Good video. We're going to work on her K-1. I've been here in Luzon since July. 2nd time. I'm thinking she'll be fine in US. I'm 67, she 62. Looks great. No baggage.
You are a smart cookie Calvin, you know how to bring up controversial topics in your vlogs, Y'all listen to Calvin hear, He is boots on the ground in country and not living in the basement State Side like many of you guys do, Dan
Calvin, keep it real bro. The competition is in the USA. The men in the Philippines are broke. It’s a third world country. Why else are they dealing with us if they really want their own men? We provide something their men can’t give. A better life. You really think she’s going to stay committed to a man 20yrs her senior after she’s got her green card? C’mon man…….
Man I'm telling you what I'm seeing. The Filipino men get a pass. They use your money to wine and dine him. The reason they want our money is because we're old and crusty. Get real. No decent woman wants you over there. That's why you come here!
@ Yes, I understand that being in their homeland, their men will come first. We aren’t getting the best women available. We get the leftovers. The women they don’t want. They’re no prize if we’re being honest sir. Just a different piece of meat to pound. Which is why I don’t understand men who marry or impregnate these poor single mothers with multiple children by multiple men. What logical, intelligent, reasonable man would do that and tell other men it’s ok? And then they suggest to other men it’s a good idea to bring them to their country. I’d be willing to bet for every successful relationship, there’s 10 or more that aren’t successful.
Why are there so many SINGLE MOTHERS in the Philippines? Why are Filipinas LEAVING their husbands and boyfriends at alarming numbers? If as you say they PREFER Philippine MEN, then why leave them? If she will leave a Filipino man then she will leave you as well. I see reports all the time of Filipina men leaving their wives and Filipina women leaving their husbands. It's a very sad state of affairs. The modern western world is overly Feminized and has been taken over by the egalitarian feminist cult. You see it everywhere these days, from the top levels of government to the schools. Every magazine, every TV show, in every CHURCH, every movie, and all social networks are full of the feminist BS, thats the TRUTH Calvin! The reason men leave the modern western world is the exact same reason why WE DO NOT want to go back or take our Filipina back there either. I dont want her MIND, heart and SOUL infected with the modern western mindset. If you take her over there she will LEARN the ways of the west and will soon become brainwashed like all the western women we left behind to find a traditional non westernized woman. She will want to start a business, become a boss babe, will want her independence and will get tons of support from all the modern western women living there. It will be a relational battle and nightmare as a man to fight against the sisterhood in the modern western world. Its absolutely insane therefore to purposely and permantly take your Filipina to the modern western world. Its just a matter of time before things begin to fall apart. This isnt about clicks, or videos or sensationalism, its about the honest TRUTH and understanding what you are up against in the modern western world.
I would strongly suggest that you don't take your Filipina to the US. I have done it twice. first marriage was 5 years the second 15. Bolth ending in divorce. Of the thousands of Filipina American couples that I have known, less than 10% last. My experience is that they don't really want to get divorced. they just want to have their cake and eat it to. but who wants to put up with that shit. I disagree with your assessment on the Filipinas not running off, well Mabe they don't always run off, but they will defiantly cheat. I have personally known hundreds of Filipina American couples and 90 % break up. I am speaking from what I have seen from my own eyes not something that I have seen on Tou Tube. Every person is different. Every situation is different, but I will guarantee you that the odds are against you if you take your Filipina back to your country. My first Filipina girlfriend was in 1977. I have 3 half Filipino children. I have lived in a Filipino community for over 40 years. Only you can know your own situation but if I was you, I wouldn't do it again.
It's a personal choice. Some men are too young to retire or don't want to live here full time. I won't generalize Lavon I'm telling you what I experienced. The overwhelming majority of couples that I was associated with for years are still together. Thanks for your comments.
I work with a lot of Filipino people. Every last woman here has been married to the same American man that brought he here for decades. If you look hard enough you can find anything you want to…
I brought my wife to the usa on a fiance visa. Even with the 18 years difference, we have done fine. Currently getting ready for retirement to the phils...
Calvin, just got back from Philippines. I will say, i myself let all the videos everyone makes about watch out for this, don't trust them, etc... got in my head before i arrived. Once i was there, my viewpoint on everything was completely different, but it depends on what you are looking for in the Philippines. If you hangout around Angeles, probably more risk if you are hanging out in IT park cebu. Great videos, have a new perspective note. Thanks
I’m noticing a trend in expat vloggers saying one thing for months or years then eventually doing those things they said not to do. Never get married, don’t buy a house, don’t bring them back to your country. Things change 😊
Does it mean it's not good information? Y'all don't listen to vloggers, you just nitpick us to death. Get a life and stop lurking around people's UA-cam channels like you got it all together.
The choices that you make definitely have an impact on your life. I am sure that both of my wives cared about me deeply. In both cases we were together for over 2 years before we got married. It wasn't a quick romance and rush to the alter.Things happen and choices I made changed the outcome of my life. Knowing what the outcome would be I would still make the same decisions. Cultures can clash. I refused to compromise my principles and made my decision. Who knows different situations later could have had the same conclusion at a later time. Both times I got custody of my children and that's all that matters.
You off on this one bro. Filipino men are traditionally short and not very good providers due to their economics of their country (3rd world). How could they be your competition? Not trying to belittle them. But getting a foreign man for a Filipino woman is like a cheat code.
@ Huh? Keep scrolling? Bruh, i’ve been subscribed to your channel and videos for a minute dawg. I disagree with you on this point, and you going to give me that emotional azz response. Say less partner. I see you
Do not deprive her of the best opportunities your country has to offer. Also, your homeland is her opportunity to look after her extended family. Too many men want to complain about spending money to look after their in-laws when they dont want to upskill their wives or allow them to work. Good video Sunshine Shoulders. Unfortunately, I feel people may misunderstand your message like they did the first time around.
Horror stories are for clicks and views. The most important thing is to know your Filipina and have a plan which should include her family. Men need to focus more on the mindset of a Filipina instead of just looks. Beauty fades…mindset endures the test of time. Experience is the best teacher.
Thanks Calvin for this Video im too Young to Retire or Move to the Philippines 🇵🇭..So definitely need to bring a Filipina to the West first.Then Move to Philippines 🇵🇭 when im Finnacal ready..
9:32 this time around I learned not to Westernize her. Or at very least try to minimize it. I’m adaptable, I can give up a lot of creature comforts if it means maintaining and solid family.
This question is asked so much I just laugh. If you gotta ask this question then you deserve the fate that awaits you. I’m just tired of this question because most people are going to just do their own thing anyway. So sure go ahead guys go do it if you wanna gamble your relationship lol
If you are in shape and rich, she will still find a Chad. I know a few that found a man while working over seas, while married. Just remember women are ruled by their feelings and who they surround themselves with.
@calroach1 options changes the game, for men and women. Who files for divorce more? Who is more likely to stay and work on the marriage? Get the answer to those questions, and you will be informed.
@@calroach1 have a great walk. Ask yourself a question during the walk. Are young children bad? When they do something impulsive? You know acting on their feelings? 🤔.
I’d never bring mine back to the Philippines, I stopped going to their family gatherings here because they would all speak in their native language pompango, having fun, joking playing games all in a different language. Leaving me out, plopping me down in front of a tv occasionally checking to see if I’m hungry….never giving a dam whether I’m included or having fun.
@ we’ve been together for 20 years, we waited til year 6 to have a kid. I used to go to all the parties hoping one of them would realize, I don’t think they cared, they all speak English, I was told they feel more comfortable speaking their native language to each other, so screw anyone else. here in the US, they call me foreigner. As if I’m supposed it integrate in to my own country. But whatever, after about 4 years of being treated like a picture on the wall, I just stopped going and they know why. No big deal, I own my home, 4 cars a business…I have plenty to keep me occupied.
@ountoptwo typical western mentality. You had 20 years and you can't speak their language but you want literally everyone at the party to speak a language that's not their first language and makes them feel at home? FYI I'm not a filipino so don't think I'm closed minded like some people. You should try it 🤷♂️
Dear Calvin. Your message has changed from when you started your channel. I still remember how you clearly explained what I saw and experienced in the States. The network. The influence others Filipinas have on your wife. To cheat. To leave you. I seen it. Why you change your viewpoint ?
It's the same. Today I'm talking about what we get wrong about bringing women home. In the video you're talking about I spoke about the risks. Two different videos on the same topic.
You guys are always playing "gotcha" my message hasn't changed. Most Filipinas don't run off when we bring them home and we westernize them long before they do.
I don’t meet the requirements of bringing anyone to the USA. I am not a US citizen, I am a national per the State Department or a nonresident alien per the IRS. Also, I have no income or net worth in my name.
The day you bring your filipina to the USA , she no longer needs you ! Jobs are plentiful for a young cute filipina ! Men will be all over her giving her attention . This is a filipinas kryptonite! I Don't agree with you Calvin ! Talk about something else brother !
The Filipino men are extremely aggressive here dude, especially construction workers, they are sought after here in the Philippines constantly man, if they didn’t cheat here, why would they there.
I think you have a good chance to be successful if you are sensible with the age gap and the beauty 😂. I’d your 71 and she is 23 I think you might be in trouble. It’s common sense. Find someone within your age bracket. Maximum 10-15 years younger. If it’s to good to be true it’s most likely is. It needs to be more than only the money. Then she will leave you when she has made some money and adjusted:-)
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Good video. We're going to work on her K-1. I've been here in Luzon since July. 2nd time. I'm thinking she'll be fine in US. I'm 67, she 62. Looks great. No baggage.
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You are a smart cookie Calvin, you know how to bring up controversial topics in your vlogs, Y'all listen to Calvin hear, He is boots on the ground in country and not living in the basement State Side like many of you guys do, Dan
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Calvin, keep it real bro. The competition is in the USA. The men in the Philippines are broke. It’s a third world country. Why else are they dealing with us if they really want their own men? We provide something their men can’t give. A better life. You really think she’s going to stay committed to a man 20yrs her senior after she’s got her green card? C’mon man…….
Man I'm telling you what I'm seeing. The Filipino men get a pass. They use your money to wine and dine him. The reason they want our money is because we're old and crusty. Get real. No decent woman wants you over there. That's why you come here!
@ Yes, I understand that being in their homeland, their men will come first. We aren’t getting the best women available. We get the leftovers. The women they don’t want. They’re no prize if we’re being honest sir. Just a different piece of meat to pound. Which is why I don’t understand men who marry or impregnate these poor single mothers with multiple children by multiple men. What logical, intelligent, reasonable man would do that and tell other men it’s ok? And then they suggest to other men it’s a good idea to bring them to their country. I’d be willing to bet for every successful relationship, there’s 10 or more that aren’t successful.
Why are there so many SINGLE MOTHERS in the Philippines? Why are Filipinas LEAVING their husbands and boyfriends at alarming numbers? If as you say they PREFER Philippine MEN, then why leave them? If she will leave a Filipino man then she will leave you as well. I see reports all the time of Filipina men leaving their wives and Filipina women leaving their husbands. It's a very sad state of affairs.
The modern western world is overly Feminized and has been taken over by the egalitarian feminist cult. You see it everywhere these days, from the top levels of government to the schools. Every magazine, every TV show, in every CHURCH, every movie, and all social networks are full of the feminist BS, thats the TRUTH Calvin!
The reason men leave the modern western world is the exact same reason why WE DO NOT want to go back or take our Filipina back there either. I dont want her MIND, heart and SOUL infected with the modern western mindset. If you take her over there she will LEARN the ways of the west and will soon become brainwashed like all the western women we left behind to find a traditional non westernized woman.
She will want to start a business, become a boss babe, will want her independence and will get tons of support from all the modern western women living there. It will be a relational battle and nightmare as a man to fight against the sisterhood in the modern western world. Its absolutely insane therefore to purposely and permantly take your Filipina to the modern western world. Its just a matter of time before things begin to fall apart.
This isnt about clicks, or videos or sensationalism, its about the honest TRUTH and understanding what you are up against in the modern western world.
I would strongly suggest that you don't take your Filipina to the US. I have done it twice. first marriage was 5 years the second 15. Bolth ending in divorce. Of the thousands of Filipina American couples that I have known, less than 10% last. My experience is that they don't really want to get divorced. they just want to have their cake and eat it to. but who wants to put up with that shit. I disagree with your assessment on the Filipinas not running off, well Mabe they don't always run off, but they will defiantly cheat. I have personally known hundreds of Filipina American couples and 90 % break up. I am speaking from what I have seen from my own eyes not something that I have seen on Tou Tube. Every person is different. Every situation is different, but I will guarantee you that the odds are against you if you take your Filipina back to your country. My first Filipina girlfriend was in 1977. I have 3 half Filipino children. I have lived in a Filipino community for over 40 years. Only you can know your own situation but if I was you, I wouldn't do it again.
It's a personal choice. Some men are too young to retire or don't want to live here full time. I won't generalize Lavon I'm telling you what I experienced. The overwhelming majority of couples that I was associated with for years are still together. Thanks for your comments.
Maybe you chose the wrong women. Could that be possible?
I work with a lot of Filipino people. Every last woman here has been married to the same American man that brought he here for decades. If you look hard enough you can find anything you want to…
A very thoughtful vlog. You give the pros and cons of bringing her out of PI and back to his home country.
I brought my wife to the usa on a fiance visa. Even with the 18 years difference, we have done fine. Currently getting ready for retirement to the phils...
You might want to reconsider retirement in the Philippines. It’s a third world country without a change in sight
@@brianbarton777 I've been there many times and currently have a house there. Love the people, love the country!!! I hope it never changes!!
Great video Bro.Calvin!
Calvin, just got back from Philippines. I will say, i myself let all the videos everyone makes about watch out for this, don't trust them, etc... got in my head before i arrived. Once i was there, my viewpoint on everything was completely different, but it depends on what you are looking for in the Philippines. If you hangout around Angeles, probably more risk if you are hanging out in IT park cebu. Great videos, have a new perspective note. Thanks
I’m noticing a trend in expat vloggers saying one thing for months or years then eventually doing those things they said not to do. Never get married, don’t buy a house, don’t bring them back to your country. Things change 😊
Does it mean it's not good information? Y'all don't listen to vloggers, you just nitpick us to death. Get a life and stop lurking around people's UA-cam channels like you got it all together.
@ it’s called flip flopping. Which part was the good information, the before or the after ? I understand you need to make content.
@MoshiraMitano What difference does it make since you have it all together? Have a nice day and don't watch my pockets!
Keep her where is and provide a good life there if you want her to remain good❤
Some men have no choice and thousands are happily married overseas.
Bro ran out of topics to talk about on his channel smh
The choices that you make definitely have an impact on your life. I am sure that both of my wives cared about me deeply. In both cases we were together for over 2 years before we got married. It wasn't a quick romance and rush to the alter.Things happen and choices I made changed the outcome of my life. Knowing what the outcome would be I would still make the same decisions. Cultures can clash. I refused to compromise my principles and made my decision. Who knows different situations later could have had the same conclusion at a later time. Both times I got custody of my children and that's all that matters.
You off on this one bro. Filipino men are traditionally short and not very good providers due to their economics of their country (3rd world). How could they be your competition? Not trying to belittle them. But getting a foreign man for a Filipino woman is like a cheat code.
You have no clue dude. Keep scrolling. I live here. They use your money to level him up 😂
@ Huh? Keep scrolling? Bruh, i’ve been subscribed to your channel and videos for a minute dawg. I disagree with you on this point, and you going to give me that emotional azz response. Say less partner. I see you
Why are you so sensitive. I'm telling you facts. Your western thinking is wrong on this one.
What’s good Calvin!🙌🏾
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@@calroach1 HI Calvin. What camera do you tape with?
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Such a tough decision I feel for the guys thinking about it
It's definitely a personal choice.
Do not deprive her of the best opportunities your country has to offer. Also, your homeland is her opportunity to look after her extended family. Too many men want to complain about spending money to look after their in-laws when they dont want to upskill their wives or allow them to work. Good video Sunshine Shoulders. Unfortunately, I feel people may misunderstand your message like they did the first time around.
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Ur right Calvin 100%
Straight talk Sir Calvin.
Horror stories are for clicks and views. The most important thing is to know your Filipina and have a plan which should include her family. Men need to focus more on the mindset of a Filipina instead of just looks. Beauty fades…mindset endures the test of time. Experience is the best teacher.
Thanks for sharing
Thank you for that Cal.
Thanks Calvin for this Video im too Young to Retire or Move to the Philippines 🇵🇭..So definitely need to bring a Filipina to the West first.Then Move to Philippines 🇵🇭 when im Finnacal ready..
9:32 this time around I learned not to Westernize her. Or at very least try to minimize it. I’m adaptable, I can give up a lot of creature comforts if it means maintaining and solid family.
This question is asked so much I just laugh. If you gotta ask this question then you deserve the fate that awaits you. I’m just tired of this question because most people are going to just do their own thing anyway. So sure go ahead guys go do it if you wanna gamble your relationship lol
If you are in shape and rich, she will still find a Chad. I know a few that found a man while working over seas, while married. Just remember women are ruled by their feelings and who they surround themselves with.
If she's no good it doesn't matter where she is does it?
@calroach1 options changes the game, for men and women. Who files for divorce more? Who is more likely to stay and work on the marriage? Get the answer to those questions, and you will be informed.
Read my reply. If she's no good it doesn't matter. Find a good one. Leaving her here is no guarantee. Take care I'm going walking.
@@calroach1 have a great walk. Ask yourself a question during the walk. Are young children bad? When they do something impulsive? You know acting on their feelings? 🤔.
@sfgoncalves it's not that important. Enjoy your day.
I’d never bring mine back to the Philippines, I stopped going to their family gatherings here because they would all speak in their native language pompango, having fun, joking playing games all in a different language. Leaving me out, plopping me down in front of a tv occasionally checking to see if I’m hungry….never giving a dam whether I’m included or having fun.
Sheeeeesh! Don't be that guy who expect people to all change their ways just to please you. Be a men!
@ uhhh…don’t be that person who invites people over just to ignore them….rude, inconsiderate
Exactly, it's rude just being ignored...... maybe they don't know English?.....
@ we’ve been together for 20 years, we waited til year 6 to have a kid. I used to go to all the parties hoping one of them would realize, I don’t think they cared, they all speak English, I was told they feel more comfortable speaking their native language to each other, so screw anyone else. here in the US, they call me foreigner. As if I’m supposed it integrate in to my own country. But whatever, after about 4 years of being treated like a picture on the wall, I just stopped going and they know why. No big deal, I own my home, 4 cars a business…I have plenty to keep me occupied.
@ountoptwo typical western mentality. You had 20 years and you can't speak their language but you want literally everyone at the party to speak a language that's not their first language and makes them feel at home? FYI I'm not a filipino so don't think I'm closed minded like some people. You should try it 🤷♂️
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Dear Calvin. Your message has changed from when you started your channel. I still remember how you clearly explained what I saw and experienced in the States. The network. The influence others Filipinas have on your wife. To cheat. To leave you. I seen it. Why you change your viewpoint ?
It's the same. Today I'm talking about what we get wrong about bringing women home. In the video you're talking about I spoke about the risks. Two different videos on the same topic.
You guys are always playing "gotcha" my message hasn't changed. Most Filipinas don't run off when we bring them home and we westernize them long before they do.
Sorry Calvin! Disagree with on this one bro!
When you brought your ex back home what problem she gave u🤔
ZERO. It was when we came back here that our problems started. She had a good life with a good job and good friends there.
@@calroach1was there a significant age gap with your Filipina wife Calvin?
@Legion1811 22. I was 47 and she was 24 and turning 25 in 2 months. We got along well.
@ thanks Calvin for the info and excellent video.
I now know of three men who did bring their filipina to the USA , all of them young and sweet filed for divorce.
Ok. Take care.
I don’t meet the requirements of bringing anyone to the USA. I am not a US citizen, I am a national per the State Department or a nonresident alien per the IRS. Also, I have no income or net worth in my name.
The day you bring your filipina to the USA , she no longer needs you ! Jobs are plentiful for a young cute filipina ! Men will be all over her giving her attention . This is a filipinas kryptonite! I Don't agree with you Calvin ! Talk about something else brother !
Tell that to the thousands of men happily married overseas. Do you have experience? If not, shut up.
The Filipino men are extremely aggressive here dude, especially construction workers, they are sought after here in the Philippines constantly man, if they didn’t cheat here, why would they there.
I think you have a good chance to be successful if you are sensible with the age gap and the beauty 😂. I’d your 71 and she is 23 I think you might be in trouble. It’s common sense. Find someone within your age bracket. Maximum 10-15 years younger.
If it’s to good to be true it’s most likely is. It needs to be more than only the money. Then she will leave you when she has made some money and adjusted:-)
It's a personal choice whether to bring her back or not. There's no guarantee that if you stay here things will work out either.
Yeah my friend brought his wife back to the west. She wanted to help support her family back home. So she got a job and bingo found a younger man.
What about the thousands who don't find a younger man? Anecdotes don't mean alot
Yes true, just relating an experience. The age gap was rather large as well.
You have said the opposite in a another video
Nope. I've always said that it's a personal choice and besides, this video is not about bringing her or not. Gotcha!
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