day. Kids, teens, moms, race, disability, caregiver, gov workers that want a change, different age groups, adults, even the wrong, sick, or illegal but funny, whatever can unite us enough to begin turning things around.
There is an ominous feeling gathering about being human and the hope of the future lately. Who wins if no one votes?
Too bad there are always going to be a few bad beans.
😅😅😅😅
It's hard when they don't take what you try to teach them. I remember my mom saying, "I refuse to allow someone live their life at my expense and be disrespectful." ( I changed my habits quick) Now that I have my own, I understand.
Nailed it!
From reading comments, I was about to ask, who parents said that because they were being disrepectful🤔. Usually parents say that when the child is smelling themselves to hard.😉
@@tamararogers4148 my mom said I wasn't as bad as most, but I was lazy sometimes with cleaning up. I didn't do things like cuss or fight. However, my mom liked things a certain way and I wasn't considerate enough to follow the simple rules she made. After we sat down and talked, I understood and finally made the change after some stubbornness. A lot of things my mother tried showing me when I was a child to help me build good habits I am seeing as an adult and am trying to rectify my now bad habits. It is hard, but better late than never.
My buddy Elliot told his wife the kids ain't gotta leave when they turn 18 his wife said why? He said cuz I AM!!!!!!!
If America stop doing that, you guys will stop 40% of homeless problem
Thas the blk community overall. Everyone else it’s seldomly happening, or they voluntarily leave. Blk parenting (moms) aren’t the best n no one is speaking up on it. Jus enabling them on their shitty job as nurturers .
Thats not gonna help most of them on drugs or mentally ill is a reason they homeless
@@tziondudley thats why i said not all of it. Those who's really in bad position can be saved. Also where i came from we dont throw our relative that has drug problem or mental illness in the street. We take care of them. But you guys are the "civilised" one. So yeah goodluck.
Because our parents do this to us we see no problem with putting them in care facilities when they’re old. We’re taught from an early age that it’s okay to get rid of family that we care not to deal with.
@@1_star_reviewsand that's the American truth
That didn't work on my son he wouldn't leave! Until he met his fiancee who is now his wife. But I never told him he had to leave like my parents told me until my son came along then they said I could stay cause they wanted to see their grandchild!
Thats because you were a better parent than your own. We learned from their mistakes.
Ali is one of my many fathers, this man has helped me as a young man in many ways. I love this man 🫡
Soon as I got 18 I got out of the house so this really resonates
Notice how he said every time something go wrong it’s you gotta be outta here by 18
"You know something? Don't even fucking worry about it!" 🤣My mom would say the same shit...and i tell her til this day............"Bet".
Moms put me out at 15, never went back 36 now feels like yesterday
He kills me with that "street pharmaceutical".... Sounds so professional but not really 😂😂. I love his story telling humor.
never hope Hustle
The same parents eager to toss their kids out at 18 ...will be the same 'parents' searching for someone to wipe their azz when they get old. Never mistreat your child. They are always a blessing. When they fall short, nurture them onto the correct path. No such thing as bad children...just children who didn't get love, guidance, nurturing and support from parents or others who didn't have it together.
It’s crazy how this dude can make you laugh your ass off and just feel the fuckin pain of it, “don’t worry honey, he’ll be gone in a few months” hurts more than anything else in my life
Yes Lord! it will never be wrong!
My mom always said. You get a job or you go to school after high school or you get out. I did both. And have a career now.
Tell them they ass ain't goin no where ,🤣🤣💙
Love you Ali with your family stories, wisdom, crazies, drama and humor!
Black Mothers to from "I got my kid forever" to "get out my house at 18"
My daddy used to say the same thing. I was out the house at 17 😂
It took me to age 62 to learn the same things you would do for somebody else to do for yourself. That’s the hardest lesson but I wish I had known it 50 years ago! That’s a good one!
My dad a whole PUNK..we had beef forever, we good now..but he treated me like an enemy since I was 10-11…so I grew up with the STREETS AS A FATHER…I learned my life lessons there…thank god I don’t have felonies like all my homies do
“Don’t even worry about it” is soooo accurate😭😭😭😭
18; gone.
All glory to the MOST HIGH THEE GREAT I AM‼️🙌🏿💪🏿
Yepp !! Pushing young minds in to the abyss of crime !!
My parents told me the same thing. I was ready at 17. Gone by the time I was 18. I was happy for the unsupervised life that followed. I told my kids same thing. They turned out better than me. Their kids have the easy life and are going to be living with them.....a lot longer
Man my mom use to say when I walk across that stage😢😢😢
By far the best stand up all year
I put mine out when he thunk he could talk back- bye baby
In church, we told the power of life and death is in your tongue. Some of our parents speak truma and struggle into our lives as children.
Thats facts, never hope hustle🔥🔥🔥
Freaking love this guy 😂
Real Rap
My dad would always tell me this as a teenager. As soon as i turned 18 i went to live with a 29 year old man that made me feel safe. I made a lot of wrong decisions and now at 30 i realized i was never taught how to be an adult, i made a lot of wrong decisions trying to make my life better. I forgive myself but i cant forgive my dad, he never taught me anything.
This is one of the reasons why our communities are the way they are, we have absolute dumbasses for parents, instead of every other culture nurturing their children up until marriage damn near, ours forces us out of the house at 18 even if we don’t have accommodations.
That last ‘minute is deep . Some of us in the Black community speak so harshly to our children
No that's the right thing to say 😂😂😂
That's the truth. And exactly what happened when I got kicked out at 18
" the same thing you can do for others you can do for yourself "
i was thinking that at my old moving job lol
Welfare home and she stops getting paid for having him when he turned 18.
Parents typically tell hard-headed children 18, and you are out, but nobody want to admit how their awful behavior contributed to being asked to leave.
If y’all haven’t watched this special, I highly recommend it. It’s probly in my top 10 of all time.
I feel his pain. Out at 17. Cold world.
They say, "you have to leave" and then act surprised when you don't drop by often after leaving...
We all heard that back in the day
It was motivation. Never sold drugs.
Street pharmacist. That’s a career right there.
My mom too and I literally moved out the very day I turned 18.
And here I am, 24 and still living with my parents and my siblings.
I always beg mine to stay with me and not to leave until she's ready.
Not 18, hit the door
I too was a street pharmacist. That's how I paid my way through college.
Gone daddy he figured it out
Every child deserves a parent, not every parent deserves children.
My mom cut it short sent me out at 16
This is why my brother is in the army
I was put out at 17. Ain’t been home since. Hustle to eat. Sink or swim.
What a well spoken young brother very intelligent
They say its no book for parenting but you dont need a book to understand you have to raise each individual differently.